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Learning How to Fly: The Story of a
Dreamer
Dearest Reader,
I can’t say that my life story will be of
great use to you. As delighted as I would be to get
to know you and help you through your troubles, I’m
afraid that’s not possible. But perhaps the
viewpoints and ideas I’ve adopted (or tried to
adopt) might prove useful to you. I suppose that is
the reason I’m writing this book-I want my ideas of
love and faith to be spread. I want to feel like I
can give meaning to those who are struggling—
because we always need to find something that
encourages us to keep going even when there are no
signs of hope.
This book is about my life journey and my
viewpoints on how to perceive and live life. I went
from a positive, energetic person who always was
joyful, to a person who experienced a psychotic
break, depression, and anxiety. This book is about
how I learned to “fly” again as a child of God. I
have tried to become the kind of person God wants
me to be. I am still striving everyday to be the
woman of my dreams.
I hope this book strengthens your faith,
teaches you to believe in your untapped potential,
and helps you to find the resilience you need to
get through the everyday battles that make us who
we are.
This book is a conversation between you and I.
Perhaps it is the only conversation you and I will
have in this life. I hope to leave you better off
than where we met, after this conversation. And,
hopefully someday we will meet, if not on Earth
then maybe a different realm.
Best wishes,
Annie
An Early Diary Entry:
February 23, 2006 (9 years old)
“Dear Jesus, today I checked out a book called ‘Nancy’s
Mysterious Letter.’ I forgot about Spanish today. I felt so bad.
In Spanish we have to write or draw one of the seasons like a
scene. I also have a story or report on Saints. I already know
a lot about you, so I’m doing a different saint. He’s an
Archangel actually. Well, I don’t really have anything to say
so, Bye!”
They say God created magic when he first
created the world. And by “they” I mean my mom and
by “magic” I mean the beautiful things in life that
can’t be put into words no matter how hard you try.
My mom has been such a blessing in my life and
has taught me so much. I like to say to myself,
after reflecting on enjoying the little things in
life, that I can never truly hear the song of one
key on a piano, the beauty of one color in the sky,
the world in a grain of sand. Because I can always
see more each time if I choose to.
Inner Potential
My Journal Entry - September 2014
“There are moments when the soul stirs. It senses a
reawakening, something key to its very essence. It sees
itself as part of the bigger movement of life.
Life isn’t just found in people. The beauty and wonder
of being alive is all around us. From the tiniest atoms to the
vast universe. From the lively youth to the wise elderly.
From the still rock to the flowing water.
And within each soul is a limitless potential, so much
that one can never fully develop it in a lifetime. Imagine
then, if every soul is limitless, how infinitely beautiful is our
world that is filled to the brink with these beautiful, unique
souls? How rich must our world be?
Each soul is unique, in no way can one soul become the
other. That is what true beauty is. For if diamonds and rare
treasures are valued because of their rarity, then the human
soul must be the greatest treasure of all. Each soul holds a
unique combination of genes, a unique way of thinking, their
own set of memories and experiences that will never happen
again in any other soul’s lifetime.
And yet, the world does not stop there. Everything
then becomes connected. So that the infinitely unique souls
create infinitely unique sentences. So that the atoms help
make up the universe, the young become old. Things are
born, raised, die and through death give birth to new life.
Without the oxygen from plants, life could not be and
without the death of those very plants, animals could not
survive - including humans.
So, yes, even the beauty of a soul must blink out. But,
here lies the other beauty. For souls too are connected,
even more so than all else. … Because the souls feed off the
life of one another - sharing in happiness and in sadness.
Every touch, every word, every movement creates the
experience that will be seen differently by the two or more
souls involved. It is this connection, in the smallest and
largest ways that keeps a soul alive after “death.”
For although this vast, unorganized/organized and
unknown/known world around us points to a God, should one
not believe such they must believe this: that each soul
weaves itself into the larger web of souls so all are infinitely
united by the immeasurable fabric of past, present, and
future.
And one of the greatest uniters between souls is
language. The language of a soul is but the vessel of the
heart. And a soul can’t ever be measured, the language of
the heart can only be heard and experienced - not measured
or memorized.
It is therefore important to remember each moment is
unfathomably unique, shaped from the past, in the changing
present, headed for the future that will one day, in one
minute or second or one thousand, became a person’s
present and then a person’s past. So that the moments
wander, marking eras that globally every second mean new
connections and new experiences.
So do not squander time. Revel in the beauty of your
limitless soul. Listen to the language of your heart and of
the hearts around you. Remember that you are like a drop
of water that causes a body of water to ripple upon your
arrival. Embrace yourself and the beauty around you with a
full heart knowing you are weaving yourself more and more
into that web of life in visible and invisible ways. Only you
can be you.
And while all souls are unable to change what happens
around them, they can do wondrous things with what
happens inside them. All things change. You will change.
Be sure to make those changes as positive as possible
because, as I’ve heard it said, there is one thing that will
follow you throughout the world - yourself.
Ever shaping into a more beautiful and unique soul,
you’re going to spend your entire life exploring the unique
and wonderful world around you. So best work to make
yourself as interesting and adventurous as possible so you
can not glide, but sprint through all the beautiful memories
and experiences this unique, beautiful world has to offer and
teach you.”
This diary entry may be cheesily poetic, but it
demonstrates something I’ve always believed in: the
power of the individual. Know that you have power
within you that is untapped. You have gifts within
you that God wants to develop and use to further
His plans. And know that God, above all, is love.
My counselor, who for my own amusement and
privacy reasons will from here on be referred to as
Mickey Mouse, taught me about three types of love
in greek: eros, philia, and agape love. Agape love
is love for everyone, eros love is love for a
partner, and philia love is love for friends.
While I appreciated this categorization I still
prefer the definition of love in the NIV Bible in 1
Corinthians 13:
If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poorand give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b] but do not have love, I gain nothing.4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
So, after conversations trying to define love
with Mickey I decided that love would become my New
Year’s Resolution for the year 2018.
February 4, 2018 . God’s heart
“I have come to realize God gives each of us a unique
piece of His heart. This means everyone knows a different
part of God that no one else would know except by getting to
know that person more deeply. That’s why angels, saints,
and those in purgatory are all equally important. They are
vessels for God’s love and each love is different. I’ve heard it
said by Jill Scott, “Everyone has their own queendom. Mine
could never compare to hers and hers could never compare
to mine.”
So not only do we have an untapped potential,
but even the way we love is different because love
is an amalgamation of our own experiences, beliefs,
and rituals.
One of the greatest insights I ever got about
love was from a book interviewing the Dalai Lama.
He explained how he never feels alone because he
can look at an object and associate it with a
person somewhere in the world who made that object.
We are surrounded by the works of other people.
When I feel lonely I turn to God, but I also turn
to this way of viewing things. I think: someone
painted this wall, I’m grateful. Someone made my
stuffed animal with love, I’m grateful. Someone
helped make the journal I use, I’m grateful.If you
realize that you are surrounded by the loving work
of other people and by God who loves you most, it’s
very hard to get lonely. And if you realize that
every person is unique and has a piece of God in
their heart, then you want to love them to get to
know them and God.
Because God is love and love is multi-faceted and
unique.
July 5, 2018. Resilience and Answered Prayers
“My life is a blank page. I can write my hopes and
dreams down if I take the effort to start writing. Similarly, I
can accomplish my hopes and dreams if I take the effort to
start acting.
I can accomplish anything I wish to accomplish. I can
fight any battle I wish to fight. Then, why do I not do so? The
effort needed to reach my lofty goals is a two part equation:
I must cultivate the proper mindset so my heart is satisfied,
and I must satisfy the physical need of sucking in a breath
and doing whatever must be done.
The call to action is one often ignored, until the enemy
is storming the gates. Too often could a conflict have been
properly addressed in the past to avoid larger problems in
the future. The time of calm before the storm is the best
point for mental and physical preparation. The question is:
Do I want a MEDIOCRE life that thrives in moments of calm
but gets battered by the inevitable storms that will pass my
way? Or do I want to live a life of GREATNESS --pushing my
mind and body regardless of the weather so I may be my
own person no matter the scenery? So I may take the extra
time to notice hidden opportunities and adventures and
insight that might have otherwise remained untouched.
I believe greatness is accomplished through great
habits. I just need to discover what habits I want to develop.”
Resilience is probably the biggest thing I
practiced while going through my sickness. I
prayed, and I told myself to never give up.
I’ve always had a talent for looking on the
bright side and being resilient. So when I got
crutches during the summer after graduating high
school, I didn’t cry or feel down. I know that may
sound weird, but I wanted people to smile and not
worry about me. On August of 2014 I told myself the
following in my diary:
“Sometimes, I wondered if God had a reason for putting
me in crutches. Now, I wonder if it is because I haven’t been
using my legs to go anywhere. Someone else would
appreciate being able to walk more.
But, crutches are also a blessing. Many kind strangers
opened doors for me. I met the elderly lady who called me
her friend and spoke only Spanish, the elderly man who
keeps wishing for me to get better and is all laughter, and
my physical therapist who called me a morning person and
keeps helping me get better.”
The same day that I got crutches was the same
day that I decided how I would approach my life
from then on. I layed in bed and looked to God.
Then I made sure I didn’t let my emotions get in
the way and looked for a positive way to take the
news. I decided that since I can’t exercise (which
would take anywhere from 1-3 hours a day out of
me), I might as well start developing the
spiritual, intellectual, and creative aspects of my
life. It meant I would treasure my knee more when
it got healed.
In fact, God made a miracle for me occur. I
tore my ACL, not completely, but enough for it to
be bad. And I completely tore my meniscus. My
doctor thought I would have to have surgery but my
Dad said we should wait it out more. And, I didn’t
need surgery! So I think God has always watched
over me since I was little.
One day I prayed all day to God for it to snow.
I prayed all day that it would come but that the
farmers would be okay, that people wouldn’t get
hurt driving to work, and that the homeless
wouldn’t get too cold. That was the year it first
snowed in Corpus Christi since around 90 years. I
believe other people prayed that prayer too and
that the miracle in Corpus Christi was truly a
miracle made by the hands of God in answer to his
children’s prayers.
The Importance of Family and Friends
My mom, who again for my personal enjoyment
will be referred to as Pikachu (for her sunny
personality), my dad (who will now be referred to
as Marlin for his impressive capacity to over worry
about his children,and my brother (who will be
referred to as Sensei because he is always giving
me sound advice) all are incredibly important
figures in my life. My family is very close. Sensei
always teaches me how to play ping pong and we
reflect on how to treat other people sometimes. He
calls me out when I am doing something that is not
socially normal, like wearing really fancy clothing
when I’m only going to the grocery store.
Sensei always reflects on how to best treat
other people. He told me once that he likes to
leave a person better off than when they came to
him. He is hard worker and overall just amazing.
I’m so proud of him. He’s working to become a
doctor now and I just know he’s going to do well. I
bet he could become the best doctor in his field!
Pikachu, who I spend the most time with, is a
light in my life and in others. She somehow
brightens everyone with her positivity and
laughter. Marlin is the rock of the family--he has
a strong, gentle heart and a beautiful soul. I love
Marlin, Sensei, and Pikachu so much!!
Anyway, family has been very important to me.
So have friends. Freshman year my friend Julie gave
me a poster of frozen characters in it, which I
loved. She puts clues on the present before giving
them to me and she is so good with words. My clue
was, “Happiness and Light Sparkle together, arm in
arm. So do stockings and sisters with an icy
charm.”
Anyways, my friends and family have always been
there for me, especially when I fell into a
depression. I know it was hard on them, but they
were all so brave and they all prayed for me. I
don’t think I could’ve recovered so quickly from my
psychotic break if it weren’t for them and God.
Sunday, February 11, 2018.
Reflection on hospitalization
Reflecting on this day was very difficult, but
I remembered so much of it. More than I thought I
would. I remember being so afraid of everything.
And there were voices. I didn’t know where the
voices were coming from, but they kept warning me
that someone wanted to kill me. One morning earlier
that week, the voices told me, loudly, that there
was a bomb in the house. Immediately I ran out of
my bedroom to the front door, but as soon as I
touched the doorknob I turned around and ran to my
parents.
“Mom, Dad, there’s a bomb in the house, we have
to go! Now!”
“Honey, there is no bomb,” my parents said too
calmly. My father held my arm, afraid I would run
out into the streets.
“But there is, trust me! We have to get out!” I
urged my parents with scared, teary eyes. When it
became apparent that my parents wouldn’t come, I
knew I couldn’t just leave them. I decided to stay
with them, and continue to persuade them, even if
it meant I might die in the process.
I went to their room eventually, after my
parents calmed me down. I was now sleeping in my
parent’s bedroom aside my parent’s bed and had been
for several weeks because I was afraid “the sniper”
was going to kill me. He was waiting, outside my
bedroom window.
That night, when my father came in, for some
reason my viewpoint of him had changed. I noticed
the pill my father gave me was a different color. I
didn’t want to take the pill. For some reason I
couldn’t trust my Dad. I swallowed the pill, but as
I was going asleep my Dad kept gently stroking my
cheek and talking to me as if it was the last time
I would see him. I started to panic.
“I need to go to the insane asylum now. Give me
the number.” I said, not for the first time that
month. “No, honey,” said my mom. We can take care
of you here. Don’t worry. Just trust us.”
I had never had a true nightmare before and
avoided scary movies. Even though I was an adult, I
still liked to watch kids shows. Animated, G
rated, Disney with the happy ending type movies.
Now, everytime I went to bed my mind would play
tricks on me. I would see (dream) about dead bodies
or blood or knives. I was so scared to go to sleep
because I was worried I wouldn’t wake up again or
that I would have another nightmare.
And my nightmares were so vivid--my dreams had
always been vivid but it never bothered me because
my dreams were always fun. I thought it was because
I honed my imaginative capabilities when I was
young and writing stories. I always liked to
picture my stories as a movie. Those weren’t the
type of dreams I was having now.
And, now, , when I looked in my parent’s eyes I
didn’t recognize them as my parents. I didn’t
bother to think about all they had done for me. All
I could hear were voices that sounded like theirs,
calling me Satan or a demon., Tonight I was at the
end of my rope. It was just too much.
I felt scared on the inside, but it was as if I
was trapped in someone else’s mind and body. I
couldn’t express myself.
I don’t remember how, but I found myself in the
hospital with guards in the hallway and my parents,
exhausted, at my side.
I felt an evil smile come upon me and the
slightest nudge in my mind told me that I was happy
to be here, hospitalized. The other part of me, the
true part of me that was chained up, wanted to cry
but could not.
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Comedic Relief 1
In case the previous chapter was a little too
intense, I’d like to tell you a short story about
my parents Pikachu and Marlin.
I was sitting with Marlin by the fireplace. The
walls are painted a beige color and we have white
couches behind us and . . . a strange looking
turquoise lamp. Marlin told Pikachu that the
turquoise lamp didn’t match anything else in the
room. My mom really liked the lamp. So what did she
do? The next day my Dad went to the room again and
noticed turquoise pillows.
“Now it matches!” My mom said.
Do you need another story? Ok. One time, when
they were on their honeymoon, my Dad was shopping
with my mom and lost track of her. So he waited for
the sound of the cash register chiming and looked!
There was my mom!
One more: Another honeymoon story. My parents
were snorkeling. My mom was being pretty finicky.
The mask was letting in water. The mask didn’t fit
right. My dad gave up and decided to go ahead
while she “sorted things out.” Just a few minutes
later, while my dad was snorkeling, this figure
zoomed past him and picked up something from below.
Someone had dropped a dollar bill into the water
and the zooming person? My mom! Almost 30 years
later my dad still enjoys telling this story.
I have plenty more funny stories about my
family, but I think that’s enough comedic relief!
For now.?
January 2015. Blessings.
Really Lord, how blessed can one girl be? Are you sure
you didn’t make a mistake and give me too many blessings?
I know the people with a lot of blessings are given them so
they can give it back. But can I ever give back as much as
I’ve received? Is it really ok for me to be loved so much by
such wonderful people in such a wonderful and beautiful
world? Sunsets, mountains, babies, puppies--all of it. And
such a forgiving and loving God. So often I forget to
appreciate these things. I lose sight of them. Yet, despite
that failure of mine you bless me so much anyway.
Is this really ok…? Well, I guess I’ll have to live life
giving all those blessings back! And making every day the
best day I’ve ever had. Making every day a memorable one!
My Mom always tells me to appreciate the little things.
But there seem to be so many little and big things that I
think I’m going to have to spend the rest of my life and the
afterlife learning how to appreciate them. Even then I don’t
think I’ll be done.
I can never truly hear the song of one key on a piano,
the beauty of one color in the sky, grasp the world in a grain
of sand. Because I can always see more each time I choose
to.”
Positivity and Joy
I’m really excited to talk to you about
positivity and joy because if there is anything I
feel confident talking about-it’s this.
Joy is a gift from God. It’s something you
have to pray for and then expect God to work on it
in you everyday as you pray for it everyday.
Positivity is also something to pray about, but it
is a mindset you can work on. You can choose to be
happy. There is always a silver lining. Especially
if you have faith in God.
When I went through my psychotic break, I lost
all my positivity.I battled with a lot. Here’s a
diary entry that kind of sums up what I went
through. It’s from August 2015.
August 2015. Cutting
“Went to a counselor today because I’ve been having
thoughts about cutting. She said it’s linked to feelings of
guilt which I can believe. I haven’t done anything to my body
but I was worried I might so I sought help. I think it all
started two weeks ago but the whole thing sounds really
crazy. I started to feel like people were following me. Like
when I went jogging, or took a shower or went to sleep. I still
feel like people actually were. Obviously that’s ridiculous.”
So . . .yep, that was awful. I’m over it now,
thank you dear baby Jesus. But I just wanted to
share that with you so you know I’ve struggled with
depression like many other people. I thought I was
awful and worthless despite how much everyone
around me cared for me. If you are Christian, there
is one thing you need to know. We need to love
people as we love ourself. So first before we love
others we must love ourselves. I am learning this
every day.
So I’d like to share with you some things that
have made me positive. Specifically books, movies,
and songs with positive messages.
Books I recommend: The Happiness Project by
Gretchen Rubin and the Angels Walking series by
Karen Kingsbury.
Movies I recommend: The Giver (taught me to
appreciate the little things in life that I take
for granted-like my eyes and my happy memories),
Sound of Music, Mary Poppins, Singing in the Rain.
Top 50 songs/artists I listen to that get my
spirits up:
1.“Favorite Things” from the movie Sound of
Music
2.“Good Morning” by Mandisa
3.“Fight Song” by Rachel Platten
4.“Better Place” by Rachel Platten
5.“River Flows in You” by Yiruma
6.“Singing in the Rain” from the movie
7.Anything by Tercer Cielo
8.“Kaze ni Naru” from the Movie The Cat
Returns
9.“Hurricane” by the Vamps
10. “What a Wonderful World” by Louis
Armstrong
11. “Get Back Up Again” by Anna Kendrick
12. “By Your Side” by Tenth Avenue North
13. “Here for a Reason” by Ashes Remain
14. “Just Be Held” by Casting Crowns
15. “Try” by Mandy Harvey
16. “Beautiful” by Kenny G.
17. Anything by Jamie Grace or Moriah
Peters
18. “Love is Waiting” by Brooke Fraser
19. “Beautiful Day” by Sheryl Crow
20. “Count on Me” by Bruno Mars
21. “Marry Me” by Train
22. “Defying Gravity” from the play Wicked
23. “Today is Beautiful” by David Dunn
24. “Feeling Good” by Michael Bublé
25. “Different” by Micah Tyler
26. “Oceans” by Hillsong United
27. “Storyteller” by Morgan Harper Nichols
28. “Y Llegaste Tu” by Fresia Barrios
29. Anything by Sara Bareilles
30. “Write Your Story” by Francesca
Battistelli
31. “Thank You” by No Limitz
32. “Best Friend” by Jason Mraz
33. “La Amistad” by Laura Pausini
34. Anything by Colbie Caillat
35. “Never Alone” by Lady Antebellum
36. “Color Esperanza” by Diego Torres
37. “Wanted” by Hunter Hayes
38. Anything by Francesca Battistelli
39. “Firework” by Katy Perry
40. “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” by Bobby
McFerrin
41. “Best Day of My Life” by American
Authors
42. “Love is my Religion” by Ziggy Marley
43. “I Can See Clearly Now” by Jimmy Cliff
44. “Born This Way” by Lady Gaga
45. “Get Back Up Again” by Toby Mac
46. “Lean on Me” by Bill Withers
47. “Tu Amistad Me Hace Bien” by Alex
Campos (and other artists)
48. Anything by Ingrid Michaelson
49. “Bendita Tu Luz” by Mana
50. “Only Us” by Laura Dreyfuss and Ben
Platt
But you know what I don’t like? I have songs
about friends and lovers but no songs about family!
I feel like there are hardly any songs out there
about family which is a bummer . . . (sniff).
Fervent Prayer
One of the things that I believe most helped me
get through my psychotic break was prayer. As soon
as I started praying everything started going
better for me. But, actually, it was a slow
progression. My brain had to heal first. I had to
try different medications. And it took me 18
months to be able to even go back to school in New
York.
I started writing down my prayers so I could
record them in a list when they were answered. And
as I learned to pray stronger, with my whole heart,
mind, soul, and strength, I saw more and more
progress. I highly recommend reading the book
Fervent because that was when I really started to
take prayer seriously. As much as Christianity
focuses on the love of God, it forgets the hate of
Satan. The following is something I wrote down to
read before any prayer time:
“Father, Sunny (my nickname for Jesus because
he has a sunny personality and is also the son of
God), and Mer (Nickname for the Holy Spirit because
I could not figure out what gender the Holy Spirit
is)want me to remember there is an Enemy who is
fighting every moment against me and my happiness,
my relationships, my life, and my loved ones. I
can’t afford to be a lukewarm Christian. It is time
for war. Everyone needs prayers. Fervent prayers.
So stop reading and start doing. . . Pray. Satan
might be attacking your passion for prayer, in
which case, PRAY HARDER because that means you are
on the right path.”
Saying this beforehand helps me develop the
right mentality that I need for prayer time, or war
time. But I also like the idea of praying without
ceasing -- keeping God constantly in your mind.
Reading with him, singing in the shower for
him,etc.
I think it’s important to remember that Satan
is involved in your everyday life, constantly
trying to push you down. He might make you sick
often, or (like in my case) sleepy. In the book
Fervent they speak of different ways that Satan
attacks us.
Comedic Relief 2
Now, in case you are feeling down talking about the
most evil being in the world, I thought I’d
brighten up your day with some comedic relief. So,
first burning question.
Are there dinosaurs in heaven? Anyone know?
Second. Do girls still have to shave everyday
or is that no longer an issue? Do I have to shave
my legs and armpits all the time?
Third. This is something you may not know so
breathe it in (not literally). Do girls fart? Why
yes, yes we do. Quite often actually. I fart on a
daily basis. I even rate my farts and burps.
Next question- do we even have to go to the
bathroom in heaven? Also, if I want to be first in
heaven then I have to be last on Earth. But if on
Earth we are expected to be last to be honorable,
then how come in heaven we would be considered
first? It’s a completely different outlook on life
to go from servant to saint. Aren’t saints
servants? I want to be a servant but not a saint.
Too much attention. I want everyone else to be in
the spotlight-I’ve already had enough of that (my
friends and family spoil me).
Welp, that’s all I got for ya’ll. Thank you,
thank you, thank you very much. No applause needed,
really.
Also, dear reader, so your faith may be
strengthened I have added here a list of all my
answered prayers for you to look at. I thought
about choosing some, but I think showing you how
consistently God answered my prayers would be
better. Prayer is powerful. I read the book Fervent
and that was incredibly helpful in my prayer life.
Here are my answered prayers:
Answered PrayersFebruary 19, 2018: Prayed for humility and felt very humble about all
the prayers that God has answered for me.HI MOM!!!!! DO YOU LIKE
IT?
The whole point was for there to be a lot of prayers so people
can see how many prayers God has answered in my life. It’s an add-
on thing and I don’t want to choose my favorite ones.
February 14-18, 2018: Answered prayers but I forgot to record
them. . .getting out of my head was one and having a successful and
fun get together with a friend of mine was another.
February 14, 2018: was able to focus more in class and hardly
had any creepy thoughts. Open heart. Stronger prayers.
February 12, 2018: felt God’s presence as I invited Him in while
I’m studying. Got out of my head and focused on other people a lot
since February 7. Just forgot to record the answered prayers.
February 7, 2018: Got out of my head a little. Opened my heart
a lot. Felt God’s love and pride.
February 6, 2018: Got out of my head multiple times.
Imagination came back. God helped me be positive throughout the
struggle I was having.
February 5, 2018: Got out of my head. God kicked satan out of
my head. Felt God’s presence I think.
February 4: Didn’t pay attention
February 3, 2018: Could focus on Julie. Felt God’s presence.
Prayers were stronger.
February 2, 2018: Am able to focus on heavenly things, which
was another prayer. I can read and write better. I focused on my dad.
Felt God’s presence.
February 1, 2018: Was able to get out of my head staring at the
water. Maybe a little bit when I was talking to Aunt Debbie and Uncle
Danny.
January 29, 2018: focused on Mom. Didn’t take a nap. Didn’t
overeat. Fasted for one day.
January 28, 2018: Was able to get out of my head a little. Bad
circuit hardly acted up. Focused on my mom a little bit. Humble.
January 27, 2018: Bad circuit hardly acted up. Asked God to
show me in my calendar any message he has for me. Realized how
to practice humility. My life motto has been to treat every day as the
best day ever. It says “Write it on your heart, that every day is the
best day of the year.” It’s like he’s affirming that I’m on the right track.
Got out of my head with Jesus and Fredric. Found my passion for
prayer and passion for life as an adventure. Prayed to get out of my
head and soon was able to wish a good day for Hannah. I
concentrated on how she is different for me but has the same feelings
and how we are the same.
January 26,2018: able to get out of my head. Got guidance--
Italki, book, blog, school, God, family, friends
January 24, 2018: Passion in praying for God. Excitement and
awe for life. Prayed that class would go well and it did. Asked for
empathy, and humility. Closer to ideal self.
January 22, 2018: Haven’t been praying but felt like I could
focus on people.
January 19,2018: I forgot to pray to God for the longest time-I
prayed for others but not myself. I need to put myself first when
praying. I prayed to get better after a very rough patch today and my
day got a lot brighter!
January 12, 2018: Felt God’s love. Felt innocent. Felt happy.
Felt present. Could focus on Kate and Kyle.
January 8, 2018: Felt God’s presence. Was able to focus on
more than one person at once during a cooking class with Fran,
Jane, Mom, and Chef Ashley. Had a good time with nature, felt God.
Loved dogs. Felt present.
January 7, 2018: “Lord, help me to be in awe of your creation
everyday like before. Everything is so magical.” Answered. Felt
present and in the moment. Felt loving. Felt adventurous. All of those
were prayers too. And Dad is feeling better- that was a prayer.
Remembered love for Fredric. Didn’t feel sleepy- Satan had been
attacking me on that but I asked for God’s help and today I didn’t feel
sleepy. Got a fortune cookie telling me to go into the field of
education just as I was thinking about it.
January 6, 2018: Taught me how to be present and in the
moment. In awe of God. Taught me to focus on others. God helped
me remember a little of my love for Fredric. And I felt God feeling
proud of me, I don’t know if He still does, but He did today!!! YAY!
And he gave me a lot of happiness and insight today. Everything is so
interesting like I could play with the dogs, read over letters, clean up
stuff, wag my feet, read, read Spanish, write, think about lovely
thoughts, journal, just SO MUCH STUFF! How could I ever have
been bored???!
January 5, 2018: Was able to focus on people. Listened to
music right.
January 4, 2018: Prayed that God would help me get out of my
head and stay present. He did! Brought back my passion for life as an
adventure. Helped me to pray right. Yay for new adventures and
mindsets!!
January 3, 2018: Asked for God’s guidance and realized all
along he has been leading me through my Dad – telling me to stay in
the present and enjoy the moment.
January 2, 2018: Was able to focus on God and parents.
January 1, 2018: Was able to focus on Dad and Mom. Felt the
presence of God.
Notebook 7→ No ntbk.
December 31, 2017: Asked God to help me get up today and
came up with the motto Seize the Day. It was also easier to wake up.
Could focus on God and my family with what can only be said to be
God-given excitement! I feel my excitement coming back again and I
just want to talk to persons and love on them and make them happy!
Especially You and my family! Thank you God! YAY GOD!!
December 30, 2017: Was able to read without subvocalizing
again. Was able to focus a lot on parents in the shuttle. YAY!
December 27, 2017: Focused on Mom during plane flight. Felt
loving and selfless but got full of myself.
December 26, 2017: Focused on Dad
December 24, 2017: Prayed for self-control and it worked.
December 23, 2017: Was able to focus on Annika and Erin
after praying to God the following: Lord I pray that Erin and Annika
have fun hanging out with me and that my bad circuit won’t act up
and that I can focus on them.” It worked. I also prayed for self-control
and that worked.
December 22, 2o17: Felt very positive and more back to myself
today thanks to God’s intervention. Scared of Satan, but I know life is
a journey and death looking back is just a speed bump to a never-
ending adventure. And I know that God will protect me. Because he is
God and everything he does is good. God got me to love myself. He
helped me pray for others and focus on others. He helped me play
the glad game.
December 20, 2017: Asked God to help me with Satan because
Satan is attacking my memory and feelings for Star. God helped me
remember Star.
December 18, 2017: I prayed that I wouldn’t flirt with Davy and
that he would have a good time and have fun dancing with me.
Everyone in heaven, I don’t know who, but I just got a lot of help and
had a blast. I wished that I could focus on others like God does, and I
was able to focus on Davy and his parents and my parents.
December 17, 2017: Felt more back to myself. Could focus on
people. Bought gifts and felt like I was really giving and that my heart
was sincere when I wrote my letters.
December 15, 2017: Able to focus on people better.
December 14, 2017: Was able to feel joy and love again-felt more
normal. Was able to focus on people.
December 12, 2017: Was able to wake up on time and take a cold
shower after asking God to help me follow my plan today and give me
self control. Was able to read without subvocalizing. Felt God’s love.
Worked most of the day.
December 11, 2017: Able to focus on people a little.
December 9, 10: Able to focus on people
December 8, 2017: Was able to focus on Mom and Dad.
December 7, 2017: Was able to focus on Mom and her friends.
December 6, 2017: Was able to focus on and have a good time with
Kalianna. Found God quickly when I first walked outside.
December 5, 2017: Found God as I was walking out of the Socos-
was looking at nature and felt his presence. Found God again at
nighttime while I was trying to open up my heart to Him. Found God
again later on tonight and was able to focus on Anita while reading to
her. I love people-God reminded me of this and I spent a lot of time
thinking about others-it was a blast. Loved the rain today-gift from
God.
December 4, 2017: Took a first step in opening my heart to God.
December 3, 2017: Asked God to help me to love and focus on him. I
found I could with Sister Ilene and with the Holy Spirit. Believe and
continue to search. Trust that God will let you know if you are on the
right track.
November 30, 2017: Asked God to get Satan to stop making me feel
like a terrible person. He responded immediately. Asked God to guide
me and he has pointed out my many faults. He wants me to know all
my faults so I can correct them. Asked God to teach me how to listen
to Him and now I understand that He puts desires on my heart. I
understand how to listen now.
Notebook 6
November 28, 2017: Felt loving and humble while texting Dad.
November 27, 2017: No answered prayers because I forgot to invite
God into my life and live for Him. So today doesn’t count as special
even though today really is special because it is a gift from God.
November 26, 2017: Felt back to myself going down the escalator
today. Outside of my head, positive, alert, confident.
November 25, 2017: Felt peaceful. Felt more alert to my
surroundings. Started to feel normal. Can focus more on others. Was
able to stay in the present and outside of my head.
November 24, 2017: Felt the peace of the Holy Spirit and had a very
peaceful, movie-perfect day.
November 23, 2017: Felt a little back to myself-alert and surroundings
were beautiful.
November 22, 2017: Prayed to focus on family and could.
November 20, 2017: Bad circuit hardly bothered me.
November 19, 2017: Bad circuit hardly bothered me.
November 18, 2017: Read two paragraphs without subvocalizing.
The Amazing One is working within me. I asked Mer to help me and
Mer helped me read. I hope Sunny had a sunny day today.
November 13, 2017: Felt connected to God and others. Felt loving.
Holy Spirit within me answering my prayer for love quicker than
expected. Getting ready for a big character test. I think God is going
to leave me to test my faith and love for Him. Helped me remember
Fred.
November 12, 2017: Was able to read without subvocalizing. Was
able to focus on family. Worked in the library. Was humble today-I
think God wants me to work on that otherwise he wouldn’t have
answered that prayer from a long time ago.
November 11, 2017: Asked for patience and the Holy Spirit
came through. Asked to wake up well and God made it happen.
November 5, 2017: God urged me to go to Church and I
learned that a passage which seems so simple can have more to it at
a second glance. I never thought I could learn from the story of Jesus
feeding the 5000. Why was he on the mountain top? How did one of
the apostles know there was a kid with his lunch?
November 2, 2017: Had been asking God for guidance, and he
told me I need to trust Him more by letting go of myself, work hard,
not subvocalizing, thinking of Him and others. So now, during my
study breaks I will read the Bible, thinking of others, pray, or do
worship, or talk with a friend. That’s my reward!
November 1, 2017: Read without subvocalizing well. Typed
without subvocalizing. Work ethic coming back.
Notebook 5
10/5/17: Was able to focus in class. Began reading without
subvocalizing.
10/6/17: Felt overwhelming sense of belonging and
selflessness, all thanks to God-but I need to watch pride, sloth, and
subvocalization.
10/8/17: Was able to read without subvocalizing. Quick learning
thanks to prayers and God!
10/21/17: Was able to read without subvocalizing/type without
subvocalizing. Got some of my work ethic back.
10/27/17: Able to read without subvocalizing. Felt ready to work
(after my naptime). Could focus on my parents and Dr Jo.
10/30/17: Felt overwhelming sense of selflessness and humility
while writing a post in my blog
Notebook 4
9/2/17: Could focus on my friends (Julie, Sarah, Dakota)
9/4/17: Relied on God and He helped
9/6/17: Relied on God and He helped
9/7/17: Felt God’s presence after I decided to rely on Him
9/8/17: I prayed that I’d be able to focus on Kalianna and I was
able to focus both on her and Dakota! I had so much fun-I hope she
did too! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/9/17: Could focus on God; felt His presence. Kept thinking
about Him. Felt positive and happy.
9/12/17: Was able to focus on Julie, focus on my parents during
prayer, and focus on Jesus and Fred.
9/13/17: Felt another presence in my head while praying. A
piece of the heart of God, or guardian angel? Focused on Julie
9/14/17: Focused on Mika, Julie, Cam, and Sarah. Felt more
positive like God was sculpting me into a positive person again and
improving or healing my brain.
9/16/17: God helped me stay positive despite all the danger
that Fred was in, and I felt God tell me it would be okay.
9/19/17: God helped me pray that Sarah and Julie’s dreams
might come true-I could focus on them. I also slightly focused on Dr.
Jo.
9/20/17: God helped me see the beauty in nature and His
creation
9/21/17: Felt like God was speaking to me in a song today
telling me to let go of my doubts and fears and wholeheartedly trust in
Him and He won’t let me go.
9/22/17: Felt God’s love in me and for others. Felt close to God.
9/23/17: Felt a hint of God’s love. Important question: How do
we love evil people?
9/25/17: Felt the joy of the Holy Spirit and felt like I could pray
well. Had a softer heart when I asked God to soften my heart.
9/26/17: Felt joy. Felt like myself again in Christian Ethics. Felt
like I could focus on others. Was able to trust in God for a moment
with all of my heart.
9/27/17: Was able to read without subvocalizing. Remember
and give thanks.
9/28/17: Was able to be positive and focus on friends. Thought
about them and was very selfless.
9/29/17: Felt selfless. Joyful. Connected.
9/30/17: Felt selfless. A little down but friends and God cheered
me up!
Notebook 3
8/2/17: Subvocalized noticeably less. Easier to think in my
head.
8/8/17: Felt positive, inspired, thankful, loving, directed
8/9/17: Was able to love and focus on my mom and felt very
thankful for everything like I didn’t need anything just happy with
everything God’s given me. Positive. This was all in the morning. In
the afternoon was able to focus on my mom and her friends a little bit
at dinner.
8/10/17: Was thankful that my Dad got me a cat letter to write to
my mom. Felt loved.
8/11/17: Was able to focus on my family today. Felt loved.
8/18/17: Prayed that my meeting with Mary Kathryn would go
well and after a little bit it did and I got to see JR!
8/19/17: Prayed that my subvocalization would go away and
was able to read a little without subvocalizing.
8/22/17: Was able to focus on Nancy, Moiz, Davy, Mom, and
music. Was excited about life. Able to read short words without
subvocalizing.
8/27/17: Was able to focus on Julie as a star singer. Felt like I
could focus on my mom and on Raphael and Moiz. My friends have
entrusted me with their beautiful hearts. I don’t want to let them down.
Able to enter my password without subvocalizing. And type this
without subvocalizing.
8/28/17: Came to a decision: I will do my best to stop
subvocalizing. But, if needed I will read aloud. Felt God’s presence
around me.
Notebook 2
7/1/17: Gave up Netflix!!!!
7/20/17 Focused en Alicia, Padre John, Judy, y Gloria. I had
asked that I could focus on people.
Was able to count without subvocalizing during a workout.
7/21/17: I dreamt of Star. I was looking for him and loved him
and found him. I had asked to dream about Star or my friends and
family.
7/21/17: I prayed I could appreciate the opportunity I had to see
Alicia’s mom and I did with no problems from my bad circuit.
7/22/17: Prayed I could love Him better and then had a dance
party for Him. Felt like I was closer to Him.
7/24/17: Prayed that I would be able to focus on others and felt
like I prayed well for my friends for the first time in awhile. The Holy
Spirit gave some of herself to me to help me pray. I was selfless a bit
today. Loved God more.
Note: I think God is answering all my prayers so quickly so that I
know he loves me and is there for me and is with me.
7/25/17: Anita’s back feels better after I prayed for her.
7/26/17: Was able to pray at work today without subvocalizing
and felt connected with God like I loved him more. So this is an
answer to loving God more, feeling connected, not subvocalizing, and
praying selflessly. Lots of answers today! He’s listening! The Holy
Spirit is working within me, changing me for the better.
July/29/17: Sarah and Julie got home safely.
7/31/17: Got my wisdom teeth out and didn’t mind the needle. I
wasn’t too scared and I’d prayed to God earlier that it would go well.
Notebook 1
· I prayed to God that I would be able to focus on Austin. I felt
immense love for her family-the kind of love I had before I got sick.
· I prayed an entire day to God that it would snow in Corpus
Christi. I prayed for the snow, that people would be safe, that farmers
would be ok, that kids would have fun, that people would take time off
work, and it snowed! That was the year it first snowed after about 94
years (I believe) of it not snowing.
· I prayed to God that he would find the camera.
· He healed my knee
· I prayed Cleanse my thoughts and renew my mind and I feel like I
am more kind
· I did a lukewarm prayer to God that I would be able to focus on
Courtney. Next time I must pray harder. But God still answered my
prayer at the very end when I hugged Courtney Gainor. I felt like I
could focus on her then. So He still answered even though I didn’t
pray right.
· I asked God to monitor my thoughts and I hardly had any of those
creepy thoughts from my bad circuit.
· He helped me get back some of my imagination.
· I was able to focus on people today at dinner- 07-02-17
o Karen, Mom, Susie, Aunt Theresa, Uncle John, Betty
· Felt closer to God after praying for it. I wasn’t aware of his
presence but somehow knowing he was there even if I can’t feel him
made me feel closer to him.
· My brother got into Amherst-his dream school
· My brother got into medical school
· Felt love for a man I talked to and focused on Sarah.
· My mom’s miracle: Will said he had family issues and couldn’t
do trial the next day. My mom was worried about professionalism and
prayed to God that she would be able to stay calm and profesional
and try to get an extension on a case because she wasn’t prepared.
However, the judge called in sick. In the 20 years she’s known him he
has only called in sick once. This would be the second time-I think it
was God-given.
· I was able to focus on Anita, my mom, my dad, my brother, and
Sarah. Even just a little bit.
· Focused on Austin and Karen
· Focused on Karl, Sarah, Ida, and my Dad.
· God is changing my heart,helping me think of others more and
care about others more.
· Prayed to God that I would subvocalize less and am doing better
today.