Week 3 – There’s Nothing Wrong With ME!

Annie Kaszina

We will always try to answer

our own questions.

Whether that is a strength or a weakness depends solely on the quality of the question.

Hades Clone• Absolute Ruler of Your

Underworld, walking his dog

• 3 headed CerberusHostilityHumiliationHurtfulness

With all that programming

It’s APPROPRIATE Not to feel okay

You know what’s seriously

WEIRD?

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What Mr Nasty says doesn’t matter –Except to Mr Nasty.

“His opinion is problematic…”What he says doesn’t have to be relevant to you.

• You’ve seen the best in him for how long?!

• You’ve persisted in trying…for how long?!

• You’ve done better by him, and your children than you experienced.

• You haven’t turned into a person like him.

• You’ve not given up on the values you believe in.

• The only person you’ve given a hard time is yourself.

• You’ve not given up on your dreams.• You have given endlessly – selflessly

– of yourself.

Your badge of honor

• You still believe with all your might in love.

• You don’t feel that what you’ve been through gives you the right to grow into a Nasty clone.

• You’re modest, trustworthy, hard-working, you’d fight like a lion to protect your children…

• In short… you’re just a MASS of overdone strengths.

Or maybe you like this badge of honor better…

What??!!!

This CANNOT be true – I always thought I was…Weak!!!

Strengths• Generous• Trusting• Loyal• Hardworking• Undemanding• Forgiving• Loving

Overdone strengths• Generous to a fault• Overly trusting to the point of

naivete• Total uncritical• Suffering from Straw-that-broke-

the-camel’s-back syndrome• The turkey voting for Christmas• Too forgiving to realize that

forgiveness may have to be earned

• Loving irresponsibly

I hate to be the one to put this to you, but….

“You are emotionally totally musclebound.”

You’ve forgotten how to dance with Life

There is NOTHING that you need that you do not already have inside you.

All that you need to do now is get rid of the excess baggage

that is weighing you down.

How will you start to dance with Life?

How playful can you be?