What causes divorce in marriages

The number of divorce cases are increasing since year 2000. Thing happen for a reason and divorce is one of those life event that just does not happen by accident.

In my opinion, the thing that causes divorce is lake of communication. This can lead to a very big issue in marriage if both of the spouses fail to communicate with each other, divorce happened. People don’t know how to talk to each other, they do not share feelings, does not tell your partner what is happening and keep your feeling to yourself. If continue like this, distance can quickly created. The trust between both spouses are broken, when you lost trust to your partner, you will feel unprotected and lost of help than finally lead to divorce. Difficulty in communicate may cause by the different of religious or culture different, so try to understand your spouse more before marriage to avoid any misunderstanding.

Besides, finances problem also can lead to divorce in marriage. Money can make your life better or in same cases worth then you were. This is because when two living together, finance is the main topic or problem to be solve first, especially for those who have children. When both of the spouses can’t support the finance, then it can be stressful. This stress will finally lead to divorce.

Furthermore, abuse one of the most popular topic in divorce. There are physically and mentally abuse. Physical abuse is easily identified, once you been hit, that mean you have been physically abused. Mentally abuse occurs when one person tries to dominate and control the other person. Drug user done the most abusing case in the history. Spouse with mental problem also will tend to abuse. So get out from the relationship earlier before problem happens.

In the end, be very careful when choosing you partner. Find someone who will appreciate your appearance, love you and will take care of you no matter what.