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What Does Love Mean?• “ Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”
• “Love is a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”
• “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouths.”
• Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day.
• You really shouldn't say "I LOVE YOU” unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.
People forget.
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Healthy Relationships
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Healthy Relationships• Happiness• Trust• Love• Affection• Equality• Mutual respect• Friendship• Laughter• Common interests• Honesty
• Support • Fair fights• Acceptance• Comfort• Kindness• Strong self-esteem• Humor / fun• Can be yourself• Still are independent
people• Communicate well
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Both Partners in a Healthy Relationship are:
• Treated with kindness and respect
• Honest with each other• Like to spend time
together
Retrieved from: www.iwannaknow.org
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Both Partners in a Healthy Relationship:
• Take an interest in things that are important to each other
• Respect one another’s emotional, physical, and sexual limits
• Can speak honestly about their feelings
Retrieved from: www.iwannaknow.org
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Some Relationships Will End
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Why Might You End a Friendship?
Why Might You End a RomanticRelationship?
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Have You Ever Heard These Lines?
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A difficult but (at times necessary)
end to a relationship must be handled with
maturity and respect.
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Breaking Up With Respect• Communicate about
the break up in person.
• It may be difficult and uncomfortable but respect each other enough to share your feelings in person.
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Breaking Up With Respect
Honesty is essential - don’t offer excuses or promises that you have no intention of keeping.
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Breaking Up With RespectImmediate separation is important.Don’t prolong the inevitable.Give each other needed space. (May require a new circle of friends, new route to class or school, or a change in social media habits).
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Breaking Up With Respect
• Speak with respect to the person and about the person in future conversations.
• Avoid gossip and sharing of hurtful information about others.
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Unhealthy Relationships
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Unhealthy Relationships• No trust• No respect• Jealousy• Abuse – emotional,
physical, sexual• Bad / no communication• Low self-esteem• Power issues• Alienation of friends,
family
• Unfair fights• Other person tries to
change you• Lies• Manipulation• Lack of understanding• No fun• Fearful• Controlling
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Red Flag Relationship Alert• Being physically hurt• Feeling afraid of your
partner• Spending time with only
one person while feeling isolated from others
• Feeling controlled• Being threatened
(verbally, emotionally, physically)
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Red Flag Relationship Alert
• A nervous or sick feeling around your partner
• Partner is easily angered• Fear to make decisions
without your partner• Feeling intimidated by
your partner• Not feeling respected• Partner has a constant
need to know where you are and with whom you are spending time
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School Resources for Coping withUnhealthy Relationships
TeachersCoachesCounselorsNursesAdministratorsSchool Resource Officers
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Ending An Unhealthy Relationship• If you feel physically
unsafe, breakup by phone or email, in a public place, or involve a trusted adult.
• Be clear that you are ending the relationship.
• Make sure family members and friends are aware that you are ending the relationship.
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Ending an Unhealthy Relationship
• Trust your decision and your instincts to end the relationship and seek help from supportive family and friends when you question your decision
• Ask for help, if needed – school counselor– family– friend– local police
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Important Resources for Help
• 9-1-1 – emergency situations
• National Teen Dating Violence Hotline – 1-866-331-9474
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Create Your Contact List:Include #, Availability, When
to Use Each ContactLocal Police #
Friend/Family # for Emergency
Friend/Family # for Support
Local # for Professional Counseling Services if Needed
Faith Leader
Health Department