Why Should Bullying Stop?

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Self esteem is greatly affected. Physical and verbal abuse that is constant and chronic leads to an inferiority complex and a lack of self belief. Bullied children want to underachieve and the process is pathological. Your child will become afraid to stand out from the crowd for fear of being noticed by life's bully and put back in their place. The painful childhood memories make them hide somewhere in the middle to low end of their capability in anything. The self esteem is shattered and the desire to succeed is beaten out of them. Life becomes simpler and easier to underachieve.Self promotion is affected and suppressed. Low self esteem makes the child feel worthless. They never feel they are the one who can make a difference or get the result or get the promotion or that special job that is advertised. They lack the courage to try to siucceed because the school bully forever haunts their psychic. They will never push themselves forward in sport, work, the chance of promotion or in relationships. Underachievement can be expected.

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Poor communication is the direct result of bullying. These children suffer terrible emotional torment and the only way of coping is to bottle up the frustration and pain and lock it away. This introverted existence makes them afarid to communicate. they lack confidence to talk to people and become asocial. They lack the confidence to talk to members of the opposite sex. Children who are bullied at school struggle to build relationships with cohorts, coworkers and members of the opposite sex. They will miss opportunities to succeed and opportunities for promotion because they lack the "can do" attitude and the "killer instinct".Bullying greatly affects their self confidence and their social skills.They will struggle to gain acceptance to peer groups and therefore struggle to make friends and to build social relationships. It is a lonely world without friends and this loneliness can lead to self destructive behaviours in a desperate attempt to attract attention or even worse in an attempt to do self harm.

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Self defence is lacking all the way through their lives. These bullied children will live with regret from every chapter of their life as they don't have the confidence to take action when they are treated unfairly or with a lack of respect. They live with regret for what they should have said or done but didn't have the confidence or inner strength to take action. The big moments in their life will come and go with an outcome that disappoints them. They will never be able to take action because nothing ever seems to work for them due to lack of confidence and ambition.Depression is common in children that are bullied. They never get what they want in life. Bullied children grow up with sadness and a lack of self confidence. This may manifest as suicide attempts or self destructive behaviour such as anorexia.Most parents don't want this for their children. You must take action to give your child the best possible outcome in life and to help them to be all that they can be.

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