The happenings atFriendship Village &

Landmark Commons

WINTER 2019

Progress, Changes, Progress and More Changes!

CEO’s Desk

Since our last time together so very much has happened here at Friendship Village. In the last issue we celebrated that our childcare center, It Takes A Village Childcare, would open July 1st along with a progress update on our rebuilding of the original campus at Park Lane. This issue we are celebrating the grand opening of our childcare center and the groundbreaking of our rebuild - Village Terrace!

July 15, 2019, two weeks later than expected, we opened It Takes a Village. On our first day we had 8 children, and currently we have 41 enrolled. We continue to interview potential staff to bring into our family so we can expand the number of children we provide for. One of the things that warms my heart the most is the frequent and regular interaction between our children and

our residents. The joy seen on the faces of each while doing an activity together is priceless. I would like to take this opportunity to brag on our Director Susie Schaefer and Assistant Director Cindy Rufenacht. We were evaluated for our permanent licensure and the state evaluator noted under “Strengths of the Center” that “Ms. Schaefer and Ms. Rufenacht are incredible. They lead by example

by both working on administrative duties and working in the rooms. They are very positive and upbeat. Their dedication and organization are amazing.” We count both Susie and Cindy as wonderful examples of our core values and are very thankful that they are part of our employee family.

On September 19, 2019, we celebrated the start of construction of our rebuild with a groundbreaking ceremony. Mayor Hart and the Grow Cedar Valley Ambassadors participated in the ceremony. We were also honored to have Bob Smith Sr. with us. Bob was an original board member and served on our board until just a couple of years ago. It was wonderful to be able to report that Bob was part of the dedication ceremony in 1968 and now part of the groundbreaking ceremony. Construction is underway with the underground basement being dug. We have two residents who have volunteered to take pictures every day and it is our plan to upload them to the website to keep everyone aware of our progress. Right now, the timeline is that Village Terrace will open July 2021 and the new Health Center to open November 2021.

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Lisa Gates

President & CEO

Front Cover: Robert & Joyce Sackett

Back Cover: Fish Stories at Landmark Commons Pond

While Friendship Village is spread out over multiple campus sites, we are ONE FAMILY.

ONE FAMILY striving to adhere to and live out its core values:

1. My Life - Provide dignified holistic living on each campus setting

2. Family Focused - Uniting fun and respectful relationships

3. Excellence - inspiring quality service

4. Community - continuing our foun-dation built around friends and faith

5. Progressive - embracing the future with vision through good leadership

One of the truly special Bible studies from God’s Word has to do with considering the “one anothers” of the New Testament. Despite be-lievers often being separated through distances and differing cultures, as one family through their faith in Jesus Christ they shared the same tremen-dous privileges and responsibilities. Just a few of these New Testament “One Anothers” are:

Romans 12:10 “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor.”

Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens and thus fulfill the law of Christ.”

Ephesians 4:2 “…with all humility and gentleness, with patience showing forbearance to one another in love.”

Ephesians 4:32 “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”

I Thessalonians 4:18 “Therefore com-fort one another with these words.”

Hebrews 10:25 “…not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.”

I Peter 5:14 “Greet one another…“

I John 4:11 “Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.”

In a very similar way, our Friendship Village Family, all on their retirement

journey, have a very unique privilege to also live out these Biblical “ONE ANOTHERS”:

• Devoting ourselves to one another • Preferring one another in honor • Helping to bear one another’s burdens • Showing forbearance to one another • Being kind to one another • Comforting one another • Encouraging one another • Loving one another

WOW, what a list! Did you notice they all require action? For example, extend yourself to someone today who may need some encouragement. That is what family does!

Despite our different campus sites, what a privilege it is to be ONE FAMILY! Though the face of Park Lane campus will change, we will continue to be able to carry out these Biblical “ONE ANOTHERS.”

Chaplain Ron Weimer

Each of our residents, especially those who have been inconvenienced and moved to new homes, have been so supportive. The atmosphere around the Village is one of anticipation and excitement! Change can be difficult and our residents and staff are troopers.

We continually strive to search out ways to improve the lives of our residents and employees. Both the childcare center and Village Terrace are results of this goal. We are so very thankful for both of these opportunities.

Lisa Gates, President & CEO

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Cindy Rufenacht & Susie Schaefer

J. Ron Weimer

Chaplain

SUNDAY: 1:30pm Lakeview Lodge 3:30pm Chapel in Cove Lounge

MONDAY: 10:30am Pavilion Health Center3:00pm Rosewood Estate7:00pm Landmark Commons

WEDNESDAY: 1:30pm Lakeview Lodge3:00pm Lakeview Landing Health Center7:00pm Cove Lounge

CATHOLIC SERVICES AT PARK LANE CHAPEL: Sunday, 10:15 a.m., LiturgyMonday, 5:45 p.m., Rosary

Bible StudyOpportunities

Chaplain’sChat

“ I’m so busy being retired, I don’t know how I had time to work!”

Friendship Village has celebrated over 50 YEARS of providing great memories and unlimited opportunities for our residents.Throughout the years, life at Friendship Village has taken residents on a journey around the community, the country, and even the world! Our MyLife enrichment programming is like a fountain of youth, and many of our residents wish they had tapped into it sooner.

There are so many amazing opportunities to live a vibrant retirement life, experience greater happiness, and age successfully. MyLife retirement living at Friendship

Village has broadened horizons with adventures to

Ireland, England, and Hawaii. Hop on a train with us to New Orleans or on a scenic cruise on the Riverboat Twilight. Embark on a Mystery Trip and find yourself exploring the Amana Colonies with a personal behind-the-scenes tour guide and a home-cooked meal.

We are proud that through MyLife retirement living, residents build comradery and experience wonder by attending performances at the Gallagher Bluedorn, the Waterloo Community Playhouse, or the Chanhassen Dinner Theater in Minnesota. Residents get pampered at the Mackinac Island Grand Hotel or accomplish holiday shopping at the famous Mall of America.

Our residents have discovered hidden talents starring in pageants or

modeling in fashion shows. Exploring their interests and pursuing creativity through our Book Club, craft groups, or the Village Voices choir is all part of the fun! Residents have seen their wellness and vitality restored through Yoga, Tai Chi, group walks and water aerobics.

It is not uncommon to see our residents engaged in healthy competition in billiards tournaments, scavenger hunts, and Murder Mystery parties, or taking trips to professional baseball games at Wrigley Field or Miller Park. Perhaps you recall “The Village People” supporting the home basketball and football teams at the UNI Dome. Our residents even win competitions – imagine waving to the cheering crowds and electrifying the streets of Cedar Falls as the Sturgis Falls parade announces that Friendship

Entertaining Performances

Celebrating Accomplishments3

Village has won the 2019 Tom Klemuk Award for Most Creative float!

MyLife retirement living increases our residents true sense of purpose, pride, and accomplishment through volunteerism and participating in charitable events such as our annual 5k Race to Remember, Top Chef dinners, craft and bake sales, and the famous Chocolate Frolic fundraiser. Membership in the Auxiliary,

volunteering at the Northeast Iowa Food Bank, or collecting donations for local causes are a few examples of how our residents show gratitude and give back to the community.

Friendship Village celebrates diversity and recognizes other cultures through themed events such as Bosnian, German, Mexican and Asian Nights as our residents delight in authentic cuisine and dance the night away to live entertainment.

Enjoy!

Retiring from work doesn’t mean that you have to retire from life. When you settle into MyLife

retirement living at Friendship Village, the benefits can create a life filled with opportunity,

joy, freedom, fellowship, and FUN!

Sporting Events

Scenic Adventures

Seasonal Daytrips

Great Transportation

Exciting Festivities

Fun Parties

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Landmark Commons is where distinctive retirement living awaits – where people enjoy some of the best senior living that the Cedar Valley can offer with spacious apartment homes and cottages, pool and spa, wellness center, woodshop, climate-controlled underground parking, 4-star cuisine dining, and amenities expected from the retirement leader in Waterloo. Landmark Commons is a 55+ community; many of our members are fully retired, while others are pre-retired and enjoy

the lifestyle Landmark Commons gives.

Located in the heart of Guernsey Park, the architecture is beautiful, the grounds breathtaking, the view relaxing, and the neighborhood welcoming. But there is more to Landmark Commons beyond the campus.

As you stroll around Commons Circle, you will catch a glimpse of our spectacular pond, complete with a handicap accessible dock and stocked with hungry fish. Relax in the peaceful surroundings while listening to the birds and the tranquil sound of water. Spend an afternoon throwing a line in with your grandchild, and on cool nights enjoy a roaring fire in the fire pit – and don’t forget your marshmallows.

You will also notice a new construction project; we are in the process of adding a walking trail surrounding our beautiful pond. Soon our residents will be able to enjoy a leisurely stroll, walk their dogs, or take a moment on one of the park benches to reflect.

Additionally, four cottage homes are on the waterfront, with room for ten more. The cottages are custom-designed, each member selects the size and floor plan desired. Located in a serene and peaceful setting moments from healthcare, shopping and entertainment…every day at Landmark Commons offers a resort-like lifestyle. Whether a home on

the pond or under our roof, whatever your wants and needs may be, Landmark Commons is the place to be!

Landmark Commons: Distinctive Living

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Kayla FunkDirector ofLandmark Commons

Rosewood Estate is part of the Friendship Village community, offering a unique approach to senior living in the Cedar Valley – an all-inclusive retirement community featuring private apartments, chef-prepared meals, and social activities. At Rosewood there is no buy-in fee or length of stay required. The monthly rent includes three meals per day, housekeeping, extended cable television, utilities, transportation to medical appointments, and more.

Residents can choose from a variety of styles of private apartments. Residents are welcome whether they are completely independent, or may need assistance with some daily activities.

Residents who desire or need a higher level of care have an array of services available from Friends At Home’s nurses and aides on-site 24 hours a day. Additionally, Rosewood Estate also offers in-house therapy services.

Rosewood Estate is located in the Guernsey Park, off Hammond Avenue in Waterloo, just south of Highway 20 – a short drive from restaurants, hotels, and shopping.

To learn more, call 319-233-5555 or find us online at RosewoodEstate.org.

Rosewood Estate: Your Care, Your Way

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Amy Hylton

Director of Rosewood Estate

Friends At Home is dedicated to providing care no matter the time of day – affordable assistance tailored to meet specific needs and desires is available to anyone living at Rosewood Estate. Frequent comments refer to the “friendly” and “like family” staff who come alongside in a number of ways, including: hygiene, mobility, exercise, medication administration, laundry, cleaning, companionship for activities, socialization, transportation and escort for doctor visits and shopping, and many other services that make living at Rosewood Estate comfortable, enjoy-able, nurturing, and healthy. Care may be scheduled occasionally as needed, regular daily or weekly help, or 24/7 when urgent. Family members appre-ciate this partnership, especially when out of the area or unavailable. Hear what others have said:

“We were happy to find Friends at Home to assist our dad. They helped with personal care and transporta-tion to appointments. We were very pleased with their friendliness and willingness to help whenever there

was a need.” – Marilyn

“My Dad deeply appreciated the companionship and assistance from

Friends at Home as he approached the end of his life. As his family, we deeply appreciated all the assistance and pa-tience of the staff as they worked with

him through various transitions and changes. Thank you!” – Ken

“Shortly after his 100th birthday, my father, Larry Garlock, at that time an eight-year resident of Rosewood Estate, fell and suffered a serious hip break. Following surgery, he was confused and forgetful and unable to tolerate the therapy intended to help him heal.For this reason, he could not stay in a skilled nursing facility. By increasing his package of services at Rosewood and using assistants from Friends at Home, he was able to return to the familiar setting of his apartment at Rosewood. It took a little tweaking to get things right, but Maria Streich was very ac-commodating in arranging things.The staff who spent time with him every day have provided an invaluable service as part-time companions and general overseers of his situation. As an absent caregiver from a far-away state, I relied on these services to keep my father on an even keel to what-ever degree possible. When I visited Rosewood every few months, I had the chance to observe these young people in action and can report that I was pleased with their ability to interact with a cranky and forgetful old man. Between his constitution and the social interaction from others at Rosewood, but especially Friends at Home staff, he improved immeasurably in his abili-

ty to care for himself and remain a part of the Rosewood community until his passing at age 102.”

– Thanks to all involved, Gretchen Van Houten, daughter

“ My mother, Charlotte Tannreuther first became a resident of Rosewood Estates in November of 2011. At that time my father, Bob Tannreuther was a patient at Manor Care receiving therapy. Mom had just recently been diagnosed with having TIA’s, or mini-strokes in her brain. It caused a cloud of confusion in her short term memory, though her long term memory was intact. For her safety, we determined that mom should move into Rosewood Estates and my dad would join her in December.Unfortunately, Dad passed away the following January. Following his death, Mom again was lost and lonely, ask-ing if I would move into the apartment with her. I knew that I wasn’t ready to leave our farm, and I also knew that if I moved in we would effectively ‘drive each other crazy.’ I relied on the Rosewood staff to make her happy, but she wanted constant companionship, which they could not provide. After hearing about Friends at Home, I sought them out, asking if a member of their staff could accompany mom with the twice-daily round trips to the dining room. Mom enjoyed their help, and we extended her time with the Friends at Home staff to stay with her until bed-time. They also handled her laundry and assisted with her shower. Eventually, we extended the Friends at Home staff to 24/7. I can’t tell you how gratifying it was to see these companions become like family to Mom and I. Whoever was

Friends At Home – The Personal Touch

Individualized In-Home Care for Rosewood Estate Residents

Ema Baltic

Director of Rosewood Estate Friends at Home

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scheduled for a particular block of time accompanied Mom on trips to the doctor, dentist, church services, family holiday celebrations, shopping and dining out. She felt complete with one of them with her; they shared jokes, watched the Hawkeyes play, whispered stories and formed comfortable precious connections. She loved them as if they were her own.When Mom peacefully passed away, I was by her side together with Maria, ‘The Boss’, as Mom liked to call her. All of the staff were present for the infor-mal service that my pastor performed. A few days later all of her compan-ions attended Mom’s Celebration of Life Service, each wearing one of her favorite Columbia fleece jackets I had given them.Friends at Home enriched my Mom’s quality of life in many ways. They gave her so much more than their job descriptions entailed. They joked with her, kept her from being sad or lonely, and did their best at encouraging her to eat. I will always be indebted to the companions who treated my mom as their own. They will always be number one in my heart and my mind.”

– Ann L. Tannreuther, daughter

Nine TV seasons (1971 – 1981) of “The Waltons” chronicled the Amer-ican rural life of family togetherness from 1933 to 1969. We will never forget the warm “Goodnight, John Boy” of the weekly episodes. Grand-ma Esther came back to live with the family after recovering from illness, and Grandpa Zeb died there.

Though many of us nostalgically reminisce about the “good old days,” few would choose to return. The friendliness, security, comfort, and enjoyment of retirement communities like Friendship Village are far differ-ent from living with the kids. Urgent health assistance at the press of a button has also become increasingly attractive as we age – being at home and sometimes alone has its short-comings.

Long Term Care has become the common way to describe supplemen-tal health care, especially during the retirement years, but it is expensive!

“70% of people over age 65 will need long term care. The median annual fee for private room nursing home is $97,455, and home health aide 49,000 per year.”1 Not everyone can afford this, so who pays for it? We all do. The same article states, “Medic-aid (Title XIX) is the default payer for 62% of nursing home residents.”1 A personal acquaintance in the medical field tells me it is as high as 90% in some areas of his state. Whatever the specific percentage, the U.S. Dept. of Health & Human Services reports “Medicaid does pay for the largest share of long-term care services.”2

LifeCare at Friendship Village provides a refreshing alternative. LifeCare reduces to nearly none the number of residents driven to Title XIX by the costs of long term care. At the same time, it provides excellent assisted living and skilled care to our residents, as needed or life-long. These quality services are among the best in the Cedar Valley, and yet the cost is controlled. In addition to Life-Care, Friendship Village grants even greater peace of mind with its Life Promise - a promise of life long care to those residents whose incomes no longer remain adequate due to circumstances at no fault of their own. No one has ever been

David Holm

Director of Development

Friendship Village Foundation A Quiet Charity Worthy of Choice

“Zeb & Esther Walton have left the Farm”

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asked to leave because of financial need. This promise stands to those who presently live with us as well as to the generations that follow.

The Friendship Village Foundation’s Benefactor Fund, one of three primary funds, was established decades ago to help underwrite this Life Promise. Contri-butions to the Benefactor Fund can be designated as immediate gifts to this need, or can be endowed with earnings to be transferred annually to Friendship Village for this assistance, leaving the principal invested permanently.

On behalf of the Life Promise recipients, I would like to extend a “thank you” to each of you who have made this possible. The dignity, com-fort, and security you have availed others is a true mark of brotherly love. Will you again consider a gen-erous gift to the Benefactor Fund? If you have not yet contributed, will you give thought to this worthy cause? Would you contemplate remember-ing the Benefactor Fund as you plan your estate distribution?

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1 Eisenberg, Richard. "Medicare, Medicaid and Long-Term Care: Your Questions Answered." Forbes, Forbes Magazine, 21 Nov. 2017, www.forbes.com/sites/nextave-nue/2017/11/21/medicare-medicaid-and-long-term-care-your-questions-answered/#7113b61a76c9.2 “Who Pays for Long-Term Care?” LongTermCare.gov, U.S. Department of Health &Human Services, 10 Oct. 2017, longtermcare.acl.gov/the-basics/who-pays-for-long-term-care.html.

Friendship VillageFoundation Gifts(March – October 2019)

Tribute Gifts In memory of:

Becky Church Susan & Craig AndersonKelly Jo & Nick EvensEvan Hultman Melinda & Paul Huting Sonia JohannsenArlene & William KeaneKelly & John KilburzMarcella & Kenneth KristensenCarol Menefee Deborah & Roger Murphy Gesche & Lynn PetersenBarbara & Donald Ward Lynette WebsterJoyce & Paul WillyWalt Cochran Vivian & Ron WeimerNormajean ClarkFred HarrisDott SchreinerFran & Jim WaringMarian Hastings Lois Marsch Mary & Eric Miller Gayle Hodgson Susan & Todd Hendrickson Sonia JohannsenPat Hollis Betty & Curt HollisSally & Blake HollisMary Kay & Dick Klingaman Lois MarschSheryl & Charles SnyderElmina & Terry WoolmanHeidi ZonaMerlin HarbaughPatricia Kennedy Connie & Richard England Herb Ludwig Donna Lichty Jean Lybbert Dott SchreinerJames L. Robertson Sonia Johannsen Lois Schultz Dott SchreinerAl Sorenson Donna Lichty

Lois MarschWesley Stephenson Brenda & Robert Mundell Cecile PowersKendra & Craig Puetz Fran & Jim WaringBonnie Tibbetts Sonia JohannsenLois Marsch Alberta Turner Mary Kay & Dick KlingamanDonna LichtyLois MarschRose & Thomas McGee Frank (Bud) Van KerckhoveSonia Johannsen Lois MarschMary & Eric Miller Cheryl & Bruce Van KerckhoveMarion WeyhrauchSharon Blough Rosemarie Bohn Leila & Brian GirschDorothy Guldner Corinne Jordan Sigrid Joanne & Roger Lane Dorothy Plager Margaret Winninger Ardella Winder Dott SchreinerMarge Wolfe Joyce & Richard BrandhorstLinda LudwigGene MarsauRuth & Larry Weigle

Gifts up to $999.00John Deere volunteersLois Marsch

Gifts of $1,000.00 or moreLegacy LeadersFriendship Tree EngravingsDon BensonNormajean ClarkFleming Sisters Fund(Community Foundation of Northeast Iowa)Lisa GatesJay & Milanya HallPat & Bob WatsonCheryl & Bruce Van KerckhoveBetty Wexter

Foundation Gifts

Friendship VillageAuxiliary Gifts

…by becoming a member of the Friendship Village Auxiliary. Currently, more than 230 are active members of the Auxil-iary, and you are welcomed to join them. The Auxiliary offers a variety of volunteer services for the assisted living and skilled care residents; crafts, games, activities, and sharing friend-ship are a few of the acts of kindness. The Auxiliary also raises funds to make certain the staff and residents have everything they need for that extra touch of care and comfort – medical equipment, wheelchairs, blanket warmers, and activity supplies are a few of the recent Aux-iliary purchases. Membership dues are $5 per year or $100 for a lifetime membership. For further information, contact Friendship Village and one of the Auxiliary officers will respond. Call (319) 291-8544 or email dholm@fvrc.com to inquire. Make a difference!

You Can Help Make a Difference… 2019 Annual Brunch & Bazaar One of the Best Years Ever: $14,146.22Many staff and volunteers joined hands to host one of the Cedar Valley’s biggest brunch/bazaar events. This year’s event was co-chaired by Friendship Village member Chuck Stilwill, and FV marketing assistant Jayme Ollendieck.

“Congratulations! You did a great job! So many worked at this year’s Brunch & Bazaar; I can’t possibly name everyone. This saw our highest income! I would like to especially thank Howard Peterson (corporate donations). Baked goods, Yesteryear’s Treasures, and Jewelry were among the best ever – thank you Janine, Eula, Carolyn, and Jeanne for your hard work.” - Chuck Stilwill, Co-Chair

Note: All proceeds are donated to the Friendship Village Assisted Living and Skilled Care units

MARK YOUR CALENDARS FOR NEXT YEAR’S SPRING BRUNCH & BAZAAR | SATURDAY, APRIL 4, 2020 10

Auxillary Giftsin memory of:

Virginia Barrows Lee StonewallBecky Church Don Benson Bryan ChurchAlice Lichty Lee Stonewall Chet Fredin Reva FredinBarbara & Robert JeffersonIrene LuxonLois MarschCecile PowersLee StonewallFred Harris Lucille HarrisCecile PowersMarian Hastings Lee Stonewall Gayle HodgsonArnold Financial Planning Susan & Richard BloughJoyce & Richard Brandhorst

Bette & Kenneth Hantelmann Bonnie HillBeverly Narveson Deborah Peterson Cecile PowersDanette & James SteinmetzLee Stonewall L. TammelDoris Nothnagel Doris BartonMary Kay & Dick KlingamanRobert SiegloffJacquelyn & David StoakesJudith & James WeipertShirley SchulerRobert SiegloffAl Sorensen Anonymous Janet BlinCarol & Duane Flickinger Marlene & Michael GrimmHelen Kielty Roger Romaine Lee Stonewall Bonnie TibbettsLee Stonewall

Alberta Turner Delores Jacoby Dr. Gary & Cheryl TurnerDarlene Shirk Lee Stonewall Frank “Bud” Van Kerckhove Cecile Powers Marion Weyhrauch Janet & Sam Holden Ardella Winder Donna & Gary BrownLee Stonewall Roseanne & William Woerner

General Auxiliary Gifts

Dorothy Zacharias

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Build Begins!

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