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© 2007 by Nelson, a division of Thomson Canada Limited.© 2007 by Nelson, a division of Thomson Canada Limited. Ch. 11-1
Chapter 11Chapter 11
Communicating in Person, by Telephone, and in Meetings
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Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
PronunciationCommon errors include adding/omitting vowels, omitting consonants, reversing sounds, and slurring sounds.Improve pronunciation by:• listening carefully to educated people• reading aloud from well-written newspapers• looking words up in dictionary
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Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
Tone• Identifies your personality and mood• Check your tone by recording your voice and listening to
it critically
Pitch• The highness or lowness of a sound• Most attractive voices rise and fall in conversational
tones• Use a relaxed, controlled, well-pitched voice that is
moderately low
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Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
Using Your Voice as a Communication Tool
Volume• The intensity of sound• Adjust your volume to the speaking occasion• Use your listener’s voice to judge whether you are
speaking at an appropriate volume
Rate• The pace of your speech• Strive to speak at a rate of 125 words / minute• Monitor nonverbal signs of listeners and adjust your rate
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Guidelines for Promoting Positive Workplace Relations Through
Conversation
Guidelines for Promoting Positive Workplace Relations Through
Conversation
•Use correct names and titles.
•Choose appropriate topics.
•Avoid negative remarks.
•Listen to learn.•Give sincere and
specific praise.
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Delivering Constructive CriticismDelivering Constructive Criticism
Mentally outline your conversation.
Use face-to-face communication.
Focus on improvement.
Offer to help.
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Delivering Constructive CriticismDelivering Constructive Criticism
• Be specific.
• Avoid broad generalizations.
• Discuss the behaviour (not the person).
• Use the word we (rather than you).
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Delivering Constructive CriticismDelivering Constructive Criticism
•Encourage two-way communication.•Keep it private.•Avoid
Ø anger.Ø sarcasm.Ø a raised voice.
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Responding to Workplace Criticism
Responding to Workplace Criticism
Listen without interrupting.
Determine the speaker’s intent.
Acknowledge what you are hearing.
Paraphrase what was said.
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Responding to Workplace Criticism
Responding to Workplace Criticism
• Ask for more information, if necessary.
• Agree—if the comments are accurate.
• Disagree respectfully and constructively—if you feel the comments are unfair.
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Common Conflict Response Patterns
Common Conflict Response Patterns
• Avoidance / withdrawal• Accommodation / smoothing• Compromise• Competition / forcing• Collaboration / problem-
solving
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Six-Step Procedure for Dealing with Conflict
Six-Step Procedure for Dealing with Conflict
1. Listen.2. Understand the other point
of view.3. Show a concern for the
relationship.4. Look for common ground.5. Invent new problem-solving
options.6. Reach an agreement based
on what’s fair.
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Making Productive Telephone Calls
Making Productive Telephone Calls
• Plan a mini-agenda.• Use a three-point
introduction.• Be brisk if you are rushed.• Be cheerful and accurate. • Bring it to a close.• Avoid telephone tag.• Leave complete voice mail
messages.
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Receiving Productive Telephone Calls
Receiving Productive Telephone Calls
• Identify yourself immediately.
• Be responsive and helpful.• Be cautious when answering
calls for others.• Take messages carefully.• Explain what you’re doing
when transferring calls.
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Practice Courteous and Responsible Cell Phone Use
Practice Courteous and Responsible Cell Phone Use
• Be courteous to those around you.• Observe wireless-free quite area.• Speak in low, conversational tone.• Take only urgent calls.• Drive now; talk later.
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Using Cell Phones for Business
Using Cell Phones for Business
Location:– Use good judgement.– Turn off cell phone when it could be distracting or
disruptive.– Don’t sacrifice professionalism for the sake of a garbled
phone call.Time:
– Avoid multi-tasking when talking on the phone.– Lack of attention results in errors and lack of respect.
Volume:– Don’t raise your voice when using your cell phone.– Strive for a low, modulated voice.
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Meeting AgendasMeeting Agendas
•Date and place of meeting
•Start time and end time
•Brief description of each topic– In order of priority– Include names of
individuals
•Proposed allotment of time for each topic
•Any pre-meeting preparation expected of participants
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Handling Dysfunctional Group Members
Handling Dysfunctional Group Members
•Lay down the rules in an opening statement.•Seat potentially dysfunctional members strategically.•Avoid direct eye contact.•Assign dysfunctional members specific tasks.•Ask members to speak in a specific order.•Interrupt monopolizers.•Encourage nontalkers.•Give praise and encouragement.