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My Speech

Pleasing to God• Praise Him—in prayer and in song• Proclaim the soul-saving message of the

gospel to others• To offer words of encouragement to one

another• To exhort, rebuke, and reconcile

Pleasing to God• Out of the same mouth proceed

blessing and cursing• Never pleased when we use our tongue

for gossip, lies, expressions of bitterness and anger, idle talk

Pleasing to God• No such inconsistency is found in nature• From the tongue both good and evil

come to man: if it be good, there is nothing better; if bad, there is nothing worse

Pleasing to God• Psalm 19• The law of the LORD is perfect• The statutes of the LORD are

trustworthy• The precepts of the LORD are right • The commands of the LORD are radiant• The ordinances of the LORD are sure

Pleasing to God• Psalm 19:14• May these words of my mouth and this

meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.

Pleasing to Man• Colossians 4:6• Grace—a favor which one receives

without any merit of his own• Grace—that which affords joy, pleasure,

delight, causes favorable regard

Pleasing to Man• Colossians 4:6• Let your speech always be with grace,

seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.

Pleasing to Man• Colossians 4:6• Let your speech always be with

[undeserved love and favor], seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.

Pleasing to Man• Colossians 4:6• Let your speech always be with

[that which affords joy, pleasure, delight, causes favorable regard], seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.

Pleasing to Man• Colossians 4:6• Adam Clark and Albert Barnes were

Bible scholars in the 1700 and 1800s. They both wrote commentaries in popular use today. Paraphrasing a few of their comments—

Pleasing to Man• Ephesians 4:29 • Let no corrupt word proceed out of your

mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.

Pleasing to Man• Corrupt—means bad, decayed, rotten,

and is applied to putrid vegetables or animal substances

• To denote that which is depraved, evil• That tends to corrupt others

Hitting Me Hard

Pleasing to Man• Proverbs 15:1-2 • A soft answer turns away wrath, But a

harsh word stirs up anger.• The tongue of the wise uses knowledge

rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness.

Pleasing to Man• Gentleness will often disarm the most

furious• One angry word will always beget

another• Just as rage produces rage, kindness

produces kindness

Used For Peace• Matthew 5:9 • Blessed are the peacemakers, For they

shall be called sons of God.

Used For Peace• Peace is like a compound…making two

into one• Peace restores to a state of unity• A peacemaker will use his wisdom,

influence, and speech to restore unity

Used For Peace• James 3:17 • But the wisdom that is from above is

first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy.

My Speech• Pleasing to God• Use my tongue to praise God, to teach

His word, never in a way that would hurt His cause

• Let the words of my mouth be pleasing to God – Ps 19:14

My Speech• Pleasing to man• Let me ALWAYS speak to others with

kindness and calmness whether I think they deserve it or not. I didn’t deserve the salvation God so graciously gave me. Let me speak to others as I would want them to speak to me.

My Speech• Pleasing to man• Let me NEVER use words that would

tear down, or belittle, or in any way be unkind to another

• Let me remember that a soft answer turns away wrath

My Speech• Used for making peace• Let me use my tongue to make peace—

to reconcile and encourage, never to stir up strife; never to gossip, ridicule, or slander

My Speech• Used for making peace• Godly wisdom, my example, is pure,

then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy

Acts 16—Lydia

O‘good’ personOWorshipped GodOAt place of prayerOSomething lackingOHeard words of PaulOBaptized

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