10 insights for women to speak up, stand out, and succeed — judith humphrey

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TAKING THE STAGE

This presentation consists of highlights from the interview with Moe Abdou,

founder & host of 33voices®.

Judith Humphrey is Founder and former President of The Humphrey Group, a Toronto-based firm that is a pioneer in the field of leadership

communications. She developed programs that show leaders how to influence and inspire. She is the author of the books, Speaking as a Leader: How to Lead Every Time You Speak and Taking the Stage:

How Women Can Speak Up, Stand Out, and Succeed.

Judith Humphrey@judith_humphrey

Founder of The Humphrey Group

Presence is more often felt than heard. Start by blocking out the noise and creating

a sense of intimacy with your audience.

Insight #1

Insight #2

Often, it’s your preoccupation with how others will perceive you that diminishes your

stage presence. Choose not to give them the power to judge or like you — own it.

Insight #3

If you’re less than satisfied with the delivery of a speech or

a presentation, reflect on the structure:

Insight #3

If you’re less than satisfied with the delivery of a speech or

a presentation, reflect on the structure:Was your script eloquent enough?

Insight #3

If you’re less than satisfied with the delivery of a speech or

a presentation, reflect on the structure:Did you use strong and confident words

like “I believe” or “I’m convinced”?

Insight #3

If you’re less than satisfied with the delivery of a speech or

a presentation, reflect on the structure:Did you embody the emotion that you

wanted your audience to feel?

Insight #4

The quickest way to build your confidence is to act confident. Follow Alexander Pope’s advice:

“Act well your part; there all the honor lies.”

Insight #5

Accept that your inner voice “crow” will never shut up. Acknowledge its presence, and replace the negative

thoughts with positive ones.

“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint,

and that voice will be silenced.” - Vincent Van Gogh

Insight #6

Remember these three things when preparing for your next presentation:

Insight #6

Remember these three things when preparing for your next presentation:

The opening grabber - Begin your talk with some segue from your audience

Insight #6

Remember these three things when preparing for your next presentation:

Focus on ONE message and make it a statement of conviction:

“Here’s what I believe”

Insight #6

Remember these three things when preparing for your next presentation:

Let your call to action be bold, thus demonstrating your confidence

Insight #7

Next time someone challenges you on stage or during a presentation, practice a pause and respond with facts, not feelings, for responding

emotionally is a sign of weakness.

Insight #8

The tone and pace of your voice is a signal to your audience on whether or not to take you

seriously. Own your point of view.

Insight #9

The only way you’ll move your audience is by being moved yourself. Be sincere, be brief and be seated.

Insight #10

“The sweetest of all sounds is that of the voice of the woman we love.”

- Jean de la Bruyere

Reflect: How do you own your voice?

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