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1. Make her feel secure. Allow her to feel the sakeena.2. Greet her with As-salaamu-alaikum wa rahmatullah this will keep the shaytan out of

your home3. Know your wife is a fragile whistle take care of this whistle (i.e. treat her in a gentle

way)

4. Advise her in privacy and during a loving, romantic and/or peaceful atmosphere

5. Be generous to your wife6. Give her your space/seat

7. Avoid anger one way is to keep wudhu at all times, another is to sit down or lie down

when angry

8. Looking good, smelling great

9. Dont be rigid or you maybe broken be good and be flexible

10. Be a good listener

11. Say Yes to flattery, No to arguments

12. Call your wife with the best of names

13. Give her pleasant surprises

14. Preserve the tongue (i.e. dont say abusive words since some words take years to wipeout)

15. Accept her shortcomings16. Show her that you appreciate her

17. Encourage her to keep her kin relationships, especially with her mother and father18. Pick topics of interest to her during conversations

19. Show that she is a wonderful wife in front of her relatives (and friends)20. Give her gifts all the time

21. Get rid of the rust (routine of life) once in a while

22. Think good of your wife

23. Overlook any small words or actions that you did not like (i.e. dont save them in your

memory)

24. Add a drop of patience every day. Increase this patience during pregnancy and her

monthly cycle

25. Expect and respect her jealousy

26. Be humble know that her success at home is your success

27. Dont make your friends happy at the cost of your wifes happiness

28. Help with housework

29. Dont try to force your wife to love your mother. Help her to respect your mother and

father and gradually the love will come

30. Make her feel that she is an ideal wife31. Remember your wife in your dua

32. Leave the past to Allah (SWT) i.e. dont dig up past issues33. Dont show that you are doing a favour when you do something (e.g. bring food home

etc.). Know that Allah (SWT) is the provider and your are only a courier

34. Treat the Shaytan (and not your wife) as your enemy. e.g. when an argument breaks outknow that present is you, your wife and shaytan.35. Feed your wife with your hands this is a blessing

36. Look at your wife as a precious pearl so protect her from the envy of the shayateen

37. Show her your pearls (smiles) smiling is like giving in charity

38. Deal with the little things/problems immediately before they become big issues

39. Dontt be hard or harsh-hearted

40. Respect her thinking and thought

41. Help her to dig within herself to find success

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42. Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship43. Help her take care of your children

44. Give her the gifts of the tongue45. Sit down and eat meals together with your wife

46. Let her know when you are travelling and the date and time you are coming back (i.e. no

surprises)

47. Dont leave your home to avoid an argument48. Protect the secrecy and privacy of your home dont share it with others

49. Encourage each other in worshiping Allah (SWT) e.g. prayers, attend lectures, plan to

go on hajj or umrah trip together

50. Know her rights and treat them as something that are engraved in your heart and

conscious

51. Live with them with kindness treat your wife with goodness in prosperity and adversity

52. Send a messenger before any intimite relationship (i.e. kissing and sweet words)

53. Dont share your family problems with others (except when seeking genuine islamic

advice)

54. Show that you care for her health55. Know that you have shortcomings and are not always right

56. Share your happiness and sadness with your wife57. Have mercy on her weakness

58. Be the comfortable chest for her and allow her to lean on you59. Accept her as-is

60. Have a good intention (niyaah) for your wife at all the times