The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Southampton, NY

Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time July 1, 2018

The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Southampton, NY

“If I but touch his clothes, I shall be cured.” Immediately her flow of blood dried up.

She felt in her body that she was healed of her affliction.

Welcome to the Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary

Pastoral Team: Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor

In Residence: Rev. Msgr. William J. Gill Jeannine Schmidt, Pastoral Associate

Maura Mandato, Youth Minister Dominick Abbate, Director of Music

Bill Kunzer, Plant and Facilities Manager

Daily Mass Mon. Wed. Thurs. Fri. at 12 noon Tue. at 8:00 am First Saturday 8:00 AM Holydays: 7 PM Vigil, 8:00 AM, 12 Noon Weekend Masses Saturday: 5 PM Sunday: 8 AM, 9:30 AM, 11 AM, 12:30 PM (in Spanish) and 5 PM Reconciliation Saturday: 4 PM - 4:45 PM Ministry to the Sick For communion at home or Anointing please contact the Parish Office. Baptism Please contact the Parish Office to schedule an appointment . Baptisms are generally performed on Saturdays. Marriage Arranged at least six months in advance, please call the Parish Office. Becoming A Catholic We welcome those who would like to become Catholic and adult Catholics who have never received formal religious education and/or sacraments. Contact the Parish Office.

Contact Us

Parish Office 168 Hill Street Southampton, NY P: 631-283-0097, option 0 F: 631-283-3836 W: www.shjmbasilica.org E: parishoffice@shjmbasilica.org Mon—Sat 9 AM - 4:00 PM

Fr. Mike Vetrano E: pastor@shjmbasilica.org

Religious Education Office P: 631-283-0508 E: reled@shjmbasilica.org Parish Social Ministry Jeannine Schmidt, Director P: 631-283-0097 Ext. 317 E: jrose@shjmbasilica.org Director of Music Dominick Abbate E: dominick.j.abbate@gmail.com Youth Ministry Maura Mandato youthgroup@shjmbasilica.org

Apostolado Hispano Office: 631-283-4379 Vincentian Fathers 631-283-9647

Our Lady of Hamptons School Sister Kathy Schlueter, CSJ 160 North Main Street Southampton, New York 11968 P: 631-283-9140 E: olh@hamptons.com

Parish Office Suzanne Marchisella Karen Berry Donna Valle Parish Leadership: Finance Committee Fred Weinfurt (trustee) Jay Diesing Charlene Kagel John Neknez

BASILICA PARISH OF SACRED HEARTS OF JESUS & MARY Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Readings: Wis1:13-15, 2:23-24; 2 Cor 8:7,9, 13-15; Mk 5:21-43 Mission Statement: We are a Eucharistic centered people, who by following Christ’s teaching,

join together to love and serve those in spiritual and physical need in our community.

Financial Realities and Stewardship

Liturgical Ministers Schedule

Saturday, July 7 5 PM Fr. Mike Vetrano SERVERS W. Salinetti E.M.’S J. Lynch, M. King, T. Westergard LECTORS K. King-Bush, S. Wilson

Sunday, July 8 8 AM Fr. Mike Vetrano SERVERS C. Fox-Bathon, D & K Grigo, K. Stengel E.M.’S M. Beitel, C & J Mottern, L. McClain, M. Muller LECTORS P. Bogan, K. Muller 9:30 AM Fr. Mike Vetrano SERVERS N & Z Jahnke-Becwar, X. Johnson G. O’Brien, J. Ruggieri E.M.’S G. Arresta, M. Johnson, M. LaSala, N. McCulley, P. Shaughnessy, LECTORS R. Kelly, H. Reyes GREETERS J. McCulley 11 AM Fr. Joe Finnerty SERVERS S. Patrone, M & L Nydegger E.M.’S S. Adelante, G. Bauer, T. D’Angelis K. Maple, S. McCulley LECTORS S. May GREETERS C. Brown, C. Butler, R. Essay

5 PM Fr. Paul Dahm SERVERS T. Lavinio, Terry Family E.M.’S L. DeRobertis, P. Nikolich, M. Thompson LECTORS C. Ferguson, M. Terry

ALTAR MINISTRY ALTAR CLOTHS: G. Bauer HAND LINENS - July 2-8 —M. Bohner

SOUTHAMPTON HOSPITAL July 1—P. Pellegrino July 8—TBA

HAMPTON CENTER July 1—J. McCarthy July 8—J. Taylor, E. & B Lindstrand Rosary— July 5—B. Medler

Mass Intentions for the Week of July 2-8

Monday 12:00 Joseph McKie Tuesday 8 AM Charles A. Enne Wednesday 9 AM Walter Diesing Thursday 12:00 Caroline Janda Friday 12:00 Joyce Weinfurt Saturday 5 PM Theresa DeSantis Sunday 8:00 John Kelly 9:30 People of the Parish & William McMahon 11:00 Graziella Brandolini, Peter Whelan 12:30 Mass in Spanish 5 PM Harry D. Jones

Regular Collections: June 24—$9,582.00 Thank you for your generosity. Sacred Hearts of Jesus & Mary is sustained by the generosity of our parishioners through time, talent and treasure. For all that you do - thank you!

Pastor’s Letter June 30/July 1

Dear Parish Family, I took the picture on the cover of this week’s bulletin during our 2017 pilgrimage to the Holy Land. We were visiting the town of Magdala which is named for Mary Magdalene, who is clearly one of the women who was specially close to Jesus in the Gospels. There is a newly dedicated retreat center there called Duc in Altem. The name literally means Put Out Into the Deep and it celebrates the miracles of Jesus on the Sea of Galilee, such as the calming of the storm and walking with Peter on the water. It also celebrates the special relationship between Jesus and women in a beautiful and unique series of images. One of the most poignant images is of the cure of the woman suffering from a hemorrhage. At the center, in the detail shown here, we see the woman’s finger as she crawls through the crowd to only touch the fringe of Jesus’ garment. That touch is a spark of healing and both Jesus and the woman feel it intensely. She feels healing in her body. Jesus too feels that power has gone out from him and he turns to see who it is who has touched him. It is not something often preached about but I think it is interesting to note how many powerful scenes in the Gospel happen in a touch between Jesus and women who both loved

him and were loved by him. There is the woman who washes Jesus’ feet with her tears and the young girl lifted from her bed after the healing of the woman with the hemorrhage. There is the forgiveness of the woman at the well and the woman caught in adultery. The resurrection is revealed first to the women who come to wash the body of Jesus after his death. And though neither scene is actually described in the gospel, no description of this tender relationship would be complete without Michelangelo's Pieta and the image of Veronica washing the face of Jesus.

At Magdala there is a section of the retreat center called the Women's Atrium. There are eight pillars here, seven hold images of famous women of faith from New Testament and Hebrew Scriptures. The last pillar is empty and bears this inscription: – for women of all time who love God and live by faith. As we think and pray about healing this week, it is good for us to remember that something as simple as a touch can unfold the mystery of God’s love.

Touched and Healed

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor

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The Tent Party is Coming! Be Part of the Plan Yes, we all need some warm thoughts. So start to think about the summer. The new date for our Tent

Party is Saturday, August 25th. We need committee members on

every level to make this a success. Some opportunities are:

• Our Sponsorship Committee

• Food and Beverage Committees

• Tent and Property Committee

• Service and Decoration Committee

• Prize and Entertainment Committee

• Publicity Committee

If you are ready to help make this event a success please contact Fr.

Mike by phone (283-0097) mail (pastor@shjmbasilica.org)

Summer is on its Way!

Annual Super Raffle Tickets Sale Tickets are now on sale after all the Masses on Sunday and

in the Parish Office Monday– Friday. Only 500 will be

sold—you need to be in it to win it!! Volunteers are needed

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Hamptons Tour

A unique opportunity for Sacred Hearts Parishioners. Following the kind invitation of Father

Alexander Karloutsos, Protopresbyter & Father Constantine Lazarakis,

Presbyter, the Adult Faith Ministry of the Basilica of Sacred Hearts is

organizing a tour of the incredibly beautiful Greek Orthodox Church. The

date is Tuesday, July 10th, at 2:00 PM. (Please note the date change.) If

you would like to join us, please call 631-377-0662 and leave your name

and phone number. Space is limited so call early!

Mass on Fourth of July Join us for morning mass on Tuesday July 4th at 9 AM (No noon mass that day)

Let us celebrate together the freedom we cherish as a nation!

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Parish Social Ministry Jeannine Schmidt 631-283-0097 Ext. 317 jrose@shjmbasilica.org

Summer Sunday

Morning Hospitality Please join us at our hospitality tent after the 8 AM, 9:30 AM & 11 AM masses. This week our hosts are the members of the Legion of Mary.

Our Summer Hospitality Tent is back! Call the office of Parish Social Ministry to Volunteer! A great project for families, Confirmation Classes, Scouts! ALL are WELCOME to Volunteer! Many hands make light work. Please contact Jeannine at jrose@shjmbasilica.org if your group or family would like to host one Sunday.

WALKING WITH PURPOSE: FEARLESS & FREE

Thursday Evenings at 6:30 p.m. June 21, 28 July 12, 19, 26 August 2, 9, 16, 23 Located in the Chapel room in the Rectory

building Fearless and Free is a new Bible study based on the book of Ephesians. So many of us are wrestling through the reality that life isn’t easy, even when we are doing the right thing. Suffering can slam into us from left field, leaving us reeling. This study provides a firm foundation to stand on no matter what life throws our way. With an emphasis on healing and wholeness, this is the most personal and transformative study that Walking with Purpose has offered so far. All women of every age are invited to participate.

For more information and to Register please contact Jeannine Schmidt,

Director of Parish Social Ministry

10 High School Students, and 10 Intermediate School Students are needed to organize our end of Summer Camp experience for the young people of the parish. All musicians, artists, athletes, are welcome! Please contact Jeannine Schmidt as soon as possible to register for our first meeting! Do not miss out on this amazing opportunity. Call today for more information! 631 283 0087 ext. 317. Email jrose@shjmbasilica.org

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SUMMER YOUTH GROUP DATES

July 8th-13th Catholic Heart Work Camp!!!!

Wednesday, July 25th 6:00-8:00 p.m.

Join us for outdoor games and activities on the parish lawn!

Sunday, July 29th 8:00 a.m.—12:30 p.m.

Youth Group volunteers at Sunday Mass Hospitality.

Wednesday, August 8th 6:00-8:00 p.m.

Join us for games and activities on the parish lawn!

Youth Group Bake Sale

Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Youth Group

For Teens in Grades 7-12 Maura Mandato, Youth Minister

Email: Maura Mandato Youthgroup@shjmbasilica.org

Altar Servers Trip to Duck’s Game: A Great Time!

Spirituality

Programs: Legion of Mary Tuesday mornings: After the 8 AM Mass in the Church. New members are ALWAYS welcome! Secular Franciscans meet on the Second Sunday of the month after the 11 AM Mass in the Parish Center. You are always welcome to come to our meetings. Please come, bring a friend, bring a snack for breakfast, and we supply the coffee.

Resurrection Prayer Group meets on Tuesdays at 6 PM in the Parish Chapel Room. Come share your healing gifts with us. Prayer requests are always welcome. Email: RPG1225@yahoo.com

Spiritual Book Group meets on Tuesdays, at 1 PM, in the Parish Center. All are welcome!

Pray for Our Sick Peg Jordan & Pat Jordan John Lynch Suzanne Parillo Bobby & Caroline Parillo Ebby Culver Elizabeth Joyce Robert Melter Daniel Sheerin Richard Brown Capt. Mark Enne Michelle Morrone Peter Madison Elaine McDonagh Michelle Cropp Marielene Guimaraes John Schizas Robert Klein John Nagy Martin Pellicano Adrian Merolla Glenn M. Kurtz Viola Cummings Lenny Evans Roy Genova Sherry Richici Shirley Rolison Kevin Murphy Marilyn Stengel

Memorials: Altar Flowers: The main altar flowers for this weekend were given in celebration of Elizabeth Marchisella and David Cataletto’s wedding by her parents.

Bread, Wine &

Candles

If you would like to donate altar flowers, Altar Bread, wine or candles in memory of a loved one or a special intention, please call the parish office.

Eucharistic Adoration

Become an Anchor of Prayer for Family Life The Catechism quotes Saint John Paul II: “The Church and the world have a great need for Eucharistic worship. Jesus awaits us in this sacrament of love. Let us not refuse the time to go to meet him in adoration, in contemplation full of faith, and open to making amends for the serious offenses and crimes of the world. Let our adoration never cease. Our parish will have an hour of Eucharistic Adoration following the noon mass on Fridays.

We would like to dedicate this hour as a time of contemplation and reflection to pray

especially for our families. For strength in family life, for the return of family members to

the church, for healing and reconciliation within families that are hurting.

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Religious Education :: Catechists Wanted

We know and love the Catholic Faith because, over many years,

women and men have practiced the Faith and passed it on to us. We “pay it forward.”

We pass on the Faith by our attitudes and actions in many ways.

Serving as a catechist is a particular way of doing this.

By contacting Sister Cathy as soon as possible, you will receive teaching materials and information well in advance of the beginning of class.

What you need to be a catechist: ♦ an interest in teaching and the ability to work with young people ♦ time to teach for an hour on Sundays (10:30-11:30) or on Wednesdays (4:00-5:00 for

grades 1-6 and 7:00-8:00 for grades 7 and 8) plus time to prepare lessons and to set up for a few minutes before each class

♦ time to attend teacher meeting every 4-6 weeks What we will give you: ♦ an outline of what your students need to learn during the year ♦ student materials—textbooks and periodicals, and teacher guides ♦ support and information at teacher meetings, when we discuss what to teach and how

to teach it well What you will receive: ♦ the satisfaction of passing on the Faith, as generations have done for us ♦ the opportunity to work with other wonderful catechists ♦ enrichment of your own Faith. The way to really know and understand something is

to teach it. The questions your students ask and the questions that come to your own mind bring you to a deeper, more profound life of faith.

Religious Education reled@shjmbasilica.org

We need women and men to serve as catechists this year for grade 1 on Sunday mornings 10:30-11:30,

for several grades on Wednesday afternoon 4:00-5:00 and possibly Wednesday evenings, 7:00-8:00.

If you are interested in being part of this important ministry or would like further information,

contact Sister Cathy Stare at reled@shjmbasilica.org.

Faith and Justice

RESOURCES FOR THOSE SEEKING AN

ALTERNATIVE TO ABORTION:

Rockville Centre Diocese, 516-678-5800, ext.626, www.respectlife.drvc.org Birthright, 631-728-8900, 800-550-4900

The Diocese of Rockville Centre provides both information and support services in regard to the Life

issues, particularly in regard to crisis pregnancy, when abortion is being considered as the only way

out of a difficult situation. There is a diocesan outreach program, with a 24-hour confidential hotline,

where a woman with an unexpected pregnancy can turn for help: call 1-855-301-4247, or a call can

be made to OPTIONLINE at 1-800-712-HELP(4347).

Sunday’s readings cover a lot of ground. In the first reading, Wisdom assures us that God did not create death.

More so, God does not even wish death upon us. God created us to live and thrive. Death is the result of

Satan’s envy. In the Gospel, we learn of two of Jesus’s healing miracles, reaffirming God’s will for us to live

and be well. But we know that living well means more than being physically well. St. Paul writes of living

well in the context of equality. He acknowledges that there are times when some may have more than others

and, therefore, should give from their abundance. He does not say anyone should give to the point of

becoming burdened him or herself. And he says that there may come a time when the tables are reversed and

the other might have more and be able to help the formerly fortunate. The bottom line is that we help each

other out as needed, that we maintain a balance, that we leave envy of the one with more and selfishness

toward the one with less to the devil, that we insure that life is livable for everyone without exception. And we

can make this real in our own homes, communities, country, and world in the areas of housing, employment,

education, health care, safety and security, and environmental protection. Let’s give it a try

Reflections On the Gospel

July 1, 2018

Bereavement Support Group Announcement

Grief is one of the most commonly shared human experiences and can manifest itself in so many ways – physical, emotional and spiritual.

Being with others who are grieving can reaffirm that what one is experiencing is real and that there are others who can help us cope with our loss as we proceed on our journey of healing and renewed strength.

The Basilica of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary will be offering a Bereavement Support Group this summer for individuals who are interested in joining. We will be accepting up to 10 members.

Please contact Jeannine Schmidt at 631 283-0097 ext. 317 for further details. Membership will be first come first serve and the meetings will be held in the Chapel room of the Parish Offices on Saturdays from 10:00am-11:30 a.m. for 8 weeks beginning July 28th.

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Dominick Abbate :: Director of Music An invitation to join our Music Ministry

Here at Sacred Hearts we are very blessed to have a strong music ministry made up of parishioners who offer their time and talents by singing or playing an instrument to enhance and guide the worship experience. We are always in need of new singers and those who play instruments. Now is the perfect time to join us in praising God through the gift of music. Whether you are a beginning musician or a professional, there is a place for you in our music ministry! Adult Choir Rehearsals are held Wednesday evenings at 6:00 p.m. in the choir loft. We sing at the 11:00 a.m. mass on Sunday. Children Choir Rehearsals are held Wednesday evenings at 5:00 p.m. by the piano in church. We sing at the 9:30 a.m. mass on Sunday. Play An Instrument? (string/wind/percussion) please contact our music director!

For more information, please contact our music director: Dominick Abbate

dominick.j.abbate@gmail.com (631)-873-7800

Do you know a Senior who is about to graduate from High School? It is that time of year again – graduation! As many of our teens move onto college, you can

help them continue their journey of faith.

Many colleges, secular and parochial, provide a Newman Center for incoming Catholic

students. These Centers provide pastoral support and ministry to students, in addition to

providing a space to meet other catholic students interested in growing in their faith.

Please send graduate’s first and last name and college they will be attending via email to

campusministry@drvc.org. The respective Newman Connection campus leader will be

informed and will welcome the student when they arrive in the fall.

Rev. Joseph H. Fitzgerald, Director of Vocations, Youth,

Young Adult and Campus Ministries DIOCESE OF ROCKVILLE CENTRE

Monday July 9 6:30 PM Fiesta Night A joint gathering of our Spanish and English communities. Wonderful food and music. Come improve your Salsa skills! Join us on the Great Lawn!

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Servicio de orientación psicológica: De martes a viernes en el apostolado Hispano de 2pm a 5 pm. Para cita previa llamar al P, Cesar: 631-332-5300. Servicios legales para la comunidad inmigrante : ALFA Teléfono: 631-707-5375 / OLA of Eastern Long Island 631 899 3441. El Asesor de Inmigración de Caridades Católicas El servicio queda suspendido durante el mes de Julio. Próximo día de atención será agosto 9 en Apostolado Hispano de 2pm a 5pm Seguro de Salud para Niños Fidelis Care los Miércoles entre las 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM en el Apostolado Hispano.

ATENCION EN APOSTOLADO HISPANO:

De martes a viernes de 2:00 – 5:00 pm. Se recomienda hacer cita previa llamando al: Padre Marvin Navas: Cel 631 377 9053 Padre Cesar Lara: Cel. 631-332-5300 Padre Jesus Arellano: Cel. 929-257-3467

CATEQUESIS DE PRIMERA COMUNION Y CONFIRMACION

La inscripción para los niños en el programa de catequesis en Español está abierta a partir del mes de Agosto después de la Misa dominical. Preguntar por María Sintron.

CATEQUESIS PARA ADULTOS Que necesitan Bautismo – Comunión – Confirmación: ponerse en contacto con el Padre Jesus.

PREPARACION PARA EL MATRIMONIO

Los cursos PRECANA se imparten en el Apostolado Hispano de Southampton por 6 domingos consecutivos comenzando a las 9am y terminao a las 12 pm. Dos opciones: Comenzando primera semana de Octubre o primera semana de Febrero.

CONFESIONES: Antes o después de la Santa Misa.

Hablar con el Padre.

BAUTISMO DE LOS NINOS

¿Desean bautizar a sus hijos? Los papas y los padrinos asistan al curso Pre-bautismal, sin previo aviso. Es preciso llevar el Acta de Nacimiento del niño. Curso Pre-Bautismal El curso se da el último domingo de cada mes a la 10:30am en el Apostolado Hispano en Southampton o a las 5pm en la iglesia de East Hampton. Los Bautismos son los segundo sábados de cada mes a las 3pm. Requisitos para el Bautismo de un Niño Curso: Para bautizar a su hijo, es necesario que los padres y padrinos asistan al curso pre-bautismal. Padrinos: Debe escoger a los padrinos conscientes de los requisitos. Los padrinos tienen que ser católicos bautizados, confirmados y que han hecho su Primera Comunión y deben poder comulgar. El padrino (madrina) debe ser un(a) soltero(a) o debe ser casado por la iglesia. Permisos: Si viven afuera de la zona servida por el Apostolado Hispano, necesitan una carta de su párroco dándonos permiso para bautizar a su hijo

GRUPOS Y MOVIMIENTOS Comunidad de Oración para Adultos y Familias Todos los martes a las 7:30 PM en el Centro Comunitario. El segundo martes de cada mes se celebra la Hora Santa. Coordina Maria Joya. Grupo Discípulos de Jesus: martes a las 7:30pm en el Apostolado. Coordina Erik Vega Grupo de la Divina Misericordia: Santa Misa los terceros miércoles de cada mes a las 7:30pm. Coordina Luz Stella Grupo Guadalupano: Matrimonio familiar Cristiano: Coordinan Sonia y Martin.

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