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Page 1: ARE LEADER RISKS AN EXCUSE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR? · ARE LEADER RISKS AN EXCUSE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR? ! By Nancy E. Parsons President, CDR Assessment Group, Inc

ARE LEADER RISKS AN EXCUSE FOR BAD

BEHAVIOR?

 By Nancy E. Parsons

President, CDR Assessment Group, Inc.

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©2017 CDR Assessment Group, Inc., Sugar Land, TX. All rights reserved. www.cdrassessmentgroup.com email: [email protected]

Are Leader Risks an Excuse for Bad Behavior?

 By  Nancy  E.  Parsons  

   

Badge  of  Honor    I   recall   times  when   people   displayed   their   styles   inventory   results,   like  MBTI   (Myers-­‐‑Briggs  Type  Indicator®),  as  a  badge  of  honor,  posting  their  designated  letters,  such  as  “ISTJ”,  on  their  office   doorways.     Perhaps   this   was   a   good   icebreaker   or   a   light   way   to   acknowledge   one’s  preferred  communications  style  to  a  visitor.      With   some   of   the   deeper   and   more   robust   assessments   available,   this   may   not   be   the   best  approach.    This  is  particularly  true  with  the  results  of  the  CDR  Risk  Assessment  that  measures  risks   for   derailment.     Risks   are   not   a   badge   of   honor,   but   rather   are   areas   for   caution   and  development.    This  is  not  to  suggest  that  one’s  risks  should  not  be  shared  with  team  members  and   stakeholders,   just   not   in   this   posted-­‐‑on-­‐‑the-­‐‑wall  way.     Risks   are   ineffective,   and   in   some  cases,   bad   behaviors   that   we   all   inherently   have   to   some   degree   when   facing   adversity   or  conflict.  The  good  news   is   that   they  are  also  part  of  our  normal  personality.      Without  proper  attention,  however,  they  can  lead  to  derailment.    In   the   CDR   Risk   Assessment,   the   eleven   Risk   Scales   are   linked   to   Universal   Leadership  Derailers  within  the  feedback  report.      These  describe  behaviors  that  can  throw  one’s  career  off  track.    So,   these  risks  can  be  quite  serious  and  detrimental  to  one’s  performance,  relationships  and  career  goals  if  allowed  to  manifest  without  restraint.    

Featuring:  • Badge  of  Honor  • What  are  Universal  Leadership  Derailers?    • Linking  Leadership  Risk  Factors  to  the  Universal  Derailers  • I  Y’am  Who  I  Y’am  and  That’s  All  That  I  Y’am  • What  To  Do  About  Your  Risks?    

o Analyzing  My  Risk  Factors  &  Ways  I  Can  Improve  (Template)  • Productively  Sharing  Your  Risks  with  Others  

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©2017 CDR Assessment Group, Inc., Sugar Land, TX. All rights reserved. www.cdrassessmentgroup.com email: [email protected]

     What  are  Universal  Leadership  Derailers?      “Leadership   success   and   derailment   largely   depend   upon   two   factors:     1)   the   perceptions   of  others   about   your   performance   which   includes   your   relationships   with   them;   and   2)   your  contributions  or  results  produced  for  the  good  of  the  organization.    Overwhelmingly,  the  first  of  these   is   the   most   critical   in   terms   of   leadership   derailment.     A   leader   may   have   produced  outstanding   results;   yet   if   he/she   has   damaged   relationships   along   the  way,   or   has   operated  with  a  lack  of  integrity,  derailment  may  be  inevitable.“i    Illustration  1  provides  the  8  Universal  Leadership  Derailers  and  definitions  from  the  CDR  Leadership  Risk  Assessment.”    

Universal  Derailers   Description  

Erosion  or  betrayal  of  trust   lack  of  integrity,  loss  of  credibility,  over-­‐‑focus  on  personal  agenda,  failure  to  meet  commitments  

Failure  to  deliver  and  be  accountable  

slow  to  act,  studies  issues  and  solutions  too  long,  waits  for  instruction,  short  on  results  

Failure  to  adapt   resists  change,  difficulty  with  multiple  priorities,  lacks  flexibility  

Lack  of  courage  and  decisiveness  

risk  aversive,  freezes  under  uncertainty,  fails  to  assert  views;  avoids  making  decisions  

Creating  or  endorsing  a  dysfunctional  work  environment  

failure  to  support,  inappropriate  emotionality  or  lack  of  "ʺemotional  intelligence"ʺ,  hostile  work  environment  

Failure  to  develop  people  and  organization  

fails  to  coach,  mentor  others,  or  provide  developmental  resources;  and,  unconcerned  with  bench  strength,  organizational  growth  planning  issues  

Lacks  forward-­‐‑looking  and  inspirational  approach  

lacks  a  vision,  can'ʹt  rally  troops  to  produce;  does  not  build  enthusiasm  toward  stretch  goals  

Lack  of  objectivity  and  broadmindedness  

narrow  views,  undervalues  diversity,  strives  to  preserve  personal  wishes  and  bias,  not  perceived  as  fair,  does  not  consider  sufficient  views  or  sufficient  data  in  decision  making  

Source: CDR Leadership Risk Assessment.    

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©2017 CDR Assessment Group, Inc., Sugar Land, TX. All rights reserved. www.cdrassessmentgroup.com email: [email protected]

     In  mapping  or  linking  the  CDR  Leadership  Risk  Factors  to  the  Universal  Derailers,  below  is  an  illustration  of  how  these  relate.  

CDR  Leadership  Risk  Factors  vs.  Potential  Strengths  –  Linked  to  Universal  Derailers  

8  UNIVERSAL  LEADERSHIP  DERAILERS  Trust

Erosion or

Betrayal

Failure to Deliver & Be Accountable

Failure to Adapt;

Inflexibility

Lack of Courage &

Decisiveness

Creates or Fosters

Dysfunctional Work

Environment

Failure to Develop People

Lacks Forward

Thinking or Inspirational

Approach

Lacks Objectivity

& Openness

False Advocate

Rule Breaker Egotist Hyper-Moody

Eccentric

Worrier Pleaser

Rule Breaker

False Advocate

Egotist

Perfectionist Worrier Cynic

Worrier Pleaser

Perfectionist

Egotist False

Advocate Rule Breaker

Cynic Hyper-Moody

Egotist Worrier Cynic

Detached

Cynic Perfectionist

Worrier

Egotist False

Advocate Rule

Breaker Upstager

CDR  LEADERSHIP  RISK  ASSESSMENT  SCALES  LINKED  TO  DERAILERS  

“I  Y’am  Who  I  Y’am  and  That’s  All  That  I  Y’am”  Popeye  the  Sailor  Man  

“We   have   coached   thousands   of   executives   around   the   globe   and   have   had   only   a   few  executives   in   all   that   time,   who   after   going   through   the   self-­‐awareness   assessment   and  coaching,  have  dug  in  their  heels  and  said  something  like:  

‘Well,  that  is  who  I  am…  and  my  people  will  just  need  to  deal  with  it.’    In  the  end,  failure  to  accept  and  address  the   impact  of  one’s  risks  or   ineffective  behaviors   is  a  losing   proposition   for   a   leader.   Every   leader   has   true   talent,   strengths,   gifts   and  needs.   Every  leader  also  has  built   in  baggage  when  it  comes  to  performance  with  their  personal  assortment  of  risk  factors.  These  are  one’s  ineffective  coping  behaviors  that  undermine  effectiveness.”    Gone  unchecked  or  allowed  to  run  amok,  Risk  Factors  have  thrown  the  careers  of  even  the  most  prominent   executives’   off   track.    Of   the   handful   of   executives   we   worked   with   who   outright  rejected   the   importance   of   paying   attention   to   and   doing   something   productive   with   their  assessment  results,  all  were  eventually  fired  or  forced  out  and  replaced.  Their  decision  to  expect  others  to  just  deal  with  them  as  they  were,  did  not  pay  off.”ii  

 

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©2017 CDR Assessment Group, Inc., Sugar Land, TX. All rights reserved. www.cdrassessmentgroup.com email: [email protected]

 What  To  Do  About  Your  Risks?      

1. Most  important:    Identify  your  specific  array  of  risks  with  an  appropriate  assessment.  2. Next,  analyze  how  your  risks  impact  you.      An  executive  or  leadership  coach  or  trained  

mentor  is  highly  recommended  as  you  work  through  this  process.    Here  is  an  example  template:  

ANALYZING MY RISK FACTORS & WAYS I CAN IMPROVE

My Risks

What caused this Risk to show most recently?

What happened? What was the risk behavior?

What was the impact?

What can I do differently?

Upstager Getting too energized during enjoyable discussion with colleagues

Dominated too much of the air time

Came off as negative, overbearing, was a time hog

Ask more questions, self-facilitate, deploy active listening skills, control my enthusiasm

Egotist Overly eager to perform well and show my knowledge during presentation to Board

Did not sufficiently recognize the contributions of other team members

Offended team; angered and hurt team members. Damaged team cooperativeness.

Try to relax more when I present. Build team member recognition into my presentation notes or slides so that I don’t miss again!

Apologize… Rebuild…

Worrier Fear of making sure I was 100% right. I was in a staff meeting.

As a director, at a meeting with my peers and boss I knew I had the right answer, but didn’t speak up. I wasn’t 100% confident that someone would not find a flaw.

The team made the wrong decision. Now we have to fix a costly mess which would have been avoided had I chimed in!

1) Find a mentor to help me practice speaking up in the moment. 2) Share my risks with a peer who will prompt me with questions to help bring out my thoughts. 3) Register to take an “assertiveness” training class.

While   you   cannot   train   or  wish   away  your   inherent   risk   factors,   you   can  make  big   strides   to  improve  your   risk   reactions  under  adversity.    You  can  adopt  ways   to  prevent,  neutralize  and  manage   these   tendencies  more   productively.     In   baseball   terminology,   leaders   can   “improve  their  batting  average”  significantly  when  it  comes  to  managing  their  risks.      

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©2017 CDR Assessment Group, Inc., Sugar Land, TX. All rights reserved. www.cdrassessmentgroup.com email: [email protected]

   Productively  Sharing  Your  Risks  with  Others    Rather  than  wearing  risks  like  a  badge  of  honor  or  embracing  these  as  the  “this  is  who  I  am  –  so  get  over  it”  stubborn  approach,  there  is  merit  to  sharing  Risks  with  team  members  for  feedback  and   development.       This   is   recommended   after   team   members   have   gone   through   personal  development  steps  (typically  part  of  one-­‐‑to-­‐‑one  coaching)  as  outlined  above.      A  professionally  facilitated  team  building  approach  to  help  team  members  understand  one  another'ʹs  risks  can  go  a   long  way   to   improving   team  collaboration.    Equipped  with   this  knowledge,   team  members  can   improve   communications,   gain   a   better  understanding  of   stress  points,   and   support   each  other’s  development.        Team   development   is   helpful   because   frequently   risks   are   misinterpreted   and   can   cause  unnecessary   conflicts   or   failed   communications.     For   example,   if   a   leader   has   a   high   risk   as  “Detached”,  others  may  view  this  as  a  lack  of  interest  or  even  snobbery.    Yet,  when  the  leader  withdraws,   it   may   be   because   he   or   she   is   retreating   due   to   adversity,   being   overwhelmed,  being   offended,   or   having   their   buttons   pushed.     If   Risk   Data   is   shared   by   the   team   and  subsequently  this  leader  withdraws  for  any  significant  period  of  time,  other  team  members  may  now   have   the  wherewithal   to   check   in   and   say,   “Are   you   okay?   Is   something   bothering   you?     I  noticed  you  haven’t  been  present   for  a  while.”    This   is   far  better   than  assuming  the   leader  doesn’t  care  or  is  self-­‐‑absorbed.    The  fact  is,  the  leader  may  be  struggling  or  stuck  and  some  supportive  dialogue  or  brainstorming  may  help.    We  had  one  client  company   in   the  chemical   industry  have   their  highest  aggregate   risk   trends  for  more  than  100  leaders  as  “Detached.”    This  is  common  for  engineering  and  technical  fields.    During  a  workshop,  a  couple  of  these  leaders  were  in  denial  and  said,      

“This  cannot  be  true,  after  all,  we  have  an  Open  Door  Policy.”        Then  other  leaders  in  the  workshop  chimed  in  and  said,  “Well,  that  may  be  so.    However,  why  is  it  then  -­‐-­‐  that  your  office  doors  (in  corporate)  are  always  shut  when  we  are  there?”    Everyone  chuckled  at  the  well-­‐made  point.  

 Conclusion    In   order   for   leaders   to   show   due   respect   for   their   employees   and   stakeholders,   and  acknowledging  that  all  of  us  have  our  own  assortment  of  risk  factors,  there  is  no  excuse  for  not  managing  our  risks  more  productively.    Simply  put:    bad  leader  behaviors  are  bad  for  business.  

i CDR Risk Assessment, CDR Assessment Group, Inc.: author. 1998 ii Blog article: Parsons, Nancy, E., “Six Profiles that Reject Feedback” December, 2015, http://cdrassessmentgroup.com/six-leader-profiles-that-reject-feedback/