are you who you want to be? jan van deventer eislab october 16, 2006
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Are you who you want to be?
Jan van Deventer
EISLAB
October 16, 2006
Goal of the lectures
• Discuss deep issues within the division
• Boost feeling of self-worth
• Boost interdependence
• Build a strong team
• Division gains international fame
Stimulus and response
Stimulus Response
Proactivity: 30 days test
• Work only in your circle of influence• Make and keep small commitments• Be a light, not a judge• Be a model, not a critic• Be part of the solution,not of the problem• Do not argue for people’s weaknesses• When you make a mistake, admit it & learn• Do not get into blaming & accusing• Work on what you have control over
Begin with the end in mind
• Think of your funeral
• What legacy do you want to leave?
Rescripting or paradigm shift
• Imagination
• Conscience
• Self-awareness
Things are created twice
• House with blueprints
• Article and drafts
• D program
Principle centerness
• Security
• Guidance
• Wisdom
• Power
Alternative centers
• Spouse centeredness
• Family centeredness
• Money centeredness
• Work centeredness
• Procession centeredness
• Pleasure centeredness
• Friend/enemy centeredness
Personal mission statement
I am Arselan and I shall maintain.
I constructively influence all I encounter.
Values (1 of 2)キキ Christianity: I keep Jesus Christ as my role model.
キキ Integrity: I am true to my beliefs and myself.
キキ Respect: I value all being as they are without prejudice.
キキ Patience: I am strong enough to fight circumstances and others who could impair my (sound) judgment.
キキ Communication: I honestly and assertively share my opinion with others while listening to their opinions.
Values (2 of 2)
キキ Family: I am a good role model and lead my life in a way that makes me proud of myself.
キキ Creativity and imagination: I look @ life and things from different perspectives.
キキ Service: I provide a helpful hand.キキ Cheerfulness: I do it all with a smile and empathy.
キキ Growth and improvement: Both physically and mentally, I reach beyond where I am today. I free myself of bad habits and learn good ones. I take time for (self) refection.
Roles (1 of 2)
キキ Arselan (Myself): I am responsible for myself. I take the time to reflect on my views, my accomplishments, my behaviors, and my interactions with others, my eating and exercising habits, in order to be a balanced person who reflects the light of God.
キキ Father (Rebecka, Frank, Eric, Oskar): I am pleasant, patient and supportive towards my children. I also understand the great influence I have on them and therefore strive to be a good example.
キキ Leader and manager (EISLAB): I lead my team with the aim that its members feel well both individually and as a group while being productive towards a clear common goal. I am responsible for balanced work and financial load.
Roles (2 of 2)
キキ Director (CASTT): I coordinate relationships between the automotive industry and the university and moreover within the university. I am a catalyst to reach the highest potential of yield.
キキ Teacher (Students): I understand the subject I teach and its importance in the curriculum of an engineer. I am able to present this importance as well at the material in a way that enables the students to fully grasp the concepts.
キキ Advisor (Yassin, Kimmo, Elena): I understand and can clarify the problems or issues at hand to the advisee. I can guide him /her to find the answers. I am supportive in his/her communication of the results.
• Researcher (Myself, research society): I am able to understand and explain what the problems or issues are. I am able to put forward theories, experiments and results. I can clearly communicate with others throughout the whole process.
Who do you want to be?
• When you react to a stimulus or situation, is your response inline with whom you want to be?
• Are you response able?
• Are you your own master?
Discover yourself
• What is your mission in life?
• What do you value?