Some Structures Used when Asking for Permission

Can I + verb - VERY INFORMAL Can I go out tonight?

Can he have dinner with us?

NOTE: The use of "Can I do something?" is very informal, and considered incorrect by

many. However, it is used in everyday informal speech and for that reason has

been included. Practice Situation: ask SB to go out

on a weekday evening with friends

May I + verb May I have another piece of pie?

May we go out with our friends tonight?

NOTE: Traditionally, the use of "May I do something?" has been used for asking permission. In modern

society, this form has become a little more formal and is often replaced with other forms such as "Can

I..." and "Could I ..." Many argue that "Can I ..." is incorrect because it refers to ability. However, this

form is quite common in everyday situations. Practice Situation: Ask your boss to take a day or two off work

Could I please + verb Could I please go with Tom to the movie? Could we please go on trip this weekend?

Do you think I could + verb Do you think I could use your cell phone?

Do you think I could borrow your car? Practice Situation: Have a conversation between a mother and a son who needs to go out and use the car

Would you mind if I + verb in past Would you mind if I stayed a few more minutes?

Would you mind if I took a five minute break?

Do you mind if I + verb simple present

Do you mind if she stays?

Do you mind if I go?

Would you mind my + verb + ing + your + object Would you mind my using your cellphone? Would you mind my playing your piano?

Practice Situation: Have a conversation between coworkers working for long hours in the same office.

Would it be possible for me + infinitive Would it be possible for me to use your

computer for a few minutes? Would it be possible for to study in this room?

Practice Situation: Have a conversation

between a new employee and coworkers.

Giving Permission

If you would like to say "yes" to someone

who asks permission, you can give permission using these phrases:

Sure No problem. Go right ahead.

Please feel free + infinitive

Refusing a Favor

I'm afraid I'd prefer if you didn't / don't.

Sorry, but I'd rather you not do that.

Unfortunately, I need to say no.

I'm afraid that's not possible.

Saying 'no', is never fun, but sometimes it's necessary. It's common to offer a different solution to try to help out even if

you can't give permission.