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Kevin Honeycutt 2009 Brought to you by Kevin Honeycutt & the Center for Leadership and Learning Georgia was the dog of a lifetime! Notes: Notes: She was so smart! ...and loyal too! She lived for 16 years ...but she couldn’t live forever He was so sad when she went to doggie Heaven. He though he would never want another dog : ( But his wife Michele, who loves animals of all kinds, ...knew he needed another dog right away. That’s when he first met Starbuck! He was an “under the couch” dog. Why?TRANSCRIPT
Bullying,Cyber-bullying &Online SafetyBrought to you by Kevin Honeycutt &
theCenter for Leadership and Learning
Kevin Honeycutt 2009
My friend KevinHad a good dog
Georgia was the dog of a lifetime!
Notes:Notes:
She was so smart!
...and loyal too!
She lived for 16 years
...but she couldn’t live forever
He was so sad when she went to doggie Heaven.
He though he would never want another dog : (
But his wife Michele, who loves animalsof all kinds,
...knew he needed another dog right away.
That’s when he first met Starbuck!
He was an “under the couch” dog.
Why?
There were many nice dogs whereStarbuck lived.
...but one dog, Hector, was a bully
Hector
Starbuck tried to be brave but Hectorpicked on him every day.
TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday
Starbuck tried to be brave but Hectorpicked on him every day.
TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday
And Hector had something
that Starbuck didn’t have...
Hector had henchmen!
TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday
Some dogs wanted to help.
TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday
But they were afraid
Why?
Starbuck was sadand he wasn’t learning
tricks like the other dogs.
Why?
In Starbuck’s brain...
This outerpart is the
part he learns with
In Starbuck’s brain...
This littlearea is
the part he uses when
he’s scared
In Starbuck’s brain...
When thispart isworking,
the learningpart
doesn’t!
Can Starbuck learn when he’s scared?
So what is Hector stealing from Starbuckevery time he bullies him?
His chance to learn!
Every night Hector went homeand had a normal evening.
Every night Starbuck went homeand thought about what Hector
and his henchmen did and what they would do next.
In his mind, Hector was so big!
The truth is, Starbuck is just as big as
Hector!
But he felt very small! small!
small!
small!
small!
Why?
While all the other dogs were warm and cozy on top of the couch.....
Starbuck was cold and alone “under”
the couch.
Would you do that to Starbuck?
What if he wasn’t so Cute?
Cuddly?
Soft?
Sweet?What if he smelled like
feet?
Kevin took Starbuck home but it wasn’t easy to catch him!
And even though he was safe from bullies like Hector at his house...
...he still stayed under the couch for
a long time.
Why?
Can kids be mean like Hector and his henchmen?
Who do you want to be?
Will you be one of Hector’s henchmen?
Or will you be a H.E.R.O.?
You don’t have to be big.
Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying
4
HHelp rescuethe victim
4
Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying
H EHelp rescuethe victim
Educate others
4
Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying
H E RHelp rescuethe victim
Educate others
Report itto an adult
4
Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying
H E R OHelp rescuethe victim
Educate others
Report itto an adultOffer
friendship
4
Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying
H.E.R.O.
Dogs today...
Why are today’s pups so fast at learning to
use technology?
Your parents had...Your parents had...
Me and the Me and the Wii!Wii!
Do you use the internet at home?
Can bullying happen online?
Can bullying happen on a phone?
Repeated mean texts are a
cruel form ofbullying.
Repeated mean texts are a
cruel form ofbullying.
Repeated mean texts are a
cruel form ofbullying.
Repeated mean texts are a
cruel form ofbullying.
Most phones can take pictures.
What are the rules?
Phone rules:
Phone rules:
1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.
Phone rules:
1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.
2. Ask permission before taking pictures of other people.
Phone rules:
1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.
2. Ask permission before taking pictures of other people.
3. Never post pictures of yourself or other kids without first asking your parents or the parents of the other
kids.
Do you use chat?
Kitty:
Hey Star
buck
Bucky: S
up?
Kitty:
Nuttin
Bucky: M
e 2
Texting & Chatting rules:
1. Only talk to people you know in real life.
Texting & Chatting rules:
1. Only talk to people you know in real life.
2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.
Texting & Chatting rules:
1. Only talk to people you know in real life.
3. Never say anything in chat you wouldn’t say in real life.
2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.
Texting & Chatting rules:
1. Only talk to people you know in real life.
3. Never say anything in chat you wouldn’t say in real life.
2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.
4. Tell your parents or a trusted adult if someone says something in chat that makes you uncomfortable.
Texting & Chatting rules:
Let’s sing a song!
When you surf the webI want you to know
make sure your parents know the places that you go
the web is awesomeand there’s so much you can do
but remember what I saywhen you go online to play
take your brain with you
When you surf the webI want you to know
make sure your parents know the places that you go
the web is awesomeand there’s so much you can do
but remember what I saywhen you go online to play
take your brain with you
Sometimes you’re onlineat the end of the day
when something weird happensand makes you feel afraidjust stop what you’re doingand go get Mom and Dadleave it all on the screen
so they’ll know what you meanthey won’t be mad
Sometimes you’re onlineat the end of the day
when something weird happensand makes you feel afraidjust stop what you’re doingand go get Mom and Dadleave it all on the screen
so they’ll know what you meanthey won’t be mad
Sometimes there’s a bullywho’s being mean
they’re calling you names andsome words you’ve never seen
but don’t talk back nowleave the whole thing on the screen
show your Mom and Dadcuz they’ll know what to do
it’s not your fault it’s just what mean people do
don’t let it make you sad
Sometimes there’s a bullywho’s being mean
they’re calling you names andsome words you’ve never seen
but don’t talk back nowleave the whole thing on the screen
show your Mom and Dadcuz they’ll know what to do
it’s not your fault it’s just what mean people do
don’t let it make you sad
Last but not leastI’ll share this with you
a little thing I callthe cyber-golden ruleit’s really simple so
you’ll remember it just fineIf you wouldn’t do it in real life
don’t do it online
Last but not leastI’ll share this with you
a little thing I callthe cyber-golden ruleit’s really simple so
you’ll remember it just fineIf you wouldn’t do it in real life
don’t do it online
What are you learning with the most powerful learning
tools in history?
What are you learning with the most powerful learning
tools in history?
Big Questions:
1. Where is the computer in your home?
Big Questions:
1. Where is the computer in your home?
2. Are your parents up to date with the things you do online?
Big Questions:
1. Where is the computer in your home?
2. Are your parents up to date with the things you do online?
3. Talk to your parents and include them in the things you do. They like
to learn too!
Big Questions:
Whether the bully is in the hallway or online...
Starbuck doesn’t want any kid to stay under the couch!
Thank you!
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