by allyson cohen a detecting diva’s point of view · 2013-06-03 · i need the latest designer...
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“Hey Sheila, when you’re done withthat red nail polish, can I borrow it?Oh, and by the way, have you seen thenew XL 550 super detector with thatawesome new technology? We can gocheck it out tomorrow after we’redone shopping for those cute newshoes you’ve been talking about”.
A conversation like that justdoesn’t happen between two women.Detectors aren’t something you sitand chat about with your girlfriends.I find it sad that I can confide inthem about so many things, yet thething I am most passionate about,most of them don’t even understand.
Being a woman involved in a
mostly male dominated hobby hascertain problems. So guys, here aresome things a woman detectoristamust deal with:
Frustration: I tell my female friends how muchfun detecting is, how much I love it,and they laugh at me because I’m soexcited about the hobby. A few haveexpressed a brief interest, and oneactually went and tried it for a fewminutes. They all say “I’ll go withyou,” but that never happens.
What is it with these women?Have they never fished, camped,climbed trees, hiked, slept in a tent
or made mud pies? I suspect a few of them secretly wish they could dowhat I do, but are too afraid to lettheir femininity become vulnerable.
Hygiene: Nails, nails and more nails – and I’mnot talking about the rusty metalkind – I mean fingernails and whatam I going to do about them. Allsummer they are full of dirt. Yuck! I wear rubber-coated gloves, scrubwith a nailbrush, manicure, but theystill look dirty. It’s just not veryattractive to have detectingfingernails!
I see my friends looking at my
A Detecting Diva’s point of viewBy
Ally
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Allyson Cohen is a successful American detectorist with a wicked sense of humour – or humor ifyou are from the Bill Gates School of Spelling and Grammar. In this short article she explores someof the ‘difficulties’ often encountered by female detectorista (cheerful girls with dirty nails and mudon their shoes). Although the problems may be seen as universal, the text has been adjusted foran English audience.
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hands in an odd I can’t believe she goesaround like that sort of way. On occasionI’ve found myself looking longingly at theirperfectly manicured and polished nails …but it’s a short-lived longing, because Iknow that detecting is so much more funthan painting my nails!
Bathrooms: Where are the bathrooms? I actively seekout female friendly places. You know what I mean! Many times I’ve suggested a sitemuch closer to home – to the obviousdissatisfaction of my hunting buddy (Dad). I admit to sussing out a potential site for‘facilities’ in the area. I laugh when I think
that as the tree cover at my favourite sitebecomes thinner and thinner after autumn,so did my trips to detect there.
Where would I hide in case of anemergency call of nature? Hey… maybethat’s why my female friends don’t want togo with me? Nah, we would just leave thesite and go to the bathroom together... andthat’s a mystery men will never understand.
The significant other: Okay, try to keep them happy while you are out detecting. Remember that you are sointo swinging you don’t care about cookingmeals, cleaning, and shopping for food. Mytypically clean home can fall apart and Icouldn’t care less if I’ve got my detector in hand. I usually come back to my senseswhen I arrive home and realise I’ve justtracked mud through the house and thenhave to vacuum.
Of course when I’m detecting and mymobile rings with one of those frequent and plaintive when are you going to be home calls, it can put a damper on the day.Detecting can be addictive, as you wellknow. Those that don’t enjoy it (sometimesour significant others) can become jealous,especially if we give our machinesnicknames like Honey and Best Friend. I have learnt the hard way. This season,
I’m going to try to set time limits for myselfwhilst on a dig. Wish me luck …
The Expense: How do I, as a female, justify spendingmoney on a spade to my friend who insists I need the latest designer handbag, or myboyfriend who thinks my detectingaccessories are a waste of money? If anyoneknows, please tell me. I’m not a beachhunter, so I can’t defend my hobby withfound diamonds and gold.
Weight Control: When my friends are discussing their latestdiet, I just go detecting. Not only is it greatweight control, but also good for my bloodpressure and sense of well being. Thishobby is the best method of losing weightI’ve ever found. I’m not so worried aboutthe six pounds I gained over the winter,because I know as soon as I get out there, it will disappear without me even trying. Go ahead, weigh and measure your foodladies … beep, beep, and beep again!
So fellas – when you spot a detectoristawalking out of the local public loos and sheasks to borrow your mobile – because sheaccidentally smashed hers with a spade whilein the woods – be nice to her … she couldbe your next detecting buddy!
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