Communicating Verbally

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Language is Body of Symbols

Speech Community Use Same Language

Words are Symbols Used by Speech

Community

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We use language to…

Designate, label, define, limit Evaluate Discuss things outside our immediate

experience Talk about language

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Meanings are in people, not words. Words have two levels of meaning:

Denotation and Connotation Meaning varies depending on syntactic

context Language will change over time Language of dominant group absorbs

language from immigrants

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Naming and Identity◦ Influence on elections (Barrack who???) (G.W.

Smith, 1998)◦ Popular names (Steele and Smithwick, 1989) ◦ Names and ethnicity (California statistic) (Fryer

and Levitt, 2004)◦ Name and marriage (unity vs. independence)

Credibility – Dr. Fox hypothesis Status Sexism and Racism

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Low-context Cultures:◦People say what they mean and get right

to the point.◦Clear , eloquent speech is considered

praiseworthy.◦Self expression valued

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High-context Cultures:◦ People present meanings indirectly, and expect

others to use context cues to interpret meaning.◦ Relational Harmony valued and maintained by

indirect expression of opinions.◦ Abstain from saying “no” directly◦ Talk “around” the point by allowing others to fill in

the missing pieces.

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Women (Feminine Styles of Language) Women Tend to Use More Intensifiers (He’s really

cute.) and Hedges Women communicate to build relationships Women use words of empathy and support Discuss feelings, relationships, personal problems Women Ask Questions More Frequently

◦ To Gain More Information

◦ To Get Elaboration

◦ To Determine How Others Feel

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Men (Masculine styles of Language) Use words of status and problem solving Emphasize making conversation fun Communicate to get the job done Offer advice Use statements to exert control, preserve

their independence, enhance their status. Speech is judged more dynamic,

aggressive, and strong.

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As we move from general to specific, we also move from abstract to concrete.

GamblingGames of SkillCard Games

PokerSeven Card Stud

Use Concrete, Precise, and Dated information!

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Adapt vocabulary to listener Avoid jargon Avoid slang Use inclusive language Avoid offensive language

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Equivocal language consists of statements that have more than one commonly accepted definition.

Family catches fire just in timeTrees can break wind

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Relative words gain their meaning by comparison

good chance?unlikely? common?

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Emotive language seems to describe something but actually announces the speaker’s attitude toward it.

I’m not cheap, I am thrifty.

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Euphemism – to use words of good omen

◦ She is “plump” or “thick” or “big-boned”◦ She is NOT “fat”

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