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Page 1: Culture Of Honor Chapter 7 : Chapter 7 : Kingdom Conflict - Part 1 “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do

Culture Of HonorCulture Of HonorChapter 7 : Chapter 7 : Kingdom Conflict - Part 1

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with

punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love,” 1 John 4:18

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1) There will be no culture of ______________ without the active use of effective ______________.

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1) There will be no culture of honor without the active use of effective confrontation.

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2) The skill of combining these two relational elements - honor and confrontation - is the key to sustaining an environment of ______________.

“Therefore you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ,” Galatians 4:7

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2) The skill of combining these two relational elements - honor and confrontation - is the key to sustaining an environment of grace.

“Therefore you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ,” Galatians 4:7

Kingdom Conflict - Part 1

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3) Our context for life has moved from needing a _________________ (external control) to that of being powerful, _______________ sons of the living God.

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3) Our context for life has moved from needing a guardian (external control) to that of being powerful, free sons of the living God.

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4) In the Kingdom, sons and daughters are not only expected to be free, but also to _________________ why they are free and ________________ that freedom towards its purpose - LOVE.

 “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted,” Galatians 6:1

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4) In the Kingdom, sons and daughters are not only expected to be free, but also to understand why they are free and exercise that freedom towards its purpose - LOVE.

 “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted,” Galatians 6:1

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5) ___________________ doesn’t mean nice or polite. The heart of gentleness is the belief that “I do not need to _________________ you.”

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5) Gentleness doesn’t mean nice or polite. The heart of gentleness is the belief that “I do not need to control you.”

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• What happens when other people do not let you control them? Do you become angry?

•  Do you interpret it as dishonor?

• Do you find a way to justify punishing them?

We ask ourselves these questions:

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• What happens when other people do not let you control them? Do you become angry?

•  Do you interpret it as dishonor?

• Do you find a way to justify punishing them?

A “yes” to any of these questions exposes that you still believe the lie that you can and should control people.

We ask ourselves these questions:

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6) Just because we are in revival, Heaven is still a _______________ place, and free people can still make ______________ decisions.

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6) Just because we are in revival, Heaven is still a free place, and free people can still make bad decisions.

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7) Jesus was not _____________ of the messes people made. His love and the way He led people ________________ them to rise above their mistakes.

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7) Jesus was not afraid of the messes people made. His love and the way He led people empowered them to rise above their mistakes.

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8) We need to have empowering ways of managing _____________ in the presence of other people’s problems. We need to ___________ ourselves.

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8) We need to have empowering ways of managing ourselves in the presence of other people’s problems. We need to control ourselves.

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9) Without a priority of self-control, we live in constant ______________ to one another, which creates a culture of __________ and irresponsibility.

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9) Without a priority of self-control, we live in constant reaction to one another, which creates a culture of blame and irresponsibility.

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