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DARE MORE!

Advance Mind Management

Ijaz Ahmed Khan

DARE MORE Approach

• Diagnosis

• Access Leverage and Interrupt Patterns

• Resource Activation

• Eliminating Negative Perception

• Moving on to Powerful Alternatives

• Organising New Behaviours

• Realigning New Actions

• Engaging and Empowering

Diagnosis

• Identifying Beliefs, Values, Roles and Ideals “He thinks I'm not good enough for him anymore” (Mind Reading)

“Its wrong to argue in a relationship”(Global Beliefs)

“if I leave my job now then i won’t be able to find another one quickly enough to pay all my bills and expenses”(Disempowering Cause & Effect Beliefs)

“I am a useless when it comes to planning” (Belief of Identity)

“He never takes me out and is always at work” (Universal Beliefs)

“I mist not take any risks when it comes to money” (Disempowering Rules)

“Money does not grow on trees you know” (Disempowering Metaphors)

• Investigating Limiting Patterns and Behaviours

• Finding the Emotional Wounds and Incidents

Access Leverage and Interrupt Patterns SHAKING THE MODAL OF WORLD

Deleting, Distorting and Generalising the Facts and Reality

Investigation

Belief and Wound Elicitation (SEE and SEP Events)

Interrupting Negative Patterns by Asking Challenging Questions (Shaking the world)

Using Metaphors to Rectify the Beliefs

Self-evaluation and Analysing (Mahasbah)

Out come orientation

Blocks to Success

• Dirty Dozen Fear of ...Failure ,rejection, being abandon, commitment , being judge,being wrong, loss, conflict, not being Enough, being poor, being controlled, Unknown.

6 Deepest Needs

Contribution

Certainty

Uncertainty

Love &

ConnectionSignificance

Growth

Classes of Behaviours to Meeting Needs

CLASSES FEELS GOOD IS GOOD FOR YOU

SERVES OTHERS

SERVESGREATER

GOOD

Classes 1

Classes 2

Classes 3

Classes 4

Resource Activation

Archetypes:

Shadow Self and True SelfBlamer/ Warrior Placater/Lover

Computer/Sage Distracter/Jester

Sovereign

Language:Questions Metaphors Incantation

Anchoring: Quality Questions and Archetypes(True Self)

Eliminate Negative Perception

Amending Perception

V

Re-pattering:

Pain Pleasure

Old Behaviour

Moving on to Powerful Alternatives

InstallingPhysiology

Activated Resources Anchoring

Healing the Past

Change Personal History (Archetypes)

Perceptual Position

Recall pastAnchor StimulusChange StateEvoke State

The Warrior The Lover The Sage The Jester

The SovereignThe Magician

You

Observer

2nd

Person

Organising New Behaviours

I AM.... I CAN....I WILL...

• Working on New Installed Behaviours

• 3 New Empowering Events to looking forward

• 8 Emotions to Fuel my Life

• Meaning of these Events

• My 3 New If....Then Beliefs

• My New Rules to Keep my Mission

• Recovery Strategy

Transform to New Behaviours

Mind Management techniques

Sub-modalities Drivers

Structure Internal Representation

Find Out Elicit Strategy Location/Association Change/Destroy

Dislike to Like Script

Location(how far) colour/Balance Bright/Dim Seeing it moving/Still sound feeling (location/size &shape)

Belief ChangeSwish Patterns

Realigning New Actions

Wheel of Life

Goal Setting Doing it in Active State

•Focus on one area of life

•What excuses did I make

•Not to accept my excuses

Engaging and Empowering

Mental Rehearsal:

Get into Positive State

New Behaviours bring brilliant results

Try and Changing Approach

Feedback and Review

Test all SEE’s to ensure they resolved

Check on progress

Talk about modelling

Create Dream world