discover your own particular personality style · 2019-03-04 · dealing with difficult people...
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Dealing with Difficult people Hello!
I am Audrey Brady2
I am James Ann Sheley
× Learn more about yourself× Learn what "pushes your buttons"× Learn strategies to deal with "difficult"
personalities
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objectives“Always be yourself, express
yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and
look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”
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-Bruce Lee
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Discover your own particular personality style× Your Qualities× Your Characteristics
× Other’s Qualities× Other’s Characteristics
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Orange Green Blue gold
Discover your own particular personality style× First color: Innate color (Nature)× Second color: Learned color (Nurture)× Third & fourth colors: Underdeveloped colors
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Orange Green Blue gold
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rEMEMBER× You are a blend of all the
colors - a spectrum× There are no good or bad
colors× You are a unique person
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qUIZ TIME!
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rEMEMBER× You are a blend of all the
colors - a spectrum× There are no good or bad
colors× You are a unique person
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gOLD pERSONALITYLoyal
Dependable
Prepared
Thorough
Sensible
Punctual
Faithful
Stable
Organized
Caring
Concerned
Helper
Maintain
Handle details
Hard work before play
Traditional
Build long, lasting relationships
Practical in love
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Notable gOLD pERSONALITiesSanta Claus
Harry Truman
Joan Rivers
George Washington
Florence Nightingale
Mr. Rogers
Dr. James Ann Sheley
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oRANGE PERSONALITYWitty
Charming
Spontaneous
Impulsive
Generous
Impactful
Optimistic
Eager
Bold
Physical
Immediate
Courageous
Restless
Independent
Hand-eye coordination
Energized
Extravagant gift giver
Competitive
Trouble fitting in when a kid
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Notable orange personalitiesJFK
James Dean
Rhett Butler
Garfield
Donald Trump
Ernest Hemmingway
Tigger
Audrey Brady
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GREEN PERSONALITYAnalytical
Global
Conceptual
Cool
Calm
Collected
Inventive
Logical
Problem solver
Abstract
Creative
Investigative
Independent thinker
Work is play
Enjoy challenges
Difficulty expressing feelings
When a kid felt older than your years
Questions authority
Questions research
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Notable GREEN PERSONALITiesSocrates
Moses
Benjamin Franklin
Thomas Edison
Katherine Hepburn
Sherlock Holmes
Dwight Eisenhower
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BLUE PERSONALITYEnthusiastic
Sympathetic
Personal
Warm
Communicative
Compassionate
Idealistic
Spiritual
Sincere
Peaceful
Flexible
Imaginative
Influence to help
Work in the arts, education, or helping professions
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Notable BLUE PERSONALITiesMother Teresa
Ghandi
Mozart
Oprah
Sigmund Freud
Jimmy Carter
Martin Luther King Jr.
Julius Ceasar
Mohammed Ali
Abraham Lincoln
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You May Show These Characteristics… Solid Gold Curious Green True Blue Action Orange
Esteemed for… Being Dependable Discovering New Insights
Being a Good Listener
Being Fun and Taking Risks
Stressed by… Lack of Order Feeling Inadequate Feeling Artificial Restrictions
Highest virtue is… Responsibility Objectivity Loyalty Courage
Key characteristics… Being Prepared Ingenuity Authenticity Talent and Skill
On the job… Organizer Pragmatist Peacemaker Energizer
Perception… Structure Abstract Concern Excitement
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You May Show These Characteristics… Solid Gold Curious Green True Blue Action Orange
Primary needs…To Provide Order
andStability
To be Competent and Rational To Care for Others To be Free and
Spontaneous
Longs for… Security Insights and Knowledge
Love and Acceptance Freedom
Strives to foster… Traditional Values Thoughtful Consideration Harmony Fun and Recreation
Specialty is… Accomplishment s and Results
Research and Conceptualizations People Entrepreneurship
Validated by… Being Appreciated Affirming Their Wisdom
Acceptance of Others
Achieving Visible Results
Trust… Authority and Tradition Facts and Logic Intuition and
Feelings Impulses
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Things that Frustrate You…
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Things You Do that Frustrate Others…
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You Like to Receive Praise When…
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You Like to Receive Praise When…
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“Understanding who you are will help
better determine how to handle a situation.”
Storytime!!
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Eight Tips
1. Focus on controlling yourself, not the people around you
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Eight Tips
1. Focus on controlling yourself, not the people around you
2. Resist the urge to complain
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Eight Tips
1. Focus on controlling yourself, not the people around you
2. Resist the urge to complain3. Accept responsibility for how you feel
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Eight Tips
1. Focus on controlling yourself, not the people around you
2. Resist the urge to complain3. Accept responsibility for how you feel4. Don’t waste time on unproductive
thoughts
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Eight Tips
5. Avoid language that implies you’re a victim
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Eight Tips
5. Avoid language that implies you’re a victim
6. Establish healthy boundaries
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Eight Tips
5. Avoid language that implies you’re a victim
6. Establish healthy boundaries7. Practice healthy coping skills
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Eight Tips
5. Avoid language that implies you’re a victim
6. Establish healthy boundaries7. Practice healthy coping skills8. Recognize when YOU’RE the problem
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Reflection Time!
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“SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KNOW WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEIR TRUE COLORS ARE… WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR CORE VALUES AND NEEDS ARE AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEM, YOU CAN PERFORM AT YOUR HIGHEST POTENTIAL IN EVERY AREA OF LIFE. AND WHEN YOU SHARE A WORKING, MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING OF OTHER’ CORE VALUES AND NEEDS, YOU HAVE THE BASIS TO COMMUNICATE, MOTIVATE, AND ACHIEVE COMMON GOALS WITH UTMOST DIGNITY, EFFICACY, AND MUTUAL RESPECT.”
~Don Lowry, creator of True Colors.
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× Learn more about yourself× Learn what "pushes your buttons"× Learn strategies to deal with "difficult"
personalities
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THANKS!Any questions?
You can find James Ann Sheley @ [email protected]
You can find Audrey Brady @ [email protected]
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CreditsSpecial thanks to all the people who made and released these awesome resources for free:
× Presentation template by SlidesCarnival× Photographs by Startupstockphotos× http://www.truecolorsworkshops.com/true-colors-personality-types-famou
s-people-history/× https://ces-personnel.ca.uky.edu/files/true_colors_test.pdf× https://cns.utexas.edu/images/CNS/True_Colors_Explanation_Handout_Sp
ring_2016.pdf× https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/7-tactics-mentally-strong-peopl
e-use-handle-toxic-co-workers-ncna970606× http://psychologia.co/four-temperaments/
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