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The following represents 10 highlights from the interview by @MoeAbdou,

founder & host of 33voices®.

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Robin DreekeIn charge of the Federal Bureau of Investigation’s elite Counterintelligence

Behavioral Analysis Program (BAP)

@rdreeke

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You can spot a great communicator

without hearing a word.You feel their presence because:

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You can spot a great communicator

without hearing a word.You feel their presence because:

They’re likely smiling

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You can spot a great communicator

without hearing a word.You feel their presence because:

Keeping their chin angle a bit lower

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You can spot a great communicator

without hearing a word.You feel their presence because:

And tend to have their palms up

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Genuineness is the key to connecting with anyone;start by reframing the situation in your own mind.

Instead of meeting a client, approach it as if you’re meeting a friend to extend a great opportunity.

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It’s always a great rule of thumb to never talk about yourself early on in a relationship.

you’re there to learn about their priorities and interests.

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An artificial time constraint establishes boundaries.

set it and always honor it.

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There is a direct correlation between the quality of the questions you ask

and the credibility you earn.make them relevant to the person’s highest priorities and interests.

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Early on in a relationship, questions that highlight potential challenges

your client is facing keep the conversation focused and personal.

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Your tempo and pace is determined by the demographic of your audience.identify it and then speak slightly lower and slower.

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When you’re selling a new and unproven idea,

give gifts.Reciprocal altruism empowers your audience

to share candid feedback.

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When you’re selling a new and unproven idea,

give gifts.Reciprocal altruism empowers your audience

to share candid feedback.

33voicesRobin Dreeke - Selling A New, Unproven Idea

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On the social web, be cautious not to take sides on issues;it’s could unwillingly alienate the side that doesn’t agree.

instead, share research.

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Reciprocity works when you learn to give and let go.do it openly and your rewards will multiply.

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Really reflect...

Before your next important client meeting, trying asking:

what are the key results I’m trying to accomplish?why should they do it from their perspective?

Really reflect...


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