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HUMAN COMPENTENCE
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Concept of learning
How to learn
Downshifting
Pavlovian Effect
Stress and
Emotional
Motivation
Self Confidence,
Self Esteem
Bonding
Matrix
Alphabet
Language
Self
Esteem
Who
I am=
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+ VE Love Security Safety Acquire & Lovely:-Knowledge-Good things- Skill
Some of wonderwhat, how, why?
- VE Angry Fear
BahasaEmosi
Dont care
Survival
IKPAM
Maruah Diri
Keyakinan Diri
Berlimu/Beriman
Berakal
Amalan
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KECERDASAN EMOSI
95% Student of University Harvard (Pelajar-pelajar
yang mempunyai IQ tinggi)
Menilai kejayaan dalam hidup
Pendapatan
Productivity
Status
Kebahagiaan
Friendship
Perhubungan keluarga
Perhubungan romantik
IQ RENDAH LEBIH BERJAYA
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Maruah DiriImej DiriKenal DiriTerima DiriHormat DiriDisiplin Diri
Tawadhu
15% Cognitive(conscious )85% Emotion (Unconscious)BerterusanKekal jika dalam bentuk
6 bulan pertamaBoleh digunakan padabila masaEmotional Alphabet
TenteramSafetyLovely
Membentuk:
Daya Intelekyangberlandaskan
kemuliaan
Membentuk:Jiwa (Innerset)PerwatakanKeperibadian
PerangaiBahasa Emosi
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THE GOAL OF THE PROGRAM
Self Esteem Self Identity
Security/ Confidence
Self Discipline
Thought/Mind skills
To over come problem
To create new thing/
solutions
To over come desire
Spiritual
ProductiveCreative
Responsible
Vision
ExcellentGood Person
Knowledge
Spirituality
Religion, knowledge &
PracticeThought & thinking
Continues to seek new
knowledge and skill
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Anak yang sentiasa suka, gembira dan jarang sedih
Ada minat tertentu
Boleh BERINTERAKSI dengan orang lain
Boleh bekerjasama
Suka pada BUKU, suka pada ilmu
Suka BERTANYA, suka MENEROKA dan MENCUBA yangBARU
THE GOAL OF THE PROGRAM
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Ada maruah diri yang TINGGI
Ada perasaan MALU
Mengenali dan mengamalkan ADAB dan PERATURAN
SUKA kepada benda-benda yang baik berguna dan
sebaliknya
Suka kepada keindahan
Anak yang berangan-angan dan kreatif
THE GOAL OF THE PROGRAM
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Sedar kepada PERSEKITARAN
Boleh BERSELOROH dan SENANG KETAWA
CERDIK dan PINTAR Anak yang BERFIKIR
Boleh mengatasi MASALAH
Boleh mengatasi EMOSI
Anak yang PRODUKTIF
Suka membuat sesuatu dengan BAIK dan CERMAT
THE GOAL OF THE PROGRAM
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Self confidence
Kebolehan/Kepakaran
Ibubapa sebagai model
Safety
Security
Love
Thought
Spiritual
Practice
Safety
Security
Love
I am me
KnowledgeLove
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MATRIX
MOTHER
SAFESECURELOVE
EMOTIONALALPHABET
EMOTIONALLANGUAGE
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Kekayaan DiriMembina Identiti Diri
Maruah Diri
Tepat
JelasTrueTidak keliruIkhlasLoveYakin
DEFINITION Mata Bertemu MataSama RataWujudkan:SafeSecureLove
BahagiaSenyap
Khusyuk
CARA
Mengawal DiriIdentiti Saya adalah SayaMengenal OrangMengawal Persekitaran
Rasa Selamat
Mengenal Matriks
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membantu anak:
Can manage feeling of jealous, high
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ALWAYS
AVOID
HUG
KISS
STROKE
PAMPER
BEATING
PINCHING
SLAPPING
KICKING
PHYSICAL
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FACIAL EXPRESSION
ALWAYS
AVOID
SWEET
SMILE
RELAX
MASAM
KEDUT
SESAK
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SPEECH AND LANGUAGE
MENYATAKAN KASIH SAYANG
MENINGKATKAN SILATURAHIM
MENYAMPAIKAN ILMU
RASA BERSYUKUR
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Mata bertemu mata Ikhlas - holistik
Dengar dengan empathy- terbuka Faham apa yang didengar - timbang
kedua-dua positif dan negatif
Jangan tergesa-gesa,terburu- buru. Fikir -timbang sebelum bertindak
WHEN COMMUNICATING
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WHEN COMMUNICATING
PILIH PERKATAAN YANG BAIK- Menjatuhkan air muka
- Menyebabkan marah / kecil hati
Be ready to say SORRY and also to accept apologizes
Do not have the attitude I know better or I know best
TOUCHING: - That heals
- That gives some of security
- That gives feeling of confidence
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NO
CANNOT
DONTS(DIRECTLY)
Dont cry, or the police will come for you.
Dont climb or you will break your legs.
Dont play with the water or you will get the fever.
Dont take the glass or I will beat you, stubborn!
(INDIRECT)
Dont go in the room as
Eee its dark .
Dont take !, or I will break yourhand!
Dont repeat this, or I will give you away
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Praise his effort or Achievement
Dont praise his personality and behavior
Use phrase or sentence which will make thechild aware of his personality himself.
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SUCCES IS THE BASIS FOR
MOTIVATION
FAILURE IS THE BASIS FOR
DEMOTIVATION
LOSS OF MOTIVATION
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FAHAM TUGAS DANTANGGUNGJAWAB
PEROLEHIPENGETAHUAN
KEMAHIRAN DAN
AMALKAN
TERUS MEMPEROLEHIMENGETAHUAN BARU
MEMAHAMI ANAK DANBELAJAR DARINYA
SAYANGKAN ANAKSAYANGKAN ANAKSAYANGKAN ANAK
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HOW DOES THE BRAIN DEVELOP?
THROUGH LEARNING
HOW DOES THE BRAIN LEARN:-
Hearing Seeing Touching Speech &
Language Movements Manipulation
15% Unconscious
85% Conscious
THROUGH
EMOTIONS
INTUITION
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PATTERNING = MEMORY
PHYSICAL
BIOCHEMISTRY
BEHAVIOUR
SELF ESTEEM
INTEREST/ NO INTEREST
GOOD/ BAD
FROM ADULTS
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RECEIVE
INFORMATION
STORE THE
INFORMATION
USE THE
INFORMATION
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MOTIVATION
SELF ESTEEM
GOOD AND BAD
INNER STRENGHT
BERANI
KNOWLEDGE
SKILL
CONTINUE TO
SUCCES
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CANNOT GIVE
ONLY RECEIVE
(NO GUILTY FEELINGS)
NO CONSCIENCE
LEARNING
PROBLEM
SELF
PUNISHMENT
HYPER
ACTIVE
NO EYECONTACED
IBUBAPA
HYPERACTIVE
TO STEAL
TO LIE
LIKE TOTOUCH,TO BULLY,TO DESTROY:
other people things animals
ALWAYS TESTING /BAITING)NO(INTERNALISEDDEVELOPMENT) behaves like a little child impulsive Self-centered
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When I was little, I came to youFor your hugs, for your love
But all that I get was a Teddy bearInstead of you
I come to you againWhen I needed you, when I was confused or sadI wanted your advise, your guidance
Most of all to feel your loveTo see your smile
To hear your beautiful voiceI yearned for your hugs
I yearned to hear you sayI love you
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But all I get, were chocolates,
sweet and toys
To replace youMy little brain was always asking
What is that mummy, why is that mummyWhat is that Daddy, why is that daddy
I wanted to explore the worldAs I wanted to know and understand the worldSo that I know who am I?
But most of the time, daddy was tiredand mummy was too busy
Or both just said we dont knowYou are supposed to learn all that in school
And moreover, I have given you everything
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What else do you wantI Was only in the car with you
On my way to or from the neighbours houseor the nursery school
Even then, it was not often as most of the timeI was sent by someone
Someone who was not youAnd in the car,
I was usually tired and both of you were both tiredSoon TV, video, cartoons and computer
Became my best friends, As they make me happyThey also made me feel goodThey therefore replaced you
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Mummy and daddyNow I am grown up
You too Mummy and DaddyAre now advance in yearsIt is now my turn to take you in the car
Everything again is SILENTAll that I ask you,
What do you want to eat,where do you want to goOr which doctor you want to see
As for me,I continue to play with my toys
Now in the form of my hand phone,my golf stick,And of course with my car etc.
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Only now you want toYou want to reach me, to tell me you love me,
But I dont understand it.Because you never taught me
The language of loveI am sorry, I cant appreciate it, because even now
I do not know who I amBecause you have failed
To make me know ME
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