effective communications from effective evaluations tm 602
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A Unique Learning Activity
• We Improve Using the Toastmaster System of Evaluation
• There is No One Instructor– We Take Turns Evaluating Each Other’s
Speeches.– Peer Review
Effective Evaluation Helps The Club
• Positive Climate
• Develops Role Models
• Creates Success-Oriented Atmosphere
• High Standards of Excellence
• Increased Attendance
Effective Evaluation Helps The Speaker
• Powerful / Timely Learning Aid
• Paves the Way to Better Speaking
• Recognition / Ego-fulfillment
• Positive Motivation
• Builds / Maintains Self-Esteem
Effective Evaluations Helps The Evaluator
• Develops Listening Skills
• Attitude of Helpful Interest
• Positive Interpersonal Relationships
• Builds Impromptu Speaking Skills
How Do We Improve ?
• Step 1 - Make an Act of Behavior
• Step 2 - Receive Feedback
• Step 3 - Make Adjustments
• Repeat Steps 1, 2, and 3
Facts On Self-Improvement
• Improvement Requires Behavioral Change
• Evaluation is A Source of Information
• Ultimate Responsibility Lies With the Speaker
As the Speaker
• WE Decide Whether or Not The Evaluation & Feedback is Valid
• WE Decide Whether or Not To Act On The Feedback
• WE Decide To Make Any Adjustments
As The Evaluator
• Our Function is To Provide The Speaker With Information As A Basis for Improvement
• We Independently Measure Effectiveness
• We Can Not Make The Speaker Change Behavior
Evaluator and Motivator
• Human Motivation Must Come From Within
• But, as an Evaluator We Help Create a Climate for Motivation by
– Recognizing Improvement
– Reinforcing Desire
Evaluator as a Facilitator
• How Can The Speaker Improve ?
• Facilitate Learning By Providing Methods for Improvement
Evaluation vs. Criticism
• A Critic Simply Identifies Strengths and Weaknesses
• An Evaluator Must Concentrate on Specific Methods of Improvement
• An Evaluator is a– Coach– Mentor– Counselor
Self-Esteem
• Self-esteem = Key to Personal Growth
• When We Evaluate– We Have The Power To Influence How
The Speaker Feels About Himself or Herself
• A Effective Evaluation Builds and Maintains a Healthy Self-esteem
• A Bad Evaluation Can Damage It!
Self-esteem Fuels Personal Growth
• “Change and Growth Take Place When A Person Risks Himself and Dares To Experiment With His Own Life.”- Dr. Herbert Otto
Feedback Reinforces Personal Growth
• Feedback Affirms or Reinforces Our Behavior
• We Grow In A Positive Way
• We Adopt New Behaviors
• We Are Ready for More Change
Personal Growth Nourishes Self-esteem
• When Improvements are Recognized
• When We Feel Good About Ourselves
• When We Feel Better and More Confident
• Self-Esteem Grows
Four Steps - in a Circle
• Self-esteem fuels Personal Growth
• Feedback Reinforces Personal Growth
• Personal Growth Nourishes Self-esteem
• More Self-esteem Generates More Growth.
Evaluation is Part of the Growth Process
• An Effective Evaluation Points Us Toward Personal Growth
• Builds Self-esteem, Motivating us to Grow Even More
Evaluation Guidelines
• Be Genuine
• Recognize Strengths
• Recognize Improvements
• Create a Climate for Self-motivation
• Avoid Value Judgments
• Provide Positive Direction
Keys for Effective Evaluation
• Show That You Care
• Suit Your Evaluation To The Speaker
• Learn the Speaker’s Objectives
• Listen Actively
• Personalize Your Language
More Keys
• Give Positive Reinforcement
• Help the Speaker Become Motivated
• Evaluate the Behavior - Not The Person
• Nourish Self-esteem
• Show The Speaker How To Improve
Evaluation Structure
• Opening - What Were the Objectives
• Body– Things Done Well– Things For Improvement– Suggestions - How You Might Do It
• Closing - Summarize– Finish or Leave on an Up Note
Evaluation Checklist
• Things Pleasing to the Eyes– Speakers Appearance– Eye Contact– Gestures– Body Language
Evaluating the Ice Breaker
• Show that You Were Listening
• Emphasize the Good
• One Item to Grow On
• Offer some “How To” Ideas