el girasol ~ fall 2012 edition
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Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated's Alumnae Association bring to you our National Sorority Magazine. This issue is focused on (S)heroism and Domestic Violence Awareness.TRANSCRIPT
October 2012 El Girasol 1
Volume XIII Issue III Fall 2012
Omega Phi Betarsquos National Sorority Magazine
2 El Girasol October 2012
In EvEry IssuELetter from the Alumnae Association President 3Letter from the Editor 4
Staying Connected to AA 5
To Be Politically Inclined 19
Beta Cookinrsquo 21
Beta Mommies Updates 25
Know your Rights The Great Booby Debate 26
Day to Night Make-Up Tutorial 28
Sunshine Corner 30
Beta Celebrations 36
Beta Brides 37
Table of Contents
Alumnae Association Mission Statement
Omega Phi Betarsquos Alumnae Association serves as the
representing body of all non-affiliated alumnae of the sorority
Our mission is to engage our alumnae in the mission vision and
goals of the sorority create a sense of community and support our alumnae in all areas of lives
National Conference 2012 6
OPBSI Nationol Rememberance Day 10
Bringing Sisterhood to the Forefront 11
Domestic Violence Awareness Events 12
ldquoLove Doesnt Hurtrdquo Mini Walk 14
Unity and Support Amongst Greeks 15
Upcoming Events and Service Opportunities 16
Region 2 Retreat 31
RFTG Scholarship Winner 38
New Beta Business 35
Important Anit-Violence Resources 20Beta Yellow Pages 40Chapters and Colonies 41
Hispanic Heritage Month Spotlight 18(S)heroism Happens Everyday 22Our Editorrsquos (S)heros 24Facing Fearlessness 29To the woman who had a hand in my success 32The (S)hero in all of Us 34
sororIty HIgHlIgHts
FEaturE artIclEs
BEta rEsourcEs
How wonderful
it is that nobody
need wait a single
moment before
starting to improve
the world
~ Anne Frank ~
October 2012 El Girasol 3
Contributing Editors Fall 2012 Edition
Sherlene AyalaYvette Lopez-Colgon
Claribel CrewsVirginia Rivas Lozada
Kristen SepulvedaJane Vega
Dr Cassandra St Vil
Contact us We love to hear your feedback tell us your thoughts comments
concerns kudos shoutouts or submit an article
EmailOPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Subcribe to El GirasolhttpissuucomOPBSI_ElGirasol
Editor in ChiefSelina HernandezManaging EditorAmanda Crane
Copy EditorMarielys Garcia
Design EditorDesiree Henry
The StaffThe Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority
Inc (OPBSI) in collaboration with the staff of El Girasol want to formally WELCOME you to our first ever public edition After serving our members for over 20 years we decided it was time to share all the great things OPBSI is doing with our family friends and the community
We hope that you enjoy this edition and use this as an opportunity to reflect on the topics discussed This edition proves to be chockfull of great topics that not only shows you the commitment that our members have to advancing the community but we also hope it will help spark some dialogue in your respective communities
With the elections coming up see what OPBSI has done to be politically inclined in this day and age of uncertainty-be comforted by the stories of sisters sharing who their s-heros are and why and most importantly in honor of our national philanthropy (raising awareness of violence against women) we hope that you learn more about what OPBSI is doing to further advance the cause and what resources are available to you
Amanda Crane Iota Spring 2000
Alumnae Association President
Welcome
We hope you enjoy and we look forward to sharing the next
edition with you this upcoming December
4 El Girasol October 2012
Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated a NALFO organization member is a Latina-oriented sorority
founded on March 15 1989 at the University at Albany
State University of New York Seventeen women of various ethnic and cultural
backgrounds came together to defy the injustices suffered
by women particularly women of color in the
academic professional and political arenas
The purpose of OPBSI is to serve and educate people of diverse backgrounds through sisterhood leadership and guidance As positive role models we promote unity of all cultures focus on the
empowerment of our gender and raise the standards of
excellence in our academic social and personal
endeavors
For further information visit wwwOmegaPhiBetaorg
From the Editor
Selina HernandezAlpha Beta Fall 1999
Alpha Beta Chapter President
Hello and Welcome to our very first public online issue of El Girasol
Our team is so excited to be opening our magazine up to new readers and hope that you enjoy the content
So much has happened in the past few years and things are continuing to evolve--we offically turned into an online magazine on January 2011 and now in October 2012 are inviting a new audience We hope that El Girasol not only provides you with creative and interesting content but can also serve as a resource to you
The overall theme of this issue is She-roism and Heroism
Shero- Blend of She and Hero A hero for womenrsquos rights or a woman regarded as a hero
Heroine- A woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities
October is a month chock full of events for our organization especially as it relates to spreading awareness of violence against women in the hopes that one day it wonrsquot be a prevalent issue Whether it is for this very important philanthropic effort important social views highlighting Hispanic Heritage month or highlighting issues concerning mothers and so much more this issue is overflowing with Sheros
The sheros I speak of are not like that in a novel or film but real woman of diverse backgrounds that are striving to be better and make a difference in their community These women are mothers doctors teachers social workers lawyers writers students--role models (whether they know it or not) and yes Sheros
Please enjoy this issue and pass it on to your friends
Omega Phi Beta Sorority IncServing and educating through our diversity
wwwmerriam-webstercomdictionary
October 2012 El Girasol 5
Staying ConneCted to aa
Beta HummerThe Beta Hummer is a biweekly
events newsletter that is published electronically on the 15th and 30th of each month Itrsquos main purpose is to keep the sisterhood informed of National and Local Events The
publication will also include links to our LinkedIn group for job postings and any announcements sent by
individual sisters such as apartment hunt inquiries
Contact VP of Programming atProgrammingOmegaPhiBetaorg
to get added
Once you become an alumna you are removed from your chapterrsquos alias and only receive OPBSI emails if you elect to
sign up for any of the following communication tools
Do you tweet Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
Get LinkeDin witH oPBSi Job postings virtual networking
and professional devolpment opportunities Join the Omega Phi
Beta LinkedIn Group today
aa newSLetterAA collects the emails of alumnae and adds it to their distribution list If you are not on the list or know an alumna who
would like to be added contact us atAlumnaeOmegaPhiBetaorg
montHLy Buzz
Stay connected with OPBSI National updates via the Monthly Buzz To subscribe to the BUZZ mailing list email ExecVPOmegaPhiBetaorgSHare PHotoS
on inStaGram Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
2 El Girasol October 2012
In EvEry IssuELetter from the Alumnae Association President 3Letter from the Editor 4
Staying Connected to AA 5
To Be Politically Inclined 19
Beta Cookinrsquo 21
Beta Mommies Updates 25
Know your Rights The Great Booby Debate 26
Day to Night Make-Up Tutorial 28
Sunshine Corner 30
Beta Celebrations 36
Beta Brides 37
Table of Contents
Alumnae Association Mission Statement
Omega Phi Betarsquos Alumnae Association serves as the
representing body of all non-affiliated alumnae of the sorority
Our mission is to engage our alumnae in the mission vision and
goals of the sorority create a sense of community and support our alumnae in all areas of lives
National Conference 2012 6
OPBSI Nationol Rememberance Day 10
Bringing Sisterhood to the Forefront 11
Domestic Violence Awareness Events 12
ldquoLove Doesnt Hurtrdquo Mini Walk 14
Unity and Support Amongst Greeks 15
Upcoming Events and Service Opportunities 16
Region 2 Retreat 31
RFTG Scholarship Winner 38
New Beta Business 35
Important Anit-Violence Resources 20Beta Yellow Pages 40Chapters and Colonies 41
Hispanic Heritage Month Spotlight 18(S)heroism Happens Everyday 22Our Editorrsquos (S)heros 24Facing Fearlessness 29To the woman who had a hand in my success 32The (S)hero in all of Us 34
sororIty HIgHlIgHts
FEaturE artIclEs
BEta rEsourcEs
How wonderful
it is that nobody
need wait a single
moment before
starting to improve
the world
~ Anne Frank ~
October 2012 El Girasol 3
Contributing Editors Fall 2012 Edition
Sherlene AyalaYvette Lopez-Colgon
Claribel CrewsVirginia Rivas Lozada
Kristen SepulvedaJane Vega
Dr Cassandra St Vil
Contact us We love to hear your feedback tell us your thoughts comments
concerns kudos shoutouts or submit an article
EmailOPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Subcribe to El GirasolhttpissuucomOPBSI_ElGirasol
Editor in ChiefSelina HernandezManaging EditorAmanda Crane
Copy EditorMarielys Garcia
Design EditorDesiree Henry
The StaffThe Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority
Inc (OPBSI) in collaboration with the staff of El Girasol want to formally WELCOME you to our first ever public edition After serving our members for over 20 years we decided it was time to share all the great things OPBSI is doing with our family friends and the community
We hope that you enjoy this edition and use this as an opportunity to reflect on the topics discussed This edition proves to be chockfull of great topics that not only shows you the commitment that our members have to advancing the community but we also hope it will help spark some dialogue in your respective communities
With the elections coming up see what OPBSI has done to be politically inclined in this day and age of uncertainty-be comforted by the stories of sisters sharing who their s-heros are and why and most importantly in honor of our national philanthropy (raising awareness of violence against women) we hope that you learn more about what OPBSI is doing to further advance the cause and what resources are available to you
Amanda Crane Iota Spring 2000
Alumnae Association President
Welcome
We hope you enjoy and we look forward to sharing the next
edition with you this upcoming December
4 El Girasol October 2012
Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated a NALFO organization member is a Latina-oriented sorority
founded on March 15 1989 at the University at Albany
State University of New York Seventeen women of various ethnic and cultural
backgrounds came together to defy the injustices suffered
by women particularly women of color in the
academic professional and political arenas
The purpose of OPBSI is to serve and educate people of diverse backgrounds through sisterhood leadership and guidance As positive role models we promote unity of all cultures focus on the
empowerment of our gender and raise the standards of
excellence in our academic social and personal
endeavors
For further information visit wwwOmegaPhiBetaorg
From the Editor
Selina HernandezAlpha Beta Fall 1999
Alpha Beta Chapter President
Hello and Welcome to our very first public online issue of El Girasol
Our team is so excited to be opening our magazine up to new readers and hope that you enjoy the content
So much has happened in the past few years and things are continuing to evolve--we offically turned into an online magazine on January 2011 and now in October 2012 are inviting a new audience We hope that El Girasol not only provides you with creative and interesting content but can also serve as a resource to you
The overall theme of this issue is She-roism and Heroism
Shero- Blend of She and Hero A hero for womenrsquos rights or a woman regarded as a hero
Heroine- A woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities
October is a month chock full of events for our organization especially as it relates to spreading awareness of violence against women in the hopes that one day it wonrsquot be a prevalent issue Whether it is for this very important philanthropic effort important social views highlighting Hispanic Heritage month or highlighting issues concerning mothers and so much more this issue is overflowing with Sheros
The sheros I speak of are not like that in a novel or film but real woman of diverse backgrounds that are striving to be better and make a difference in their community These women are mothers doctors teachers social workers lawyers writers students--role models (whether they know it or not) and yes Sheros
Please enjoy this issue and pass it on to your friends
Omega Phi Beta Sorority IncServing and educating through our diversity
wwwmerriam-webstercomdictionary
October 2012 El Girasol 5
Staying ConneCted to aa
Beta HummerThe Beta Hummer is a biweekly
events newsletter that is published electronically on the 15th and 30th of each month Itrsquos main purpose is to keep the sisterhood informed of National and Local Events The
publication will also include links to our LinkedIn group for job postings and any announcements sent by
individual sisters such as apartment hunt inquiries
Contact VP of Programming atProgrammingOmegaPhiBetaorg
to get added
Once you become an alumna you are removed from your chapterrsquos alias and only receive OPBSI emails if you elect to
sign up for any of the following communication tools
Do you tweet Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
Get LinkeDin witH oPBSi Job postings virtual networking
and professional devolpment opportunities Join the Omega Phi
Beta LinkedIn Group today
aa newSLetterAA collects the emails of alumnae and adds it to their distribution list If you are not on the list or know an alumna who
would like to be added contact us atAlumnaeOmegaPhiBetaorg
montHLy Buzz
Stay connected with OPBSI National updates via the Monthly Buzz To subscribe to the BUZZ mailing list email ExecVPOmegaPhiBetaorgSHare PHotoS
on inStaGram Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
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Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 3
Contributing Editors Fall 2012 Edition
Sherlene AyalaYvette Lopez-Colgon
Claribel CrewsVirginia Rivas Lozada
Kristen SepulvedaJane Vega
Dr Cassandra St Vil
Contact us We love to hear your feedback tell us your thoughts comments
concerns kudos shoutouts or submit an article
EmailOPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Subcribe to El GirasolhttpissuucomOPBSI_ElGirasol
Editor in ChiefSelina HernandezManaging EditorAmanda Crane
Copy EditorMarielys Garcia
Design EditorDesiree Henry
The StaffThe Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority
Inc (OPBSI) in collaboration with the staff of El Girasol want to formally WELCOME you to our first ever public edition After serving our members for over 20 years we decided it was time to share all the great things OPBSI is doing with our family friends and the community
We hope that you enjoy this edition and use this as an opportunity to reflect on the topics discussed This edition proves to be chockfull of great topics that not only shows you the commitment that our members have to advancing the community but we also hope it will help spark some dialogue in your respective communities
With the elections coming up see what OPBSI has done to be politically inclined in this day and age of uncertainty-be comforted by the stories of sisters sharing who their s-heros are and why and most importantly in honor of our national philanthropy (raising awareness of violence against women) we hope that you learn more about what OPBSI is doing to further advance the cause and what resources are available to you
Amanda Crane Iota Spring 2000
Alumnae Association President
Welcome
We hope you enjoy and we look forward to sharing the next
edition with you this upcoming December
4 El Girasol October 2012
Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated a NALFO organization member is a Latina-oriented sorority
founded on March 15 1989 at the University at Albany
State University of New York Seventeen women of various ethnic and cultural
backgrounds came together to defy the injustices suffered
by women particularly women of color in the
academic professional and political arenas
The purpose of OPBSI is to serve and educate people of diverse backgrounds through sisterhood leadership and guidance As positive role models we promote unity of all cultures focus on the
empowerment of our gender and raise the standards of
excellence in our academic social and personal
endeavors
For further information visit wwwOmegaPhiBetaorg
From the Editor
Selina HernandezAlpha Beta Fall 1999
Alpha Beta Chapter President
Hello and Welcome to our very first public online issue of El Girasol
Our team is so excited to be opening our magazine up to new readers and hope that you enjoy the content
So much has happened in the past few years and things are continuing to evolve--we offically turned into an online magazine on January 2011 and now in October 2012 are inviting a new audience We hope that El Girasol not only provides you with creative and interesting content but can also serve as a resource to you
The overall theme of this issue is She-roism and Heroism
Shero- Blend of She and Hero A hero for womenrsquos rights or a woman regarded as a hero
Heroine- A woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities
October is a month chock full of events for our organization especially as it relates to spreading awareness of violence against women in the hopes that one day it wonrsquot be a prevalent issue Whether it is for this very important philanthropic effort important social views highlighting Hispanic Heritage month or highlighting issues concerning mothers and so much more this issue is overflowing with Sheros
The sheros I speak of are not like that in a novel or film but real woman of diverse backgrounds that are striving to be better and make a difference in their community These women are mothers doctors teachers social workers lawyers writers students--role models (whether they know it or not) and yes Sheros
Please enjoy this issue and pass it on to your friends
Omega Phi Beta Sorority IncServing and educating through our diversity
wwwmerriam-webstercomdictionary
October 2012 El Girasol 5
Staying ConneCted to aa
Beta HummerThe Beta Hummer is a biweekly
events newsletter that is published electronically on the 15th and 30th of each month Itrsquos main purpose is to keep the sisterhood informed of National and Local Events The
publication will also include links to our LinkedIn group for job postings and any announcements sent by
individual sisters such as apartment hunt inquiries
Contact VP of Programming atProgrammingOmegaPhiBetaorg
to get added
Once you become an alumna you are removed from your chapterrsquos alias and only receive OPBSI emails if you elect to
sign up for any of the following communication tools
Do you tweet Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
Get LinkeDin witH oPBSi Job postings virtual networking
and professional devolpment opportunities Join the Omega Phi
Beta LinkedIn Group today
aa newSLetterAA collects the emails of alumnae and adds it to their distribution list If you are not on the list or know an alumna who
would like to be added contact us atAlumnaeOmegaPhiBetaorg
montHLy Buzz
Stay connected with OPBSI National updates via the Monthly Buzz To subscribe to the BUZZ mailing list email ExecVPOmegaPhiBetaorgSHare PHotoS
on inStaGram Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
4 El Girasol October 2012
Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated a NALFO organization member is a Latina-oriented sorority
founded on March 15 1989 at the University at Albany
State University of New York Seventeen women of various ethnic and cultural
backgrounds came together to defy the injustices suffered
by women particularly women of color in the
academic professional and political arenas
The purpose of OPBSI is to serve and educate people of diverse backgrounds through sisterhood leadership and guidance As positive role models we promote unity of all cultures focus on the
empowerment of our gender and raise the standards of
excellence in our academic social and personal
endeavors
For further information visit wwwOmegaPhiBetaorg
From the Editor
Selina HernandezAlpha Beta Fall 1999
Alpha Beta Chapter President
Hello and Welcome to our very first public online issue of El Girasol
Our team is so excited to be opening our magazine up to new readers and hope that you enjoy the content
So much has happened in the past few years and things are continuing to evolve--we offically turned into an online magazine on January 2011 and now in October 2012 are inviting a new audience We hope that El Girasol not only provides you with creative and interesting content but can also serve as a resource to you
The overall theme of this issue is She-roism and Heroism
Shero- Blend of She and Hero A hero for womenrsquos rights or a woman regarded as a hero
Heroine- A woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities
October is a month chock full of events for our organization especially as it relates to spreading awareness of violence against women in the hopes that one day it wonrsquot be a prevalent issue Whether it is for this very important philanthropic effort important social views highlighting Hispanic Heritage month or highlighting issues concerning mothers and so much more this issue is overflowing with Sheros
The sheros I speak of are not like that in a novel or film but real woman of diverse backgrounds that are striving to be better and make a difference in their community These women are mothers doctors teachers social workers lawyers writers students--role models (whether they know it or not) and yes Sheros
Please enjoy this issue and pass it on to your friends
Omega Phi Beta Sorority IncServing and educating through our diversity
wwwmerriam-webstercomdictionary
October 2012 El Girasol 5
Staying ConneCted to aa
Beta HummerThe Beta Hummer is a biweekly
events newsletter that is published electronically on the 15th and 30th of each month Itrsquos main purpose is to keep the sisterhood informed of National and Local Events The
publication will also include links to our LinkedIn group for job postings and any announcements sent by
individual sisters such as apartment hunt inquiries
Contact VP of Programming atProgrammingOmegaPhiBetaorg
to get added
Once you become an alumna you are removed from your chapterrsquos alias and only receive OPBSI emails if you elect to
sign up for any of the following communication tools
Do you tweet Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
Get LinkeDin witH oPBSi Job postings virtual networking
and professional devolpment opportunities Join the Omega Phi
Beta LinkedIn Group today
aa newSLetterAA collects the emails of alumnae and adds it to their distribution list If you are not on the list or know an alumna who
would like to be added contact us atAlumnaeOmegaPhiBetaorg
montHLy Buzz
Stay connected with OPBSI National updates via the Monthly Buzz To subscribe to the BUZZ mailing list email ExecVPOmegaPhiBetaorgSHare PHotoS
on inStaGram Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 5
Staying ConneCted to aa
Beta HummerThe Beta Hummer is a biweekly
events newsletter that is published electronically on the 15th and 30th of each month Itrsquos main purpose is to keep the sisterhood informed of National and Local Events The
publication will also include links to our LinkedIn group for job postings and any announcements sent by
individual sisters such as apartment hunt inquiries
Contact VP of Programming atProgrammingOmegaPhiBetaorg
to get added
Once you become an alumna you are removed from your chapterrsquos alias and only receive OPBSI emails if you elect to
sign up for any of the following communication tools
Do you tweet Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
Get LinkeDin witH oPBSi Job postings virtual networking
and professional devolpment opportunities Join the Omega Phi
Beta LinkedIn Group today
aa newSLetterAA collects the emails of alumnae and adds it to their distribution list If you are not on the list or know an alumna who
would like to be added contact us atAlumnaeOmegaPhiBetaorg
montHLy Buzz
Stay connected with OPBSI National updates via the Monthly Buzz To subscribe to the BUZZ mailing list email ExecVPOmegaPhiBetaorgSHare PHotoS
on inStaGram Follow us OPBSI_Alumnae for the
latest updates on AA activities
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
6 El Girasol October 2012
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo Sorors from across the nation came together to attend OPBSIrsquos National Conference The sisterhood filled weekend took place from October 5 - October 7 2012 at Theta Chapter in Stony Brook University Stony Brook NY The ldquoRemember Your Rootsrdquo theme resonated throughout the entire weekend where sorors had many opportunities to bond and connect with the very women that inspired them to be a part of this organization and continue help them grow professionally and personally
Over 35 Sisters arrived on Friday evening to a Welcome Reception hosted by Theta Chapter They spent time catching up and playing ldquoBeta Bingordquo an interactive game where sisters get to know each other by asking questions about their lives such as who ldquoPledged more than 10 years agordquo and who ldquoSpeaks three languagesrdquo Winners of the game received gift cards and Diversity Mugs that were donated by Theta Chapter alumnae and Stony Brook Universityrsquos Diversity and Affirmative Action office
WElcomE rEcEptIon HostEd By tHEta cHaptErBy Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
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GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
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1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 7
NatioNal CoNfereNCe ldquoRemember(ing) Your Rootsrdquo
opBsIrsquos natIonal mEEtIng
Sisters were up bright and early for Saturday morningrsquos national business meeting There were many new and exciting announcements including the addition of two new chapters
ConGratuLationS to our new CHaPterSBeta LamBda
University of north CaroLina ChapeL hiLL Beta mU
University of CaLifornia BerkeLey
Sisters also had the opportunity to hear speaker Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma He spoke about the risks academically personally and financially associated with hazing
CongratULations to oUr new nationaL offiCersregionaL direCtor 1
kristina Castorina kappa faLL 2007 regionaL direCtor 4
CLariBeL Crews rhode isLand CoLony faLL 2003
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
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Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
8 El Girasol October 2012
After the conference the Alumnae Association
celebrated its 10 year anniversary by hosting an After
Conference Alumnae Affair in the Brooks Alumni
Room that was attended by over 70 sisters Alumnae
Sisters enjoyed a delicious Italian buffet and open bar
while catching up and reminiscing about about their
favorite sisterhood memories Even sisters who were
unable to attend the morning meetings joined us for
the event many of them remembering the days they
used to attend Stony Brook as undergrads
aFtEr conFErErEnc alumnaE aFFaIr HostEd By tHE alumnaE assocIatIon
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
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Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
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Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
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Food Services
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October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 9
After the Alumnae Affair Theta Chapter undergrads
hosted ldquoBeta Festrdquo a Step Stroll and Dance Exhibition
where they invited organizations from from campus
and the local Stony Brook community to perform Soror
Jessica ldquoRemordquo Saul was the Mistress of Ceremonies
and she did an amazing job There were performaces
by various organizations and a local dance group The
evening was full of fun strolling and lots of laughter
The National meeting culmunated on Sunday afternoon where chapters were awarded for outstanding
programming achievments After which sisters enjoyed some additonal bonding time enjoying the remainder of the weekend
On behalf of Theta Chapter thank you for allowing us to host this yearrsquos conference It truly was a wonderful experience to see so many of our sisters on our campus Spending time with sisters at a place I called home for four years brough many warm memories to light again As an alumnae of Theta Chapter I was extremely proud and humbled to be a part of this
National Conference Until the next timeSoleil
BEta FEst HostEd By tHEta cHaptEr
scavEngEr Hunt WInnEr Lotus M Felix Beta Delta
Chapter Fall 2010 won the Theta Chapter Scavenger Hunt Sisters were challenged to take photos in iconic places and people around Stony Brook for a prize
Congratulations Lotus
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
10 El Girasol October 2012
In Loving Memory ofFounder Renee Padilla
August 21 1970 - October 9 2000
October 9th is OPBSI National Day of Rememberance
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
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9175478650
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 11
Bringing SiSterhood to the ForeFront
Many times as sisters we forget that being a ldquoBetardquo is not all about business This summer sisters from the New England Region decided to take a vacation together We traveled to Saint Maarten and Curacao Both islands were very beautiful and we had tons of fun at each Most importantly we were able to be ldquoBetasrdquo without the business Since we had such a great time we are planning to go on vacation again next year
If you have any questions about either of the islands feel free to contact alphaepsilonomegaphibetaorg
Left to Right Amy Mateo Stacy Dubois Natasha Lopez Anny Munoz amp Claribel Crews
By ClariBel Crews rhode island Colony Fall 2003
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
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FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
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a fundraiser with Soror
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Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
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scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
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If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
12 El Girasol October 2012
OctOber is DOmestic ViOlence AwAreness mOnth
OPBSI has been dedicated to raising awareness of violence against women since its inception in 1989 Sisters throughout the organization participate in many service events that help spread our philathropy From our graduate chapters
to our Colligiate counterparts fundraisers tabling walks and programs are taking place in cities all around the country Through our solidarity we continue to make strides in our communities for change and helping empower women
Congratulations and Kudos to the sisters of the Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Inc for
successfully organizing their wonderful 3rd annual Domestic Violence Awareness
Semiformal Fundraiser Dinner ENCANTO on Saturday October 20 2012 and raising money for Sanctuary for Families of NYC
encAntO educando nueStra comunidad a night oF teaching amp overcoming
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 13
On Sunday October 28 2012 the 1st Annual Ray of Hope Walk to end Violence Against Women
(ROHW) was held in Riverside State Park The 5K walk brought together sisters of Omega Phi
Beta domestic violence survivors sponsors and members from all over the community The
recipient of this years monetary donations will be going to the National Organization for Women
(NOW) the largest organization of feminist activists in the United States Our sponsors were
SingleBlackMaleorg and Beauty Cares
Thank you To everyone ThaT supporTed walked and donaTed
Through your efforTs we raised over $10000 For more information RayofHopeWalkorg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
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If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
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October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
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Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
14 El Girasol October 2012
On June 24 2012 OPBSIrsquos Alpha Beta NYC Alumnae Chapter hosted the
ldquoLove doesnrsquot hUrtrdquo mini walk in conjunction with 106th Street Oldtimers Inc The walk took place in Pelham Bay park located in the Bronx on a Sunday morning The Ballet International Africans performed after the walk Proceeds were donated to Sanctuary for Families
For more information on future events please contact LoveDoesntHurtWalkgmailcom
Walking aWay From violence
At the starting line
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 15
Operation Dressy Dress Drive Is an initative that the sisterrsquos of Alpha Beta Chapter do every year
They collect dresses for donation to teens that have been effected by domestic violence and the
teen girls are able to pick their dress or choice to attend their dance or prom This year for the
second time in a row sisters of the chapter went to a Sanctuary for Families to assist the girls with
choosing their dress The volunteers then gave them manicures and a lip gloss from Avon that was
donated by Nadia Cureton (ncuretonavonrepresentativecom)
opEratIon dreSSy dreSS drive
unIty and support amongst grEEks
Lambda Upsilon Lambda brothers supporting Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Kappa Alpha Psi brother performing at Theta Chapterrsquos Beta Fest
Sigma Lambda Upsilon sisters supporting AB Chapterrsquos Love Doesnrsquot Hurt Walks
Dennis Camacho Director of Commuter Student Outreach and First Year Programs in Boston Ma and brother of Phi Iota Alpha Fraternity Inc speaks at OPBSIrsquos National Conference 2012
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
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FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
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If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
16 El Girasol October 2012
UpcOming eVents and Service opportunitieS
octoBEr tUesday oCtoBer 23 2012Beta episLon sUny oLd westBUry oLd westBUry ny
The Beta Epsilon Chapter of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated will be participating in a Domestic Violence Dinner from 9-11pm at the Student Union Multipurpose Rooms A-C This dinner will be with the Womenrsquos center in order to grieve the victims as well as promote strength amp independence
For more information BetaEpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday oCtoBer 27 2012Beta theta sUny CortLand CortLand nyBeta Theta will be hosting a Halloween Bash Sister support woudl be greatly appriciated
For more information BetaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
monday oCtoBer 29 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJPimp-my-Pumpkin co-sponsored with Lambda Sigma
Upsilon For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
novEmBEr
sUnday novemBer 4 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Cafe Soleil
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
satUrday novemBer 10 2012aLpha theta Chapter fLorida aLUmnae Chapter fLAlpha Theta will participate for a second year in a row at Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in Orlando The event assists in raising funds and awareness to save lives from Cancer Last year was a great success for Alpha Theta and we look forward to an even better turn out for a great cause
For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
wednesday novemBer 28 2012UpsiLon Chapter rUtgers University rUtgers nJ
Shades Program
For more information UpsilonOmegaPhiBetaorg
alpHa tHEta alumnaE cHaptEr
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
Alpha Theta participating in Hunterrsquos Creek Relay for Life in 2011
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
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Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
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national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 17
satUrday deCemBer 1 2012
World Aids DayI Wear Red Campaign This is our 3rd year and we want to have as many chapters participate and Wear Red on December 1st via social media Please follow Alpha Theta Chapter on Facebook For more information AlphaThetaOmegaPhiBetaorg
Be a Beta Be a Scholar The OPBSI Book Rental
Stay academically inclined while saving up to 80 on book rentals Rent your textbooks for school or start a book club with this great offer Spread the word to friends family co-workers classmates and teachers Anyone is able to take advantage of this great deal
Rent your favorite books while helping your organization raise money
For more information visit httpopbsibookrenterstorecom
FUNDRAISER YOU CAN SUPPORT RIGHT FROM THE COMFORT OF HOME
The Scentsy Party
that will change your
world The Alumnae
Association is hosting
a fundraiser with Soror
Lourelix Alvarado Ruiz
Scentsy Consultant Extraordinaire to
make money to go towards our yearly
scholarship and our operations
Scentsy is AWESOME and a great
wickless candle you can use in your
office home and car Try a product
and yoursquoll be hooked
ANYONE can purchase from this party (sorors family friends) so please share this with your networks
If you need any additional motivation they have a Puerto Rican flag as a warmer (Other country flags are currently not available) Please support us by purchasing through this party httpsloryruizscentsyusScentsyBuypartyId=93005613
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
9173488556 Mysisterscreationsyahoocom 13
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
18 El Girasol October 2012
Check out their recently released book
Count on MeTales of Sisterhoods and
Fierce Friendships
Beloved bestselling Latino authors share moving personal stories of the many ways that sisterly bonds have
powerfully impacted their lives
What would you do where would you be without your Comadreshttpwwwcountonmebookcom
Nora de Hoyos Comstock is the national and international founder of Las Comadres Para Las Americas She has served as the organizationrsquos President and CEO since itrsquos foundingIn 1989 Dr Comstock formed a business development consultancy known as Comstock Connections which she continues to the present day
Nora Comstock received her PhD (1982) from the University of Texas at Austin in Educational Administration with an emphasis on community college management and a BA in History (1974) with a specialty in Latin America
She was selected one of twenty Latinas in the US to be a 2000 fellow of the National Hispana Leadership Institute in Washington DC Dr Comstock also was selected as one of fifteen Hispanic leaders to participate in the 22nd Seminario Fundacion Solidaridad Mexico City and Michoacan in October 2003
She received an award in recognition of lifetime commitment and achievements in serving the Hispanic Community from the Hispanic Professional Womenrsquos Association at the 4th Annual
National Convention and Exhibition of Mexicans Abroad in Los Angeles in July 2006 In 2007 Dr Comstock was selected as one of the 25 top Hispanic Influencers in Austin Texas for 2007
Throughout her career she has received numerous accolades She is the recipient of a Maybelline 2008 Beauty of Education Award for her dedication to serving the community she was honored as one of the 25 Mujeres del Antildeo 2011 by Sucesos El Perioacutedico de la Comunidad Hispana in Houston TX and she has served on numerous local and national boards
Las Comadres Para Las Americas was named a 2011 Community Leadership Award honoree by the University of Texas at Austin for commitment and dedication to promoting social justice increasing opportunities for inclusion andor improving access to education Nora Comstock was selected for the 2012 Austin Texas Womenrsquos Hall of Fame She is the first Latina to be selected for this honor
HIspanIc HErItagE montH HIgHlIgHt Nora de Hoyos Comstock PhD
FIrst latIna to BE sElEctEd For
austIntExas WomEnrsquos Hall oF FamE
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 19
To be Politically InclinedOPBSI Participates in Voto Latino CampaignOPBSI along with 19 other national organizations partnered with Rep Ur Letters a campaign powered by Voto Latino to empower young voters by getting them registered before the November elections Voto Latino will provide a grand prize of a celebrity appearance for the national organization that registers the most voters as part of this campaign The campaign ran through October 7 2012
aBout Voto LatinoVoto Latino is a next-generation constituency based organization that empowers American Latinos to claim a better future by voting United by the belief that Latino issues are American issues and American issues are Latino issues Voto Latino is dedicated to bringing new and diverse voices into the political process by engaging youth media technology and celebrities to shake up the political process
intereSteD in Voto Latino Over the next few weeks Voto Latino will be announc-ing updates and events so make sure you sign up and stay tuned at wwwRepUrLettersorg
Las Comadres is a culturally-based group because I was painfully aware that my cultural roots were slipping away and that I was dangerously close to losing my cultural identity I felt a deep desire to connect on a close personal level with other Latinas in the community to build and maintain my cultural heritage Initially I thought I was unique in my need to connect to my cultural past but when an article about me was published in the local paper the response from Latinas was so overwhelming that I quickly realized that the desire for connection was immense
The word spread quickly from Austin to other cities and the requests for group formation is rapidly outstripping my capacity to meet the demand In our website we identify what is happening as a ldquomovementrdquo because we really think that is what it isand it is sweeping us along with it Las Comadres is for Latinas to build and grow personal relationships Non- Latino spouses of
Latinos are welcome to join our group their children are Latino and we will help the family feed the cultural soul The monthly comadrazostrade are an informal professional networking and support gatherings There are no dues no officers no meetings no commitment everything we do is by a self selection process We send out information and each one of us decides what to do with it Mostly we email information about things happening in the community regionally nationally and internationally
Our information covers jobs special events happenings our National Book club and cultural issues Las Comadres create workshops or seminars to meet gaps in needs within our communities From Austin Texas to New York City NY Las Comadres are making an impact
For more information visit the website httpwwwlascomadresorg
By Nora de Hoyos Comstock PHD
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
bull Press 9 for Spanish
mADre121 West 27th Street 301New York NY 10001 USA(212) 627-0444Fax (212) 675-3704Volunteersvolunteersmadreorg
sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
hArbOr hOUse Of centrAl flOriDAIf you or someone you love is going through domestic abuse PLEASE CALL US at407-886-2856Administration OfficePO Box 680748Orlando FL 32868adminharborhouseflcom
GET HELP 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TTD) 1 (800) 500-1119 (FL)407-886-2244 (main office)Safehouse of Seminole
24-Hour Crisis Hotline(407)-330-3933 (TTYTDD) (800) 500-1119 toll free
chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
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Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
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Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
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Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
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Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
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Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
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Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
20 El Girasol October 2012
hOtline phOne nUmbers
Domestic Violence Hotline800-621-HOPE (4673)
crime Victims Hotline866-689-HELP (4357)
rape amp sexual assault Hotline212-227-3000
us national Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY 1-800-787-3224wwwnnedvorg
wAshingtOn Dc
rApe AbUse amp incest nAtiOnAl netwOrkThe Rape Abuse amp Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nationrsquos largest anti-sexual assault organization Among its programs RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1800656HOPE and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline at rainnorg This nationwide partnership of more than 1100 local rape crisis centers provides victims of sexual assault with free confidential services 24 hours per day 7 days per week These hotlines have helped over 13 million people since RAINNrsquos founding in 1994
1-800-656-HOPEWashington DCwwwdccadvorgwwwhouseofruthorg
bOstOnwwwc2homeorghttpfeministorgwwwmahomlessorg
lOs Angeleswwwagapefdnadvorghttpdvcouncillacountygov
los angeles county Hotline(24 HOUR)(800) 978-3600
new YOrk citY
new york cityrsquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 621ndashHOPE (4673)
sanctuary for families(212) 349ndash6009bull Press 0 for general information
and for information about shelterbull Press 1 for Clinical Programbull Press 2 for Legal Centerbull Press 3 for Childrenrsquos Programbull Press 8 if office is closed and on
weekends - Sanctuary is open from 9 am - 6 pm on Monday - Thursday and 9 am - 5 pm on Fridays
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sAfe hOrizOnwwwsafehorizonorg
In New York Statenew york statersquos 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline(800) 942-6906 (English)(800) 942-6908 (Spanish)
ny state resourceshttpnyscadvorgdirectoryhtm
Additional Help in your areawwwthehotlineorg
flOriDA
flOriDA cOAlitiOn AgAinst DOmestic ViOlencewwwfcadvorgcentersFlorida Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-500-1119
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chicAgO
1-877-To-END-DVDomestic Violence Agencies by City wwwdhsstateilus
important anti-ViolenCe resourCes national hotlines and organizations
If you know of any resources in your local city please share it with the membership
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom and put ldquoDV Resourcesrdquo in the Subject heading
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
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For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
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Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
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Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
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October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 21
Beta CookinrsquoBy Jane Vega Founder
Turkey kielbasa wiTh Green PePPers and OniOns served wiTh CilanTrO riCe(serves 3-4)
k ielbasa1 link of Turkey Kielbasa1 medium green pepper julienned1 medium onion julienned1 small red onion julienned1-2 cups of chicken stock1-2 clove of garlic finely chopped1 tablespoon oil15 tablespoon of Italian seasoningsSalt pepper to taste
CilanTrO r iCe 15 cups of white medium or long grain white rice275 cups of water1 tablespoon oilSalt and pepper to tasteLarge hand full of cilantro rolled up and chopped (cut cilantro just before adding to rice)
POTs needed Medium Sauce panLarge Sautee pan
riCeIn medium sauce pan add rice oil salt and pepper I usually add a teaspoon of each right now Stir until rice is completely coated with oil Let this sit for 10 seconds Slowly add water stir gently Put on a medium high flame and bring to a boil Once the rice water is boiling cover pot tightly lower the flame to low and cook until water is absorbed 12-17 minutes Once rice is done take frac34 of your cilantro and stir it into the white rice Add remaining cilantro as a garnish for each plate once rice is served
kielbasaHeat sauteacute pan add oil Place whole turkey kielbasa link in pan and brown on all sides (if you need to cut it in half to properly brown on all sides that is fine) Set aside on a clean plate Add green pepper onion red onion and garlic to pan Sauteacute peppers and onion until they begin to become translucent Add one cup of chicken stock to deglaze pan Add remaining stock and reduce just a few minutes Take kielbasa and slice into 18rdquo slices Add kielbasa back to pan and simmer with vegetables until vegetables become fully translucent Add Italian seasonings to pan Reduce liquid in pan until it starts getting a little thick and begins to coat kielbasa and vegetables Remove from heat
Serve while hot
Feel free to add any other vegetables you love Sometimes I will add carrots and mushrooms Add a little extra chicken stock if you add more vegetables You want that slight coating of great flavor from the liquid reduction
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
22 El Girasol October 2012
It took me a while to consider how to write this Even after thinking about it I felt ldquoWho am I to talk about heroism or ldquosheroismrdquo When you hear words like these you think grand gestures and grandiose moments I am a mother of a 5 year old who apparently knows everything (lol) so I decided to ask Jacob about it Now I was ready to hear about Batman Superman Spiderman and the like ndash and I did hear about them but what followed caught me off guard
After describing all the things that Superheroes do he snuggles in and says ldquoBut you do know Mom ndash not all heroes wear costumesrdquo Intrigued I inched in closer ldquoReallyrdquoI inquired He responds ldquoYes Mommy I have heroes in my class They are my friends they play with me they donrsquot hit me they are nice to me they share with me and they always get greens (accolades for good behavior in class) Well not always greens but they try to do a good jobrdquo
WOW Talk about an epiphany moment I heard hero or shero and pumped the idea of the word up so large that the basics of the words almost escaped me
A hero behaves in a way that isnrsquot just good their actions inspire
others to be good
Being friendly or polite just because Heroes play nicely with others they are respectful they look out for those that canrsquot do it for themselves Even my son recognizes that no one get greens for good behavior every day so letrsquos not be so judgmental with ourselves or anyone else Perfection does not exist
It is in the little acts of kindness support and encouragement that we build trust self-esteem and confidence ldquoDo unto othershelliprdquo We have
all heard it before we all want it that in our lives but we all have dispositions that occasionally prevent us from showcasing our heroic or sheroic attributes It is not easy to be open-minded and heroic when we have bills to pay we are late for work or our partner got us miffed Maybe you woke up today and encountered every contrary or difficult person in your neighborhood on the way to work or school
Needless to say it would be difficult to dig deep and pull out love for our fellow man But you never know where that other person is coming from Their life experiences have led them down a different darker road that they are choosing to continue traveling Sometimes other peoplersquos bad attitudes are not because they are terrible people but rather because they have no idea what happiness or peace is
The Dalai Lama says ldquoBe the change you want to seerdquo This is a heroicsheroic statement
The implication is in the face of adversity in your hour of discontent in your inability to understand how certain things operate be the change you want to see Be the force that moves the mountain Be the water that perseveres through any obstacle Be the heat that melts away the drama So if you really want to be a hero or a shero - push forward ndash align yourself with what should be happening ndash be kind to someone ndash be open to helping ndash be proactive in your community ndash and above all else challenge yourself to be open hearted open minded and full of love Your one action could be the catalyst that makes all the difference and starts to change everything
EmpoWErIng WomEn (S)heroism Happens EverydayBy Jane Vega Founder
October 2012 El Girasol 23
My Sisters Creations Thanksgiving specials are here Whether you donrsquot feel like cooking or you want to bring something fabulous to
a dinner party we have something for you
Specials
Coquito $20 Start the holiday off right with some delicious coquito
Sides
Creamy Baked Macaroni amp Cheese with seasoned crumb topping $35
Brown Sugar amp Rum Glazed Sweet Potatoes wpecans $30
Sisterrsquos Slamminrsquo Stuffing ndash with seasoned ground turkey $35
Honey Glazed Cornbread (made with real corn) $20
Pastelon $25 Sweet Plantain amp sofrito ground turkey quiche
Additional items available upon request Prices are pickup only
Desserts Cupcakes $24 per dozen
Red Velvet Chocolate Velvet Carrot Cake
Caramel Stuffed Brownies
Sweet Potato Pie $16 Cream Cheese Flan Vanilla Flan $17 (Or 2 for $30) Pick up in The Bronx- Can be arranged for Thanksgiving Eve or Thanksgiving Delivery in Manhattan The Bronx and Westchester available at additional charge
Have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING13
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
24 El Girasol October 2012
It is hard to pinpoint one person that I looked up to in my life I have to say that I have been very lucky to have some very stong and independent women who have nutured me and helped me become the woman I am today From
EmpoWErIng WomEn Our Editorrsquos (S)heroesrsquoWe asked each of our editors to share who the (s)heros in their lives are
There are plenty of people I admire and look up to especially my own family but I find my true inspiration comes from many people not just one My hero is anyone who is willing to stand up for what they believe in no matter what their ldquosupportrdquo network or society may say Anyone who approaches life
Ever since I played her in my Pre-K Black History play I have been continually impressed with the legacy left by Rosa Parksrsquo life of advocacy and resilience Despite simply being known for the historic stand against
My grandmother Guillermina Davila has lived on this earth for over 94 years and is still a fiery and vibrant woman She has experienced the harshness and the joys of life and is a living history that I cherish Mai (what we all call her) has lived through her mother
dying when she was only in the second grade raised her siblings and experienced one die in her arms before reaching adolescence given birth to 5 children in her house--one of which died before the age of 6 migrated to New York City without knowing the English language outlived all her siblings buried her husband my handsome grandfather Ventura Hernandez outlived a naiumlve doctors premature death diagnosis has become a great grand mother and a great great grandmother She has lived this all while keeping her uplifting spirit realistic attitude on life inner peace inner strength and her amazing love for people She is a rock and although her education doesnrsquot surpass elementary school she has a world of wisdom and knowledge to offer She is my belove dbeautiful ldquoAbuelita Lindardquo my Shero
Selina Hernandez
with such tenacity and vigor that they follow their passion take risks and follow their heart and soul because in the end they have found what it means to truly live
Amanda Crane
discrimination on public transportation Rosa lived a life of self-determination and giving back to her community to ensure that all citizens were given access to equal representation and rights in American society She was a strong advocate for all minorities women and other marginalized groups Her determination and her strong sense of purpose impacted my life greatly and have inspired me to always use my influence in order to give a voice to the needs of the voiceless She is my ultimate shero
Marielys Garcia
my mom to my aunts some of my closests friends and family the women who are around me have been through so many obstacles and challenges in their lives Being able to overcome those challenges and continue on with a smile on their face is something I truly admire and try to carry out in my everyday life I feel blessed to be a part of a family and circle of friends who are sheroes in their everyday lives
Desiree Henry
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 25
ARE YOU EXPECTING NEW OR SEASONED BETA MOMMY
Stay connected share stories advice and stay up-to-date with Beta Mommy events To join the Beta Mommies group email
BETAMOMMIES-subscribeyahoogroupscom
ChrisTina FiGuerOa (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed a baby boy in August
JeaneTTe GOnzalez (ThetaSpring 1999) are her husband are expecting her second daughter
GlOr y kOwalz yCk (ThetaSpring 1999) welcomed her second baby girl Emily Noelle in July
yveTTe lOPez-COlGan (ThetaSpring 1998) welcomed Jaxton David in early October
Welcome to our neW Beta BaBies and congratulations to our
expecting mommies Beta Mommies
CarOlina ramirez (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her first born son Gabriel Anthony in June
zuGely saez (XiFall 1999) welcomed her fi rst born daughter Rosario Valentina in Jul y
dOris COrPOran (ThetaFall 2000) welcomed her second child Daniel David in August
Gabr iela sOTO (TauSpring 2004) welcomed baby girl Olivia in August
sTePhanie rOJas (XiSpring 2006) welcomed baby boy Liam in June
ivOnne valenTine (UpsilonFall 2006) will be welcoming Baby Vasquez in March 2013JaCkie CamilO mendez
(NuSpring 2000) welcomed twin boys in June
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
26 El Girasol October 2012
By Yvette Lopez-Colgan Theta Spring 1998
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
The Great Booby Debate Bloomberg Proposes Restrictions on Baby FormulaThe Internet and media are all abuzz over NYC mayor Michael Bloombergrsquos proposed restriction on baby formula in NYC hospitals This is a topic near and dear to my heart as I breastfed my first child for 13 months and am now 36 weeks pregnant with my second child and plan to exclusively breastfeed
FirSt Here are tHe FaCtS Under the organization ldquoLatch on NYCrdquo Bloomberg is asking NYC hospitals to voluntarily restrict access to formula and provide education and support to breastfeeding moms By joining this voluntary initiative
for NYC maternity hospitals to support motherrsquos decision to breastfeed participating hospitals have agreed to enforce the NY state hospital regulation to not supplement breastfeeding infants with formula
feeding unless medically indicated and documented on the infantrsquos medical chart restrict access to infant formula by hospital staff tracking infant formula distribution and sharing data on formula distribution
with the Health Department discontinue the distribution of promotional or free infant formula and prohibit the display and distribution of infant formula promotional materials in any hospital location
Despite all the media propaganda to the contrary the initiative itself seems quite positive and will protect those moms who have chosen to breastfeed exclusively while still respecting the rights of those women who choose not to
So why all the debate and controversy In a society where a womanrsquos breasts are viewed as sexual objects as opposed to natural sources of nutrition for a baby and where most of our mamis and abuelas bottle fed and find it somewhat disgusting to breastfeed itrsquos easy to see why there is such debate The reality is that breast milk is the number one best source of nutrition for a human baby not cowrsquos milk which is where formula is derived
Breast milk has numerous health benefits for mommy and baby including but not limited to preventing
obesity asthma allergies diarrhea ear infections in the baby and preventing ovarian and breast cancer in the mom
It should be a no-brainer right Yet in our overly commercialized capitalistic society big formula companies have made many believe that formula is cleaner and easier and more ldquocivilizedrdquo but letrsquos wake up here sistas Would you put your baby to a cowrsquos utters and allow them to suckle Of course not
Just this week alone I found on my doorstep unsolicited a 3 pound box from Similac which included a bottle a free sample of Similac Advance and Similac sensitive and about $30 worth of coupons for the products should I decide to buy it For those moms on the fence about breastfeeding or having a hard time (which is the majority) it is so easy to open
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 27
that box fill that bottle mix up that white powder and shove it in their babyrsquos mouth but the consequences can be disastrous for the health of that child
I respect every womanrsquos right to choose what is right for her and her baby but whatrsquos wrong with preventing free and unrestricted access to formula in hospitals Maybe if it werenrsquot such an easy option more moms would stick with breastfeeding Formula is pushed on moms even before the baby is out and at times the nurses in the hospitals will give the baby formula without permission If it were an illegal or prescription drug such soliciting would shock the conscience but the long-term consequences for a mom who is trying to breastfeed can be nearly the same
Once any bit of formula is introduced or supplemented it changes the flora of the babyrsquos stomach and will also act to reduce the momrsquos supply since the baby will sleep longer (because formula is heavier) and not nurse as often not to mention other dangers like nipple confusion or adverse reactions to the formula Most womenrsquos biggest fear is that they are not producing enough Since we have no hash marks on our breasts with the amount of ounces like a bottle it is impossible to tell whatrsquos coming out Formula companies pray on that insecurity when the reality is there are very few women who cannot produce enough milk for a child who is exclusively breastfeeding We have to learn to trust ourselves and just because the baby cries doesnrsquot mean they are still hungry
Bloomberg may be a smart and wealthy man but his plan is not a novel idea We are far behind even many underdeveloped countries when it comes to breastfeeding and most European (like the UK) and South American countries (like Brazil) have long ago banned formula from hospital and clinics in order to encourage and promote breastfeeding
The truth is breastfeeding is not easy or as natural as you might think when you attempt it because our culture has strayed so far from what is the natural course of things Women who are attempting to breastfeed may have little to no support system We may not have grown up seeing our moms and aunts
do it and since they didnrsquot do it it is often hard for them to help or relate Even my mom repeated over and over ldquoElla tiene hambre por eso esta llorando Tu no lersquo sta dando nardquo (ldquoshe is crying because she is hungry yoursquore not giving her anythingrdquo) My mom Grandma husband and even pediatrician were telling me to ldquojust give her formulardquo Luckily I am as stubborn as a mule and I found an angel by way of a lactation consultant who came and gave me the support and encouragement I needed to go on for over 13 months (I also found a new pediatrician who supported my choices) Whatrsquos the result My child has only been ill a handful of times in over 3 years has no allergies never had an ear infection or needed antibiotics for any reason and is a happy healthy extremely smart child Is it all from breastfeeding Probably not but I would like to think that it helped
So ladies never forget that breast is best If you have a sister cousin or friend who is pregnant or post-partum and is considering or in the midst of breastfeeding give her a hug and tell her she can do it and is doing a good job it could make all the difference
Helpful resourceswwwlalecheleaguecomwwwnycgovhtmldohhtmlmslatchonnycshtml
If you have any legal questions please send them to OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Looking forward to hearing from youDisclaimer(come on you know there had to be one I am a lawyer after all) Any legal advice solicited does not constitute an attorneyclient relationship and may be shared and discussed in my column either anonymously or with fictitious names if requested All advice offered should not be solely relied upon by the solicitor and should be discussed with personal counsel
know your rightS
TheGreatBoobyDebate
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
28 El Girasol October 2012
Day to Night make up tutorial
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
Apply Bronze Shadow To Primed Lid
Blend Matte Shadow Across Crease
Sweep Bronze Shadow Along Lower Lash LineStep 3
Step 2
Rim Inner WaterlineStep 4Convert To Evening With A Pop Of
Dark Blue Or Black Shadow To CornerStep 7
Apply Mascara
Line Upper Lash LineStep 5
Step 6
Step 1
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 29
What a privilege it is to live your life exactly how you choose
I make choices I can live by and take actions that I am proud of and attribute this learning to one of the most frustrating periods of my life Just over a year ago I felt trapped in my existence attached to a job I hated within an organization I formerly loved Mission had long since left its practice and I felt warped and disappointed to the point where getting out of bed was a daunting task
It took me a whole year to finally resign
When I finally took the leap I quit without necessarily knowing what was ahead (and oddly enough without having secured another job) I needed the opportunity to breathe positive energy back into my life and rediscover the sense of self I had lost in the time I spent whining and complaining I made the choice to leave I also made the choice to cut off my hair into a short new style that I loved pick up an interest in walking and running leisurely read whatever I chose redecorated my home just how I wanted and dated just as much as I had hoped What a season It felt great to become me again The highlight of it all was that I invited my friends and family to celebrate my ldquorenewalrdquo with me Together we breathed new life into each other our families our careers and more
With my newfound freedom I started on a new career path
At age 29 I reset and restarted I took an odd job in between my earlier career in the nonprofit sector and my new one in education I knew I had much to learn and chose a position as a community
organizer during my gap year Although challenging it gave me just the insight I needed in education policy and reform to prepare for the classroomI met my 9th graders just one year later and have loved them from the start
I am a high school teacher now I teach high-need students in a brilliant academic environment where I am challenged supported and inspired I still love walking long distances and choose to do so to and from my new school My short haircut looks great and I still date who I choose My home is a comfortable reflection of my recharged energy and I couldnrsquot be happier Earlier this week I learned that my former boss (also the cause of much angst in my previous role) was recently let go for poor performance I volunteer at my old organization choosing how I continue to stay involved in ways that fulfill me personally and professionally
I am happier nowI choose meIn every moment there is an opportunity for new learning As adults we settle into routines for better or worse often because they are familiar or comfortable I chose to take a course that was fulfilling and it has kickstarted my life in ways I never thought imaginable My mindset has changed I have removed any reserve fear or self-doubt I once allowed to block my path and couldnrsquot be happier for it Choose to renew yourself your relationships your career your life Use fear as a launch pad to fully live the life you were meant to It is easier to keep still because you are afraid but it is something powerful riveting enlightening and amazing to be and keep FEARLESS knowing that you and your life deserve more than your present Choose youTo your own Renewal
FacIng FearleSSneSSBy Dr Cassandra St Vil Mu Chapter Spring 2002
By Kristin Sepuacutelveda Alpha Gamma Chapter Spring 2007
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
30 El Girasol October 2012
sunsHInE cornEr
By Desiree Henry Theta Chapter Fall 2000
Change is inevitableIt happens every day around us from the weather to our jobs friendships loved onesthe list can go on and on This year has been quite interesting with many of those around me experiencing major changes in their lives It made me start thinking about the many times in my life where I have experienced major change and how I was able to overcome the anxiety that sometimes comes with change
I always prided myself on not getting easily frazzled by unexpected occurrences I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I lost my father at a very young age to cancer I developed an attitude of
ldquoSometimes bad things happen but life goes onrdquo
I understood how difficult these types of situations could be but I also knew that it wasnrsquot the end of the world That attitude helped me get through many of my own challenges We are all challenged at various points in our lives Think about how well do you handle change
You will eventually start to realize that you can either worry about whatrsquos going to happen or take control and embrace the change that is about to happen Regardless of how you deal with change both ways require your time and energy neither of which you should waste Being able to roll with the punches and maintain a positive attitude in the face of change can help throughout many aspects of your life If there is one thing I have learned in the last couple of years its that you never know what unexected life alterering situation may be thrown your way
Enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy each day You never know what may happen in the next week month or even year but be ready
for it all and keep a positive attitude
Learn to readjust your attitude constantly I used to have a quote above my desk at work that said ldquoAttitude is the little thing that makes a big differencerdquo Having the right attitude and embracing the change before you will make all the difference on whether that change will help you grow or keep you where you are We canrsquot be afraid of what is to come because ldquolife is what happens when you are busy making other plansrdquo Embrace the change and embrace the life that is to come
SoleilFollow mewwwweinspireuswordpresscom
EmbracingChange
If you donrsquot like something change it if you canrsquot change it change the way you think about it ~Mary EngelbreitIf nothing ever changed therersquod be no butterflies ~Author UnknownGod grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference ~Author Unknown
If you break your neck if you have nothing to eat if your house is on fire then you got a problem Everything else is inconvenience ~Robert Fulghum
The only disability in life is a bad attitude ~Scott Hamilton
We have no right to ask when sorrow comes ldquoWhy did this happen to merdquo unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way ~Author Unknown
Sometimes in tragedy we find our lifersquos purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus ~Robert BraultWe find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who donrsquot ~Frank A ClarkAllow yourself a moment of grief when lifersquos misfortunes visit you However do not spend your days building a monument in honor of them ~Dodinsky
Wherever you go no matter what the weather always bring your own sunshine ~Anthony J DrsquoAngelo
To be interested in the changing seasons is a happier state of mind than to be hopelessly in love with spring ~George Santayana
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it ~Author Unknown
Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time ~Betty Smith
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 31
sunsHInE cornErEmbracingChange
Lambda Brooklyn College
Upsilon Rutgers University
Chi Chapter Seton Hall University
Beta Alpha St Johnrsquos University
Beta Gamma New York University
Alpha Beta Alumnae Chapter of New York NY
Alpha Gamma Alumnae Chapter of Washington DC
Alpha Zeta Alumnae Chapter of Northern NJ
Colony at Pace NYC Campus
Colony at Columbia University
Region 2 Regional Retreat
Region 2 Chapters are
ldquoAlthough Region 2 is scattered from New York to New Jersey to Washington DC the amount of sisterhood from each of us withstands any distance in between
us Expressing our needs as a region was effortless and constructive and we have
all made an efforts in reaching our goals for the semester and supporting each other
every step of the way because thatrsquos what sisterhood is all aboutrdquo
Alexis Marie Agosto Upsilon Fall 2011
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
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40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
32 El Girasol October 2012
First Lady Michelle Obama spoke at the Democratic National Convention on September 4 2012 I along with millions of other women clinged to our tissues and listened intently as she spoke about the values of our nation Paying special tribute to the critical role of parents and grandparents her words made me reflect on the people who had a hand in my success
I lived in a community where the educational system did not invest the best of resources but I had teachers and mentors who taught me about dignity and humility as well as honesty and integrity I had a supportive community of neighbors and family friends who would encourage me when they saw me walking to and from school I also had my number one cheerleader push me everyday and that was my grandmother Wela was and still is the driving force in my life
I have never told her how much she means to me but after hearing Michelle Obama speak I knew I needed to acknowledge what she has done for me As her birthday approaches I thought Irsquod write her a letter and share with her that she has played a role in my success
EmpoWErIng WomEn To the woman who had a hand in my successBy Sherlene Ayala Sigma Chapter Fall 2001
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 33
Ma-As you approach your 65th birthday I wanted to give you the biggest gift I could think of to show you my sincere gratitude for what you have done for me In 1993 when my mom died I remember the overwhelming feeling of confusion sadness and anger As a teenager I couldnrsquot understand why my life had taken this change of course I know the years following were tough and at the time I didnrsquot know how to accept my new life changes and while spending so much time on me-me-me I had failed to realize that you had lost your daughterOur lives changed You raised me like I was your own and you made sure that I had everything I needed within our means You attended parent teacher orientation went on school trips and dropped me off at the bus on the first day at my summer youth job You gave me a once in a lifetime sweet 16 taught me how to cook rice and beans and drove 12 hours to attend my college graduation When I got my first job out of college you bought me a mattress set and when I bought my first house you came over and gave it your blessing When I got accepted to my doctoral program your words meant more to me than anything You said ldquoNeca I am so proud of yourdquoIn the 30 years of my life you have selflessly given me your time energy money and your love to ensure I grew up to be a great woman I know it was not easy and you faced many challenges but you have done a remarkable job and I only wish to be the woman you are today You are a woman of dedication and perseverance I havenrsquot seen you give up on any of your grandchildren despite the ups and downs and that is something I wish to continue You are a woman of character You have taught me to hold myself with a certain level of prestige and elegance You are a woman of integrity and faith Your love for God is
impressive and one day I hope to find that connection in spirituality You are a woman who placed high standards on education knowing that without it I would be nobody You are a woman that is respected and well liked not to mention sarcastic and sometimes sassy
When I consider that you are a mother of 4 and singlehandley raised all 4 kids plus grandchildren I am impressed with your courage to keep the family going You have lost many people in your life including all of your siblings one of your daughters and friends I am in awe when I see that you keep going I wish I had that courage and stability to do that
I could never be the woman you are today You are a great mother and grandmother and more importantly my friend In the course of my adult life I have transitioned my selfish ways of thinking and recognized that you are a gem and the day I become a mom I will instill the values you have instilled in me ndash faith love honesty integrity and dedication
As I bring this letter to a close I have that feeling in my throat thatrsquos telling me to let the tears flow down my cheek There is no way for me to show you or tell you how much I love you How grateful I am to you How much you inspire me
I want to thank you for loving me and listening to me and being there for every step of my life For letting me discover my path in life and allowing me to make my mistakes I could not imagine what my life would be like without your influence and passion for my growth You are my role model my best friend and more importantly my mom I love you more than you know Muneca
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
34 El Girasol October 2012
As a child I vividly remember watching She-ra and Thundercats (my favorite was Lionel) and thinking they were my heros Why Because they were powerful they stood for what was right they demonstrated great strength and they had cool costumes and weapons Who didnrsquot want to defeat the bad guys every time
Irsquom surE IF you FlasHEd Back to your cHIldHood and WHo your (s)HEro Was It may HavE BEEn a cartoon cHaractEr or your local cIvIl sErvant Itrsquos Funny to sEE HoW sImplE lIFE Was and HoW WE EnjoyEd lIFE day By day WItHout any prEssurE
or loomIng sElF-douBts aBout onEsElF
As we grow older we learn the true definition of what a hero is and let our own personal experiences help mold who or what that may look like As I grew to be an olderhellipahem I meant wiserhellip person I realized that although some of the reasons I looked up to those cartoon characters were rather superficial at its core it helped define what I believed in and valued- strength standing for what is right assisting and defending their community and enjoying life with gusto
Throughout time there have been many public and local figures who have fit the bill for me and as is true to my nature who my hero was always changed because I refused to settle on just one The funny thing is I never articulated
this to anyone and especially not to the ldquolesser knownrdquo people because I thought it would be awkward to say it to them (and on occasion for fear of sounding like a Mariah Carey or Enrique Iglesias song)
As I reflect on this topic I am reminded of a time in middle school where in class we had to write about who our hero was and one of my classmates wrote about me I was taken aback and didnrsquot know how to respond I was honored but then thought why me Irsquom a nobody Irsquom just a plain old kid who didnrsquot even run with the popular crowd It is now that I realize that we are all herorsquos in our own respect We donrsquot have to leap over buildings in a single bound call out to the Power of Grayskull or anything like that
By BEIng truE to oursElvEs and tappIng Into our InnEr grEatnEss WE can and WIll HavE a grEat Impact on otHErs and WHo knoWshellip mayBE today mayBE tomorroW or mayBE nExt WEEk somEonE WIll comE up to you and say ldquoHEy I
just Want you to knoW yoursquorE my HErordquo
EmpoWErIng WomEn The (S)hero in All of UsBy Amanda Crane Iota Chapter Spring 2000
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 35
Greetings
Omega Phi Beta has created numerous events which instills elements needed as great training for many of our members Any gathering of two or more individuals for a given purpose is indeed an event From that has immersed a vast variety of unions for many entrepreneurial backgrounds to create small businesses within our organization that are growing We continuously applaud our sisters and encourage them to succeed
We are excited to say that three of our members make up the team of a new boutique event planning company for your special event needs Your Best Event Inc (YBE)
The event industry continues to grow as a very creative and much needed service to many and we each utilize our specialty to contribute to a successful event
The YBE Team
Erica Diaz Co-Founder amp Lead Event Agent Spring 2002 Upsilon Chapter Rutgers University
Daiana Hidalgo Wedding SpecialistSpr 2002 Epsilon Chapter C W Post Long Island University
Jessica Medina Creative Design SpecialistSpring 2005 Theta Chapter Stony Brook University
Your VisionOur Pleasure
Our professional team members are experts in organizing managing and executing any event YBE Inc will tailor a customized events package suited for both your individual needs and the indulgence of your guests We maintain a strong portfolio of the finest venues service providers and industry insiders who are focused on creating unparalleled spectacular events
We are extremely grateful for all the support we have received from our sisterhood We have previously worked with sisters from Beta Delta Epsilon Theta Mu Upsilon and Alpha Beta Chapters and hope to continue working with many more
Each of our event agents are passionate trained and educated in several aspects of event planning We emphasize communication stress details amp creativity and great organizational skills If we adhere to this maxim we will achieve customer satisfaction beyond expectation Please enjoy reading through our list of EventsampServices
We look forward to creating the best events with only you and your guests in mind
Your Best Event IncinfoYourBestEventcom wwwfacebookcomYourBestEventInc
nEW BEta BusInEss
eVentS Anniversaries amp Engagement PartiesAwards DinnersBaby ShowersBachelorette PartiesBirthday Celebrations Budget Planning CateringChristmas PartiesCorporate amp Holiday FunctionsDinner PartiesEngagement Events Event Marketing amp Branding
SerViCeSreSourCeS
Event Staffing SolutionsGraphic DesignHair and Make-Up Invitations amp Wedding Programs On-Site Event ManagementPrintingSecuritySound DesignThematic ConceptualizationTransportationVenue ScoutingWeb Development
(left to right) Jessica Medina Erica Diaz and Daiana Hidalgo
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
36 El Girasol October 2012
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Deyadira ldquoBettyrdquo Diaz far right (ZetaSpring 1998) and some fellow sisters take part in the New York PRIDE Parade each year Betty is a supporter of NBCUniversalrsquos LGBT affinity group OUTNBCU and recently revived UNIDOS a Latino affinity group at NBCUniversalrsquos Rockefeller Center headquarters
Jenice Diaz (UpsilonSpring 2003) attends the Registered Nurse Program at Bergen Community College and currently has a 32 Also she has 40 GPA at Kean Universityrsquos BSN program Jenice was also featured in the LatinTrends magazine for the month of August for a photo shoot campaign for Yeroc Eyewear amp Ush Clothing httpwwwlatintrendscomp=14104 The Campaign Ad is shown in several media outlets for the upcoming NY Fashion WeekJessica Medina (ThetaSpring 2005)(left) Erica Diaz
(UpsilonSpring 2002)(middle) and Daiana Hidalgorsquos (EpsilonSpring 2002)(right) recent accomplishments rests upon their entrepreneurial goals They are the Co-Founders of Your Best Event Inc Your Best Event Inc is a boutique event planning company servicing the New York City area for special event needs
Ruth Lora (UpsilonFall 2011) will be interning this semester with Van Wagner Sports company as a Brand Ambassador for the NFL games at Met Life Stadium Also she will be with Viacom (owners of MTV VH1 and BET) as one of two interns in the International Treasury Department
Best wishes to Virginia Rivas Lozada (UpsilonFall 2003) Naydine Lopez (UpsilonFall 2003) Mary Guzman (UpsilonFall 2005) Carla Parra (UpsilonFall 2007) and Karina Guzman (UpsilonSpring 09) ndash they will be participation in TOUGH MUDDER Tri-State region on October 20 2012 We are all proud of you and support you through this challenge
Natalie Hernandez Green MPH (ThetaApring 1998) received the 2012 Outstanding Student Award for her paper titled ldquoLatinasrsquo health care provider preferences regarding HPV vaccinationrdquo This award is bestowed by the Latino Caucus of the American Public Health Association
Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter held a social for sisters who have graduated from Beta Eta and Beta Zeta Chapters in hopes getting to know each other better and peak their interest in Alpha Theta They made chocolate and had
some wine at Ferris and Fosters Famous Chocolate Factory
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 37
Beta Smarts Celebrations and Professional achievements
Have any questions or need advice please email us and see your answers in our next Girasol edition Recently engaged Just Got Married Share the good news with
your sorors
Email OPBSIElGirasolgmailcom
Natalie Hernandez Green (ThetaSpring 1998) was married to Gerald Green in August in Punta Gorda FL
Johanna Fernandez (Zeta Fall 2001) was engaged in August to Eduardo Marte
September Birthdays Joanna Estrada Spring 2002 Virginia Rivas Lozada Fall 2003 Yessenia Morales Fall 2003 Sadie Mirabal Fall 2006Milibeth Castro Fall 2006Tatiana Fernandez Fall 2006
October Birthdays Ysmelda Pentildea Spring 2002 Yisel Lopez Fall 2003
On May 16 2012 Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter attended the 14th Annual ldquoLatinos Unidos Luncheonrdquo The ldquoLatinos Unidosrdquo Luncheon was established to raise funds for the City of Tampa Hispanis Advisory Council Scholarship Fund that assists Hispanic students in financial need to continue their education Alpha Theta sisters took a picture with Bob Buckhorn (middle) Tamparsquos Mayor joined by Max Lora (Lambda Upsilon Lambda brother) as well as Alpha Theta interested women
Upsilon sends Birthday Wishes to their chapter sisters
Happy Birthday to all our sisters who have celebrated their birthdays since our last edition
wishing you all many moreShare your great news OPBSIElGirasolGmailcom
Eve Torres (PhiFall 2003) won an NBC celebrity reality competition series Stars Earn Stripes on September 3 She earned over $100000 for her charity the USO
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
38 El Girasol October 2012
The Alumnae Association of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated (OPBSI AA) is proud to announce Ms Heaven Saunders of San Pedro CA has been selected as this yearrsquos winner of the Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship
Ms Saunders plans to major in Public Relations at the University of Southern California with the hopes of pursuing a career as a PR specialist in fashion entertainment or government
As a student at the Los Angeles County for the Arts Ms Saunders excelled academically with various Advanced Placement courses and an impressive Grade Point Average Ms Saunders has not only participated in many extra curricular activities within her academic setting but she has also proved to
be a strong leader in her communityShe has participated in both the San Pedro amp Peninsula YMCA (SPPY) and the California YMCA Youth amp Government Programs (YampG) where she has received several young leader awards
She has also shown true creativity enthusiasm and high energy in her love for the arts through several forms of dance
The Reach for the Gold Book Scholarship recognizes academic and benevolent achievement among young women of color and supports continued success through the first year of college The OPBSI AA awards one scholarship recipient annually and as this yearrsquos winner Ms Saunders will receive $1000 towards the purchase of academic text books
Applications for 2013 will be available on Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporatedrsquos national website by February 2013
2012 rEacH For tHE gold scHolarsHIp WInnEr Heaven Saunders
goldEn calIBrI grant scHolarsHIp Nurturing the Development of Professional Beta Women The Golden Colibri Grant was established in 2011 and serves to recognize and support the professional and academic development of alumnae members of Omega Phi Beta Sorority Incorporated The Alumnae Association awards $500 annually to one grant recipient towards the pursuit of an advanced degree professional certification specialization or license
Please submit a completed application and send letters of recommendation and professional resume to scholarshipomegaphibetaorg
Only applications submitted by November 1 2012 will be considered The grant recipient will be announced no later than December 1 2012
Apply Now
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 39
Treat yourself to some delicious red or white sangria
Contact Soror Lupe at sangriaanytimegmailcom
9175478650
Keep the Ghosts and Goblins Away order sangria anytime today
FULL PAGE ONE EDITION $10 TWO EDITIONS $17
HALF PAGE ONE EDITION $8 TWO EDITIONS $12
advertiSe your BuSineSSto over 800 opBSi SiSterSplace your ad in el giraSol
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON PLACING AN ADVERTISMENT CONTACT OPBSIELGIRASOLGMAILCOM
ADVERTISEMENTS PRICING
Apply Now
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
40 El Girasol October 2012
UPCOMING NATIONAL MEETINGS
national ConVentionMarch 15- 17 2013
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel Hill Chapel Hill NC
national ConFerenCeOctober 11-13 2013
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California at Berkeley Berkeley CA
national ConVention 2014haPPy 25Th OPbsi
March 13-16 2014Miami FL
For more informationEventsOmegaPhiBetaorg
Beta yellow pagesCreative and Beauty Services
Jessica AyalaAyari Make OverswwwAyariMakeOverscomwwwTheGlossyPartycom
Karla Ayala-Quervalu Karla Samantha Photography wwwKarlaSamanthacom
Elsa Batista-YzaguirreStoles By ElsaStolesbyElsaYahoocom
Stephanie Camacho amp Rebecca SlivkaThe Sunflower Collectionwwwthesunflowercollectioncomwwwfacebookcomthesunflowercollections
Elizabeth Cano Sweet Craft Cakeshttpwwwsweetcraftcakescom
Erica Diaz Daiana Hidalgo and Jessica MedinaYour Best EventwwwYourBestEventcomwwwfacebookcomYourBestEventIncEricaYourBestEventcom
Desiree Henry MOYA Creative Design BoutiquewwwMOYACreativecomMOYACreativeDesignsgmailcom
Maria JarmilloBirth Doulanediva89gmailcom
Elbanery LoraDianarsquos Cleaning Servicesdiana_cleaningserviceshotmailcom(347) 564-6491
Health Home Services
The Beta Yellow Pages is a free service designated to highlight businesses that
are operated by sorors
If you would like to list your business information please submit it toOPBSIElGirasolOmegaPhiBetaorg
Lupe Flores Sangria Anytime sangriaanytimegmailcom(917) 457-8650
Selina HernandezMy Sisterrsquos Creationswwwmysisterscreationscommysisterscreationsyahoocom(917) 348-8556
Ivy Roman IvySweetsNYCIvySweetsNYCgmailcom
Food Services
Lydia Jimenez Stampinrsquo with Lydiawwwstampinwithlydiablogspotcom
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
Iota ChapterUniversity of Virginia Est 1998
Kappa ChapterHofstra University Est 1998
Lambda ChapterBrooklyn College and Manhattan MetroEst 1998
Mu ChapterUniversity of Buffalo Buffalo State College amp DrsquoYouville College Est 1999
Nu ChapterCornell University Est 1999
Xi ChapterSyracuse University amp LeMoyne College Est 1999
Omicron ChapterDuke University Est 2000
Pi ChapterBoston MA Est 2002
Rho ChapterMichigan State University Est 2002
Sigma ChapterPlattsburgh University SUNY Est 2001
Tau ChapterUtica College amp Hamilton College Est 2003
Upsilon ChapterRutgers University New Brunswick Est 2003
Phi ChapterUniversity of Southern California Est 2003
Chi ChapterSeton Hall University Est 2003
Psi ChapterDePauw University Est 2006
Beta Alpha ChapterSt Johnrsquos University Est 2002
Beta Beta ChapterUniversity of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Est 2006
Beta Gamma ChapterNew York University Est 2007
Beta Delta ChapterPace University Pleasantville Campus Est 2008
Beta Epsilon ChapterSUNY Old WestburyEst 2008
Beta Zeta ChapterFlorida State UniversityEst 2010
Beta Eta Chapter University of South FloridaEst 2010
Beta Theta ChapterSUNY Cortland Est 2009
Beta Iota Chapter Northeastern Illinois UniversityEst 2010
Beta Kappa ChapterUniversity of New HavenEst 2010
Beta Lambda ChapterUniversity of North Carolina Chapel HillEst 2011
Beta Mu ChapterUniversity of California BerkleyEst 2011
Colony at University of Maryland Baltimore CountyEst 2003
Colony at Rhode Island CollegeEst 2003
Colony at Charleston Southern UniversityEst 2008
Colony at St Thomas AquinasEst 2010
Colony at Ramapo CollegeEst 2010
Colony at Pace UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Columbia UniversityEst 2011
Colony at Purdue UniversityEst 2011
Alpha Beta ChapterNew York City Alumnae Chapter Est 1994
Alpha Gamma ChapterWashington DC Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Delta ChapterRochester Alumnae Chapter Est 2004
Alpha Epsilon ChapterBoston Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Zeta ChapterNew Jersey Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Eta ChapterBuffalo Alumnae Chapter Est 2007
Alpha Theta ChapterFlorida Alumnae ChapterEst 2007
Los Angeles Alumnae ColonyEst 2011
Chicago Alumnae ColonyEst 2012
Alpha Alpha ChapterHonorary Sisters
Omega ChapterEternal Sisters
Health Home Services
Omega Phi Beta SOrOrity incchaPterS and cOlOnieS
Colonies
Alumnae Chapters
eSt 1989 wwwOmegaPhiBetaOrg
October 2012 El Girasol 41
Collegiate ChaptersAlpha ChapterUniversity at Albany SUNY Est 1989
Beta ChapterSUNY New Paltz amp Marist College Est 1991
Gamma ChapterUnion CollegeEst 1991
Delta ChapterBinghamton University SUNY Est 1992
Epsilon ChapterLong Island University CW Post Est 1993
Zeta ChapterSUNY Oswego Est 1993
Eta ChapterCollege at Brockport University of Rochester amp Rochester Institute of Technology Est 1994
Theta ChapterStony Brook University Est 1998
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