Even though divorce is easy to get nowadays like

never before a lot of people still choose to

stay in an unhappy and unhealthy

relationship.

Why?

ChildrenMany people think that two parents, even though unhappy, are

better than one and that divorce will negatively affect their

children. But they don’t realize that their frequent fights,

arguments with each other, loveless angry environment can

affect kids as well just as bad as a divorce.

Financial Dependency/MoneyIn most marriages there is financial dependence of one spouse

on the other. So the person who earns less or doesn’t work at

all is scared to leave the relationship since it may bring a huge

discomfort. For other people it is the price of that may justify

staying.

Habit/Fear of ChangePeople have always been afraid of change, so they prefer to stay

in an unhappy marriage because they don’t have to stress

about finding a new place to live, a new job or how to start

dating again. They find security in their marriage and would

not want to step out of their comfort zone even if they are

unhappy.

Social Pressure People stay married because they hate to be judged and

gossiped about. They don’t want to be losers. They just don’t

want to admit that they have made a mistake or failed. They

don’t want to be looked down upon.

Our GoalThis issue needs to be raised and discussed. People should know

there are options. A lot of people stay in such marriage

because they lack knowledge of the help they can get. And

we avoid talking about it, because we don’t want to

encourage divorce in our society. Divorce is definitely one of

the hardest things a person may go through during their

lifetime but if it benefits everybody and makes people

happier than they were before then why not?

After all, isn’t it the purpose of our life to be

happy?