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3 Foster Family Camp at Aspen Grove

5 Trauma and Attachment 2nd Annual UFCF Symposium 2011: A Closer Look

13 The Foster Adoption Option

fosterrosterrosterfosterA BI-MONTHLY MAGAZINE FOR FOSTER & ADOPTIVE FAMILIES IN UTAH : VOL 3, JUN & JUL 2011

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2 www.utahfostercare.org fosterroster • issue 3 | 2011

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Thanks to

For years of support

Foster Family Camp at Aspen Grove

D on’t miss this year’s Foster Family Camp presented by the Utah Foster Care Foundation! The camp is an opportunity for foster families to have a little fun, gain some new insights and bond as a family. It is open to all state

licensed foster families who have a current foster care placement and to families who have adopted children from foster care within the past 12 months (October 2010 - September 2011). Space is limited.

• The three-day camp takes place September 16-18, 2011 and includes two nights of lodging, five meals, and all activities available at Aspen Grove Family Camp & Conference Center (the normal cost to attend is $1200 per family!)

• Activities include supervised children’s program, ropes course, Aspen follies, in-service training, and a most unusual talent show.

• The cost is $10 per person - infants too.

• Registration is on a first come, first serve basis. Registration fee and form must be sent & postmarked no later than July 11, 2011 (preference will be given to families who have not attended in the past). Registration will not be accepted without full payment. Checks will not be cashed until July 18, 2011.

Utah Foster Care Foundation Board of DirectorsKaty AndrewsCommunity Volunteer

LeRoy FrankeDCFS, retired

Steve Goodrich, Vice ChairUDOT

Kevin LaRueKSL Radio

Hank Liese, MSW, Ph.D., ChairUniversity of Utah

Mayor Dan McArthurCity of St. George

Jean Nielsen, SecretaryHuman Services, Salt Lake County

Gary OgdenFred A. Moreton & Co.

Jeff Tesch, LMFTFoster/Adoptive Parent

Honorable Kate Toomey3rd District Court

Jayne Wolfe, Ph.D.Psychologist

Bruce Olson, Board AttorneyRay, Quinney & Nebeker

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Save the Date

This year, UFCF’s annual foster family appreciation event will take place at Cowabunga Bay in Draper on Monday, August 1st from 5:00 – 9:00 pm. Watch your mailbox for the invitation this summer!

Summer Camp Opportunity

Royal Family Kids’ Camp (through Good Shepherd Lutheran Church) is a one-week residential camp designed to meet the unique and overwhelming needs of abused, neglected, and abandoned children. It’s a FUN week filled with

all kinds of activities, such as horseback riding, swimming, crafts, music, dramatic art, and fishing. The staff is trained specifically to work with abused and neglected children. There is one counselor for every two campers.

To be eligible for attendance, children must be 7 to 11 years old, involved in the child welfare system, and in most cases, living in an out-of-home foster placement. There is a $25.00/fee for the camp and there are NO other charges. This year’s camp is August 8-12, 2011 in Salt Lake City, Utah.

If you have questions or a child interested in attending, please contact Christine McAtee at [email protected] or 801-808-9069 or Darlene Johnson at [email protected], or 801-860-1025.

They are accepting applications until July 15, 2011. Camp fills up fast so PLEASE don’t wait.

• Packets will be mailed to confirmed families no later than July 21, 2011. If you do not receive a packet by this date, you will be placed on a waiting list.

• Aspen Grove is a camp in the mountains. Expect weather changes. It can go from snow to sunshine and back to snow in a matter of hours. Please note that the terrain is rugged around Aspen Grove so be prepared for a rustic, camp-like experience.

• If you are in need of special accommodations due to physical or medical needs please call Darcey at 877-505-KIDS after you mail in your registration form and fee.

• For more information on Aspen Grove, visit their website at: http://aspen.byu.edu

Watch your mailbox for a registration packet in early June!

Utah Foster Care Foundation OfficesMurray5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400Murray, UT 84107Phone: 801.994.5205Fax: 801.994.5206Toll Free: 877.505.KIDS

Ogden3340 S. Harrison Blvd. #200Ogden, UT 84403Phone: 801.392.1114

Orem252 N. Orem Blvd.Orem, UT 84057Phone: 801.373.3006

Price475 W. Price River Dr. #152Price, UT 84501Phone: 435.636.0210

RooseveltRR 3 Box 8008Roosevelt, UT 84066Phone: 435.724.0959

Vernal1052 W. Market Dr.Vernal, UT 84078Phone: 435.781.4224

Moab180 S. 300 E., Suite CMoab, UT 84532Phone: 435.259.3345

St. George321 N. Mall Dr. #B102St. George, UT 84790Phone: 435.656.8065

Richfield201 E. 500 N.Richfield, UT 84701Phone: 435.896.1232

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of why I am doing this when I see the smiles on these girls’ faces. So, glad to be a part of the ‘Bubble-off Club!’”

Steve Andersen is a behavior specialist for Provo City School District. He taught foster parents about De-escalating Behaviors in Children with Attachment and Trauma Issues.

Shanelle: “He talked about brief empathic responses to let kids know we understand them. For example, if the child is throwing a fit because he/she wants to go outside, you could say, ‘I can see that you really want to go outside right now. It makes you sad that we can’t go out to play. Is that right?’ It sounds redundant, but the kids know that you understand and that helps them feel validated.”

Photo caption: UFCF Northern Region Trainer Brian Young with body language expert Janine Driver.

Trauma and Attachment 2nd Annual UFCF Symposium2011: A Closer Look

More than 200 foster parents and professionals gained new insight on trauma and attachment at Utah Foster Care Foundation’s 2nd Annual Symposium on April 13-14 at the Zermatt Resort in Midway. Thank you

to everyone who helped to make the Symposium the great success that it was!

Janine Driver, author of “You Say More Than You Think,” thrilled the crowd with her insight on body language.

On UFCF’s Facebook page, foster parents shared how they are using Janine’s tips in their relationships with their children in foster care:

Stephanie: “I learned I really need to be careful how I stand and which direction my hands are facing when I’m talking. I also learned to be ‘ridiculous’ in my praising!”

Leah: “Learned last night that we say “don’t ” a whole lot!”

Dr. Susan Egbert’s presentation, Decreasing Stress When Parenting Children with Attachment & Trauma Issues, had rave reviews from foster parents. Not only has Dr. Egbert been a child and family therapist, she is a foster/adoptive parent and an adoptee herself. Symposium attendees could relate to her!

Melinda: “Loved Susan Egbert’s presentation. Like she said, those who are not foster parents will consider us either saints or ‘a bubble-off.’ I think I fit mostly into the latter category. As a new foster mom only a month into our first placement, we’ve had plenty of challenges already - but, every day I am reminded

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Division of Child and Family ServicesResource Family Consultant (RFC) Contact Information

Brenda Barrus 801.631.658384044 84081 84084 84118

Magna, West Valley City, Kearns & West Jordan

Cody McBride 801.281.519484029 84074 84071

Tooele, Grantsville, Stansbury Park, Lake Point, Stocton, Wendover, Rush Valley, Dugway

Dana Guertin 801.451.862084047 84102 84103 84104 84105 84108 84110 84111 84116 84119 84120 84128

Salt Lake, South Salt Lake, Rose Park, West Valley City

Esmeralda Malili 801.755.716284020 84065

Draper, Riverton, Bluffdale

All Spanish speaking providers

Lori Zumbrunnen 801.755.764684081 84088 84095 84096

South & West Jordan, Copperton, Midvale, Herriman

Yolanda Copeland 801.755.749184070 84092 84093 84094 84106 84107 84109 84115 84117 84121 84123 84124

Taylorsville, Murray, Holliday, Sandy, Cottonwood Heights

Susannah Holden 801.755.7018Placement Coordinator For Salt Lake Region.

Clinical support for resource homes

Foster Dad of the Year

John Hunt was nominated for Foster Dad of the Year 2011 by his wife, Melissa. Her nomination letter was very touching and

we would like to share it with you.

“I would like to nominate John primarily for all the love that he has given 82 extra kids in 9 years.

I had the opportunity to take 2 of our daughters to California and he stayed home and cared for 4 biological kids, plus 3 children in foster care all under the age of 8. While we were gone, one of the children in foster care got a strange rash and he had to arrange babysitting and deal with doctors all without a single complaint. The house was even clean when we got home!

On another occasion, I had to leave the state for the funeral of my uncle. John stepped right up and took care of our 6 biological kids plus our 2-year-old child in care and twin babies by himself, never complaining, only having fun.

He has been a father figure for many kids who have gone without. He treats everyone as one of his own. He helps with visit transportation and coordinating the schedules of all the children. Between dance classes, sports, singing class, preschool, swimming, school plays, visits and therapy appointments it is hard to juggle everything but he will call at the end of the day to see where he can help out and who he can run somewhere.

He has stayed strong and positive throughout all the trials of being foster parents. There have been so many children we wanted to keep in our home but weren’t able. John has had his share of heartache with saying his goodbyes.

He spends many hours on the floor building train tracks, playing video games and anything the kids want to do.

We are currently in the process of adopting 3 kids with some special needs. That has not scared or deterred John at all. According to him, they have always felt as part of our family.

Being the father of so many children can be trying, but to John, it is just real life. The best part of the day is when the little girl we are adopting hears the garage door opening and runs toward it yelling ‘Daddy‘s home, Daddy‘s home’ and hurries to open the door so she can give him a big hug.

I would love to thank John for all the hours and hours he has spent caring for the children in our home without expecting anything in return.”

Congratulations John for being named Salt Lake Valley Region Foster/Adoptive Dad of the Year 2011.

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Salt Lake Valley RegionSalt Lake Valley Office5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400 Murray, UT 84107 Phone: 801. 994.5205 Fax: 801.994.5206 Toll Free: 877.505.KIDS

Area RepresentativeDan Webster

Foster/Adoptive Family RecruitersAmy Boyack Christina LeCluyse Jordan Ames

TrainerLiz Rivera

Retention SpecialistTina Porter

www.utahfostercare.org

DCFS Workers Have a “Heart of Gold”By Mike Hamblin, Director of Foster/Adoptive Recruitment, UFCF

Each year the Salt Lake Valley Quality Improvement Committee (QIC) recognizes a handful of DCFS staff

for their efforts in serving Utah’s children and families with a “Heart of Gold” award. On Tuesday, March 15, the 2010 winners were announced.

Tara Gailey, Kyla Openshaw, Lorry Ann Shufflebeam, Vedrana Ilic, and Saori Phouthavongsay were recognized as outstanding caseworkers. Also recognized were Iris Gomez, a Domestic Violence Specialist; Susannah Holden, a Resource Family Consultant; and Kim Shaw, a Permanency Program Manager.

Those in attendance listened to accounts of staff empowering and mentoring teens, advocating for clients and engaging community partners; along with a variety of examples of professionalism, innovation, sensitivity, dedication, and genuine care for the children and families they serve.

Marilyn Johnson, retired RN and current QIC member, awarded the winners. Brent

Platt and Diane Moore of DCFS were in attendance to offer their congratulations.

“While our role is to advocate for improved services and outcomes for the families and children DCFS serves, we also want to recognize that there are staff at DCFS who are doing great things and making a difference in the lives of families and children,” says Mike Hamblin, Utah Foster Care Foundation Director of Foster/Adoptive Family Recruitment and Salt Lake Valley QIC Chair. “We think everyone should hear about them.”

The QIC is a committee made up of partners and community members who have a stake in the outcome of services provided to children and families. As informed critics of the child welfare system, their role is to study areas where improvement is needed and make recommendations.

If you are interested in participating on the QIC as a foster or adoptive parent, please give Mike a call for more information at 877-505-5437.

FAMILIES: PLEASE TURN IN RENEWAL HOURS TO YOUR TRAINER AS SOON AS THEY

ARE COMPLETED!

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Utah Foster CareFoundation’s

Photo Credit: UFCF

Join theUtah Foster Care

Foundationat The Gateway!

Want a chance to help? We’re currently seekingevent volunteers!

chalkartfestival.org/volunteer.html

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Wishing Well FundsUtah Foster Care Foundation has funds available to meet the special needs of children in foster care when DCFS is unable to meet these needs for any reason. Funds are limited.

Requests MUST include the following:

• Child’s first name, last initial and age

• Foster parent’s name and home address

• Caseworker’s name and contact information

• The item being requested and the associated costs

• Brief description of how the child will benefit

Request should come in writing by a foster parent, the child in care or the caseworker.

PLEASE NOTE:

• Dispersal of funds can take up to 4 weeks

• Checks are mailed to the foster parent’s home address

• Funds are for children in foster care ONLY

• Items covered by the foster care reimbursement or by Medicaid are not eligible.

VACATIONS:

• A child in care can receive vacation funds only ONCE in their lifetime

• Vacations are restricted monetarily & may not cover all costs

SUBMIT REQUESTS TO:

Tina PorterUtah Foster Care Foundation5296 So. Commerce Dr. #400Murray, UT 84107801.994-5205or [email protected]

W e would like to thank Treehouse Athletic Club in Draper for partnering with Utah Foster Care Foundation (UFCF) and the community to support foster families and children in care. In recognition of National Foster

Care month, Treehouse held activities throughout May to benefit the Foundation’s Wishing Well Fund and raise awareness of the ongoing need for foster families.

On May 4th at the club, Foundation CEO Kelly Peterson, the Utah Division of Child and Family Services, Salt Lake County Mayor Peter Corroon and Draper City Mayor Darrell Smith honored Annica Winters as Foster/Adoptive Mother of the Year for the Salt Lake Valley Region. Foster Moms Olga Lastra and Lucy Walbeck were presented with Awards of Excellence.

On May 21st, former U of U basketball star and NBA player Britton Johnsen and Treehouse hosted a basketball camp for children aged 6-18. Proceeds from the camp will help pay for special wishes of children in foster care.

The Treehouse also made scholarships for the camp available to a limited number of families with children in foster care.

Utah Foster CareFoundation’s

Photo Credit: UFCF

Join theUtah Foster Care

Foundationat The Gateway!

Want a chance to help? We’re currently seekingevent volunteers!

chalkartfestival.org/volunteer.html

Heartfelt Thanks

We would like to thank the following organizations for their contributions to Utah Foster Care Foundation. We appreciate your support.

Thank you.

• Alliance of the Utah Dental Association

• Baca-Bikers Against Child Abuse

• Hale Centre Theater

• The Utah Arts Festival

• Utah Symphony/Utah Opera

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Circle of Security

Chapters 1-4

Presented by Liz Rivera

Circle of Security Parenting is an attachment based model designed to promote secure attachments with our children. It is designed as an 8 “chapter” training. Please try to join us for

the entire series, though you may begin at any time.

Chapter One, 12 Jul, 6 – 7:30 pm Introducing the Circle

Chapter Two, 19 Jul, 6 – 7:30 pm Exploring Our Children’s Needs

Chapter Three, 26 Jul, 6 – 7:30 pm “Being With”

Chapter Four, 2 Aug, 6 – 7:30 pm Being With Infants on the Circle

South Towne DCFS 12537 S. Crossing Dr. (just north of In and Out Burger)

Cluster Meetings/Training

Salt Lake Valley Cluster InformationFor in-service training details, see the training pages.

Murray/Midvale/ E. Salt LakeFacilitator: TerumiPhone: 801.699.9769

KearnsFacilitator: MichellePhone: [email protected]

Magna/West ValleyFacilitator: LindaPhone: [email protected]

Salt Lake MetroFacilitator: RachelPhone: [email protected]

Sandy/DraperFacilitator: TinaPhone: [email protected]

South Vally West/ West JordanFacilitator: ValeriePhone: [email protected]

Tooele/Adoptive ParentsFacilitator: MaiaPhone: [email protected]

Tooele/Adoptive ParentsFacilitator: CamiPhone: [email protected]

Spanish/Cluster en EspañolFacilitator: JessicaPhone: [email protected]

Trauma 5-6

Caring for Children Who Have Experienced

Trauma

Presented by Liz Rivera

Dealing with feelings and behaviors & connections

and healing

June 13

6 pm – 9 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Murray

Caring for Children Who Have Experienced

Trauma

Presented by Liz Rivera

Becoming an Advocate & Taking Care of Yourself

June 27

6 pm – 9 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Murray

Trauma 7-8

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Salt Lake City

Understanding Mental Illness

Presented by NAMI

Pam Childs from NAMI will offer a realistic and compassionate view of

mental illness.

June 22

6 pm – 8 pm

Sprague Library

2131 South 1100 East

Salt Lake City So. Valley West

Promoting Resiliency

Presented by Alisa Van Langenveld

(tentative)

Research indicates there are many factors contributing

to resiliency after adversity. Alisa will share these

factors and ways which we can cultivate them—in our children and in ourselves.

TBD in August

6 pm – 8 pm

Sprague Library

2131 South 1100 East

Working with Biological Family/Open

Adoption

Presented by Panel

This panel will focus on the advantages and difficulties

in keeping contact with biological family AFTER

adoption.

August 11

6 pm – 8 pm

South Towne DCFS Office

12537 South Crossing Dr. (north of In and Out Burger)

Cluster Meetings/Training

Murray

Reading

Presented by University of Utah

Reading Clinic

Literacy is a major predictor of life success. The U of U

Reading Clinic will present ideas to make reading more accessible and enjoyable for

all our children.

June 29

6 pm-8 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Murray

SVW/WJ WVC/Magna

Suicide Prevention

Presented by TBD

This class will focus on recognizing signs of potential self-harm and

prevention.

June 14

6 pm – 8 pm

South Towne DCFS Office

12537 South Crossing Dr. (north of In and Out Burger)

Lesbian, Gay, Transgendered,

Questioning Youth

Presented by Pride Center

LGBTQ youth are more likely to become homeless and be

victims of violence. This class will help us understand the issues in working with this

population.

June 16

6 pm – 8 pm

UFCF

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Murray

Circle of Security

Chapters 5-8

Presented by Liz Rivera

Circle of Security Parenting is an attachment based model designed to promote secure attachments with our children. It is designed as an 8 “chapter” training. Please try to join us for

the entire series, though you may begin at any time.

Chapter Five, 9 Aug, 6 – 7:30 pm The Path to Security

Chapter Six, 16 Aug, 6 – 7:30 pm Exploring Our Struggles

Chapter Seven, 23 Aug, 6 – 7:30 pm Rupture and Repair in Relationships

Chapter Eight, 30 Aug, 6 – 7:30 pm Summary and Celebration

South Towne DCFS 12537 S. Crossing Dr. (just north of In and Out Burger)

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Cluster Meetings/Training

Chapter Seven Chapter Eight

Rupture and Repair in Relationships

Presented by Liz Rivera

February 22

6 pm – 7:30 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Summary and Celebration

Presented by Liz Rivera

March 1

10 am – 4 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Life Books

West Valley City/Magna/Kearns/

Spanish Speaking

Join us to work on those very important lifebooks. Children 8 and older are welcome to attend too!

August 19

5 pm – 9 pm

Utah Foster Care Foundation

5296 S. Commerce Dr. #400

Murray

What are Clusters?

Clusters are groups of foster, adoptive and kinship families that meet together on a monthly basis.

Clusters can help you:• Obtain in-service

training hours• Meet other foster, adoptive

and kinship families• Get support• Arrange respite care• Attend fun family activities

Contact the Cluster facilitator nearest you or contact Tina at 801.994.5205 for more information.

How to Register for Training

Contact:Liz Rivera

Salt Lake ValleyRegion Trainer

801.994.5205

[email protected]

Head Start is a comprehensive pre-school program for income qualifying families as well as children with documented disabilities.

Additional qualifications include:For Head Start, children must be 3 or 4 years old by September 1

For Early Head Start, pregnant women and children birth to 3 years old*

A family’s income must fall within the federal poverty guidelines, unless the child has a documented disability. To review these guidelines, please visit:

http://aspe.hhs.gov/poverty/11poverty.shtml

Extended care is available in some locations for a low fee

For more information, call or visit us on the web

(801) 972-2337

www.saltlakeheadstart.orgHead Start is an equal opportunity program and does not discriminate against race, religion, or gender. Our parent agency, Salt Lake Community Action Program, does not deny placement on the basis of a disability or its severity to any child. We do not provide transportation for students. HSowever, we can provide transportation support.

*limited service area

Salt Lake Valley Region Clusters have a group on

facebook!

Find us on facebook by logging in and searching for UFCF Clusters|Salt Lake Valley

Region, request to join and get in on all the fun.

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Jamie T.Birthday: 04/1995 Grade in School: 9th Heritage: Caucasian

This fashionista is Jamie. She is a trendy teenager who loves to look nice and dress up. Music, shopping and hanging out with people are just a few of her favorite things to do. Jamie dreams of being part of a family and having someone to whom she is connected. A people-person, this young woman has a great sense of humor and is easy to engage and talk to. If your family can provide for Jamie with the love and support she needs, we urge you to inquire.

For more information, please contact

The Adoption Exchange(801) 265-0444www.utdcfsadopt.org

The Foster Adoption OptionBy Allison R. Librett and Kellie F. Williams, Attorneys at Law, Van Cott

A ll children need a loving family. But, unfortunately, the journey from the decision to adopt to the final completion can be complicated. Involving an attorney experienced in adoption can help avoid the pitfalls and obstacles that

may occur along the way.

There are different ways to adopt a child. Couples, or individuals, can pursue a domestic or international adoption through an agency or on their own. Closer to home, you can choose to adopt through a foster care program. Adoption petitions can be filed in juvenile, district or adult court and, different rules apply depending on whether the adoption is a family adoption, interstate adoption, foreign adoption, private placement adoption, step-parent adoption or foster care adoption.

Consistently though, the person adopting must be at least 10 years older than the child unless you are a married couple; then only one of you must be at least 10 years older. A child may be adopted by adults who are legally married to each other, or by a single adult, provided the single adult is not cohabiting in a relationship that is not a legally valid marriage under the laws of the State of Utah. The child must live with you 12 months prior to finalizing the adoption. A criminal background check is required, by filling out forms and submitting fingerprints to the Utah Bureau of Criminal Investigation. Additionally, the Utah Division of Child and Family Services will conduct a review.

In most cases, a home study is required, which is conducted by an independent agency and includes a home visit, family and health history, as well as a consideration of your motivation to adopt. You do not have to be wealthy, childless or own your home in order to adopt. What is most important is that you have a commitment to provide a safe, stable and nurturing home for the child.

The biological mother’s consent is required unless her parental rights have been or are being terminated. If the child is an infant, the biological mother must wait 24 hours to consent. A biological father who was or is married to the mother must also give consent unless his parental rights have been or are being terminated.Utah law recognizes many categories of unmarried biological fathers and in some cases, the father must be given notice and consent. The consent of the child you are adopting is also required if the child is over the age of 12.

Once you have met these requirements and filed the necessary paperwork, you, your attorney, and your child will attend a judicial hearing. Your entire family is welcome and encouraged to attend. These hearings are closed to the public, but again, are the most joyous of proceedings in which attorneys and our judiciary participate. Once the court signs the adoption order, the child is legally your child, including all rights and privileges.

Van Cott is a full-service law firm committed to and capable of fulfilling the legal needs of our clients. We have a strong domestic relations practice group, which includes adoptions, custody arrangements and private guardian ad litem services. We continue to meet the growing needs of our clients by continuously evaluating, expanding, and reinventing the resources provided by the firm and our attorneys. Why do we do it? Because it matters!®

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Eddie R.Birthday: 11/1994 Grade in School: 10th Heritage: Hispanic

Edward, who likes to be called Eddie, is a great athlete. Sports come naturally to him and he enjoys playing them all, especially basketball. Not only does he enjoy sports, but he also likes playing video games and has shown a lot of interest in auto mechanics. He’d like to work in an auto shop one day. With his great sense of humor and infectious personality, it’s hard not to like this incredible teen. If your family can provide Eddie with the love and support he needs, we urge you to inquire.

For more information, please contact

The Adoption Exchange(801) 265-0444www.utdcfsadopt.org

To Brace or Not To Brace“Katie’s new permanent teeth look all jumbled up and crowded. Is she going to need braces?”

Iam asked this question quite often, and rightly so. It is the job of your child’s dentist to recommend if and when orthodontic treatment may be necessary. In this article I will discuss some of the reasons why and when you may be referred to an orthodontist for

your child’s teeth.

First of all, most children will not require full braces (top and bottom, all teeth) until they have lost all of their baby teeth – around 12 years of age. That said, some children may still need a minor phase of treatment before that time. But by and large, most kids won’t be looking at getting braces until they are 11 or 12 years old.

The exceptions to that rule are those children who have something unusual going on, like severe crowding or a jaw or tooth relationship problem. It should be noted that most children get a little crowding when permanent teeth start to come in. If you think about it, there are much larger teeth taking the place of itty-bitty baby teeth. There is naturally going to be a shortage of space. Over time, however, a little crowding will get better, because of the loss of other baby teeth and the natural growth of the jaws. In almost all cases, the initial crowding you notice when permanent teeth start to come in will get better. Now, “better” doesn’t mean perfect. Braces may still be needed to correct a little crowding once all of the permanent teeth are in.

Getting back to those exceptions, some conditions that will require early orthodontic treatment include overbites, underbites, cross-bites, and again, severe crowding. The solution to most of these problems may not be braces right away. There are some really cool new treatment methods for some of these conditions that include the use of a retainer or other appliance that can be situated completely inside the mouth. Remember those medieval-looking treatment methods when we were kids?

Like I mentioned before, your child’s dentist should be able to recommend when is the right time to see an orthodontist, if at all. Your dentist will be able to tell if one of these more serious issues is going on, or if your child is experiencing a normal amount of crowding. And if your dentist isn’t answering all of your concerns, just call an orthodontist directly. Most of them won’t charge you a fee for just a consult.

-Jeff Burg

Owner of Burg Pediatric Dentistry, with six locations to serve you.Look us up online at www.burgpediatricdentistry.com

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