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Page 1: HOW TO UNCOVER YOUR WORKING IDENTITY - everywoman · a) I’m thinking of a major career change b) I am thinking about starting a family/returning to work c) I’m feeling dissatisfied

HOW TO UNCOVER YOUR WORKING IDENTITY

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everywoman expert

Pippa Isbell

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Sheryl Sandberg

COO, facebook

“Careers are a Jungle Gym, not a Ladder”

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a) I’m thinking of a major career change

b) I am thinking about starting a family/returning to

work

c) I’m feeling dissatisfied with my professional

status quo

d) I want a better or different work/life balance

Poll 1: what motivated you to sign up for this webinar?

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• Ask yourself, who am I now?

• Who do I want to be?

• What gives me joy in my life?

• What are the talents I want to

deploy?

go back to basics

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time for self assessment

• When have you been most committed, passionate and

enthusiastic?

• When have you been most sure of yourself and your

decisions?

• When have you enjoyed your work most?

• What talents were you relying on, and using, in these

situations?

• What activities are you drawn towards out of work?

• If money were no concern, what would you be doing?

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• Take a long hard look at your situation

• What do you want and need?

• What would work better for you?

• What does your ideal situation look like?

address the practicalities

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“Stop trying to find your one

true self. Focus your attention on

which one of your many possible

selves you want to test and learn

more about.”

Herminia Ibarra

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what is your goal?

• Change?

• Refresh?

• Reinvent?

• Realign?

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Work out what opportunities will suit your goals

Consider all the options

Decide on your direction

Harness your network

Discuss with your trusted advisors

do your research

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Set your target

Develop a mental picture of the goal

What will it take to get there?

What will you have to confront in yourself?

How does it impact others?

Develop a plan and a critical path

work out where you want to go

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limiting beliefs

“Of all the forces that hold

women back, none are as

powerful as entrenched

beliefs.”

Joanna Barsh, McKinsey & Company

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a) I can’t discuss this with my boss – it would harm my

career prospects

b) I’m not sure I have the courage to make major

changes

c) Personal issues

Poll 2: what holds you back?

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In a recent

everywoman survey:

• 46% are Avoiders

• 19% are Can’t doers

• 35% are Won’t doers

the fears behind excuses

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• What are your limiting beliefs?

• How can you dispel them?

• Work out your place of positive discomfort

• Draw up the pros and cons

• Reframe your thinking

enter the learning zone

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• Use challenges to learn

• Take control

• Keep a sense of perspective

• Set goals and tick them off

• Celebrate your successes

• Be kind to yourself

• Choose optimism

develop resilience

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