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Influencing and Persuading

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Kellie Beirne, Melin Homes, addressed CHC's PR network and spoke about influencing, negotiating and persuading.

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Page 1: Influencing negotiating and persuading

Influencing and Persuading

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Why are these skills so important (now)?

Change:– Post election environment– New localism, public funding cuts, welfare

reform, ‘power to the people’ & freedoms and flexibilities

– Fundamental implications for our organisations, people and communities

– Intrinsic to how we build capacity and empower

– New way…of everything

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Fight or flight?

• Change: Love it or hate it, it’s a constant• Need package of skills, all of which embody

ability to influence and shape a new agenda– Adaptability. Agility. Resilience. Energy.

Entrepreneurialism. Creativity. Resourcefulness– Compelling evidence and vision– Thought leadership– Opinion forming– Rational and emotional intelligence

• ‘new way’ will mean different context, different partners, different delivery…different slant.

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So what do I know?• Various roles and contributions over the

years• Battle tested but still smiling• Learned a lot… and still learning• Leadership is key• Be the change you want to see• Pause. Reflect• Sit back, listen and think. • Gravitas and passion

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• Influencing is not lobbying• The power of inference & suggestion• Assertion not aggression• Build consensus not engage in conflict• Passion v obsession (don’t overplay strengths!)• Self awareness – seek feedback • Trust• Under-state criticism and regular praise• Not how people behave, its how you treat them

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Don’t believe the hype!• Conventional thinking rates ‘experience’ as most

desirable• (More important is the ability to bring people

together to deliver a common goal)• Live to work• ‘safe pair of hands’? (What flavour ice-cream are

you?)• Intuition – never shy away from emotional stuff• Challenge is healthy• ‘People are talking’ • Management is a specialist skill

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Leadership is key• Transformational powers• Not necessarily of staff or teams – many different types• No great mystery, art or science!• Just be you – people person• Micro-management has no place in influencing• Time or talent?• Lead from back or middle – doesn’t have to be front• Set outcomes but don’t prescribe methodology• Outcomes not process• Have a go v getting fingers burned• Optimism• Courage

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Because…• Builds consensus around issues• Means you shape an agenda• Take people with you & inspire them to achieve • Gains co-operation• Its okay to be liked• People usually know what the right thing to do is

– don’t need ‘showing’• Increases productivity, dynamism and helps

unlock potential• Whole is greater than sum of its parts

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Hearts and Minds

• Reason – mind/logic

• Affection – heart

• Intuition – gut feel

• Desire - passion

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Examples• Torfaen ‘the early years’ … GRIT• Section 106 Agreements & private sector …

MAGNAMINITY• Blenheim Square …BELIEF & SUPPORT• National policy shaping … KNOWLEDGE• Digital inclusion …PUSHING BACK

BOUNDARIES• ‘Measuring the Impact’… CHALLENGE

• Professional life and personal - BALANCE

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My top 10 tips

• Know your stuff inside and out• Show people where their contribution fits• Create a sense of momentum• Communicate clearly• Big picture but devil in detail• Know the boundaries, then push them back• Find a champion• Verbs more important than nouns• Seize the day, but don’t take yourself too seriously • Show integrity – good faith is hard to knock