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    This Soul-winning guide has been prepared for Members of the Church of

    Christ, who are or would like to become involved in seeking the Lost. Our

    goal is to provide precise information, in a clear, simple to understand

    format, in as many languages, as God wills.

    Leading Others to Christ

    With or Without Jesus Eternity is Forever

    This guide is provided freely to ALL in the name of our Lord and

    Savior, Jesus Christ.

    Introduction

    This guide includes straightforward information to assist those outside the

    Body of Christ, in being born again and to show the narrow way of the cross

    that leads to salvation and eternal Life. Practical methods of explaining, the

    Message of Christ and the Good News of the Gospel, using various

    approaches and techniques

    Important Note: These materials have been prepared in a

    modified outline form; in order to, quickly convey the concepts, ideas

    and suggestions in a minimum number of words. For example,

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    whenever possible, short phases are used in lieu of complete

    sentences.

    Leading others to Christ is the Great Commission that

    Jesus gave to his followers, which includes all members ofthe Church of Christ. This is an URGENT CALL to its

    Members to finally break the silence and begin to bring

    Gods simple Plan of Salvation to a dying world.MATTHEW 28:19-20

    Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the

    name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

    Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have

    commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, [even] unto the

    end of the world. Amen.

    As Christians, personal evangelism or proclaiming the

    Good News of the gospel is the one of the major functionsof our work for Christ. People cannot obey the gospel, if we

    do not share it. Peter asked:1 PETER 4:17

    For the time [is come] that judgment must begin at the house

    of God: and if [it] first [begin] at us, what shall the end [be] ofthem that obey not the gospel of God?

    Paul clearly answers that question:2 THESSALONIANS 1:8

    In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God,

    and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ:

    Please carefully consider the following:

    Each Christian must evaluate what he or she is really doing to

    reach the world for Christ.

    Most agree that if the church is to grow rapidly, that it will be

    through the efforts of its individual Members.

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    Each Member should accept the responsibility of personal

    evangelism, which means that all believers stand in HIS stead.

    The vast majority concurs and is willing, but many feel they are

    unqualified, due a lack of training, to undertake this task.

    The purpose of this manual is to provide the necessary

    information, in an organized manner, to assist these Members in

    overcoming this widespread dilemma, within our Brotherhood

    and:

    To encourage group training to all Members

    To suggest that a simplified version be taught in Sundaymorning youth classes, in order to overcome our current

    predicament in the future.

    In order to be an effective soul-winner one needs the

    following:

    Having a Heart that is Right with God and a strong desire to see that people

    are saved

    Organized step by step plans of action, including suggested sources of

    potential prospects

    Materials that present the Truth in a clear and meaningful manner to both

    members of other Faiths and all non-members

    To personally develop a working knowledge of effective persuasion

    techniques

    If you determine to take the cold information from this manualand add your warm caring attitude, and if you are willing to ask

    people the Crunch Question, (which is not difficult) then no doubtyou will see souls saved, to the GLORY of GOD.

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    Please feel free to download and print all materials.

    Please read the entire contents of this resource, before

    beginning work, as some important points are listed at the end ofthe guide.

    Preparing for Personal Evangelism

    Pray for open and willing hearts, for wisdom and strength

    to pursue opportunities to win souls for Christ, to help youin your presentation and for other assistance you may

    require from God, the Father.JAMES 1:5

    If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all

    [men] liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

    Carefully study the materials provided

    SUGGESTIONS FOR GETTING STARTED FAST

    Create copies of Six Simple Steps to be saved, it is suggested thatthese be folded over and carried in your personal Bible. (See

    Appendix)

    Six Simple Steps to be SavedStep #1

    Hear the WordFaith comes by hearing the Word of God (Romans 10:17)

    Without faith it is impossible to please God (Hebrews 11:6)

    Step #2

    Truly Believe in Jesus as the Son of GodJesus links belief to salvation (Mark 16:15-16)

    Account of the conversion of the Ethiopian eunuch (Acts 8:26-40)

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    Step #3

    Repent of your SinsJesus warns that all sinners will perish unless they repent. (Luke 13:1-5)

    For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but

    the sorrow of the world worketh death. (2 Corinthians 7:10)

    Step #4

    Confess Jesus before menWhosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also

    before my Father which is in heaven. But whosoever shall deny me before

    men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven. (Matthew

    10:32-33)

    The eunuch voiced his belief in Jesus as the Son of God prior to being

    baptized. (Acts 8:37)

    Step #5Be BaptizedRepent, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins,

    and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. (Acts 2:38)

    Baptism is a requirement for salvation (Mark 16:16)

    Burial in water (1 Corinthians 12:13)

    Assures us that anyone in Christ is a new creation; old things have passed

    away and all things have become new. (2 Corinthians 5:17)

    Step #6Live a faithful life until deathFear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall

    cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have

    tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown

    of life. (Revelation 2:10)

    Obtain and mark an (or several) inexpensive (nice softback New Testaments or Bibles can be purchased for a

    nominal sum) New Testament with a pen or pencil, asfollowings:

    Begin by writing Six Simple steps to be Saved and Romans 10:17

    on the fly page of the Bible(s) your plan to use.

    Along Romans 10:17 note Hebrews 11:6

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    Along Hebrews 11:6 note Mark 16:15-16

    Along Mark 16:15-16 note Act 8:26-40

    Along Act 8:26-40 note Luke 13:1-5

    Along Luke 13:1-5 note 2 Corinthians 7:10

    Along 2 Corinthians 7:10 note Matthew 10:32-33Along Matthew 10:32-33 note Acts 8:37

    Along Acts 8:37 note Acts 2:38

    Along Acts 2:38 note Mark 16:16

    Along Mark 16:16 note 1 Corinthians 12:13

    Along 1 Corinthians 12:13 note 2 Corinthians 5:17

    Along 2 Corinthians 5:17 note Revelation 2:10

    Along Revelation 2:10, write the word Invitation, as reminder to

    invite them to be baptized, attend services or arrange an

    appointment to formally study the Bible.

    It is recommended that you carry the marked New

    Testament or Bible with you at all times, as you never know

    when or where an opportunity to explain Gods Plan may

    develop. If you are thinking about evangelism, you willnaturally talk about it. So, be ready to unfold and explain it

    at any time.

    Making use of a marked Bible makes it easier for you andyour Prospect to focus on what the Bible says about

    salvation, since you are not required to remember the verse

    references.

    Consider using an easy to understand contemporary

    translation, as your Prospect(s) may have limited Biblical

    knowledge.

    After making your presentation and making anappointment for a future study, depending upon your

    progress and feelings, consider presenting a marked version

    to your potential new convert. If so, write, in the presents

    of your Prospect(s), your name and telephone number, as

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    well as, Church of Christ, the name of the Minister,

    address, telephone number and schedule of Sunday servicesof the Church on the inside of the cover. While you are

    making note of this information, make clear that you or theMinister are available to assist the Prospect(s) at any time

    and that they are cordially invited to attend services of the

    Church.

    It is suggested that you also print copies of A Time for

    Honest Reflection (See Appendix) and carry with your

    folded training materials, so that you will have a persuasionor closing tool available, if needed.

    Prepare further by:

    Obtaining a spiral bound notebook that you carry with youat all times, to note such items as names & addresses, dates

    of contact, questions, referrals etc. In other words, create

    a notebook that contains all the information related to yoursoul winning efforts.

    Review, select and print resources from the available webpages included within this site. Set up a three-ring

    notebook with dividers, so you have your reference

    materials in one manual.

    Adding additional information and notes, as needed

    Developing confidence and your courage by perfectingyour knowledge of the Word, practicing your presentation,by real world experience and prayer

    Developing an attitude of love, concern and interest for

    the souls of all non-believers who touch your life, so that

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    they may learn the Truth of Gods Word, have the

    opportunity to obey it and the Hope of going to Heaven. Youcould be their last chance to make their Hearts Right with

    God.

    Remembering to always ask for referrals to others, that

    your Prospect(s) believe might be responsive to the Good

    News of the Gospel.

    Sources of Potential Prospects

    Most individuals we come in contact with are among the lost andare in immediate need of your assistance in understanding theTruth and the Good News of the Gospel.

    There are two types of individuals who are outside

    the Body of Christ

    Members of other Faiths(Believers who are not Members ofthe Church of Christ) Most of these are sincere individuals who

    have been misinformed.

    These individuals are among the easiest to arrange a Bible study

    with, as they view it as an opportunity to convert you to theirFaith.

    Other Prospects - Not currently active in any form of

    organized religion, commonly known as the unchurched

    These individuals are further divided into people with

    whom you are acquainted with and the balance of the

    population.

    Those with whom you are acquainted with can be further

    classified into those you have a close personal relationship

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    moving along the scale to those who could be termed as passing

    acquaintances.

    The only differences in these Prospects are the methods

    suggested in making the initial appointment to formally studythe Bible.

    What you will be asking for is the opportunity to unfold and

    explain in very simple terms, Gods Plan of Salvation and basis of

    our belief that we are members of His One True Church.

    Developing Your Personal List of Prospects

    List the names, addresses and telephone numbers of yourpersonal Prospects, by type of Prospect in your notebook.

    Possible sources of additional Prospects include, but aredefinitely not limited to:

    Immediate family

    Other relatives

    Fellow workers

    If you work full or part time, an opportunity may exist to

    open discussions regarding spiritual matters during lunchperiods or breaks.

    Neighbors

    Friends

    Friendship evangelism works, sow the seed of the gospel

    by being friendly, kind and being open about your faith.

    Acquaintances

    Individuals in crisis or undergoing trauma

    Such as a separation, divorce, illness, fire, recent death

    of child or spouse etc. Consider mailing a note offeringto study the Bible with those who have recently

    experienced such an event.

    Passages from Keys to the Scriptures may be useful in

    preparing the note and youre follow-up. In times such as

    these, sometimes people begin to realize just how

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    vulnerable they really are. In many cases, they are

    looking for assistance from God, which provides you an

    opportunity to discuss the status of their soul(s).

    Friends and relatives of Members

    Children of Members, who are not currently attending servicesSpouses of Members, who are not currently attending services

    In regards to the three forgoing potential sources, a

    simple device is to invite them to eat with you and your

    spouse, in order to create a relationship. It is suggested

    that you ask for permission first to avoid confusion.

    Friends who attend youth functions with our youth

    These provide an often over looked source of contacts.

    It is suggested that you ask for permission first to avoid

    confusion.Visitors to Worship services

    Their attendance indicates an interest in the study of

    the Bible. It suggested that this effort be coordinated

    through the Elders or leadership.

    Delinquent Members

    We should always try to restore those who have fallen

    away. It suggested that this effort be coordinated

    through the Elders.

    Newcomers to Town

    These individuals are usually open and seeking to make

    new friends.

    Benevolent contacts

    Individual taking advantage of clothing, food or toy

    giveaways have seen our concern for others and usually

    are open to free personal Bibles.

    Non-members who attend Ladies Bible class

    Newlyweds

    Those planning to marry

    Particularly, if the future spouse of a Member is not amember of the Church

    People seeking counselingMay be looking to make changes in their lives

    Hospital contacts

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    Individuals experiencing major illness can clearly see that

    their lives could end at any time.

    Bible School and Vacation Bible School contacts

    Their attendance may indicate an interest in the study of

    the Bible.Individual who take Bible correspondence courses

    A good source, if your congregation offers these courses

    if not, why not request that this service be provided.

    Jails and prisons

    Many times incarcerated individuals are interested in

    making positive changes in their lives.

    Rest homes

    Individuals living in rest homes always like visitors and

    may be interested in studying the Bible.Friends of new convert

    Most new converts have friends and relatives and may be

    interested in introducing you for the purpose of teaching

    the gospel.

    Funerals

    Those attending tend to realize just how little time they

    may have remaining.

    Newspaper articles

    Send the Light - Offer to study the Bible with those in

    need.

    Handing out gospel tracts

    Why not line up a partner, set aside 2 or 3 hours per

    week to hand out tracts in a public place such as a market

    or post office?

    Organize a Bible study group

    Organize a group of neighbors, coworkers or groups with

    common interests into a weekly Bible study group.

    Classified ad

    Consider running an ad offering to study the Bible withthose in need

    Recently retired individualsMembers of ALL other Faiths

    Personal referrals from your other Prospects

    Old fashion canvassing from door to door

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    Have you ever wondered why some churches will spend

    thousands of dollars to send a couple of missionaries half

    way around the world, when no one from the church has

    taken five minutes, to speak to the people living thirty

    feet away, across the street?

    And many others please e-mail your ideas, thoughts or

    comments to [email protected]. I will forward

    them to other members of Diplomats for Christ and possibly

    include in future revisions.

    After carefully studying this list, your mind should be filled

    with many potentialProspects and ideas.

    Take time to make notes in your spinal notebook, immediately,

    before any thoughts slip away.

    It is suggested that you limit your list of active Prospects to

    four to six, so you will be able to focus your efforts.

    It is suggested that husband and wife teams use the same list.

    Posting your list, such as on a mirror, may serve as a helpful

    reminder.

    Sharing the Truth

    Members of other Faiths

    Select one or two Prospects, from your list, who are Member(s)

    of another Faith.

    Research the doctrine of the prospects religion.

    Compare the Doctrine and practices of the Prospects

    denomination or religion with the modern Church of Christ

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    and the early Church using the material provided in Only

    One Church is HIS Church or other resources contained inthis website and the Bible.

    The Internet is a source of the doctrines of various

    denominations and religions.

    Many denominations publish a statement of belief, which may be

    available at the local church.

    You may find it beneficial to prepare a written outline of thedifferences, with Bible references to support the position of

    the Church of Christ.

    It is suggested you limit Prospects to one denomination orreligion at a time, in order to avoid confusion.

    You may find it to your advantage to specialize in one large

    denomination or religion.

    Consider approaching members of denominations and religions

    that are in public conflict (i.e. election of homosexual leaders

    etc.)

    Arranging the first appointmentAssuming you know the individual, all that is usually required

    is that you call and state that you are interest in exploring

    the similarities and differences between the two Churches,at a convenience time.

    Avoid discussing the topic further on the telephone.

    Simply suggest two times and dates and ask which would be

    more convenience, then set a neutral public meeting place,where you may discuss these issues privately.It is strongly suggested that your prospects be of the same

    sex and that you meet with them, privately in a neutral

    location, one on one.

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    Teams

    It is suggested that Members of other Faiths beapproached one on one. This should be a mature discussion

    and we do not wish to make the prospect feel that he or sheis being double-teamed.

    An exception would be a husband and wife team or two

    individuals of the same sex, in the event that you this in the

    only way you feel you can take part in this important

    activity. Try to get over it.In these cases, only one member of the team is to take the

    active role.

    Another exception would be when your prospect wishes toinclude additional individuals from their Faith.

    Discussions with Members of other Faiths

    Be prepared for this almost universal question:

    Is it true that the Church of Christ believes that only its

    Members will go to Heaven?

    A suggested response is:

    It does not make any difference what either of us believes.

    What is important are what Jesus and His Apostles in the NewTestament taught.

    We simply believe that following carefully the instructions and

    commandments of Jesus and His Apostles is required to be

    saved:

    References: MATTHEW 7:14, MATTHEW 28:19-20,JOHN 14:15, 2 JOHN 1:9

    Direct the conversation to a discussion centered on thedifferences between the two Churches.

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    Ask a question such as Why do you believe that your

    denomination or faith is HIS Church?

    Listen carefully and take detailed notes

    Be prepared for the question Why do you believe that the

    Church of Christ is HIS Church?

    Pull copies of The Biblical Foundation of the Church of Christ

    which available in the Appendix or other resource and proceed.

    The primary objective of your presentation is tohighlight the critical differences between the his church

    and THE One and Only Church that Jesus personally builtwith His own hands or His One True Church (Romans 16:16).

    Use your detailed notes and possibly one of the following to

    begin to build the case for the Church of our Lord.

    The following resources were designed specifically to bring into

    focus the central issues on this topic with the type Prospect(s)

    Millions may Worship in Vain, Is your church HIS Church? Or

    How to find the Right Church

    The secondary objective is to strengthen in the mind of

    your Prospect(s) that the Church of Christ is based solely

    on the rock solid Word of God, without exception, using

    your materials or the resources supplied and the Bible.

    Consider the use of The Fundamentals found in the first part

    of His One True Church or Men and brethren, what shall we

    do? found in From Now to Eternity.

    The greater the amount of specific detail, the better

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    Points to Remember

    Dialog should be carried on in a logical unemotional, loving

    manner.

    This is NOT a contest, but a QUEST for the TRUTH.

    CONTROL THE TONE AND VOLUME of your voice. This is a

    friendly discussion, NOT A DEBATE.

    ALWAYS MAINTAIN A CALM COMPOSURE and NEVER

    ARGUE. In the event, the discussion begins to become heated,

    remind your prospect(s) (and yourself) that it makes no

    difference what feelings or emotions, this discussion may haveuncovered, as long as the singular objective is to clearly and

    totally define the Truth, based solely upon the Word of God.

    (John 17:17) Then offer to reschedule at a more convenience

    time.

    In the event, anyone involved in unable to regain a calm attitude

    within a few minutes STOP and again suggest the arrangement

    of a future appointment.

    The beliefs of a lifetime, plus the recognition that loved ones

    who have passed on and at this very moment are likely only

    beginning their eternal sufferings may produce an immediate

    and extremely powerful reaction.

    Watch and be prepared. Usually all that required to overcome

    this hindrance is to allow the individual(s) time to recover from

    the shock of his or her realization and to clarify the fact that,

    in the eyes of God, each person is, in absolutely control his or

    her ultimate destiny.

    Prepare to spend substantial time in this effort.

    Study with the individual as long as they show a sincere effort

    to find the Truth.

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    At the end of the session, set another appointment for further

    discussion and study.

    Handling questions you are unable to answer

    If you do not know the answer to a question, simply make a

    written note.

    Ask if they have any other questions.

    Set date and time to get back with them. Then search for

    answer(s) or request assistance and follow up, when properly

    prepared.

    Your ultimate goal is to persuade or convince yourProspect that he is not on the path to Heaven and that he

    or she should convert and become a Member of the Church

    of Christ.

    Use only the softest of persuasion techniques, as these

    individual already believe. They only require instruction in the

    Truth.

    Always keep in mind that his convictions are just as strong as

    ours are. Therefore, the most successful method is not to

    become argumentative, but to consistently use logic and reason,

    based solely on the Word of God.

    Understand that many active members of denominations are

    often satisfied with their human traditions and are not

    receptive to the pure and simple gospel of Christ or that theirservices are simply more fun than those that are defined in the

    Bible.

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    If your Prospect begins to develop an interest in the

    Church of Christ or to question his or her Faith, take theopportunity to;

    Invite your Prospect(s) to Church services with you.

    If successful, introduce them to the Minister, Elders, Deacons

    and other Members. Always show love and respect.

    Be willing to attend services of their Church as a courtesy.

    Take detailed notes regarding the service for future

    comparison and discussion.

    Continue the discussion and prayers.

    Encourage your prospect(s) to continue their attendance

    and to be baptized, as well as, becoming active Member(s)

    of the Church of Christ.

    All Other Prospects

    This type of Prospects are usually not currently active in any

    form of organized religion and are commonly known as the

    unchurched.

    Classify Prospects.

    The first task is developing a written list potential Prospects

    list, dividing it into people with whom you are acquainted with

    and those that you do not really know.

    The second task is to rate the individual Prospects with whom

    you have some form of relationship.

    Those with whom are acquainted with can be further classified

    and rated into those you have a close personal relationship,

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    which would have a rating of ten (10) with a passing causal

    acquaintance with a rating of one (1).

    The balance of your Prospects, are people you do not really

    know and therefore a rating is unnecessary

    The primary reason for classifying Prospects is to determine the

    best and most effective method in making the initial appointmentto formally study the Bible.

    If you have not done so already, review and study the

    training resources

    Select Four to Six Unchurched Prospects

    Never be ashamed to discuss Christ, the gospel and their soul

    with a relative, friend, acquaintance or any other living person.

    Reference: ROMANS 1:16

    Classify the Prospect to be approached using your

    ratings.

    A rating of from five to ten indicates individuals with whom you

    have a reasonable close to a very close relationship. These

    individuals will make up your A list

    A rating of from one to four indicates individuals with whom youhave causal to a somewhat close relationship. These individuals

    will make up your B list.

    All others will make up your C list.

    Determine the training materials you plan to use with

    each Prospect.

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    This is decision should be made based upon all the available

    information you have regarding the individual, including, but not

    limited to, the amount of free time they have available, the

    level of their Biblical knowledge, the level of personal

    difficulties they are currently facing etc.

    Arrange the Appointment for a formal Bible study

    For those new to soul winning, this step is usually the most

    difficult. After you have arranged a few, you may wonder why

    is seemed so difficult in the beginning.

    The key to arranging appointments is to carefully select the

    time, place and being prepared.

    The methods employed will usually vary with by type and the

    classification of each individual.

    Jude points out that it is necessary to approach individuals

    using various approaches

    Reference: JUDE 1:22-23

    The following are suggested methods of making appointments,based upon their classification.

    Remember that the process can only start when you request an

    appointment to study the Bible.

    Do not be intimidated, you have excellent training materials in

    hand, all of which have Biblical support. Additionally, you have a

    solid knowledge of the requirements to be saved and God is on

    your side.

    In addition, most unchurched individuals are novices in religious

    manners.

    The only element remaining is for YOU to add your love and

    concern for lost souls. There is an old salesmans saying that has

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    direct application to this important work They dont care how

    much we know until they know how much we care!

    A list Appointments can usually be made successfully

    either by telephone or in person. Reasonably close friendsor relatives will usually agree to a session based upon yourrelationship. Assume they will meet with you! For example,

    you could telephone an individual on you A list and state

    the following:

    (Name of Prospect), I recently acquired a very interesting,

    concise Bible Study Guide that I would like to run through with

    you. I am free tonight and tomorrow night, which would be bestfor you? (After you have received a response in regard to the

    evening, immediately set the time.) 7 or 7:30

    B list Appointments can be made either by telephone

    or in person depending upon the level of your relationship.

    It is suggested that you make the appointment in person

    using a direct or indirect approach. The direct approach is

    to simply ask for the appointment. For example you couldstate the following:

    (Name of Prospect), I would very much like to spend two or

    three hour with you in order to get to know you better and to

    share with you my beliefs, so you can get to know me. It will be

    enjoyable. Would tomorrow afternoon work for you or would

    you prefer the following day? (After they have selected the

    day, set the time)

    The indirect approach, which includes a pre-appointmentmeeting, in which you open or direct the conversation with

    spiritual oriented questions

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    This approach is generally recommended for all C list

    Prospects.

    The Indirect Approach

    Note: This is definitely a causal meeting. It could be at the

    market, on the street, at the park, after the PTA meeting etc.

    After briefly engaging in general conversation

    move the discussion into a spiritual context with a

    question.

    Suggested Neutral questions to open a conversation, launch apresentation or to move the conversion into a spiritual context

    What is your vision of Heaven? or What is your vision of

    Heaven and Hell?

    Follow up question What steps are you taking to insure your

    place in Heaven?

    Have you ever considered the meaning of the words forever or

    eternity?Follow up statements/question Everlasting Never ending

    Frightening isnt it?

    MATTHEW 25

    41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand,

    Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire,

    prepared for the devil and his angels:

    Avoid harsh direct questions or statements such as;

    Where will YOU spend eternity, Heaven or Hell?

    YOU are going to Hell.

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    This approach will automatically raise the natural defense

    systems and you will NOT be heard.

    Avoid questions that can be answered YES or NO,

    responses many times; provide details of the prospectsattitudes and state of mind. Most people have an opinion

    and their answers will guide you in how to proceed.

    Important: After you have asked your question. Listen intently

    - Show your deep interest or concern

    Comment on their answer, to your opening question.Reference: JAMES 1:9

    Your primary objective with further general conversion isto determine the types of problems your potential Prospect

    is currently facing, particularly those which are the most

    pressing or difficult to solve.

    Your secondary objective is to mentally gather additionalinformation by engaging the prospect in a spiritually

    oriented conversation in order to determine their personalsituations, such as:

    What is their general attitudes regarding religion

    Do they have hatred in their hearts, if so why.

    Explore prior church involvement.

    Other related personal information.

    Note: Immediately after this meeting make detailed notes.

    Preparing for the Indirect Presentation

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    Within 48 hours, it is suggested:

    That you call and offer the prospect a benefit for taking the

    time to speak with you, such as, I have been thinking about the

    problem,(their problem)we discussed.

    I have come up with some ideas and possible solutions andwould like to meet with you again, at your convenience, to share

    them with you.

    Are you available at (time) on next (day and date)? If not, ask

    them to make a suggestion.

    Once the time and date is set, ask, Would (suggest a neutrallocation, such as a coffee shop, in order to avoid distractions)

    be convenient?

    If not, ask them to make a suggestion. Complete the

    arrangements for the meeting.

    Complete your list of possible ideas and solutions to their

    immediate needs or problems. The last and most important is

    seeking the help of God, which leads into your presentation.

    Select and copy the training resources you wish to have

    available.

    At the appointed time, discuss each of the possible worldly

    ideas and solutions to their immediate needs or problems with

    your Prospect(s) from memory.

    After you completed your worldly suggestions:

    Pause for a moment and then say let us pray and then proceed

    with a detailed prayer asking for God to assist your Prospect in

    his or her problem and that He open their heart and mind.

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    After the prayer, IMMEDITATELY START YOURPRESENTATION using a list of passages from the Biblethat relate to the solution or understanding of the problem

    from your independent point of view.

    Smoothly hand the opening page (List of verses) of your

    presentation, to your Prospect(s) as you discuss seeking theassistance of God in solving the problem.

    Note: You may find Keys to the Scriptures useful in developing

    this type of list.

    In the event the Biblical solution you require is NOT covered,

    it is suggested that you search passages within the free Bible

    programs resources, by using their built in search functions,

    which can be downloaded from http://www.e-sword.net/or

    http://www.eveningdew.com/.

    As you know, the awesome power of the combination of prayer

    and reading the Word of God can produce amazing results.

    Regardless of the apparent results, your prospect will usually

    feel better and have respect for your convictions.

    Within 48 hours, call to arrange a formal Bible study.

    Reminder telephone calls

    Situations change, people forget appointments.

    Making the call allows your prospect to make a change, if

    necessary or avoid missing the meeting. Do not allow changes ormissed meeting to affect your attitude.

    Expect these events to happen and when they do, simply make

    the necessary adjustments.

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    Experienced sales people make adjustments in their schedules

    on a daily basis.

    Stay in touch with your prospect and they will know you

    personally care about their spiritual condition.

    Remember the old time salesmans motto They dont care how

    much we know until they know how much we care!

    ObjectivesAvoid making your presentations too complex or involved.

    HEBREWS 5:12

    Instructional ObjectivesImportant Note: The next four points could also be defined as your

    MISSION as a fearless Evangelist. One of fundamental purposes of

    this website is to explain these topics from different points of views.

    1. To define clearly and specifically why we believe that ALL

    Members of other faiths are walking Satans the wide roadto everlasting punishment in the Lake of Fire.

    2.To firmly establish and be certain that the Unchurched

    Prospect clearly understands that he or she is a sinner in

    serious peril and is currently traveling on the wide road to

    eternal punishment in the lake of fire.

    3. To provide ALL Prospect(s) detailed information regarding

    why the Church of Christ is the One True Church that

    Jesus built with His own hands.

    4.To formally guide ALL Prospect(s) through the study ofGods Word, clearly defining the simple steps to be saved.

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    Your Primary purpose is to properly instruct and

    persuade your Prospect(s) to be baptized immediately.

    Make the leadership of Church aware of your efforts andhave arrangements in place, in order to avoid confusion and

    disappointment.

    Suggestion: Consider setting aside Wednesday afternoon for

    your soul winning efforts, which would provide the option ofoffering immediate baptism at the Wednesday night service.

    If successful, continue to encourage, instruct, pray and

    study with the new Member(s). Determine causes if theyregularly miss services.

    Your Secondary Objective is to invite them to the

    services of the Church.

    Offer to drive - If driving, call shortly before to confirm orremind.

    Before or after services introduce them to the Minister, some

    of the Elders, Deacons, Members, possibly with similar

    interests.

    Continue the discussion, prayer, to encourage prospect(s)

    become involved in the classes, services, social activities of theChurch and to be baptized.

    Preparing for the Bible Study Session

    Selection of the Bible or Bibles you will use during the

    Bible studies.

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    Of course, any Bible is completely acceptable; however,certain Bibles offer unique advantages as a training aid.

    A parallel Bible, which contains multiple versions of the Bible, isvery useful, if a Prospect is having difficulties understanding

    the meaning of a passage. Can also be useful in resolving

    misunderstandings

    A study Bible, such as those used by many ministers and seriousstudents of the Bible, contain many learning and training aids,

    such as, center or side column reference, topical and Bible

    concordance, harmony of the Gospels, maps, charts and related

    information.

    Download the following free Bible programs resources. The

    programs at http://www.e-sword.net/ contain numerous

    translations, commentaries, dictionaries, and much more. Our

    favorite computer based Bible study suite for desktops.

    The resources available at http://www.eveningdew.com/ aresomewhat easier to install and use, but less information is

    available. Great for laptops

    Be prepared for common questions and negative

    statements, such as:

    Is it true that the Church of Christ believes that only its

    members will go to Heaven?

    A suggested response is:

    It makes no difference what I believe, what you believe or what

    any other person believes. What are important, are the

    teachings of Jesus and His Apostles in the New Testament.

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    We simply believe that following carefully the instructions and

    commandments of Jesus and His Apostles is a requirement to

    be saved.

    Do you doubt my sincerity?

    A suggested response is:

    No, I am quite sure are sincere, however, it will take more than

    sincerity to get us into Heaven.

    What about members of primitive tribes, who had never

    seen a Bible or heard of Jesus?

    A suggested response is:

    That is an interesting question, the answer to which, only God

    knows.

    However, the important issue is what is going happen to those

    who did have an opportunity to know Gods Will.

    Would you allow me to share with you the simple requirementsto enter the Kingdom of God and live in Heaven forever?

    Note the technique of adding a question to your answer.

    The church is just full of a brunch of old hypocrites, who

    pray on Sunday and then begin cheating and lying bright and

    early Monday morning.

    A suggested response is:

    Hypocrites go out to lunch, work or run businesses, go vacation,drive cars and have fun.

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    It would be impossible to provide written suggestion for every

    question a sinner might ask.

    However, it is relatively simple to reply to most after you havestudied the samples provided using the Bible as your reference.

    1 PETER 3:15

    But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and [be] ready always

    to [give] an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of

    the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:

    Develop your technique by working out your answers to

    the following common statements and questions, using themethods used above.

    Everyone get salvation the old fashioned way they earn it.

    Dont you believe that somebody does more good than bad then

    they will be okay?

    Arent religions and churches all about same?

    I heard it on the radio. Brief is all that is required to

    be saved. I Believe, I even send the Preacher a

    donation. Isnt that true?

    Determine the best method and the type of material you plan to use in the

    training of your Prospect(s), based upon their level of Biblical knowledge,

    their attitude and your personal preferences. We have included several

    training approaches within the pages of this site. In making this personal

    determination, it is suggested that the user review careful the following:

    From Now to Eternity

    Planning for Eternity

    Narrow Way to Heaven

    Truth shall make you free

    His One True Church

    The Sample Lesson Plan

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    The Bible Study Session

    This section includes suggestions for conducting the Bible studysession and the presentation of the Sample Lesson Plan.

    All training should be completed within a comfortable time framefor all individuals involved. At the very moment, for any reason,

    that you become fatigued or if anyone begins to show signs of

    inattention, it is time to terminate the current training session

    and make another appointment.

    The Sample Lesson Plan was designed to provide those with

    limited knowledge, the steps required in becoming a child of God,

    a brief overview of the Church of Christ and to persuade them to

    give their lives to the service of our Lord and Savior by carefullyobeying His straightforward commandments.

    Under normal conditions, this material should be taught over two

    or more sessions.

    Have the Prospect(s) read all passages.

    The object is to deeply involve them in the all-important study of

    the Word of God.

    Allowing the Prospects to read the verses will enables he or she

    to discover the Truth, holds their attention, gives them theopportunity to experience involvement and become comfortablewith a Bible and has a much greater impact.

    Suggestions for conducting the Bible Study Session

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    Set an upbeat tone, you are sharing the good news of theGospel with your prospect. Two popular saying areKnowledge is Power and Enthusiasm is Knowledge on Fire.

    Having prepared your heart and mind properly, you willspeak with boldness and confidence.

    1 PETER 4:11

    IF ANY MAN SPEAK, [let him speak] AS THE ORACLES OF

    GOD; if any man minister, [let him do it] as of the ability which

    God giveth: THAT GOD IN ALL THINGS MAY BE GLORIFIED

    THROUGH JESUS CHRIST, TO WHOM BE PRAISE AND

    DOMINION FOR EVER AND EVER. Amen.

    Reminder: As you proceed to explain the steps required

    to be saved, the Prospect(s) will usually develop respect for

    you, as you are speaking as the oracle of God. Speaking onlyHis Words on behalf of a soul in need of Gods saving Grace,

    will result in you attaining a great power, which is the power

    of God.

    PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT YOU ARE TO MAINTAINYOUR OWN HUMILITY, AT ALL TIMES.

    ROMANS 12:3

    For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is

    among you, not to think [of himself] more highly than he ought

    to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to

    every man the measure of faith.

    OPEN EACH AND EVERY STUDY SESSION WITH A PRAYER,

    which could include addressing difficulties facing your Prospect(s) and

    for open hearts and minds, for guidance, wisdom etc

    Be certain to have on hand, extra copies of study guides, marked

    New Testaments, Bibles, pens, paper etc.

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    You may wish to begin the first session by stressing that We only

    speak where the Bible speaks and remain completely silent where the

    Bible is silent and allow the Scriptures to guide us as to what God

    demands we do.

    Then involve them by asking a question, such as.

    Do you accept the Bible as the inspired Word of God?

    Do you believe that God expects us to carefully follow each and

    every commandment?

    Do you want to go to Heaven?

    Ask additional questions regarding personal religious background,

    particularly if they claim to have been saved by the Sinners Prayer or

    similar falsehood, so you may prepare and squarely address the

    specific false teaching, in a later session.

    Be certain, by the end of the first session, that your Prospect(s)

    clearly understand that they are carrying an enormous burden of

    unforgiven sin and are doomed to eternal, everlasting, never ending,

    indescribable suffering and punishment in the fires of Hell.

    Seek out any special unfulfilled physical or spiritual needs - Makenotes, consider adding to future opening prayers

    Offer to pray for them, as it clearly shows your personal concern

    for their immortal Souls.

    Pass a copy of the following sample lesson What must I do to be

    SAVED? or the first part of materials you have personally

    developed to your prospect(s)

    Note: Suggested impact and closing statement or questions for application

    to this Lesson Plan are available for review in the section following the

    Sample Lesson Plan.

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    What must I do to be SAVED?This is the most important question that anyone can ever ask!

    With or Without Jesus Eternity is Forever

    MATTHEW 1626 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his

    own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?

    The answer is actually quite simple.

    In order for any of us to be saved we must carefully and strictly follow all

    the specific commandments, instructions, warnings and examples set by

    Jesus and his Apostles or simply Follow Jesus everyday.

    Reference(s): MATTHEW 7:13-14, JOHN 14:15, 2 JOHN 1:9, JUDE 1:3

    It is absolutely imperative that we carefully obey the Will of God, before

    the day we die or Judgment Day arrives, either of which could occur at any

    time.

    Reference(s): MATTHEW 24:35-36, JAMES 4:14

    The following is an overview of these commandments, instructions, warnings

    and examples, which is intended to assist the reader in understanding and

    organizing his or her study of the Holy Scriptures and finding the narrowway that leads to eternal life in Heaven.

    Jesus was sent to earth by his Father to teach all men Gods Will and His

    Plan of Salvation or Redemption for all mankind.

    Reference(s): JOHN 12:49-50, MATTHEW 28:18-20, JOHN 3:35-36

    Salvation comes through Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who died on the cruel

    cross for the sins of all people and is our only source of salvation.

    Reference(s): JOHN 14:6, ACTS 4:12, EPHESIANS 1:7, ROMANS 5:8-10

    Many people fail to clearly understand the depth of love and longing in the

    heart of God for the Salvation of all mankind.

    Reference(s): JOHN 3:16, ROMANS 5:8, EPHESIANS 2:4

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    Gods Eternal Plan of SalvationWe must have FAITH. Specifically what is FAITH? FAITH is defined in

    the book of Hebrews.

    Reference(s): HEBREWS 11:1, HEBREWS 11:6

    How do we get FAITH? The answer is found in the book of Romans.

    Reference: ROMANS 10:17

    Specifically, what is the meaning of HEARING?

    Carefully listening to the words of a minister in a service of the Church of

    Christ or by studying the Bible in-depth, which teaches all we need to know

    regarding God and his Will for our lives.

    After we have acquired our Faith, we become interested in the Teachings ofJesus, because we truly BELIEVE that Jesus is the Son of God.

    Reference(s): LUKE 1:35, MARK 16:16, MATTHEW 16:16, JOHN 6:47, JOHN

    8:24, JOHN 11:25

    We must REPENT of our sins and admit that we have sinned against God.

    True repentance is a change of heart in our attitude regarding sin. The

    Greek word for repentance is metanoeo which means to change your mind

    or purpose, forsaking evil and following righteousness. A change of heart

    that desires to do that which is right and it sorrowful when its does thingsthat are wrong.

    Reference(s): ROMANS 3:23, LUKE 13:5, ACTS 2:38, 2 PETER 3:9, 2

    CORINTHIANS 7:10, LUKE 15:10

    We must CONFESS Jesus before men, just as the eunuch voiced his belief

    in Jesus as the Son of God to Philip (Acts 8:37) just prior to being baptized.

    Reference(s): ACTS 8:37, ROMANS 10:10, MATTHEW 10:32-33, 1 JOHN

    1:9

    We must be BAPTIZED.

    What does it mean to be BAPTIZED?

    Websters defines BAPTISM as the sprinkling, pouring water on an individual

    or the immersion, in water, of an individual. However, the examples provided

    in Bible clearly indicate that only complete immersion is acceptable. In

    addition, the Greek word for BAPTISM as used in the Scriptures baptizo

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    means, to plunge or submerge. Since we must strictly follow the

    instructions provided, in order to be saved, it is clear that we must be

    BAPTIZED by total immersion only. When a person is BAPTIZED, he or she

    goes into the water a sinner, is buried in the water and raised sinless

    through the blood of Christ.Reference(s): ACTS 8:38, GALATIANS 3:27, JOHN 3:5

    Once an individual has been BAPTIZED

    He or she has been saved from their sins.

    Reference: 1 PETER 3:2

    He or she has been added to the Church.

    Reference: ACTS 2:41

    He or she has been born again. Just as the death, burial and

    resurrection of Jesus, so God raises us up from the watery grave ofBAPTISM in newness of life.

    Reference: ROMANS 6:3-4

    Important Note: In the past, you may have been baptized by

    Immersion. Please do not assume that baptism will be acceptable to

    God. It is most important that you consider the decisions YOU have

    personally made, not decisions made by your parents, friends or

    others.

    If you have not obeyed Gods specific instructions for being saved,

    you are on a journey to HELL, where the eternal punishment is

    indescribable in human terms. If you do obey, YOU have the Hope of

    Heaven, where the peace, joy and pleasure are beyond human

    understanding.

    The moment after YOU have arisen from BAPTISM, YOU begin a new life in

    Christ. Now the Challenge is to remain on the narrow path that leads to

    eternal life in Heaven.

    The final step is to Remain Faithful until death

    Reference(s): REVELATION 2:10, MATTHEW 25:23

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    His One True Church

    All who are in fellowship with Christ are members of His Body, the Church.

    The Church is a Spiritual Body, with Jesus Christ as its head and the

    faithful throughout the world as members of His Body. (Ephesians 1:22-23)

    There is only one true Church, the Church built by Jesus Christ (Matthew

    16:18) In the Biblical times there were churches established in Jerusalem,

    Ephesus, Rome, Smyrna, and other places. These were not different types of

    churches, as is so prevalent today, but congregations of Christians in various

    locations.

    Governing each Church was a group of ordained Elders, who oversaw and

    tended to the spiritual needs of it members. (Acts 14:23) The early churchused the congregational type of church government. The Elders ordained at

    that location independently governed each church. Today, following the

    pattern set by the churches of the first century, wherever Christians join

    together to extend fellowship to each other in worship, we find a

    congregation or local church. The Church of Christ still makes use of the

    congregational type church government. Therefore, each church is

    independent and is bound to other Churches of Christ only through Jesus

    Christ as the Head and a shared faith.

    In keeping with our effort to carefully follow the Bible, our worship consistsonly of those activities authorized in the New Testament. On Sunday, the

    first day of the week, we observe the Lord's Supper as a memorial of our

    Savior's death on the cross. (Acts 20:7) We praise God and edify one

    another by singing, making melody in our hearts to God (Ephesians 5:19) and

    by offering prayers of supplication and thanksgiving. (1Timothy 2:1) Through

    sermons we exhort one another to "continue steadfastly in the apostles'

    doctrine" (Acts 2:42) Only on Sunday do we take up a collection, and this is

    so members can give as they have purposed in their hearts. (2 Corinthians

    9:7)

    Throughout our services, three principles govern all that we do:1. Worship of the Father in spirit and in truth (John 4:23-24)

    2. All things are done for edification (1 Corinthians 14:25)

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    3. All things are done decently and in order (1 Corinthians 14:40)

    The Church of Christ exists to give honor, glory and praise to God through

    Benevolence, Evangelism, Edification, Spiritual Growth, Fellowship, Worship,

    and Glorification of God. We accomplish this through study, prayer andpersonal involvement, using only the Bible as our authority and guide.

    We wear the Name of Christ

    We are simply known as Christians, just as believers were known in the

    days of the Apostles, at which time there was only one Church. (Acts

    11:26) Collectively, we are known as the Church of Christ. (Romans 16:16)

    Finding no scriptural support for denominational names, practices, creeds

    or formalities, none are used.

    The Authority of the BibleWe believe that the Bible is the inspired Word of God. "All scripture is given

    by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for

    correction, for instruction in righteousness: (2 Timothy 3:16)

    The Authority of Christ

    We cherish Jesus Christ as Lord and have the highest regard for His

    authority. Jesus said, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.

    (Matthew 28:18) Adding to, or subtracting from, the simple instructions of

    Jesus is failing to respect Him as Lord. (Revelation 22:18) Therefore, wehave no conferences, synods, councils, earthly headquarters or

    denominational governmental organizations, as Christ did not authorize

    these. Such organizations, which have been created by men, serve only to

    compete with the authority of Christ. These groups bind human traditions

    and commandments upon others, which was condemned by Jesus. (Matthew

    15:9)

    We Proclaim the Gospel

    We proclaim the gospel message of the Christ crucified, who arose from the

    dead on the third day. (Ephesians 4:11-12) We urge everyone to accept thegreatest gift of all, which is God's gift of everlasting life in His Son. (John

    3:16)

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    THE PURPOSE OF EACH LIFEIs to live a full and complete Christian Life - Earning the Hope of Heaven, by

    expressing his or her Love for the Lord by praising and worshipping Him inspirit and in truth - Remaining faithful unto death, following the

    Commandments of Jesus written in the inspired Word of God

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    A Time for Honest Reflection

    Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, who

    suffered and died on the cross, for the forgiveness of yoursins?

    Yes No

    Do you want to go to Heaven?

    Yes No

    Do you believe that Jesus offers the hope of a more abundantlife here on earth?

    Yes No

    Reference(s): John 10:10

    Would the Angels in Heaven rejoice over your Repentance?

    Yes No

    Reference(s): Luke 15:10

    Do you believe that you will be saved, if you carefully follow

    the instructions of Jesus?

    Yes No

    Is it possible that this could be your very last day on earth?

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    Yes No

    Reference(s): James 4:14

    Do you believe that the Lord will add you to His Church, upon

    your baptism?

    Yes No

    Would it please Jesus, if you were to surrender your life to

    Him today and were baptized?

    Yes No

    Are you ready to follow Jesus, be baptized and be saved from

    your sins?

    Yes No

    Does the Bible clearly state that every person whose name isnot written in the Book of Life will be cast into the lake of fireand will be punished forever?

    Yes No

    Reference(s): Revelation 20:15

    Is your name written the Book of Life?

    Yes No

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    Do you want to be baptized today, so you can spend eternity in

    Heaven?

    Yes No

    Reference(s): Acts 22:16

    When do you plan to obey the commandments of Jesus?

    Day & Date: __________________________

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    Planning for EternityWith or without Jesus Eternity is Forever

    We are encouraged to plan for the future education of our children, and a

    carefree retirement. Of much greater importance is the planning of wherean individual and his loved ones will spend eternity.

    Death is not only the end of our moral lives, but the beginning of our immoral

    spiritual lives, which last for all eternity.

    People all have a natural ingrained fear of the unknown, however, as we grow,

    we learn to overcome, in large part, this and many other forms of fear.

    Therefore the fear of death is natural, since it is the last great unknown,

    but logically it is really just last phase in the natural progression of all livingthings.

    While our society openly discusses sex, immorality, crime and violence, it

    does not usually speak of death openly or frankly. Most people do not wantto think of death let alone discuss it. Comparing todays attitudes to that of

    the Victorian era sees the extent of this aversion. Even in the Victorian era

    death was discussed more openly than today.

    The taboos the Victorians placed on sex have been transferred to death inour culture. We simply, in our modern morality of sensual, materialistic,

    pleasure-mad existence, deny its existence, unless we see it in living color in

    our living room or local theater (Rodney Miller, excerpt in an article

    entitled, Death The Pekin Bulletin, November 16, 1975).

    In her book, On Death and Dying, Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, psychiatrist,

    listed five emotional stages of death.

    1. Shock and denial: "No! Not me!" Denial is one way to ward off an

    overwhelming situation and give oneself time to develop other defenses.Denial pushes away shock but reality must be accepted.

    2. Resentment, anger and rage: "Why me!" An emotional reality sets in which

    sometimes shakes a person to the very foundation of their being and even

    their faith.

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    3. A bargaining period: A promise to do something for a longer lease on life:

    "Yes, but..." These might be something like, "If you give me one more year to

    live, I'll go to worship every Sunday" or "I'll be a good Christian from now

    on." Bargaining is like a temporary truce.

    4. Realistic depression: "Yes, me." To be depressed when you face your own

    death is normal. To grieve is to realize the enormity of what is happening.

    5. Acceptance: "Yes, me, and I am ready!" This attitude does not imply

    resignation, which is giving up. It is a peaceful stage when the person

    realizes he or she has done what he can and the end is here. One has fully

    come to terms with reality.

    We can substantially reduce our fear, by studying the Word of God. For

    example, in Hebrews 9:27, we learn that after we die, we will all face theJudgment. "And as it is appointed for men to die once, but after this the

    judgment."

    Christ did not fear moral death, but was assured of being raised again. His

    words the thief on cross are recorded in Luke 23:43 And Jesus said unto

    him, Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise. The

    moment of His moral death is recorded in Luke 23:46 And when Jesus had

    cried with a loud voice, he said, Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit:

    and having said thus, he gave up the ghost.

    The followers of Christ have been given the same assurance.

    PSALMS 23

    4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear

    no evil: for thou [art] with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

    ACTS 759 And they stoned Stephen, calling upon [God], and saying, Lord Jesus,

    receive my spirit.

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    Preparing for Eternal Life

    Since death is unavoidable as our only exit from this world, we must prepare

    for it. Death is not the end but rather the beginning of eternity.JOHN 528 Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the

    graves shall hear his voice,

    29 And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of

    life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.Since heaven has done all it possibly can do for us, we must now do our part

    and prepare for our inevitable demise. To properly prepare, one must:

    Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness(Matt. 6:33).Live a life of self-denial to the glory of God (Luke 6:26,33).

    Live in Christ. To die in Christ one must live in Him. Those who die in Him are

    blessed (Rev. 14:13).

    To be found in Christ, one must be Baptized into Him (Gal. 3:26-27), and

    Abide in Him (John 15:7), His Word (John 8:32)and His Doctrine (2 John 9).

    Let Christ have preeminence in all things (Col. 1:18).One must live a life in humble submission to His will, the gospel (Rom. 1:16).One must always seek to do His will (Matt. 7:21).Conclusions

    The rewards of living a righteous life that properly prepares one for death

    are many. They include receiving a hundred-fold in this life and in the age tocome, eternal life (Mark 10:30); being carried away by angels (Luke 16:22);

    going to Paradise (Luke 23:43); going to a house with many mansions (John

    14:2); being with Christ (Phil. 1:23), at home with the Lord (2 Cor. 5:8); and

    gaining (Phil. 1:21) an eternal inheritance (1 Pet. 1:4) as a joint-heir with

    Christ (Rom. 8:17), reigning with Him eternally (Rev. 22:5). (Gene Taylor,

    excerpt in an article entitled, Planning for Death)

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    These are two urgent questions, which every individual on Earth

    should seriously consider.

    Is your Planning for Eternal Life complete and in order?

    Which will You Choose?

    There are millions of choices in this world, but in the HEREAFTER there will

    only be TWO ALTERNATIVES.

    Choice Number One

    Is to be among the few who have submitted to His Will, labored in the Lordswork and accepted their redemption. Heaven is beyond our wildest

    imaginings or dreams. The beauty, wonders, splendor, majesty, grandeur,

    magnificence, brilliance and stately dignity of Heaven simply cannot be

    adequately described in the language of humans. Love and the Light of Godwill fill it and endless happiness, peace and joy will abound. Jesus promised

    in Revelation 2:7 To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the tree of

    life, which is in the midst of the paradise of God. The only way to

    experience Heaven is to be among the souls that have been saved from

    everlasting damnation.

    Choice Number Two

    Is to be in the much larger group who failed to obey or did NOT worship in

    spirit and in truth in accordance with the teachings of the Bible. Will YOU

    be standing worst of humanity? The larger group will be punished in a

    second death in a never ending eternal Hell. Will you remember this

    commentary?

    When you hear the Jesus say, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting

    fire, prepared for the devil and his angels: (Matthew 25:41), or But the

    fearful, and unbelieving, and abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers,

    and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake

    which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.

    (Revelation 21:8), or how will you answer the question of Jesus Ye serpents,

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    ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell? (Matthew

    23:33)

    Many people do not even want to think about the concept of forever or

    everlasting. This concept is difficult for many to comprehend. Some like to

    think of forever as a circle or never ending. Others look at the night sky

    and try to imagine where it begins and ends. It is the opinion of many that

    the universe is like eternity or unending. The fact is that God has always

    been and will always be.

    Please take a few minutes of quiet time and consider intensely the concepts

    of eternity and continuous creaseless retribution.

    Life is too Short and time without end or eternity is simply too long and the

    everlasting punishment in the fires of Hell too terrifying to make any

    mistakes.

    Then make a choice, before it is too late.

    Once you pass away from this Life you have lost the Golden opportunity to

    have the Hope of Heaven. If you fail to accept God's Grace and Love, by

    becoming His faithful servant, you have selected Hell and to spend eternity

    as a angel of Satan, in everlasting Fire, by default.

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    If you are still undecided, please consider the following.

    HEBREWS 9:27

    LUKE 16:19-31

    JOHN 12:48

    MATTHEW 16:26

    MATTHEW 7:15-16

    ACTS 26:27-28

    MATTHEW 7:14

    REVELATION 20:10

    MATTHEW 24:24

    2 CORINTHIANS 11:13-15

    2 JOHN 1:9-11

    REVELATION 20:15

    2 THESSALONIANS 1:8-9

    MATTHEW 25:41

    ACTS 22:16

    MATTHEW 7:15

    MATTHEW 7:21

    JOHN 14:15 Do you love Jesus?

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    Will you obey the commandments of Jesus today?

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    Suggested impact and closing statement or questions(For application to the Sample Lesson Plan)

    Note: The Art of Gentle Persuasion is the section following provides

    additional insights in the use of the following.

    What must I do to be SAVED is an expanded method of explaining Gods

    Plan of Salvation, beginning with an impact statement on the first page

    With or without Jesus Eternity is Forever. Point to the word Forever and

    provide a graphic description in your own words.

    The first closing question is to be asked at the conclusion of What must I

    do to be SAVED as follows: first ask Do you have any questions? - Then

    ask Have you been clearly shown the Biblical pathway to eternity life in

    Heaven? - Assuming a positive answer to the second question, ask theFIRST CLOSING QUESTION Are you ready to obey Jesus and be baptized

    for the remission of your sins, today?

    The SECOND CLOSING QUESTION is to be asked following THE

    PURPOSE OF EACH LIFE. At this point the prospect(s) are to be asked if

    they have any questions. After you have answered all their questions to your

    mutual satisfaction, then say: My question is: Are you ready to fulfill the

    purpose of your life, be baptized, so you can spend eternity enjoying the

    rewards that await the faithful in Heaven? If the answer is yes, asuggested response is Wonderful!!! - This is the time to show some real

    emotion after all that is great JOY in Heaven.

    If the answer is no, WHICH IS EXPECTED, more training is in order.

    Ask Your Prospect to read Acts 22:16.

    The next step is tocomplete the general questions in A Time for HonestReflection.

    The impact question is Does the Bible clearly state that every person whose

    name is not written in the Book of Life will be cast into the lake of fire andwill be punished forever? Ask your prospect to read Revelation 20:15. It is

    assumed that most people will answer yes.

    The second impact question Is your name written the Book of Life? (The

    only honest answer for the unsaved is NO.) Please be certain that this

    question is at the bottom of the page.

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    This is important, as it gives you the opportunity to build on the effects of

    this question, [With your facial expressions and personal questions or

    comments such as, (considering the meaning of eternity) develop a dialogue

    with your prospect(s). This should be a very serious conversation and is thetime that many will come to a realization of the horrors of Hell] before

    asking the third closing question.

    Upon the completion of this discussion, turn the page and ask the THIRD

    CLOSING QUESTION: Do you want to be baptized today, so you can spend

    eternity in Heaven? Expect that he or she will NOT give a direct answer,

    but will attempt to delay this important decision to a more convenient time,

    but you could be surprised so: BE PREPARED IN THE EVENT THE

    PROSPECT(S) AGREES TO BE BAPTIZED.

    Following a neutral or negative response, ask SOFTLY AND SLOWLY the

    FOURTH CLOSING QUESTION: When do you plan to obey the

    commandments of Jesus? If the answer is soon or similar - ask, So I may

    make the proper arrangements when do you plan to obey the commandments

    of Jesus? without taking a breath ask Would you prefer to do so on

    Wednesday night or next Sunday morning?

    Have your prospect(s) fill in the Day, Date and Time in his or her

    handwriting.The training session in now completed, you have your commitment. Make

    arrangements to pick up the prospect(s) up or meet for coffee or

    breakfast before services etc. and spend some time getting to know

    them.

    If the Prospect(s) resists, suggest they plan to attend services with you the

    following Sunday morning.

    If they agree, offer to pick them up or suggest that meeting for coffee or

    breakfast before services.

    If your prospect(s) decline to complete the day & time, but agrees to attend

    services, he or she has taken the first small step towards becoming a

    Christian.

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    Consider an invitation to attend Church services with you on the Sunday

    morning.Assuming a neutral or negative response, review with Prospect(s), the If

    you are still undecided passages. Have your prospect(s) read the last verseto be considered If ye love me, keep my commandments. Asked them to

    explain exactly what Jesus was meant by this statement.

    This is important point in your presentation, as it gives you the opportunity

    to build on the effects of the Words of Jesus (With your facial

    expressions, questions and comments develop a conversation with your

    prospect).

    Make use of the Impact Resource(s) you have presented to remind them ofterror and everlasting punishment that awaits the followers of Satan.

    The next step is to ask the Set up Question, Do You Love Jesus? This must

    be at the bottom of first page

    After engaging in a conversation as to the meaning of what it means to Love

    Jesus, turn the page and ask the SIXTH CLOSING QUESTION which is

    Will you obey the commandments of Jesus today?

    If the prospect continues to resist, but appears to be sincere, CONSIDERsetting a future appointment, which will allow your Prospect(s) time to

    consider what has been said and the study materials, which you have

    provided.

    In the case of a neutral or negative response, it is time to consider the use

    of a previously selected POWER CLOSE, for YOUR SEVENTH CLOSING

    ATTEMPT of the training program. (Note: Power closes are explained in the

    section following.)

    Deliver, from memory, your final argument (Power Close) intensely, as if you

    were fighting for your very life.

    If the power close fails, CONSIDER the use of the Last Ditch close.

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    Keep in the mind the last ditch (forget the quiet rule) close is to be only

    used, (POSSIBLY AN EIGHTTH CLOSING ATTEMPT) if they vacillating,

    sitting on the fence and you truly feel it is a lost cause.

    Sometimes a bold move will bring about a positive conclusion. In these cases,

    Stand up quickly, look directly at the Prospect and firmly say Name(s), lets

    go to the Church right now, so you can obey Christ and be baptized!

    Always leave the door open for future discussions

    & always REMEMBER to ask for REFERRALS.

    We would be Delighted to Hear of yourEfforts and Successes

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    The Art of Gentle Persuasion

    Persuasion is defined as causing an individual to do something

    through logic, reasoning, urging, or inducement: to convince orin the words of an old time salesman closing.

    Some Members of the Church of Christ claim to be opposed tothe use of persuasion or the use of sales closing techniques.

    They believe that Gods Plan of Salvation should be simply

    presented and the sinner is then allowed to decide for him or

    herself.

    However, the pattern we find in the New Testamentindicates that Paul used very intense persuasion in at least

    one case.

    ACTS 24:24-25

    And after certain days, when Felix came with his wife Drusilla,

    which was a Jewess, he sent for Paul, and heard him concerning

    the faith in Christ.And as he reasoned of righteousness, temperance, and

    judgment to come, Felix trembled, and answered, Go thy way

    for this time; when I have a convenient season, I will call for

    thee.

    In the parable of Jesus The Great Supper, the master

    told his servants to go out into the highways and hedges andcompel them to come in.

    Compel is defined in Websters New World Dictionary as:1) to force or constrain, as to do something 2) to get or

    bring about by force 3) [Archaic] to gather or drivetogether by force, as a flock

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    Do you want to go to Heaven?

    Do you understand that we have almost unlimited choices here

    on earth, but in the hereafter there will be only two choices?

    After you have asked a closing question, BE STILL until

    the question is answered, regardless of how long it maytake. This is sometimes a serious test of will. An old time

    salesmans motto is He who speaks first is the Loser.

    This is a very important point, after posing or asking any

    and all closing question(s) - remain totally silent, regardless

    of how long it takes for your Prospect(s) to respond. He orshe is considering their response

    Your eyes should be fixed firmly in the direction of the

    Prospect(s), your face should have a sunny, but questioning

    expression and your attitude is one of intense expectation.

    The Art of Gentle Persuasionis really the gentle art of

    setting the stage (using one or more statements orquestions, intended to cause your prospect to think and

    consider carefully the issue at hand, followed up with aclosing question.

    Important Note: In the modern age, most individuals have a

    built-in automatic rejection system that kicks in when ever

    they are asked a closing question. In order to overcome

    their automatic rejection system we must use knowledge,logic and information to persuade them to seriously considerour appeal.

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    For that specific reason, up to eight closes or attempts to

    persuade are suggested.

    Most experienced sales personnel remind themselves toclose, with the letters ABC (Always Be Closing).

    Do not be afraid to ask your Prospect(s) the difficult

    questions. You Mission is simply too important.

    Power Closes

    In order for these closes to be effective they must be delivered

    from memory, in an intense deadly serious manner. Look theProspect(s) directly in their eyes, invade their space slightly and

    speak in a low powerful tone.

    Change Positions Close

    Sometimes offering to change positions with the Prospect(s)

    will aid in overcoming. For example, one could say to the

    Prospect(s) Suppose I were to be you and you were me and youhave just taught me everything I need to know to be saved

    from my sins.

    Assume I know in my heart that I need to be baptized, but for

    some, possibly unknown reason, I am stalling. What would you

    say to me? No, really what would you say if you were truly

    concerned for my soul and wanted me to go to Heaven?

    Then WAIT SILENTLY for his or her answer, regardless ofhow long it takes.

    The Only Two Choices Close

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    Name of Prospect(s); let me understand this clearly. What you

    are saying to God is that Jesus suffering and death on the

    cross for your sins is of absolutely no importance to you.

    You are rejecting outright the salvation and eternal home Godis wishes to give to you.

    State full Name of Prospect(s);YOU are aware of the fact

    that there are only two choices in the hereafter. You arerejecting Heaven. So, where does that leave you?

    Then WAIT SILENTLY for his or her answer, regardless of

    how long it takes.

    The Last Ditch Close, the only Exception to the Be StillRule

    There is ONE AND ONLY ONE EXCEPTION to the be still

    rule. If your prospect is racked with indecision and if you feel

    that it is almost a lost cause, IT MAY BE TIME TO MAKE A

    VERY BOLD MOVE.

    Move rapidly and speak in a very firm voice.

    Stand up, look directly at the Prospect(s) and make the

    following closing statement

    Name(s), lets go to the Church right now, so you can obey

    Christ and be baptized!

    Pick up your Bible, briefcase or purse and start for the door.

    If they do not start to move almost immediately, motion and say

    Lets Go!

    This close is only used as very last resort, when you feel in your

    heart, if you wait the answer will be no.

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    In this situation, they are sitting on the fence, you have nothing

    to lose and you just might pull them over to the side of Christ.

    Sometimes all it takes is a little push.

    Be prepared to take immediate action

    For example, if your prospect answers YES to the question

    Would it please Jesus, if you were to surrender your life to

    Him today and were baptized? (Question #8 - A Time for

    Honest Reflection which is a part of the Sample Lesson Plan)

    If it feels right, immediately STAND and say, Wonderful

    lets go the Church building and meet with the Minister

    now!

    Your prospect(s) will usually have one of two reactions, either

    they will stand, which indicates agreement or they will remain

    seated, which indicates refusal, at this point.

    If they do stand, hopefully you have made the necessary

    arrangement, proceed to the church building.

    If you have not made the arrangements, simply say, I musttelephone the Minister or an Elder to make the necessary

    arrangements and proceed.

    If they have indicated refusal, resume your seat and the lesson.

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    Points to RememberKeep a written calendar of your appointments.

    Always be on time.

    Spend as much time as necessary helping people getting prepared to

    HEAR, just as Jesus did. The Bible relates several situations in which He

    healed or fed people so that they might be in the proper frame of mind

    to HEAR the WORD.

    Meet with the Prospect privately. It is more difficult to discuss a

    persons soul with others present. Of course, there are exceptions, suchas in the case of a husband and wife or other close relatives. Jesus

    taught the Samaritan woman, Nichodemus and Zachaeus privately.

    Be sincere and express a deep interest in each Prospect, when

    discussing their precious soul and their eternal future. You concern and

    interest will shine though and they will more inclined to be interested in

    what you have to say regarding the gospel.

    Do not answer questions off the top of your head always provide thetraining using the prepared study materials.

    Always select a time and place where potential distractions can be

    held to an absolute minimum.

    If you must hold the study sessions in their home, ask that

    distractions, such as television sets, radio etc. be turned down or off and

    request to seated at the kitchen or dining table. It is suggested that you

    take a baby sitter, if required.

    Stay on track, do not allow your Prospect(s) to get off the subject.

    Be certain to have extra pens, study guides, marked New Testaments,

    Bibles, paper etc. on hand.

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    Put their names on the study guides.Remind them to ask questions, if they do not understand, often.

    Have the Prospect(s) read all passages. The goal is to involve them inthe study. Allowing the Prospects to read the verses, allows he or she to

    discover the Truth, holds their attention and will have a greater impact.

    Use illustrations from real life to emphasize your points.

    Never apologize for the Truth or what is written in the Word.

    Never pass over any point, Scripture or question. Do not proceed with

    the lesson until total agreement with the Scripture is obtained. If theProspect(s) incorrectly answer a question, have he or she re-read the

    Scripture and suggest Lets look it up in the Bible.

    Do not preach or quote scriptures, let the Bible speak.

    Maintain an attitude of concern and interest. Listen careful to all

    comments. Always look at the problem or issue from their point of view.

    Help them work through their issues and come to an understanding. The

    regular use of the word Lets indicates you have a willingness to work

    with the trainee in finding the answer or the solution.

    By conducting these Bible studies our objectives is to bring about a

    realization within the mind and soul of the Prospect that they are LOST

    and FOREVER DOOMED. To guide them to a complete understanding and

    acceptance of Gods Plan of Salvation and to develop a strong desire for

    His salvation.

    Never become argumentative or attempt to prove your point. When

    you are confronted with an unusual or attack question or statement,simply say, Lets see what the Bible tells us.

    2 TIMOTHY 2:24

    And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto

    all [men], apt to teach, patient,

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    Keep in mind that some questions cannot be answered, as the

    information is simply not provided in the Bible. If you are asked a

    question to which you do not know the answer, simply tell the Prospect(s)

    you do not know, but will try to get the information and get back to them.Be certain to follow through.

    Soul winning requires strength, patience and perseverance.

    Make use of comparisons regularly. For example, compare what he

    believes with the teachings of the Bible or compare the advantages being

    in Christ with being outside the Church. Which choice is in accord with

    the Bible or would be acceptable to God?

    You want to be heard, so be interesting and uplifting

    You want to be understood, so be logical and specific

    You want to produce results, so be warm and genuine

    Distractions

    Expect distractions to occur.

    Be patient

    When distractions occur, start at the point you left off by recapping

    the last couple of sentences before occurrence.

    Objections and Questions

    Expect objections and questions, they are simply a part ofprocess.

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    1 PETER 3:15

    But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and [be] ready always

    to [give] an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of

    the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:

    If you dont receive either or both, your presentation is simply not

    being effective. Use objections and questions to understand what your

    Prospect are thinking and how he or she feels.

    Handle either as they arise.

    Control the tone of your voice. This is a friendly discussion, not a

    debate. Projec