marriage equality now a mainstream value

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8 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj ` Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj ` _mjj| Lmkbnyd Uchu h Dhamy nu~ mb Hd`yn lhk| \ppmyu uc` By``emd um Dhyy~ I`k Chyyn| hke Lym|i~ Iyk| Aj~ 8?* 9?89 @hyjn`y cn| ~`hy _y`|ne`k Ihyhlg Mihdh dhe` cn|my~ i~ i`lmdnkf c` y| |nunkf py`|ne`k m `kemy|` dhyynhf` `xhjn~ my |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+ Y`l`k pmjj| y`r`hj ch c` py`|ne`k„| pm|nnmk mk c` n ||` kmv hjj| |xhy`j~ nk jnk` vnc c` nkly`h|nkf dhamyn~ m Hd`ynlhk| vcm |ppmy c` y``emd m dhyy~+ U`|` pmjj| |cmv nkly`h|`e |ppmy hdmkf k`hyj~ `r`y~ |nkfj` e`dmfyhpcnl fymp* nkljenkf d`k* Hynlhk Hd`ynlhk|* Jhnkm|* pmjnnlhj nke`p`ke`k|* hke f`k`yhnmk| ~mkf hke mje+ Nk |cmy* dhyynhf` `xhjn~ n| kmv h dhnk|y`hd Hd`ynlhk rhj`+ A| h e`lhe` hfm * cmv`r`y * h dhamyn~ m Hd`ynlhk| mppm|`e jhv| hke pmjnln`| ch `s`ke`e dhynhj ynfc| m |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+ Nk c` `k|nkf 8? ~`hy|* c` Pkn`e \ h`| ch| lmd` h jmkf vh~ v nc |h`| ph||nkf dhyynhf` `xhjn~ j`fn|jhnmk* khnmkhj j`he`y| lmdnkf m nk |ppmy m `xhj y`jhnmk|cnp y`lmfknnmk ynfc|* hke |hd`$|`s lmpj`| |chynkf c`ny |myn`| m jmr` hke lmddnd`k vnc c`ny yn`ke| hke hdnj~+ Un| lmj dk hkhj~q`| |`r`yhj pmjj| y`j`h|`e mr`y c` ph| vm dmkc|+ V` iy`hg emvk c` kdi`y| m pymrne` h lj`hy pnly` m vc`y` c` n||` |hke| mr`yhjj vnc c` pijnl* en`y$ `k e`dmfyhpcnl fymp|* hke hdmkf rm`y| nk |h`| vn c plmdnkf dhyynhf` y` `y`ked|+ _mjj| lmkbnyd dhamynu~ | ppmyu Bmy khnmkhj pmjj| y`j`h|`e mr`y c` ph| vm dmkc| lmkyd ch hk nkly`h|nkf dhamy$ n~ m Hd`ynlhk| |ppmy dhyynhf` `xhjn~ my |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+ Nk Dh~ h Fhjjp pmjj mke ch 0? p`yl`k m rm`y| ihlg c` y``emd m dhyy~+ 8  U` mc`y cy`` pmjj| |cmv |ndnjhy y`|j|+ H Dh~ HIL K`v|- Vh|cnkfumk _m|u pmjj y`pmy`e |ppmy my dhyynhf` `xhjn~ h 0< p`yl`k+ 9 Hke h Dh~ KIL K`v|- Vhjj

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8 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv

h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`_mjj| Lmkbnyd Uchu h Dhamynu~ mb Hd`ynlhk|

\ppmyu uc` By``emd um Dhyy~

I`k Chyyn| hke Lym|i~ Iyk| Aj~ 8?* 9?89

@hyjn`y cn| ~`hy _y`|ne`k Ihyhlg Mihdh dhe` cn|my~ i~ i`lmdnkf c` y| |nunkf

py`|ne`k m kemy|` dhyynhf` xhjn~ my |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+ Y`l`k pmjj| y`r`hj ch c`py`|ne`k„| pm|nnmk mk c` n||` kmv hjj| |xhy`j~ nk jnk` vnc c` nkly`h|nkf dhamyn~ 

m Hd`ynlhk| vcm |ppmy c` y``emd m dhyy~+ U`|` pmjj| |cmv nkly`h|`e |ppmy

hdmkf k`hyj~ r`y~ |nkfj` e`dmfyhpcnl fymp* nkljenkf d`k* Hynlhk Hd`ynlhk|*

Jhnkm|* pmjnnlhj nke`p`ke`k|* hke f`k`yhnmk| ~mkf hke mje+

Nk |cmy* dhyynhf` xhjn~ n| kmv h dhnk|y`hd Hd`ynlhk rhj`+ A| h e`lhe` hfm*

cmv`r`y* h dhamyn~ m Hd`ynlhk| mppm|`e jhv| hke pmjnln`| ch s`ke`e dhynhj ynfc|

m |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+ Nk c` k|nkf 8? ~`hy|* c` Pkn`e \h`| ch| lmd` h jmkf vh~ vnc

|h`| ph||nkf dhyynhf` xhjn~ j`fn|jhnmk* khnmkhj j`he`y| lmdnkf m nk |ppmy m 

`xhj y`jhnmk|cnp y`lmfknnmk ynfc|* hke |hd`$|`s lmpj`| |chynkf c`ny |myn`| m jmr`hke lmddnd`k vnc c`ny yn`ke| hke hdnj~+

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`k e`dmfyhpcnl fymp|* hke hdmkf rm`y| nk |h`| vnc plmdnkf dhyynhf` y``y`ked|+

_mjj| lmkbnyd dhamynu~ |ppmyu

Bmy khnmkhj pmjj| y`j`h|`e mr`y c` ph| vm dmkc| lmkyd ch hk nkly`h|nkf dhamy$

n~ m Hd`ynlhk| |ppmy dhyynhf` `xhjn~ my |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+

Nk Dh~ h Fhjjp pmjj mke ch 0? p`yl`k m rm`y| ihlg c` y``emd m dhyy~+ 8 

U` mc`y cy`` pmjj| |cmv |ndnjhy y`|j|+ H Dh~ HIL K`v|-Vh|cnkfumk _m|u pmjj

y`pmy`e |ppmy my dhyynhf` xhjn~ h 0< p`yl`k+9 Hke h Dh~ KIL K`v|-Vhjj

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9 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

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|ninjnn`| m dhyynhf` m |hd`$|`s lmpj`|+<*5

BNFPY@ 8

Y`l`ku pmjj| mk dhyynhf` `xhjnu~

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Fhjjp Dh~ 9?89 0?%

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HIL K`v| - Vh|cnkfumk _m|u Dh~ 9?89 0<%

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< L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

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|ppmy my dhyynhf` xhjn~ mr`y c` ph| e`lhe`+ J`„| yk kmv m `shdnk` g`~ 

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5 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

e`dmfyhpcnl fymp| ch chr` diyhl`e xhj ynfc| my |hd`$|`s lmpj`| hjmkf vnc

cm|` vc`y` pymfy`|| |njj d| i` dhe`+

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dhyynhf` xhjn~ mr`y c` ph| vm ~`hy|* nkljenkf mje`y Hd`ynlhk|+

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0 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

chr` bnpp`e+9? meh~* 09 p`yl`k m d`k |ppmy dhyynhf` `xhjn~* vcnj` 5< p`yl`k

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pmjj* vcnlc mke ch 06 p`yl`k m nke`p`ke`k| ihlg dhyynhf` xhjn~+90 

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|md` lh|`|―c` khnmkhj y`ke+

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2 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

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6 L`ku`y my Hd`ynlhk _ymfy`|| z  Dhyynhf` @xhjnu~ Kmv h Dhnk|uy`hd Rhj`

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9 HIL K`v|-Uc` Vh|cnkfumk _m|u * ‚\uymkf \ppmyu myFh~ Dhyynhf` Kmv @sl``e| \uymkf Mppm|nunmk*— Dh~9<* 9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--vvv+jhkf`yy`|`hylc+lmd-pjmhe|-88<6h9Fh~Dhyynhf`+pe +

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6 HIL K`v|-Uc` Vh|cnkfumk _m|u * ‚\uymkf \ppmyu my Fh~Dhyynhf` Kmv @sl``e| \uymkf Mppm|nunmk*— p+ <+

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8? J~dhyn Dmyhj`|* ‚Gkmvnkf \md`mk` Fh~-J`|inhk H`lu|Rn`v| m Fh~ N ||`|*— Fhjjp* Dh~ 9>* 9??>* hrhnjhij` hucuup1--vvv+fhjjp+lmd-pmjj-883><8-Gkmvnkf$\md`mk`$Fh~$J`|inhk$H`lu|$Rn`v|$Fh~$N||`|+h|ps+

88 Ehdjh @yfk* ‚\uymkf \ppmyu my Fh~ Dhyynhf` Kmv

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80 @yfk* ‚\uymkf \ppmyu my Fh~ Dhyynhf` Kmv @sl``e|\uymkf Mppm|n unmk+—

82 Ahlgn` Lhjd`| hke _ u`y Ihg`y* ‚Mihdh \h~| \hd`$\`sDhyynhf` \cmje I` J`fhj*— Uc` K`v myg Und`|* Dh~ >*

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86 Yhj Y`~`|* ‚Lmjdk1 Fh~ dhyynhf` kmu h Jhunkm v`ef`n||`*— P\H Umeh~ * Dh~ <8* 9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--vvv+|humeh~+lmd-k`v|-mpnknmk-myd-|umy~-9?89$?0$<8-mihdh$fh~$dhyynhf`$cn|phknl|$jhunkm|-00<8>9<?-8+

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9? LKK-Mpnknmk Y`|`hylc Lmypmyhunmk* ‚LKK-MYL _mjj*— p+ 9+

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99 _ijnl Y`jnfnmk Y`|`hylc Nk|unuu`* ‚Y`|`hylc Kmu` z@rmjunmk m Hd`ynlhk Mpnknmk mk \hd`$\`s Dhyynhf`*—Dh~ >* 9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--pijnly`jnfnmk+myf-

y`|`hylc-9?89-?0-y`|`hylc$kmu`$`rmjunmk$m$hd`ynlhk$mpnknmk$mk$|hd`$|`s$dhyynhf`-7 _ijnl Y`jnfnmk Y`|`hylcNk|unuu`* ‚Dhylc _YYN-YK\ Y`jnfnmk K`v| \yr`~*— Dhylc80* 9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--pijnly`jnfnmk+myf-y`$|`hylc-9?89-?<-dhylc$yk|$9?89$y`|`hylc-+

9< LKK-Mpnknmk Y`|`hylc Lmypmyhunmk* ‚LKK-MYL _mjj*— p+ 5+

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90 Fhjjp* ‚Chj m Hd`ynlhk| \ppmyu J`fhj Fh~ Dhyynhf`+—

92 Byhkg K`vpmyu* ‚Bmy Bny|u Und`* Dhamynu~ m Hd`ynlhk| BhrmyJ`fhj Fh~ Dhyynhf`*— Fhjjp* Dh~ 9?* 9?88* hrhnjhij` hucuup1--vvv+fhjjp+lmd-pmjj-856229-by|u$und`$dhamynu~$hd`ynlhk|$hrmy$j`fhj$fh~$dhyynhf`+h|ps+

96 _ijnl _mjnl~ _mjjnkf* ‚Dhy~jhke _mjjnkf D`dm*— Dh~ 95*9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--vvv+pijnlpmjnl~pmjjnkf+lmd-dhnk-9?89-?0-dhy~jhke$pmjjnkf$d`dm+cudj+

93 VIPY K`v|ymmd* ‚VIPY _mjj1 Hkf| Gnkf C`hr~ Bhrmynu` Um Y`pjhl` \`k+ \kmv`*— Ak` 83* 9?89* hrhnjhij` hu cuup1--vvv+viy+myf-9?89-?2-83-viy$dhnk`$pmjj+

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