Motivation for success Chrispen MuyecheSaturday, 07 July 2012 18:46

“Oh, the worst of all tragedies is not to die young, but to live until I am 75 and not ever truly tohave lived,” once remarked a preacher from Montgomery, Alabama.That is the same preacher who is well known for remarking, “We shall overcome”, and for hisinspiring speech “I have a dream”, which was made before some 250 000 suppressed blackAmericans. That preacher is Martin Luther King II.

At times it can get so difficult to see the bigger picture; at times it is just so difficult to keepfighting and keep hoping for dreams and aspirations that seem so unrealistic and farfetched. Iknow for certain that at times you grow weary in the seemingly long quest for your aspirations tocome to pass and, in all honesty, I sometimes feel the same.

It is difficult for you to keep believing and hoping when your children are loudly crying for a bowlof soup and you have absolutely no idea where the next ration will come from. It is so difficult tohope when your business can barely break even. What hope, when Rome is burning? Thereare times when you just feel like hanging the boots and settling for the road far more travelled;that common road that brings common, mediocre results of only getting by without influenceand without legacy.

From my interactions with many readers and from my own life experiences, I know that seekingto be outstanding can be such a burden and you feel like you are all alone. But the days of selfpity are long gone for these are our days of war against mediocrity and irrelevance. This is ourmoment to march ahead without apology. This is your time to shed all doubt from your mind andmove towards the imminent fulfilment of your greatness. This is the time to refuse anyweakness of character as we remark in a resoundingly huge cheer, “We shall overcome oncemore”.

I bring you lessons for greatness from the life and speeches of Martin Luther King II, and all ofmy quotes in this week’s article are drawn from his work. I shall be calling him MLK II for brevity.

Keep your principle . . . MLK II was fighting for one clear vision: he fought for freedom, civil rights and fought againstracism, discrimination and prejudice. In his struggle, many forces tried to silence him throughthreats and outright bribery. He remained resolute and once remarked: “The ultimate measure

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of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience but where he standsin times of challenge and controversy.”  This I know for a fact. It is difficult to remain noble inmoments where your vision and aspirations appear threatened.

There is always a temptation to create a quick fix, short-term remedy like a kick back orperceived “facilitation fees”. It is easy to be lured with promises of wealth and riches that attimes you may contemplate taking off your robe of integrity for the rages of dishonesty. Weshould now learn to never advance any vision through a vehicle that might compromisecharacter and nobility. It is better for us to have our aspirations delayed than to have a sip fromthe poisoned chalice of shortcuts and kick-backs.

Keep in motion . . . In 1958 at age 29, when MLK II was signing copies of his first book, a woman approached himand stabbed him in the chest. The next morning, a story in the New York Times stated that hadKing so much as sneezed, he would have died. But even that did not stop MLK II in his journeytowards greatness. In that entire struggle he poetically remarked:If you can’t fly, then runIf you can’t run, then walkIf you can’t walk, then crawlBut whatever you do, keep movingThe apparent lesson we should learn from MLK II is that no matter how tired and pained youfeel, never stop moving. Keep going even if it means you have to crawl. Those around you maynot understand, but the truth is that you will be moving closer to your dreams with each newleap of faith you make.So, stop feeling pity for yourself thinking that your circumstances are far too intricate and cannotbe conquered. Someone kept marching on even after he had been stabbed to within an inch ofhis life. Self-pity is the means by which mediocrity keeps visionaries down. The moment youfeel pity for yourself you become frozen. You cannot move and act for self-betterment inmoments of self-sympathy.

Do it well . . . The best way to create the best value of what you do is to do it well; in fact, so well that youcreate a reputation for an unmatchable standard of excellence. Desire to be the best you canever be. MLK II remarked that: “If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweepstreets even as Michelangelo painted or Beethoven played music or Shakespeare wrote poetry.He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, herelived a great street sweeper who did his job well.”

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When you are in the middle of a struggle, you risk losing your touch and you risk deliveringhalf-baked results. But it is in struggle that character is tested. We should all learn from MLK IIthat whichever office we hold in life we should endeavour to do well, from the CEO, securityofficer, receptionist and the motivation columnist. That way we exalt ourselves and our nation asa people of excellence. We should not compromise the quality of our products or servicessimply because we have not yet received our salaries or because our customers are yet to meettheir obligations. A true person of calling and purpose knows that you do not advance greatnessby retaliation, you only seed mediocrity.

Keep your vision even to the grave . . . You do not want to live until you are 75 only to realise that you have not truly lived. This,according to MLK II, is the greatest tragedy. What he means is that if you fail to follow yourpurpose and commit to your vision, you shall forever regret not having truly lived. In the eveningof April 4 1968, while standing on the balcony of his hotel room in Memphis, MLK II wasassassinated. He died at a young age of 39. There are some people who live to 50 while nothaving truly lived. Others, however, live far beyond that age. There is a general misconceptionthat if you are young, you are not expected to accomplish great things. MLK II played his parteven before the age of 25. You are not too young to conquer, do not fool yourself. This is thetime for young people to embrace focus and purpose and rise to a common creed of greatness,a creed of overcoming and being the enzyme that catalyses true development, to feed thehungry, to clothe orphans and inspire the weary. This is your defining moment.

There is no guarantee that you shall live to old age. MLK II never knew he would die at 39, buthe accomplished so much that to date even his grave cannot contain his legacy.

- Muyeche Chrispen is the author of the forthcoming motivational: “Embrace YourUltimate Greatness”. Link up with Chris by e-mailing chrismuyeche@yahoo.com and joinhim on Facebook.

 

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