personality development session for shrimad rajchandra mission

Personality DevelopmentLeadership Communication

Through You I am


Jainisim is distinct

You...so are


SRM

Ahimsa (Non-violence)

Anekantvada (Non-absolutism)

Aparigraha (Non-possessiveness)

Samyak Darshan (Right Faith)

Anekantvada (Non-absolutism)

Samyak Charitra (Right Conduct)

Ahimsa (Non-violence)

Satya (Truthfulness)

Achaurya (Non-stealing)

Brahmacharya (Celibacy)

Aparigraha (Non-possessiveness)

THE PATH OF

LIBERATION

FUNDAMENTAL

TENETS

FIVE GREAT

VOWS


You are the channel


You have only one persona


Attitudes

Interests

Behavioral patterns

Emotional responses

Social roles

Values

Your one persona is the sum of:


Your personality shows through…

• Public Speaking

• Body language

• Behavior

• Anger Management

• Physical Fitness

• Food habit

• Friend making Skills

• Relationship Skills

• Learning Skills

• Dealing with problems


Examine and evaluate your presence in daily life

The First Step…


Do You reflect…

• Assertiveness

• Patience

• Kindness

• Compassion

• Cheerfulness

• Calmness

• Confidence


SUPERIORITY COMPLEX

1. Acknowledge achievements

2. Accept and recognize

feelings as valid

3. Do not belittle positive

characteristics and point out

flaws in others

4. Be willing to compromise

on opinions and views

INFERIORITY COMPLEX

1. Stop associating with those

who make you feel

inadequate or insecure

2. Know your limitations and

the extent of your abilities

3. Stop being a doormat

4. Find what you do best and

work diligently until you

excel at it

Identify & defeat negative emotions


FEAR

1.Take small steps

2.Get positive motivation

3.See failure and rejection in

new light

STRESS

1. One thing at a time

2. Simple schedule

3. Do something calming

4. Get creative

5. De-clutter

Identify & defeat negative emotions


Develop a positive attitude


Importance of Attitude


Make your life 100% Give each letter of the alphabet a value

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

S K I L L S

19 11 9 12 12 19

K N O W L E D G E

11 14 15 23 12 5 4 7 5

H A R D W O R K

8 1 18 4 23 15 18 11

A T T I T U D E

1 20 20 9 20 21 4 5

=

=

=

=

82%

96%

98%

100%


The CAN DO Attitude

• You CAN DO everything, but not all at once

• You CAN DO everything, if it’s important enough for you to do

• You CAN DO everything, but you may not be the best at it

• You CAN DO everything, but there will be limitations

• You CAN DO everything, but you’ll need help


Increase self confidence• Think positively about yourself

• Set realistic goals

• Reward/praise yourself when you DO well

• Be aware of your thoughts

• Think logically about the situation, DON’T react

• Dwell on your strengths

• Credit yourself, do not attribute your accomplishments only to luck

• Learn to be assertive


Assertiveness

• Helps you become self-confident

• Increases self-esteem

• Gains respect of others

• Improves communication skills

• Improves decision-making ability


How to be Assertive

• Be honest and direct about your

feelings, needs, beliefs

• Express yourself firmly and

directly

• Be reasonable in your requests

• Regcognize and respect the

rights of those around you

• Be aware of body posture/language

• Maintain eye contact

• Don’t let others impose their

values/ideas on you

• Encourage others to be clear and direct

• Take ownership


Qualities of a team leader • Begin with praise and honest appreciation

• Call attention to people’s mistake indirectly

• Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person

• Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

• Praise the slightest and every improvement

• Let the other person save his face

• Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to

• Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct

• Make the other person happy about doing the things you suggest


Managing your time

To-do list

Identify priority

Make it happen

Evaluate deviations


• Balance in Life is important

• Recognize each aspect of life

• I am not getting enough time

for family/personal life

because of Work

• 80% of day is spent at

work/school/college


You cannot go back and

change a beginning

But You can start now and

create a successful ending


Mithu Basu

Founder


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