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    POWER LIVING ATTITUDESFailures give up too easily

    I do my BEST

    to expect the best

    from myself and

    get the best results in my

    life!

    Do or do not! There is no try. And if you do something, do your best.

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    I Break

    My

    LIMITSWe are controlled by imaginary limits. Break free from your mental

    chains and expand your potential.

    Failures always think it is impossible.

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    Failures get worse and never improve.

    I do it

    BETTERandBETTERand

    BETTER

    Have the attitude of improving everything you are doing and your life always

    be excitingly different.

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    Failures truly believe that they cannot succeed.

    I Believein myself

    that

    I canSUCCEED.Begin to change by trusting in yourself.

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    Failures have low negative energy.

    I controlmyENERGY

    and its always

    Highhh!

    Be aware of your energy level. Sit, stand or move your body to ensure your highenergy.

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    Failures think they are not good enough.

    If you can do it,so can I.. the difference is

    in

    my MIND.Dont be jealous of peoples achievement or just envy their success. You

    can also do it. Follow their patterns.

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    Failures keep making the same mistakes and arenot aware it.

    I teachmyself

    to watch thethings

    I am doing.Observe your own actions and attitudes. Are they excellent or negative

    behaviours?

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    Failures are easily distracted.

    I have the

    ability toFOCUS.

    Power Concentration is having the ability to focus on what you aredoing or thinking without it wandering away.

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    Failures are afraid to do new things.

    Itsokayto make

    mistakes.

    Ilearnfrom my

    mistakes.

    All learning requires you to take risks and new challenges. Making mistakes is part of

    learning. Learning from mistakes creates wisdom.

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    Failures miss out on opportunities of life

    I am ready torespond to lifes

    CHALLENGES &

    OPPORTUNITIES.To move forward you have to make changes in your life. Respond

    positively.

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    Failures always blame circumstances or otherpeople for their troubles/mistakes.

    ThePOWERrests inme thatI can

    CHOOSEto create my life, the way I want

    it to be.

    Some people are afraid of success and live in failures Decide to win. Its easier and moverewarding.

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    Failures think of nothing but their weaknesses.

    I alwaysFOCUSon my

    STRENGTHSandimprove my

    Weaknesses.Weaknesses are only undeveloped talents and abilities. Use your strengths to

    improve your weaknesses.

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    Failures always remember their failures.

    MyHAPPYandGOOD MOMENTS

    are myVITAMINS

    for living.

    Remember and treasure joyful and proud moments in your life. If think of your

    failures and bad experiences, you become that.

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    Failures are easily influenced by external sources.

    IFILTER

    what goesintomy mind.

    Protect your mind from negative energy, thoughts and influences. Bealert against these negative elements and the effects they have on

    you.

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    Failures are easily influenced by external sources.

    I learnlike a

    SPONGE.

    Learning is a journey and knowledge comes to you in many ways. Open your

    mind.

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    The mind of Failures is closed.

    ImALERTtonew ideas

    that improve

    my life.The clues to success are all out there. Get ready to win.

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    Failures waste their time, energy & life.

    I knowEXACTLY

    where I am

    going.Clarity is power! Set goals that are specific and with time datelines.

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    Failures are always wandering around and wasting time.

    This is what

    I am goingto dotoday.

    Start your day with a check-list. Then review what was accomplished.The feeling is good when you have a plan.

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    Failures are always feeling lost.

    When I know what Iwant, thisfeelingwill

    guide my every

    BEHAVIOUR.

    Sit down and plan what you want. Your energy and actions will become

    more directed.

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    Failures think about their past.

    I have a

    POSSIBLEDREAM.

    Think of what you can do and aim just beyond your best. New ideas and more

    effort will come out from you.

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    Failures are selfish and only think about themselves.

    BeOUTSTANDING

    and servemankind.

    Share your knowledge and wisdom with others. Care for those who need

    your help. When you want to serve, you want to be understanding.

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    Failures say tomorrow and tomorrow.

    I convert my

    thoughts toACTION NOW!

    Move! Jump! Get up! Do what you have planned. Success is just aheartbeat away.

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    Failures participate in negative and damaging self-talk.

    What am I

    SAYINGto myself?

    Observe the words you use on yourself. Positive self-talk creates a moresupportive and powerful attitude to succeed.

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    Failures say, I dont know.

    If I know,

    this is whatI will do

    Words control your behaviour. Never say, I dont know what to do.change to words that give you more power.

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    Failures keep quiet about their needs and use shyness asan excuse.

    I get what

    I want when I askwith aREASON.

    Ask, ask, ask and ask with a reason and youll get more things in life.

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    Failures are controlled by others.

    I am a

    MASTERof Myself.

    Create your own world of abundance.

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    Failures allow emotions to control them.

    I am inCONTROL

    of my

    EMOTIONS.

    How you feel can be your choice. If you dont like what you are feeling,

    decide to change. Take charge of your emotions.

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    Failures seem to reinforce negative behaviourunknowlingly by continuously critising.

    You know, thatswhat I like about you,

    you are(caring)

    (hardworking) (smart)

    Power strategy. Catch them doing things right and reinforce their positivebehaviour.

    Communicate with power!

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    Communicate with power!

    Failures say, You are always like that. Whats wrong with you

    You areBETTERthan this.Thats why Im angry at you

    and Ill forgive you becauseIknow you are BETTER

    than this.Power strategy. Make them realise that the are not performing at their best and they can be

    better.

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    Failures never advise people. They just scold.

    Do yourBEST.In fact, do it

    BETTERthan the

    last time.

    Power strategy. Continuous reinforcement of this principle of success in a personwill create his desire to excel.

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    F il t t d t d thi h i

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    Failures expect you to understand everything he issaying.

    Am Icommunicatingclearly to you?

    GOODcan you

    repeat my instruction?

    Power strategy. The meaning of my communication is the response I get. Everyindividual has different beliefs, perception and experiences. What you say may

    mean differently to different people. Double-check your instructions.

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    Failures think what they say is important.

    How do youFEELabout

    what I have just

    said?

    Power strategy. Its not what you say to a person, but its what that person say tohim/her self after you have stopped, thats affecting them! Double check the

    outcome of your communication.

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    Failures say, You look sick and tired today.

    Youlook

    HAPPY

    today.

    Power strategy. People who feel good about themselves always produce good

    results. Promote Positive feelings.

    Failures talk a lot of negative language and influence

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    Failures talk a lot of negative language and influenceyou to it.

    I notice you areusing a lot of

    negative language.Are you aware of it?

    Power strategy. Negative thoughts produce negative behaviour. Thus, help aperson to be conscious of his/her negative effects.

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    Failures only push you and never guide you carefully.

    Let me showyou how you

    can do

    this BETTER.

    Power strategy. People do not/will not and cannot change until they discover another wayof doing things better. Otherwise, they will just revert back to the same ineffective

    behaviour.

    Failures do not have a plan and know not what they want to say or achieve

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    Failures do not have a plan and know not what they want to say or achievein a specific time period.

    Let me give youan OVERVIEW of

    what we aregoing to discuss,

    Power strategy. Communication that appeals to both sides of the brain is not only powerfulbut reassuring especially when the end result is forgiveness and love. When you present

    an overview, your listener is aware of your true intention. Left Brain communicationmeaning one topic at a time creates uncertainty and growing fear because of assumption

    made.

    Failures discourage and think it is impossible for one to improve

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    Failures discourage and think it is impossible for one to improveones weakness.

    Its not that you arenot good in Public Speaking,

    you just have not learned

    HOWto.

    Power strategy. Weakness in a person is not bad but, only undeveloped talentsand abilities. Encouragement works better than scolding.

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    F il k l d thi ith th i

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    Failure make people do wrong things with their vagueinstructions.

    PleaseSWITCH ON

    the ceiling lightnear the door.

    Power strategy. Never assume. Be specific in all your instructions. They cannotread your mind. Therefore, if you say, Please switch on the light. It is

    destructive. Tell them exactly and specifically what to do.

    Failures do not understand people because they do

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    Failures do not understand people because they donot want to.

    There must bea REASON

    for you to say that

    Power strategy. Behind every emotion or behaviour, is a specific reason.Uncover it by asking until you have understood.

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    Principles of Power Communication

    How I say

    matters

    more thanwhat I say

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    The meaning of myCOMMUNICATION

    to myself

    and others

    is the response that

    returns that returns to me.

    Principles of Power Communication

    P i i l f P C i ti

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    Principles of Power Communication

    The QUALITYof the RESULTS

    you want in your lifeis the QUALITY of your

    COMMUNICATIONwith yourself

    and with others.

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    P i i l f P C i i

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    If the way I amCOMMUNICATING is

    not producing theresults I want,

    I will do somethingelse until I succeed.

    Principles of Power Communication

    P i i l f P C i ti

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    I must FOCUS

    on my outcome

    all the time in myCOMMUNICATION.

    Principles of Power Communication

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    Only when ICHANGE the way

    I am communicating,will people around me

    CHANGE theircommunication

    towards me.

    Principles of Power Communication

    A Thi ki Q ti F Y T d

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    Howcan I be

    MoreInteresting?

    Its not what you say but how say it. be alive. Be vibrant. Have passion in your voice.

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

    A Thi ki Q ti F Y T d

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    How can Ibe more

    easily

    understood?Effective Power Communication is simple, precise and honest.

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

    A Thi ki Q ti F Y T d

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    How can IEFFECTIVELY

    present myideas?

    Human have the Left and the Right Brain. Communicate to both of them. Firstly,present an overview. Then, provide the individual explanations.

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

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    Who Am

    I Talkingto?

    Every Individual is different. Listen first. Get more Input first. Then organiseyour strategy before you communicate.

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

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    How do

    I SoundToday?

    Your attitude and your energy level is reflected in your Voice. Change the wayyou Sound and youll change your attitude.

    A Thinking Question For You Today:

    A Thi ki Q ti F Y T d

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    Have IAPPRECIATED

    someoneToday?

    Communicating with power is the ability to recognise ones effort or potential and,helping to develop it by appreciation.

    A Thinking Question For You Today: