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RAISING CHILDREN IN AN INTERNET WORLD

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Page 1: RAISING CHILDREN IN AN INTERNET WORLD. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first

RAISING CHILDREN IN

AN INTERNET WORLD

Page 2: RAISING CHILDREN IN AN INTERNET WORLD. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” And you,

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” And you,

Page 3: RAISING CHILDREN IN AN INTERNET WORLD. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first

fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.

New King James Version

Ephesians 6:1-4

fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.

New King James Version

Ephesians 6:1-4

Page 4: RAISING CHILDREN IN AN INTERNET WORLD. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first

A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Each generation is dependent upon the preceding ones.Too few are surviving spiritually. Lose 50% of our youth 20 youths in 7th grade

End of high school 10 were goneEnd of college 2 remained

Fixes are not lasting factors

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A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Factors making a large difference Parents’ relationship to God

2 Kings 20:15

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And he said, “What have they seen in your house?” So Hezekiah answered, “They have seen all that is in my house; there is nothing among my treasures that I have not shown them.”

New King James Version

2 Kings 20:15

And he said, “What have they seen in your house?” So Hezekiah answered, “They have seen all that is in my house; there is nothing among my treasures that I have not shown them.”

New King James Version

2 Kings 20:15

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A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Factors making a large difference Parents’ relationship to God

2 Kings 20:15Both parents 93%Reasonably involved 53%One parent 20%Attend infrequently 6%Matthew 22:37-38

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Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ “This is the first and great commandment.

New King James Version

Matthew 22:37-38

Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ “This is the first and great commandment.

New King James Version

Matthew 22:37-38

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A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Factors making a large difference Give early and consistent attention to spiritual matters

Proverbs 22:6

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Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

New King James Version

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

New King James Version

Proverbs 22:6

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A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Factors making a large difference Give early and consistent attention to spiritual matters

Proverbs 22:6 Christian education is helpful Bonding with church peers and leaders

1 Corinthians 15:33

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Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.”

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1 Corinthians 15:33

Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.”

New King James Version

1 Corinthians 15:33

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A Crisis Exists For The Future Of The Church

Factors making a large difference Discipline

Proverbs 13:24

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He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.

New King James Version

Proverbs 13:24

He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.

New King James Version

Proverbs 13:24

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INTRODUCE THE INTERNET INTO THE EQUATION

One of the most influencing powersYou are still responsibleWar for their minds becomes more dangerousPredators have a field dayPornography’s power and influence

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HOW CAN PARENTS BE SUCCESSFUL?

Be Aware!! Communicate Keep computers public, shared Keep phones on family plan Keep informed Check visited sites oftenCare!!

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“And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. “You

“And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. “You

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shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. “You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

New King James Version

Deuteronomy 6:6-9

shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. “You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

New King James Version

Deuteronomy 6:6-9