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Recognizing what is most important in your life

❖ A program to improve vitality and well-being through a one-on-one conversation with a trained coach

❖ It was developed by Hebrew Senior Life and Kendal

❖ Vitalize 360 is volunteer for Independent Living Residents, and it is free of charge❖ New this year: the program will be extended to residents who live in Brandywine

❖ Vitalize 360 uses a web-based program, that is compliant with HIPPA

❖ Database is used to measure the wellness, as a whole, at each facility using this program

❖ Vitalize 360 has an interdisciplinary team of staff:

Kim Rivers, MSW Sara DeRosa, LCSW Sandy Short, Marketing Outreach Manager

Emelda Che, RN Corinne Pearce, RD Social Service – Director (Vacant)

Jeronimo Jiminez, PT Suzanne Shabe, C.T.R.S.

❖ Since March 2018:

❖ 60 Residents have joined V-360

❖ Monthly Presentations to the Collington Community❖ Aqua Therapy❖ Brain Health❖ Check Point: Financial Discussion❖ Prince George Park and Planning❖ Loneliness Vs. Aloneness❖ September: Healthy Aging Month❖ Taste of the Holidays

❖ Residents interested should call Kim Rivers, ext. 7393 and sign up for the program

❖ Resident’s who sign up will be given an assessment tool to complete: Lifestyle Survey

❖ Return the completed Lifestyle Survey to Kim Rivers, either in the clinic or to her office (near Security Desk)

❖ Kim will call the resident to schedule an appointment

❖ Time Frame:❖ 1st appointment – introduction and Health and Social Check-up Survey❖ 2nd appointment (within one week) – Discuss the Vision and Reflection Worksheet and the My Vitality

Plan Worksheet❖ 3rd, 4th, and 5th appointment (quarterly meetings) – Discuss progress, setbacks, and achievements❖ 6th appointment (yearly appointment) – Assessment of the whole year

❖ Meetings last no more than an hour

❖ Using the Wellness Wheel to assess your quality of life

❖ Become aware of what matters most to aging adults

❖ Not focus so much on “goals”, but to focus on forming good habits and breaking bad habits

❖ Using the V-360 Reflection Journal to enhance your well-being

❖ To have more of a hands-on approach for residents who need assistance with their goals

❖ To work with the Social Service/360 Committee to make V-360 successful at Collington

GoalsGood Habits

1. Spiritual2. Emotional3. Intellectual4. Physical5. Social6. Environmental7. Financial

❖ Process of understanding beliefs, values, and ethics that help guide your life

❖ Explore spirituality through a religious or faith community

❖ Spend time enjoying nature, meditate, or practice yoga

❖ Based on how well you feel

❖ Manage your stress level

❖ 7-8 hours of sleep

❖ Comfortable with asking for help

❖ Seek Counseling from a professional

❖ Staying curious and engaged in learning new things

❖ Engage in creative and mentally stimulating activities

❖ Read for pleasure

❖ Be aware of social/political issues

❖ Join a committee or activity

❖ Maintaining a healthy body

❖ Exercise

❖ Eating well-balanced meals

❖ Sleeping

❖ Managing stress

❖ Receiving preventative medical/dental care

Social

❖ Participation in your community

❖ Developing nurturing healthy relationships

❖ Having a strong social network that provides support and guidance

❖ Development of healthy bonding and boundaries

❖ Taking care of your global environment and your personal surroundings

❖ De-cluttering your home or recycling trash

❖ Volunteering to clean up your environment

❖ Help to improve your health and the health of the people around you

❖ Taking steps to live within your financial means and living in future financial health

❖ Learning to think short and long-term in order to manage your resources

❖ Planning financially, creating a budget, and learning to be a good consumer

I would like to have a good quality of life

during this stage

I just want to live as long as I can

and be there for my family as

much as possible

I’m really trying to go

deeper in my Spirituality, this is very

important to me

I want to make a better effort of

learning my community and

joining committees

I need to quit smoking

I want to get back to doing yoga

on a regular basis

Goals Habits

Something you achieve in a certain amount of time and be able to cross it off your list

Something you repeatedly do

An aim or a desired result Something that a person does regularly

Something you work on incrementally until you are done

Ingrained in your daily life that is largely subconscious

A clear and defined ending Following a system

Reference: Atomic Habits by James ClearTime Magazine – Special Edition – The Power of Habits

❖ No difference between Winners and Losers – all have the same goal❖ No one plans to fail, everyone has goals

❖ Achieving goals are only a momentary change❖ Temporary life changes; only focused on the result

❖ Goals restrict your happiness❖ Either you achieve your goal and be happy or you fail at your goal and be disappointed; “either-

or” conflict

❖ Goal-orientation can lead to a “yo-yo” effect❖ Once goals are achieved, there is no purpose to continue the work; motivation is no longer there

25 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31 32

“A one-degree shift, seemingly no different from the temperature increases before it, has unlocked a huge change.” (Clear, J.)

Laws of Behavior Change Creating a Good Habit Inversion to the Laws of Behavior Change

Breaking a Bad Habit

1st Law – Cue Make it obvious Inversion of 1st Law – Cue Make it invisible

2nd Law – Craving Make it attractive Inversion of 2nd Law – Craving Make it unattractive

3rd Law – Response Make it easy Inversion of 3rd Law – Response Make it difficult

4th Law – Reward Make it satisfying Inversion of 4th Law – Reward Make it unsatisfying

The Golden Rule of Habit ChangeChange the habit, then reward yourself for the effort and then actually do the new habit

❖Your brain may began to visualize that you have already achieved the goal, but in reality you have not

❖More work, more responsibility, more accountability to accomplish the goal

❖Too many goals, so little time

❖Get sidetracked; procrastinate

❖I’m retired, what more do I need to do? (Self-neglect)

❖Look for triggers

❖Find ways to change the things that make you anxious

❖Get organized

❖Take care of your well-being

❖Build a support system

❖Talk to a professional

❖ Meditation

❖ Mindfulness

❖ Yoga

❖ Exercise

❖ Music Therapy

❖ Movement Therapy

❖ Religious Services

❖ Journaling

Wellness

Wheel

50

100

Fin

anci

al

Social

Inte

llectu

al

Wellness

Wheel

100

50

50

100

100

50 50

50

50

100

100

100

Reflect on how well you are doing with your well-being

❖ Rate each dimension from 0-100, by using markers/highlighters

❖ Notice which dimension is more colorful, notice which has the least color

❖ Write down thoughts and ideas of how to enhance the dimensions that are less colorful

Highlight your average wellness score

❖ Add together the total number of points for each dimension

❖ Divide the sum by seven❖ Mark that number on your graph❖ Take time to reflect how well you

did for the entire year

Example: Month of January

80+70+85+65+90+100+70= 560

5607= 80

❖ Kim Rivers, MSW – Health Coach – Vitalize 360 – 301-925-7393

❖ Sara DeRosa, LCSW – Independent Residents – 301-883-4786

❖ Dr. Keith Foster, PhD PA – Licensed Psychologist – 301-925-7791 (clinic)

❖ PsychoGeriatrics Services – Geriatric Mental Health Care in Long-term Facilities –Call Kim or Sara (referrals are made)