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ReintegrationPresented by Military & Family Life Counselors
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AGENDA
» Purpose of this Briefing » Importance of the Reintegration Process » Checklists » Changes » Challenges » Positive Coping Strategies » Things to Keep in Mind » Resources
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PURPOSE OF REINTEGRATION BRIEFINGS
» Reintegration briefings help to provide an understanding of the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors common to most service members and their families as they adjust to life after deployment.
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THE IMPACT OF REINTEGRATION
» Reintegration can be both joyful and stressful. » Emotions can be intense. » Reintegration affects all family members. » Reintegration causes changes in the family.
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REINTEGRATION CHECKLIST FOR EVERY SERVICE MEMBER
» How did the welcome home go for me? » How did things go while I was gone? » Is my family supporting me the way I need them
to? » How am I handling my finances? » How is my return to work and/or school going? » Have I stayed in contact with the service
members I deployed with?
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REINTEGRATION CHECKLIST FOR THE SINGLE SERVICE MEMBER
» How I am doing with my relationships with family, old friends and lovers?
» Have I settled into my new living arrangements? » Have I achieved a level of self-reliance that I am
comfortable with? » Am I moving forward with my life goals?
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REINTEGRATION CHECKLIST FOR THE MARRIED SERVICE MEMBER
» How have my partner and I changed? » How are we coping with those changes? » Do we still have things to talk about? » How well are we connecting intimately? » Does it feel like my partner still wants and needs
me? » How well are we sharing the responsibilities and
tasks of marriage and family?
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REINTEGRATION CHECKLIST FOR SERVICE MEMBERS WITH CHILDREN
» What is my role in discipline with the children? » How have the rules changed and how are those
rules working? » Have I reconnected with my child’s activities,
teacher/coach/scout leader? » How much anxiety do my children have about
potential future deployments and do I know how to deal with that?
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ADJUSTING TO ROLE CHANGES
How am I adjusting to: » A partner that may have learned more about
managing a home or working outside of the home.
» A child that has matured and is doing more mature activities or handling more responsibilities than before.
» Finding my place again in a home that ran without me.
» Changes in my workplace and others’ response to me and my combat experience?
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CHANGES TO LOOK FOR IN YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY
» Appearance » Attitudes » Values » Independence » Trust » Faith » Interests
» Habits » Preferences - food,
clothing, recreation » Goals - education,
money, career » Priorities - what’s
important in life
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OTHER COMMON REACTIONS TO BE AWARE OF…
» Feeling overwhelmed » Frustration » Irritability » Depression » Guilt » Emotionally numb (“I just
don’t feel much of anything anymore)
» Concentration problems » Memory problems » Crying spells » Sexual performance
issues
» Loss of trust » Loss of interest/motivation » Fatigue » Sleep disturbance » Oversleeping » Trouble falling asleep » Waking up in the middle
of the night » Feeling jumpy » Flashbacks » Intrusive thoughts
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FLASHBACKS AND INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS
Flashbacks are episodes of re-experiencing events that occurred during a deployment. » Service Members feel as if they are back in theater and
may not be aware of their immediate surroundings. Intrusive thoughts are recurrent and unwanted distressing images, ideas, or perceptions. » Although bothersome and distressing, flashbacks and
intrusive thoughts are generally normal and not associated with more serious problems unless they persist for several months or cause significant interference in a service member’s ability to function normally.
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FLASHBACKS AND INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS continued…
» Flashbacks and intrusive thoughts may occur in response to a “trigger” (e.g. a loud noise that sounds like a weapon’s discharge) or spontaneously without a trigger.
Service members can cope with flashbacks and intrusive thoughts by: » Reminding themselves that they are to be expected and
that this is our mind’s way of trying to understand and make sense of the experience.
» Discussing them with family, friends, and supervisors. » Seeking professional assistance if they are significantly
distressed by these experiences.
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WHEN NORMAL REACTIONS BECOME PROBLEMATIC
» Functional impairment: Anything that significantly interferes with a service member’s ability to do the things that he or she needs to do in any important area of life (work, home/family, couple/intimacy, social, spiritual).
» Sleep disturbances are common reactions to deployment that can become a functional impairment.
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NEGATIVE COPING STYLES A SERVICE MEMBER MAY EXPERIENCE
» Drinking alcohol excessively or using illegal drugs » Driving recklessly or engaging in other risk-taking
behaviors » Picking fights » Going on spending sprees » Gambling » Isolating yourself for long periods » Dropping out of pleasurable or recreational activities » Working all the time as a way of avoiding distressing
memories » Trying to constantly avoid exposure to people, places or
thoughts that are associated with the traumatic event – it prevents progress in coping and healing
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POSITIVE COPING MECHANISMS
» Adjust gradually » Stay positive and be patient » Communicate and negotiate » Respect each other’s right to feel a little
resentful » Rethink your budget » Resist spending sprees » Talk about new rules and schedules » Support and compliment positive changes
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POSITIVE COPING MECHANISMS continued…
» Plan a special celebration as a family » Spend time together as a couple » Re-establish sexual intimacy slowly » Spend time with children (together and
individually) » Go easy on discipline » Make time for yourself and allow others their
free time, also » Reconnect or stay in touch with your church,
social support system and recreational activities
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OLD PROBLEMS DON’T GO AWAY
» Separation does not solve problems that existed before deployment
» Old habits do not just disappear » Don’t expect to resolve the old (or new)
problems right away
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Questions
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Resources
» Military Community Services
» Chaplain and Local Clergy
» Military OneSource (800) 342-9647
» TRICARE www.tricare.osd.mil
» Behavioral Health Services