“I have failed…….”

Failure, what does it mean?

It means the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objectives (according to Google). Or in short the opposite of success.

We all have so many problems, stresses in our daily life and we all have failed at something, someone has failed in study, someone failed to earn enough for their home, some failed in love, some in different ,different places. Though all of them have failed in different parts of life but they all have some things in common which is guilt, loneliness, depression, and a broken spirit. Most of us

try to blame others for our mistakes, or if no one else to blame then there is GOD, ”Why me? GOD!”. I also used to feel the same, but now I understand if someone is to blame for my mistakes it’s me.

We all have our scars, scars heals over time, so we have to keep going, no matter how hard we fell on the ground, we have to get up and give it another shot and another until we reach our goal. It is up to us what are we going to do ? are we going to stay at the bottom and wait for

a miracle to happen in our life? Someone said that, ”you can’t appreciate the top if you have never been at the bottom” .

There is no such thing as miracle, there is no SANTA CLAUS, no GOD who will come to save you, do you

know the only thing or person that can save you………… is ‘you’.

Now, as teenager the most of us try to find one thing which is

‘love’, being in love with someone and being with that person

seems to be the most beautiful

feeling in our life, which is true but sometimes people become little selfish because of that , they ignore their parents, they lie, also they ignore their career which are big mistakes . When you have a break up, your friends will try to make you feel better, will give their perspective about your old relationship, yes you will feel better but that’s temporary. When the night come, when you will be alone in your room, hearing some of your favorites songs and then the flood of memories will bring out your tears, you will feel like someone is squeezing your heart and that pain will never go if you don’t let it go. It does not matter what was the reason that the person left you, but if there is no chance of the person coming back then don’t think “I have failed him/her”, if you think that way you will be a living dead person (but not like the zombie, from inside you will be dead, you will never be happy). If you truly love him just let them go and move on. Focus on the persons who are in close with you now like your parents, you can’t imagine the sacrifices they have made for you. You want to see god, want to know what they look like, then go and take a look at your parents…….yes that’s what god look like, stand up for them, stand up for yourself, yes you will fail but try again and again because always remember that hard work beats talent in anything .

There is always light in the end of the dark alley, you just have to walk to it. So, rise up.

Subhadip Dutta