Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

Thirty First Sunday in Ordinary Time — October 30, 2016

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Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

*ALL SAINTS’ DAY MASS SCHEDULE—p. 3

*SEE PHOTOS FROM PILGRIMAGE TO WASH., D.C.

—p. 6

NOVEMBER 1—a Holy Day of Obligation

NOVEMBER 2—ALL SOULS’ DAY

See “FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK” on p. 3 and a special Parish Remembrance on p. 4.

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am 7:30 pm

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am 10:30 am 7:30 pm

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am 7:30 pm

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 pm

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill: Jeff Harms, Harold Bottino, Bobbie Murtha.

Felix Matos, Jeffrey Pluto, Patrick O’Brien, Sam Gazzola

Let us remember those who have recently died: Antonia Caldara, Joseph Tesoriero, Louis La Monica, Angelo D’Imperio, Marion Perucca, Vincent Bricca,

Henry Reimann

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of October 23, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY* TOTAL

$7,784 $3,698 $11,482

* Please note that our ParishPay total remains the same but has been divided into five weeks for October 2016.

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS The bread and wine

for the week of October 30, 2016

is offered in loving memory of

Charles Morgan as requested the Legion of Mary.

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “But Zacchaeus stood there and said to the Lord, ‘Behold, half of my possessions, Lord, I will give to the poor, and if I extorted anything from anyone I shall repay it four times over.’” LUKE 19:8 We are all called to graciously give back to the Lord in proportion to the blessings we have been given. This means everyone isn’t called to give the same amount, but is called to give equal sacrifice. No amount is too small or insignificant! Open your heart. How is God calling you?

October 29, 2016 Frank McCoo

October 30, 2016 People of the Parish Margaret Murphy Rev. Martin Russert Joan Gallagher Dorothy M. Zack

October 31, 2016 Margaret Lyons Fred Galea Fr. Jim Moran

November 1, 2016 All Saints Day Living & Deceased Members of the Prior & Plinio Families Deceased Members of the Fakharzdeh Family School Mass for Holy Day (All are invited to attend.)

Charles Morgan

November 2, 2016 All our beloved deceased All our beloved deceased All Soul’s Remembrance Mass

November 3, 2016 All our beloved deceased Maria Skrivanic

November 4, 2016 Margaret Fox All our beloved deceased

November 5, 2016 All our beloved deceased Philip McGough

November 6, 2016 People of the Parish Gaetano Angione Anthony Smith Gaetano Angione

NOVENA CANCELED THIS MONDAY Due to the All Saints’ holy day anticipatory Mass on Monday, October 31 at 7:30 pm in the Upper Church, the Miraculous Medal Novena will NOT be held. The Novena will return to its regularly scheduled day and time (Mondays at 7:00 pm) on November 7.

EUCHARISTIC ADORATION—NOVEMBER 2 Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament will be held on Wednesday, November 2 in Mary’s Chapel from 9:00 am —5:00 pm. The Legion of Mary invites you to attend.

FIRST FRIDAY DEVOTION—NOVEMBER 4 Join us for the First Friday holy hour devotion to the Sacred Heart on Friday, November 4 immediately after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary’s Chapel.

See page 3 for All Saints’ Day Mass Schedule.

TURN BACK CLOCK—NOVEMBER 6

Remember to turn your clock BACK one hour when Daylight Savings Times ends

at 2:00 am on Sunday, November 6. And don’t forget to change your smoke alarm batteries too!

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FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

ALL SOULS MASS —NOVEMBER 2

The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed, which takes place on Wednesday, November 2, is a day particularly set aside to pray for those who have died. We invite you to join us for Mass at 7:30 pm in the upper church as we pray for our deceased relatives and friends. We will prayerfully remember our parishioners and friends who died during the past 12 months. Their names will be read aloud and a bell will toll in their memory during this Mass. All are invited to attend.

Because Tuesday is All Saints Day, I thought I would tell you about a saint who is only fairly

well known by most Catholics, St. Robert Bellarmine (1542-1621), the greatest defender of Catholic theology in the Counter-Reformation era. He came from Italy’s Tuscan region. After joining the Jesuits at age 18, he was ordained ten years later. He taught theology first at Louvain and then at Rome’s new Gregorianum, founded by St. Ignatius Loyola, where he specialized in upholding the Church’s teachings in the face of widespread Protestant attacks on them, an expertise that led to his being named to the office of papal theologian. He served the Church as a Bishop and a Cardinal, and also played a large role in the composition of the Catechism of the Christian Doctrine, which was widely used for three hundred years, an accomplishment that had much to do with Robert’s designation as the patron saint of catechists. He was also one of the most eloquent preachers of his time, even though he was so tiny in size that he had to preach standing on a stool. There is even an American connection to St. Robert, in a way. When Thomas Jefferson wrote the Declaration of Independence, he drew on Bellarmine’s thoughts to construct the famous passage about people having “unalienable rights.” St. Robert is well known for his role in the Galileo affair. It is hardly ever mentioned that the two men

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were good friends. In fact, Galileo dedicated one of his books to Bellarmine. In an era when the Church’s teachings were under widespread attack, St. Robert urged Galileo to present his views on astronomy cautiously:

Theologians are touchy these days—sore from the stings of a thousand wasps of heresy. They won’t take kindly to what they may think is another dangerous novelty. Put out the book as theory; let truth prove it fact.

Galileo, very understandably from his point of view, chose to proceed more aggressively, with important consequences for the history of science. Sir Robert was a man of immense holiness. His personal lifestyle was strongly ascetic. Even though, as a Cardinal, he had to reside in a Roman palace, he lived in it with utter simplicity, eating a diet composed largely of bread and garlic, “the food of the poor,” as he called it. He did without a fire in his fireplace so he could donate the money he saved to ease the sufferings of the poor. As befits a saint, he was heroically charitable to the needy. He even ordered the red woolen draperies of his residence to be taken down so they could be remade into clothing for those who were shivering in the cold, remarking that “The walls won’t catch cold.” Canonized by Pope Pius XI in 1930, he was declared a Doctor of the Church the following year. He is certainly an admirable and appealing saint.

Msgr. David Hubba

WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY Saint Joseph Parish extends its condolences to our Youth Minister, Donna Cirino, and her family, on the death of her mother Marion Perucca.

Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen.

HOLY DAY MASS SCHEDULE

Anticipated Mass Monday, October 31

at 7:30 pm (Upper Church)

Holy Day Masses Tuesday, November 1

7:00 am , 8:30 am, 10:30 am and 7:30 pm (Upper Church)

The Solemnity of All Saints is a holy day of obligation. Catholics are required to attend Mass.

K OF C MEMORIAL MASS—NOVEMBER 4 There will be a Memorial Mass for the deceased brothers of the Knights of Columbus Saint Joseph Council #3814 and their family members on Friday, November 4 at 7:30 pm in Mary’s Chapel.

All K of C members and family and friends of Saint Joseph Church and the Church of the Ascension are welcome to attend. Refreshments will be served after Mass.

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LOVING MEMORIES OF OUR DEARLY DEPARTED This past year Saint Joseph Church mourned the loss of a number of parishioners who contributed greatly to the life of our parish. They generously offered their time and talents to give honor and glory to God: serving in the various liturgical ministries to help make our Masses and devotions beautiful, reaching out to those in need through our Social Concerns ministry, serving both God and their fellow parishioners with great love and commitment. (The names of all our beloved deceased who had funerals at Saint Joseph Church this past year will appear in next week’s bulletin.)

Mary Glynn was a longtime Minister of Holy Communion at Saint Joseph. Born in County Mayo, Ireland, she was a

registered nurse at Holy Name Hospital and was known both there and at Saint Joseph for her kindness and compassion. She was married to her dear husband Frank for 45 years and was blessed with five children and seven grandchildren.

Alfred O’Toole served Saint Joseph for many years as both an Altar Server and a Minister of Holy Communion, as

well as volunteering with the Cub Scouts and Meals on Wheels. He had a long, distinguished career with AT&T. He was married to his loving wife Anne for 54 years and was the proud father of six children and the grandfather of sixteen.

Rose Ronda loved Saint Joseph Church and served in many different ministries for many years. She was a

longtime lector and a member of our Social Concerns ministry. She taught religious education to special needs children in our parish preparing them to receive the sacraments. When the building on Grove Street was first opened as our Parish Life Center and a small library was included, she served as the parish librarian. She was married to Edgar and was the mother of a son and a daughter. She was the beloved grandmother of three and was also blessed with a great-grandson.

Jane Emanuel was deeply committed to both her church and her community. As the director of our ministry of lectors for many

years, she prepared new readers, scheduled them for Masses, and served as a reader herself. She was a longtime member of Saint Joseph’s Cornerstone and Social Concerns ministries. She worked as a teacher of English as a second language and volunteered for many civic groups. From 1944-46, she served in the U.S. Army as a member of the Women’s Army Corps, and in 2011 New Milford honored her both for her service and her community involvement when they named her Grand Marshall of the Memorial Day Parade. Jane was married to her dear husband Stanley (who predeceased her) and was the proud mother of two sons, grandmother to seven, and great-grandmother to six.

John (“Jack”) Verrier became the “voice” of Saint Joseph Parish when he served as the narrator of our 100th Anniversary

video in 2003. As a longtime lector (together with his dear wife Jo-Ann who predeceased him), he used his rich voice to regularly proclaim the Good News at Mass. Founder of his own company (J.A. Heilferty Co./Primepak), he shared his business knowledge with the parish as Chair of the Parish Finance Council . Along with Jo-Ann he was active in Renew, through which he made many lifelong friends. He cared deeply about his church and was dedicated to his family of six children, 25 grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren

Marilyn Kahill was devoted to Saint Joseph Church. Over 38 years as a parishioner, she served as a lector, a Minister of Holy Communion, a

member of the Parish Council and the chair of Social Concerns. She taught religious education for ten years and worked as an administrative assistant at Saint Joseph School. She volunteered with our T.A.R.G.E.T. youth group, visited the elderly at various nursing homes, helped Fr. Jim McKenna in his outreach ministry, and was a big supporter of our “brother/sister parish,” St. Brigid/St. Joseph in Jersey City. She was very active in Boy Scouting, guiding more than 90 young men to Eagle Scout. She was honored as Grand Marshal of Oradell’s 2011 Fourth of July parade for her contributions to Scouting. Marilyn lost her husband Joseph early (our lower church was originally refurbished in the 1970s in his memory). She was the proud mother of a daughter and a son and grandmother of four.

William (“Bill”) Coogan was called home to the Lord at the impressive age of 98. For 65 years, he was an integral and beloved part of Saint Joseph Parish. In the 1950s he drove Saint Joseph pastor Monsignor Thomas Curry (who built our current church) as the Monsignor searched for the properties that the Archdiocese of Newark would later purchase to build many area churches and schools. Bill’s career in banking (he retired as Vice President of East River Savings Bank) led to his service to Saint Joseph as an official counter of our weekly

collections (which he did with unerring accuracy well into his nineties). He served as a Minister of Holy Communion, a member of the Parish Pastoral Council, a past Grand Knight of St. Joseph’s Knights of Columbus Council #3814 (the K of C Hall is dedicated in his name), and a founding member of the Saint Joseph Athletic Association. He shared his long life with his beloved wife, Pat, who blessed him with six children. He was an adored “PaPa” to 13 grandchildren and “Great-PaPa” to 21 great-grandchildren.

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THIRTY FIRST SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ OCTOBER 30, 2016

“40 DAYS FOR LIFE” SEPT. 28—NOV. 6 If you can give an hour of prayer each week during this 40-day period, please call Margaret Scully at 201-805-0937. We pray across the street from the abortion facility located at 10 Zabriskie Street in Hackensack.

LAST CHANCE TO SIGN UP! DEADLINE to reserve your spot for the Retreat/Pilgrimage to the Holy Land is Nov.5. For full details see the flyer in our church literature racks. Call Fr. Roy at 201-261-0148 for additional information.

See our bulletin in FULL COLOR at sjcnj.org

SHAWL MINISTRY MEETING —NOVEMBER 8

Saint Joseph’s Shawl Ministry will meet on Tuesday, November 8 from 2:00-4:00 pm in the Parish Life Center on

Grove Street. All knitters & crocheters are welcome to join us in making shawls…or bring your current yarn project and spend a relaxing afternoon with us. Our ministry has shawls available for those experiencing illness, confinement, bereavement, or other situation. For further information, please contact Barbara Piersa at 201-261-0298 or Pat DeNicolo at 201-261-4323.

DONATE YOUR OLD EYEGLASSES Help the Knights of Columbus give the gift of sight to those in need by

donating your old prescription eyeglasses and sunglasses and your over-the-counter reading glasses. A collection box will be at the back of both the upper and lower churches during the month of November. (Glasses with broken frames are also accepted.)

JOIN THE CATHOLIC WAR VETERANS

Are you a practicing Catholic? Are you now serving in the United States Armed Forces or have you been honorably discharged from the military or Merchant Marines? If you

answered “yes” to those questions, then the Fr. Washington Post would like to invite you to learn more about our Post and how it serves veterans and contributes to the community and to the Church. The Fr. Washington Post is named in honor of the hero priest, Father John P. Washington who, along with three other chaplains, gave up their life jackets when the troopship SS Dorchester was torpedoed by an enemy submarine in 1943 on the north Atlantic. These brave, heroic men sacrificed their lives for the lives of others. Fr. Washington's life was marked by service and sacrifice, two qualities which are commonly found in Catholic veterans. Although our military service may be behind us, we continue to serve God, Country, and Home through our activities to benefit needy veterans and families of veterans in need. This is our mission as Catholic men and women, members of the one true Church. Should you decide to join our organization or if you need more information please contact Kurt Strobach, Commander and Saint Joseph parishioner, at 201-741-9515 or at kurtes0220@gmail.com

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Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

FANTASTIC FALL CRAFT SHOW —NOVEMBER 13

Unique Finds at Amazing Prices

Paramus Catholic High School Parents Association presents their Fall Craft Show with 130 quality crafters on Sunday, November 13 from 10:00 am to 5:00 pm. Admission is $3.00 and children 10 and under are FREE. (No strollers or pets allowed.) The show features quality crafters and artisans with woodwork, florals, soft sculpture, jewelry, photography, stained glass, apparel, children’s items, fiber, folk art, holiday items, and more! Paramus Catholic High School is located at 425 Paramus Road, Paramus, NJ.

SJS 2016 FALL FAMILY CARNIVAL A NOTE OF THANKS

The Saint Joseph School community extends its thanks to the following individuals and businesses for their help in making our Annual Carnival such a big success. The School realized a net profit of $21,050; Saint Joseph Church received $2,015.

PLEASE PATRONIZE OUR CARNIVAL SPONSORS!

Bergen Catholic High School Paramus Catholic High School Log Cabin (Tenafly) Basralian Funeral Svc. (Oradell) Block, O’Toole & Murphy, LLP Woodcrest Center (NYC) (New Milford) Goya Foods (Jersey City) John J. Knight Assoc. Sussex Bank (Oradell) (Saddle Brook) New Milford Bagels Volk Leber Funeral Home NVE Bank (New Milford) (Teaneck & Oradell) Stage Solutions, LLC (Dumont) Celtic Kitchen (New Milford) Glaze Donuts (New Milford) Subway (New Milford) Nelson-Patterson Agency (NM) Brain Freeze Ice Cream (NM) Jewelry by Vincent (NM) New Milford Deli

Thanks to Jill & Frank Pacelli for donating 75 lbs. of sausage and to Louise Moir (“Mama Mema”) for her homemade meatballs & sauce.

A special thank you to Msgr. Hubba (and the priests and parish staff), Scott Petrie the New Milford Police Dept., Principal Colette Vail, Lisa Kane (Tricky Tray), Elena DeVardo (Bake Sale), Anna Gugliotta (Volunteer Organizer), Gerry Ix and his Committee, and to all our school families and parishioners who donated their time, talents, delicious baked goods, cooking skills, and so much more! Our apologies to anyone whose name we may have missed. Your contribution was deeply appreciated. We couldn’t have done it without you! Thank you, one and all, for helping Saint Joseph School!

SJC PARISHIONERS ATTEND JUBILEE OF MERCY PILGRIMAGE

WASHINGTON, D.C. Thirty parishioners from Saint Joseph Parish joined mem- bers of the Church of the Annunciation (Paramus), St. John’s (Bergenfield), Our Lady of Mercy (Park Ridge), and Queen of Peace (Maywood) as passengers on one of the 75 buses that traveled from the Archdiocese of Newark to the Jubilee Year of Mercy Pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C. on October 22. Once there, they gathered with almost 4,000 people to attend Mass (celebrated by Archbishop John Myers) and to fulfill the obligations for a plenary indulgence including passing through the “Holy Door” of the Basilica.

Recognize this friendly face? It’s Fr. Peter Wehrle (SJC parochial

vicar from 199-2006); now pastor

in Bayonne..

Msgr. Richard Groncki (left) Archdiocesan Coordinator of Pilgrimages and former

weekend assistant at Saint Joseph Church.

Archbishop John Myers, celebrant.

SJC parishioners Katherine Norian

(rear) and Connie Vincenti at the

“Holy Door” of the Basilica.

SJC parishioners

in the Basilica:

(L-R)

Pat Fakharzadeh,

Connie Vincenti,

Nick Ocello,

Mike Moretti

(who carried our

banner in the pro-

cession), and Mary

& Eamon

McCarthy.

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