secrets of happy people
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]IMUIQ] K@ HJ^^R ^IK^OI
Hj~~r `jgbobi} jui joo jobdi4 ipiur ylhj~~r `jgbor b} ylhj~~r bl bq} ksl sjr,'Oik Qko}qkr
Qhiui jui gjlr sjr} `ku ~ik~oi qk ei ylhj~~r/ eyq hj~~r ~ik~oi hjpimkggkl mhjujmqiub}qbm}, Qhjq#} shr j ckka sjr qk ei hj~~r b} qk oijulqhi mkggkl mhjujmqiub}qbm} k` hj~~r ~ik~oi jla j~~or qhig,
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@KUCIQ QHI ^J]Q
Kli k` qhi dir} qk hj~~bli}} b} j eja gigkur,
'Ubqj Gji Euksl
Rky skl#q ei hj~~r b` rky mjuur qhi eyuail k` qhi ~j}q, Abarky gjdi gb}qjdi}; Aba rky hjpi qiuubeoi ix~iubilmi};Shjqipiu qhir jui/ rky }hkyoa oiq qhig ck, Qhiui#} lkqhblcrky mjl ak jekyq qhi ~j}q/ }k rky#a eiqqiu `kuciq qhi ~j}q jla
`kmy} rkyu iliucr kl qhi ~ui}ilq,
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QJDI UI]^KL]BEBOBQR @KU RKYU OB@I
Qhi }imuiq k` Hj~~bli}} b} @uiiakg/ jla qhi }imuiq k` @uiiakg/ Mkyujci,'Qhymrabai}
Qk ei hj~~r rky }hkyoa hjpi `uiiakg jla qhi gk}q i}}ilqbjo
`uiiakg b} qhi `uiiakg qk mhkk}i, Lk gjqqiu hks eja j }bqyjqbkl b}/rky mjl josjr} mhkk}i hks rky ui}~kla qk bq, ^ik~oi mjl jllkrrky/ eyq bq#} y~ qk rky shiqhiu qk uijmq ku lkq,
Eyq/ j} qhi zykqi jekpi }jr}/ `uiiakg qjdi} mkyujci, @uiiakg qkmhkk}i uizybui} qhi mkyujci qk qjdi ui}~kl}bebobqr `ku rkyu ob`i, Rky
}hkyoal#q eojgi }kgikli io}i shil }kgiqhblc cki} suklc, Qjdi qhiui}~kl}bebobqr jla rky hjpi qhi ~ksiu qk mhkk}i,
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EYBOA UIOJQBKL]HB^]
Ob`i#} quyi}q hj~~bli}} b} `kyla bl `ubila}hb~} si gjdi joklc qhi sjr,
'Yldlksl
Uiojqbkl}hb~} b} shiui si mjl ciq quyi hj~~bli}} bl ob`i, Qhi uij}kl
b} }bg~oi6 klor qhukych uiojqbkl}hb~} si mjl okpi jla ei okpia, Gjdiuiojqbkl}hb~} rkyu qk~ ~ubkubqr jla rky jui kl rkyu sjr qk quyihj~~bli}},
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AIPIOK^ GYOQB^OI ^J]]BKL]
Qhi gkui ~j}}bkl} jla ai}bui} kli hj}/ qhi gkui sjr} kli hj} k` eiblc hj~~r,'Mhjuokqqi'Mjqhiubli
^j}}bkl} oija rky qk hj~~bli}}, ]k lkq klor }hkyoa rky ab}mkpiurkyu gyoqb~oi ~j}}bkl}/ rky }hkyoa jo}k ix~jla rkyu}io` qk lis
~j}}bkl}, Qhb} sjr rky sboo muijqi j lis sjr} qk hj~~bli}}, Qhi
dir qk ix~okui lis ~j}}bkl} b} myubk}bqr, B` rky jui myubky}/ rkysboo hjpi jl ilaoi}} }quijg k` ixmbqblc qhblc} sjbqblc `ku rky,
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EI RKYU]IO@
Qhi }yggbq k` hj~~bli}} b} uijmhia shil j ~iu}kl b} uijar qk ei shjq hi b},
'Ai}baiuby} Iuj}gy}
Rky mjl klor ei hj~~r b` rky eimkgi shk rky jui, Akl#q qur qk~oij}i ipiurekar er qurblc qk giiq qhibu ix~imqjqbkl}, ik~oi gjrix~imq rky qk hjpi miuqjbl fke ku miuqjbl sjr k` obpblc eyq akl#q ei
blqbgbajqia er qhig, @bla shk rky jui jla ei rkyu}io`,
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OBPI SBQH J ^YU^K]I
Qhi klor quyi hj~~bli}} mkgi} `ukg }zyjlaiublc kyu}iopi} `ku j ~yu~k}i,
'Sboobjg Mks~iu
Qk hjpi j `yo`booblc ob`i/ rky }hkyoa `bla rkyu ob`i ~yu~k}i jla`kooks bq `jbqh`yoor, @bla shjq gjqqiu} qk rky jla eyboa qhimkyujci qk `kooks bq, Hjpblc j kli'obliu sboo hio~ rkyblqiuljobvi jla mkggylbmjqi sbqh rkyu gb}}bkl,
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MKYLQ RKYU EOI]]BLC]
Hj~~bli}} sboo lipiu mkgi qk qhk}i shk jbo qk j~~uimbjqi shjq qhir jouijar hjpi,
'Yldlksl
Eiblc hj~~r b} ij}r b` si jui cujqi`yo, Yl`kuqyljqior/ }iiblc shjqsi akl#q hjpi b} k`qil ij}biu qhjl }iiblc shjq si hjpi, ]kgiqbgi}
si liia qk ix~iubilmi ok}} ei`kui j~~uimbjqblc shjq si hjpi, ]kakl#q qjdi qhblc} `ku cujlqia, Okkd jq shjq rky hjpi jla }kkl rkysboo hjpi ~oilqr k` uij}kl} qk ei hj~~r, Rky gjr }qjuq sbqh qhi}i}bg~oi qhblc},
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HJPI ^K]BQBPI GBLA
Bq b} lkq qhi ~ojmi/ lku qhi mklabqbkl/ eyq qhi gbla jokli qhjq mjl gjdi jlrkli hj~~r ku gb}iujeoi,
'Ukciu O#I}qujlci
Hj~~r ~ik~oi dlks hks qk mklquko qhibu gbla, Qhir akl#q oiq
licjqbpi qhkychq} mkgi bl, Shboi j }bqyjqbkl gjr }iig eja qkkqhiu}/ hj~~r ~ik~oi okkd jq qhig bl j ~k}bqbpi sjr, Qhir josjr}eiobipi qhjq lk gjqqiu hks eja j }bqyjqbkl }iig}/ qhiui b} josjr}}kgiqhblc ~k}bqbpi qk qjdi `ukg bq, Rkyu gbla mjl gjdi ku euijdrky/ }k cyjua bq sioo,
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8/3/2019 SECRETS OF HAPPY PEOPLE
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:>, SKUD MUIJQBPIOR
SKUD MUIJQBPIOR
Shil rky skud muijqbpior kl }kgiqhblc rky sboo `bla hj~~bli}},Qhiui b} j sioo'dlksl ~hilkgilkl uicjuablc qhb} mjooia `oks, Shilrky jui bl qhi }qjqi k` `oks/ rky jui `yoor `kmy}ia kl qhi qj}d jq hjlaqhjq rky lk oklciu uijobvi qhi ~j}}jci k` qbgi, Qhb} }qjqi k` `oksjooks} rky qk jmhbipi hbch ~ukaymqbpbqr jla eiblc hj~~r jq qhi}jgi qbgi, Ciq sbqh qhi @OKS,,,*
Hj~~bli}} obi} bl qhi fkr k` jmhbipigilq jla qhi qhuboo k` muijqbpi i``kuq,
'@ujldobl A, Ukk}ipioq
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8/3/2019 SECRETS OF HAPPY PEOPLE
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]QJUQ SBQH SHJQ RKY HJPI
Qhi `kkob}h gjl }iid} hj~~bli}} bl qhi ab}qjlmi/ qhi sb}i cuks} bq ylaiu hb} `iiq,'Fjgi}K~~ilhibg
Hj~~r ~ik~oi akl#q liia }kgiqhblc qk ei hj~~r, Qhir akl#q liiamiuqjbl fke ku miuqjbl oipio k` blmkgi, Bl}qija/ qhir oijul qk ei hj~~rsbqh shjq qhir jouijar hjpi, Qhir hjpi oijulia qhi juq k`
mklqilqgilq, Ei mklqilq sbqh shjq rky hjpi jla rky sboo ei hj~~r,
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8/3/2019 SECRETS OF HAPPY PEOPLE
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MHJLCI
Qhir gy}q k`qil mhjlci shk skyoa ei mkl}qjlq bl hj~~bli}} ku sb}akg,
'Mkl`ymby}
Eiblc hj~~r uizybui} rky qk mkl}qjlqor cuks, Bl `jmq/ qhi ~ukmi}} k`oijulblc bq}io` b} i}}ilqbjo `ku hj~~bli}}, Hjpi rky ipiu `ioq qhi
ixmbqigilq k` eiblc ilobchqilia jekyq }kgiqhblc; Hjpi rky ipiu@ioq qhi ixmbqigilq k` jmhbipblc j lis oipio bl ob`i; Qk~ :> Qhblc}Rky ]hkyoa Mhjlci blRkyu Ob`i cbpi} rky }kgi ~ujmqbmjo qb~} klmhjlcblc rkyu ob`i,
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Quyi hj~~bli}} blpkopi} qhi `yoo y}i k` kli#} ~ksiu jla qjoilq},
'Akycoj} jcio}
Qhiui jui qsk oi}}kl} qk qjdi `ukg qhb} zykqi, @bu}q/ rky }hkyoa `blarkyu qjoilq} jla }imkla/ rky }hkyoa y}i qhig qk qhi `yooi}q, Skudblcbl rkyu qjoilq} b} j }yui sjr qk ilfkr rkyu skud eimjy}i bq#}}kgiqhblc rky jui %hjuasbuia% qk ak, Y}blc rkyu qjoilq} `yoor sboogjdi rky ipil hj~~biu eimjy}i k` qhi }jqb}`jmqbkl k` akblc rkyu ei}q,
Y]I RKYU QJOILQ]
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EISJUI K@ ]GJOO QHBLC]
Qhi hj~~bli}} k` gk}q ~ik~oi si dlks b} lkq uyblia er cuijq mjqj}quk~hi}
ku `jqjo iuuku}/ eyq er qhi ui~iqbqbkl k` }oksor ai}quymqbpi obqqoi qhblc},
'Iuli}q Abgliq
Qhb} b} piur quyi, K`qil bq#} lkq ebc qhblc} qhjq uybl rkyu hj~~bli}},Bq#} qhi }gjoo qhblc} qhjq ak, ^iuhj~} rky akl#q obdi }kgikli kueuijd }kgi %}gjoo% ~ukgb}i}, Eyq ipil }gjoo oijd} mjl }bld rkyu}hb~ k` hj~~bli}}/ }k eisjui k` qhig,
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GJDI KQHIU] HJ^^R
Hj~~bli}} b} j ~iu`ygi rky mjllkq ~kyu kl kqhiu} sbqhkyq ciqqblc j is auk~} kl rkyu}io`,'Ujo~h Sjoak Igiu}kl
Qhb} b} gr `jpkubqi }imuiq k` hj~~bli}}, Qhi sjr qk eiblc hj~~r b} qkgjdi kqhiu} hj~~r `bu}q, Qhi gkui rky hio~ kqhiu ~ik~oi jla gjdi
qhig hj~~r/ qhi gkui rky sboo ei hj~~r, Hj~~bli}} aki}l#q mkgiqhukych }io`b}hli}} eyq qhukych }io`oi}}li}}, Rky uij~ shjq rky }ks,
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^UJMQBMI MKG^J]]BKL
B` rky sjlq kqhiu} qk ei hj~~r/ ~ujmqbmi mkg~j}}bkl, B` rky sjlq qk ei hj~~r/
~ujmqbmi mkg~j}}bkl,'Ajojb Ojgj
Mkg~j}}bkl b} ~iuhj~} qhi hbchi}q oipio k` }io`oi}}li}} si mkyoa hjpi,J} qhb} zykqi j~qor }jr}/ ~ujmqbmblc mkg~j}}bkl mjl gjdi ekqh kqhiu}jla rky jo}k hj~~r, Eyq k` mkyu}i/ bq uizybui} ~ujmqbmi, ]qjuq sbqhqhbldblc jekyq qhi ~ik~oi jukyla rky, Okkd jq qhibu liia} jla `blasjr} qk giiq qhig, Ipil b` rky akl#q ak bq kyq k` mkg~j}}bkl bl qhi
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Eyboablc rkyu mhjujmqiu b} i}}ilqbjo `ku hj~~bli}}, Shil rky jui quyiqk rkyu}io` jla kqhiu}/ rky sboo ei bl ~ijmi, Qhi sjr qk }qjuq eyboablcmhjujmqiu b} er gjdblc ~ukgb}i} jla dii~blc qhig, @ku ixjg~oi/ rkygjdi ~ukgb}i qk rkyu}io` qhjq rky skl#q }gkdi, Shil rky dii~ bq/rky jui eyboablc rkyu mhjujmqiu, Ku rky gjdi ~ukgb}i qk kqhiu} qk ei
~ylmqyjo, Shil rky dii~ bq/ rky eyboa rkyu mhjujmqiu,
EYBOA RKYU MHJUJMQIU
Mhjujmqiu b} qhi ej}b} k` hj~~bli}} jla hj~~bli}} qhi }jlmqbkl k` mhjujmqiu,
'Cikuci ]jlqjrjlj
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HJ^^BLI]] AI^ILA] Y^KL KYU]IOPI]
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