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Self-esteem Gets “KILLED” while kids are in school. • 80% of first graders have high self-esteem, • 20% of fifth graders and • 5% of high school students – (J. Canfield)

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Page 1: Self-esteem Gets “KILLED” while kids are in school. 80% of first graders have high self-esteem, 20% of fifth graders and 5% of high school students –(J

Self-esteem Gets “KILLED” while kids are in school.

• 80% of first graders have high self-esteem,

• 20% of fifth graders and

• 5% of high school students– (J. Canfield)

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Focus on the Four “P’s”• Public Relations

• Proficiency

• Power

• Philanthropy

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Power:

Use social autopsy sheets to help student see where situations went

wrong.

Public Relations:

What skills can you give this student to help them

relate better to others socially?

Proficiency:

What skills do they need to beef up academically?

Philanthropy:

Help this student do something for others. A way to raise self-esteem is to help others less

fortunate.

student with Low Self-Esteem

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Some students who get complimented….

Do an opposite behavior because what you said about them doesn’t match how they feel about themselves.

“I’m dumb. How could she think I’m smart? I’ll have to prove to her that I’m dumb because that’s how I feel about myself.”

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Public Relations• All students

need to feel that they belong.

• Be their public relations person by letting their appropriate behavior earn the class a reward.

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Privately tell them:

• I know you are good at technology so I’d like you to run the SmartBoard® for me today while I work with the class.

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Secretary

• Ask this student to be your secretary at the board- no chance of failure because you are telling them what to write.

• This way they look good in front of the class

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Call on them for class reward:

• Act like it’s random- but call on the child to give the answer to five problems that you’ll do for the class instead of them having to do it for homework.

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Proficiency• Many behavioral

issues occur because the student feels inadequate academically.

• Pre-teach part of the lesson in a study session, an online learning lab, or resource room.

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Assessments

• Look at previous assessments and determine what areas the student is lacking skill- “Do whatever it takes to get that student caught up.”

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Consider Learning Disabilities

• We don’t know what we don’t know- think about it.– A student may not know that everyone else

sees the letters right side up or without a halo around it.

– Help them figure out what works specific to themselves.

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Power• Give the child the

power to control their destiny by giving them independence.

• Using options, teaching them to think “How’s this next decision going to affect me?”

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Deep Breathing

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Karate

I know it sounds counterintuitive to teach a student karate- but it’s all about “control” and “respect”- find a good instructor.

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Social Autopsies

See www.behaviordoctor.org – forms and tools- social autopsy sheet

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Philanthropy

• You will be surprised that these students are generally great working with younger students or students with disabilities. – Their behavior is

typically more appropriate with younger and less able students.

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World Philanthropy

See http://www.uboost.com/integrations/pbis

At UBoosts' free web link, you can have students: plant 10 food producing seeds, protect 10 square feet of the Amazon Rain Forest, provide a day's worth a food for a villager in Uganda, help protect the Coral Triangle, offset your carbon footprint by 10 pounds, buy treats for dogs in shelters, provide fresh drinking water, or help villagers in Haiti.

Click picture to go to website

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Local Philanthropy

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School Philanthropy

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Once you put the Four P’s in Place

Your student will

PROSPER

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4 P’s Data

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Pre-K (by class)

Inappropriate behaviors measured

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1st Grade

Blythe’s Behavior Danner’s Behavior

Miss Tilapia Mrs. Salmon

Inappropriate behaviors measured

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2nd Grade (by student)

Dallas’ Behaviors Austin’s Behaviors

Mrs. Dallas Mrs. San Antonio

Inappropriate behaviors measured

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3rd Grade(by student)

Ty’s Behaviors Cobb’s Homework Return

2/20 26/26 12/24 6/8

10% 100% 50% 75%

Mrs. Diamond Mrs. Bases

Inappropriate behaviors measured

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4th Grade (by student)

Bliss’ Grades Faith’s Grades

Mrs. Happy Mrs. Gilmore

Grades measured

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4th Grade (by student)

Walt’s Behavior Whitman's Grades

Although his grades have not changed his reading behavior changed. He moved from being a reluctant reader to a reading machine according to teacher.

Mrs. Poetic Mrs. Leaves

Grades measured

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5th Grade (by student)

Denver’s Grades Falcon’s Behavior

Mr. Mountain Mr. Peak

Grades MeasuredInappropriate Behaviors Measured

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Findings

Although the data was varied (grades, behaviors increasing, or behaviors decreasing) all students reported positive results after implentation of the 4 P’s.

We would expect that as behaviors improved that grades would show improvement as well.

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Incidental gains with SPED class

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Number of desired behaviors pre and post intervention

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Student’s Average # of Undesirable Behaviors, pre & post Intervention

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Student’s # of Desired Behaviors, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Social Studies Grades, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Participation, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Number of Undesirable Behaviors, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Redirections, pre & post Intervention

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Student’s average # of responsible behaviors/hour, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Language Arts Grades, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Average # of Undesirable Behaviors/Day, pre & post intervention

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Student’s Average Grades, pre & post intervention

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Results- 5=A, 4=B, 3=C, 2=D, 1=F

4 4

3

5 5 5

2

3

2

5 5 5

0

1

2

3

4

5

6

Reading Math Spelling Writing Science Social Studies

First Quarter

Second Quarter

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Results

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Results