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Separofe^Divorcec/ Catholics Given Plm To Stive Soul » IWvorfB y«|es in America,
*»«a#ge & thousand cases *j day. Across the nation, the
• b r o k e n marriage problem threatens the stability of fanul.v lite.
In Increasing numbers, Catti •ottos- whether guilty or innocent are finding themselves separated or divorced. Regardless of Uieir marriage status, they still have to save their souls. In the June issue of the Iaguorian magazine, Redemptortst tather Dunaid F. SKIler proposes a program for them to toilow.
A divorced liathollc who can resume mwrW lite »tt» «** <«r her) partner ia bound ts d* ao, Father Muter states. Do-• fortunately, to admits, in roost cases ra»nciliatioH lis however, practically impossible.
"No nuttier who is to Maine for the separation or divorce, ii«stther partner Is permitted to remarry. ifiarrlage ft for ~Wt-
. . . until death.
God's law strictly forbids divorced or separated Catholic* to beep company a* if they were free to marry again.
Daily Communion, frequent eohfessloni daily prayer, spiritual reading, are part of the schfiduif if a person is to' survive the bleak and difficult life of living alone when nature crave* companionship.
Si Right Attitude Toward Themselves
TJiree dangers threaten divorced persons and endanger their mental and spiritual welfare.
The greatest dinger ia that of self-pity.
Self.plty following a marriage collapse can develop to the point vvheu a person is a burden to himself, a bore to his friend*, and in danger of rebellion and blasphemy against God.
Divorced pewits, whether innocent or guilty, have, we admit,; «*lfered-a -great iTtisfortune. But-" no matter how bad that tragedy
The Reds—What Now ?
Red China To Bid For U.S. Recognition
•}p~ «-!s- r|ter **3*-*^Wi^
Music soothes 80 year old Chancellor Konrad Adenauer of West Germany after strenuous day of rebuilding a nation from the smoking ruins at the >nzl Reich. The sovereign We&t German Republic, little more than m year old, owes Its world prestige to "Tier Alte - - that old man" ax critics term him. The Oesrman Chancellor is visiting;
friends In the United States and will leave June 15 for Italy. In Borne, Pope Plus Xn will receive Adenauer in private audience early In July. Both Pope and Chancellor are the" same age. Adenauer, a devout Catholic, has championed the Independence of western Germany against Communist drives from
the east
By LOUIS F. BUDENZ
is, a worse one would be to lose'. twr or for worse until death. Meantime as Father MtUer Wges the person worthy
wrMeTcTlLlic* who have ended When one is not free to marry, one's soul. Self-pity can easily S f ^ J t o K i C a r r i a g e must «««* company-keeping Is a lead to loss of soul, develop: 1) a right attitude and »™»™ J"* unnm^ry occasion p&mis xm ^^^ one m a r r J . conduct toward God; 2. a right of sin This holds for both "in- a g e * f £ e r a n o t n e r t?y,ng to f l n d
attftutle toward themselves, and nocent and guilty^ parties. a h a p p y o n & christians realize jjj a right attitude toward other
"guilty" parties. Innocent victims of divorce are t n a t 'neither marriage, nor cell
apt to justify sinful company- b»eyi n o r religious vow assures keeping- by the excuse. "I did my-eotHpierehappihesl. Heaven alone
.best to make my marriage a sue- w satisfy the human heart Un-cess. I should have a right to n i ,n B t Js realized, , person will, another chance at happiness In be a sorry and a helpless victim' marriage." 0f self-pity no matter what his;
They forget or ignore their condition. | It* is a mortal sin for • validly marriage vow that they took one
married Catholic *o *tart_divoree another "for better or for worse." | ' procaines wlttieui prmissisa Even though the innocent part-. A second danger Is idleness, of the bishop of the diocese. Any mt may be guiltless of the di-qlher sins which, contributed to VQrce, attempting a second marri-j Idleness means apt just sit. M a y 2 5 JJB the breakvup of the marriage m WQuld make them guilty of ting around doing nothing, it u r g e d the have to be cppfesKBed #)so. . .adultery, no matter what the ex- also means doing useless things. gradUates "to
For example, * woman who re- cuse. A divorced person who wastes llft t h e e y e g
FATHER JOSEPH SHEERIM BREIC
people. S* Might Attitude Inward Ood
Mas, Important of all, God waats the divorced person to return to the state of grace by a good confession.
No Room For Gloom
President Elsenhower ed the., commencement at Bayior University, Texas on la still there?
Are t h e y r e l i e v e d , indeed, happily
luted the rolTflfcfft scrWUluiy I ^ ^ lB w n y i t e a d y company-! Ul l lB l u ""veiae, at mpted milter^ men ^d out of selfish reason* would be kmias after separation or dl- Bathe, ings, or in a consouu w o r n e n above guilty ot-serious »ih even it«ie l v 0 I .^, t s a mortal sin. It is also roun> oS amusements is creating l n e ^^ a n d dtd »0t seek to-get « divorce tie- „ m o r u J filn t0T R B | n g l e peri i(m, temptations that wlU overpower d e s o , a t c n o r f cree- So «to a lw«*«n^ *^J^LJ9Jffimjpj^pj,riyjffiii^^^ — _ „ . = — . _ ^ n - . of—Ijat-
- ifcl ir'ririttplJOr^ ^ ^ I d l e n e s s can be avoided by Ttntl tor and ehad«»n through JWs own lauit,* Is «ruil^ for driving a womitnj t« dtvarct Wm.
I t ahouid be noted that the; inmm« Victim ef * divorce «ase pay be peifnttte« to receive the, lacrarnsnu provfc#«4 t $riestl
pivorced persona should build up aa especially fervent spiritual life to offset dangers and temptations that will Inevitably aasatl tliem.
concentrating on one's Job, de- h o p e l e s s -veloping a wholesome hobby, and ness." taking up some kind of spiritual T h e report-qr religious aetlvlty.
Reports and rumor* are now renewed in fche press to the effect that Red China will be recognized by the United States after t h e national elections. Tbe theory behind these speculations seems to be that the people are so set against this! ail movements for the progress move that they would reject" at'of mankind." the polls anyone who" would \ &„.,£&L «,.,*„.„ propose it before the balloting.! »Owrr RUSSIA represents
Only a few months ago, Presi- eveh more than ail this in the dent Eisenhower said in his re- • » * ot the official Chinese Comply to Foreign Minister Lester munist Party. "All these glorious Pearson of Canada, who is ap- achievements," the article con-parently one of the most per- Unues, "indicated to humanity sistent proponents of U.S. recog- tiie bright future of Socialism nition of the barbarous Mao Tse-,*110 Communism, seriously shak-tunt. regime, that our people in% t n e "de ot imperialism and were overwhelmingly against making the Soviet Union the any such move. " primary bulwark in the world
'struggle for lastlrrg peace." THE DISCUSSION, nevertne- The Chinese Communist pub-
less, has gone to such an extent; llcatkm can relate these "achieva-ln. the press that Bishop Ray- menu" for a "lasting peace" mond A. Lane of the Maryknoll with a straight face, even Fathers felt moved to write a th ugh they resulted In the at-letter to the New York Times tack on Finland, Korea and citing the ineligibility of Red Vietnam and the forcible taking China to the '"lited Nations, over of all countries now behind-since entry of Peiping Into tne the iron curtain. Tola agreement UJM. would accompany or im- with Soviet, propaganda is but mediately follow American recog- one exhibit of the blind obedl-
ii i' nition. His Jetter was also prompt- ence by the Red Chinese lead-I wonder whether other men; One after another, the little «d by the report that the United^era to the directive* of Afoseow.
feel' what I sometimes feel when ones, as they came along, enter- States would acquiesce by silence The same phenomenon is Wiled in to possess the kingdom in the entry of Red China into nessed in Red China's ready ae-prepared /or them. 'he United Nations, even before ceptance of the new Khrushchev
recognition. line, particularly the "anti-Stalin" "COME VWfO ME, ye blessed tfishop Lane dealt with the is- maneuver. On this point, the
. . " Is there a lather who has sue forthrlghtly and devastating- official People's Daily echoes not felt like borrowing those ly. Not only Is Red China an ag- precisely what the Sfivlet Sufc words from God and addressing gressor nation — as was wit- slan leadership has been saying, them to his sons and daughters? i nessed in Its attack on Korea j Is there one of us who never — it is guilty of the utmost bar- f
The Song of
All Fathers
they come home from work, Are t h e y
, vaguely aston-i Uhed to find
•~™™™" that the house deliver they left that address m o r n i n g
_ ..... _ _ «,_...„ , "After Lenin's *eata," wa has felt, in a silent and lonely,barities °o"uVrrUssionwfes who' re*d> "Stalin, as the chief lead
Breig
moment, a piercing realization of'have been laboring W that coun-.Jiow God shares His providence try. This debars it from any I
with us; how He leaves His chll1 place among decent nations. dren with us to be guarded and Despite such valid objections,
.protected because they are our discussion in regard to either! children too?
Father Sheexin
startled to discover that the family is all right?
This experience — Bhall we c n u a r e n t0°? the entry into the United Na-caTrtt^'Tanff~drmTy~re^ comes oftener to me as the years s a l a t o himself suddenly. "Now lent consent, or outright recog-move along. \ k n o w w«y the only right word nition, continues. Apparently, the
Day by day, 1 become more ta£_G°4 l s 'Father.' Now I know argument upon which such pro-nrefer- and m o r e k e e n l y * w a r e o I "'c hood." pimvi IratriHtv nf n l i t n n m nn t)j | s """ti
the
A third danger Is an exaggerated sense of guilt.
ers present might have „ . » - - { m f e x l s t e n c e QQ
red that he eoinmeiton Secre- ^ ^ uncertainty of tary VVUson s troubles in the ^
what is meant by His Father posals are based i s still that we
Pentagon. Yet the President's every possession.
er of the Party awl the State, creatively applied and developed Marstsm-Lenlalan." Mora-over, "in the struggle to defend th* legacy of Leninism against the enemies of Leala-l««,'-84«14fl prwe**lms*rr*ai^" — outstanding champion of Maw-Ism-Leninism."
That Is practically word far -word the way that Moscow puts the matter, awsuriag as as the People's Dally doss — that Stalin deserves tae "high prestige" which am received, "both wlthla aad •utaMa DM ieviet UakM."
"IRsPwIlwjp^ RMT- Then the Chinese Red organ proceeds to carry through tea "anti-Stalin" maneuver, exactly according to the prescription given by Moscow. Despite "his
can thereby wean Mao Tsfrtung A man thinks of these things from Moscow.
sometimes when he enters his, « — . . . . , .. house after an absence Mem i * * • f*BU»Uo **•"* at «*-
,t , . _., IK, , .. words were more than platJ- IT IS NOT the nuclear bomb ories that reach his heart' thr««o n**1** «**• *"• **«Wlit rsp-! , ! L ^ h"r d l y l T b l e , *?Jl; «»des. Developing a mood of u«t has done this to me; 1 was IntThte mmd. ^ «•«•»• «• •owfcawsj b e t t e r vorced persons not to feel that optijmsm ^ y be far more conscious of our mortality and ! * W » than by she CMaese they are falhares. The marriage ^ f c ^ y for U8 Americans than our utter dependency long be- HERE » ' THIS IMng room' Comea«iiUU UietSMsetves, la taw
Ithey promised and planned an! d e V e j o p , n g g u l d e d miaHies. tore the thing was invented. « o w many evenings have been1 M»y laws of Prtatoal Affairs, ^. i* . w ' to^^luw.** ~* *hAt* <QAtt, «omtrn1 sssomHv " , " C ™'Mr .h >J«|' l» t 0P l we> If optimism is necessary for Y o u m a v „ v D l e a g thl k filled with love and Joy, with official theoretical wrgan of the SOUtliem .SMt^Utiabll«*their Wth general assembly a n d n o w t h e y tefA jike outcasts mtkm^ se^Hty. its even more _J . ^ f f i odd^bur df vouTee f u n- »»"> IsmUy prayer, wiui' CoramaiUst Party ml the Unite*
h6M W * * ^ # ^ ^ ^ ^ 1 - M o t n e r ^ necessary for sane, and civilized ^ t o t i i t D u t S laughter, and vviO, that wa nTand SUtes, appears * transUUa. it says, "Stalin indulged
inordinate exaltation of his own role and put his individual
., , m,..Ut mrw^i. ^nsia. _ » authority above that of coUec-a little world mum**L 9tKmt. ^ i n * 1 ^ , i r ? itivejeaoership-whlch has been filled with such " " " I T are thus publish**, »u • « « ™ U P -
m e y t J i e t i . ^ f d ' • « >l'»tma previously divorced peace to/ "the MUL Once this is vlncT^mem "and" thousands of " ^ " g f ^ 5 " 1 * ' ' ! ^ £L Tv^" captured u f S ' ^ ^^^^ ^ ^ '"*""* Way he »*m'eutlfaiti vlth-Beabyterian blessing provided given, then God's mercy should other pessimists that there is °*tix™* ^ *™ <!£££ w r i " ^ word. P
S mm**** " iOhtotndls f Of t h e Christian mean- £ ^ 3 ^ £ £ « « ~ « « » * « ,e°as
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rld t 0 Z ^ S \ ^ n ^ S ^ « is a drama uncaptured bs> tertWetor^ .I'•,-,. ;.ted guilt c6mplex overcome. , j t - ^ J ^ ^ t j - J to^be up m ^ ^ ^ cause i, ,s uncapturabl. It Is
I suspect that most .fathers t o ° dramatic for drama, too
mm*** mmg^mtijmm **** \ UP to localmin-'Church. * Ih^gTthe breakdown In public ^ " ^ 1 ^ 1 . taan taS sP^"did" companionship of nus < » im^rUnt darectlv. arts- «rrect appllcaUon of th. Lenin-ilt«flf» to 44tsrtaitte '%t \*%!Wte Qf each member for a I ' All human beings should have morals, the vice and crime head- _bl
•4ew-»arriss*i* ^- -'--^-' - -••'••• ' ••'• • • ^-. '•— jJtaaafe-sense. of gtHlt he*?ausc-^di^ncs-to~4fo^aflyr-papcT^ • - -W»tT 'i^A^ia' A*"Uw*imm *4;iir«T finfiual assembly an- a r e tijaif^»- B u t Q18* '» why. due In a large degree to those .J! ,* ^ ^ J ^ S P ' f f • * W B F - w J i * t 1 » ? , ^ M „ n ^ . t mnV Chr181 instituted the sacrament pathological cha r s o l e r s who ^VeU' m? 'xtvasaLT arZ m y
pw»r*4 wi%^f«B*JCOr^ Wm MaA injunction that mar-!of n c e M a J n e i M Qi . ^ X s t r e e l 8 f e e I l B g tiuii Me wife, my cfdldren and my home; Sage I* ittdii»0l«i)l«.#3tCipt fry JjMk.™- ing forgiveness and assuring is empty. fuUle. How can we con- "J"1 1 ^ u ^ ^ f r o m
*m ii—t J ^ . I 4 . J - iu-*- «.,.kr,r,« 'nwuimialv rfium-ooH n.,«< in • tho *«,,! nnnm «hi< tc .., .1 „„J .K«..r„«^» «.» attemptmg tne Impossible task
vaulL and settlne armed b a n a a n d wite t h a t follows the cle by the Red China Govern- ,_ f ^ ^ i S r r - 2 « r ^ n p i n m , «yes of Ihe young- menr. NMeaOdai. J ^ a ^
. mynreasures are my \ * « * ^m2£*Z22CSZ'** This house is tnusust ergans •otslde kato
beea ordered by she Communist international apparatus. Therefore, this ts more an ordinary statesstent It's not easy. It used to be
'm£lSS*jr J t o r f t * £|» .ma^as^divorce .daeUkmiti Wgh* Attitude Toward other. » f ^ ££&$*%£. ^ , t t > 1 ! P | ^ i ^ W f l t t e « thes f o r c e d persons should see in and serious men -<« teH you w.^ have r a t h e ^
The carefully worked out arti-
, "THE COLT OF personality" is therefore assailed in the samt manner as the Kremlin makes use of it, the Red Chinese paper
'excusln; its development in Stalin's case as "a fores of habit
"JM^: -^^ '«P«^ ' . l j l ' ^«^ :*^ I &# e Church. poetic for poetry. Home life is a cle by the Chinese Communists °\ mUllflmB a n d ten» « ' millions"
..... . .. , ftteireofjdltjoa Ah opportunity to that no rational person can .,u» - •- ----- h
'^^^QlIei '^'IM'attOtt' mk lumtterinif With the al.iintiikj.rtBara.tioi» for past weak- estly be optimistic. Reinhold «way_ from something priceless ^ _ , . e „ ^ •tytfig'**#'^lir^^ltif^^l' S l t ^ i t i V ' " ^ ^ ^ ! ^ fright, jttejis a«d any scandal they have Nlebuhr reminds
the ttMmi? mvlim W M$t JWk** ttie»E -*«>» can. a con-
riuie4 o*w ii^.-#(ilii^^<^^laii^»^ «*» ^ d ^ t° . • \- W*t *o<ik 'ii|' ^r'^toi* >i(rtM;'- a^ -aiiriat's own i t l i ^^^^^a*^ha^ let W mm m wun4«*. Anul «ay'fe>cM, tha tmt f i t e puts away ht»' „„-„„, mnn <«m™,H.«-i«'«i«»™ «•«• ucuu
Kit* and: inam*a*-anoth*r. cWmit« adultly; and he * ^ W b ^ r t t e ^ T ^ l t a 1 ^ ot *» 80ul
jnattk* a womaa. ^h« ha. ixan. put away commits adult- ^ffjXaSS^ZF&l \ « j r " * ' . . - « • - . . . . *
St. Jlatthew xecordg the** ^ofd* i n t h e 19th chapter of )u*" togpel, ^ ^
Christians who claim th* Bibk ! i their lute of faith
us tnat we seems a lottg while. ling devotion to Moscow: " W i t h ' ^ A *"» Stf"n'* ateem, aU
Only He and we have heard the victory of the Great October g * ^M^^fnm!h
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Mi m VflUiJg to eater to I0**11 «•»»««» ' J S $ ff world todsSTSSaT^*?11'. to as I I 8d^ d!es' and ,hriUed ,0 ** ftston^- under toe '"dership of u t u ^ ! ^ ^ h ^ ^ l f ^ 2 ( ^ l t i , ^bif' good t-x.rm.h, should be eager jWMm ^ V e devastated a j surviv^.numberless perils. ; D o o t h e r f a t h e r e s o m e t I m e s on one-sixth of the earth." S f ! . ^ ,, . . , _ _ M , .toKfshow fo others the power part of <hv outer world and total , x f e e l m* * iml!^ refurnlng feel ail this? I think they do - But, this article contends, th* Enough has been said to •f Cod's grace. 'anhihilaUon is jiist- around the ftom t h e w a r s ! u k e a n *f«e even though they don't talk Soviet Union did more than that, demonstrate that Red China Is
r™ *„ wr* «*««w»„o- M m i ) e corner. Others say that Freud emerging from exile? like• t about i t ,» "encouraged and supported njerely a vassal of Soviet RUJT God in His *mviden«. «.ro,itfi ^ t h e R e w psJfcllology haV<g• prisoner freed from prison; llke (_ 'the construction fflf ,u other f^^h.
Socialist countries," Includlns;; . , . COURIErWOURNAL Red China, and "inspired the u u , • » ' v e
some people to have stronger,%£„£& and debunked'"ouV Inner * wanderer ending his wander. • Ings.
_ . _ ' Sometimes grap>
people, remembering duty to speak out
THE CHURCH has to my heart almost lempicu anu aiaeouragea can oe* tax. Knuat>n no» iu *",«'i 1umns with atirnrlse and rellnf helped by the good example ofple with this notion that on ly |gg" T ^ ^ " ^ m* w m
a harder task a moron can be happy and op* £"_-"/ ™ and^SsIubffl themselves There is no timistic today/Fraacols Maurlae'lfff J : i U
t h ^ * ^ , " n t r o u W c d
doubt that * dhorced Catholic writes in'T3ic Stumbling Block", " • £ * ? t n a t m,°" ,;n*: - . . . i Here is our street, here our
those who ha\e than
Friday, June 15,1956 w o r l d Socialist moverrienU, thei»ow against recognition of this anti-colonialist movement and]regime.
L^, ^4,?-!, nu»;~*. i,i,,;«» - t i - j . 4 « t t - ^ H such a person remains faith- for iem which Ghri^ bluntty o l a d adult**. " IS^ffTZ^vTZ Z^&TS&Z ^^'SSSS^S^uSS. - As Catholic*, our own. reetc^on I* to be grateful that of untold value to others ' ""
our Church ha**~constit*ntly Remained the outstanding champion of the mafHajte bom, Jt i l also a challenge to Catholic jnarried coupka to ^tfertfthen their .iesolves to
Erove to a compromising: world thtt i t i s possible and a joy i *tay loyal io~ l i te mwriaft vpw ^until death do us pait."
'No Confllcf In Russia jatekQpoUtan Nikolai ojE Krulitsky and JKoiomaa, num-
Di\orce<l persons should defend the sacred bond of marriage by refusing Invitations er
the 'Catholic Church face to;«d.th« t r e e s bending in guard face," 1- don't think the world f wnship over i t is quite as atrocious as MEaurlac Here is ou- house, here my would have Sis believe, but we wife, here our children. do have the task of bringing
Making Mairkiqe Click
Are You Really In Love? By SISGR. DIVING A. DC BLANC
(Director, Family Ufa lureau, K. C, W. C.) There are many kinds of love. The "love" a baby haa
actually seeking a. substitute father. She wants to be dependent, to be provided for, to be petted and praised, but not to be given
woi ia iy^tSnta? and Srtholte H 0 W CA*f A N y ^ ^ « w for the one who feeds it. Then there is the "hero-worship mtxch »W«»«buiiy.
Manydtvorces«s« l t f rom^ty 'oSKtr 0 Su^e h X,d^^^^^ S » J ^ ^ J ^ S T ^ ^ i ^ S l . T ^ ^ ~ thiae with the Innocent victim them. . has paid a price so great? of a broken marriage and urge' One of the difficulties i s that Through what endless hours such a person to keep company some Catholics wear a face as he labored aticr economized in or-
^,-r-r.. ^ ~ . „„ ^ , . _ - , with a view to a possible "sec- long as any pessimist. S. was «<* that he and his might have ber two prelate o f the tJommtiiiiit doftitaated Russian OJV ond" marri»gef Divorced Catho- happy to hear Bishop Dwyer of « roof of their own over their thodox Church* c u r r e n t on tour through America Mit)u«cs must reply firmlj and con- Reno, at the Cathohe Press Con-jh.^Mi sivett. other Russian clerevmen haa stated. "The Com- atantly that God intends marriage Petition in May at Dallas, urging! To thisiront door, one day, he
'trouttd of conflict betweatt W*** !
Kew York'* Orthodox Attfhfclshop Vitaly ha* charged that JE&kdla! actually reprwehts ''a amall group of people actively colaboratSnf $ittt tha fodleaa commpisjt govern.
v meat in. Kussia.*' Mm ^werlcan Orthodox groupn Telpudi - 'ate th* Moscow leadership ***Sn(!e that would amount t«
„" beinjc under the influence and direction of a godless state,'! thei&tew York prnfobt said. v *
tt1$i9t Niitdlal called; Pope ?iu* "anti-aiiistja^' and ait ^arent^f AtrMttic*, inlJ)erlavli nl,<, v
When asked by American repoirtera about lua blast * sgainat the Pope* Kifcolai aaidV *'l prefer now not to remem , bertmpkaaant«^»»if," , . r . • 1 The Soviet, metwpotitan. wea,w a medal awarded him , M St*htt wHm h* called atitttat time "out* deauy beloved
lender/ Nikolai was a personal friend of BfoOin ana a i». g^pssgt7riaay--lsjt> thm^xmnWi " -, 3>«»Pji# «e»Wfe Bed taitfeitBft «« the dead dictator fa
j e t officia£propa#ahaa remains Materialistic «nd atheJs%
arch, iis etpectad t o foe replaced by Nikolai who «^„—J* of c<aTjpnesaiier^
•^^to ^-P^JML^W* *••» d*^ v M t to ttjitt United wM$i&i*Jp2!fH f f e * u ^ W cosnrnUDiat effort to lull Am^
DhOrced persons |hould use their own unhappy experience sat an "example to advise and help others.
Catholic editors to use [humor |n, their writings. W'a.caM. fhrough this entrance they 'stand a little more sunshine tofsteppecl, hand jn hand* to e | our Press when the world is f**mffit their Jfttle principality dark outside. ? and to make plans for itsTwel-
rKSSIMlSM MA f he irBpefcar fare and its imptovement hly fashionable in some literary1
fchcles, but * Catiiolld Writer Is Wisdom i* sometimes mostiv*astmg hi* time in trying io emphatically-gained tiuough bit-1 keep, qp with the iad No ntftV tei* mistakes, e%eri sins Dlvorcedfter how heasyfooted and iuhe-peradiui should use their hard re»l his style, he can n^cr realty earned WlsdQm to Wain otheu'become a qualified crapehanger. against the same mistakes. |His hopefulness will bleak out,
Many divorce resultfrom hasty ** t h * m o s t emharressing- mo-a n d ill considered marriages. •"l*nt»- , , _, M , . . t Young people in danger of mak-h,1 * ? • «»»taded oZ an iaadent ing thev same mistake can be 4 l f happened in the ComieqU-shown the Atfly of their steps by c W ,A*sembly in 1780 S i W
orrtaai KswarAe« or tst BOCSSSTRH HIOCJMK
Vol, 67 Jr?o, 35, JW, June 15,19S6
divorce U adultery "WW "make eveiy eff^t to live the remaining portion of! life according to God"* commandments, Their attitude and action* Can. mean #he difference between heaven, or hell, eternal happlnw or everlasting n«s quired the Jtefff of 'his
M&We&bPsu
sufferlnf.
the woidsjji one who can sneak from *xperience7"""
Those who -accept Christ's clear statement that jmy attempt _ *t n?*fri»«e *««* aeparation orljoohtretes: ^ThVd^""^ *jndg"
members, fearhig the world was coming to an*end hecause of the ahsnge darkness over titer sun> pioposed adjournment Colonel. Abiaham Davepport said to hts
is net. If it is hot* there 4 s ho - * - - * r
die,* may-be Drought," His calm-
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Then there is which is,.mutually complemen tary and involves a sacred contract with God. Finally, there is "sociallove" In which we love others as much as ourselves and we become commuhuy-minded.
That reminds me of the story of threefold men? who were discussing the ideal way to die. One, Mr years oW, volunteered that the_best way to die WIM to eat barbecued chicken tilt Jie just smothered to death. The one who was 93 years old challenged that- the best way to die was to fly a Jet at ififtt miles an hour and just be exhilarated to death. Then, finally, the chap ot §6 springs spoke with a twinkle in his eye. HUf hands were'moving With excitement^ the two or three hairs eat his baW heat,
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one lonely tooth appeared as he smiled triumphantly sad said with a weak, tracked voice, '"The Ideal way to die ia to be Idllefsy a Jealous husband!" He was sttH in the re-
In today7! column and In this , season" *£ love, I a m going t o
pie's knees g«tfd;{|£ass:: JBiow 8d youloiowysu're weik Stto; theyJn fayiif . go throug:h aj( ^ S « ^ l*dlj IWVatyou respect s w o o n i n g the one yov love — she Is not period of life, just a thrilling companion but a
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Seal love does not bund and eassle. It keeps both eyes open. Be does not completely lose his head aad can't eat, can't sleep — much less think. He doesn't sigh to her, "Honey, I never knew love was like this." Love isn't like this. He'll discover the difference within a few months. You lore as she wants to be loved, not as you
No true lover says, "If you meet the man who is destined for you, you know It- You don't have to look it up in the dictionary. Your heart tells you." Tht truth Is if you were born in an-
E?eJE^Jr-S£Ks>0^,?^;9«** yo» * n * ««• best talents snd efforts all the rest of your life. There will be-no cheating on the commandments You are so in love you are afraid to lose each other by disrespect.
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found Just as perfect a match as the man you intend to marry. We don't find true lovers, we make them. A true lover does hot. submerge his own personality, but broadens and increases it* "
yolves a good deal more than at Real love overflows with ad-Ahumping heart arid incre«sed]:mlrstioh. *le cannot wait to In-difficulty in breathing. It mustftrbfiuce the one he loves .to hts contain elements of pcmaneftc*fc
parenfs and- to his ixjends. He 1 y?" couldn't live forever ottfiikesr-to ten people of all her «ie thrills; of an adolescent In talents, tte, -of course, sees faults, her ftrst "love affair.' The at-teut knows that her virtues.are tempt to do so would kill you. f five V one. He knows he will
Real love ts adult - not lit meet many .equally loveable tl>e sense of being old enough>#$* fa the future, Sutihe Santo vote, but in the sense of bev-pot marr*' *vewra6Vea«le^giri in tng grown up emotionally. A l f i i J ^ a . I r ^ m a k e * ^ A h e r *
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