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Team WorksA Teacher’s Guide to Student Collaboration
• Teacher-driven classroom activities to develop collaboration skills (includes student handouts)
• Audience: Ages 7 -14
• Aligns with the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning standards
May 2007
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Introduction
How to Use this Guide ................................................................................................................................................................................................................. 1
Theme 1: Turning Conict into Creativity
Activity 1: The Colors o Conict ............................................................................................................................................................................................... 5
Activity 2: Conict in Style ............................ ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ..................... 7
Activity 3: The Temperature o Conict ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ............................. 11
Activity 4: Conict – Up the Escalator .......................... .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ............................. 13
Activity 5: Conict – Down the Escalator .......................... .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ............................. 16
Activity 6: Everyone Wins! ............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 18
Activity 7: Working It Out .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 21
Activity 8: Getting Help .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ........................ 24
Theme 2: Communicating Clearly and Creatively
Activity 9: Listen Up! .......................... .............................. ............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ......... 27
Activity 10: Stand Up and be Heard! ............................ .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ............................. 30
Theme 3: The Diversity Advantage
Activity 11: See What I See ................................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 33
Activity 12: Being Dierent ........................... ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 36
Activity 13: Dierent is Good .................................................................................................................................................................................................. 39
Theme 4: Connecting Across Cultures
Activity 14: Common Ground ............................ ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................. 40
Activity 15: Alike and Dierent .......................... ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................. 42
Activity 16: “Pre-Judging” – Prejudice ........................... .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. .. 44
Activity 17: Dismissing Discrimination ......................... .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. .. 46
Theme 5: How to Get the Best Out o a Team
Activity 18: Working Together ........................... ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 48
Activity 19: Give and Take.......................... ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ............................. 50
Activity 20: “Roles” o the Road .............................. ............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ......... 52
Activity 21: Deciding Together .............................. ............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ......... 56
Activity 22: Guiding Geese ........................... ............................. .............................. ............................. .............................. ............................. ................... 59
IndexTeam Works Guide
Activities to promote healthy, creative and productive collaborations
in your project-learning teams
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Working together on teams has always been a challenge,
at any age.
With more and more o the world’s work being
done by team members scattered all over the globe,communicating and collaborating mostly online and
over the phone, the challenges multiply. Add to this thenew demands or project teams to produce creative and
innovative work that generates new knowledge or solvesold problems in brand new ways, and you can begin to
see how important it is to start learning the undamentalso healthy and productive collaboration early on inschool and to continually build these skills throughout a
student’s lietime o learning.
The ollowing classroom activities are intended toprovide a solid oundation in how to work well togetherin teams and to turn the dierences and conicts that
naturally arise in teamwork into creative and constructive,collaborative results.
Though these activities are intended or the early
elementary grades, they can be adapted or older
students who need to review the undamentals o positiveteamwork.
Further team “rst aid” and “team doctor” coaching and
support, built on these lessons, can be ound in the OracleEducation Foundation’s Think.com and ThinkQuest online
programs:
www.think.com
www.thinkquest.org
The Oracle Education Foundation thanks the highlycreative and collaborative team rom Educators or
Social Responsibility or providing these activities andthe support services that complement them. They have
been an inspirational model o teamwork, and theiraccomplishments suggest that creative collaboration
may be the 21st Century skill that will bring our diverseglobal population o students together in peaceul andproductive ways to help create a better society or us all.
Creative Collaboration Activity Format
Materials – Each Creative Collaboration Activity beginswith the preparation and materials required to acilitate
the activity with students. Towards the end o theactivities marked with this icon ( ) you will nd print-
ready complementary handouts.
Workshop Agenda – The structure o each activity isdesigned to build community in the classroom and, once
students are amiliar with it, helps them be engaged withthe content in a personal and eective way. This ormatencourages a acilitative style o teaching and creates a
sense o community structure or ritual whose positiveeects extend beyond the scope o the activity.
The workshop structure includes:
Gathering – An experiential activity or sharingthat relates to the main purpose o the creative
collaboration activity and helps children ocus onthe learning to come. Gatherings are intended to
be positive, community-building experiences.
Agenda Check – A brie review o what willhappen during the lesson that lets children know
what to expect. The Workshop Agenda can bewritten on the board or on chart paper, i you
choose to do so.Main Activities – The heart o the whole-class
or group activities that provide structuredsituations ocusing on the subject o the CreativeCollaboration Activity.
Debrieng – A recap that allows students toreview and internalize what has occurred. This
can simply be asking questions such as “How didit eel to…?”, “What was one thing you learned
today about…?”, “Why is it important to…?” Thisexercise may include a writing exercise or a small-group sharing and reporting out.
Closing – An exercise to provide closure to theActivity.
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Denition o Strategies
Group Sharing in Gatherings and Closings
Gatherings and Closings are activities that set the stageor and bring closure to the lesson. Oten, they require
individual responses to a sentence completion or aspecic question. Two common structures or these
activities are go-rounds and popcorn sharing. In a go-round, each student has the opportunity to respond in the
order in which students are sitting (e.g. circle, horseshoe,etc.). In popcorn sharing, a ew students are called on torespond in no particular order. This approach takes less
time, but does not allow all students to respond. Withboth styles o sharing, students should always have the
option to pass.
Back-to-Back Sharing
This strategy allows students to talk with each otherin pairs ater considering their personal responses toa question. Group students in pairs and ask them to
stand back-to-back with their partners. Pose a questionor situation and ask them to think or a moment about
their response. Then, invite them to turn and ace theirpartners and share their responses. When both have hadthe opportunity to share, they return to the back-to-back
stance.
Back-to-Back Role-Plays
This ormat is a way to have everyone role-playing at
the same time, which takes away much o the anxietystudents may have about perorming. There are two
things that you might consider beore role-playingactivities. I students have not yet done role-playing
activities, model a role-play either with another adultor with a student. This tends to prevent the role-playing
rom getting silly and shows students that role-plays havea plot. Another helpul recommendation is to establishground rules. Many teachers provide two: no touching
and no bad language. You might also want to mentionthat participants do not have to play themselves or
someone resembling themselves in these role-plays.
Ater you have established a oundation or role-playing, group students in pairs and ask each pairto stand back-to-back. Designate one person to
be “A” and the other “B.”Explain to students that ater each scenario is
described you will say: Lights, Camera, Action,and partners are to ace each other and enact the
role-play. When time is up or each role-play, youwill say: Cut! Stand back-to-back, and read the
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next scenario. The role-plays are usually short induration, thirty seconds to two minutes.Always process the role-playing, both to discuss
the topic that the students are exploring, andalso to provide time or discussion about what
went well with the activity and what could beimproved the next time.
Concentric Circles
This strategy provides a structure or students to talk tomany dierent partners. Hal the class stands in a circle
acing out, and the other hal stands in an outer circleacing a partner in the inner circle.
Pose a question and allow students a minute ortwo to discuss it with their partners.
Then have the outer circle move a particularnumber o people in one direction. (For example,
say to students, “Outer circle move two people toyour right.”)
Pose the next question and have students discussit with their new partners.
Then have the inner circle move two people
to its let and so on. In this way, students talk with many partners and hear many dierent
perspectives.
Correlation to Standards
Each Creative Collaboration Activity has been correlatedto the Mid-Continent Research or Education and Learning
(McREL) standards, the Collaborative or Academic, Social,
and Emotional Learning’s Social and Emotional LearningCompetencies (CASEL SEL Competencies), and Educatorsor Social Responsibility (ESR) Themes.
McREL Standards
The Mid-Continent Research or Education and Learningis a nationally recognized organization o educators
and researchers who provide eld-tested, researchbased approaches to educational challenges. Althougha national list o standards does not exist, the McREL
compendium o standards and benchmarks providesnationally recognized standards in most content areas,
including Behavioral Studies, Health, and Lie Skills. Formore inormation, go to www.mcrel.org.
CASEL SEL Competencies
The Collaborative or Academic, Social, and EmotionalLearning is an organization whose mission is to enhance
children’s success in school and lie by promotingcoordinated, evidence-based social, emotional, and
academic learning as an essential part o educationrom preschool through high school. Housed at the
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Cultural Competence and Social Responsibility
Students need opportunities to explore individual and
cultural diversity in ways that preserve the integrityo each person, and that encourage them to be
more accepting o one another’s strengths, needs,and idiosyncrasies. By understanding and accepting
dierences, students learn to work together more
eectively in the classroom and develop a sense o responsibility to one another; they learn how to make a
positive dierence.
Conict Management and Decision Making
Activities are helpul when they introduce students to avariety o cooperative and collaborative problem-solvingtechniques that help them to develop a “toolbox” o
strategies and skills or resolving conicts positively,constructively, and nonviolently.
This “toolbox” includes understanding the concepts o escalating and de escalating conict, group problem
solving, and working out win-win solutions.
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Creative Collaboration Activity 1:
The Colors o Conict
What is conict? How does our perception o conict
aect our ability to work together?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or on
chart paper Chart paper or board
MarkersMaterials or getting students into pairs orgroups, such as playing cards, puzzle pieces,matching postcards, etc.
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: I Conict Were a Color
Agenda Check Activity: Conict WebActivity: Sharing Stories
DebriengClosing: Popcorn Sharing – Managing Conict
Gathering: I Conict Were a Color
Lay out an array o colored paper on a table. Explain that
today’s lesson concerns conict, or when there is a sharpdisagreement between people. First, ask students to think
o a time when they did not agree with someone. How didthat make them eel? Then, ask students to choose a color
o paper that represents the eeling they had. Studentswill have an opportunity to describe the situation in whichthe conict occurred later, so or now they should just
associate the eeling with a color. Be sure to have lots o red, as it is oten the color most chosen. With a partner,
students will have a minute or two to share why theychose the color they did. Then ask or various responses.
Agenda Check
Say: Many o us chose dierent colors to represent conictbecause that word makes us think o many eelings. Today
we are going to explore a little more about what the wordconict means. As you can see rom the Agenda, we will
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share some personal stories about a time when we were in
a conict. One o our goals is to expand our denition o conict beyond what we may already think it is. Then, wewill have a short period o Debrieng and a Closing, which
will give us a chance to share our thoughts about conictand how to deal with it in our lives.
Activity: Conict Web
1. Write the word conict on the board and draw a circle
around it.2. Ask: What words or phrases come to mind when you
hear this word? Record the responses as a web. Writethe contributions on lines extending rom the central
word. Words that are related to previous contributionscan be linked together.
3. Ask the ollowing:
What do you notice about the web? (Most wordswill probably be negative.)
Why do you think most words are negative? Circlethe negative remarks with one color o marker
and positive remarks with another color.Some o the words are violent words. Doesconict always have to be violent? Make the
point that conict is a natural and normal parto lie and that we all experience conicts at
home, work, and school, and that countries haveconicts with each other as well.
4. Help students come to a denition or conict, such as“a disagreement between two or more people.”
5. Say: We have seen how many o our initial thoughts
about conict revolve around negative, sometimesdestructive, ideas. In groups, I would like you to comeup with at least two ways that you think conict might
turn out okay; it might even be positive.
6. Distribute materials to get students into pairs or
groups o three.
7. Ater a ew minutes, call on each group to addsomething to the web. Write these in the positive color
marker that you used previously. Students sometimeshave diculty in thinking about the possible positive
outcomes or conicts. Acknowledge that this mightbe so and encourage them to think about a time whenthey had a disagreement that ended in a positive way.
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Theme
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Activity: Sharing Stories
Ask students to share a time when they had a conict
with another person or persons. Remind them not to usepeople’s names. Say: Please tell your partner details about
where the conict happened, the relationships o thoseinvolved, what happened, how it ended, and how they elt
about it in the end. Write the list o details on the board to
remind students what they should include when tellingtheir conict story.
Debrieng
n What are some o the outcomes o the conictsyou described?
n Does conict always end in a bad way?
Remind students that conict can end in dierent ways.
Sometimes one person can eel bad and the other eelgood. Sometimes both people can eel bad. Sometimes
both people can eel good. Everyone has conicts; they
are part o lie. We cannot make conict go away, but wecan learn the skills to manage a conict.
Closing: Popcorn Sharing – Managing Conict
Ask students to nish the sentence: “One thing that works
or me to handle conict is to…” Provide some examples,i necessary, such as “talk things out” or “walk away when
someone is mean to me.”
Connections to McRel Standards:
n Behavioral Studieso Knows the dierence between
positive and negative behaviors
used in conict situationsn Language Arts - Writing
o Pre Writing: Brainstorms ideas,uses webs and groups relatedideas
CASEL SEL Competencies:
n SA Sel-Awarenessn SO Social Awarenessn RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
n Conict Management and DecisionMaking
This lesson was adapted with permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively
Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergarten through Six by Peggy
Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick © Educators or Social
Responsibility, Metropolitan Area and The Board o Education o the city o New
York, 1996
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3. Ask or student volunteers to perorm the Styles Skits(Note: give the skits to them beorehand so theymay practice beore the lesson). Ater each one, ask
students to identiy the style being portrayed. Whenstudents have nished the skits, discuss the ollowing:
Do people talk and listen dierently depending
on the style they are using?How can choosing to use a style lead to dierentresults?
Ask students to brainstorm some o theadvantages and disadvantages o each style.
Activity: Exploring Our Own Repertoire o Styles
In groups o three, give each student two minutes to
discuss the ollowing questions:
1. What conict style do you think you use most oten?
How well does it work or you? Are there any you
seem to get “stuck” in and use even when it is notproductive?
2. Are there any responses you think you never use? Whydo you think this is? Which ones would you like to try
to use now that you know more about styles?
Debrieng
Which o the styles are ones that you had not
thought much about beore?I you really want to have a productive
collaboration, what are the key points that will
help you get there?
Point out that it is sometimes dicult to use a new stylenew idea. Emphasize that the class will be helping to
support its members in trying new ways o learning towork well together.
Closing: Popcorn Sharing – Using New Styles
Ask students to ll in the blanks o this sentence:
“One new style I might try with ______ is ______ because______.”
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Behavioral Studies
o Knows the dierence betweenpositive and negative behaviors
used in conict situations
o Understands how one responds tothe behaviors o others andhow one’s behavior may provokeresponses in others
Language Arts - Writingo Pre Writing: Brainstorms ideas, uses
webs and groups related ideasWorking with Others
o Identies an explicit strategy to dealwith conict
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-AwarenessSO Social Awareness
SM Sel ManagementRS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and DecisionMaking
This lesson was adapted with permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively
Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergar ten through Six by Peggy
Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick © Educators or Social
Responsibility, Metropolitan Area and The Board o Education o the city o New
York, 1996
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Healtho Knows how mood changes and
strong eelings aect thoughtsand behaviors and how thoughtsand behaviors can be managed
successullyo Understands the ways in which
one’s behavior may provokeresponses in others
o Knows the dierence betweenpositive and negative behaviorsused in conict situations
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SM Sel-Management
RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and DecisionMaking
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The New Cap Script
Characters: Shandra and Terry, who are close riends.
Scene: Beore school starts, as everyone is coming into the building.
Shandra: What is that on your head? That’s the most pathetic cap I’ve ever seen!Terry: This is my new cap! You’re just jealous because yours is old and tired looking.
Shandra: Let’s see how it looks on me!
Shandra grabs the cap and puts it on her head. Terry tries to grab it back and it alls to the oor. Shandra steps on it to
keep Terry rom picking it up, leaving a big ootprint on it.
Terry: You jerk! You’re going to buy me a new cap!
Terry grabs Shandra’s jacket and it rips.
Shandra: And you’re going to buy me a new jacket!
Terry: Just wait ‘til ater school!
Shandra: (sarcastically) Oh, I’m so scared!
HANDOUTCreative Collaboration Activity 4: Conlict – Up the Escalator
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Creative Collaboration Activity :
Everyone Wins!
How can we work together to be sure our needs are met?Do we approach conict in a win-win ashion?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paper
Materials or getting students into groups,such as playing cards, puzzle pieces, matchingpostcards, etc.
Win-Win grid written on the board or chart paperHandout: blank grid
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – A Time When I WonAgenda Check
Activity: Role-PlayActivity: Win-Win Grid
DebriengClosing: Popcorn Style – When We Collaborate,
This Skill Would Be Useul…
Gathering: Go-Round – A Time When I Won
Ask students to complete this sentence: “I eel like I winwhen…” or “A time when I elt like I won was…” Provide
some examples such as winning a game, attaining a goal,etc. You may begin with your own example.
Agenda Check
Ask: How do you eel when you win? Because this is sucha good eeling, we oten try to “win” at many things, such
as when we get into disagreements with others. Today,we are going to look at a conict, or disagreement, and
possible endings or this conict – one o which is orboth people to have the eeling o winning. You will
then have the opportunity to create a chart, or grid, o possible outcomes o the conict that you see. During theDebrieng we will reect on how to think about the Win-
Win concept and share personal situations in the Closing.
Activity: Role-Play
1. Role-play the ollowing situation with another adult,with a student, or have two students prepare itbeorehand (Note: I you use students or the role-play,
give the scenarios to them beorehand so they maypractice beore the lesson.). Stop the action when the
argument is escalating.
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Scenario: Kim is a th grade student. She hasbeen having trouble in math and tomorrowthere is a big test. While she is in the living room
studying or this test and trying to work out someproblems, her little brother, Marshall, comes in
rom school. Marshall, who is in the rst grade,has had a hard day at school and wants to have
some un and relax. He turns on some music and
begins to sing and dance around. Kim wantsquiet and the music is disturbing her. They argue.
2. Ask the ollowing:
What is going on?
What is Kim eeling? What is Marshall eeling?What are Kim’s needs? What are Marshall’s needs?
Note: It is important to discuss needs because agood resolution depends on satisying the needso both children.
Activity: Win-Win Grid
1. Show the ollowing grid o ways the conict could
come out. Each box on the grid represents a dierenttype o solution to the conict.
Marshall gets
what he needs
Marshall does not
get what he needs
Kim gets what
she needsWIN-WIN WIN-LOSE
Kim does not get
what she needsLOSE-WIN LOSE-LOSE
2. Divide students into small groups. Give each groupa blank grid handout and ask the groups to come upwith possible endings to t in the grid. They may have
multiple solutions or each box. In order to completethe win-win section, both people must be able to have
their needs met.
2. Ater students have had sucient time to completetheir handouts, use their responses to ll in the blank
grid on the board or chart paper. Begin with the win-lose and lose-win boxes, then complete the lose-lose
box, and ll in the win-win box last.
Debrieng
What types o solutions were easiest to come up
with?Which were the hardest?
What would be necessary to accomplish the win-win solutions?
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Discuss the importance o being able to listen to oneanother in order to hear the needs o the other person.I both people get angry and cannot listen, it is hard to
get to a win-win solution. I each person can be calm andlisten to the other, it is easier to brainstorm ideas to get to
a win-win solution.
Closing: Popcorn Style – When We Collaborate, This
Skill Would be Useul…
Invite students to come up with examples o collaborativeprojects they have worked on, or will work on, that might
be helped i participants address conicts that arise with awin-win approach.
Connections to McRel Standards:
Language Arts - Writingo Pre-writing: Uses graphic organizersLanguage Arts – Reading
o Understands the basic concepto a plot (cause and eect, conict,resolution)
o Makes connections betweencharacters or simple events in
literary works and people orevents in his or her own lie
Language Arts - Subtopic: Listening andSpeakingo Listens or specic inormation in
spoken textsWorking with Others
o Determines the causes o conictso Identies an explicit strategy to deal
with conicto Displays empathy with others
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-AwarenessSM Sel-Management
RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and Decision
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Win-Win Grid
Marshall gets
what he needs
Marshall does not
get what he needs
Kim gets what
she needs
Kim does not get
what she needs
HANDOUTCreative Collaboration Activity : Everyone Wins!
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Creative Collaboration Activity :
Working It Out
Is there a process or working out a conict when we aretrying to collaborate? What are some steps to ollow to besure one’s needs are met?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paper
Handout: Steps or Negotiation, written on chartpaper or distributed as a handout
Materials or getting students into pairs, such asplaying cards, puzzle pieces, matching postcards,
etc.
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – A Win-Win Resolution
Agenda Check
Activity: Role-PlayActivity: Negotiating a Win-Win OutcomeDebriengClosing: Popcorn Style – Who Will I Use This With?
Gathering: Go-Round – A Win-Win Resolution
Ask students to think o a time when they had a conict
with someone that they resolved with a win-win outcome. The conict could have been with a ellow student, a
amily member, or an adult, such as a teacher or coach.Ask them to nish the sentence: “A time when I had a
conict that worked out or everyone was…” You maybegin with your own example.
Agenda Check
Say: Getting to win-win resolutions can be easy. For
example, two people can decide to share something thatboth people want. When resolutions are more dicult to
reach, however, a satisactory solution sometimes requiresspending time to think about dierent options. When two
people or groups work together to solve a problem, wecall the process negotiation. As we can see on the Agenda,today we will be looking at a conict and how to work
through a negotiation in order or both people to win.In our Debrieng, we will discuss what might be dicult
about negotiation. In the Closing, we will talk about a planto use this new skill.
Activity: Role-Play
1. Present the ollowing role-play, either with anotheradult, with a student, or choose two students
beorehand (Note: I you use students or the role-play,give the scenarios to them beorehand so they maypractice beore the lesson.).
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Scenario: Terry and Darva are twins who are inth grade. When Terry comes into the livingroom, Darva is lying on the oor watching
television. Darva has had a hard day at schooland wants to have some un, relax, and watch
her avorite show on TV. Terry has been havingtrouble with his/her grades, and the teacher has
oered extra credit i he/she watches a history
program on TV and writes a review. The show willbegin in hal an hour. Terry and Darva begin to
argue.
2. Ask the ollowing:
What is going on?What is Darva eeling? What is Terry eeling?
There are lots o ways that this conict could end.
What is an example o a win-lose outcome? Alose-lose outcome?
Activity: Negotiating a Win-Win Outcome
Explain that students will be acting the parts
o Darva and Terry. They have decided not toescalate the conict, but to try and gure out aresolution that will work or both o them.
Share the ollowing Steps or Negotiation(either written on chart paper or distributed as a
handout):
1. Identiy your needs.Example: Darva and Terry need to think about what they really need and why they
need these things.
2. Present your needs to the other person andlisten to the needs o the other person.Example: For this step, Darva and Terry
present what their needs are to each other,remembering to be strong and not mean.It is important or them to listen to each
other by ocusing on the other person,not interrupting, and paraphrasing when
appropriate.3. Brainstorm possible solutions.
Remember: Brainstorming ideas should notbe judged or debated, just noted on a list.
4. Eliminate solutions that are unacceptable.Example: This is the time when Darva and Terry speak up and say which solutions will
not work or them.
5. Choose a solution that will meet everyone’simportant needs.
6. Make a plan to take action.
Ask students to role-play the negotiation process
with a partner.
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Debrieng
Ask pairs to share their plans.
Was there anything dicult about the
negotiation process?Which skills did you use?
Why might it be important to take the time to go
through this process?
Closing: Popcorn Style – Who Will I Use This With?
Ask: Is there anyone in your lie that you would like to tryto negotiate with? Give examples, such as riends.
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Behavioral Studies
o Understands that communicatingdierent points o view in a disputehelps nd a compromise
Healtho Knows some nonviolent strategies
to resolve conictsWorking with Otherso Identies and deals with causes o
conict in a groupo Resolves conicts o interest
o Identies an explicit strategy to dealwith conict
o Establishes guidelines and rules ornegotiating
o Displays empathy with others
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SM Sel-ManagementRS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and Decision
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Say: Today we have looked at how people can unction
as mediators, helping others work through their conictsto think o with win-win solutions. Why do you think
mediators might be helpul, even i we all know how toproblem solve? In mediation, people solve their own
problems with the help o the mediator. How is this better
than being told what to do? What kinds o problemsmight best be solved by mediation?
Closing: Mediator Qualities We Have
Say: Today or the Closing, I am going to ask you to think
about a quality that you have that would make you a goodmediator. Have students share as a go-round or popcornstyle.
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Behavioral Studieso Understands that the rules or group
behaviors and expectations aresometimes written down and strictly
enorced or are just understoodrom example (2.4)
Health
o Knows some non-violent strategiesto resolve conicts
Language Arts – Readingo Uses prior knowledge and
experience to understand andrespond to new inormation
Working with Others
o Resolves conicts o interesto Identies an explicit strategy to deal
with conicto Establishes guidelines and rules or
negotiatingo Reacts to ideas rather than to the
person presenting the ideas
CASEL SEL Competencies:
DM Responsible Decision Making
RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and Decision
Making
This lesson was adapted with permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively
Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergarten through Six by Peggy
Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick © Educators or Social
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Steps or Mediation
I Introduction
1. Introduce yourselves as mediators.
2. Ask those in the conict i they would like your help in solving the problem.
3. Find a quiet area to hold the mediation.
4. Ask or agreement to the ollowing:
Try to solve the problem
No name calling
No interrupting
II Listening
5. Ask the rst person, “What happened?” Paraphrase.
6. Ask the rst person how he/she eels. Reect the eelings.
7. Ask the second person, “What happened?” Paraphrase.
8. Ask the second person how he/she eels. Reect the eelings.
III Looking or Solutions
9. Ask the rst person what he/she could have done dierently. Paraphrase.
10. Ask the second person what he/she could have done dierently. Paraphrase.
11. Ask the rst person what he/she can do here and now to help solve the problem.
Paraphrase.
12. Ask the second person what he/she can do here and now to help solve the problem.
Paraphrase.
13. Use creative questioning to bring disputants closer to a solution.
IV Finding Resolutions
14. Help both disputants nd a solution that satises them both.
15. Repeat the solution and all o its parts to both disputants and ask i each agrees.
16. Congratulate both students on a successul mediation.
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Creative Collaboration Activity 9:
Listen Up!
Are we good listeners? How does listening help us to
hear another’s point o view? What are the skills o ActiveListening?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or on
chart paperMaterials or getting students into pairs, such asplaying cards, puzzle pieces, matching postcards,etc.
Chart paper and markersQuestions or pairs, listed on the board or on
chart paper
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – Name and Favorite Place
Agenda Check Activity: Active Listening
Activity: Active Listening ChecklistActivity: Active Listening Practice
DebriengClosing: Popcorn Sharing – An Appreciation
Gathering: Go-Round – Name and Favorite Place
Ask students to share their name and a avorite place to
visit. It could be a place they have already visited or onethat they would like to visit in the uture. Beore each oneshares, he/she needs to repeat the previous student’s
avorite place. For example, Josh would say, “Hal wouldlike to go to Hawaii. My name is Josh and my avorite place
to visit is Disney World.” Frank would then say, “Josh likedvisiting Disney World. My name is Frank and I would like to
visit Antarctica.” I students orget what the person beorethem said or start to say what they like to do rst, gently
point it out, help them with the inormation, and ask themto try again.
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Agenda Check
Say: The Gathering was a good opportunity to show whatgood listeners we are. Good listening requires us to pay
attention to what someone is saying and not to think about other things. The Agenda shows that the topic or
this lesson is Active Listening, which is a particular kind o listening. We will explore Active Listening rst by making
some observations about listening in general. Then we willmake a chart about the skills needed to listen eectively
and practice in pairs. In the Debrieng, we will tell how thepractice elt and in the Closing we will show appreciationto others in the class.
Activity: Active Listening
1. Group students in pairs.
2. Ask students to respond to the ollowing questions,
which you have listed on the board or on chart paper.Explain that they should think about listening invarious situations, including with their riends and
amily, and not just in class.
When is it hard or you to listen?What makes it hard to listen?When is it easy or you to listen?Are there any things that make it easier to listen?
Do you listen dierently in dierent situations?
3. When pair sharing begins to wind down, discuss withthe students how and why we listen. Explain that good
listening requires active participation.
Activity: Active Listening Checklist
1. Ask students what good listening looks and soundslike. (I you have the time, you might role-play bothpoor listening and good listening with a student or
with another adult.)
2. Write their answers on the board or on chart paper,listing the attending skills (nonverbal ways o showing
a person is listening) and responding skills (verbalresponses) that make up active listening. These can
be linear or in the orm o a two-column chart. Anexample:
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2Communicating Clearly and Creatively
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SA Social AwarenessRS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Caring and Eective Communication
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Creative Collaboration Activity 10:
Stand Up and Be Heard!
How can we speak up without being hurtul? How do we
tell others our opinion when we disagree without makinga conict worse? What is an I-Message?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paper
Two copies o I-Message skitsI-Message ormat, written on the board or on
chart paper
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – Standing Up or Mysel
Agenda Check Activity: Speaking in a Strong Way – I-Messages
Activity: PracticeDebriengClosing: Go-Round – Appreciation
Gathering: Go-Round – Standing Up or Mysel
Ask students to complete this sentence: “A time I stoodup or mysel or or someone else was…” I necessary,provide examples such as, “I stood up or my little sister
when she was at the park and someone was being meanto her” “One o my riends was being teased and I stood
up or him and asked another riend to stop” “I said no to
someone when they asked me to do something that waswrong.”
Agenda Check
Say: The Gathering allowed us to hear examples o times
when we were strong. Sometimes when we speak up, weattack the other person which can make things worse
instead o better. As we can see by the Agenda, we aregoing to look at a way to speak up and be strong using
“I-Messages.” We will be listening to some skits and thenpracticing this new skill. Then we will talk about whenit might be a good idea to use this way o speaking.
Finally, in the Closing we will use I-Messages to showappreciation.
Activity: Speaking in a Strong Way – I-Messages
1. Introduce this activity by talking about “You-Messages”and “I-Messages.” Say: Sometimes when we get mad
and start to speak to someone, we start our sentenceswith “you” such as, “You never do what you say you
will” or “You always make un o my ideas.” You-
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Messages express anger by attacking, criticizing, orblaming.
2. Continue: Suppose someone borrowed your materials
and did not bring them back. A You-Message mightsound like this: “You’re such a jerk! You can’t be trustedwith my stu!” Instead o helping to solve the problem,
these kinds o statements can escalate a conict and
can actually make it worse.One alternative to this way o speaking is called anI-Message. An I-Message would sound like this: “I eelangry when you borrow my materials and then don’t
bring them back because then I don’t have them whenI need them or class.” I-Messages “open the door” to
allow the other person to know how we eel, insteado “slamming the door” which could cause the other
person to get mad at us.
3. Have students volunteer to perorm the I-MessageSkits (Note: give the skits to them beorehand so they
may practice beore the lesson.).
4. Ater Skit A ask: Why do you think Gina sounded somean when she conronted Stacey about not being
invited? How do you think Stacey elt when Gina wasso mean? Do you think they will still be riends? Why
not?
5. Present the I-Message ormat to students:
I eel _____________________ (state the eeling)
when ____________________ (state the behavior)
because __________________ (state the eect the
behavior has on you)
6. Work with your students to come up with somethingthat Gina can say to Stacey about not being invited.
A possible statement would be: “I eel angry when Ihear that you don’t invite me to your party becauseI thought we were riends and it hurt my eelings.”
Allow responses as long as they stay ocused on thespeaker’s eelings and the reason or those eelings.
Make sure that they are not hidden You-Messages such
as “I eel that you…”7. Ater Skit B ask: How might the conversation in Skit B
change the outcome o the conict? Is there a betterchance that Gina and Stacey will stay riends? Explain
that Gina chose to “open the door” to let Stacey knowthat her eelings were hurt, instead o “slamming
the door” in Gina’s ace and causing the conict toescalate.
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Activity: Practice
1. With partners, have students ormulate an
I-Message or the ollowing situation: Youare playing basketball at school and several
classmates are not passing the ball to you.2. I students comment that this language seems
sti and awkward, explain that the ormat is
meant to provide a ramework in order to learnan assertive way o speaking. As students practice
I-Messages, they will eel more comortable anddeviate rom the strict ormat.
3. Have students share the I-Messages theycomposed.
Debrieng
Can you think o more instances when it might behelpul to use I-Messages?
Assure students that with practice, I-Messagesbecome easier. Tell them that they are especially
helpul to prevent conict rom escalating. A loto painul conicts and acts o violence happenbecause both parties ailed to talk out a problem
when it was small and simple. Acknowledgethat using an I-Message takes courage because
it necessitates sharing personal thoughts withanother person. Help students understand
that I-Messages can be an eective tool tokeep important relationships strong and allowrespectul collaboration.
Might there be a time when you choose notto use an I-Message? I-Messages are not a tool
or all situations with all people. Knowing theirappropriateness is an important part o acquiring
this new skill.
Closing: Go-Round – Appreciation
Explain that I-Messages can also be used to tell someone
that they appreciate something the person has done orsaid. For example, you might say, “I eel happy when you
come to my house ater school because I have un playingwith you.” Ask students to share a positive I-Message they
would like to give to someone. Model one or students i they seem to have diculty starting.
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Behavioral Studieso Many skills can be practiced until
they become automatic and i the
right skills are practicedperormance may improve.
o Understands that communicatingdierent points o view in a dispute
helps nd a compromiseHealtho Knows behaviors that communicate
care, consideration, and respect oronesel and others
o Knows some nonviolent strategiesto resolve conicts
Working with Otherso Identies and deals with causes o
conict in a group
o Identies an explicit strategy to dealwith conict
o Displays empathy with others
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SM Sel-ManagementRS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Conict Management and Decision
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I-Message Skits
Skit A
Gina: You’re a lousy riend. You didn’t even invite me to your birthday party! I have
you over to my house all the time, and you couldn’t even invite me to one stupid
party. I bet it was a rotten party anyway. You never know how to have un.
Nobody would want to go to your party.
Stacey: Why don’t you shut up! Who cares what you think anyway? It was a great party,
but you have no idea how to have un. You always make trouble. You would have
ruined my party i I’d invited you!
Skit B
Gina: I elt really hurt when I heard that you had a birthday party and didn’t invite me
because I thought we were good riends. It doesn’t seem like something a goodriend would do. When Pam and Keisha told me they were invited and you didn’t
invite me, I just gured that we aren’t riends any more.
Stacey: I’m sorry I couldn’t invite you to my party. My mother said I could only invite two
riends because all o my cousins were coming. I wanted to talk to you about it
beore the party, but I didn’t know how to tell you because I elt so bad. I’d really
like to go on being riends.
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Creative Collaboration Activity 12:
Being Diferent
How can dierences make conict more complicated?Why does it help to bring dierences up or discussion?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paper
Handout: Find Someone Dierent
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Find Someone Dierent
Agenda Check Activity: A Time I Felt Dierent
Activity: Problems Caused by DierencesDebriengClosing: New Things We Learned About Each
Other
Gathering: Find Someone Diferent
Distribute the Find Someone Dierent handout. For eachquestion, students need to nd a person in the class
who would answer it dierently rom themselves andwrite their name in the blank. For example, i the studentis right-handed, he will look or someone who is let-
handed and write that person’s name on the line. Eachstudent may only be listed once. Review the handout
with the students to determine i they understand thedirections, and also to be sure that they decide upon their
own answer or each choice rst. Ater the activity, invitestudents, in a go-round, to choose one category andexplain how the person named is dierent rom him or
her.
Agenda Check
Say: As our Gathering showed, there are manydierences between and among us. Dierences canbe un and interesting to discuss. However, they can
also lead to problems, particularly i the dierencesare not understood or acknowledged. Sometimes we
make mistakes that are hurtul to others i we do not
have a clear understanding o that person’s culture orways o doing things. Sometimes it is helpul to talk about dierences in order to avoid misunderstandings.
The activities in this lesson will allow us to talk about
dierences and how those dierences make us eel. In theDebrieng, we will discuss what might be helpul to do i
dierences lead to problems. For our Closing, we will sharethings we have in common and things that are dierent.
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Activity: A Time I Felt Diferent
1. Ask students to nd a partner. You might suggest that
partners be chosen because o a dierence or youmight suggest that dierence yoursel. For example,
choose someone with a dierent color o eyes orhair or someone wearing a dierent type o shoe.
Other possible choices could be a dierent height
or someone they ound a dierence with on theGathering handout.
2. Once students are in pairs, ask them to think about atime when they elt dierent. Provide some examples,
such as eating a dierent type o ood rom everyoneelse at the lunch table or not wanting to do somethingthat riends wanted to do. Perhaps they liked a
dierent activity than their riends. Perhaps theymoved to a new school and elt let out.
3. Ater they have a specic time in mind, ask them to
tell their partner about it, describing the event, theireelings about it, and what they did.
4. Give them a minute or two each and let them knowwhen the time is hal up so they can switch roles. Oncetime is up, ask volunteers to share their experiences o
being dierent with the class.
5. Discuss with the class:
How did it eel to be dierent? Was it a good
eeling or a bad eeling?What happened in the end?
Did anyone do anything to help you eel more apart o the group?
Activity: Problems Caused by Diferences
1. Explain that sometimes people get into conictsbecause o dierences.
2. With the class, brainstorm a list o conicts that
sometimes arise because o dierences.
3. Ask students to think about a time when they had aproblem or observed other people having a problem
because o dierences. Then, with a new partner,have them take turns talking and listening. Again,
give students a minute or two each and give them ahaltime signal.
4. Ask volunteers to share their experiences or
observations about problems caused by dierenceswith the class.
Debrieng
Why do dierences cause problems?How do these problems make people eel?
What do you think might be helpul or us to dowhen these problems arise?
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Invite students to say one thing they learned about
another student that they did not know beore this lesson.
Connections to McRel Standards:
Behavioral Studies
o Understands that people can learnabout others in many dierent ways
o Knows that people have dierent
interests, motivations, skills andtalents
Working with Otherso Demonstrates respect or others in
the groupo Recognizes the contributions o
others
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SO Social Awareness
ESR Theme:
Cultural Competence and Social
Responsibility
“A Time I Felt Dierent” and “Problems Caused by Dierences” were adapted with
permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively Program: A Teaching Guide or
Grades Kindergarten through Six by Peggy Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri
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2. Collect the oranges, shufe them around, and placethem in the center o a table. Ask each pair to nd theirorange.
Debrieng
What do these oranges have in common? What is
dierent about them?How were you able to identiy your oranges?Was it easy or hard to nd something distinctive
about your orange?
Closing: Go-Round – How Are You Like Your Orange?
Ask: How are you a little like your orange?
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Behavioral Studieso Understands that people can learn
about others in many dierent wayso Understands that people might
eel uncomortable around others
dierent rom themselveso Knows that people have dierent
interests, motivations, skills, andtalents
Working With Otherso Works well with diverse individuals
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-AwarenessSO Social Awareness
ESR Themes:
Making ConnectionsCultural Competence and Social
Responsibility
This lesson was adapted with permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively
Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergarten through Six by Peggy
Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick © Educators or Social
Responsibility, Metropolitan Area and The Board o Education o the city o New
York, 1996
“Finding Commonalities” adapted with permission rom Open Minds to Equality:
A Sourcebook o Learning Activities to Afrm Diversity and Promote Equality by
Nancy Schniedewind and Ellen Davidson © Rethinking Schools, Ltd © 2006
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Creative Collaboration Activity 15:
Alike and Diferent
How are we similar to each other and in what ways are wedierent?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paperMaterials or getting students into pairs, such as
playing cards, puzzle pieces, matching postcards,etc.
Chart paper and markers
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – New and Good
Agenda Check Activity: Charting Similarities and Dierences
Activity: Face-to-Face
DebriengClosing: Go-Round – One New Thing
Gathering: Go-Round – New and Good
Ask students to share something that has happened in
the last ew weeks that they elt good about. This can besomething they saw, something they did, something nice
someone said to them, something they ate – anythingthat made them eel good.
Agenda Check
Say: As the Gathering showed us, sometimes we havethings in common with others, and sometimes we have
dierences with other people – things that make usunique. Today we will be exploring both similarities anddierences. When we made our Who I Am murals, we
noticed that we have many things in common and alsomany things that make us dierent. First, we will make a
chart o similarities and dierences and then we will talk with a partner about things that we have in common
and those that make us dierent. As we Debrie and doour Closing, we will talk about the challenges o havingdierences. Then we will have un talking about what we
have discovered about each other.
Activity: Charting Similarities and Diferences
1. Make two columns on the board or on chart paper,
one or similarities and one or dierences. (I youpreer, label them Alike and Dierent.)
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2. Ask the ollowing:
What characteristics can we think o that mostpeople have in common?
What are some dierences among people?
Note: Keep in mind that some o the things that
are the same can also be dierent in some ways; orexample, people in our society usually wear clothes,but the clothes are dierent.
3. Encourage students to explore the ull spectrum o dierences among people. Students may be awareo a whole range o dierences, but reluctant to
say them so you may have to play an active role toovercome their perception that some things are not to
be discussed. For example, you might ask: What aboutthe dierent places o worship we go to? It might be
helpul to add the category o religion to the list i you
ask the preceding question. Ask the ollowing:What are some observations we can make about
the similarities and dierences among people?What is good about having things in common?Are there any diculties with having things in
common?What is good about dierences? What is hard
about dierences?
Students may bring up examples in current eventsthat show the problems dierences can create. Model
reective listening rather than encouraging debate about
right and wrong in this activity. The intent is to allowthe students to discover both the challenges and joys o
dierences.
Activity: Face-to-Face
1. In pairs, ask students to spend three minutes talkingabout their similarities and dierences.
2. Ask them to record on paper ve ways in which they
are dierent rom each other and ve things they havein common.
3. Have students change partners and repeat the
exercise.4. With the entire class, make a list o typical similarities
and dierences on the board or add them to the list
created earlier.
What are some o the dierences?Were there similarities that went along with the
dierences? (An example might be that peoplehave hair, but that hair has dierent colors and
textures.)
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Did we notice mostly physical characteristics?
What other characteristics might we have noticedor discussed?
What eatures are most people born with?Which can they change? How?
In looking at our lists, which dierences do you
think are the most challenging? Why?
Closing: Go-Round – One New Thing
Ask students to share one new thing they learned aboutsomeone in the class.
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Behavioral Studies
o Understands that people can learnabout others in many dierent ways
o Knows that people have dierentinterests, motivations, skills andtalents
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SO Social Awareness
ESR Theme:
Cultural Competence and SocialResponsibility
This lesson was adapted with permission rom Resolving Conict Creatively
Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergarten through Six by Peggy
Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick © Educators or Social
Responsibility, Metropolitan Area and The Board o Education o the city o New
York, 1996
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Creative Collaboration Activity 1:
“Pre-Judging” – Prejudice
Why do people treat each other so dierently? How dopeople become prejudiced? What dierence does thismake to us working together?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or on
chart paper“The Sneetches” by Dr. Seuss (New York: RandomHouse, 1961), use the book or the lm
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Go-Round – A Food I Like Now
Agenda Check Activity: “The Sneetches”Debrieng
Closing: Popcorn Sharing – Next-Steps
Gathering: Go-Round – A Food I Like Now
Ask students to share a ood that they like now, but did
not like when they were younger. Provide some personalexamples.
Agenda Check
Say: Some o the oods we talked about during theGathering may be oods that not everyone immediately
likes. These oods may have unusual tastes or some o
us or be unamiliar to our cultures. Trying somethingnew when it seems strange can be like looking at ourprejudices. We may think, “Oh, I’ll never like spinach.Everyone says it’s icky.” Then we try it and nd we like it.
Dr. Seuss wrote a book about this experience called GreenEggs and Ham. Does anyone remember this book? (Briey
review the plot and theme.) Today, as the Agenda shows,we are going to listen to another book by Dr. Seuss, The
Sneetches. We will learn about the way the Sneetchestreat each other and dene the word prejudice. In ourDebrieng, we will identiy a time when we might have
changed our minds about someone or something.
Activity: “The Sneetches”
1. Read the story aloud (or use the lm version).
2. Discuss the theme with the students. One way tohave students discuss the ollowing questions with
their classmates is to use a strategy called ConcentricCircles. Hal o the class stands in a circle acing out,
while the other hal stands in an outer circle acing apartner in the inner circle. Ask the rst question andallow students a minute or two to discuss it with their
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partners. Then have the outer circle move a particularnumber o people in one direction. (For example, sayto students, “Outer circle move two people to your
right.”) Pose the next question and have studentsdiscuss it with their new partners. Then have the
inner circle move two people to its let and so on. This way, students talk with many partners and hear
many dierent perspectives. Ater each question, ask
a ew volunteers to share their responses. Keep theresponses brie and then move on so that students
stay engaged.
Questions:
At the beginning o the story, what did the Star-Belly Sneetches think about the other Sneetches?Why did they think this way? (Explain that the
attitude expressed by the Star-Belly Sneetchesis called prejudice – pre-judging others beore
knowing them individually.)
The Star-Belly Sneetches were not born thinkingthis way, so how did they learn to think this way?How did prejudice hurt the Plain-Belly Sneetches?How did it hurt the Star-Belly Sneetches?
In what way are Sneetches like people? Have youever heard someone say, “Oh I don’t like those
so-and-so’s. They are all ______” and then thissame person goes on to make a statement about
a whole group o people being a certain way?Are there groups o people that other people areprejudiced against?
I people are not born with prejudices, how dothey get them?
Debrieng
Invite students to return to their seats or sit in a circle withyou. Discuss the term prejudice now that they have had
the chance to see an example o it and talk about real-lie examples. Explain that unlearning prejudice can be
dicult, particularly when we do not even realize we areprejudiced. Discuss any insights the students might have
gained rom this story and their discussions with theirpartners. Ask: Did you learn anything new about prejudicerom our activities today?
Closing: Popcorn Sharing – Next Steps
Ask students to think about the steps they might take
when they eel that they are prejudiced against someone.Let students know that it is dicult to recognize one’sown prejudices and that everyone pre-judges others rom
time to time. Begin with a common scenario to start themthinking. Ask: What can we do when we do not want to
play with someone at school, or example, because wehave a eeling o judgment about them? Could we try
inviting them to play? What else could we do? What about
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i we see someone being bullied or teased about beinga member o a particular group? What actions could wetake?
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Behavioral Studieso Understands that people oten like
or dislike others because o membership in or exclusion rom a
groupLanguage Arts – Reading
o Understands elements o characterdevelopment
o Draws conclusions about character’squalities and actions based onknowledge o plot, setting,
character’s appearance or motives,and others’ responses to a character
o Makes connections betweencharacters or simple events in
literary works and people orevents in his or her own lie
Sel-Regulation
o Suspends judgment whenappropriate
CASEL SEL Competencies:
SA Sel-Awareness
SO Social Awareness
ESR Theme:
Cultural Competence and Social
Responsibility
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Creative Collaboration Activity 1:
Working Together
Cooperation can be un and working in groups can be a
great learning experience. How can we get the most outo cooperating and what makes it most productive?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or on
chart paperMaterials or getting students into pairs andgroups, such as playing cards, puzzle pieces,matching postcards, etc.
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: Birthday Line-Up
Agenda Check Activity: Dening CooperationActivity: Machine Building
DebriengClosing: Rainstorm
Gathering: Birthday Line-Up
Ask students to line up, without talking, in order o the day
and month o their birthdays, rom January to December. They need to decide how to communicate without words.
Designate where they should start and end the line.
Agenda Check
Say: What did you nd dicult about the Gathering? How
did you cooperate, even though you could not use words?
Cooperation can be un and easy, but sometimes it canbe dicult. As the Agenda shows us, our lesson is aboutcooperation. We are going to dene what cooperationmeans, share a story about a time we cooperated
successully, and then play a game that will require usto cooperate. Ater we Debrie, we will make a rainstorm
happen in our room by cooperating with each other!
Activity: Dening Cooperation
1. Ask students what the word cooperation means.
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Using their contributions as much as possible, dene
cooperation as “two or more people working togethertoward a common goal.”
2. Divide the class into pairs and ask students to think
about a time when they worked with at least one otherperson to do something or produce something theyelt proud o. (Examples: Students completed a school
group project; they worked with amily members on ahome project, etc.)
3. Ater talking in pairs, ask or a ew volunteers toshare their experiences with the whole class. Ask theollowing questions:
What was un about the time you just described?What were some o the diculties that you mayhave had?
4. Ask students to help create a list o specic behaviorsthat are needed when people are cooperating to
create something. Encourage the list to be specic,with items such as listening, being air, trying to
include everyone’s ideas, being organized, beingpatient, trying to be good team member, etc. Tell
students that these are skills they will bring to the nextactivity.
Activity: Machine Building
1. Ask the students to think o dierent machines andlist them on the board. I items seem to be in only
one category, such as kitchen items, encourage othercategories so that the list encompasses many.
2. Ask or student volunteers to help you demonstrate
the process that you will soon be asking students touse. For example, you might demonstrate making a
washing machine with two people stretching theirarms out in ront o them and joining hands to ormthe body o the machine. A third person acts the part
o the agitator, kneeling in the center and movingback and orth. Ask the class to try to gure out what
machine you are modeling.
3. Remind students that the game will require studentsto cooperate in order to be successul.
4. Divide the class into groups o our or ve to createtheir own machines. Allow at least ten minutes or
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Theme
5 How to Get the Best Out o a Team
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7. I some groups nish beore others, have the groupsdiscuss what was un about the game and what wasdicult. This will allow the groups that take longer to
nish without the added pressure o being watched bythe other groups.
Debrieng
Did you keep an eye out or people in your groupwho needed help?
How did it eel when someone helped you?How did you make decisions about which word
went where?How did your group work together?I we did this activity again, is there anything you
would do dierently?
Closing: Frozen Beanbags
This is a great game to practice cooperation. Students willeach need a beanbag, which they place on their heads.Give everyone a chance to walk around a little bit to
practice trying to keep the beanbag on his/her head. Thenexplain the rules. The goal o the game is to have everyone
moving around as long as possible. I a beanbag alls,that student is rozen. The only way to get unrozen is or
someone to pick up the beanbag and put it back on thestudent’s head. But i the person’s beanbag alls while he/
she is helping, he/she is also rozen until someone helpsthem. Start the game, reminding students that the goal isto keep everyone moving as long as possible. Playing the
game yoursel lets you demonstrate how to help others. Itusually only takes a ew minutes or everyone to be rozen.
Replay the game, trying to improve the group’s wandering
time. Ask students to reect on how they can help othersin this game. Also, ask how others can help them.
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Working With Others
o Demonstrates respect or others inthe group o Evaluates the overall
progress o a group toward a goalo Contributes to the development o a
supportive climate in groupso Displays riendliness with otherso Displays politeness with others
o Recognizes the contributions o others
CASEL SEL Competencies:
RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Making Connections
“Count to Five” and “Broken Sentences” were adapted with permission romResolving Conict Creatively Program: A Teaching Guide or Grades Kindergarten
through Six by Peggy Ray, Sheila Anderson, Linda Lantieri and Tom Roderick ©
Educators or Social Responsibility, Metropolitan Area and The Board o Education
o the city o New York, 1996
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Creative Collaboration Activity 20:
“Roles” o the Road
How do we help or hinder others in workingcooperatively? What roles that we take when working withothers help the group and which ones undermine the
progress o the group?
Materials
Workshop Agenda, written on the board or onchart paperChart paper and markers
Handout: Positive Team RolesHandout: Negative Team Roles
Workshop Agenda
Gathering: A Game I Like to PlayAgenda Check
Activity: Positive RolesActivity: Negative Roles
DebriengClosing: One Thing I Would Like to Do Better…
Gathering: A Game I Like to Play
Ask students to say a game that they like to play thatrequires cooperation.
Agenda Check
Say: As our Gathering showed us, some games require
that we work well together. I participants in a game donot cooperate, we can become rustrated and want tostop playing. Today, we are going to look at roles we can
take when working with others in a group, both positivelyand negatively. We will complete a checklist and then talk
about things we have noticed in ourselves and in othersthat can be a negative inuence on a group. Our Closing
will invite us to think about what we would like to dobetter when we work with others in the uture.
Activity: Positive Roles
1. Explain that we all play roles when we are working in
groups.
2. Ask students to identiy some o the positive roles in
groups and record their contributions on chart paper.I a suggestion is vague, such as “leader,” encourage
them to explain more ully. Ask: What does a leaderdo? What behavior might one see in a leader?
3. Distribute the Positive Team Roles handout. Have
students rate themselves in each o the roles listedon a scale rom one to ve, where one is low (you
do not like this role nor do you play it very oten)
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and ve is high (this is the role you nd yoursel inrequently and is comortable or you). Ater theyrate their perormance in each role, have students list
approximately three behaviors that might be observedin the person who plays that role. I students have
trouble with this part o the task, ask them to think about someone they know who is good at the role and
think o the things that person does.
4. Give students 10 to 15 minutes to complete thechecklist. Then discuss the roles by having the class
brainstorm a list o the behaviors or each role andrecord on chart paper.
Activity: Negative Roles
1. Ask students to identiy some o the negative rolesthey have seen people play in groups and record theircontributions on chart paper. Some students may talk
about behaviors more than roles. This is not a problem,but as you record the contribution note whether it is a
role or a behavior.
2. Distribute the Negative Team Roles handout. (Note:this list is dierent in ormat rom the previous
handout.) Explain that sometimes everyone nds himor hersel in these roles, at least temporarily. In pairs,
ask students to discuss experiences they have hadwhere either they or someone they know ell into each
role. Ask students not to identiy others by name, butinstead to say, “Someone I know…”
Debrieng
Which roles do you nd most dicult orannoying when you are in a group?What could you do or your teammates to
help them avoid these behaviors and styles o working?
What can your teammates do that would helpyou when you are in one o these roles?
Closing: One Thing I Would Like to Do Better…
In a Go-Round, ask students to share one positive role thatthey would like to improve on when working in a group.
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Connections to McRel Standards:
Language Arts - Listening and Speaking
o Contributes to group discussionWorking With Others
o Demonstrates respect or others in
the groupo Evaluates the overall progress o agroup toward a goal
o Contributes to the development o a
supportive climate in groupso Displays riendliness with others
o Displays politeness with otherso Recognizes the contributions o
othersBehavioral Studies
o Knows the dierence betweenpositive and negative behaviorsused in conict situations
CASEL SEL Competencies:
RS Relationship Skills
ESR Theme:
Cultural Competence and SocialResponsibility
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Positive Team Roles:
Roles that Encourage Collaboration
Rate Your Behaviors
Rate your behavior rom low to high according to the roll you play in a team. Write a check mark next to the appropriatenumber.
Low HighInitiatorProposes ideas, suggests next steps, has vision, is willing to experiment
1 2 3 4 5Organizer / CoordinatorKeeps track o who is supposed to do what by when, keeps the group on track and on task
1 2 3 4 5SeekerIdenties what inormation and resources are needed, does research, synthesizes inormation
1 2 3 4 5EncouragerLooks or ways to encourage everyone’s participation and thinking, praises people when they try
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HarmonizerChecks in on eelings, tries to resolve conficts, knows when the group needs a break or a heart-to-heart talk
1 2 3 4 5Clarier / SummarizerPulls together dierent ideas, clears up conusions, knows when the topic has been discussed enough,
oers conclusions
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Negative Team Roles:
Roles that Discourage Collaboration
Think about your experiences with these roles:
Distracter Sometimes known as “the joker”: talks about everything except the task at hand,dgets to get attention, makes jokes, makes un o people’s ideas
RebelAlso known as the “blocker”: the group’s holdout, is negative about every idea,
knows the “right” way to do everything, becomes stubborn and will not budge
DominatorHas to be in charge, needs to eel more important, more popular, and/or smarter
than everyone else, puts down others’ ideas, does not like to share the spotlight
The Silent One Does not share his or her ideas, holds back, is not involved
Doom and
Gloomer or
The Grump
Expects the group to ail, claims tasks will not work, ideas are bad, the project is
boring, spreads a sour mood
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Group Decision-Making Strategies
HANDOUTFor Creative Collaboration Activity 21: Deciding Together-
Voting Decision
or Majority Rule
Several choices or solutions are suggested. Each group member gets to vote
or the choice he or she likes. The choice that gets the most votes is the one the
group chooses.
Consensus
Decision
Through discussion, everyone in the group agrees to consent to a decision.
In other words, every member o the group does not necessarily agree to the
decision, but everyone agrees not to stand in the way o the decision. The group
members discuss and listen to each other until all members o the group can
give their consent.
Compromise
DecisionEverybody in the group agrees to give up a little o what they want. The group
nds a solution that involves everyone giving up something.
Chance Decision The group fips a coin or draws straws to choose what it will do.
Arbitration
DecisionThe group asks an outsider to make the decision or them. The outsider is called
the arbitrator. The group agrees to do what the arbitrator decided.
The Leader
DecidesThe group chooses a leader. The leader hears what everyone thinks about the
problem and the leader decides what the group will do.
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