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The Nurtured Heart Approach
for Beginners Presented by
Jimmie Heags, Jr., LPSC
Doris Moylan, MSW, LICSW
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Outline • Background Info. (Jimmie—3 min.)
• Intro. To NHA (Jimmie—5 min.)
• Stand One (Doris—3 min.)
• Stand Two (Doris—3 min.)
• Stand Three (Doris—3 min.)
• First Two of Four Techniques (Jimmie—5 min.)
• Let’s Practice/Activity (Jimmie—7 min.)
• Second Two of Four Techniques (Doris—5 min.)
• Let’s Practice (Doris—7 min.)
• “A Day in the Life of Julio” Activity (15 min.)
• Inner Wealth (5 min.)
• Wrap Up/Q&A (Jimmie—5 min.)
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BACKGROUND INFORMATION
The Nurtured Heart Approach
(NHA)
• An approach created by Howard Glasser in the
early 1990’s
• Therapist working with families with intense children
• Used in a variety of setting such as schools, homes,
foster homes, churches, etc.
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STAND ONE ABSOLUTELY NO!
• Crucial Stand #1: I REFUSE to be drawn into accidentally energizing or rewarding negativity
• Make the response to acting-out and rule-breaking
predictably boring
• Don’t water the weeds
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZI0ae4MHutE
• Example from EEC with teacher and students in cafeteria.
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STAND TWO ABSOLUTELY YES!
• Crucial Stand #2: I will absolutely energize and nurture success. I will do it!! Relentlessly! I WILL Energize Positivity!!!
• Use the approach’s four techniques to find and verbally comment upon successes—small, large, and in-between
• Sometimes you might need to “lower the rope” Shamu—them! Meet them where they are at
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STAND THREE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR!
• Crucial Stand #3: Clearly, but un-energetically, enforced
limits – Here are the rules and here’s what happens when
you choose to break a rule. I refuse NOT to provide a
true consequence when a rule is broken.
• I WILL be absolutely Clear with my Expectations
• Not a dangling carrot but a reminder with clear limits!
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FOUR TECHNIQUES
• Proactive Recognition or Canons o Celebrate rules NOT broken
• Creative Recognitions o Celebrating requests that are honored—creatively “hijacking’ challenging
students in to moments of compliance and success
o I accuse you . . .
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Let’s Practice • Turn to your neighbor and use either
Proactive Recognition or Creative
Recognition.
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FOUR TECHNIQUES CONT.
• Active Recognition or Kodak Moment o I see you—I notice you—actively stating what you see out loud as if for a
blind companion
o Instead of “What a beautiful picture” you would say, “Here’s what I see
you doing . . .”
o Notice actions and emotions
o Never use this method to notice and verbalize what is NOT going well
(Stand One)
• Experimental Recognition or Polaroids o Adding to Active Recognitions examples of values or qualities the child
possesses—though they might not know they do (It’s not a question of
whether they can or can’t – they are.”
o Helps build self-worth
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The Horse Whisperer
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Let’s Practice
• Turn to your neighbor and use either Active
Recognition or Experimental Recognition in
recognizing that person.
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“A Day in the Life of Julio” • Demonstrates the effect on a child of adults
choosing to energize the negative or choosing to
intentionally energize the positive.
• Debrief
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Inner Wealth
• By pointing out those qualities we see in our
students/sons/daughters, etc., we are helping them
to recognize their own inner wealth. Building up the
self-worth of a student/individual.
• Ways to build Inner Wealth Systemically (Example
from EEC)
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Jessica’s “Daily Affirmation”
• This is what inner wealth looks like.
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qR3rK0kZFkg
• How do you think Jessica will most likely deal with
adversity in her life?
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Hawaiian Proverb
Energy Flows
Where
Attention Goes
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Wrap Up/Q&A
• Intro. To NHA/Background Info.
• Stand One
• Stand Two
• Stand Three
• Four Techniques/Activities
• “A Day in the Life of Julio” Activity
• Inner Wealth
• Wrap Up
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Bibliography Bravo, L., Glasser, H, and Block, M. Notching Up the
Nurtured Heart Approach: The New Inner
Wealth Initiative for educators Workbook.
Pollock Printing, Nashville, TN, 2012.
Glasser, H. and Easley, J. Transforming the Difficult
Child: The Nurtured Heart Approach. Vaughan
Printing, 1998.