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M ANAGEMENT AND P ERSONAL D EVELOPMENT S ECTION “A KNOWLEDGE COMMUNITY FOR THE SOCIETY OF ACTUARIES” The Stepping Stone contents From the Editor—Making the Most of The Stepping Stone by John West Hadley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .2 ADVICE COLUMN Dear Stepping Stone: Describing Why You Left a Job by John West Hadley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3 Chairperson’s Corner—Eminence Building 101 Via Google by Donna K. Weninger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4 BUSINESS MANAGEMENT Are You Feeling Stuck? Use the Worst-Case Scenario Technique by David C. Miller . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5 PEOPLE MANAGEMENT Winning in Conflict: How Not To Call Your Coworker An Idiot by Bela Patel-Fernandez . . . . . . . . . . . . .6 CAREER DEVELOPMENT EI not IQ by Steve Gaspar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 CAREER DEVELOPMENT Managing Your Career ... Do What You Love; Love What You Do by Daniel Shinnick . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11 COMMUNICATION SKILLS Effective Communication Despite PowerPoint by Frank Grossman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13 INTERPERSONAL SKILLS “Wow, you flubbed it Fred!” The Art of Giving Constructive Criticism by Maureen Wild . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17 INTERPERSONAL SKILLS The House of Perhaps by Kristi Bohn . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19 July 2007 Issue No. 27 Published in Schaumburg, Ill. by the Society of Actuaries

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M A N A G E M E N T A N D P E R S O N A LD E V E L O P M E N T S E C T I O N“A KNOWLEDGE COMMUNITY FOR THE SOCIETY OF ACTUARIES”

The Stepping Stonecontents

From the Editor—Making the Most of

The Stepping Stone

by John West Hadley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .2

ADVICE COLUMN

Dear Stepping Stone:

Describing Why You Left a Job

by John West Hadley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3

Chairperson’s Corner—Eminence

Building 101 Via Google

by Donna K. Weninger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4

BUSINESS MANAGEMENT

Are You Feeling Stuck? Use the

Worst-Case Scenario Technique

by David C. Miller . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5

PEOPLE MANAGEMENT

Winning in Conflict: How Not To Call

Your Coworker An Idiot

by Bela Patel-Fernandez . . . . . . . . . . . . .6

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

EI not IQ

by Steve Gaspar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

Managing Your Career ... Do What

You Love; Love What You Do

by Daniel Shinnick . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11

COMMUNICATION SKILLS

Effective Communication Despite

PowerPoint

by Frank Grossman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13

INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

“Wow, you flubbed it Fred!” The Art

of Giving Constructive Criticism

by Maureen Wild . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17

INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

The House of Perhaps

by Kristi Bohn . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19

July 2007

Issue No. 27

Published in Schaumburg, Ill.

by the Society of Actuaries

Every quarterly issue of The Stepping Stone brings you atleast half a dozen articles on a variety of business, careerand personal development topics. We could probably com-

pile the last several years’ worth into a great primer on how tomanage your career more effectively!

To help us make sure that we are addressing your most pressingissues, in January we introduced the “Dear Stepping Stone” fea-ture, where we answer a specific question from a reader. We needyour help to keep this going! Please take five minutes right now todrop me an e-mail at [email protected] with one ortwo questions you would like to see addressed in a future issue. Pick from these general subject areas, or come up withyour own:

• People management• Business management• Career development• Communication skills• Interpersonal skills

I look forward to your help in making The Stepping Stone a communications tool that is as responsive as possible to your pro-fessional needs. And please, drop me a note any time to let us knowhow we are doing. qq

The Stepping StoneIssue Number 27 • July 2007Published quarterly by the Management& Personal Development Sectionof the Society of Actuaries

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John West Hadley, FSAThe Stepping Stone EditorJohn Hadley Associates8 Lori DriveSomerville, NJ 08876-2517ph: 908.725.2437e-mail: [email protected]

2006-2007 MANAGEMENT AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SECTION COUNCILDonna K. Weninger, ChairpersonScott D. Haglund, Vice-ChairpersonGail A. Hall, Secretary/TreasurerSim Segal, BOG PartnerSteven J. Gaspar, Council MemberVincent J. Granieri, Council MemberJohn West Hadley, Council MemberBela Patel-Fernandez, Council MemberFaisal Siddiqi, Council Member(Web Coordinator)David M. Walczak, Council Member

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Facts and opinions contained in these pagesare the responsibility of the persons whoexpress them and should not be attributed to the Society of Actuaries, its committees, the Management and Personal DevelopmentSection or the employers of the authors. Errors in fact, if brought to our attention, will be promptly corrected.

Copyright© 2007, Society of Actuaries.All rights reserved.Printed in the United States of America.

Making the Most ofThe Stepping Stoneby John West Hadley

From the Editor

John West Hadley, FSA,

is a career counselor who

works with job seekers

frustrated with their

search, and professionals

struggling to increase

their visibility and

influence at work. He

can be reached at John@

JHACareers.com or

908.725.2437. His free

Career Tips newsletter

and other career

resources are available at

www.JHACareers.com.

July 2007 • The Stepping Stone • 3

uestion: How should I handle a ques-tion as to why I would consider leavingan employer that I have been with for a

relatively short time? I have been employed withmy current employer for seven months, the pre-vious employer was for eight years.

Advice:You need to keep your answer short and simple... the longer the answer, the more apologetic itwill sound, and the more you will be emphasiz-ing the past instead of the future. Think verycarefully about why you left, and how you canexpress that in a way that doesn’t criticize youremployer. Then give a short (one or two sen-tence) explanation.

Finish with something that is forward looking,ideally what you are seeking now. However, ifyou are leaving for any reason related in anyway to your performance, then be sure toinclude a statement about what you’ve learnedfrom that. Don’t leave the listener wonderingwhy that won’t be a problem in the future!

Here’s an example:“I was hired by XYZ to be the financial actuary fortheir individual insurance products. Shortly after Ijoined them, there was a restructuring, and the scopeof my financial responsibilities no longer fit my longterm goals. What I’m looking for now is ...”

Your message will be strongest if the “lookingfor now” expresses a result you expect to be ableto bring to that role, or a challenge you can helpyour target employer overcome. For help indoing this, see “Catch Yourself Doing a GoodJob” in the April 2006 issue of The Stepping Stone,or e-mail [email protected] forother resources.

Submit your questions and challenges, and your own comments on any of the articleswe publish to [email protected] will give you expert advice in subsequentissues. qq

Dear Stepping Stone: Describing Why You Left a Jobby John West Hadley

ADVICE COLUMN

John West Hadley, FSA,

is a career counselor who

works with job seekers

frustrated with their

search, and professionals

struggling to increase

their visibility and

influence at work. He

can be reached at John@

JHACareers.com or

908.725.2437. His free

Career Tips newsletter

and other career

resources are available at

www.JHACareers.com.

Q

4 • The Stepping Stone • July 2007

Recently, it seems the hot topic is emi-nence building. You can’t go a day with-out hearing about the topic either via

newspaper articles, talk shows or e-mails frombusiness coaches. We’ve heard the concept andtheory behind eminence building, but perhapsa few simple and practical pointers will be evenmore inspiring.

In today’s Internet-based environment, build-ing your personal and business brand dependsupon being able to be “Googled.” A strong presence in leading Internet search enginesmeans that prospective and current clients look-ing for experts in their topic of interest can easi-ly find references to leading thinkers and doersin that field.

Three different types of eminence buildingactivities that will result in more Google hitsinclude writing, speaking and press quotes.

WritingIn today’s world, there seem to be more tradejournals than one can keep track of or possiblyread. This may be a negative if unread copiesare cluttering your desk. However, the largenumber of trade journals can be a positive if youare trying to get published. Editors need to fillup the pages of their journals month aftermonth and are always looking for volunteerwriters. Certainly, an editor isn’t going to turndown a high quality article. It’s important tokeep in mind that most trade journal articlesaren’t excessively long or extremely technical—often articles are between 250 and 1200 words.

A few pointers include:• Understand the editorial content of the

specific trade journal.• Review the journal’s editorial calendar.• Make sure you understand the journal’s

audience.• Develop a central theme for your article.• Create a sound byte or tag line that fits your

central theme.

• Get to know the writers at the journal bycalling them and sharing information andproviding article ideas.

SpeakingIn general, public speaking is more difficultthan writing an article for a couple of reasons.First, it has been noted repeatedly that publicspeaking ranks as many people’s number onefear. Second, most speaking engagementsrequire that you have some pre-established emi-nence that has been built through writing andother industry activities.

One easy way to get started on building yourpersonal eminence via speaking is to present atinternal meetings or trainings. An additionaltactic would be to ask senior members of yourteam if they are aware of any upcoming confer-ences needing speakers. But, before you getinvolved with any speaking efforts, you mustlearn to be a good speaker and practice speak-ing in front of a crowd.

Press QuotesAt first, getting your name quoted in the pressmay sound nearly impossible, but here is a verysimple approach: • Make a list of selected reporters.• Call the reporters and introduce yourself.• Offer to talk to them about your area of

expertise.• Tell them a few things that you think are

cutting edge.• Tell them to feel free to reach out to you

at any time.• Occasionally, follow-up with them to say

hello or e-mail them interesting thought-ware you’ve created.

You are doing them a favor and not asking any-thing in return. Perfect! It doesn’t take much ofa stretch of the imagination to realize that eventually they’ll call you to be interviewed in

Donna K. Weninger, FSA,

MAAA, is a consulting

actuary at Deloitte

Consulting. She can be

reached at dweninger@

deloitte.com.

Eminence Building 101 Via Googleby Donna K. Weninger

Chairperson’s Corner

(continued on page 7)

We all get stuck or paralyzed whenwe’re on the verge of doing some-thing big that takes us beyond our

comfort zone. You might have felt this waywhen you were about to do something likemaking a call to an important prospect, prepar-ing for a key meeting or making the transitionto starting your own business or changing ca-reers. This dynamic often presents itself when-ever we’re about to do something where thestakes are high. It’s a “no-brainer” that youneed to take action in these areas, but you findyourself cleaning your desk or tending to someother low-risk activity instead.

An effective technique to battle this avoidancebehavior is what I call the “Worst-Case Scenario”technique (WCS). This approach will seemcounterintuitive, much like being taught to turninto a skid when driving in the snow. But all Ican say is that it works ... and very effectively.

Here’s the basic step-by-step recipe:

1. Notice when you’re stuckThe first step is to be aware when you’re stuck.This may seem obvious, but usually in these sit-uations there’s a short period of denial beforewe admit we’re really avoiding this activity.One classic example is that we always seem toobusy to get to this really important action. For awhile we successfully justify putting it off.Eventually, if we’re honest with ourselves, werealize that we’re stuck.

2. Identify the associated feelings andthoughtsWe can confirm we’re stuck by examining thefeelings and thoughts we experience wheneverwe think about doing the task. Feelings of anxiety, nervousness or fear are telltale signsthat you’re stuck. We all desire to avoid thesefeelings and will even unconsciously take stepsto do so.

3. Ask, “What’s the worst that can happen?” Most people want to avoid thinking about theanswer to this question. Therein lies the prob-

lem! You see, what we avoid has power over us.So the answer is NOT to avoid thinking aboutthe doomsday scenario.

4. Go there and take it deeperThis is the challenging part. Not only do youwant to think about the WCS, but you want tovividly imagine it and LIVE there! Play thewhole scenario out; feel the sense of failure ordread to the fullest extent you can. If the inten-sity of the pain feels like a seven on a scale ofone to 10, take it to a 12! The key is to not avoidyour worst fear; instead, pursue it with vigor.

5. Stay with it until you notice “the shift”At this point you may be thinking, “Dave,you’re really sadistic!” But I promise you that ifyou play the WCS out in full, what will occur isa major shift in your thinking. Suddenly, failureisn’t such a bad thing. You can handle it, youwill survive.

It’s critical that you stay with the WCS until youfeel this shift. The shift is the emotional placewhere your WCS no longer has power over you. Now you can pursue your high-stakebusiness or career-building action with courageand excitement.

Going through this exercise isn’t always so dra-matic. It can be as easy as ask-ing yourself, “What’s theworst that can happen? Can Ilive with that?” The answer isalmost always an emphatic,“Yes.” Then you can freelymove forward.

I invite you to exper-iment with this tech-nique and noticehow it works foryou. I would love to hear any feedbackon what you discov-er. Just send me ane-mail at Dave@B u s i n e s s G r o w t hNow.com. qq

July 2007 • The Stepping Stone • 5

BUSINESS MANAGEMENT

Are You Feeling Stuck? Use theWorst-Case Scenario Techniqueby David C. Miller

David C. Miller, FSA,

MSCC, PCC, is a

professional certified

coach who works with

actuaries, consultants and

executives who desire to

attract more clients and

have a greater impact on

their organizations. He

can be reached at Dave@

BusinessGrowthNow.com

or 215.968.248.

6 • The Stepping Stone • July 2007

Bela Patel-Fernandez,

FSA, MAAA, is an

actuarial director at

Health Net of Arizona.

She can be reached at

bela.h.patel-fernandez@

healthnet.com.

Winning In Conflict: How Not To Call Your Coworker An Idiotby Bela Patel-Fernandez

Picture this: you are presenting your rec-ommendations for a special project to across-departmental committee in your

organization. In the middle of your presenta-tion, a department head explodes with anger.His attack challenges your seemingly myopicthinking on the project. This outburst under-mines your credibility with the rest of the com-mittee. What do you do?

Conflict. No organization is free of it, and to theextent that it is ignored, corporations will pay ahefty fee in terms of turnover, poor employeeengagement and eventually, failure.

In Mark Gerzon’s book, “Leading ThroughConflict,” the art of leading groups of disparatestakeholders is explored in detail. The goalis not to “resolve” or “fix,” but to “transform.”

By their inherent nature, human beings willalways have variations in beliefs. To the extentthat these beliefs clash, progress towards a common goal is thwarted. The mark of a suc-cessful leader is to not only have the humility to question the complexity of differences, but to also mediate in the creation of original col-laborative solutions.

According to Gerzon, leadership can bedescribed as having three faces:The demagogue • Leadership based on sustaining the “us”

versus “them” mentality• Heavy reliance on fear, intimidation and

blameThe manager• Leadership based on a defined “us,” e.g.,

company, country, team• Deals with conflicts only within boundariesThe mediator• Strives to act on behalf of the whole

• Committed to ongoing learning and build-ing bridges across dividing lines

With today’s fast-paced, global economy, lead-ers who understand not only how to lead theirorganization, but also how the organization fitsinto the greater whole called Earth are a neces-sity. This leader understands that to be effective,relationships that expand beyond the leader’sdirect sphere of influence need to be forged.

So, how can we apply this mediator concept incrisis situations of high stress and strife? Theanswers are simple in theory, but can be chal-lenging in practice.

Think firstWhen facing verbal assault, take some time tothink before speaking. The first thing that youwant to say is not the thing that you should say.Pause for a few moments to breathe deeply andcontemplate. This may create an awkwardmoment of silence where the angry outburst isallowed to reverberate around the room andthen settle down into quiet.

Focus on your goalWhen you do speak, concentrate on meetingyour objectives, not on retaliation. Chances arethe folks involved in the conflict are there for areason. You need them to be successful.Alienating them is counterproductive, like aself-inflicted wound.

Avoid the nanna-nanna-boo-booRefrain from pointing fingers and name calling.Yes, that person may truly appear to be an idiotas far as you’re concerned, but confirming this publicly is not going to build collaboration.Try to also avoid the arrogance of self right-

PEOPLE MANAGEMENT

The mark of a successful leader isto not only have thehumility to questionthe complexity ofdifferences, but toalso mediate in thecreation of originalcollaborative solutions.

one of their articles. One more Google hit foryour name!

Another approach is to call a reporter and say,“I saw your article on XYZ. Did you think about ABC? It might be a good follow-up arti-cle and I can help.” Of course they’ll thank youfor giving them the next story idea and natural-ly, they’ll want your assistance.

When it comes to eminence building via any ofthese activities, remember this: you must havesomething unique and insightful to say. This requires that you spend time thinking ofinnovative ideas so that you can provide aunique perspective on standard industry top-ics. You must bring something new to the tablesince there will always be someone who can dothe basics.

One final pointer is to think about what audi-ence you are trying to reach and what your per-sonal brand looks like. Each magazine, confer-ence and reporter has a certain audience andyou should try to match your career objectivesto the eminence you build.Eminence building takes timeand getting Google referencescan take years. You want to besure that the memorializationof your efforts in cyberspacereflect the directionin which you wantto take your person-al brand. qq

July 2007 • The Stepping Stone • 7

eousness. Yes, it is a fine line, and you are not a Mother Teresa. Just try to be conscious ofyour words, and keep the phrase “you are an …” out of them.

Listen moreBefore responding to an insult, clarify the situa-tion. Make sure you are the intended target. Tothe extent possible, meet with those involvedseparately. In this meeting, try to uncover thetrue reason for the anger. You may want to con-sider having a neutral third party present incase things get out of hand.

Let “them” know youA good deal of conflict is due to a misunder-standing of intent. Traditionally, withholdinginformation is used as a ploy in negotiations.This will hinder your long-term success if thisbreeds mistrust and suspicion of unfair dealing.It requires real courage to share who you arewith your so-called “enemy.” This dialogueencompasses sharing the underlying intentionsdriving your actions—why you do what you do.If through this sharing, everyone gains a betterperspective, then you are closer to reachingyour goal.

Be proactiveCreative solutions are not found by waiting forsomeone else to act. Take the first step in theprocess by behaving in a manner that will getyou to your shared goal. This will requirecourage, creativity, humility and compassion.An easy way to keep this in mind is to remem-ber to treat everyone the way you would like tobe treated.

By following Gerzon’s advice, you may also beable to transform conflict into opportunities. qq

PEOPLE MANAGEMENT & CHAIRPERSON’S CORNER

Chairperson’s Corner • from page 4

8 • The Stepping Stone • July 2007

EI is generally accepted as ameasure of one’s skill in the following areas: self-awareness, self-regulation,awareness of others, and relationship management.

Establishing a successful track record onthe job opens doors to other opportuni-ties, including advancement. At some

point advancement may involve moving into asupervisory role. However, many first timeleaders have high failure rates. Why? Put simply, the skills, knowledge and behaviorsthat make a personal producer successful arenot the same attributes that create a successfulsupervisor and leader.

The disconnect between the necessary compe-tencies in two successive roles can present quitea problem. Actuaries fall prey to this challengeas much as any professional group, perhapsmore so. For example, in many companies theattainment of an actuarial credential, such asASA, can lead to immediate supervisory respon-sibilities. Often such a promotion is done with-out any formal management training or addi-tional support. Since moving into a supervisoryrole requires a different set of skills, why shouldwe expect success in that situation? The seguefrom personal producer to manager changes theapplication of one’s strengths, which can be atbest confusing and at worst a failure.

What skills make a good manager? While spe-cific positions vary, ‘soft skills’ are basically auniform requirement for any management role.Soft skills are primarily skills and attributes thatfocus more on interfacing with people and lesson finance theory or claim triangles. Managersare not the only beneficiaries of strong soft skills.Anyone in a position that involves interperson-al interactions will benefit from having strengthin these areas. That said, while soft skills such asempathy and listening are relevant for a person-al producer, they are far more critical for some-one who manages a team, especially a teamcomprised of diverse personalities and talent.

Soft skills and soft skills training have been discussed and debated for years, and there is a

thriving industry aimed at providing trainingin this area. At the time of this writing, a Googlesearch of “soft skills training” scores nearly twomillion hits. A more current way to describethese kinds of competencies is ‘emotional intelli-gence,’ or EI. At 1.3 million hits, “emotional intelligence training” is somewhat less promi-nent in Google-space, but significant nonethe-less. EI is generally accepted as a measure ofone’s skill in the following areas: self-awareness,self-regulation, awareness of others, and rela-tionship management. EI is internal and externalawareness and control. (See sidebar for EI com-petencies and groupings according to Goleman,et. al. in books such as Primal Leadership.)

Sidebar of EI Competencies and Groupings

Personal CompetenceSelf-Awareness• Emotional self-awareness (monitoring

one’s emotions)• Accurate self-assessment (knowing

one’s strengths)• Self-confidenceSelf-Management• Emotional self-control• Transparency (honesty,

integrity, trustworthiness)• Adaptability (to changing situations or to

obstacles)• Achievement (drive)• Initiative• Optimism

Social CompetenceSocial Awareness• Empathy• Organizational awareness• ServiceRelationship Management• Inspirational leadership (ability to convey a

clear vision)

EI not IQby Steve Gaspar

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

Steve Gaspar, FSA,

MAAA, is vice president

and chief actuarial officer

at The Regence Group

in Portland, Ore. He may

be reached at

steven.gaspar@

regence.com.

• Influence (persuasion with or without authority)

• Developing others• Change catalyst (leader of change)• Conflict management• Building bonds

(relationship network builder)• Teamwork and collaboration

In reviewing EI competencies, a high level ofskill in any or all of them couldn’t hurt a career.In fact, many experts agree that these compe-tencies are relevant to professions that involveeither managing others or being part of an effec-tive team. In his book Working with EmotionalIntelligence, Daniel Goleman goes one step fur-ther. He claims that for professions in which theintellectual entry hurdle is particularly high, EIis the dominant differentiator for performance.Goleman is not the first, nor will he be the last,to reach this conclusion. Assume for a momentthat this is a fact. Can you think of a professionwhich has an entry hurdle that is high in thearea of intellectual horsepower? That’s us, folks.Assuming Goleman is correct, in spite of all ofthe technical training that actuaries pursue, it isemotional intelligence that differentiates thehighest achievers from the rest of the pack. Forsome this might not feel like great news, espe-cially considering the number of years actuariesspend on technical learning.

The good news is that emotional intelligencecompetencies can be acquired. And contrary toIQ, which is fixed at a relatively young age, EIcan be enhanced at any age. Now here’s thetricky part. There are two key differences inenhancing EI as compared to picking up a newway to price a contingent future event. First, thetime required to develop EI is greater than thetime it takes to learn a technical skill. The rea-sons behind this difference in training time arefascinating and have to do with how the brainfunctions. Goleman, et. al., cover this topic very well in Primal Leadership. A simple way of

looking at this issue is that it takes time toachieve sustained behavioral change, and that isessentially what enhancing EI is all about.

The second difference, which might be viewedas bad news to actuaries who are accustomed tostudying and passing exams, is that EI is notenhanced by the same methods as technicalskills. Raw intelligence and traditional learningtactics have propelled actuaries through collegeand the actuarial exams. Unfortunately, study-ing and memorizing are of limited use when itcomes to developing EI skills. In the EI arena,academic approaches simply raise awareness.But awareness alone is not sufficient—any morethan understanding that kicking your feet andpaddling your arms will keep you off the bot-tom of the swimming pool. To survive in thewater you must practice those actions until theyare second nature. EI skills are similar. Beyondmere intellectual exercises, EI competencies arepracticed in the real world with other people. Inthis way emotional intelligence skills are moresimilar to physical skills than IQ or cerebralskills because EI is behavior-driven.

So how does one enhance EI skills? Not sur-prisingly, most successful methods look some-thing like this: become awareof the necessary behavioralchange, develop a desire tochange the behavior, gainunderstanding about whatsuccess looks like,and practice in thepresence of a trustedthird party. This lat-ter step is probablythe most significant.Having a profes-sional coach is ideal,and many compa-

(continued on page 10)

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CAREER DEVELOPMENT

10 • The Stepping Stone • July 2007

To win the medalsyou need specialskills, and in the area of management andleadership thoseskills are the competencies of emotional intelligence.

nies hire coaches to develop the highest levelleaders of their organizations. A coach candirectly observe your behavior and offer helpfuladvice for change. He/she can also solicit inputfrom those closest to you to provide insight intohow your behaviors are perceived. But even ifyour company is not providing you with a pro-fessional coach, you have your boss, yourcoworkers and your friends. Enlisting their helpcan provide real-time feedback and reinforce-ment. Obviously the basis of any such arrange-ment is complete trust in the relationship. Each“coach” needs to have your best interests inmind.

Beyond trust, coach selection should be influ-enced by knowledge; that is, pick a coach whohas the skill you are looking to enhance. Forexample, if your boss is a particularly goodempathetic listener, she would be a good coach candidate for that specific skill. If she justdoesn’t seem to have the ability to build astrong network of relationships, then youshould find someone who does have that skill-set to coach you in that area. Many compa-nies’ Organizational Development departmentsalso have processes set up to support suchemployee growth.

Reading this article or a book on EI will not getyou where you need to be. And while you maybe able to attend a seminar on predictive model-ing to acquire the ability to use such a tool, thereis not a three day EI boot camp that will result insustained behavioral change. EI enhancementtakes time, practice, patience and support.

This isn’t to say that technical skills are trumpedby EI. Technical skills are a gateway to moreopportunity. As levels of responsibility increase,technical skills become table stakes. The higheryou ascend in an organization the more techni-cal skills are like compulsory tumbling for agymnast. You must do them perfectly in orderto be allowed to continue on to the medalround. To win the medals you need specialskills, and in the area of management and lead-ership those skills are the competencies of emotional intelligence. qq

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

EI not IQ • from page 9

In my almost 25 years as an actuary, I haveparticipated in talent management process-es both as an employee and as a corporate

leader. The words and consultants havechanged over the years, but the process andprinciples have remained pretty constant.

As we manage our personal careers, I think it is helpful to understand the process so that we can make informed decisions about ourfutures that will position us to have the careersthat we desire.

In general the evaluation process is relativelystraightforward. Through various input sources(360 feedback, job performance, assessmenttools, intuition, etc.) management determinesyour rating. Most processes use a 2 X 2 matrix(yes, consultants are involved) with potential onone axis and performance on the other.

My experience with actuaries is that most fit inthe four professional boxes. People in the profes-sional boxes are characterized by their knowl-edge, expertise, dependability and competence.This is NOT a bad place to be if you enjoy thework you are doing and are adding value to

your organization. So, if you are a good solidactuary and that is what you want to be, whatshould you do to continue to grow and be ofvalue to your organization (i.e., stay employed)?

• Invest in technical development; be an expert in your field

• Deliver high quality results; performancematters!

• Build your emotional intelligence (read thebook, “Emotional Intelligence: Why It CanMatter More Than IQ,” by Dan Goleman)and political savvy (read the book, “Survivalof the Savvy: High-Integrity Political Tacticsfor Career and Company Success,” by RickBrandon and Marty Seldman.)

• Take on new roles and assignments that give you an opportunity to build your tech-nical skills

You can have a very good career and job satis-faction as a professional actuary as long as youcontinue to grow and change as the work youdo changes.

A few actuaries aspire to be leaders in theirorganizations. It is typical in most professions

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If you became anactuary becausethat is what youwanted to do andyou still love it, then be the besttechnical actuaryyou can be andgrow in your careerthat way.

that more people want to be good at what theydo than want to be senior leaders. For those ofyou who want to be senior leaders, you need torecognize that senior leadership requires additional skills/characteristics beyond thoserequired to be a professional including:

• Aspiration• High degree of political savvy and emotion-

al intelligence• Interest and experience in areas outside of

technical expertise• Strategic thinking about the business• Broad leadership capabilities

So what should you do if you aspire to seniorleadership positions?1. Seek out assignments and roles that are more

than just actuarial.2. Find a non-actuarial mentor that will help

you become more effective in your politicalorganization. Manage the buzz about you.

3. Be a voracious reader on business topics andleadership. Attend non-actuarial conferenceson leadership and your business.

4. Be a leader, regardless of your role. It will be noticed.

Here are a couple of important points to remem-ber as you manage your career:1. It is your career, so it is your responsibility to

manage it. Be proactive and don’t wait forsomeone to manage it for you.

2. Do what you love; love what you do. Thereis nothing wrong with enjoying being a greattechnical actuary. If you became an actuarybecause that is what you wanted to do andyou still love it, then be the best technical ac-tuary you can be and grow in your careerthat way. If you really enjoy leadership, thereis nothing wrong with leaving your actuarialroots and doing something different.Remember, you will find more satisfactionwith your job (and life) if you’re doing whatyou want to do.

Enjoy the journey! qq

Daniel L. Shinnick, FSA,

MAAA, is a vice president

at Thrivent Financial for

Lutherans in Appleton,

Wis. He can be reached

at dan.shinnick@

thrivent.com.

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Managing Your Career ... • from page 11

The market for enterprise risk manage-ment represents an important growthopportunity for actuaries. Gauging an

organization’s exposure to diverse financial haz-ards, and identifying what can be done to trans-form that organization’s risk silhouette—and atwhat cost—are serious tasks well suited to actu-arial techniques and analysis. Yet, it is in thecommunication of results that a potential sourceof additional risk resides, particularly whenusing PowerPoint. If you consider your presen-tation skills not to be at risk, then it’s probablytime to skip to the next article—vade in pace.

1. PowerPoint’s Message“PowerPoint Pipeline” (The Stepping Stone No.15, July 2004) discussed the extent to whichone’s ideas risk transformation and miscommu-nication when using PowerPoint. The tendencyof PowerPoint presentations to be unidirection-al as well as content poor—and that ultimatelytheir content can be lost en route—prompted thepipeline metaphor. Many PowerPoint presenta-tions betray an inflexible ballistic quality: oncethe slides are launched, you know in advancewhere they will land and the exact path taken—subject only to the influence of gravity, windspeed and direction. Given the contemporarystate of pitch and spin in PowerPoint usage, thebasic ability of effective communication to with-stand a tool that encourages presenters to makepower (bullet) points to their audiences is ques-tionable. In a McLuhanist sense, PowerPoint asa communication Medium risks becoming theMessage itself.

2. Return to the PowerPoint NationThere have been a few developments regardingthe topics mentioned in “PowerPoint Pipeline.”The final report of the Return to Flight TaskGroup, released in July 2005, echoed the (space

shuttle) Columbia Accident InvestigationBoard’s August 2003 criticism of PowerPoint:

We also observed that instead of concise engineering reports, decisionsand their associated rationale are oftencontained solely within MicrosoftPowerPoint charts or e-mails. TheCAIB report … criticized the use ofPowerPoint as an engineering tool,and other professional organizationshave also noted the increased use ofthis presentation software as a substi-tute for technical reports and othermeaningful documentation. Power-Point (and similar products by othervendors), as a method to provide talking points and present limited datato assembled groups, has its place inthe engineering community; however,these presentations should never beallowed to replace, or even supple-ment, formal documentation.

In September 2005, former Secretary of StateColin Powell conceded that his February 2003speech to the United NationsSecurity Council—regardingIraq and the search forweapons of mass destruc-tion—was personally “pain-ful,” representing a “blot” onhis record. Whilethere were other fac-tors, it’s fair to saythat PowerPoint didnot help.

There has been someresurgence of inter-est in Marshall

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Effective Communication Despite PowerPoint • from page 13

McLuhan and his work with the launching of anannual McLuhan International Festival of theFuture in Toronto, although this may be to someextent a reflection of his professional associationwith the University of Toronto.

While there have been recent upgrades ofPowerPoint software, singling out specificimprovements in its ability to effectively com-municate ideas is not easy. Edward Tufte hasnoted that, “New releases feature ever moreelaborated PP Phluff and therapeutic measuresfor troubled presenters.” Given Microsoft’sdominant market presence, one wonderswhether substantive future product innovationswill ever materialize. What is clear is that eachrevision is indeed different from its predecessor,sparking a need for continual user upgrades.

Ian Parker observed, in his May 2001 article“Absolute PowerPoint” published in The NewYorker, that “… there are great tracts of corporateAmerica where to appear at a meeting withoutPowerPoint would be unwelcome and vaguelypretentious, like wearing no shoes.” Andthough PowerPoint’s pervasive influence oncorporate culture would seem to continueunabated, there are notable examples of suc-cessful major league speakers who eschewslideware entirely. Instead of spending time andenergy packaging their content as bullet points,each of these speakers instead focuses on usingspoken words to deliver their essential mes-sage—their particular story.

3. Once Upon A TimeThe time-tested power of communicating bytelling stories cannot be underestimated. Whilesales gimmicks frequently have a short shelf life,a good story can be retold with effect again andagain. The ability of stories to fire the humanimagination and thereby perpetuate their exis-tence even pre-dates their documentation inwritten form—consider the Greek epic poemsthat existed for centuries as an oral tradition

before finally being written down. The manybrief fables ascribed to Aesop, as well as thefolk-tales collected by Jacob and WilhelmGrimm, demonstrate that even simple storiescan have great staying power—ask the youngermembers of your family!

Much of the information that we receive eachday is still in the form of narrative stories (e.g.,“He told me …” or “She did …”). This is indirect contrast to McLuhan’s Mosaic Methodtheory of modern information presentation inwhich content is fragmented, juxtaposed andoften stated without context. Other than one’sweekly grocery list, perhaps the best contempo-rary example of the Mosaic Method is the dailynewspaper USA Today. And the importance ofcontextual framing and a clear narrative threadwhen making a presentation are never moreapparent than when they are absent—and con-fusion results.

4. Narrative, InterruptedThe contribution of a strong narrative threadand supporting context help make informationtransmission more effective and improve com-prehension, but they also support informationretention. Consider for a moment the half-life ofthe information transmitted by various meansin everyday life. For example, how long wouldit take you to completely forget half of what youread in 20 minutes on the op-ed page of a seri-ous newspaper or in The Economist, compared to20 minutes spent with a copy of USA Today?And how do those half-lives compare to thehalf-life of the information that you receivedduring the first 20 minutes of the lastPowerPoint presentation that you attended?

An article on business planning published in the Harvard Business Review emphasized thatrequiring a plan to “have a narrative logic …encourages clear thinking and brings out the subtlety and complexity of ideas.” One manager said:

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. . . the importance of contextual framing and a clearnarrative threadwhen making apresentation arenever more apparent than when they are absent—and confusion results.

“If you read just bullet points, youmay not get it, but if you read a narra-tive plan, you will. If there’s a flaw inthe logic, it glares right out at you.With bullets, you don’t know if theinsight is really there or if the plannerhas merely given you a shopping list.”

PowerPoint presentations are comprised of asequential thread of slides that partition information into arbitrary compartments sub-ject to bullet point hierarchies. Given their fractured continuity, these presentations tend tobe inherently anti-narrative—placing both com-prehension during the presentation and subse-quent information retention at risk. Anyoneattempting to read a stack of PowerPoint slidesfor the first time following a presentation mayappreciate just how poorly they can conveyinformation on their own.

5. PowerPoint’s Cognitive StyleEdward Tufte is a Yale University professor whoauthored a series of masterful—and idiosyn-cratic—books on information design beginningwith The Visual Display of QuantitativeInformation published in 1983. Tufte’s case studyof the Columbia accident PowerPoint presenta-tions was the kernel of a booklet published inMay 2003, subsequently reissued in a 31-pagesecond edition entitled The Cognitive Style ofPowerPoint: Pitching Out Corrupts Within inJanuary 2006.

(The updated edition is more tightly argued andmore cogent. Some of the hyperbole present inthe earlier edition has disappeared. ThankfullyPeter Norvig’s biting PowerPoint riff on theGettysburg Address in six slides remains.)

Tufte points out that conventional PowerPointslide design style yields low data resolutioninasmuch as only a minority of the slide’s areais available to show unique material, while thebalance is consumed by bullets, frames and

branding. The immediate consequence of lowresolution PowerPoint slides is that the writtenlanguage of the slides is often clipped and there-fore subject to misinterpretation. Interestingly,Tufte observes that the bullet point phraseologyfound in many PowerPoint slides has a strange-ly Orwellian ring. Slogans such as, “Freedom isSlavery” and “Four Legs Good, Two Legs …”—now, how exactly did that phrase go?—couldhave been lifted directly from a typicalPowerPoint presentation.

Ultimately, Tufte recommends replacingPowerPoint with word-processing software—publication quality tools able to handle mathe-matical notation—to generate information richhigh-resolution paper handouts. “This tooldesign should be driven by the necessities ofevidence display, not pitching.”

6. Beyond the PipelineYou’ll want to keep the end result in mindbefore attempting to break-out of the traditionalPowerPoint “pipeline” and establish more effec-tive communication with others. And modernworkplace conventions must obviously be con-sidered as well.

For example, there may be little need to innovate when undertakingrote delivery of a speech or anaddress. The “stand-and-deliver” approach workedwell enough for 17th centuryhighwaymen or on the stageof the MetropolitanOpera, but in theseinstances the respec-tive roles (and deliv-ery expectations)were usually pre-cast and fairly rigid.And in the later case,the paying audience

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Preparing a technical document (in sentence-paragraphform) to supportyour slides can helpby providing contextand a more thorough expositionof your ideas.

really did want to hear all of the notes in Di quel-la pira sung just so—and in the right order too.

Yet a typical actuarial presentation’s messageoften consists of a proposal or situation reportbased on involved quantitative analysis, withloads of supporting data—particularly whenoperating in the stochastic end of the forest.Hence some degree of presentation flexibilitymay be wise, as not every question can beturned aside (nor should they) with the stan-dard “Let me get back to you” reply.Responding to substantive comments (time per-mitting) as they are raised rather than deferringthem to the end of your presentation may helpbuild a constructive context-specific dialoguewith your audience. At the very least it mighthelp demonstrate that your presentation’stimetable (“Gotta get through another 17 slidesin the next 10 minutes!”) is not more importantto you than your audience’s concerns.

Preparing a technical document (in sentence-paragraph form) to support your slides can help by providing context and a more thoroughexposition of your ideas. This document can be distributed either before or after your presentation depending on your need for a con-cluding “reveal.” And opting to use overheadprojector transparencies that can be annotatedwith a marker—or even good old flip-charts—may give you the real-time flexibility to tailoryour message.

While it may be possible to arrive at some senseof your audience’s needs and expectations, it’snearly impossible to know them as well as theyknow themselves. So concentrate on knowingyour story and its supporting materials—insideand out—so that you can respond and adapt asyour presentation unfolds. After all it’s the pres-entation between your ears that counts, not thethick stack of slides on your laptop’s hard-drive.

7. Suggested ReadingsFederman, Mark and Derrick de Kerckhove.

McLuhan for Managers: New Tools for NewThinking. Toronto, Ontario: Viking Canada,2003.

Norvig, Peter. “Gettysburg Cemetery Dedica-tion” PowerPoint presentation.www.norvig.com. Visited May 2007.

Parker, Ian. “Absolute PowerPoint: Can a software package edit our thoughts?” TheNew Yorker, May 28, 2001 (pages 76-87).

Return to Flight Task Group. Final Report, July2005. http://returntoflight.org/assets/pdf/final_rtftg_report/RTF_TG_Final_Report_Lo-Res.pdf.Visited May 2007.

Shaw, Gordon, Robert Brown and PhilipBromiley. “Strategic Stories: How 3M isRewriting Business Planning.” HarvardBusiness Review, May-June 1998.

Tufte, Edward. The Cognitive Style of Power-Point:Pitching Out Corrupts Within. Cheshire,Connecticut: Graphics Press LLC, secondedition, January 2006.

Weismen, Steven R. “Powell Calls His U.N.Speech a Lasting Blot on His Record.” TheNew York Times, September 9, 2005. qq

Frank Grossman, FSA,

FCIA, is a recovered

PowerPoint presentation

attendee and is feeling

much better in Toronto,

Ontario. He can be

reached at

[email protected].

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Effective Communication Despite PowerPoint • from page 15

“Wow, you flubbed it Fred!”The Art of Giving Constructive Criticismby Maureen Wild

Sooner or later in our professional lives, we dis-cover ourselves in a corner office waiting todeliver a workplace review. Our workplace“report cards” often give others great advice,and the process does not have to be disagree-able. When the “coaching” is honestly meant toimprove performance and success, the changesand growth an evaluee experiences can be a bitlike getting the “most improved player” awardfrom the NFL .

Ah, but here’s the problem. Not every supervi-sor is a candidate for the diplomatic corps. Oftenemployees are recipients of vague, judgmental,caustic or non-specific “suggestions” for impro-vement. When this kind of dialogue occurs, it’s anet loss for both employee and management.

Productive feedback has several importantcharacteristics. It must be descriptive and free ofjudgment. It must address modifiable behav-ior—not unchangeable traits. It must deal withspecifics, not broad-spectrum objectives. Finally,as in nearly everything in life, the feedbackshould be well-timed.

The goal of feedback is to have people reachtheir full potential AT WORK. It is wildly inap-propriate to offer advice about an employee’spersonal life unless some aspect of that behavior isaffecting job performance. Managers: your evalu-ation of another party should be descriptive butnot judgmental. Choose examples of concretesituations that are impairing job performance.In the same vein, your coaching must focus onmodifiable, not unchangeable behavior. Youmust never suggest or insinuate that a personwould be more effective if she/he were taller,ethnic, not ethnic, younger, older, slimmer etc.Not only is this frustrating and insulting to youraudience but, depending on what you say, yourremarks could be illegal and cause you unthink-

able consequences. A tall person cannot shrinkand, therefore, may not be qualified to be a jock-ey in the Trifecta, but in most professions, heightis irrelevant and thus, a moot point.

Increasingly, workplaces are moving towardcross functional teams, more departmental inter-action and, generally, more group input anddecision making. Thus, contributing suggestionsand insights for improvement actually canenhance your value to the company thatemploys you—if—and this is a big if— you aretactful and wise with your constructive criticism.

Choose the right environment to make yoursuggestions. Don’t coach someone in front of anaudience. Most people would construe this asbeing scolded in front of a group. Since mostpeople respond to criticism with defensivenessor belligerence, seek a private place to haveyour conversation. If you are coaching a team ofpeople, pull that small group aside and talk tothem privately as well.

Here are some are some general guidelines foroffering a workplace evaluation:1. Ask—“Is this a good time

to chat?” or make a formalappointment.

2. Keep your topic workingand task oriented, even ifthe other partytries to personal-ize it.

3. Explain how aparticular prob-lem or situationaffects work flow.

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4. Invite the other person’s perceptions with,“… how do you see this situation?”

5. Watch body language. Appear relaxed andapproachable.

6. Don’t pile on—focus on one performancearea at a time.

7. Stay on target: don’t go off on a tangent.Stay in control of the session.

8. Speak slowly and deliberately to avoid ver-bal miscommunication.

9. Supply a written report of your remarks sothat you have proof of what you have said.

10. Put a positive spin on your remarks—“Howcan we improve …?”

Unless you are supervising a dream team, deliv-ering evaluations can be challenging anduncomfortable, but, with a little forethoughtand finesse, this part of your job does not haveto make you reach for the Rolaids. Remember tobalance the bad with the good, inject some pos-itive acknowledgement and try to be as tactfuland impassive as possible. qq

Maureen Wild is a certified etiquette and ethicstrainer with credentials from The Protocol School ofWashington and The Josephson Institute of Ethics.She has led seminars for many Fortune 500 compa-nies and prominent colleges and universities. Wildhas also been active in Meeting ProfessionalsInternational and is a member of the NationalSpeakers Association. She has been quoted in TheNew York Times Sunday business section “O,”the Oprah magazine and Self Magazine andAmerican Baby Magazine. She is certified by theState of New Jersey to mentor small business own-ers. Maureen has been interviewed on matters ofethics and etiquette for national television and radioprograms. You may reach her at: [email protected] or 908.625.8563.

Maureen Wild is the

president of High Road

Solutions. She is a

certified etiquette and

ethics trainer with

credentials from The

Protocol School of

Washington and The

Josephson Institute of

Ethics. She has led

seminars for many

Fortune 500 companies

and prominent colleges

and universities. She may

be reached at Maureen@

highroadsolutions.com

or 908.625.8563.

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“Wow, you flubbed it ...” • from page 17

Most actuaries have a few preconceived notionsabout the other side. No, I am not talking aboutthe afterlife. What I mean is that if you are a con-sulting actuary, you likely have an impressionabout the insurance actuaries. Thoughts thatmay come to mind include: introverted, programmers, tacticians, academics andresearchers. If you are an insurance actuary, youlikely have prejudices about the consulting actu-aries as well: extroverted, highly paid, over-worked, strategic and savvy. If you haveworked in both environments, you likely recog-nize that neither impression is true; a variety ofpersonalities exist in both environments and thework content is just as technical and just asstrategic in both markets.

What is actually more important to an actuary’scareer development is the corporate culture in which they are raised, and later, the culturethat one fosters when one leads. Corporate cul-ture varies widely within both insurance andconsulting firms, and even offices within a particular insurer or consulting firm can varydrastically. In terms of career development, afew uncorrected cultural missteps will ultimate-ly hamper your personal development, and leftunabated could damage opportunities for therest of us too.

Let me share with you a couple of examplesregarding one important cultural aspect: anactuary’s attitude toward new work. A few daysago, I was talking with a fellow actuary abouthow a common acquaintance liked the move toa new job. My friend made a vague commentthat our friend was getting used to it, and thatthere is some good and some bad, just like withany job. Then I asked, how does that companyget by with so few actuaries? Easy, the answerwas that when sales or marketing asks for some-thing new, the answer is no. Sound familiar?Not to all of you. Thus, example two …

In consulting, the people who ask you to workon projects are the same people who ultimately

pay your salary. With the hourly rates that con-sultants charge, added to strapped budgets, itwas very unusual to get a frivolous request.Most projects require actuarial skills and veryspecific, deep knowledge of the topic at hand.

However, from time to time in consulting, aproject that is relatively simple, administrativeand time-consuming comes along. If the bid is accepted, the consultant works happilyknowing that his or her billable hour goalswould be that much easier to meet that year.However, if the magnitude of the project is highenough, someone else within the requestingfirm might ultimately take offense to your pricetag, and the whole relationship quickly disinte-grates—and relationships are so important,particularly in consulting.

My point: whether you are a consultant or aninsurance actuary, take a step back and thinkabout the attitude you and your staff projectwhen it comes to new learning and new proj-ects. Obviously, you need to balance the necessi-ty of the project with your team’s ability to solvethe problem. Also, one needs to think about thecost that accepting the project will have on yourcustomer and your team. However, if you findyourself consistently ready tosay “no” before you have evenheard the request, take notethat this attitude is ultimatelycareer-limiting, both for youand for the entire actuarialcareer. When thatbig project comesaround that youwould love to workon, it is your pastrecord that will putyou on the candidatelist. Take your corpo-rate culture from thehouse of no—or thehouse of yes—to thehouse of perhaps qq

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The House of Perhapsby Kristi Bohn

Kristi Bohn, FSA, MAAA,

works as a director at

Blue Cross Blue Shield of

Minnesota, where she

works in the group

market. She can be

reached at kristimbohn@

yahoo.com.