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    The Velvet RopeThe Velvet Rope

    Packaging Counts: ReviewPackaging Counts: Review

    & Reinforcement& Reinforcement

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    General ObjectiveGeneral Objective

    For people toFor people to

    pay attentionpay attention

    toto

    you!!!you!!!

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    Course OutlineCourse Outline

    Velvet RopeVelvet Rope

    Power DressingPower Dressing

    Making introductionsMaking introductions Body LanguageBody Language

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    Why the Velvet Rope?Why the Velvet Rope?

    First impressions last!

    You dont have a second chance!

    erything begins and ends with you!

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    Brand: YOUBrand: YOU

    Personality is.Personality is.total you.

    Personality is communication

    Areas that Project Personality:

    1. Physical Attributes

    a. Skin care, hygiene and make-up

    b. Hand Gesture

    c. Power Dressing

    2. Speech and Communication

    3. Social and Business Etiquette

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    Clean Up Your Act!Clean Up Your Act!

    When you are to manage my finances, I wantWhen you are to manage my finances, I want

    you to be clean!!!you to be clean!!!

    Look the part that you can handle 10 million andLook the part that you can handle 10 million and

    more!!!more!!!

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    Power DressingPower Dressing refers to a style of clothing and hairrefers to a style of clothing and hair

    intended to make wearers seem authoritative andintended to make wearers seem authoritative and

    competent, especially in professional settings incompetent, especially in professional settings in

    business, law and government.business, law and government.

    Power DressingPower Dressing

    Create the fashion, dontCreate the fashion, dont

    wear the fashionwear the fashion

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    Power SuitPower Suit

    Power DressingPower Dressing

    1. For Women

    3 Basic Clothing Style

    1. Skirt Suit

    2. Blazer or unstructured jacket

    3. One or Two piece dress

    2. For Men

    1. 2 Piece Suit

    2. Ties preferably the windsor knot

    3. Leather belt please

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    AccessoriesAccessories

    Power DressingPower Dressing

    3 piece or 7 piece rule

    Dont mix metals

    Hosiery / Nylons: No dark stockings with light shoes

    Shoes Leather pumps

    No no, white shoes!

    Avoid sandals, makes you look informal

    Bags / Briefcase Should match clothes

    No designer label please

    http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.jabotsboutique.com/shoes6.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.jabotsboutique.com/lshoes.html&h=445&w=600&sz=73&hl=en&start=100&tbnid=ssfHpsxDhRQ9NM:&tbnh=100&tbnw=135&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dshoes%26start%3D80%26gbv%3D2%26ndsp%3D20%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN
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    Making IntroductionsMaking Introductions

    Introducing yourselfIntroducing yourself

    Plan and practice a self-introduction that isPlan and practice a self-introduction that is

    clear, interesting, positive and direct.clear, interesting, positive and direct.

    - name- name

    - position- position

    - dont stay with you- dont stay with you

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    Making IntroductionsMaking Introductions

    HandshakesHandshakes

    How to introduce?How to introduce?

    Things to Remember when introducing:Things to Remember when introducing:1. Age1. Age

    2. Sex2. Sex

    3. Rank3. Rank

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    Stand Out, Sit up!Stand Out, Sit up!

    Standing UpStanding Up

    Stand tallStand tall

    Respect territorial imperativeRespect territorial imperative For women, sit in SFor women, sit in S

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    Body LanguageBody Language

    Components of Communication:Components of Communication:

    Content 7%Content 7%

    Tone of Voice 38%Tone of Voice 38%Body Language 55%Body Language 55%

    General Negative Signs:General Negative Signs:

    FidgetyFidgetyarms acrossedarms acrossed

    little of no eye contactlittle of no eye contact

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    Personal grooming and style arePersonal grooming and style are

    your calling card wherever youyour calling card wherever you

    go.go.