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Those privileged...who crave to worship 'Work',

strive to acquire Extraordinary Skillsand get obsessed to

Excel in every endeavourthroughout Life!

Scientist, Professor, acclaimed Brain-Power and Life Skills Trainerand creator of 15 Limca & World Records

Dr J.N. Reddy

A Ready Reckoner for 101 invaluable Life Skills!

"Very few succeed by nature.Everyone can excel by nurture!"

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LIFE SKILLS TO EXCEL IN LIFE!

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… To You, My Dear Readers!

his is not another book on self-development. It is anexclusive resource book on Life Skills devised from about20 years of research on several thousands of people of allprofessions.

Undoubtedly, to become an achiever, one needs topossess the ‘WILL’! Thousands of books are written tomotivate people to aspire with ‘WILL’. But unfortunately,‘will’ alone will not be able to make anyone an achieverwithout the know-how to pursue it. And that is, the SKILL!Very few are blessed with these skills as inborn abilities.However, in my experience as a trainer and counsellor forseveral thousands of people of all professions, I had beenable to help them acquire extraordinary skills and excelin their endeavours. Even an ordinary person couldbecome extraordinary through these unique life skills.

Fortunately, all these skills are very practical, simpleand down-to-earth. At the same time, every skill isscientific and very effective. Whether you areoutstanding or mediocre, when you use these skills, you

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will be able to execute your work more effectively, moreso, effortlessly.

When you read it, you will find every page in this bookinvaluable. Overall, the book consists of 101 wonderfullife skills. I have made sure to present every aspect andskill in simple English so that all readers can grasp theconcepts easily. While reading the book, you will surelyfeel as though I am directly talking to you. Further, forbetter registration of the message, often I have presentednumbers in figures rather than in words.

In life, the more we wish to penetrate to be anachiever, the greater the problems we face. But, ‘the bestway to escape from a problem, is to solve it.’And, a progress-minded person converts the problem intoa challenge and plunges to prove his mettle. That is whythis book should be in your possession for your lifetime,to seek timely guidance.

I am sure, this book makes a turnaround in your lifegiving a cutting edge to resurge into a wonderful beingand stand a testimony to others.

Go ahead … and reach great heights!

- Dr J.N. Reddy(Director, MAX Academy, CHENNAI - 600 094

Ph : +91 44 - 2361 1422 / 1432 & +91 99402 52277E-mail : [email protected]; www.maxacademy.org)

6 ... To You, My Dear Readers!

Contents

1. How to Excel in Life! 13 How to Excel in Life Effortlessly? What Life Skills this Book Deals with?

2. Set Your Goal 19 Symptoms of Lack of Clarity of Goal How to Set a Goal! Why Many People are not Focussed! How to Focus Yourself towards the Goal! What Happens When You are Focussed! Never Aim to be the Best! Aim to be Your Best! Common Goal Fate and Destiny

3. Programming the Mind 31 Conscious and Subconscious Mind Programming the Subconscious Auto-suggestions Self-hypnosis Auto-commands Negative Programming The Power of Negative Thinking!

4. Work Effectiveness 43 Breathing is Everything! States of Mind Why a Person Loses Concentration? Concentration Techniques

Alpha Breathing Meditation Goal and its Clarity Visualization Breath Observation Overwriting on Zigzag Curves Dual-activity Technique Cyclic Methods Self-hypnosis

5. Instant Energy Techniques 63 Water Technique Body Yawning Instant Body Yawning Ear Stretching Technique Blinking Technique Balloon Technique Acupressure Technique Train Technique Energy Breathing Technique Cosmic Energy Technique Feeling

6. Early to Rise and Early to Sleep 73 How to Wake up Early in the Morning! Tuning of Mind (The Clock Technique) Activation of Body Activation of Brain How to fall Asleep Fast! Sleep-fast Technique Sleep Requirements Yogic Methods Soonya Dhyāna Yoga Nidra

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7. Brain Activation 85 Functions of the Brain Creative Work How to Activate the Brain! Breathing Controls Brain Function! How to Shift the Breathing Pattern? How to Release Stuffy Nose Block? Brain Activation During Exam Preparation

and Presentation

8. Memory Techniques 93 Natural Memory Technique (Rote Memory) Memory Mnemonics How to Use Mnemonics! How to Remember Names and Faces! How to Remember Names and Places! How to Overcome Absentmindedness Memory Scanning Memory Imaging Memory Diagrams Long-term Memory Technique PracticalDifficulty

9. Effective Communication Skills 113 Tools for Effective Communication Public Speaking Stage-fear Removal How to Overcome Feeble Voice! How to Prepare for a Speech! How to Practise Public Speaking! How to Improve Public Speaking Abilities! The Secret of Becoming a Good Speaker Non-verbal Communication Summary of How to Excel in Public Speaking

Contents 9

10. Sound Health 135 Proper Breathing (Pranayama) Yoga Swasa (Yogic Breathing) Yogasanas Exercises Sound Sleep Meditation Recreation Satvik Foods (Positive Foods) Negative Foods Fruits and Juices Why Nature's Foods? General Health Tips How to Overcome Acidity How to Prevent Frequent Cold and Cough Clean Habits Super Indicators of Sound Health How to Check Your Fitness?

11. Stress Management 153 Types of Stress Causes of Stress Body Stress Release Mental Stress Release Smile and Laugh Vishwa Dhyana

12. Time Management 161 Punctuality How to Manage Your Daily Engagements! Goal Planning How to Plan Delegation Breakthroughs How to Get 48 Hours a Day! How to Get Leisure Time! Traits of an Effective Time Manager

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13. Financial Management 175 How to Become Financially Sound! Installment Purchase Credit Cards Compulsory Savings Postpone the Purchases Creating Assets Service Activities

14. Love and Harmony 181 Giving Pardon Ego Shift in Communication Smile and Laugh Appreciate Arguments

15. Temptations 189 Physical Control Technique Psychological Control Technique Create Positive Anchors

16. ZEN Techniques 197 Walking on Muddy and Murky Roads Toiletries Technique Rope Walking Sorting Method Writing on Alternate Lines

17. Down-to-Earth Techniques 203 Jealousy Impatience Superiority Complex or Ego Anger

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Short Temper Inferiority Complex Overcoming Laziness Procrastination Arrogance and Aggressiveness Finding Faults Assertiveness Smoking Drinking Biting Nails Overeating Self-control Technique to Overcome Habits Slant Writing Feeble Voice Loud Voice How to Overcome Slang! Dominating Character Perfectionism Being Very Sensitive How to Overcome Depression! How to Forget Unwanted Incidents! How to Look Enchanting and Brighter!

18. Patriotism 249

19. Celebrate 255

Ready Reckoner 259

Index 277

Other works of Dr J.N. Reddy 281

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Chapter 1

God lives in the hearts of thosewho are men and women ofexcellence. Hence, rather thangoing to temple, you becometemple to God by patronizingexcellence!

__ Ancient Indian Scripture

Asking "why?" is science,"Why not?" is research!

__ Dr J.N. Reddy

Z Why Most People Failto Excel!

Z How to Excel Effortlessly!

Z WILL

Z SKILL

Z What Life Skills this BookGives?

How to Excel in Life!

Excellence in life is an art. He who excels knows theart of living. He enjoys his life while pursuing his goalsand facing challenges. Every moment, he not only knowswhat to do, but also knows how to do!

But unfortunately, majority of the people slog and toilfor 15-16 hours a day in pursuit of their goals, but stillfail to accomplish them, not knowing the know-how. Theymay be very passionate at their goals and work hard, butthe society rates them 'mediocre' based on theirachievements.

This is where books on self-development andself-empowerment become less effective. No doubt, theycan motivate even a lazy and aimless person to crave toachieve something remarkable in life. But then, the nextcrucial step ___ 'how?' is left to his fate. Hence, notknowing the right direction, he often pursues difficult andimpractical paths and ends up dejected and depressedleading to the withdrawal from the very process. We aresurrounded by such people innumerably.

How to Excel in Life Effortlessly?Here is the secret of making it to the top effortlessly. Itsaves a lot of time and energy too. And, that is the one andonly wonderful way to work – working with SKILLS! Veryoften, what seems to be almost impossible for years canbe made just possible in a day!

Life Skills To Excel In Life

Publisher : Laxmi Publications ISBN : 9789351382652 Author : Dr JN Reddy

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