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Page 1: v 7 hgnIÄ Xp½ð amdm³ CHILDREN & SOCIAL SKILLS · 2011-06-25 · cm_mZnepsams¡bmhpt¼mÄ \½psS \mS³ cpNnbpÅ Blmcw e`n¡nñ. Hcp semt¡ j\nepw F\n¡v {]tXyIw Blmcw thWsaóv

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Medical Trust Hospital, Kochi.

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Dr. M.Vijayalakshmi,

MD(Peds.),MD(USA),FAAPAll For Kids Pediatric Centre,

Thripunithura. Kochi.

Dr. Paul Therly Ph.DClinical Psychologist, Hamilton, New zeland.

Dr. Mary Joseph, Ph.D, Rajagiri College of Social Science, Kochi

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]nóoSmWXv kw`hn¨Xv! Rm³ asämcp _p¡v hm§n¨p hmbn¡m³ XpS§n!! Htóm ctïm IrXnIÄ Fsó t_md

Sn¸ns¨¦nepw hmb\ \nÀ¯p

hm³ F\n¡v Ignªnñ.

Hcp]mSp ]pkvXI§Ä hmbn¨ Iq«¯nð Fsó Icbn¸n¨

cïv ]pkvXI§fpïv. JmðUv

tlmÊn\nbpsS F Xukïv kvs¹³UnUv k¬kv' "PnbMv tdmMv'sâ "thmÄ^v tSm«w' þHcp]mSv Nn´n¸n¡pIbpw HSphnsesó Icbn¸n¡pIbpw sNbvX IrXnIÄþ adnbw Fsóm

cp kv{XobpsSbpw ssee Fsóm

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ó Xukïv kvs¹³UnUv k¬kv Fsó hñmsX kv]Àin

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`mh\bnð Iïp. bYmÀ°¯n

ð Rm\hfpsS IqsS kôcn

¡pIbmbncpóp. HSphnð AhÄ acn¡pt¼mÄ F\n¡Xv Xm§m

\mhpóXn\pw A¸pdambncpóp. Rm³ s]m«n¡cªpt]mbn.

XpSÀóp hó cïp Znhk§Ä F\n¡v B ]pkvXIw hmbn¡Wsaóp tXmón

bnñ. F\ns¡mcn¡epw Hcp kn

\naIïv C§s\mcp A\p`hw Dïmbn«nñ. "PnbMv tdm¬Pn'sâ thmÄ^v tSm«w AXv At±l¯n

sâ PohnX¯nð \nsómtcSmWv. sN³ sk³ Fó bphmhnt\bpw awtKmfnbbnse sNómbv

¡sfbpw Ipdn¨pÅ B ]pkvX

Iw, Fsó AXnibn¸n¨p. \mb

I³ FSp¯p hfÀ¯pó B sNómbv¡p«nsb, B \mbI IYm]m{Xt¯¡mÄ Rm³ kvt\

ln¨XpsImïmbncn¡mw AXn

sâ thÀ]mSv Fsó Hcp]mSv thZ\n¸n¨Xv.

F\n¡v {]nbs¸«sXóp ]dbm³ C\nbpw Hcp]mSv IrXn

Ifpïv. "_joÀ IYIÄ' "ssIäv d®À', "]mYv Hm^v t¥mdn' XpS§n \nch[n. AXnð \nópw Hcn¡epw ad¡m³ Ignbm¯ aqóv ]pkvXI§sf¡pdn¨v FgpXnsbóp am{Xw. \ñ Fgp¯pImsc Adnbm\pw

]pXnb ]pXnb IYm]m{X

§sf ]cnNbs¸Sm\pw km[n¨

Xnð F\ns¡mcp]mSp kt´mj

apïv. Rm\nt¸mgpw hmbn¨psIm

tïbncn¡póp. ]pXnb {]]ô§fnte¡v IYm]m{X§fn

eqsS kôcn¨v, ]pXnb Nn´I

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1. Ip«nIfpsS kmaqlnI IgnhpIÄ2. IpkrXn¡p«nIÄ3. kmaqly hncp² s] cpamäw4. \mWw IpWp§n ]cnlmcamÀ¤§Ä

smart parentingsmart parentingKÌv FUnäÀ

Retheesh Babu GScientist / Research Officer

Social & Behavioural Research UnitIndian Council of Medical Research

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Cós¯ Ip«nIÄ \msfs¯ ]ucòmcmWv. kmaqlnI t_m[

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Ip«nIfpsS kmaqlnI IgnhpIÄ

A]cÀ¡v sImSp¡m\pw, Ahcnð \nóv hm§m\pw, Hcp Soambn {]hÀ¯n¡m\pw km[n¡pt¼mgmWv Hcph³ \ñ kmaqlyPohnbmbn amdpóXv. CXn\pÅ IgnhpIsf Social skills AYhm kaqlPohnX¯n\pÅ

kaqlPohnX¯n

\pÅ IgnhpIÄ

Ip«nIfnð F§s\

hfÀ¯nsbSp¡mw

a\pjy³ Hcp kmaqlyPohn

bmWv. AXn\mð Hmtcm hyànbpw kaql¯nð Pohnt¡ïXv F§s\sbóv ]Tn¨ncn¡Ww. aäpÅhtcmSv CS]gIm\pw, kulrZw Øm]n¡m

\pw, ImcpWyw ImWn¡m\pw,

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Ip«nIfpsS kmaqlnI IgnhpIÄ

IgnhpIÄ Fóp hnfn¡póp.

AXn\mð imcocnI am\knI hfÀ¨IÄ t]mse¯só {][m\

amWv Ip«nIfpsS kmaqlnI hfÀ¨bpw. \n§fpsS a¡Ä aäp

Åhcpambn CS]gIm\pw Bi

bhn\nabw \S¯phm\pw

IgnhpÅhcmbncn¡Ww. \njv{In

bXz¯nð \nóv kmaqlnI Pohn

bnte¡pÅ \n§fpsS Ip«nbpsS hfÀ¨ Fópw IuXpIIcamb ImgvN XsóbmWv.

kmaqlnI IgnhpIÄ Ip«nIfn

ð hfÀ¯nsbSp¡pI FóXv

A²ym]IcpsSbpw c£nXm¡fp

sSbpw {][m\ NpaXebmWv. hfÀ¨bpsS Bcw`Imew sXm«v

Xsó Ip«nIÄ hnhn[ kaql§

fpsS `mKambncn¡pw. IpSpw_w,

Abð¸¡w, hnZymeb§Ä, kapZmbw, kwLS\IÄ Fón§

s\bpÅ kwL§fnseñmw Ip«nIÄ¡v kmaqlnIamb

HuNnXyw {]ISn¸nt¡ïnhcpw.

Hcp hbÊphsc]pôncnsImïpw i_vZ§Ä

sImïpw ASp¯p s]cpamdpó

htcmSv {]XnIcn¡m³ hfsc t\cs¯Xsó Ip«nIÄ ]Tn¡p

óp. ]pdta \nópÅhcnð AhÀ

Xmð]cyw ImWn¡psa¦nepw, aäpÅhcpsS hnImc§sf¡pdn

t¨m, Bhiy§sf¡pdnt¨m Adnhpïmhnñ. F´v Imcy¯n

\pw B{ibnt¡ïnhcpóXp

sImïv, amXm]nXm¡sf X§fp

sS Bhiy\nÀÆlW¯n\pÅ t{kmXÊpIfmbn«mWv Ip«nIÄ ImWpóXv.

X§fpsS Fñm Bhiy§fpw DS³ Xsó \ndthäs¸SpIbnñ Fó kXyw hfÀóp hfcpó

tXmSp IqSn Ip«nIÄ a\knem¡p

óp. `£W¯n\pw aäpw AhÀ¡v

Im¯ncnt¡ïXmbn hcpw. aäp

ÅhcpsS hnImc§sf¡pdn¨pw Bhiy§sf¡pdn¨pw AhÀ t_m[hmòmcmIm³ XpS§póXv A§s\bmWv.

Ip«nIfpsS BZys¯ A²ym]IÀ A¨\½amcmWv. Ahcnð \n

ómWv ssiih¯nð kmaqlnI sshZKv²yw kzmb¯am¡m³ XpS§póXv. aäpÅhsc AwKoI

cn¡póXpw A\ycpsS hnImc§

Ä a\Ênem¡póXpw kaql¯n

ð {]thin¡m\pÅ IgnhpIÄ Ip«nIÄ t\SpóXpw kz´w amXm]nXm¡fpsS coXnIÄ Iïv]Tn¨n«mWv. amXm]nXm¡fp

ambn Dd¨ sshImcnI_Ôw Dïmhpt¼mÄ Ip«nIfnð kpc

£nXXzt_m[w Dïmhpóp. AtXmsS kmaqly_Ô§fpsS hnimeamb temIw ]co£n¡m³ AhÀ X¿mdmIpóp.

sNdp{]mb¯nð Ip«nIÄ¡v e`n¡pó \ncp]m[nI kvt\l

hpw ]cnNcWhpw kmaqlnI sshZKv²y¯nsâ hnImk¯n\v

A\nhmcyamWv. Ip«nIsf tNÀ

¯v ]nSn¡pI, Bizkn¸n¡pI XpS§nb kvt\l{]IS\§Ä Ahcnð A\pIqeamb temI

ho£Ww Dïmhm³ ImcWamIpóp. A§s\ aäpÅ

hcpambn _Ôw Dïm¡póXv X\n¡vXsó sa¨ambncn¡psaóv Ip«n a\knem¡póp.

Ip«nItfmSv kwkmcn¨pw Ifn

¨pw Ip«nIfnse kulrZ`mh

apWÀ¯m³ A¨\½amÀ¡v Ignbpw. AtXmsSm¸w ka{]m

b¡mcmb Ip«nIfpambpw apXnÀ

óhcpambpw CS]gIphm\pÅ

Ahkc§Ä Dïm¡pI hgn Ip«nIfnse kmaqlnI tNX\sb c£nXm¡Ä¡v D±o]n¸n¡m\m

hpw. {]mb¯n\v tbmPn¨ kmaq

lnI sshZKv²yw {]ISam¡pó Ip«nsb t{]mÕmln¸n¡Ww. aqóv hbkv hsc

Cu {]mb¯nemWv Ip«nIÄ kmaqlnI Npäp]mSpIfpambn ]cnNbs¸SpóXpw AhtbmSv {]XnIcn¡m³ XpS§póXpw. aäpÅ Ip«nIfpsS Ifn¸m«§Ä¡v B{Klw tXmópsa¦nepw, kz´w B{Kl¯nsâ ]cn[nIfpw aäp

ÅhcpsS hnImc§fpw a\knem

¡m³ ChÀ XpS§póp. aäpÅ

hcpambn klIcn¨v Ifn¡m\pw

X§fpsS Dug¯n\mbn Im¯v

\nð¡m\pw, tZjy{]IS\¯n\v A\ptbmPyamb amÀ¤§Ä Isï¯m\pw AhÀ ]Tn¡póXv

Cu {]mb¯nemWv. amXm]nXm

¡sfbpw A²ym]Iscbpw aäv Ip«nIsfbpw amXrIbm¡nbmWv Ip«nIÄ Cu IgnhpIÄ t\SpóXv.

Iq«¯nð \nóv amdn Ip«nIÄ Häbv¡v Ifn¡pó kµÀ`§Ä Nnet¸mÄ Dïmhmw. AXv kzm`m

hnIamWv. tU sIbÀ skâdn

tem {]okvIqfntem tNÀ¡p

t¼mÄ Dïmhpó Ic¨nð Ipd

¡m³ AhnsS e`yamb hnt\mZ amÀ¤§fnte¡v Ip«nbpsS {i² Xncn¡pIbmWv thïXv.

aäpÅhcpambn ]¦v shbv¡pI FóXp Ip«nIÄ t\cnSpó asäm

cp shñphnfnbmWv. ASn¡pI, XÅnamäpI XpS§nb amÀ¤§

fneqsS ]¦vshbvt¡ï hkvXp

hn³taepÅ Xsâ AhImiw AhÀ \ne\nÀ¯m³ {ian¡pw. aäpÅhcpsS hnImc§tfm {]iv\§tfm a\knem¡phm\pÅ ]IzX Cu {]mb¯nð AhÀ t\Snbn«pïmhnñ. F¦nepw A¨\

½amscbpw A²ym]Iscbpw kt´mjn¸n¡m\pÅ {ia§Ä Cu {]mb¯nepÅ Ip«nIÄ {]I

Sam¡pw. hm¡pIfpw sNdphmN

I§fpwsImïv X§fpsS Bhiy§Ä efnXambn {]ISn

¸n¡m³ ]äpóXp sImïv Xosc

sNdnb {]mb¯nse ]nSnhmin

IÄ Ipdªncn¡pw.

klIcn¨v Ifn¡phm\pw Ifn

¸m«§Ä ]¦v shbv¡m\pw Cu

{]mb¯nð Ip«nIsf t{]mÕm

ln¸n¡Ww. kz´w Bhiy§

fpw hnImc§fpw {]ISn¸n¡m\pw

t{]mÕml\w sImSp¡Ww.Hcpan

¨mbncn¡pt¼mÄ Iq«¯nse

ASnØm\ \nba§Ä A\p k

cn¡m\pw Ahsc t{]cn¸n¡Ww.

Aôv hbÊphscCu {]mb¯nepÅ Ip«nIÄ¡v

aäpÅhcpambn klI

cn¨v {]hÀ¯n¡phm\pw ASp¯ kulrZ§Ä Øm]n

¡phm\pw Ignbpóp. klIcWt¯msSbpw kmaqlyt_m[t¯msSbpw Ifn¡phm³ AhÀ ]Tn¡póp. Ifn¡pt¼m

Ä Nnet¸mÄ Dugw Im¯v \nðt¡ïnhcpsaópw hn«pho

gvNIÄ sNt¿ïnhcpsaópw AhÀ a\knem¡póp. kz´w AhImi§Ä Dd¸n¨v ]dbm\p

c£nXm¡fpambn Ifn¨v hfcpó Ip«nIÄ hnimeamb kmaqlyt_m[w DÅhcmbn¯ocpw.

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Å hm¡pIÄ AhÀ kzmb¯am¡póp. aäpÅ Ip«nIÄ¡v ]cnt¡ð¡pItbm ZpxJapïmhp

Itbm sN¿pt¼mÄ AhtcmSv A\pI¼tbmsS s]cpamdm³ ]Tn¡póp.

kz´w hnImc§Ä a\knem¡m\pw Ahsb¡pdn¨v IrXyambn Bib{]IS\w \S¯phm\pw AhÀ¡m

hpóp. Cu {]mb¯nð hnhn[ Xc¯nepÅ _豈 Øm]n¡phm\pw kmaqlnI IgnhpIÄ hnIkn¸n¡m\pw IqSpXð Ahkc§Ä AhÀ¡v Bhiyambn hcpóp. kaql¯nsâ s]cpamä \n

ba§Ä AhÀ Adnªncn¡Ww. Hcp ]pXnb kulrZw DïmIpósX§ns\, kwL§fnð tNcpósX§ns\, klmba`yÀ°n¡pó

sX§ns\ F§ns\ XpS§nb Imcy§Ä AhÀ a\knem¡nbncn ¡Ww.

Cu {]mb¯nð kvt\lhpw kulrZhpw hfÀ¯pó ]Zk¼¯v hn]peoIcn¡m³ Ip«nIÄ¡v Bhiyamb t{]mÕml\§Ä c£nXm¡Ä \ðIWw. kmaqlnImhØIsf¡pdn¨v A\pIqeamb hnizmk§Ä Ahcnð hfÀ¯nsbSp¡Ww. {]m

tbmKnIamb kmaqlye£y§Ä kzbw \nÝbn

¡m³ Ahsc ]Tn¸n¡Ww. e£yw t\Sm\mhm

sXhcpt¼mÄ \ncmicmhmsX AXv t\SnsbSp¡m³ sN¿mhpó aäv amÀ¤§Ä BtemNn¨v Isï¯m\p

Å {]m]vXnbpw Ahcnð hfÀ¯Ww.

Ip«nIfpsS Bhiy§fnð ]IpXnbpw ka{]m

b¡mcmð XÅs¸SpóXv ]XnhmWv. Fóncpómepw IfnIfneqsSbpw aäpw kulrZw Øm]n¡m\p

Å IqSpXð amÀ¤§Ä AhÀ tXSpIbmWv ]Xnhv.

{]XnIqeambn Nn´n¡pIbpw Xsâ s]cpamäw kaql¯nð F§ns\bmWv {]Xn^en¡pI Fóv AdnbmXncn¡pIbpw sN¿pó Ip«nIÄ hnj®tcm hg¡Sn¡póhtcm Bbn¯oÀtó¡mw. CXv Ahsc aäv Ip«nIfnð \nóv IqSpXð AIämt\ DXIpÅq.

amXm]nXm¡Ä sNt¿ïXv. Ip«nIfpambn Ifn¡pI

c£nXm¡fpambn Ifn¨v hfcpó Ip«nIÄ hnimeamb kmaqlyt_m[w DÅhcmbn¯ocpw. A\p

Iqe at\m`mht¯msS Ip«nbpsS ka{]mb¡mscó

\nebnemWv amXm]nXm¡Ä Ifn¡pósX¦nð, CXv {]ISambn¯só ImWmw. BËmZw {]ISn¸n¡p

Ibpw Ipäs¸Sp¯epIÄ Hgnhm¡pIbpw Bib§tfmSv A\pIqeambn {]XnIcn¡pIbpw Ifnbnð ka`mth\ \nÀt±i§Ä kzoIcn¡pIbpw sImSp¡pIbpw sN¿pó c£nXm¡fpsS Ip«nIÄ kmaqlyt_m[¯nð Gsd apón«v \nð¡póh cmbncn¡pw.

. aäv Ip«nIfpambn Ifn¡m\pÅ Ahkc§Ä

ka{]mb¡mcpambn Ifn¨v ioeapÅ Ip«nIÄ tU

sIbÀ skâdntem {]okvIqfntem sNñpt¼mÄ AhnSps¯ ØnXnKXnIfpambn s]s«óv s]m

cp¯s¸Spóp. AhnsS DSseSp¡pó _豈 ZoÀLIme kulrZ§fmbn hfcpt¼mÄ AXhÀ¡v IqSpXð t\«amIpóp.

. kmaqly _Ô§fpsS {]m[m\ys¯¡pdn¨v kwkmcn¡pI.

tU sIbÀ skâdntem {]okvIqfntem Ip«nIÄ sNbvX Imcy§sf¡pdn¨v Znhtk\ tNmZn¨dnbpI. CXn\v kabw Isï¯pó c£nXm¡fpsS Ip«nIÄ

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. {]iv\ ]cnlmc coXn

Ahew_n¡pI.

Xm³ t\cnSpó _p²nap«ns\

¡pdn¨v Ip«n ]dbpt¼mÄ c£nXmhv AXv {i²n¨v tIÄ¡

Ww; klXm]]qÀÆw s]cpamd

Ww. Fón«v atä Ip«nbpsS ]£

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¡pIbpw thWw. C§s\ ioen¡pó Ip«nIÄ¡v Iq«pImcp

sSbnSbnð IqSpXð kzoImcyX In«pw. c£nXm¡fpambpÅ Xpdó kw`mjW§fneqsS kz´w hnImc§sf¡pdn¨v IqSpXð DÄ¡mgvNbpw Ip«n¡v e`n¡pw. C§s\ hfcpóh³ aäpÅhÀ¡v {]nbs¸«h\mbn amdpw.

. Xnckv¡cW§Äs¡Xnsc

{InbmßI \ne]mSv

sa¨s¸« kmaqly_ÔapÅ Ip«nIÄ Xnckv¡cW§sf Xmð¡menIambn ImWphm³ ioen¨hcmWv. kz´w s]cpamäw

sa¨s¸Sp¯póXneqsS AXns\ adnIS¡m\mhpsaóv AhÀ¡dnbmw.

. A\mhiy CSs]SepIÄ

Hgnhm¡pI

{]okvIqÄ {]mb¯nepÅ Ip«nIÄ t\cnSpó {]iv\§Ä

¡v AhÀ Xsó ]cnlmcw Isï¯nt¡mfpw. amXm]nXm

¡Ä A\mhiyambn CSs]SmXn

cn¡pIbmWv \ñXv. bYmÀ° kmaqlnI kmlNcy§fnð \n

ópw {]XnkÔnIfnð \nóp

amWv Ip«nIÄ IgnhpIÄ hfÀ¯nsbSpt¡ïXv. c£nXm

¡fpsS A\mhiy CSs]SepIÄ Ip«nbpsS kmaqlnI hfÀ¨sb XSÊs]Sp¯pItb DÅq.

kmaqlnI PohnX¯n\v Bh

iyamb sshZKv²yw Ipªpóm

fnse ]IÀóv sImSp¯v \n§fp

sS Ip«nsb BßhnizmkapÅ hyànbmbn hfcphm³ klmbn

¡pI. AXn\v thï Nne \nÀ

t±i§Ä CXm.

Ip«n¡v CjvSanñm¯hcpsS kmao]yw Hgnhm¡pI

\n§fpsS ssI¿nð \nóv

Bsc¦nepw Ip«nsb FSp¡p

t¼mÄ Ah³ Icbmdptïm? aäpÅhcpambn ]cnNbs¸Spó

Xn\v thïn Ip«nbpsS Ic¨nð

hIsh¡msX c£nXm¡Ä

Ahs\ aäpÅhcpsS ssIII

fnð sImSp¡mdpïv. AXv Hgnhmt¡ï ImcyamWv. Ip«nIfnð Ac£nXmt_m[w Dïm¡phmt\ AXv klmbn

¡q. Ip«nsb kz´w ssIIfnð ]nSn¨psImïv asäbmfpambn ]cnNbapïmb tijw am{Xw Ip«nsb Gð¸n¡póXmWv _p²n.

Icbpt¼mÄ kam[m\n¸n¡pI

Ip«n Icbpt¼mÄ AXns\

FSp¯v kam[m\n¸n¡W

saópw AXñ AXns\ Icªv XoÀ¡m³ A\phZn¡Wsaópw hn`nó A`n{]mb§Ä \nehn

epïv. t]SnsImtïm Dð¡Wv

TsImtïm BImw \n§fpsS

Ip«n IcbpósXóv HmÀ¡pI.

kam[m\n¸nt¡ïXv Bhiyamhpó kµÀ`ambn

cn¡mw AXv. Ip«nA\p`hn¡p

óXv F´msWódnbm³ \n§

Ä¡v Ignbnñ. AXpsImïv AXns\ AW¨v ]nSn¨v

kpc£nXXzt_m[w Dïm¡ns¡mSp¡pI.

aäv Ip«nIsf ]cnNbs¸Sp¯n sImSp¡pI

\n§fpsS Ip«n ka{]mb

¡mcmb aäv Ip«nIÄs¡m¸

ambncn¡pópshóv Dd¸phcp

¯Ww. ka{]mb¡mcpsS IqsSbmhpt¼mÄ Ip«nIÄ¡v kpc£nXXzt_m[w IqSpw. ka{]mb¡mcmb Ip«nIfpsS c£nXm¡sf ho«nte¡v hnfn¨p hcp¯n kmaqlnI kwkÀ¤w t\cs¯ XpS§pI.

Ignbpó{X kwkmcn¡pIIp«ntbmSv Ignbpó{X

kwkmcn¡pI. Ip«nbnð hfsc

sNdp¸¯nð Xsó kwkmc

tijn hfÀ¯m³ CXv klmb

Icamhpw. Nne Ip«nIfnð kwkmc sshIeyw ImWs¸Smw. kmaqlnI CSs]Sens\ _m[n

¡póXn\v ap¼v CXv NnInÕn¨v amäm³ {i²n¡Ww.

Ip«nsb AhKWn¡mXncn¡pI

AXnYnIfpambncn¡pt¼mÄ Ip«nsb AhÀ¡v Npäpw \Sóv Ifn¡m³ A\phZn¡pI. {i² t\Sm³ {ian¡pó Ahkc¯nð Ahs\ AhKWn¡mXncn¡pI. AXnYnIfpambn kwkmcn¡p

t¼mÄ Ip«nsb kz´w aSnbnen

cp¯n ]nóoSv AhKWn¡póXn

epw \ñXv AXnYnIfpambn CS]gIm³ A\phZn¨ tijw Ahs\ apdnbnem¡n Ifn¸m«§fpambn Ifn¡m³ A\phZn¡póXmWv.

IgnhpIÄ hfÀ¯m\pÅ amÀ¤§Ä

c£nXm¡fpambpÅ Xpdó kw`mjW§fneqsS kz´w hnImc§sf¡pdn¨v IqSpXð DÄ¡mgvNbpw Ip«n¡v e`n¡pw

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IpkrXn¡p«nIÄ

Ip«nIfpsS sNbvXnIÄ an¡t¸mgpw \n§fp

sS {i² t\Sphm³ thïnbp

ÅXmbncn¡pw. kz´w kzmX

{´yw t_m[ys¸Sp¯m³ AhÀ

Nnet¸mÄ t_m[]qÀÆw {ia

§Ä \S¯pw. AXns\ A\p

kcWt¡Smbn IcpXcpXv.

Fsâ Ip«n ¾m\hZ\\pw A\p

kcWbnñm¯h\pamWv.

\n§fpsS Ip«n \n§tfmSv kwkmcn¡póXpw IcbpóXpw

\n§sf ASn¡póXpw ieys¸Sp¯pó

Xpsañmw \n§fpsS {i² ]nSn

¨p]äm³ thïnbmWv. {i² \ñcoXnbmbmepw No¯ coXn

bmbmepw {]iv\anñ. \n§Ä A\pIqeambn {]XnIcn¨v Ignªmð Ah³ \n§sf t\m¡n Nncn¡m\pw kulrZw ImWn¡phm\pw XpS§pw.

A\pkcWt¡Smbn tXmóm

sa¦nepw kzmX{´yw {]ISn¸n

¡m³ XpS§pó Ip«nsb \ncp

Õmls¸Sp¯cpXv. \ncpÕm

ls¸Sp¯nbmð ]nóoSXv Ip«n

bnð {]XnIqe \ne]mSpIÄ Dïmhm³ ImcWamhpw. kvt\

l{]IS\¯nsâbpw tZjy{]IS\¯nsâbpw hncp² `mh§Ä Ip«nbnð amdnamdn {]Xy£s¸Spw. hnIrXnbmb Ip«nsb F§ns\bmWv Rm³ ssIImcyw sNt¿ïXv?

icnbpw sXäpw Xncn¨dnbpIbpw Fómð icnam{Xw Xncsª

Sp¯v {]hÀ¯n¡m³ thï ]IzX CñmXncn¡pIbpw sN¿póhcmWv ]et¸mgpw hnIrXnIfmbn amdpóXv. ]nSn

¡s¸«mð AhÀ £am]Ww \S

¯pItbm ]Ým¯]n¡pItbm sN¿pw. Fóncpómepw A[nIw XmaknbmsX Xsó hoïpw B sXäv AtXt]mse AhÀ BhÀ¯n¡póXv ImWmw. Ahsc ssIImcyw sN¿pt¼mÄ \n§Ä¡v \ñ £a thïnhcpw. AhcpsS Imcy§Ä A\p`mh]q

ÀÆw ImWpIbpw Ahcpambn \n

c´cw kwkmcn¡pIbpw sN¿

Ww. AXv ^ew ImWm¯ ]£w

in£m\S]SnIÄ thïnhcpw. imcocnIamb in£IÄ Hgnhm

¡pIbmWv \ñXv. AhcpsS B

\pIqey§Ä sh«n¡pd¨psImïv in£n¡póXmWv \ñXv.

Fsâ Ip«n Rm³ ]dªmð tIÄ¡pónñ

A\pkcWbnñm¯ Ip«nIÄ

A[nImcs¯ a\x]qÀÆw

[n¡cn¡pó kz`mh¡mcmbncn

¡pw. C¯cw Ip«nIÄ \n§fpsS £a¡v ISp¯ ]co£Ww \ð

Ipw. A\pkcWbnñm¯ Ip«nI

Ä sXän\v £am]Ww \S¯pI

tbm ]Ým¯]n¡pItbm sN¿m

dnñ. imcocnIamb in£ icnbm

b ]cnlmcamÀ¤añ. Imcy§Ä

bpàn]qÀÆw a\Ênem¡ns¡m

Sp¯v Ahcnð A\pIqeamb

at\m`mhw Dïm¡nsbSp¡pó

XmWv A`nImayw. Ip«nbpsS \S]SnIÄ aäpÅhÀ¡v A]I

SIcamsWóv a\Ênem¡nsIm

Sp¯v F§ns\ s]cpamdW

saóv D]tZin¡pI. Npcp¡ambn«msW¦nepw \ñ s]cpamäapïmbmð AXns\ t{]m

Õmln¸n¡pI.

Ip«n \mWw IpWp§nbpw `ocphpamsW¦nð

Nne Ip«nIÄ {]IrXybm \m

Ww IpWp§nIfmWv. A[nIw

A\pkcWbnñm¯hcpwhnIrXnIfpamb Ip«nIsf A\p\bn¸n¡m\pÅ kq{XhgnIÄ

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kwkmcn¡msX AhÀ kzbw DÄhenªncn¡mw. thsd NneÀ

ho«nð \nÀ¯msX kwkmcn¡p

óhcmbncn¡pw. ]s£ ]pXnsbm

cp hyànsb ]cnNbs¸«mtem

]pXnsbmcp Npäp]mSnð F¯n

s¸«mtem AhÀ DÄhenbpw. C¯cw Ip«nIsf ]pXnb Npäp]m

SpIfnte¡v \nÀ_Ôn¨v hen¨ngbv¡cpXv. AhÀ¡v ]cn

Nbn¨v hcm\pÅ kabw A\p

hZn¡Ww. Npäp]mSpIfpambn

s]mcp¯s¸« tijw am{Xw AhÀ aäpÅhcpambn CS]gIp

óXv t{]mÕmln¸n¡pI.

Ip«n B{IaW kz`mhw {]ISn¸n¡pt¼mÄ

c£nXm¡fpsS AhKW\tbm AhcpsS A`mhtam AYhm

in£W¯nsâ Xo{hXtbm

Hs¡bmWv Ip«nIÄ B{IaW

kz`mhw ImWn¡póXnsâ ImcW§Ä. C¯cw Ip«nIÄ

ka{]mb¡msc `ojWns¸Sp¯p

óhcmbncn¡pw. X§sf¡mÄ sNdnb Ip«nIsf hm¡v sImïpw {]hÀ¯nsImïpw ChÀ B{Ian

¡pw. Chsc ssIImcyw sN¿m\p

Å Gähpw \ñ hgn C¯cw kz`mhw AwKoIcn¡nñ Fóv

AhÀ¡v a\Ênem¡nsImSp¡p

IbmWv. AhÀ \ñ kz`mhw {]ISn¸n¡pt¼mÄ AXns\ t{]m

Õmln¸n¡pIbpw thWw.

Fsâ Ip«n hnjaw ]nSn¨ kz`mh¡mc\mtWm?

\n§fpw \n§fpsS Ip«nbpw ]ckv]cw a\Ênem¡pónñ FóXmWv kXyw. \n§fpsS Ip«n BZyambn kz´w NndIpIÄ hncn¡m³ {ian¡pIbmWv. Xsâ kzmX{´yw ASnbpd¸n¡pI, \n

§fpsS AwKoImcw ]nSn¨p]äpI Fóo cïv Imcy§Ä Ah³ amdnamdn sNbvXpsImïncn¡pw. kz´w Imcy§Ä sN¿m\pÅ {]m]vXn t\SpóXn\v ap¼v AXv sN¿m³ {ian¡póXv Ip«nbnð CÑm`wKapïm¡pw. \n§fpsS klmbw BhiyamsW¦nð t]mepw AXv kzoIcn¡m³ ]et¸mgpw Ah³ hnk½Xn¡pw. sN¿mhpóXnepw A[nIw sN¿m³ ]pds¸«v hnjan¡pó L«¯nð \n§Ä Aht\mSv

hfsc IcpXtemsS {]XnIcn¡

Ww. kz´w Imenð \nð¡m³

t{]mÕmln¸n¡Ww. AtXmsSm

¸w A\phZn¡s¸Spó kzmX{´y

¯nsâ ]cn[nIfpw Ah\v hyà

am¡n sImSp¡Ww.

aqóc hbÊpÅ hnthIv

HóchbÊpÅ Ipªns¸

§fpsS Ifn¸m«w X«n¸dn¡p

óp. AhÄ hmhn«p Icbpóp. hnthIv Ahnizk\obambn

Ahsf Xpdn¨pt\m¡póp. AhÄ F´n\mWv IcbpósX

óv Ah\v a\ÊnemIpóXpt]m

epanñ. Ah\v Ifn¸m«w thW

ambncpóp; Ah\Xv ssI¡em

¡nþ A{Xam{Xw. AXn\n{X _lfw hbv¡m\ptïm? Ah³ Ifn¸m«w X«n¸dn¨Xv Ahsf k¦Ss¸Sp¯nsbóv a\Ênem¡m³ hnthIn\v Ignbpónñ.

hnthInsâ s]cpamä¯nð ]e amXm]nXm¡fpw tIm]ns¨

óncn¡pw. Fómð hnthIv {]m

b¯n\\pkcn¨pÅ kzm`mhnI s]cpamäamWv {]ISn¸n¨Xv. kzÀ°XbpsS {]mbamWv {]o

kvIqÄ Imew. icnbpw sXäpw Cu {]mb¯nð Xncn¨dnbm³ km[n¡nñ. Fóncn¡epw ]¦p

hbv¡ensâbpw klIcW¯n

sâbpw hn«phogvNbpsSbpw kz`mhcoXnIÄ Ip«nIfnð hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m\pÅ Nne Ipdp¡phgnIfpïv.

* kz´w Ifn¸m«w asämcp Ip«n FSp¯t¸mgpïmb hnImcw ]¦phbv¡m³ Ip«n

tbmSv ]dbpI. Ah\v k¦Sw htóm? AtXm Acniw htóm?

kzmÀ°\mb Ip«n

* Ahsâ s]cpamäw kz´w s]§sf thZ\n¸n¨Xpw Acnis¸Sp¯nbXpw Ah\v hniZoIcn¨v sImSp¡pI.

* Ahsâ s]cpamäw \n§sf F§s\ _m[n¡pópshóv Ah\v hniZoIcn¨p

sImSp¡Ww. DZmlcW¯n\v \n§fpsSIp«n¡v Acniw hcpt¼mÄ Ah³ \n§sf CSn¡pópshóncn¡s«. Aht\mSv ]dbpI; Ah³ CSn¡pt¼mÄ \n§Ä¡v thZ\n¡pópsïóv. C\n CSn¡m³ ]mSnsñópw ]Icw Acniw hcpt¼mÄ AXv Xpdóp ]dbWsaópw ]Tn¸n

¡pI: ""UmUo F\n¡v Acniw hcpóp''. At¸mÄ AXv ]cnlcn¡m³ {ian¡msaópw Ah\v Dd¸p sImSp¡pI.

* apIfnð ]dª DZmlcW

¯nð hnthInt\mSpw aRvPp

hnt\mSpw AhcpsS hnjas¯

¡pdn¨v kwkmcn¡pI. Fón«v cïpt]scbpw Hcpan¨p Ifn¡m³ hnfn¡pI: ""hnthIv \ap¡v Ifn¡m³ t]mImw. aRvPphpw hm''. \n§Ä cïpt]tcmSpw H¸w Ifn¡pI. AXneqsS F§s\bmWv {]iv\§Ä ]cnlcnt¡

ïsXó ]mTw IqSnbmWv \n

§Ä Ip«nIfnte¡v ]IcpóXv.

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kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäsaómð F´mWv?

Hcp {]tXyI kmlNcy¯nð A`nImayañm¯ {]hr¯nbm

Wv kmaqly hncp² s]cpamäw.

DZmlcW¯n\v Hcp ¢mÊv dqanð D¨¯nð IqhpótXm, NmSpótXm \ñ s]cpamäcoXn

bñ. AXns\ kmaqlyhncp²w Fóv hnfn¡mw. Fómð Hcp ^pSvt_mÄ aÕc¯n\nsS Bthi¯nð H¨sh¡póXpw XpÅn¨mSpóXpw kmaqlyhncp

²añ. AXpsImïv Npäp]mSpI

fmWv s]cpamäs¯ kzoImcy

am¡póXpw AñmXm¡póXpw.

F§ns\bmWv Ip«nbnð kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäw cq]saSp¡póXv?

^ew In«pó {]XnIcWw Fó \nebv¡mWv Ip«nIfnð kmaqlyhncp²amb s]cpamäw hfcpóXv. IrXyamb amÀ¤\nÀ

t±i¯nsâ A`mh¯nð sXämb s]cpamä coXnIÄ Nnet¸mÄ ^ew sN¿póXmbn Ip«nIÄ¡v tXmómw. DZmlcW¯n\v, ¢mkv

sSÌv FgpXpóXns\ `b¡pó Ip«n ASp¯ncn¡pó s]¬Ip«n

bpsS XeapSn ]nSn¨v hen¨p Fóv hcmw. XeapSn hen¡pI hgn {]n³kn¸mensâ apónð lmPcm¡s¸Spó Ip«n sSÌv Hgnhm¡pI Fó e£yw t\SnsbSp¡póp. Npäp]mSpItfmSv X\n¡v icnsbó coXnbnemWv Ip«n {]XnIcn¡póXv. F¦nepw AXv kaqlcoXnIÄ¡v hncp²amWv. C¡mcyw Ip«nsb ]Tn¸n¨p sImSp¡Ww.

kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamähpw am\knI tcmKhpw X½nepÅ hyXymkw?

]et¸mgpw s]cpamäw HópXsóbmbncn¡mw. s]cpamä

¯nsâ ]ndInepÅ ImcWamWv kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäs¯ am\knI tcmK¯nð \nópw hyXykvXam¡póXv. am\knI

tcmKw a\knsâbpw Xet¨mdn

sâbpw {]hÀ¯\ sshIeyw aqeapïmIpóXmWv. AsXmcp

sshZyimkv{X {]iv\amWv.

AXv ]cnlcn¡m³ Hcp

tUmIvSdpsStbm,

a\-xÈmkv{XÚsâtbm klmbw BhiyamWv.

Fómð kmaqly hncp² {]h

À¯\w cq]s¸SpóXv Hcp {]tXy

I kmaqly kmlNcyt¯mSv Ip«n {]XnIcn¡pt¼mgmWv. AXv Ahkm\n¸n¡m\pw ]cnlcn

¡m\pw amXm]nXm¡Ä¡pw A²ym]IÀ¡pw Ignbpw.

kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamä¯nð \nóv Fsâ Ip«n tamNnX\mhptam?

\n§fpsS Ip«n¡v kmaqlyhn

cp² s]cpamä¯nð \nóv tamNnX\mIm³ ]äpw. ]s£ AXn\v ]cklmbw thWw. c£nXmhv Fó \nebv¡v \n§

fpsS D¯chmZnXzw hcpóXv A§ns\bmWv. \n§fpsS Ip«n

icnbñm¯ {]hr¯nbnð GÀ

s¸SpItbm Fs´¦nepw Imcyw Hgnhm¡póXmbn tXmópItbm sNbvXmð \n§Ä CSs]SWw.

B s]cpamä¯n\v ImcWamhpó Npäp]mSpIsf {InbmßIambn t\cnSm\pÅ ]cnioe\w \ðI

Ww. AXns\mcp ]²Xn X¿mdm

¡Ww. X\nsb AXn\v km[n

¡pónsñ¦nð ¢mkv So¨dptS

sbm kvIqÄ Iu¬knedptSsbm klmbw tXSmw.

kmaqlyhncp²ambn s]cpamdpó Ip«nsb \óm¡m³ GXv L«¯nemWv hnZKvZ klmbw tXtSïXv?

\n§fpsS Ip«nbnð kmaqly

hncp² sNbvXnIÄ Iïv XpS§nbmð Xncp¯m³ \n§Ä

Xsó ]cn{ian¡Ww. hnPbn¡p

ónsñ¦nð ]nóoSv ¢mkv So¨sd

bpw kvIqÄ Iu¬knesdbpw Iïv Imcyw NÀ¨ sN¿pI. Fón«pw Imcyamb hyXymkan

sñópw Fópw Ip«nbpsS {]hr

¯nIÄ IqSpXð Kuchta

dnbhcpóXmbpw tXmópóp

sh¦nð hnZKvZ klmbw tXSm

\pÅ kabambn. Hcp tUmIvSdp

sStbm At±lw \nÀt±in¡pó

Hcp Iu¬kenwKv GP³knbp

sStbm GsX¦nepw sXdm¸nÌn

sâtbm klmb¯neqsS Ip«n

bpsS Cu s]cpamäw amänsbSp

¡mw.

Ip«nbpsS kmaqly hncp² sNbvXnIÄ \nb{´n¡m³ F\n¡mhpónsñ¦nð Rm³ F´v sN¿Ww?

\n§fpsStbm A[ym]IcpsS

tbm \nb{´W ]cn[n¡v ]pd

¯mWv Ip«nbpsS s]cpam

äsa¦nð Hcp tUmIvSdpsStbm atäsX¦nepw hnZKvZcpsStbm klmbw tXSm\pÅ kabambn. Ahcpambn Hcpan¨v {]hÀ¯n

¡pIbmWv Gähpw \ñ amÀ¤w.

kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäw t\cnSpósX§ns\.

kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäw {]ISam¡pó Ip«nIsf t\cnSpóXn\pÅ Nne amÀ¤\nÀt±

i§Ä NphsS tNÀ¡póp.

w* A`nejWobamb s]cpamä coXnIÄ t{]mÕmln¸n¡pI. A\`nejWobambXv \ncp

Õmls¸ Sp¯pItbm, Ipdª]£w t{]mÕmln¸n

¡mXncn¡pItbm sN¿pI. AhKWn¡m³ ]äpt¼mÄ

s]cpamä Zqjyw AhKWn¡pI.

]s£ Ip«nsb AhKWn¡m

Xncn¡pI.

* \nb{´W§Ä Dsïóv Ip«nsb ]dªv a\Ênem¡pI. \nb{´Ww ewLn¡s¸Spt¼mÄ DïmImhpó ^e§sf¡pdn¨pw t_m[ys¸Sp¯pI. ]s£

Ip«nsb Hcn¡epw Ifnbm¡m

Xncn¡p hm\pw in£n¡pIbm

sW¦nð ]IbmsWóv tXmóm

Xncn¡phm\pw {i²n¡Ww.

* Um³kv, kvt]mÀSvkv XpS

§nb ImbnIm²zm\w Bhiy

amb Imcy§fnte¡v AhcpsS {i² Xncn¨phnSpI.

kvt\lhpw IcpXepw {]ISn¸n

¡m³ kv]Ài\hpw BenwK\hpw D]tbmKn¡Ww. AhKWn

¡s¸«p Fóv tXmóepÅ Ip«n

Ifnð CXv Gsd Bizmkw ]I

cpw.

* kvt\lw {]ISn¸n¡pI. in£n¡phm³ thïn kvt\lw ad¨v ]nSn¡cpXv.

* Ip«nbpsS tZjy{]IS\§Ä AwKoIcn¡pI. B{IaW coXn

¡v ]Icambn am\yamb tIm]{]IS\§Ä t{]mÕmln¸n¡pI.

* Ip«nIÄ _e{]tbmK¯n

eqsS asämcmsf B{Ian¡m³ {ian¡pIbmsW¦nð ImbnI

ambn Xsó AXns\ XSbpI.

kmaqlyhncp² s]cpamäcoXn

IÄ (Anti - Social Behaviours)Ip«nIfnð thcp]nSn¡póXv IpªpómÄ apXemWv. amXm]n

Xm¡Ä {i²n¨mð a¡sf kmaqlyhncp²cm¡m Xncn¡m³ km[n¡pw.

\n§fpsS Ip«nbnð kmaqlyhncp² sNbvXnIÄ Iïv XpS§nbmð Xncp¯m³ \n§Ä Xsó ]cn{ian¡Ww.

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\mWw IpWp§n ]cnlmcamÀ¤§Ä\n§fpsS Ip«n \mWwIpWp§nbmsWóv tXmónbn«ptïm? AXv amänsbSp¡m\pÅ 7 hgnIÄ

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\n§fpsS Ip«n Häbv¡ncn¡m

\mtWm CjvSs¸SpóXv? Ah³ Hcp XnIª \mWw IpWp§nbmsWWv \n§Ä¡v tXmómdptïm? \n§fpsS Ip«n A´ÀapJ\msWWv Fóv kwibn¡pópsh¦nð XpSÀóv hmbn¡pI.

XrÈqÀImcn ao\ Xsâ Ip«n Hcp \mWw IpWp§nbmsWWv IcpXpóp. ho«nð AXnYn

IÄ hcpt¼msfñmw AhcpsS ]Xns\móv amkamb aI³ amdnt¸mhpItbm Gähpw ASp

¯pÅ hkvXpsImïv apJw ad¨p]nSn¡m³ {ian¡pItbm sN¿pw. aIsâ Cu kz`mhw Xónð \nóv ]mc¼cyambn e`n¨XmtWm FóhÀ kwibn

¡póp. Ip«n¡me¯v Ahcpw

CXpt]mse Hcp \mWw IpWp

§nbmbncpóp. ]pXnb BfpItf

bpw ]pXnb Øe§tfbpw AhÀ CjvSs¸«ncpónñ.

Ip«nIÄ \mWw IpWp§nI

fmhpóXv km[mcWamsW¦nepw ao\bpsS Ip«n Hcp A´ÀapJ\m

hm³ km[yXbpïv. AYhm

kz´w Nn´Ifnepw hnImc§

fnepw am{Xw {i²n¨v ]pXnb BfpIfpambn CS]gIpóXnð Ah\v _p²nap«v A\p`hn¡pó

Xpamhmw.

[mcmfw A]cnNnXsc ImtW

ïnhcpt¼mÄ Ip«nIfnð km[m

cW Iïv hcpó ØnXnhnti

jamWv \mWhpw A´ÀapJXz

hpw. DÄs¡mÅm\pÅ AhcpsS ]cn[nbnð Ihnª kmaqlym\p

`hamIpóXv sImïmWnXv. tem

I¯nð 30 iXam\w A´ÀapJÀ DsïómWv IW¡v. A[nIw BfpIfnepw A´ÀapJXzhpw _lnÀ apJXzhpw CSIeÀóv ImWmw.

A´ÀapJ\mbXpsImïv am{Xw \n§fpsS Ip«n A_vt\m

ÀaemsWóv Nn´n¡cpXv. Ip«n

hyXykvX\msWóv am{Xta CXpsImïv AÀ°amhpópÅq. {]ikvXcmb ]ecpw A´Àap

Jcm bncpóp. AXpsImïv Ip«nbpsS A´ÀapJs¯¡pdn¨v hymIpes¸tSïXnñ. F¦nepw

A¯cw Ip«nIfpsS kzmØy

¯n\pÅ Nne amÀ¤\nÀt±i§Ä CXm.

1. Ip«nsb a\knem¡pIbpw DÄs¡mÅpIbpw sN¿pI. Ip«nbpsS Xmð]cy§fpw hnImc§

fpw a\knem¡póXv \n§Ä

X½nepÅ _Ôs¯ ZrVam

¡pw. Ip«nsb \n§Ä _lpam\n

¡póp Fó tXmóepw Ah\p

ïmhpóp. CXv Ip«nbpsS Bß

hnizmkw hÀ²n¸n¡póp. Ip«nbpsS \mWw Ipdbv¡pw.

2. Bßm`nam\w hfÀ¯pIeÖmioecmb Ip«nIfnð

X§Ä AwKoIcn¡s¸Snñ Fó tXmóepïmhpw. kz´w {]XnÑm

bsb¡pdn¨v tamiamb A`n{]m

bamWv AhÀ¡pïmhpI.

AXpsImïv Ip«nIfpsS {]IS

amb IgnhpIsf Du«nhfÀ

¯pIbpw IqSpXð kzX{´ambn {]hÀ¯n¡phm³ Ahsc t{]m

Õmln¸n¡pIbpw thWw. kzbw aXn¸v tXmópó Ip«nIÄ \mWw IpWp§nIfmbncn¡nñ.

3. kmaplnI IgnhpIÄ hfÀ¯pI

eÖmioecmb Ip«nIfnð kmaqlnIamb s]cpamä coXnIÄ hfÀ¯nsbSp¡phm³ {i²n¡Ww, ""Rm\pw Ifnbnð ]s¦Spt¯ms«'' apXemb kmaqlnI CSs]SepIÄ¡v Bhiyamb ]Z§Ä Ahsc ]Tn¸n¡pI. kaql¯nte¡v Cd§ns¨ñm\pÅ coXnIÄ a\Ênem¡ns¡mSp¡pIbpw thWw. asämcp Ip«nbpambn Häbvs¡mäbv¡v Ifn¡m³ kµÀ`w Dïm¡póXv Ahcnð Bßhnizmkw hÀ²n¸n¡pw. {ItaW ka{]mb¡mcmb ]pXnb kwL§tfmsSm¸w Ifn¡m³ AhÀ¡v km[n¡pw.

4. _e{]tbmKhpw {]XnIqeamb {]XnIcW§fpw Hgnhm¡pI

\n§fpsS Ip«n¡v Nne BfpI

tfmtSm Nne Imcy§tfmsSm Cjv

St¡Spïmhmw. AXnð Ahsc \nÀ_Ôn¡cpXv. \n§Ä Dt±in

¡póXv sN¿m¯t¸mÄ Ahsc

hnaÀin¡pItbm Ipäs¸Sp

¯pItbm sN¿cpXv. {]XnIqe {]XnIcWw Hgnhm¡pIbpw ]Icw AhcpsS \ñs]cpamä¯n\v

t{]mÕml\w \ðIpIbpw sN¿pI. DZmlcW¯n\v Ip«n Xsâ Ifn¸m«w asämcmfpambn ]¦phbv¡pt¼mÄ ]pôncn¡p

Itbm AXns\ {]iwkn¡p

Itbm sN¿pI.

5. km[n¡pó{X BfpIfpambn CS]gIm³ A\phZn¡pI

aäpÅhcpsS apónð \n§fpsS

Ip«n¡v Dð¡WvTtbm aäv Akz

ØXItfm Dïmhm³]mSnñ. \só Ip«nbmbncn¡pt¼mÄ Xsó aäv Ip«nIfpambn CS]gIpóXv

t{]mÕmln¸n¡pI. t¹kvIq

fpIfpw Ip«nIÄ Hcpan¨v Ifn¡p

ó aäv Øe§fpw CXn\v ]änb

XmWv. BZysams¡ \n§fpw

Ip«nbpsS IqsS \nóv Ifn¸m«

§fpw aäpw ImWn¨v aäpIp«n

Ifpambn CS]gIpóXv t{]mÕm

ln¸n¡pI.

6. XmcXays¸Sp¯mXncn¡pIeÖmioeapÅ \n§fpsS

Ip«nsb aäv Ip«nIfpambn Xmc

Xays¸Sp¯n tamiam¡n kwkmcn¡cpXv. aäpÅhcpw \n§fpsS Ip«nsb C§s\ XmcXayw sN¿msX t\m¡Ww.

7. Ip«nbpsS kzImcyX am\n¡pI

A´ÀapJcmb Ip«nIÄ¡v

]pXnsbmcmfpsS kmón²y¯n

epÅ AkzØX amdnhcm³ kabsaSp¡pw. AXpsImïv Ip«n¡v Xmð]cyansñ¦nð AXnYnIÄ Ahs\ FSp¡mXn

cn¡m³ {i²n¡Ww. AXnYnIÄ

Xsâ Ifn¸m«§tfm hkv{X§

tfm `£Wtam sXmSpóXv Ip«n¡v CjvSamhnñ. ]pXnb

BfpIfpambn ]cnNb¯nem

bn¡gnªmð ]nsó XtâXmb coXnbnð AXv kulrZw ImWn¡phm³ XpS§pw.

A´ÀapJXbpw eÖmioe

hpw Hcp tZmjañ Fó Imcyw

HmÀ½n¡pI. kt¦mNhpw anX`m

jWhpw \ñ KpW§fmbn Icp

Xs¸Smdpïv Fópw HmÀ¡pI.

A´ÀapJ\mbXp sImïv \n§fpsS Ip«n A_vt\mÀaemsWóv Nn´n¡cpXv. {]ikvXcmb ]ecpw A´ÀapJcmbncpóp

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Ip«nIÄ¡v \ñ kplr¯p¡sf k¼mZn¡m\pff 10 hgnIÄ

\ñ Iq«pImcm...

FdWmIpfw Fkv. BÀ. hn kvIqfnse

cïmwIvfmkv hnZymÀ

°nbmWv tPm_n³. C³t^m ]mÀ¡nse tkm^vävshbÀ F³Pn\obÀamcmb tPmjnbp

sSbpw do¯bpsSbpw GIaI³.

Hcp Znhkw kvIqÄ hn«v tPm_n

³ ho«nse¯nb]msS do¯tbmSv ]dªp:

"At½... kvIqfnð HcmÄ t]m

epw FtómSv Iq«pIqSpónñ. Ahscmópw Fsó CjvSs¸

Spónñ. D¨bv¡v Sn^n³ Ign

¡póXp t]mepw Rms\mäbv

¡mWv. {Unð ]ncoUnðv {Ku

ïnð Ifn¡m³ t]mepw Bcp

sasó IqsS Iq«pónñ. Iq«pImscmópanñm¯ kvIqfnð t]mIm³ F\n¡v aSnbmWt½...'

CXptI«v do¯ BsI k¦S¯nembn. kvIqfnð Iq«pImcnñmsX Häs¸«pt]mb

aIt\mSv F´p]dbWsaódn

bm¯ AhØbnemWv Cu

amXmhv.

F\n¡v Iq«pImcnñ, kvIqfnð Hcmfpw Fsó CjvSs¸Spónñ Fsóms¡ Ip«n kvIqfnð \nóv

ho«nse¯n ]dbpóXv tIÄ

¡m³ Hcp A½bpw CjvSs¸Snñ.

N§mXn¡q«¯nð \nóv Häs¸« Ip«nsb klmbn¡m³ \n§Ä¡v Xmev¸cyapïmImw. Fómð kz´w aI\pthïn Iq«pImsc Dïm¡pI A{X Ffp

¸añ. adn¨v Iq«pImsc k¼mZn

¡m\pÅ hgn \n§Ä¡v Ah\v ]Tn¸n¨v sImSp¡m\mhpw.

aäpÅhtcmSv _Ôs¸Sm\pÅ

ss\kÀKnI {]hWX Ip«nIÄ

s¡ñmapïv. Fómð Cu {]h

WXsb F§s\ hfÀ¯n

M. M. RajeevSenior Faculty, Dept of Social Work,

Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham UniversityKollam,

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sbSp¡psaóXv Hmtcm Ip«nbp

sSbpw kz`mhs¯ B{ibn

¨ncn¡pw. \mtem Atôm hbkp

apXð \ñ kplr¯v_Ô§

Ä¡v Ah³ XpS¡anSpw. CXn\n

Sbnð Ah³ kulrZ¯nse

{]XnkÔnIsf A`napJoIcn

s¨óncn¡pw. At¸mÄ \n§fpsS klmbw XoÀ¨bmbpw Ip«n¡v

\ðIWw.

{]mYanI hnZym`ymkIme¯v Ip«nsb kulrZhgnbnte¡v \bn¡m³ Nne Imcy§Ä sNt¿

ïXpïv. A\pI¼ ImWn¡m\p

Å Ignhv, klIcW at\m`mhw,

Bibhn\nab tijn, {]iv\]cnlmc¯n\pÅ Ignhv,

Fóo kz`mh khntij

XIÄ Ah\nð hfÀ¯nsbSp

t¡ïXmWv. Ip«nIfpsS kulr

Ztijn hÀ²n¸n¡m\pÅ 10 hgnIÄ ]dbmw.

1. Ifn¡m\pw CS]gIm\papÅ Ahkc§Ä

Ip«nIÄ¡v IfnIfnð GÀs¸

Sm\pÅ kmlNcyw Hcp¡Ww. aäpÅhtcmSv CSs]Sm\pÅ Ign

hpw {]m]vXnbpw AXneqsS C§

s\ AhÀ kzmb¯am¡pw. IvfºpIÄ, ImbnISoapIÄ FónhnS§fnð Ip«nIÄ AwK

Xzw t\Ss«. kam\Xmev¸cy

¡msc Isï¯m³ CXv CSbm¡pw.

2. ]n´pW \ðIpI Ip«nIfpsS sIm¨phÀ¯

am\w tIÄ¡m\mbn \n§Ä kabw sNehgn¡mdptïm? IfnØe§fnð kw`hn¨Xn

s\¡pdn¨v Ip«n ]dbpóXv tIÄ¡m³ {ian¡pI. CXneqsS

Ip«nIfpsS kmaqlyXmev¸cy

§Ä a\knem¡mw. AhcpsS Iq«pImscbpw amXm]nXm¡

sfbpw ho«nte¡v £Wn¡pI. Ahcpambn ]cnNbs¸SpI.

3. {]Xn_Ô§fnð kaNn¯X ]men¡pI

Iq«pImÀ¡nSbnð hg¡pïm

IpI kz`mhnIamWv. \n§fpsS Ip«n¡v thZ\ns¨ópancn¡pw. klXm]]qÀÆw Ahs\ tIÄ

¡pI. kvt\l_Ôw hfÀ¯n

sbSp¡pI Hcp \oï bXv\amsWóv HmÀ¡pI. kplr¯v_Ô¯n\nSbnð s]m«epw Noäep

sams¡ km[mcWw am{Xw. _Ô¯n\nSbnepïmIpó AIew

AhcpsS a\kns\ apdnth

ð¸n¡pw. Cu kabw amXm]n

Xm¡Ä Ip«nIÄ ]dbpóXv tI«v Ahsc a\knem¡n ]n´pW

\ðIWw.

4. N§mXn¡q«¯nte¡v XÅnhnScpXv

Iq«pImsc k¼mZn¡póXnð FñmIp«nIfpw A{X kvamÀ«v

BIWsaónñ. NneÀ¡v Ipsdtbsd kabw thïnh

tó¡pw \sñmcp kplr¯v_Ôw Dïm¡nsbSp¡m³. kulrZ¡q«¯nð CSIecpw ap¼v C¯cw at\m`mhapÅ Ip«nIÄ Hcp ImgvN¡mc\mbn t\m¡n\ntó¡mw. ChÀ¡v Htóm ctïm ASp¯ Iq«pImtc DïmIq. C¯c¡msc \nÀ_Ôn¡m³ {ian¡cpXv.

5. `£Ww ]¦ph¨v...kvIqfpIfnse kulrZw Sn^n

³t_mIvknð \nóv XpS§mw.

`£W¯nse Hcp ]¦v Iq«pIm

c\p \ðImw. ]¦phbv¡m\pÅ

`£Ww Ahsâ ]m{X¯nep

sï¦nð Imcyw Ffp¸amIpw.

6. ho«nte¡v kzmKXwa¡fpsS Iq«pImsc ho«nte¡v

£Wn¡mw. ho«nse _À¯vtU ]mÀ«n¡v lm¸n _À¯vtU Sqbq BiwkIÄ ]mSpóXv kvIqfnse Iq«pImcmIs«.

7. kw`mjWNmXpcyw hfÀ¯mw

\ñ kw`mjWNmXpcyapÅ Ip«nIfpsS kplr¯v_豈 A{Xs]s«óv apdnbmdnñ. aäpIp«nIÄ¡nSbnð \n§fpsS

Ip«n kwkmcn¡póXv {i²n

¡pI. kwkmcw XpS§nhbv¡m³ Ip«n ap³ssI FSp¡póptïm? aäv Ip«nIfpsS Imcy¯nð bYmÀ° Xmev¸cyw Ah³ ImWn¡mdptïm? Ah³ tNmZy§Ä tNmZn¡mdptïm? kz´w Imcyw am{XamtWm Ah³ kwkmcn¡póXv?

AtXm H«pw kwkmcn¡mdntñ? C{Xbpw Imcy§Ä BZyw a\knem¡pI. F¦nð Ahs\ kw`mjW¯nsâ IgnhpIÄ

]cnioen¸n¡m³ \n§Ä¡mhpw. FhnsSbmWv Ah\v _p²nap«v DïmIpósXóv a\knem¡Ww. _p²nap«v adnIS¡m³ Ah\v

]cnioe\w \ðImw. DZmlc

W¯n\v \n§fpsS Ip«n kw`mj

W¯nð B[n]Xyw ]peÀ¯p

ópsh¦nð tNmZy§Ä tNmZn

¡m\pw aäpÅhcpsS kwkmcw £atbmsS tIÄ¡m\pw Ahs\ ]cnioen¸n¡Ww. A´ÀapJ

\mb Ip«nsb kwkmcw Bcw`n¡m³ ]cnioen¸n¡Ww.

8. A\pI¼ ]cnioen¸n¡pI \n§Ä Ip«nbpsam¯v Hcp

sSenhnj³ ImWpIbmsWón

cn¡s«. B ]cn]mSnbnse IY]m{X§sf Ah³ F§s\ ImWpópshóv tNmZn¡pI. CXneqsS asämcmfpsS hnIm

c§sf a\knem¡m\pw Abm

fpsS ImgvN¸mSneqsS Imcy§Ä Xncn¨dnbm\papÅ t_m[hpw Ip«nbnð hfcpw. aäpÅhtcmSv A\pI¼bpw IcpWbpw ImWn

¡m\pÅ Ignhv Ah\n³ hfÀ¯nsbSp¡Ww.

9. Xmev¸cy§Ä t{]mÕmln¸n¡pI

Htc Xmev¸cyapÅhÀ s]s«

óv kplr¯p¡fmIpw. kplr¯v

_Ô§fpsS XpS¡w Xsó kam\Xmev¸cy§fmWv. kam\ Xmev¸cyapÅ Ip«nIÄ Htc {]hr¯nIfnð GÀs¸Spw. AXn

\mð hyXykvX Xmev¸cy§Ä {]ISn¸n¡m³ \n§fpsS Ip«n¡v

Ahkcw \ðIWw. Ahsâ Xmev¸cya\pkcn¨pÅ IvfºpI

fnepw sKbnapIfnepw Ahs\ AwKam¡Ww.

10. amXrIbmbv amXm]nXm¡Ä

amXm]nXm¡fpw \ñkplr

¯v _Ô§fpïm¡n AXv Im¯pkq£n¡póhcmIWw.

\n§fpsS kplr¯p¡sf ho«n

te¡v CSbv¡v £Wn¡Ww. kulrZ§fpsS DujvafX Ip«n¡v CXnð \nóv a\knem

¡m\mIpw. Iq«pImsc ho«nte¡v £Wn¡m³ Ip«nsb t{]mÕm

ln¸n¡pIbpw thWw. AÑ\pw

A½bv¡pw DÅt]mse \ñ Iq«pImÀ F\n¡papsïóv Ah³ ]dbpóXv hcpw\mfp

Ifnð Xsó \n§Ä¡v tIÄ¡mw.

\n§fpsS Ip«n kwkmcn¡póXv {i²n¡pI. kwkmcw XpS§nhbv¡m³ Ip«n ap³ssI FSp¡póptïm? aäv Ip«nIfpsS Imcy¯nð bYmÀ° Xmev¸cyw Ah³ ImWn¡mdptïm? Ah³ tNmZy§Ä tNmZn¡mdptïm? kz´w Imcyw am{XamtWm Ah³ kwkmcn¡póXv?

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Hcp s]m³Ipó¯pImcsâ

2002, Iment^mÀWnbbnse þ Hcp {]n

hyp XnbäÀ,

cmPohv Aôð kwhn[m\w sNbvX "_ntbmïv Z tkmÄ' Fó Cw¥ojv Nn{X¯nsâ BZytjm \S¡pIbmWnhnsS.

tjm Ignªt¸mÄ \ne¡m¯ IctLmjw. Atacn¡¡mÀ kn\nasb AwKoIcn¨Xnsâ sXfnhmbncpóp AXv.

{][m\ \So\Sòmcpw kwhn[mbI\psañmw {]nhyp

Ignªv ]pd¯nd§n. Nn{X¯nð ð Hcp {][m\

thj¯nse¯nb tUm. BNm

cysb ImWm³ BfpIÄ h³ kwLambn \nð¡póp.

FñmhÀ¡pw AdntbïXv

tIcf¯nse BbpÀtÆZs¯

¡pdn¨mbncpóp. tUm. BNmcy

bpsS thjw A`n\bn¨ \S³

]dªp: £an¡Ww, Rm³ Hcp BbpÀtÆZ tUmIvSdñ; F\n¡v BbpÀtÆZs¯Ipdn¨v B[nImcnIambn Hópw Adnbnñ.

BNmcybmbn F¯nbXv X¼n BâWnsbó s]m³Ipó

¯pImc³. sXt¡¯v BâWn

bpsS aI³ X¼n BâWn Fó

a\pjysâ PohnX¯nse ad¡m\mhm¯ Hcp \nanjambn

cpóp AXv. tIcf¯nse BbpÀtÆZs¯ ASnØm\am¡n \nÀ½n¨ "_ntbmïv

Z tkmÄ 'Fó Nn{X¯nse

cmtPjv Xnñt¦cn

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Hcp s]m³Ipó¯pImcsâMagic face

anI¨s]Àt^ma³kneqsS X¼n BâWnsbó {]Xn`sb kn\nam

temIw Xncn¨dnªpshóv thWsa¦nð ]dbmw. tlmtWm

temep ^nenws^Ìnhenð X¼n

BâWnsb tXSn s_Ìv BIväÀ

AhmÀUv F¯n. Hcp aebmfn BZyambn«mbncpóp Cu s^Ìn

henð anI¨ \S\pÅ AhmÀUv

\ðIn BZcn¡s¸SpóXv.

Atacn¡ kz]v\w Iïv \Só Hcp aebmfnbphmhv. ImWpó kz]v\¯n\¸pdw kz´w PohnXs¯ bmYmÀ°yam¡m³ \S¯nb bm{XIfmWv X¼n BâWnsbó {]hmknbpsS PohnXw. 22 hÀjw ap³]v

Atacn¡bnse¯nb At±l

anóv Atacn¡bnse {]apJ _n

kn\ÊpImc³IqSnbmWv. ""Rm³ \S\ñ; NnecpsS \nÀ_Ô§

Ä¡v hg§n A`n\bn¡póp''. Xsâ PohnXhgn A`n\basñóv \t½mSv hn\b]qÀÆw ]dbpt¼m

gpw X¼n BâWnsbó IemIm

cs\ \½Ä Xncn¨dnbpóp.

kn\nam \S³, Ihn, \mSIIr

¯v, kn\nam \nÀ½mXmhv XpS§n

]ethj§fmWv X¼n BâWn

¡v. Atacn¡bnð sXt¡ slð¯v sIbÀ tImÀ¸tdävkv Fó slð¯v sIbÀ sNbn\n

sâ kn C Hbpw IqSnbmWv At±lw. aebmf¯nse B£³ lotdmbmbncpó _m_p BâWn

bpsS aq¯ ktlmZc\mb X¼n

BâWn A{]Xo£nXambn«mWv kn\nabnð F¯nbXv. Fómð Cu s]m³Ipó¯pImc³ Cóv aebmf kn\nabpsS A`nhmPyLSIambn amdnbncn¡bmWv.

aebmfkn\nabv¡¸pdw tlmfn

hpUv hsc \ofpó X¼nbpsS A`n\b PohnXw GsXmcp aebmfn¡pw Ffp¸¯nð F¯n¸nSn¡m\mhpóXñ.

sNdp¸¯nð F³Pn\nbdm

hm³ tamln¨ X¼nBâWnsb Ipªp\mfnse tamlw, tImX

awKew F³Pn\nbdnMv tImfPn

se¯n¨p. AhnsS \nópw knhnð F³Pn\nbdnMv Ignªv

]pd¯nd§nb X¼nsb s]mXpa

cma¯v hIp¸nð tPmen¡v hnfn¨p. ae¸pdw Acot¡mSv

CdntKjsâ C³shÌntKjsâ Soanð AwKambn. Fómð A\

´ambn HgpIpó Acot¡mSv ]p

gsbmópambncpónñ X¼nbpsS a\Ênð. Atacn¡sbó

kz]v\`qanIbmbncpóp. F§ns\bpw Atacn¡bnte¡v ]d¡pI. XpSÀópÅ PohnXs¯¡pdn¨v X¼n BâWn ]dbpóp...

Atacn¡bnte¡pÅ hgnDg¸³amÀ am{Xw Dïmbncpó

s]m³Ipów Kh.sslkvIqfnð ]Tn¨mWv Rm³ ChnsShsc F¯n\nð¡póXv. Aóv AhnsS ]Tn¡m³ Hcp kmlNcyhpw Cñmbncpóp. A¡me¯pw Rm³ Gsd B{Kln¨Xv s]m³Ipó

¯n\pw A¸pdapÅ hensbmcp temIambncpóp.

amKkn\pIfnepw kn\naIfn epw ImWpó hÀ®m`amb Atacn¡, Rm³ Atacn¡sb kz]v\w ImWm³ XpS§nbXv A§ns\bmWv.

t{]a Fsâ PohnX¯nte¡v ISóphcpótXmsSbmWv Nn´Ifnð Hcp hgn¯ncnhp

ïmhpóXv. t{]a A¡me¯v sSIvkmknð dnkÀ¨v sN¿pI

bmbncpóp. Fsâ IqsS tPmen

sNbvXncpó cmaN{µ³ Fóbm

fmWv Ahsf¡pdn¨v BZyw ]d

bpóXv. At±lw bp FÊnð

]Tn¨bmfmWv . F\n¡dnbmhpó Ip«nbmWv Fómbncpóp cmaN{µsâ A`n{]mbw. t{]a

Ah[n¡v hót¸mÄ R§Ä Iïp; kwkmcn¨p. Hä BgvNsIm

ïv Xsó Imcy§Ä Xocpam\n

¡s¸«p. CXn\nSbnð Xsó Iptd s]¬Ip«nIsf Iïncpóp; Fómð Hónepw Xocpam\ambnñ. ImcWw F\n¡v ]esc

bpw CjvSambnñ. Rm³ BZy

ambn Hcmsf CjvSamsWóv

]dªt¸mÄ ho«pImÀ¡v henb AXv`pXambn.

hnhmlw Ignªv Gsd Znhk§Ä IgnbpóXn\v ap³]v

t{]a hoïpw Atacn¡bnte¡v t]mbn. Rm³ hoïpw CdntKj³ C³shÌntKj\nepw. t{]abv¡v {Ko³ImÀUv e`n¡Ww; AXn\v tijta F\n¡v hnk e`n¡q. Hcp Im¯ncn¸nsâ Kym¸v A\p

`hs¸«p. A¡me¯v Rm³ Hcp IhnX FgpXn, AXmWv "FhnsSsb³ hmKvZ¯ `qan.... '.

Ipd¨pIqSn Ignªv Atacn¡bnte¡pÅ hnk

icnbmbn. t{]a 1985 ð km³{^m³knkvtIm kÀhIemimebnð \nópw _n

cpZm\´cw _ncpZw t\Sn.

Fómð Atacn¡bnð F¯nbtXmsS Atacn¡sbó kz]v\w Ahkm\n¨p. AhnsS h¨mWv BÀ¡nsSIvSmhm³ Xocpam\n¨Xv. Nn{XIebnð F\n¡v t\cs¯Xsó Xmð¸cy

apïmbncpóp. AXmWv BÀ¡nsS IvNdnt\mSv

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tbipZmknt\m Nmcplmkt\m thïn \o¡nh¨ncpó _ntbmïv Z tkmfnse B tdmfnte¡mWv Fsó ]cnKWn¨ncpóXv

A{Klapïmbncpó

Xv. tImgvkv Ignªv aqóv hÀjw ]e I¼\nIfnembn tPmen.

At¸mgpw Fsâ B{Kl§Ä asämcp hgnbnembncpóp. _nkn

\Êv Fsâ »Unð InS¡póp. A¸³ \m«nð Adnbs¸Spó _nkn\ÊpImc\mbncpóp. F´v _nkn\ÊmWv sN¿m³ IgnbpIsbóv Rm³ t{]abpam

bn BtemNn¨p. tlmw sIbÀ Fó Bibw A§ns\bmWv

BZyambn NÀ¨bv¡v hcpóXv. {]mbambhsc ho«nse¯n slð¸v sN¿pó Hcp Øm]\w hnð¡m\psïóv Adnªv AXns\¡pdn¨v At\zjn¡m\pw

AXv hm§m\pw Hs¡ hgnbm

hpóXv Nne _nkn\Êv

]mT§Ä Rm³ a\Ênem¡nbn

cpóXpsImïmWv. tlmw sIbdn

ð F¯nb Hcp Atacn¡¡mc³ ]dª Nne XXz§fmWv Fsó _nkn\Ênð IqSpXð iàn\m

¡n amänbXv.

Think like rich, _nkn\Ênð AXymhiyambn thïXv \½Ä ]W¡mc\mWv Fóv tXmón¸n¡WsaóXmWv. _nkn\Êv temIt¯¡v ISóphcpóhÀ¡v AXymhiyambn thï asämcp KpWamWv Rich mind. _nkn\Ênte¡v hcpóhÀ¡v k¼óamb Bib§fpïmbncn¡Ww. Cu Nn´ Fsó BIÀjn¨p. Atacn¡sb kw_Ôn¨nS

t¯mfw ]Ww Dïv Fóv tXmón¸n¨mð B tjmbnð klmbn¡m³ BfpIÄ hcpw. Hcp hnizmk¯nsâ ]pd¯mWv Imcy§Ä \S¯póXv.

Øm]\w hm§n¡póXn\pÅ ^ïv kzcq]n¨p. \ñ dnkv¡mWv GsäSp¡m\ncn¡póXv, ]cmP

bw kw`hn¨mð Fñmw XIcpw.

Fómð F\n¡pw t{]abv¡pw

dnkvs¡Sp¡póXnð henb ss[cyamWv. BânbpsS DSaØ

Xbnð Hcp tlmkv]näepïm

bncpóp. AhnsS \nópw Ìm^n

s\ s{Sbn³ sNbvXmWv Øm]\w Bcw`n¨Xv.

Ignª ]¯phÀj¯n\nSbn

ð R§fpsS Øm]\w icn¡pw \ñ \nebnemWv \S¡póXv. ]eØe§fnembn slð¯v sIbÀ Øm]\§Ä XpSÀópw Bcw`n¡m³ IgnªXv \ñ tkh\w e`yam¡m³ km[n¨Xn\memWv. ^nkntbm sXdm¸n, saUn¡ð FIyp]v

saâv hnXcWw, dnbð FtÌäv _nkn\Êv XpS§nbhbnte¡pw R§Ä¡v ssUthÀ«v sN¿m³

km[n¨p. dnbð FtÌäv _nkn

\Ênð Nnet¸mÄ A{]Xo£n

Xambn h³XpIe`n¡pw. Nne\n

t£]§fnepw \ap¡v {]Xo£n

¨Xn\pw A¸pd¯v em`w In«n.

kn\nakn\nasb¡pdn¨v Rm³ kz]v

\¯nðt]mepw BtemNn¨ncp

ónñ. A¸³ s]m³Ipós¯

Hcp _nkn\ÊpImc\mbncpóp. A¸³ kn\nasbmópw ImWnñ, No«pIfnbmbncpóp At±l¯nsâ hnt\mZw. No«pIfn¡m³ t]mhpt¼mÄ R§sf s]m³Ipós¯ Zmk³ Xnbänð Ibän Ccp¯pw. Ht«sd kn\naIÄ ImWm³ A§ns\bmWv `mKyw kn²n¨Xv.

R§fpsS IpSpw_¯nð BÀ¡pw kn\nam_Ôw Dïmbncpónñ. _m_p kn\nabn

ð hcpsaóv Hcn¡epw BtemNn

¡m³t]mepw ]äpambncpónñ. Hcp kvt]mÀSvkv IpSpw_amWv R§fpsSXv. tN«³þ tPmk^v BâWn A¡me¯v thmfnbnð tZiob Xmcambncpóp. _m_p

]Tn¡pt¼mÄ bqWnthgvknän

¡pthïn Ifn¨n«pïv. Fsâ aI\mWv kvt]mÀSvknt\mSv Xmð¸cyw. Ah³ thmfnt_mÄ Xmcambn Ct¸mÄXsó AhnsS Adnbs¸«pXpS§n.

_m_p A`n\bn¡pó Atd_y Fó Nn{X¯nsâ temt¡j\nð Np½msX t]mb kabw. kwhn[mbI³ PbcmPv FtómSv B Nn{X¯nð Hcp thjw sN¿póXns\¡pdn¨v kwkmcn¨p. PbcmPnsâ \nÀ_

Ôw aqew AXnð Hcp thjw

sNbvXp. Xncn¨v Atacn¡bnte¡v XncnsI t]m

hpt¼mgpw hoïpw kn\nabnð A`n\bn¡póXns\Ipdn¨v BtemN\sbmópw Cñmbncpóp.

cmPohv Aôð Atacn¡bnð hót¸mÄ Fsó hnfn¨p. Hcp

Cw¥ojv Nn{Xw sN¿póp; AXnð

Hcp {][m\ tdmÄ sN¿Wsa

ómbncpóp cmPohnsâ Bhiyw. Hcp BbpÀtÆZ BNmcysâ thjamWv sNt¿ïXv. tbipZm

tkm Nmcplmkt\m thïn \o¡nh¨ncpó _ntbmïv Z tkm

fnse B tdmfnte¡mWv Fsó ]cnKWn¨Xv.

A§ns\ cmPohnsâ \nÀ_Ô¯n\p hg§n B Nn{X¯nð A`n\bn¡m\pÅ `mKyw F\n¡v e`n¨p. tlmfnhpUnte¡pÅ F³{Snbmbncpóp AXv. ku¯v sk³{Sð, sUUvam³ Imïv Um³kv Fóo Nn{X§Ä kwhn

[m\w sNbvX Ìoh³ B³tU

gvk¬ Fsó At±l¯nsâ Iymjv Fó Nn{X¯nte¡v £Wn¡póXv _ntbmïv Z tkmÄ Iïn«mbncpóp. Iymjv

Fó Nn{X¯nð Hcp kÀ±mÀPn

bpsS thjamsW\n¡v. kn\na

bnepS\ofw \nð¡pó thjañ; Fómð {i²n¡s¸Spó thjw.

F´mbmepw Rm³ tlmfnhp

Unð AwKXzapÅ GI aebmfn \S\mbn.

kwhn[mbI³ »kn _n

tbmïv Z tkmfnð cmPohv Aô

ensâ Atkmkntbämbn hÀ¡v sNbvXncpóp. A§ns\bmWv ]fp¦nð Rm³ A`n

\bn¡m\nSbmbXv. XpSÀóv Ið¡¯m \yqkv Fó Nn{Xw \nÀ½n¡m³ X¿mdmbXpw »knbpambpÅ kvt\l_Ô¯n\memWv.

am[hsâ "sabnUv C³ bp Fkv F ' bnepw A`n\bn¨p. {`acw, kq^n]dª IY, bpK

]pcpj³ Fónhbmbncpóp XpSÀóv A`n\bn¨ Nn{X§Ä. kq^n ]dª IYbnse i¦ctat\m³ \ñ IYm]m{X

ambncpóp. XpSÀóv Pm\ Insbó Nn{Xw. Fw Pn iin kwhn[m\w sNbvX Pm\Inbnse

thjw {i²n¡s¸SpsaómWv IcpXpóXv. Ct¸mÄ BZmansâ aI³ A_p Fó Nn{X¯nð A`n\bn¨psImïncn¡pIbmWv.

Hcp Xmcw Fó \nebnð t]cpïm¡póXnsemópw F\n¡v

Xmð¸cyanñ. \ñ Nn{X§fpsS `mKamhm\mWv Rm³ {ian¡p

óXv. _nKv _Päv Nn{X§tfmSpw henb {]Xn]¯nbnñ. F\n¡v A`n\bsaóXv Pohn¡m\pÅ hgnbpañ. Nne kwhn[mbIÀ ]dbpw Xm¦fpsS apJ¯v \ñ U

]v¯pÅ `mhapsïóv. IYm]m

{Xamhm\pw kzm`mhnIamb A`n\b¯nð anIhp]peÀ¯m

\papÅ Fsâ Ignhns\bmWv AhÀ {]iwkn¡mdpÅXv. hfsc \mNzdembpÅ A`n\bhpamsWómWv AhÀ F\n¡v Xcpó tImw¹nsaâvkv. Pm\In sI\nb ^nenw s^Ìnð {]ZÀin¸n¨p. \ñ {]XnIcWamWv e`n¨Xv. kq^n]dª IY Iïv sI ]n F kn efnX hnfn¨p. AhmÀUv In«nb kt´mjamWv F\n¡t¸mÄ tXmónbXv.

Betam¬ Fó Øe¯mWv

R§Ä Xmakn¡póXv.

aq¯aIÄ \Zn _tbmsa

Un¡ð F³Pn\nbdnMnð sSIvkmkv ssdkv kÀhIem

imebnð ]nF¨v Un sN¿pIbm

Wv. cïmas¯ aIÄ kÔy Iment^mÀWnb temkv Bô

temkv kÀhIemimebnð \n

ópw F³Pn\nbdnMv ]T\w ]qÀ

¯nbm¡n. aI³ Imbð BâWn hnZymÀ°nbmWv. \Zn hnhm

lnXbmWv. `À¯mhv tdmbv amXyp sSIvkmkv C´y³ thmfnt_mÄ Soanse Ifn¡mc\m

Wv. Gähpw Dbcw IqSnb C´y³ Ifn¡mc³ Fó _lpaXnbpw tdmbv¡mWv.

tkml³ tdmbv kwhn[m\w sN¿pó Umw Fó tlmfnhpUv Nn{X¯nð No^v F³Pn\bdpsS thj¯nemWv X¼n BâWn F¯póXv. "Imjv ' C´ybnð ASp¯amk§fnð {]ZÀi\¯ns\¯pw. BZmansâ aI³ A_p Fó Nn{XamWv aebmf¯nð ASp¯amkw dneokv sN¿m\ncn¡pó X¼n BâWnbpsS Nn{Xw.

_ntbmïv Z tkmÄ A¡c ImgvNIÄ kq^n ]dª IY {`acw Imjv kÀZmÀPn Pm\In bpK]pcpj³ DAM 999 kq^À Aen ]fp¦v

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tbipZmknt\m Nmcplmkt\m thïn \o¡nh¨ncpó _ntbmïv Z tkmfnse B tdmfnte¡mWv Fsó ]cnKWn¨ncpóXv

A{Klapïmbncpó

Xv. tImgvkv Ignªv aqóv hÀjw ]e I¼\nIfnembn tPmen.

At¸mgpw Fsâ B{Kl§Ä asämcp hgnbnembncpóp. _nkn

\Êv Fsâ »Unð InS¡póp. A¸³ \m«nð Adnbs¸Spó _nkn\ÊpImc\mbncpóp. F´v _nkn\ÊmWv sN¿m³ IgnbpIsbóv Rm³ t{]abpam

bn BtemNn¨p. tlmw sIbÀ Fó Bibw A§ns\bmWv

BZyambn NÀ¨bv¡v hcpóXv. {]mbambhsc ho«nse¯n slð¸v sN¿pó Hcp Øm]\w hnð¡m\psïóv Adnªv AXns\¡pdn¨v At\zjn¡m\pw

AXv hm§m\pw Hs¡ hgnbm

hpóXv Nne _nkn\Êv

]mT§Ä Rm³ a\Ênem¡nbn

cpóXpsImïmWv. tlmw sIbdn

ð F¯nb Hcp Atacn¡¡mc³ ]dª Nne XXz§fmWv Fsó _nkn\Ênð IqSpXð iàn\m

¡n amänbXv.

Think like rich, _nkn\Ênð AXymhiyambn thïXv \½Ä ]W¡mc\mWv Fóv tXmón¸n¡WsaóXmWv. _nkn\Êv temIt¯¡v ISóphcpóhÀ¡v AXymhiyambn thï asämcp KpWamWv Rich mind. _nkn\Ênte¡v hcpóhÀ¡v k¼óamb Bib§fpïmbncn¡Ww. Cu Nn´ Fsó BIÀjn¨p. Atacn¡sb kw_Ôn¨nS

t¯mfw ]Ww Dïv Fóv tXmón¸n¨mð B tjmbnð klmbn¡m³ BfpIÄ hcpw. Hcp hnizmk¯nsâ ]pd¯mWv Imcy§Ä \S¯póXv.

Øm]\w hm§n¡póXn\pÅ ^ïv kzcq]n¨p. \ñ dnkv¡mWv GsäSp¡m\ncn¡póXv, ]cmP

bw kw`hn¨mð Fñmw XIcpw.

Fómð F\n¡pw t{]abv¡pw

dnkvs¡Sp¡póXnð henb ss[cyamWv. BânbpsS DSaØ

Xbnð Hcp tlmkv]näepïm

bncpóp. AhnsS \nópw Ìm^n

s\ s{Sbn³ sNbvXmWv Øm]\w Bcw`n¨Xv.

Ignª ]¯phÀj¯n\nSbn

ð R§fpsS Øm]\w icn¡pw \ñ \nebnemWv \S¡póXv. ]eØe§fnembn slð¯v sIbÀ Øm]\§Ä XpSÀópw Bcw`n¡m³ IgnªXv \ñ tkh\w e`yam¡m³ km[n¨Xn\memWv. ^nkntbm sXdm¸n, saUn¡ð FIyp]v

saâv hnXcWw, dnbð FtÌäv _nkn\Êv XpS§nbhbnte¡pw R§Ä¡v ssUthÀ«v sN¿m³

km[n¨p. dnbð FtÌäv _nkn

\Ênð Nnet¸mÄ A{]Xo£n

Xambn h³XpIe`n¡pw. Nne\n

t£]§fnepw \ap¡v {]Xo£n

¨Xn\pw A¸pd¯v em`w In«n.

kn\nakn\nasb¡pdn¨v Rm³ kz]v

\¯nðt]mepw BtemNn¨ncp

ónñ. A¸³ s]m³Ipós¯

Hcp _nkn\ÊpImc\mbncpóp. A¸³ kn\nasbmópw ImWnñ, No«pIfnbmbncpóp At±l¯nsâ hnt\mZw. No«pIfn¡m³ t]mhpt¼mÄ R§sf s]m³Ipós¯ Zmk³ Xnbänð Ibän Ccp¯pw. Ht«sd kn\naIÄ ImWm³ A§ns\bmWv `mKyw kn²n¨Xv.

R§fpsS IpSpw_¯nð BÀ¡pw kn\nam_Ôw Dïmbncpónñ. _m_p kn\nabn

ð hcpsaóv Hcn¡epw BtemNn

¡m³t]mepw ]äpambncpónñ. Hcp kvt]mÀSvkv IpSpw_amWv R§fpsSXv. tN«³þ tPmk^v BâWn A¡me¯v thmfnbnð tZiob Xmcambncpóp. _m_p

]Tn¡pt¼mÄ bqWnthgvknän

¡pthïn Ifn¨n«pïv. Fsâ aI\mWv kvt]mÀSvknt\mSv Xmð¸cyw. Ah³ thmfnt_mÄ Xmcambn Ct¸mÄXsó AhnsS Adnbs¸«pXpS§n.

_m_p A`n\bn¡pó Atd_y Fó Nn{X¯nsâ temt¡j\nð Np½msX t]mb kabw. kwhn[mbI³ PbcmPv FtómSv B Nn{X¯nð Hcp thjw sN¿póXns\¡pdn¨v kwkmcn¨p. PbcmPnsâ \nÀ_

Ôw aqew AXnð Hcp thjw

sNbvXp. Xncn¨v Atacn¡bnte¡v XncnsI t]m

hpt¼mgpw hoïpw kn\nabnð A`n\bn¡póXns\Ipdn¨v BtemN\sbmópw Cñmbncpóp.

cmPohv Aôð Atacn¡bnð hót¸mÄ Fsó hnfn¨p. Hcp

Cw¥ojv Nn{Xw sN¿póp; AXnð

Hcp {][m\ tdmÄ sN¿Wsa

ómbncpóp cmPohnsâ Bhiyw. Hcp BbpÀtÆZ BNmcysâ thjamWv sNt¿ïXv. tbipZm

tkm Nmcplmkt\m thïn \o¡nh¨ncpó _ntbmïv Z tkm

fnse B tdmfnte¡mWv Fsó ]cnKWn¨Xv.

A§ns\ cmPohnsâ \nÀ_Ô¯n\p hg§n B Nn{X¯nð A`n\bn¡m\pÅ `mKyw F\n¡v e`n¨p. tlmfnhpUnte¡pÅ F³{Snbmbncpóp AXv. ku¯v sk³{Sð, sUUvam³ Imïv Um³kv Fóo Nn{X§Ä kwhn

[m\w sNbvX Ìoh³ B³tU

gvk¬ Fsó At±l¯nsâ Iymjv Fó Nn{X¯nte¡v £Wn¡póXv _ntbmïv Z tkmÄ Iïn«mbncpóp. Iymjv

Fó Nn{X¯nð Hcp kÀ±mÀPn

bpsS thjamsW\n¡v. kn\na

bnepS\ofw \nð¡pó thjañ; Fómð {i²n¡s¸Spó thjw.

F´mbmepw Rm³ tlmfnhp

Unð AwKXzapÅ GI aebmfn \S\mbn.

kwhn[mbI³ »kn _n

tbmïv Z tkmfnð cmPohv Aô

ensâ Atkmkntbämbn hÀ¡v sNbvXncpóp. A§ns\bmWv ]fp¦nð Rm³ A`n

\bn¡m\nSbmbXv. XpSÀóv Ið¡¯m \yqkv Fó Nn{Xw \nÀ½n¡m³ X¿mdmbXpw »knbpambpÅ kvt\l_Ô¯n\memWv.

am[hsâ "sabnUv C³ bp Fkv F ' bnepw A`n\bn¨p. {`acw, kq^n]dª IY, bpK

]pcpj³ Fónhbmbncpóp XpSÀóv A`n\bn¨ Nn{X§Ä. kq^n ]dª IYbnse i¦ctat\m³ \ñ IYm]m{X

ambncpóp. XpSÀóv Pm\ Insbó Nn{Xw. Fw Pn iin kwhn[m\w sNbvX Pm\Inbnse

thjw {i²n¡s¸SpsaómWv IcpXpóXv. Ct¸mÄ BZmansâ aI³ A_p Fó Nn{X¯nð A`n\bn¨psImïncn¡pIbmWv.

Hcp Xmcw Fó \nebnð t]cpïm¡póXnsemópw F\n¡v

Xmð¸cyanñ. \ñ Nn{X§fpsS `mKamhm\mWv Rm³ {ian¡p

óXv. _nKv _Päv Nn{X§tfmSpw henb {]Xn]¯nbnñ. F\n¡v A`n\bsaóXv Pohn¡m\pÅ hgnbpañ. Nne kwhn[mbIÀ ]dbpw Xm¦fpsS apJ¯v \ñ U

]v¯pÅ `mhapsïóv. IYm]m

{Xamhm\pw kzm`mhnIamb A`n\b¯nð anIhp]peÀ¯m

\papÅ Fsâ Ignhns\bmWv AhÀ {]iwkn¡mdpÅXv. hfsc \mNzdembpÅ A`n\bhpamsWómWv AhÀ F\n¡v Xcpó tImw¹nsaâvkv. Pm\In sI\nb ^nenw s^Ìnð {]ZÀin¸n¨p. \ñ {]XnIcWamWv e`n¨Xv. kq^n]dª IY Iïv sI ]n F kn efnX hnfn¨p. AhmÀUv In«nb kt´mjamWv F\n¡t¸mÄ tXmónbXv.

Betam¬ Fó Øe¯mWv

R§Ä Xmakn¡póXv.

aq¯aIÄ \Zn _tbmsa

Un¡ð F³Pn\nbdnMnð sSIvkmkv ssdkv kÀhIem

imebnð ]nF¨v Un sN¿pIbm

Wv. cïmas¯ aIÄ kÔy Iment^mÀWnb temkv Bô

temkv kÀhIemimebnð \n

ópw F³Pn\nbdnMv ]T\w ]qÀ

¯nbm¡n. aI³ Imbð BâWn hnZymÀ°nbmWv. \Zn hnhm

lnXbmWv. `À¯mhv tdmbv amXyp sSIvkmkv C´y³ thmfnt_mÄ Soanse Ifn¡mc\m

Wv. Gähpw Dbcw IqSnb C´y³ Ifn¡mc³ Fó _lpaXnbpw tdmbv¡mWv.

tkml³ tdmbv kwhn[m\w sN¿pó Umw Fó tlmfnhpUv Nn{X¯nð No^v F³Pn\bdpsS thj¯nemWv X¼n BâWn F¯póXv. "Imjv ' C´ybnð ASp¯amk§fnð {]ZÀi\¯ns\¯pw. BZmansâ aI³ A_p Fó Nn{XamWv aebmf¯nð ASp¯amkw dneokv sN¿m\ncn¡pó X¼n BâWnbpsS Nn{Xw.

_ntbmïv Z tkmÄ A¡c ImgvNIÄ kq^n ]dª IY {`acw Imjv kÀZmÀPn Pm\In bpK]pcpj³ DAM 999 kq^À Aen ]fp¦v

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aIsâ AѳAÑ\pw aI\pw X½nð \ñ Bß_Ôw hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ AdntbïsXñmw...

A¸sâ aZy]m\ioew amäm³ [ym\

tI{µ¯nð sImïm¡pI

bpw ]nsó Bcpw ImWmsX aXnð NmSn A¸s\ AhnSpóv tamNn¸n¡pIbpw sN¿pó aI³. C¯c¯nepÅ Hc¸tâbpw aItâbpw Bß_Ô¯nsâ IYbmWv "a\Ên\¡sc' Fó kn\na. Hcp \nanjw t]mepw A¸s\ hn«p]ncnbm³ Ignbm¯ aIsâ kvt\lamWv Cu Nn{Xw hc¨pIm«póXv. Cóskâpw PbdmapamWv A¸\pw aI\pambn

t{]£IcpsS I®p \\bn¨Xv.

HcÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepïmbncn

t¡ï kvt\lhpw sI«pd¸pw shfns¸Sp¯póp Cu kn\na.

Bibhn\nab¯nsâ A`mhhpw tIm]hpw tNÀómð

Aѳþ aI³ _Ô¯nð

hnÅepIÄ hogpw. Ccphscbpw ]ckv]cw _Ôn¸n¡pó \nc

h[n Imcy§Ä PohnX¯n

epïv. H«pan¡ B¬Ip«nIfpw AÑòmcpsS ioe§fpw hnt\mZ

§fpw PohnX¯nð ]IÀ¯p

óhcmWv. ImcWw Fs´ms¡

bmsW¦nepw IpSpw_PohnX

¯nð AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ Bß_Ô¯nsâ at\mlmcnX thdn«p\nð¡póp. Cu _Ôw \ómbn ]cnt]mjn¸n¨mð F¡mehpw \ne\nð¡pw. AÑ

\pw aIfpw X½nemWv KmVamb _Ôw DSseSp¡pIsbóv s]m

Xpth ]dbmdpïv. Fómepw AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ kulrZ]camb _Ôw Xsó

bmWv aItfmSpÅXnð \nópw

IqSpXð BgapÅXv.

_mey¯nð B¬Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS amXrIm]pcpjòm

cmbn AÑòmscbmWv ImWp

óXv. AÑ\v F´pw sN¿m³ Ignbpsaóv Ip«nIÄ hnizkn

¡póp. AÑsâ PohnXssi

enbpw s]cpamähpw hsc Ahsc kzm[o\n¡pw. AÑsâ \S¯w, kwkmcw, hkv{X[mcWw XpS§n

bhsbñmw AhÀ A\pIcn¡pw. Cu {]mb¯nð B¬Ip«nIÄ AÑs\ kt´mjn¸n¡m\pw

AhcpsS AwKoImchpw kzo

ImcyXbpw t\Sm\pw {ian¡pw.

Fómð aI³ Iuamc¯n

se¯pt¼mÄ ØnXn amdpw. AÑ\pw aI\pw CSbnð `nóXbpsS \m¼pIÄ apfs]m

«pw. AÑsâ \nÀt±i§sfbpw aqey§sfbpw \nckn¡pIbpw AXn\v hn]coXamb hgnsb aI³ ]n´pScpIbpw sN¿pw. ChÀ¡nSbnð hnZzj¯nsâ hn¯pIÄ apf¨pXpS§m\pw CXv ImcWamtb¡mw.

_\v[w Du«nbpd¸n¡mw Aѳ Xsâ tlm_nIÄ

aI\pambn ]¦phbv¡póXv \ñ

XmWv. ]ckv]c_Ô¯nsâ \sñmcp I®n hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ CXv D]Icn¡pw. Iuamc¯nse¯pt¼mÄ B¬

Ip«nIÄ amXm]nXm¡tfmSpÅ s]cpamä¯nð sNdnb AIew

]peÀ¯mdpïv. aI³ Iuamc{]m

b¯nð F¯pw apt¼ Aѳ kz´w hnt\mZ§fpw tlm_nI

fpw aI\pambn ]¦ph¨mð Iuam

c¯nepïmImhpó AIew Hcp ]cn[nhsc Ipdbv¡m\mIpw.

B¬Ip«nIfpambn kabw

sNehgn¡m³ AÑòmÀ {i²n¡Ww. F{X Xnc¡msW

¦nepw aI\pambn sNehgn¡m³ AÑòmÀ Ipsd kabw Isï¯

Ww. AXv Hcp ioeam¡n amäWw. AXneqsSbmWv AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ Bß_Ôw hfÀóp hcpóXv.

aI\pambpÅ _Ô¯nð hcpó hyXymk§Ä AwKoIcn

¡m\pw kzoIcn¡m\pw Aѳ X¿mdmIWw. _mey¯nð ]qÀ

Wambpw \n§sf B{ibn

¨mWv Ip«n hfcpI. Fómð hfcpt´mdpw Ahsâ kz`mh

¯nepw {]IrX¯nepw amä§fp

ïmIpw. Iuamc¡me¯v ]pdw

temIs¯¯pótXmsS ]pXnb kplr¯p¡fpw Xmev¸cy§fpw Ah\nð P\n¡pw. sNdp¸¯nð AÑt\mSv ]peÀ¯nbncpó Xmev¸cyw Ah³ Iuamc¯nð ]peÀ¯Wsaónñ. {]mb¯n

\\pkcn¨v aI\nepïmb amäw

Xncn¨dnªv AXnt\mSv tNÀóp

t]mIm³ IgnbpóXmWv AÑsâ hnPbw.

_豈 \ne\ndp¯m\pw

hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m\pw ]ckv]c_

lpam\¯n\pÅ ]¦v \nkvXp

eamWv. F{X ASp¸apÅ _Ô

amsW¦nepw HcmÄ atäbmfpsS AXnÀ¯n ewLn¡m³ ]mSnñ.

]ckv]cw _lpam\n¨v \o§W

saóÀ°w.

Iel§Ä AIäm\pÅ hgnIÄ

sIm¨nbnse Hcp {]apJ

tImtfPnse _n. sS¡v hnZymÀ

°nbmWv hn\p. Aѳ tiJÀ sIm¨n³ t]mÀ«v{SÌnse DtZymK

Ø\mWv. _mey¯nð AÑsâ \ngenð \nóv amdnñmbncpóp hn\p. aIs\ cmhnse Ipfn¸n¨v kvIqfnð sImïphnSm³ hsc

tiJÀ Xsó thWambncpóp. ]s£ Iuamc¯nse¯nbtXmsS IYamdn; hn\phnsâ A½ KoX CtX¡pdn¨v ]dbpóXn§s\:

"AÑs\¸än Ah\v Ft¸m

gpw ]cmXnbmWv. Ahs\ \nb

{´n¡m\pw hnaÀin¡m\pw

am{Xta Aѳ ASp¯phcmdp

Åqhs{X!. Fómð AÑsâ ]cmXn, hn\phnsâ s]cpamäw Ft¸mgpw Xsó ]cnlkn¡pó coXnbnemsWómWv. kwkm

cn¡m³ sNñpt¼mÄ Hgnªp

amdpIbmWs{X'.

aI³ Nn´n¡póp, AÑ\v Xsó a\knem¡m³ Ignbpónsñóv; Fómð aI\v

Xsó DÄs¡mÅm\mIpón

sñómWv AÑsâ hnNmcw. CcphcpsSbpw kz`mhw X½nð tNcnsñóv AhÀ hnizkn¡póp. Fómð t\sc adn¨mWv kXy

saóv A½ ]dbpóp: "bYmÀ°

¯nð cïpt]À¡pw Htc kz`m

hamWv'.

aI\pambpÅ _Ôw hfÀ

¯nsbSp¡m³ Aѳ {i²nt¡

ï Nne {][m\ Imcy§fpïv. aIs\ hnaÀint¡ï kµÀ`w hcpt¼mÄ Aѳ hfsc {i²n

¡Ww. hnaÀi\¯nsâ ImÀ¡

iyw Ipd¨v hnaÀi\s¯ \nÀt±

iam¡n cq]m´cs¸Sp¯póXm

bncn¡pw \ñXv. kz´w A`n{]m

b§Ä clkyam¡n hbv¡pó

Xnepw \ñXv aI\pambn ]¦phbv

¡póXmWv.

kzmÀ°Xsbtóm hnUvVn¯csatóm aIsâ {]hr¯nIsf ap{Z Ip¯cpXv. AXhs\ {hWs¸Sp¯pw. BZyw \ñ KpW§Ä ]dªXn\p tijta sXäpIÄ Nqïn¡m«n Xncp¯m³ {ian¡m

hq. CsXmcp ioeam¡pI. Hcn¡

epw aIs\ ]ckyambn Ifnbm

¡pItbm \mWwsISp¯pItbm sN¿cpXv. A§s\ sNbvXmð

]nóoSv \n§Ä Zp:Jnt¡ïnhcpw.

Iuamc¡mcmb Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS A`n{]mb§Ä {]ISn

¸n¡pt¼mÄ Nne AÑòmÀ Fñmbvt¸mgpw FXnc`n{]mbta

{]ISn¸n¡q. C¯cw s]cpam

äw Ip«nIsf Ahcnð \nóIäm

t\ D]Icn¡q. amXm]nXm¡fn

ð \nóv t{]mÕml\hpw \ñ

hnebncp¯epIfpw Iuamc¡mÀ {]Xo£n¡mdpïv. \n§fpsS

A{Xbpw s]m¡w hs¨óp IcpXn \n§fpsS Iq«pImtcmSv hmZn¡póXpt]mse Iuamc

¡mc\mb aIt\mSv XÀ¡n¡

cpXv. henb icoc¯n\pÅnð

hfÀóphcpsómcp a\ÊmWp

ÅXv. AÑsâ t{]mÕml

\hpw \ñhm¡pw kuaykw

`mjW§fpw hfcpó aI\v BhiyamWv.

Htct]mse Xmev¸cyapÅ Imcy§fnepw hnjb§fnepw AÑ\pw aI\pw CS]gIm³ {ian¡pI. AÑ\v aIsâ taepÅ

FXnc`n{]mb§fpw Xocpam

\§fpw ASnt¨ð¸n¡m\pÅ

km[yX CtXmsS Ipdbpw. ZrVXbmÀó Bß_Ôw cq]s¸Sm³ XamiIfpw a\Êp

Xpdó s]cpamähpw IqSntb Xocq. Hcpan¨ncpóv Hcp Xami

¸Sw ImWmw, ]gb Ah[n¡m

es¯ a[pcIcamb HmÀ½IÄ ]¦phbv¡mw, aIsâ kt´m

j¯n\v sNdnb IpkrXnIfpw Im«mw... C§s\ ]ckv]cw

ASp¸w Du«nhfÀ¯mw. Aѳ

Xsó a\knem¡n s]cpam

dpó Hcp hyànbmsWó t_m[w CtXmsS aI\nð DïmIpw. XtómsSm¸w kabw sNehgn¡póXnð AÑ\v B\µw e`n¡psóó t_m[w aIsâ _Ôs¯ iàns¸Sp¯pw.

AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ

_Ô¯nse \ñXpw tamihp

amb hi§Ä Xncn¨dnbpó HcmÄ A½bmWv. Iuamc¡mc

\mb aIt\mSpÅ \n§fpsS s]cpamä¯nse icnbpw sXäpw `mcytbmSp tNmZn¨dnbWw. aIt\mSpÅ Bß_Ôw Du«n

bpd¸n¡m³ `mcybpsS \nÀt±i

§fpw A`n{]mb§fpw kzoIcn

¡Ww. A½þ aI³ _Ôs¯ Dujvafam¡m³ AhÀ t\cn« shñphnfnIfpw AXnð \nóv AhÀ DÄs¡mï ]mT§fpw \n

§sf klmbns¨óncn¡pw.

Iuamc¡mcmb Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS A`n{]mb§Ä {]ISn¸n¡pt¼mÄ Nne AÑòmÀ Fñmbvt¸mgpw FXnc`n{]mbta {]ISn¸n¡q. C¯cw s]cpamäw Ip«nIsf Ahcnð \nóIämt\ D]Icn¡q.

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aIsâ AѳAÑ\pw aI\pw X½nð \ñ Bß_Ôw hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ AdntbïsXñmw...

A¸sâ aZy]m\ioew amäm³ [ym\

tI{µ¯nð sImïm¡pI

bpw ]nsó Bcpw ImWmsX aXnð NmSn A¸s\ AhnSpóv tamNn¸n¡pIbpw sN¿pó aI³. C¯c¯nepÅ Hc¸tâbpw aItâbpw Bß_Ô¯nsâ IYbmWv "a\Ên\¡sc' Fó kn\na. Hcp \nanjw t]mepw A¸s\ hn«p]ncnbm³ Ignbm¯ aIsâ kvt\lamWv Cu Nn{Xw hc¨pIm«póXv. Cóskâpw PbdmapamWv A¸\pw aI\pambn

t{]£IcpsS I®p \\bn¨Xv.

HcÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepïmbncn

t¡ï kvt\lhpw sI«pd¸pw shfns¸Sp¯póp Cu kn\na.

Bibhn\nab¯nsâ A`mhhpw tIm]hpw tNÀómð

Aѳþ aI³ _Ô¯nð

hnÅepIÄ hogpw. Ccphscbpw ]ckv]cw _Ôn¸n¡pó \nc

h[n Imcy§Ä PohnX¯n

epïv. H«pan¡ B¬Ip«nIfpw AÑòmcpsS ioe§fpw hnt\mZ

§fpw PohnX¯nð ]IÀ¯p

óhcmWv. ImcWw Fs´ms¡

bmsW¦nepw IpSpw_PohnX

¯nð AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ Bß_Ô¯nsâ at\mlmcnX thdn«p\nð¡póp. Cu _Ôw \ómbn ]cnt]mjn¸n¨mð F¡mehpw \ne\nð¡pw. AÑ

\pw aIfpw X½nemWv KmVamb _Ôw DSseSp¡pIsbóv s]m

Xpth ]dbmdpïv. Fómepw AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ kulrZ]camb _Ôw Xsó

bmWv aItfmSpÅXnð \nópw

IqSpXð BgapÅXv.

_mey¯nð B¬Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS amXrIm]pcpjòm

cmbn AÑòmscbmWv ImWp

óXv. AÑ\v F´pw sN¿m³ Ignbpsaóv Ip«nIÄ hnizkn

¡póp. AÑsâ PohnXssi

enbpw s]cpamähpw hsc Ahsc kzm[o\n¡pw. AÑsâ \S¯w, kwkmcw, hkv{X[mcWw XpS§n

bhsbñmw AhÀ A\pIcn¡pw. Cu {]mb¯nð B¬Ip«nIÄ AÑs\ kt´mjn¸n¡m\pw

AhcpsS AwKoImchpw kzo

ImcyXbpw t\Sm\pw {ian¡pw.

Fómð aI³ Iuamc¯n

se¯pt¼mÄ ØnXn amdpw. AÑ\pw aI\pw CSbnð `nóXbpsS \m¼pIÄ apfs]m

«pw. AÑsâ \nÀt±i§sfbpw aqey§sfbpw \nckn¡pIbpw AXn\v hn]coXamb hgnsb aI³ ]n´pScpIbpw sN¿pw. ChÀ¡nSbnð hnZzj¯nsâ hn¯pIÄ apf¨pXpS§m\pw CXv ImcWamtb¡mw.

_\v[w Du«nbpd¸n¡mw Aѳ Xsâ tlm_nIÄ

aI\pambn ]¦phbv¡póXv \ñ

XmWv. ]ckv]c_Ô¯nsâ \sñmcp I®n hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ CXv D]Icn¡pw. Iuamc¯nse¯pt¼mÄ B¬

Ip«nIÄ amXm]nXm¡tfmSpÅ s]cpamä¯nð sNdnb AIew

]peÀ¯mdpïv. aI³ Iuamc{]m

b¯nð F¯pw apt¼ Aѳ kz´w hnt\mZ§fpw tlm_nI

fpw aI\pambn ]¦ph¨mð Iuam

c¯nepïmImhpó AIew Hcp ]cn[nhsc Ipdbv¡m\mIpw.

B¬Ip«nIfpambn kabw

sNehgn¡m³ AÑòmÀ {i²n¡Ww. F{X Xnc¡msW

¦nepw aI\pambn sNehgn¡m³ AÑòmÀ Ipsd kabw Isï¯

Ww. AXv Hcp ioeam¡n amäWw. AXneqsSbmWv AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ Bß_Ôw hfÀóp hcpóXv.

aI\pambpÅ _Ô¯nð hcpó hyXymk§Ä AwKoIcn

¡m\pw kzoIcn¡m\pw Aѳ X¿mdmIWw. _mey¯nð ]qÀ

Wambpw \n§sf B{ibn

¨mWv Ip«n hfcpI. Fómð hfcpt´mdpw Ahsâ kz`mh

¯nepw {]IrX¯nepw amä§fp

ïmIpw. Iuamc¡me¯v ]pdw

temIs¯¯pótXmsS ]pXnb kplr¯p¡fpw Xmev¸cy§fpw Ah\nð P\n¡pw. sNdp¸¯nð AÑt\mSv ]peÀ¯nbncpó Xmev¸cyw Ah³ Iuamc¯nð ]peÀ¯Wsaónñ. {]mb¯n

\\pkcn¨v aI\nepïmb amäw

Xncn¨dnªv AXnt\mSv tNÀóp

t]mIm³ IgnbpóXmWv AÑsâ hnPbw.

_豈 \ne\ndp¯m\pw

hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m\pw ]ckv]c_

lpam\¯n\pÅ ]¦v \nkvXp

eamWv. F{X ASp¸apÅ _Ô

amsW¦nepw HcmÄ atäbmfpsS AXnÀ¯n ewLn¡m³ ]mSnñ.

]ckv]cw _lpam\n¨v \o§W

saóÀ°w.

Iel§Ä AIäm\pÅ hgnIÄ

sIm¨nbnse Hcp {]apJ

tImtfPnse _n. sS¡v hnZymÀ

°nbmWv hn\p. Aѳ tiJÀ sIm¨n³ t]mÀ«v{SÌnse DtZymK

Ø\mWv. _mey¯nð AÑsâ \ngenð \nóv amdnñmbncpóp hn\p. aIs\ cmhnse Ipfn¸n¨v kvIqfnð sImïphnSm³ hsc

tiJÀ Xsó thWambncpóp. ]s£ Iuamc¯nse¯nbtXmsS IYamdn; hn\phnsâ A½ KoX CtX¡pdn¨v ]dbpóXn§s\:

"AÑs\¸än Ah\v Ft¸m

gpw ]cmXnbmWv. Ahs\ \nb

{´n¡m\pw hnaÀin¡m\pw

am{Xta Aѳ ASp¯phcmdp

Åqhs{X!. Fómð AÑsâ ]cmXn, hn\phnsâ s]cpamäw Ft¸mgpw Xsó ]cnlkn¡pó coXnbnemsWómWv. kwkm

cn¡m³ sNñpt¼mÄ Hgnªp

amdpIbmWs{X'.

aI³ Nn´n¡póp, AÑ\v Xsó a\knem¡m³ Ignbpónsñóv; Fómð aI\v

Xsó DÄs¡mÅm\mIpón

sñómWv AÑsâ hnNmcw. CcphcpsSbpw kz`mhw X½nð tNcnsñóv AhÀ hnizkn¡póp. Fómð t\sc adn¨mWv kXy

saóv A½ ]dbpóp: "bYmÀ°

¯nð cïpt]À¡pw Htc kz`m

hamWv'.

aI\pambpÅ _Ôw hfÀ

¯nsbSp¡m³ Aѳ {i²nt¡

ï Nne {][m\ Imcy§fpïv. aIs\ hnaÀint¡ï kµÀ`w hcpt¼mÄ Aѳ hfsc {i²n

¡Ww. hnaÀi\¯nsâ ImÀ¡

iyw Ipd¨v hnaÀi\s¯ \nÀt±

iam¡n cq]m´cs¸Sp¯póXm

bncn¡pw \ñXv. kz´w A`n{]m

b§Ä clkyam¡n hbv¡pó

Xnepw \ñXv aI\pambn ]¦phbv

¡póXmWv.

kzmÀ°Xsbtóm hnUvVn¯csatóm aIsâ {]hr¯nIsf ap{Z Ip¯cpXv. AXhs\ {hWs¸Sp¯pw. BZyw \ñ KpW§Ä ]dªXn\p tijta sXäpIÄ Nqïn¡m«n Xncp¯m³ {ian¡m

hq. CsXmcp ioeam¡pI. Hcn¡

epw aIs\ ]ckyambn Ifnbm

¡pItbm \mWwsISp¯pItbm sN¿cpXv. A§s\ sNbvXmð

]nóoSv \n§Ä Zp:Jnt¡ïnhcpw.

Iuamc¡mcmb Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS A`n{]mb§Ä {]ISn

¸n¡pt¼mÄ Nne AÑòmÀ Fñmbvt¸mgpw FXnc`n{]mbta

{]ISn¸n¡q. C¯cw s]cpam

äw Ip«nIsf Ahcnð \nóIäm

t\ D]Icn¡q. amXm]nXm¡fn

ð \nóv t{]mÕml\hpw \ñ

hnebncp¯epIfpw Iuamc¡mÀ {]Xo£n¡mdpïv. \n§fpsS

A{Xbpw s]m¡w hs¨óp IcpXn \n§fpsS Iq«pImtcmSv hmZn¡póXpt]mse Iuamc

¡mc\mb aIt\mSv XÀ¡n¡

cpXv. henb icoc¯n\pÅnð

hfÀóphcpsómcp a\ÊmWp

ÅXv. AÑsâ t{]mÕml

\hpw \ñhm¡pw kuaykw

`mjW§fpw hfcpó aI\v BhiyamWv.

Htct]mse Xmev¸cyapÅ Imcy§fnepw hnjb§fnepw AÑ\pw aI\pw CS]gIm³ {ian¡pI. AÑ\v aIsâ taepÅ

FXnc`n{]mb§fpw Xocpam

\§fpw ASnt¨ð¸n¡m\pÅ

km[yX CtXmsS Ipdbpw. ZrVXbmÀó Bß_Ôw cq]s¸Sm³ XamiIfpw a\Êp

Xpdó s]cpamähpw IqSntb Xocq. Hcpan¨ncpóv Hcp Xami

¸Sw ImWmw, ]gb Ah[n¡m

es¯ a[pcIcamb HmÀ½IÄ ]¦phbv¡mw, aIsâ kt´m

j¯n\v sNdnb IpkrXnIfpw Im«mw... C§s\ ]ckv]cw

ASp¸w Du«nhfÀ¯mw. Aѳ

Xsó a\knem¡n s]cpam

dpó Hcp hyànbmsWó t_m[w CtXmsS aI\nð DïmIpw. XtómsSm¸w kabw sNehgn¡póXnð AÑ\v B\µw e`n¡psóó t_m[w aIsâ _Ôs¯ iàns¸Sp¯pw.

AÑ\pw aI\pw X½nepÅ

_Ô¯nse \ñXpw tamihp

amb hi§Ä Xncn¨dnbpó HcmÄ A½bmWv. Iuamc¡mc

\mb aIt\mSpÅ \n§fpsS s]cpamä¯nse icnbpw sXäpw `mcytbmSp tNmZn¨dnbWw. aIt\mSpÅ Bß_Ôw Du«n

bpd¸n¡m³ `mcybpsS \nÀt±i

§fpw A`n{]mb§fpw kzoIcn

¡Ww. A½þ aI³ _Ôs¯ Dujvafam¡m³ AhÀ t\cn« shñphnfnIfpw AXnð \nóv AhÀ DÄs¡mï ]mT§fpw \n

§sf klmbns¨óncn¡pw.

Iuamc¡mcmb Ip«nIÄ AhcpsS A`n{]mb§Ä {]ISn¸n¡pt¼mÄ Nne AÑòmÀ Fñmbvt¸mgpw FXnc`n{]mbta {]ISn¸n¡q. C¯cw s]cpamäw Ip«nIsf Ahcnð \nóIämt\ D]Icn¡q.

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kpJ{]kh¯n\v KÀ`nWnIÄ AdntbïsXñmw...

bañm¯ Fs´¦nepw tcmKw Dtïmsbóv Isï¯pI XpS§nb Imcy§Ä {][m\amWv.

KÀ`w [cn¡pótXmsS amk¯nð Hcn¡ð tUmIvSsd

kµÀin¡pI. {]khXobXn ASp¡pt´mdpw IqSn¡mgvN BgvNbnð Hóv Fó coXnbn

te¡v amäWw. Hmtcm kµÀi\

¯nepw \S¯pó ]cntim[\IfneqsS KÀ`Øiniphnsâbpw KÀ`nWnbpsSbpw BtcmKyØnXn a\knem¡mw.

1. \ñ saUn¡ð ]cnNcWw KÀ`Ime¯v anI¨ NnInÕm

]cnNcWw \ðIWw. KÀ`nWn

bmIpw apt¼ ]cnNcW¯nsâ BZy]mT§Ä XpS§Ww. tUmIvSsd ImWm³ t]mIpt¼m

Ä KÀ`mhØ kw_Ôn¨ \n§

fpsS kwib§Ä tNmZn¡

Ww. Iïpw tI«padnª kwib§fpw DXv¡WvTIfpw Hcp shÅ¡Semknð FgpXn kq£n¡pI. tUmIvSsd ImWm³ t]mIpt¼mÄ tNmZy§Ä ssI¿nð IcpXpI. Cu tNmZy

§Ä Xpdóv NÀ¨sN¿mw. Bi¦ amdpónsñ¦nð tUmIvStdmSv hniZoIcWw tXSm\pw aSn¡cpXv.

tUmIvStdmSv kXykÔambn s]cpamdWw. Nne kv{XoIÄ tUmIvStdmSv kz´w BtcmKyw kw_Ôn¨ Fñm Imcy§fpw Xpdóv kwkmcn¡m³ aSn ImWn

¡mdpïv. Fñmw Xpdóv ]dtb

ïXv \n§fpsS Xsó Bhiy

amWv. asäs´¦nepw tcmK¯n\v t\cs¯ \S¯nb NnInÕIÄ, KÀ`Ime¯v A\p`hs¸Spó {]iv\§Ä, t\cs¯ Ign¨n«pÅ acpópIfpsS hnhc§Ä, At_m

Àj³, t\cs¯ \Só KÀ`[m

cWw, Hm¸tdj\pIÄ, C³s^

£\pIÄ XpS§nbhsb

¡pdns¨ñmw Xpdóv ]dbpI {][m\s¸« ImcyamWv. CXv tUmIvSÀ¡v \n§sf IqSpXð a\knem¡m³ klmbn¡pw.

2.cïpt]À¡pÅ `£Ww t]mjIKpW§fpÅ

`£Ww KÀ`Øiniphnsâ hfÀ¨bv¡pw BtcmKy¯n\pw

AXy´mt]£nXamWv. km[mcW kv{XoIsf At]

£n¨v KÀ`nWnIfpsS icocw

300 A[nI Itemdn IqSn HmtcmZn

hkhpw hn\ntbmKn¡pw. t]mj

I§fS§nb kaoIrXmlmcw ioen¡Ww.

KÀ`Imes¯ sshZy]cnNcWw Fóv

XpS§Ww? A½bmIm³ Hcp§pó kv{XoIsf

Ae«pó Hcp {][m\ kwibam

WnXv. BtcmKyapÅ Hcp Ip«n¡p

thïn KÀ`[mcW¯n\pw apt¼

ap³IcpXepIfpw X¿msdSp¸p

Ifpw \St¯ïXpïv. hnZKvZ tUmIvSdpsS klmbw CXn\mbn

tXSmw. cà{Kq¸nsâ {]tXyIX

IÄ, BtcmKyIcamb `£Wco

Xn ioeam¡ð, \nb{´Whnt[

KÀ`mhØbv¡v A\ptbmPy

amb `£WcoXn kpJIcamb KÀ`Ime¯n\v hgnsbmcp¡pw. tamWnwKv kn¡vs\kpw, Zl\

¡pdhv aqeapïmIpó AkzØ

XIfpw Ipdbv¡m³ CXv CSbm¡pw. AtXmsSm¸w £oWw, ae_Ôw aäv imcocnI AkzmØy§Ä Fónh Hgnhm¡m\pw \ñ `£W{Iaw klmbn¡pw.

\ñ `£WcoXn kzoIcn¨mð \n§fpsS icoc`mcw {IamXoX

ambn hÀ²n¡msX kq£n¡m\m

hpw. AÀikv, thcnt¡mkv shbn³, hbänse Xz¡nð hogpó ]mSpIÄ, \SpthZ\, icoc£oWw Fónh Hgnhm¡m

\pw CXneqsS Ignbpw.

3. {i²n¡pI, AWp_m[ KÀ`Ime¯v {i²nt¡ï {]

[m\ ImcyamWv AWp_m[. KÀ`Øiniphnsâ BtcmKy

s¯ AWp_m[ KpcpXcambn _m[n¡pw. aq{Xmib tcmK§fpw

ssewKnI tcmK§fpw ASnb´

cambn NnInÕnt¡ïXmWv. `£yhnj_m[ asämcp hnñ\m

Wv. KÀ`Øiniphns\ sa\nsô

änkv, \yptamWnb XpS§nb tcmK§Ä CXv k½m\ns¨ón

cn¡pw. KÀ`Ø iniphnsâ acW¯n\pXsó CXv ImcWamtb¡mw. IqSmsX CXneqsS DïmIm\nSbpÅ OÀ±nepw Hgn¨nepw A½bv¡v XfÀ¨bpw Uosslt{Uj\pw

k½m\n¡pw. tcmK§fpw ]IÀ¨

hym[nIfpw ]nSn¡mXncn¡m³

KÀ`Ime¯v ap³IcpXepIÄ FSp¡Ww. HcmÄ D]tbmKn¨

]m{X§Ä, Nmb¡¸pIÄ Fónh IgpIn hr¯nbm¡nb tijta D]tbmKn¡mhq.

4. k½À±§tf... hnS PohnX¯nsâ ]ncnapdp¡

§fnð \nóv KÀ`nWnIÄ Ah[nsbSp¡póXmWv \ñXv.

KÀ`Ime¯v a\knð k½À±

§fpw kwLÀj§fpw DïmIm

Xncn¡m³ {i²n¡Ww. am\knI k½À±§Ä, KÀ`[mcW¯nsâ ]mÀiz^e§fmb tamWnwKv kn¡vs\kv, £oWw, XethZ\, a\w]pc«ð Fónhsb hÀ²n¸n

¡pItbbpÅq. AXn\mð aäpÅ

hcnð \nóv klmbw kzoIcn

¡m³ aSn¡cpXv. k½À±§Ä Dfhm¡pó kmlNcy§fnð \nóv amdn \nð¡pI. tbmK, {]mWmbmaw, [ym\w Fónh sNbvXv k½À±§sf ]Sn¡v ]pd

¯m¡mw.

5. elcn]ZmÀ°§Ä Fó hnñ³

]pIhen¡pó kv{XoIÄ

AhcpsS Ip«nIfpsS BtcmKy

s¯ A]IS¯nem¡póp. hfÀ¨sb¯m¯ {]khw, Ip«nbpsS Xq¡¡pdhv Fónh

bv¡pÅ km[yX ]pIhen¡pó kv{XoIfnð IqSpXemWv. \hPm

Xinip¡Ä¡v BkvXa t]mse

bpÅ izmktImi kw_Ôamb tcmK§Ä DïmIm\p

anSbpïv. IpSpw_¯nse ]p

Ihen¡póhÀ ]pdt¯¡v hnSpó ]pI Ipªnsâ

BtcmKys¯ lm\nIcambn _m[n¡pw. Bð¡tlmÄ {`qW

hfÀ¨sb tamiambn _m[n¡pw. Ip«nbpsS am\knIhpw imcocnI

hpamb BtcmKyw \jvSs¸Sm³ CXv hgnsh¡pw.

6 acpóv Ign¡pt¼mÄ... KÀ`Ime¯v ]e acpópIÄ

Ignt¡ïn hcpw. Fómð Ch tUmIvSdpsS hnZKvZ \nÀt±

it¯msS am{Xta Ign¡mhq. saUn¡ð tjm¸pIfnð \nóv acpóv hm§n Ign¨pÅ kzbw NnInÕ \ñXñ. KÀ`¯nsâ BZy aqóv amk§fnð Ignbp

sa¦nð AanXambn acpópIÄ Ign¡cpXv. BtcmKy{]iv\§fp

sï¦nð Xsó Ipdª tUmkn

epÅ acpómWv A`nImayw.

Nne acpópIÄ KÀ`Ime¯v

Ign¨mð KÀ`nWnIÄ¡v Ipg¸

§fpïm¡nñ. \nehnð asä

´nepw tcmK¯n\v acpóv Ign¨psImïncpó Hcp kv{Xo KÀ`nWnbmIpt¼mÄ B acpóv Hgnhm¡m\mhnñ. A]kvamcw, BkvXva, càk½À±w XpS§nb tcmK§Ä¡v Ign¡pó acpóv KÀ`Ime¯v Hgnhm¡m\mhnñ. IgnbpóXpw tUmIvSsd kao]n

¨v KÀ`nWnbpsS BtcmKy¯n\v lm\nIcamIm¯ acpópIÄ tXSWw. A]kvamc¯n\v Ign¡pó acpópIÄ iniphn\v P\\sshIeyw Dïm¡m\nSbp

ïv. AXpt]mse Xsó A]kv

amcw KÀ`Øiniphnsâ _p²n

iànsb Ipg¸¯nem¡m\nS

bpïv.

7. hymbmaw KÀ`Ime¯pÅ hymbma§Ä

kpJ{]kh¯n\v klmbn¡pw. hymbmaw sN¿m¯ KÀ`nWnI

sf¡mÄ hymbmaw sN¿pó kv{XoIfmWv ]qÀ® hfÀ¨

sb¯nb Ip«nIsf {]khn¡p

óXv. KÀ`Ime¯v hymbmaw sN¿póXn\p ap¼v tUmIvSdpsS D]tZiw tXSWw. BgvNbnð aqóp Znhksa¦nepw hymbmaw sN¿Ww. 20 an\näv hoXw CXn\m

bn hn\ntbmKn¡mw. icocw Ipep

§pIbpw CfIpIbpw sN¿pó hymbma§Ä IgnhXpw Hgnhm

t¡ïXmWv. NqSpÅ Imemh

Øbnð A[nIt\cw sNehgn

¡cpXv.

PohnX¯nsâ ]ncnapdp¡§fnð \nóv KÀ`nWnIÄ Ah[nsbSp¡póXmWv \ñXv. KÀ`Ime¯v a\knð k½À±§fpw kwLÀj§fpw DïmImXncn¡m³ {i²n¡Ww.

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bañm¯ Fs´¦nepw tcmKw Dtïmsbóv Isï¯pI XpS§nb Imcy§Ä {][m\amWv.

KÀ`w [cn¡pótXmsS amk¯nð Hcn¡ð tUmIvSsd

kµÀin¡pI. {]khXobXn ASp¡pt´mdpw IqSn¡mgvN BgvNbnð Hóv Fó coXnbn

te¡v amäWw. Hmtcm kµÀi\

¯nepw \S¯pó ]cntim[\IfneqsS KÀ`Øiniphnsâbpw KÀ`nWnbpsSbpw BtcmKyØnXn a\knem¡mw.

1. \ñ saUn¡ð ]cnNcWw KÀ`Ime¯v anI¨ NnInÕm

]cnNcWw \ðIWw. KÀ`nWn

bmIpw apt¼ ]cnNcW¯nsâ BZy]mT§Ä XpS§Ww. tUmIvSsd ImWm³ t]mIpt¼m

Ä KÀ`mhØ kw_Ôn¨ \n§

fpsS kwib§Ä tNmZn¡

Ww. Iïpw tI«padnª kwib§fpw DXv¡WvTIfpw Hcp shÅ¡Semknð FgpXn kq£n¡pI. tUmIvSsd ImWm³ t]mIpt¼mÄ tNmZy§Ä ssI¿nð IcpXpI. Cu tNmZy

§Ä Xpdóv NÀ¨sN¿mw. Bi¦ amdpónsñ¦nð tUmIvStdmSv hniZoIcWw tXSm\pw aSn¡cpXv.

tUmIvStdmSv kXykÔambn s]cpamdWw. Nne kv{XoIÄ tUmIvStdmSv kz´w BtcmKyw kw_Ôn¨ Fñm Imcy§fpw Xpdóv kwkmcn¡m³ aSn ImWn

¡mdpïv. Fñmw Xpdóv ]dtb

ïXv \n§fpsS Xsó Bhiy

amWv. asäs´¦nepw tcmK¯n\v t\cs¯ \S¯nb NnInÕIÄ, KÀ`Ime¯v A\p`hs¸Spó {]iv\§Ä, t\cs¯ Ign¨n«pÅ acpópIfpsS hnhc§Ä, At_m

Àj³, t\cs¯ \Só KÀ`[m

cWw, Hm¸tdj\pIÄ, C³s^

£\pIÄ XpS§nbhsb

¡pdns¨ñmw Xpdóv ]dbpI {][m\s¸« ImcyamWv. CXv tUmIvSÀ¡v \n§sf IqSpXð a\knem¡m³ klmbn¡pw.

2.cïpt]À¡pÅ `£Ww t]mjIKpW§fpÅ

`£Ww KÀ`Øiniphnsâ hfÀ¨bv¡pw BtcmKy¯n\pw

AXy´mt]£nXamWv. km[mcW kv{XoIsf At]

£n¨v KÀ`nWnIfpsS icocw

300 A[nI Itemdn IqSn HmtcmZn

hkhpw hn\ntbmKn¡pw. t]mj

I§fS§nb kaoIrXmlmcw ioen¡Ww.

KÀ`Imes¯ sshZy]cnNcWw Fóv

XpS§Ww? A½bmIm³ Hcp§pó kv{XoIsf

Ae«pó Hcp {][m\ kwibam

WnXv. BtcmKyapÅ Hcp Ip«n¡p

thïn KÀ`[mcW¯n\pw apt¼

ap³IcpXepIfpw X¿msdSp¸p

Ifpw \St¯ïXpïv. hnZKvZ tUmIvSdpsS klmbw CXn\mbn

tXSmw. cà{Kq¸nsâ {]tXyIX

IÄ, BtcmKyIcamb `£Wco

Xn ioeam¡ð, \nb{´Whnt[

KÀ`mhØbv¡v A\ptbmPy

amb `£WcoXn kpJIcamb KÀ`Ime¯n\v hgnsbmcp¡pw. tamWnwKv kn¡vs\kpw, Zl\

¡pdhv aqeapïmIpó AkzØ

XIfpw Ipdbv¡m³ CXv CSbm¡pw. AtXmsSm¸w £oWw, ae_Ôw aäv imcocnI AkzmØy§Ä Fónh Hgnhm¡m\pw \ñ `£W{Iaw klmbn¡pw.

\ñ `£WcoXn kzoIcn¨mð \n§fpsS icoc`mcw {IamXoX

ambn hÀ²n¡msX kq£n¡m\m

hpw. AÀikv, thcnt¡mkv shbn³, hbänse Xz¡nð hogpó ]mSpIÄ, \SpthZ\, icoc£oWw Fónh Hgnhm¡m

\pw CXneqsS Ignbpw.

3. {i²n¡pI, AWp_m[ KÀ`Ime¯v {i²nt¡ï {]

[m\ ImcyamWv AWp_m[. KÀ`Øiniphnsâ BtcmKy

s¯ AWp_m[ KpcpXcambn _m[n¡pw. aq{Xmib tcmK§fpw

ssewKnI tcmK§fpw ASnb´

cambn NnInÕnt¡ïXmWv. `£yhnj_m[ asämcp hnñ\m

Wv. KÀ`Øiniphns\ sa\nsô

änkv, \yptamWnb XpS§nb tcmK§Ä CXv k½m\ns¨ón

cn¡pw. KÀ`Ø iniphnsâ acW¯n\pXsó CXv ImcWamtb¡mw. IqSmsX CXneqsS DïmIm\nSbpÅ OÀ±nepw Hgn¨nepw A½bv¡v XfÀ¨bpw Uosslt{Uj\pw

k½m\n¡pw. tcmK§fpw ]IÀ¨

hym[nIfpw ]nSn¡mXncn¡m³

KÀ`Ime¯v ap³IcpXepIÄ FSp¡Ww. HcmÄ D]tbmKn¨

]m{X§Ä, Nmb¡¸pIÄ Fónh IgpIn hr¯nbm¡nb tijta D]tbmKn¡mhq.

4. k½À±§tf... hnS PohnX¯nsâ ]ncnapdp¡

§fnð \nóv KÀ`nWnIÄ Ah[nsbSp¡póXmWv \ñXv.

KÀ`Ime¯v a\knð k½À±

§fpw kwLÀj§fpw DïmIm

Xncn¡m³ {i²n¡Ww. am\knI k½À±§Ä, KÀ`[mcW¯nsâ ]mÀiz^e§fmb tamWnwKv kn¡vs\kv, £oWw, XethZ\, a\w]pc«ð Fónhsb hÀ²n¸n

¡pItbbpÅq. AXn\mð aäpÅ

hcnð \nóv klmbw kzoIcn

¡m³ aSn¡cpXv. k½À±§Ä Dfhm¡pó kmlNcy§fnð \nóv amdn \nð¡pI. tbmK, {]mWmbmaw, [ym\w Fónh sNbvXv k½À±§sf ]Sn¡v ]pd

¯m¡mw.

5. elcn]ZmÀ°§Ä Fó hnñ³

]pIhen¡pó kv{XoIÄ

AhcpsS Ip«nIfpsS BtcmKy

s¯ A]IS¯nem¡póp. hfÀ¨sb¯m¯ {]khw, Ip«nbpsS Xq¡¡pdhv Fónh

bv¡pÅ km[yX ]pIhen¡pó kv{XoIfnð IqSpXemWv. \hPm

Xinip¡Ä¡v BkvXa t]mse

bpÅ izmktImi kw_Ôamb tcmK§Ä DïmIm\p

anSbpïv. IpSpw_¯nse ]p

Ihen¡póhÀ ]pdt¯¡v hnSpó ]pI Ipªnsâ

BtcmKys¯ lm\nIcambn _m[n¡pw. Bð¡tlmÄ {`qW

hfÀ¨sb tamiambn _m[n¡pw. Ip«nbpsS am\knIhpw imcocnI

hpamb BtcmKyw \jvSs¸Sm³ CXv hgnsh¡pw.

6 acpóv Ign¡pt¼mÄ... KÀ`Ime¯v ]e acpópIÄ

Ignt¡ïn hcpw. Fómð Ch tUmIvSdpsS hnZKvZ \nÀt±

it¯msS am{Xta Ign¡mhq. saUn¡ð tjm¸pIfnð \nóv acpóv hm§n Ign¨pÅ kzbw NnInÕ \ñXñ. KÀ`¯nsâ BZy aqóv amk§fnð Ignbp

sa¦nð AanXambn acpópIÄ Ign¡cpXv. BtcmKy{]iv\§fp

sï¦nð Xsó Ipdª tUmkn

epÅ acpómWv A`nImayw.

Nne acpópIÄ KÀ`Ime¯v

Ign¨mð KÀ`nWnIÄ¡v Ipg¸

§fpïm¡nñ. \nehnð asä

´nepw tcmK¯n\v acpóv Ign¨psImïncpó Hcp kv{Xo KÀ`nWnbmIpt¼mÄ B acpóv Hgnhm¡m\mhnñ. A]kvamcw, BkvXva, càk½À±w XpS§nb tcmK§Ä¡v Ign¡pó acpóv KÀ`Ime¯v Hgnhm¡m\mhnñ. IgnbpóXpw tUmIvSsd kao]n

¨v KÀ`nWnbpsS BtcmKy¯n\v lm\nIcamIm¯ acpópIÄ tXSWw. A]kvamc¯n\v Ign¡pó acpópIÄ iniphn\v P\\sshIeyw Dïm¡m\nSbp

ïv. AXpt]mse Xsó A]kv

amcw KÀ`Øiniphnsâ _p²n

iànsb Ipg¸¯nem¡m\nS

bpïv.

7. hymbmaw KÀ`Ime¯pÅ hymbma§Ä

kpJ{]kh¯n\v klmbn¡pw. hymbmaw sN¿m¯ KÀ`nWnI

sf¡mÄ hymbmaw sN¿pó kv{XoIfmWv ]qÀ® hfÀ¨

sb¯nb Ip«nIsf {]khn¡p

óXv. KÀ`Ime¯v hymbmaw sN¿póXn\p ap¼v tUmIvSdpsS D]tZiw tXSWw. BgvNbnð aqóp Znhksa¦nepw hymbmaw sN¿Ww. 20 an\näv hoXw CXn\m

bn hn\ntbmKn¡mw. icocw Ipep

§pIbpw CfIpIbpw sN¿pó hymbma§Ä IgnhXpw Hgnhm

t¡ïXmWv. NqSpÅ Imemh

Øbnð A[nIt\cw sNehgn

¡cpXv.

PohnX¯nsâ ]ncnapdp¡§fnð \nóv KÀ`nWnIÄ Ah[nsbSp¡póXmWv \ñXv. KÀ`Ime¯v a\knð k½À±§fpw kwLÀj§fpw DïmImXncn¡m³ {i²n¡Ww.

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""aq¡v Icn¨mð Xp½ð amdptam?

izkn¡pó hmbphnse s]mSn]Se§tfmSpÅ \½psS

icoc¯nsâ {]Xntcm[ kwhn[m\¯nsâ AanX{]

hÀ¯\amWv AeÀPn

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""aq¡v Icn¨mð Xp½ð amdptam?

PohnX¯nð Hcn¡se¦nepw

Xp½m¯hcpïmhnñ. aq¡S¸pw Xp½epw aqs¡men¸pw Hcn¡

se¦nepw A\p`hn¡m¯hÀ

hncfw. \nc´cambpÅ Xp½epw NoäepwsImïv PohnXw Aklyambhtcm [mcmfw.

izkn¡pó hmbphnse s]m

Sn]Se§tfmSpÅ \½psS icoc

¯nsâ {]Xntcm[ kwhn[m\

¯nsâ AanX{]hÀ¯\amWv

AeÀPn Asñ¦nð tl ^ohÀ Fódnbs¸Spó AeÀPnIv sds\änkv. Xp½ð, aq¡S¸v, aqs¡men¸v, sNmdn¨nð, I®v, aq¡v, Chbnð \nópÅ

shÅsamen¸v, I®v sNmdn¨nð Fóo e£W§Ä IqSmsX aWw, kwhZ\¡pdhv, XethZ\, £oWw, I®pIÄ¡p

Xmsg Idp¸p\ndw, sXmïsbm

en¸v FónhbpamWv AeÀPn

bpsS e£W§fmbn Iïphcp

óXv.

{]IrXnbnepÅ GXp hkvXp

hpw AeÀPn¡p ImcWamImw. s]mSn]Se§Ä, ]qs¼mSn,

arK§fpsSbpw sNdpPohnIfpsS

bpw hnkÀÖymhinjvS§Ä, ]mä, ]q¸ð FónhbmWv km[mcWbmbn AeÀPnbp

ïm¡pI. tPmenØe§fnepÅ cmkhkvXp¡Ä, ac§fpsS s]mSn Fónhbpw AeÀPn¡p ImcWamIpóp. C¯cw hkvXp

¡sf AeÀP³kv FómWv hnfn¡pI. AeÀP³kns\Xnsc

icoctImi§Ä AanX{]hÀ¯\w sN¿póXmWv AeÀPnsbó {]Xn`mkw.

AeÀPn ]eXc¯nð ]eXcw Blmckm[\§Ä,

acpópIÄ, ho«pacpópIÄ XpS§nbh Ign¡póXneqsSbpw

s]mSn]Se§Ä, ]qs¼mSn, cmkhkvXp¡Ä Fónh izkn¡póXneqsSbpamWv {][m

\ambpw AeÀPnbpïmhpóXv. tkm¸v, UnäÀPâv, sNSnIÄ, kuµcyhÀ²IhkvXp¡Ä, cmkhkvXp¡Ä, teml§Ä, emäIvkv Fónh kv]Àin¡póXneqsSbpw

acpópIÄ Ign¡póXneqsS

bpw, P´p¡fpsS hnjw, tX\o

¨, ISóð, aäp {]mWnIÄ FónhbpsS Ip¯v aqehpw AeÀPnbpïmhmw.

AeÀPnF§ns\ NnInðkn¡mw

AeÀPn¡p ImcWambhsb Hgnhm¡pI, AeÀPn hcpt¼mÄ AhbpsS Xo{hX Ipdbv¡pI, FónhbmWv \nehnepÅ NnIn

Õ.

AeÀPn¡v ssdss\änknsâ tImw¹nt¡j³kv:

1. ssk\sskänkv : ssk\kpIfpsS Zzmc§Ä aq¡nemWv Xpd¡pI. Cu Zzmc§Ä AeÀPn¡v ssdss\änkv hóv ASªpt]mIpt¼mÄ DÅnepÅ {Zh§fnð AWp_m[bpïmbn ]gp¯v ssk\sskänkv Bbn

amdpóp. icnbmb NnInÕ sNbvXnsñ¦nð AXv t{ImWnIv ssk\sskänkv Bbn amdpw.

2. bqtÌjy³ Syq_v ASªv DÄsNhn ]gp¯v, thZ\, AWp_m[ Fónh hóv tIÄhn¡p XIcmdpïm¡póp. Ip«nIfnð CXv tIÄhn¡pdhn\p ImcWamIpóp.

3. BkvXva: AeÀPnaqew izmktImikt¦mNw hcpóXmWv BkvXva. AeÀPnIv ssdss\änkv DÅhcnð an¡hÀ¡pw CXp Iïphcpóp.

AeÀPnIv ssdss\änkv aqew Hcp hyànbpsS PohnXw ZpcnX

]qÀ®amhpóp. ]T\w, tPmen Chbnð {i²n¡m³ IgnbmsX £oWhpw AkzØXbpw hyànsb hebv¡póp.

NnInÕ

1. BânlnÌan³kv :

Ch AeÀPn I¬t{SmÄ sN¿póp.

2. eqt¡mss{Sbn³ tamUnss^bÀ

aq¡S¸v, sNmdn¨nð, Xp½ð, aqs¡men¸v Fónhbv¡p ia\apïm¡póp.

3. ÌotdmbvUv: tcmKe£Ww A[nIcn¡pt¼mÄ \ómbn

\nb{´n¡m³ D]tbmKn¡p

óXmWv ÌntdmbvUvkv.

frcs DLoconsultant eNt surgeon,

Jubilee mission Hospital, tvm.www.drpaulose.com

tUm. sI. ]utemkv

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AeÀPn¡v km[mcW NnInÕsImïv ^ewIn«msX hnjan¡póhÀs¡mcp kZvhmÀ

¯bmWv tekÀ NnInÕ. Bân AeÀPn acpópIÄ, kvt{], C³

P£³ FónhsImsïmópw Bizmkw e`n¡m¯hÀ¡v tekÀ D]tbmKn¨pÅ Hm¸tdj³ Gsd ^e{]ZamWv.

aq¡nse AeÀPn¡p ImcWw ssS¸v, ssl¸À sk³knänhnän BWv. BâocnbÀ FXvtambvUð t\Àhnsâ AanX kwthZ\£aXbmWv icoctImi§fpsS Cu AanX {]hÀ¯\¯n\p ImcWw. tekÀ D]tbmKn¨v Cu t\Àhv F³UnwKvkns\ Icn¨pIfbpI hgn Cu AanXkwthZ\£aX CñmXm¡póp. Xòqew AeÀPn

IpdbpIbpw sN¿póp. AXpam

{Xañ kÀPdn¡ptijapÅ

]mSpw Cu ssl¸À sk³

knänhnän Ipdbv¡póp.

1. kÀPdn sN¿pt¼mÄ Ipd¨p kv]Ài\\mUnIÄ apdn¡s¸SpóXn\mðþ sk³kdn ]mcmknw]XänIv t\Àhv dn^vfIvknsâ iàn IpdbpIhgn Hypersesitivity ¡p ImcWamb cmkhkvXp¡fpsS Hgp¡v Ipdªv hoïpw AanXkwthZ\£aX Ipdbv¡póp.

hfsc kq£vaambn t\Àhv

F³UnwKv Icn¨pIfbpóXp

sImïv kao]IeIÄ¡v A[nIw £Xw kw`hn¡pónñ. Xsóbpañ kao]¯pÅ {KÙnIsfbpw \in¸n¡pó

XpsImïv kwthZ\miàn IpdbpIbpw XZzmcm Secretions Ipdbv¡pIbpw sN¿póp. hfsc Ipdª sNehnð Out Patient Bbn kÀPdn sN¿msaóXpw AópXsó ho«nð t]mImsaóXpw Cu NnInÕmcoXnbpsS {]mtbmKnIX Iq«póp. hncfamb {]XymLm

X§Ä, \ñ {]XnIcWw, s]s«ópÅ kuJyw Fónh Cu NnInÕbpsS ¹kv t]mbnâmWv. \nb{´nXamb kÀPdn kao]IeIÄ¡v lm\nhcp¯m¯Xv NnInÕbpsS kpc£nXXzw Dd¸phcp¯póp.

2. k_vayq¡kv UbmsXÀan

\mkmc{Ô§fnð aqóv Xcw

AØnIfpïv. Chbv¡nSbnemWv hnhn[ ssk\kpIfnð \nóp Å kpjnc§Ä Xpd¡póXv. AeÀPnaqew Cu SÀ_nt\ävkv hepXmIpt¼mÄ ssk\kpIfpsS kpjnc§Ä ASbpIbpw ssk\kv tcmKmWp

_m[nXamhpIbpw sN¿póp.

IqSmsX \mkmc{豈 ASªv aq¡S¸v DïmIpó

tXmsSm¸w hmtkmtamt«mÀ ssdss\änkpw Dïm¡póp.

SÀ_nt\ävknsâ hep¸w Ipdbv¡pt¼mÄ aq¡S¸v amdpIbpw AXphgn ssdss\änkv Fónhbv¡p ia\apïmhpIbpw sN¿póp.

sslþ{^oIz³kn CeIv{SnIv Idâv D]tbmKn¨v AhÀWIebqsS ASnbnte¡v Hcp t{]m_v IS¯n SÀ_nt\ävkv Icn¨v hep¸w Ipdbv¡pó coXnbmWv submucus diathermy. ab¡w \ðInbmWv Cu kÀPdn sN¿pósX¦nepw tUsIbdmbn NnInðk sN¿mhpóXmWv. BhcW Ie \ne\nÀ¯póXpsImïv km[mcW {]hÀ¯\¯n\v tIm«w kw`hn¡pónñ FóXv CXnsâ Hcp t\«amWv.

càhmÀ¨bpw \mkmc{Ô

§fpsS hcĨbpamWv tImw¹n

t¡j³kv. t\kð ]mbv¡nwKv hgn càhmÀ¨ XSbmw. aq¡nsâ DÄ`mKw \ómbn \\hpÅXm¡n hbv¡pIhgn hcĨbv¡pw Ipdhphcpóp. Chronic hypertrophic rhinitis \v ^e{]Zamb NnInÕbmWv submucus diathermy.

3. tIt»j³ SÀ_nt\m¹mÌn

AanXambn hfÀóv \mkmc

{Ô§sf ASbv¡pó SÀ_nt\ävkns\ achn¸n¨v Icn¨pIfbpó coXnbmWnXv. tdUntbm {^oIz³kn D]tbmKn¨v tImt»j³. CXv ioXoIcn¨p sN¿póXn\mð kao]IeIsf H«pw \in¸n¡pónñ.

t\kð AeÀPn Fó km[mc

W tcmKw \s½ F´pam{Xw _p²nap«n¡póp FóXv Cu tcmK¯nsâ k¦oÀ®XIq«póp.

\½psS icoctImi§fpsS Xsó AanX kwthZ\£aXbpsS ^eambXn\mð {]Xn{Inb hfsc kq£nt¨ sN¿m³ ]äq. tekÀ, UbmsXÀan, tImt»j³ Fónh B[p\nI P\kaql¯n\v Hcp Bizmkw XsóbmWv.

AeÀPn¡v \qX\ NnInÕþ tekÀ

hncfamb {]XymLmX§Ä, \ñ {]XnIcWw, s]s«ópÅ kuJyw Fónh Cu NnInÕbpsS ¹kv t]mbnâmWv.

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HtóbpÅpsh¦nepw...

Hä aIt\m/aItfm DÅ c£nXm¡Ä¡v

Ip«ntbmSv Bß_Ôw Gdpw. \n§fpsS PohnX¯nsâ kvt\lamWv Ah³. kvt\lhpw emf\bpsañmw AXncpI

Sómepw Ip«nIfpsS kz`mhcq]o

IcWs¯ AXv _m[n¡pw. GIk´m\w DÅ c£nXm¡Ä Ip«nIsf hfÀt¯ïsX§s\? Ggv \nÀt±i§Ä.

kzmÀ°X IqsS¸nd¸nñm¯ Ip«nIÄ¡v

aäpÅhcpambn ]¦phbv¡m\pw

Soambn {]hÀ¯n¡m\pw _p²n

ap«mbncn¡mw. A¨S¡w, kz`mh \nb{´Ww Fóo Imcy§fnð c£nXm¡Ä Ip«nIÄ¡v ]cnio

e\w \ðIWw. kzmÀ°XbmÀó s]cpamäw \nb{´n¡m³ {i²n

¡Ww.

Ft¸mgpw klmbn¡cpXv \n§fpsS PohnX¯nse

hfsctbsd kabw Ip«nbpsS Bhiy§Ä¡mbn amänhbv¡m³ km[yXbpïv. A§s\ Häbv¡v

Hópw sN¿m³ {]m]vXnbnñm

¯h\mbn Ah³ amdnsbón

cn¡mw. kz´w Imenð \nð¡m

\pw {]iv\§Ä kzbw ]cnlcn

¡m\pw Ah\v Ahkcw sImSp¡Ww.

CSs]SmXncn¡pI F´psNbvXmepw AXv ]cn

]qÀ®ambn sN¿m\mIpw Hä¸p{X

³ {ian¡pI. \n§Ä Ahsâ ]nómse \Sóv Ip«n sN¿pó sNdnb Imcy§Ä t]mepw sa¨

s¸Sp¯m³ {ian¡cpXv. AXh

s\ IqSpXð s]Às^£\nÌv B¡pItb sN¿q.

Xmev¸cy§Ä ASnt¨ð¸n¡cpXv

\n§Ä¡v Hcp Ip«n am{Xam

WpÅXv. AXn\mð Xsó \n§

fpsS B{Kl§Ä Ip«nbpsS tað ASnt¨ð¸n¡m\pÅ A]

ISapïv. Ip«nsb Ahsâ Xmev¸

cy§Ä a\knem¡n ]cnt]mjn

¸n¡bmWv thïXv.

Häs¸Sð IqsS¸nd¸pIÄ Cñm¯Xn\m

ð Ip«n¡v ho«nð GIm´X A\p`hs¸Sm³ CSbpïv. Cu

kmlNcy¯nð Aht\mSv

Iq«pIqSm³ amXm]nXm¡Ä

cwKs¯¯Ww. N§mXn¡q

«§fnte¡v Ahs\ \bn¡m\pw

{ian¡Ww. sNdnb Ip«nIÄ

ssaXm\¯nepw ]mÀ¡nepsam

s¡ t]mbn Ifn¡s«. kulrZ

kwL§fnð s]SpótXmsS GIm´X AIämw.

Nncn¡m³ ]Tn¸n¡pI GIk´m\§Ä s]mXpsh

bpàn]cambn Nn´n¡póhcpw anSp¡òmcpw Kuch {]IrXap

ÅhcpamIpw. ChÀ¡v Hcp Xami

t]mepw Nnet¸mÄ BkzZn¡m³ IgnbWsaónñ.a\kpXpdóv Ip«ntbmSv s]cpamdm\pw Ahsâ sNdnb kt´mj§Ä henb kt´mj§fm¡n amäm\pw {ian¡Ww.

"t\m ]dbpI' GIk´m\§Ä AÑsâbpw

A½bpsSbpw {]oXn k¼mZn¡m

\mbn AXnbmbn B{Kln¡p

óhcmWv. ]et¸mgpw AhcpsS Xmev¸cy§fpw B{Kl§fpw ]dbpt¼mÄ "t\m' ]dbm\pw AhcpsS a\kv hnjan¸n¡m\pw

c£nXm¡Ä¡v _p²nap«mWv. Fómð Bhiy§fpsS {]m[m

\yw A\pkcn¨v t\m ]dbm³ amXm]nXm¡Ä¡v IgnbWw.

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amÀ _tkentbmkv tImtfPv

Xncph\´]pc¯nsâ XneIambncpóp

Fópw amÀ Chm\ntbm

kv tImtfPv. CóXv amÀ Chm\n

tbmkv hnZym\KÀ Im¼kv Fó

t]cnð Hcp hnZym`ymk kap¨b

ambn hfÀóncn¡póp. amÀ _tkentbmkv tImtfPv Hm^v

Fôn\nbdn§v Bâv sSIv

t\mfPn, amÀ Chm\ntbmkv

tImtfPv, s_Z\n \hPoh³

tImtfPv Hm^v ^nkntbmsX

dm¸n, amÀ Xntbm^nekv s{Sbv\n

wKv tImtfPv, kÀtÆmZb sk³

{Sð hnZymeb, skâv. tPm¬kv lbÀ sk¡³Udn kvIqÄ, amÀ

Chm\ntbmkv C³Ìnäyq«v H^v

tlm«ð amt\Pvsaâv, amÀ Chm

\ntbmkv C³Ìnäyq«v H^v AUzm

³kvUv ÌUokv, Ctám ÌUn

skâÀ, s_Z\n tImtfPv BÀ«vkv B³Uv kb³kv, amÀ {KntKmdnbkv dn\yqhð skâÀ, kÀtÆmZb hnZymeb, s_Z\n \hPoh³ hnZymeb, skâv tacokv ae¦c taPÀ skan\mcn, skâv Atemjykv ssa\À skan\mcn, PbamXm C³Ukv{Snbnð s{Sbv

\nwKv C³Ìnäyq«v, PbamXm Fð. ]n. kvIqÄ FónhbmWv Cu hn

Zymeb kap¨b¯nse hnhn[ Iemeb§Ä.

Cóv amÀ Chm\ntbmkv hnZym\Kdnsâ aIpSambn amdn

bncn¡pIbmWv amÀ _tken

tbmkv tImtfPv Hm^v Fôn\n

bdn§v Bâv sSIvt\mfPn (MBCET). ae¦c k`bpsS FUyp

t¡j³ skmsskän¡p Iognð 2002emWv MBCET¡v Bcw`w Ipdn¨Xv. `mKy kvacWmÀl\mb

kndnÄ amÀ _tkentbmkv ]nXm

hmbncpóp tImtfPnsâ Øm]I³.

anIhnsâ Dbc§fnte¡v Ignª aqóv hÀj§Ä

XpSˬbmbn tIcf kˮIem

imebpsS _n. sSIv ]co£

bnse ap³\nc t\«§Ä _tk

entbmkv tImtfPv hnZymÀ°n

IÄ kz´am¡n h¨ncn¡pI

bmWv. A§s\ "anIhnsâ Dbc§fnte¡v \bn¡pI' (Leading to the Heights of Excellence) Fó tImtfPnsâ B]vXhmIyw

A£cmÀ°¯nð \S¸nembn

sImïncn¡pIbmWv. hnZymÀ°n

IfpsS ka{KhnImkhpw kÀÆ

t{XmÕpIamb hfÀ¨bpw e£y

am¡nbpÅ IÀ½ ]cn]mSnIÄ

¡mWv tImtfPv t\XrXzw sImSp

¡póXv.

Ignª aqóv hÀj§Ä XpSÀ¨bmbn tIcf kÀÆIemimebpsS _n. sSIv ]co£bnse ap³\nc t\«§Ä _tkentbmkv tImtfPv hnZymÀ°nIÄ kz´am¡n h¨ncn¡pIbmWv

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Department of computer science & engineeringDepartment of Information tech-nologyDepartment of electronics & com-munication engineeringDepartment of electrical & elec-tronics engineeringDepartment of mecanical engi-neeringthe Department of Basic sciencesDepartment of civil engineering

Departments

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]T\hpw sXmgnð km[yXIfpw

B[p\nI Fôn\nbdn§v hnZym`ymk taJebnse {][m\

s¸« imJIsfñmw Xsó ChnsS

DsïópÅXmWv tImtfPnsâ hensbmcp t\«w. I¼yq«À kb

³kv & Fôn\nbdn§v, IT, Ce

Ivt{SmWnIvkv & I½yqWnt¡

j³ Fôn\nbdn§v, CeIv{Sn

¡ð & CeIvt{SmWnIvkv Fôn

\nbdn§v, sa¡m\n¡ð Fôn

\nbdn§v, t_knIv kb³kv, knhnð Fôn\nbdn§v Fónh

bmWv {][m\ ]mTyimJIÄ.

Adnhnepw sXmgnenepw hnZymÀ°nIsf anIhpähcm

¡n¯oÀ¡m³ aät\Iw kwhn

[m\§fpw tImtfPnð {]hÀ¯n

¡pópïv. Ahbnð {][m\s¸

«hbmWv Centre for Continuing Education, Innovation & Entrepreneurship Development Cell,

Training & Placement Unit, Quality Assurance Cell, Consultancy Cell, Counselling Centre, Product Lifecycle Management Centre, IT Management & Services Fónh.

hnZymÀ°nIfpsS ]T\\ne

hmcw sa¨s¸Sp¯m\pw cmPysam

«p¡v AhÀ¡v tPmen km[yX

sbmcp¡m\pambn C³t^mkn

kpambn klIcn¨v tImtfPnð Xsó Hcp Iym¼kv IWIväv Øm]n¨n«pïv. 2008emWv C¯csamcp ]cn]mSn MBCETð \S¸nembXv.

Npcp¡¯nð hnZymÀ°nI

fpsS A`ncpNnIÄ¡\pkcWw Fôn\nbdn§v taJebnse hnhn[ imJIfnð AhÀ¡v temtIm¯c \nehmc¯nepÅ ]cnioe\amWv _tkentbmkv tImtfPv \nÀhln¡póXv. A§s\ aebmf \mSn\pw, Cu \m«nse hnZymÀ°nIÄ¡pw A`nam\ambn amdpóp MBCET.

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cyanñmbncpóp. ImcWw acpa¡

Ä¡v \ñ hnZym`ymkw \ðIm\m

bnñtñm, AXn\mð aIfpw hnZym

`ymkw sNt¿ï Fómbncpóp AÑsâ ]£w. AXmbncpóp A¡mew. Fómð F\n¡v \ñ hnZym`ymkw XcWsaóv A½ B{Kln¨p. HSphnð Fsó tImtfPnebbv¡m³ A½ [ocamb Xocpam\saSp¯p.

]T\¯n\v AÑ\nð

\nópw km¼¯nI klmbw e`n¨ncpónñ. kvtImfÀjn¸pIÄ sImïv ]T\sNehpIÄ \nÀÆ

ln¨p. F¦nepw hnZym`ymkw \ðIm³ A½ \ómbn _p²nap«n.

1949ð _n. F DóXamÀ

t¡msS Rm³ ]mkmbn. AtX

hÀjw Xsó XrÈqÀ skâv tacokv tImtfPnð eIvNddmbn tPmenbnð {]thin¨p. F\n¡v

tPmen e`n¨tXmsS A½bv¡pw ]mXn Bizmkambn. ]nóoSv 1952ð Rm³ ]me¡mSv Kh. hnIvtSmdnb tImtfPnð A[ym

]nIbmbn tPmenbnð {]thin¨p. CtXmsS F\n¡v XmsgbpÅ

\mep ktlmZc§fpsSbpw hnZym`ymk¨paXe Rmt\säSp¯p. AXv A½sb Gsd kt´mjn¸n¨p. Rm³ ktlmZc§sf ]me¡m

tS¡v Iq«ns¡mïp hóp. Aóv

182 cq]bmbncpóp Fsâ i¼fw.

R§Ä Hcp hosSms¡ hmSI

bvs¡Sp¯mWv AhnsS Xmakn

¨Xv. a¡Äs¡ñmw DóX

hnZym`ymksaó A½bpsS kz

]v\w FóneqsS k^eamIp

Ibmbncpóp.

ktlmZc§fpsS NpaXe Rm³ GsäSp¯tXmsS A½ IqSpXð kzX{´bmbn. C¡me¯v A½ tIm¬{Kknepw {]hÀ¯n¨p. XrÈqÀ Un. kn. kn sa¼À Øm\hpw hln¨p. A¡me¯v A½bpsS ss[cyhpw CÑmiànbpw shfns¸Spó Hcp kw`hapïmbn. R§fpsS \m«nð sX§pIbdm³ Ipsd sXmgnemfnIÄ Dïmbncpóp. amÀIvknÌp ]mÀ«n A¡me

¯hnsS ]pXnb sXmgnemfn bqWnb³ bqWnäv {]hÀ¯

\w XpS§n. bqWnb\nðs¸« sXmgnemfnIsf am{Xta sX§nð Ibäm³ A\phZn¡pIbpsÅóv AhÀ ]dªp. Fómð bqWn

b\nð s]Sm¯ km[mcW sXm

gnemfnIÄs¡m¸ambncpóp A½. sX§nð Ibdm³ km[mcW sXmgnemfnIÄ¡v `bambn. HSphnð A½ XrÈqÀ Un. Pn. ]n

sb t\cn«phnfn¨psImïp hóv At±l¯nsâ kmón²y¯nð tX§bnSo¸n¨p. Cu \o¡w amÀ

IvknÌpImsc Aóv sXsñmóp

añ sNmSn¸n¨Xv.

CtX XpSÀóv Fsâ ho«nð Hcp tamjWw \Sóp. cïmas¯ A\pP\pw `mcybpw am{Xw ho«nepïmbncpó Hcp Znhkw apJwaqSnbn« cïpt]À

ho«nse¯n `ojWns¸Sp¯n kzÀWm`cW§Ä IhÀóp. tX§bnSoð kw`h¯nsâ {]XymLymXambncpóp Cu IhÀ¨sbóv ]dbs¸Spóp. Cu tIknð Øes¯ {][m\ KpïIfmb cïpt]À ]nóoSv ]n

Snbnembn. F¦nepw tIknð Imcyamb ]ptcmKXn Dïmbnñ. sI. IcpWmIc\mbncpóp Aóv

A`y´ca{´n. tIm¬{Kkv {]hÀ¯IbmbXn\mð A½ t\cn«v IcpWmIcs\ sNóp Iïv hnhcadnbn¨p. Rm³ Aós¯ apJya{´nbmbncpó kn. ANypX

tat\m\pw ]cmXn \ðIn. A§s\ tIkv ss{Iw{_môn\v hn«p. ]nóoSv tIkv sXfnªp. A½ ImWn¨ \nÝb

ZmÀVyambncpóp CXn\p]nónð.

A½bpsS ss[cyw {]ISamb

asämcp kw`hw IqSn HmÀ¡póp.

R§fpsS \m«nse {][m\ A[nImcnIÄ ]pó¯qÀ tIm«¡mcmbncpóp. ]pó¯qÀ

\¼nSn(cmPm) Bbncpóp X¼pcm³. Hcn¡ð AhnsS

ImÀjnI DÕhw \S¡pIbm

bncpóp. DÕh¯n\v A½bpw t]mbn. HSphnð FñmhÀ¡pw H¸w A½bpw D®m\ncpóp. Ip¸mban« s]®p§Ä D®m\ncn

¡m³ ]mSnsñóv s]s«óv X¼p

cmsâ {]Jym]\apïmbn. A½

bmIs« _vfukn«v ]´nbnð CcpópIgnªncpóp. X¼pcmsâ

{]Jym]\w A½bnð {]Xntj

[apïm¡n. cïpw Iev¸n¨v AhnsS ]´nbnð \nóv A½ Cd§nt¸móp. CXv Aóv \m«nð

henb NÀ¨mhnjbambn. AÑ\pa½bpw X½nð {]mb

¯nepÅ A´cw AhcpsS _Ô¯n\nSbnepapïmbn. F¦nepw AÑs\ A½ \ómbn ]cn]men

¨ncpóp. tNÀ¨¡pdhpIÄ

s¡mSphnð Aѳ acpa¡sfm

sSm¸w t]mbn. t]mb BÄ Xncn

¨phcs« Fó \ne]mSnembncp

óp A½. AÑsâ kz¯v a¡Ä

¡v e`n¡m¯Xnð A½bv¡v k¦Sapïmbncpóp. acpa¡¯m

b¯nð ASnbpd¨v hnizkn¨ AÑs\ F\ns¡mcn¡epw sXäp

Imc\mbn ImWm\mInñ. AÑsâ

IpSpw_kz¯mb Ipd¨v Øew

a¡Ä¡v thWsaóv A½bv¡v B{Klapïmbncpóp. Fómð

kz¯v kz´w IpSpw_¯nep

ÅhÀt¡ \ðIpIbpÅqshóv sNdnb½bv¡v hnhmlnX\mIpw

ap¼v Aѳ hm¡v \ðInbn

cpóp. B hm¡nð ASnbpd¨v hnizkn¨ncpóXn\memWv

kz¯v \ðImXncpóXv. F¦nepw Aѳ kz´ambn hm§nb ]d¼v ]nóoSv R§Ä¡v Xóp.

60 hbknse¯nbtXmsS A½bpsS BtcmKyw tamiambn

XpS§n. sNdnb sNdnb Btcm

Ky{]iv\§Ä B icocs¯

XfÀ¯n. 1977ð XrÈqcnð \nóv

A½sb Rm³ FdWmIpft¯

¡v Iq«ns¡mïphóp. enkn tlmkv]näenð A½sb Rm³ sImïpt]mbn. At¸mtg¡pw BtcmKyw hjfmbncpóp. amÀ¨v 19, CµncmKmÔn Ce£\v aÕcn

¨v tXmäXnsâ Xte Znhkw. A½ acW¯n\v ]nSnsImSp¯p.

aebmf IhnXmkmlnXy Ncn{Xw Rm³ FgpXn¯pS§n

bt¸mÄ t{]mÕml\hpambn A½ IqsS \nóncpóp. IrXn

bnse Iptd `mK§Ä A½ hmbn

¨ncpóp. 1980 emWv ]pkvXIw

]pd¯nd§nbXv. B ]pkvXIw A½bv¡mWv Rm³ kaÀ¸n¨ncn

¡póXv. kmlnXyhgnbnepw PohnX¯nepw Fópw hgnhnf

¡mbn Fónð shfn¨w sNmcn

ª Fsâ A½bv¡ñmsX aämÀ

¡mWv B ]pkvXIw kaÀ¸n¡pI?

Fsâ hgnhnf¡v{]apJ \ncq]Ibpw Cu hÀjs¯ Fgp¯Ñ³ ]pckv¡mc

tPXmhpamb tUm. Fw.eoemhXn kz´w A½bpsS HmÀ½IfneqsS...

my mother

X¿mdm¡nbXv: Fkv Itejv

Ggmw Ivfmknð h¨v A½bv¡v ]T\w Dt]£nt¡ïn hóp. F¦nepw kmlnXy¯nð XnIª Xmev¸cyw ]peÀ¯nbncpóp. IhnXIÄ ]IÀ¯nsbgpXnb t\m«p_p¡pIÄ A½ kq£n¨ncpóp.

Xnb t\m«p_p¡pIÄ A½ kq

£n¨ncpóp. Bimsâ eoe, \fn

\n, hÅt¯mfnsâ _Ô\Ø

\mb A\ncp²³, injy\pw aI\pw Fóo IhnXIsfms¡ Rm\mZyambn hmbn¡póXv Cu t\m«p_p¡nð \nómbncpóp. ivtfmI§fnð A½bv¡v AXoh

Xmev¸cyapïmbncpóp. A½bp

sS XWð Fsó kmlnXy¯n

te¡v ssI]nSn¨v \S¯n.

Igp¦¼nÅn Ipôp®n \¼nSn Fómbncpóp Fsâ AÑsâ t]cv. acpa¡¯mb¯nð Dd¨v

hnizkn¨ncpó Hcp hyànbm

bncpóp At±lw. AÑsâ 46þmw hbknemWv 19 Imcnbmb A½sb hnhmlw sNbvXXv. ]¯mwIvfmkv DóXamÀt¡msS ]mkmbn«pw Fsó D]cn]T\

¯n\v Abbv¡m³ AÑ\v Xmev¸

kwLÀjmßIamb PohnXw, H«t\

Iw PohnX {]XnkÔnIÄ... Chsbñmw ss[cyt¯msS t\cn«

Hcp kv{Xosb F\n¡v t\cn«dn

bmw. AsXsâ A½bmWv; apï

\m«v \§¿ amïð Fómbncp

óp A½bpsS t]cv. {]XnkÔn

Ifnð I®p\ndªv apdn¡pÅn

te¡v HXp§pó Hcp km[mcW kv{Xobmbncpónñ Fsâ A½.

acpa¡¯mbw \ne\nð¡pó

Imew. s]¬Ip«nIÄ¡v DóXhn

Zym`ymkw Hcp kz]v\w am{Xambn

cpóp Aóv. \ómbn ]Tn¨ncpsó

¦nepw Ggmw Ivfmknð h¨v A½

bv¡v ]T\w Dt]£nt¡ïn hóp. F¦nepw kmlnXy¯nð XnIª Xmev¸cyw ]peÀ¯nbn

cpóp. IhnXIÄ ]IÀ¯nsbgp

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cyanñmbncpóp. ImcWw acpa¡

Ä¡v \ñ hnZym`ymkw \ðIm\m

bnñtñm, AXn\mð aIfpw hnZym

`ymkw sNt¿ï Fómbncpóp AÑsâ ]£w. AXmbncpóp A¡mew. Fómð F\n¡v \ñ hnZym`ymkw XcWsaóv A½ B{Kln¨p. HSphnð Fsó tImtfPnebbv¡m³ A½ [ocamb Xocpam\saSp¯p.

]T\¯n\v AÑ\nð

\nópw km¼¯nI klmbw e`n¨ncpónñ. kvtImfÀjn¸pIÄ sImïv ]T\sNehpIÄ \nÀÆ

ln¨p. F¦nepw hnZym`ymkw \ðIm³ A½ \ómbn _p²nap«n.

1949ð _n. F DóXamÀ

t¡msS Rm³ ]mkmbn. AtX

hÀjw Xsó XrÈqÀ skâv tacokv tImtfPnð eIvNddmbn tPmenbnð {]thin¨p. F\n¡v

tPmen e`n¨tXmsS A½bv¡pw ]mXn Bizmkambn. ]nóoSv 1952ð Rm³ ]me¡mSv Kh. hnIvtSmdnb tImtfPnð A[ym

]nIbmbn tPmenbnð {]thin¨p. CtXmsS F\n¡v XmsgbpÅ

\mep ktlmZc§fpsSbpw hnZym`ymk¨paXe Rmt\säSp¯p. AXv A½sb Gsd kt´mjn¸n¨p. Rm³ ktlmZc§sf ]me¡m

tS¡v Iq«ns¡mïp hóp. Aóv

182 cq]bmbncpóp Fsâ i¼fw.

R§Ä Hcp hosSms¡ hmSI

bvs¡Sp¯mWv AhnsS Xmakn

¨Xv. a¡Äs¡ñmw DóX

hnZym`ymksaó A½bpsS kz

]v\w FóneqsS k^eamIp

Ibmbncpóp.

ktlmZc§fpsS NpaXe Rm³ GsäSp¯tXmsS A½ IqSpXð kzX{´bmbn. C¡me¯v A½ tIm¬{Kknepw {]hÀ¯n¨p. XrÈqÀ Un. kn. kn sa¼À Øm\hpw hln¨p. A¡me¯v A½bpsS ss[cyhpw CÑmiànbpw shfns¸Spó Hcp kw`hapïmbn. R§fpsS \m«nð sX§pIbdm³ Ipsd sXmgnemfnIÄ Dïmbncpóp. amÀIvknÌp ]mÀ«n A¡me

¯hnsS ]pXnb sXmgnemfn bqWnb³ bqWnäv {]hÀ¯

\w XpS§n. bqWnb\nðs¸« sXmgnemfnIsf am{Xta sX§nð Ibäm³ A\phZn¡pIbpsÅóv AhÀ ]dªp. Fómð bqWn

b\nð s]Sm¯ km[mcW sXm

gnemfnIÄs¡m¸ambncpóp A½. sX§nð Ibdm³ km[mcW sXmgnemfnIÄ¡v `bambn. HSphnð A½ XrÈqÀ Un. Pn. ]n

sb t\cn«phnfn¨psImïp hóv At±l¯nsâ kmón²y¯nð tX§bnSo¸n¨p. Cu \o¡w amÀ

IvknÌpImsc Aóv sXsñmóp

añ sNmSn¸n¨Xv.

CtX XpSÀóv Fsâ ho«nð Hcp tamjWw \Sóp. cïmas¯ A\pP\pw `mcybpw am{Xw ho«nepïmbncpó Hcp Znhkw apJwaqSnbn« cïpt]À

ho«nse¯n `ojWns¸Sp¯n kzÀWm`cW§Ä IhÀóp. tX§bnSoð kw`h¯nsâ {]XymLymXambncpóp Cu IhÀ¨sbóv ]dbs¸Spóp. Cu tIknð Øes¯ {][m\ KpïIfmb cïpt]À ]nóoSv ]n

Snbnembn. F¦nepw tIknð Imcyamb ]ptcmKXn Dïmbnñ. sI. IcpWmIc\mbncpóp Aóv

A`y´ca{´n. tIm¬{Kkv {]hÀ¯IbmbXn\mð A½ t\cn«v IcpWmIcs\ sNóp Iïv hnhcadnbn¨p. Rm³ Aós¯ apJya{´nbmbncpó kn. ANypX

tat\m\pw ]cmXn \ðIn. A§s\ tIkv ss{Iw{_môn\v hn«p. ]nóoSv tIkv sXfnªp. A½ ImWn¨ \nÝb

ZmÀVyambncpóp CXn\p]nónð.

A½bpsS ss[cyw {]ISamb

asämcp kw`hw IqSn HmÀ¡póp.

R§fpsS \m«nse {][m\ A[nImcnIÄ ]pó¯qÀ tIm«¡mcmbncpóp. ]pó¯qÀ

\¼nSn(cmPm) Bbncpóp X¼pcm³. Hcn¡ð AhnsS

ImÀjnI DÕhw \S¡pIbm

bncpóp. DÕh¯n\v A½bpw t]mbn. HSphnð FñmhÀ¡pw H¸w A½bpw D®m\ncpóp. Ip¸mban« s]®p§Ä D®m\ncn

¡m³ ]mSnsñóv s]s«óv X¼p

cmsâ {]Jym]\apïmbn. A½

bmIs« _vfukn«v ]´nbnð CcpópIgnªncpóp. X¼pcmsâ

{]Jym]\w A½bnð {]Xntj

[apïm¡n. cïpw Iev¸n¨v AhnsS ]´nbnð \nóv A½ Cd§nt¸móp. CXv Aóv \m«nð

henb NÀ¨mhnjbambn. AÑ\pa½bpw X½nð {]mb

¯nepÅ A´cw AhcpsS _Ô¯n\nSbnepapïmbn. F¦nepw AÑs\ A½ \ómbn ]cn]men

¨ncpóp. tNÀ¨¡pdhpIÄ

s¡mSphnð Aѳ acpa¡sfm

sSm¸w t]mbn. t]mb BÄ Xncn

¨phcs« Fó \ne]mSnembncp

óp A½. AÑsâ kz¯v a¡Ä

¡v e`n¡m¯Xnð A½bv¡v k¦Sapïmbncpóp. acpa¡¯m

b¯nð ASnbpd¨v hnizkn¨ AÑs\ F\ns¡mcn¡epw sXäp

Imc\mbn ImWm\mInñ. AÑsâ

IpSpw_kz¯mb Ipd¨v Øew

a¡Ä¡v thWsaóv A½bv¡v B{Klapïmbncpóp. Fómð

kz¯v kz´w IpSpw_¯nep

ÅhÀt¡ \ðIpIbpÅqshóv sNdnb½bv¡v hnhmlnX\mIpw

ap¼v Aѳ hm¡v \ðInbn

cpóp. B hm¡nð ASnbpd¨v hnizkn¨ncpóXn\memWv

kz¯v \ðImXncpóXv. F¦nepw Aѳ kz´ambn hm§nb ]d¼v ]nóoSv R§Ä¡v Xóp.

60 hbknse¯nbtXmsS A½bpsS BtcmKyw tamiambn

XpS§n. sNdnb sNdnb Btcm

Ky{]iv\§Ä B icocs¯

XfÀ¯n. 1977ð XrÈqcnð \nóv

A½sb Rm³ FdWmIpft¯

¡v Iq«ns¡mïphóp. enkn tlmkv]näenð A½sb Rm³ sImïpt]mbn. At¸mtg¡pw BtcmKyw hjfmbncpóp. amÀ¨v 19, CµncmKmÔn Ce£\v aÕcn

¨v tXmäXnsâ Xte Znhkw. A½ acW¯n\v ]nSnsImSp¯p.

aebmf IhnXmkmlnXy Ncn{Xw Rm³ FgpXn¯pS§n

bt¸mÄ t{]mÕml\hpambn A½ IqsS \nóncpóp. IrXn

bnse Iptd `mK§Ä A½ hmbn

¨ncpóp. 1980 emWv ]pkvXIw

]pd¯nd§nbXv. B ]pkvXIw A½bv¡mWv Rm³ kaÀ¸n¨ncn

¡póXv. kmlnXyhgnbnepw PohnX¯nepw Fópw hgnhnf

¡mbn Fónð shfn¨w sNmcn

ª Fsâ A½bv¡ñmsX aämÀ

¡mWv B ]pkvXIw kaÀ¸n¡pI?

Fsâ hgnhnf¡v{]apJ \ncq]Ibpw Cu hÀjs¯ Fgp¯Ñ³ ]pckv¡mc

tPXmhpamb tUm. Fw.eoemhXn kz´w A½bpsS HmÀ½IfneqsS...

my mother

X¿mdm¡nbXv: Fkv Itejv

Ggmw Ivfmknð h¨v A½bv¡v ]T\w Dt]£nt¡ïn hóp. F¦nepw kmlnXy¯nð XnIª Xmev¸cyw ]peÀ¯nbncpóp. IhnXIÄ ]IÀ¯nsbgpXnb t\m«p_p¡pIÄ A½ kq£n¨ncpóp.

Xnb t\m«p_p¡pIÄ A½ kq

£n¨ncpóp. Bimsâ eoe, \fn

\n, hÅt¯mfnsâ _Ô\Ø

\mb A\ncp²³, injy\pw aI\pw Fóo IhnXIsfms¡ Rm\mZyambn hmbn¡póXv Cu t\m«p_p¡nð \nómbncpóp. ivtfmI§fnð A½bv¡v AXoh

Xmev¸cyapïmbncpóp. A½bp

sS XWð Fsó kmlnXy¯n

te¡v ssI]nSn¨v \S¯n.

Igp¦¼nÅn Ipôp®n \¼nSn Fómbncpóp Fsâ AÑsâ t]cv. acpa¡¯mb¯nð Dd¨v

hnizkn¨ncpó Hcp hyànbm

bncpóp At±lw. AÑsâ 46þmw hbknemWv 19 Imcnbmb A½sb hnhmlw sNbvXXv. ]¯mwIvfmkv DóXamÀt¡msS ]mkmbn«pw Fsó D]cn]T\

¯n\v Abbv¡m³ AÑ\v Xmev¸

kwLÀjmßIamb PohnXw, H«t\

Iw PohnX {]XnkÔnIÄ... Chsbñmw ss[cyt¯msS t\cn«

Hcp kv{Xosb F\n¡v t\cn«dn

bmw. AsXsâ A½bmWv; apï

\m«v \§¿ amïð Fómbncp

óp A½bpsS t]cv. {]XnkÔn

Ifnð I®p\ndªv apdn¡pÅn

te¡v HXp§pó Hcp km[mcW kv{Xobmbncpónñ Fsâ A½.

acpa¡¯mbw \ne\nð¡pó

Imew. s]¬Ip«nIÄ¡v DóXhn

Zym`ymkw Hcp kz]v\w am{Xambn

cpóp Aóv. \ómbn ]Tn¨ncpsó

¦nepw Ggmw Ivfmknð h¨v A½

bv¡v ]T\w Dt]£nt¡ïn hóp. F¦nepw kmlnXy¯nð XnIª Xmev¸cyw ]peÀ¯nbn

cpóp. IhnXIÄ ]IÀ¯nsbgp

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kzÀ®¯nf¡hpambn kn\n

HIvtSm_À 12. aqÆmäp]p

gbnse Fc\ñqÀ {Kmaw apgph³ {]mÀ°\bnembncpóp. \m«pImÀ kn\ntamÄ Fó Hma\t¸cnð hnfn¡pó kn\n tPmkv C´ybv¡p thïn aðkcn¡m\n

d§nbZnhkw. sSenhnj\nð hnPb aplqÀ¯w. B aetbmc {Kmaw apgph³ kn\nbpsS ho«n

se¯n. BtLmj§fpsS BÀ

¸phnfnIfnð ebn¨ B \nanjw. HmÀ¡pt¼mÄ Ct¸mgpw A`nam\apsïóv kn\nbpsS ho«pImÀ ]dbpóp.

"]ïv kvIqfnð \nóv XpS§n

bXmWv kn\nbpsS sIm¨p sIm¨p t\«§Ä. aÕc§Ä Ignªv hcpt¼mÄ Fs´¦nep

sams¡bpïmIpw I¿nð. Nnñp ¥mkv, kv]q¬, tkm¸ps]«n.... A§ns\sbs´¦nepw. AhfpsS apJs¯ kt´mjambncpóp R§fpsS {]Xo£. Fsó¦nep

samcn¡ð tamÄ \mSnsâ A`nam

\ambn amdpsaóv A[ym]Icpw ]dbpambncpóp. Ct¸mfhfpsS I¿nð kzÀ® saUð ImWp

t¼mgpw F\n¡v Aós¯ AtX kt´mjamWv.' kn\n tPmknsâ A¸³ tPmkv tPmk^v HmÀ¡póp.

tImXawKew skâv. tPmÀPv

{ipXn sI.Fkv

ImbnItemIs¯ \£{X¯nf¡ambn amdnb AXveämWv kn\n tPmkv. 2010se tIma¬shð¯nepw Gjy³ sKbnwknepw kzÀ®w t\Snb Cu aqÆmäp¸pg¡mcnbpsS hntij§fneqsS...

kn\n tPmkv

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kzÀ®¯nf¡hpambn kn\n

kvIqfnse cmPpt]mfnsâ ]cnio

e\Ifcnbnð \nóv cmPym´c Xe¯nse¯nb ImbnI{]Xn`

bmWv Cu aqhmäp]pg¡mcn. 4 x 400 aoäÀ dntebnð Cóv C´ybnse Gähpw anI¨ h\n

XmXmc§fnð HcmfmWv kn\n. ]ßn\n tXmakn\pw ssj\n hnðk\pw tijw ]me Aðt^m¬km tImtfPv \½psS \mSn\p \ðInb ImbnIXmcw.

]T\Ime¯p Xsó ImbnIta

Jebnð kn\n Xsâ Ignhp sXfnbn¨n«pïv. 2010se tIma¬

shð¯nepw ssN\bnð \Só

Gjy³ sKbnwknepw t\Snb kzÀ®w kn\nbpsS ImbnI PohnX¯nse s]m³Xqhembn amdn.

"Cc«na[pcw t]msebmbn

cpóp kn\nbpsS cïv hnPbhpw. R§Ä Sn. hnbnð aÕcw IïpsImïncn¡pIbmbncpóp. tamfpsS Hm«w Iït¸mÄ ssZht¯mSv DÅpcpIn {]mÀ°n

¨p. HómasX¯nbXdnªs¸m F´psN¿WsaódnbmsX

Hcp \nanjw Xcn¨pt]mbn.' kn\nbpsS A½ do¯bv¡v kt´mjw sImïv hm¡pIÄ In«pónñ.

"\½psS \m«nð sh¨v \S¡pó sKbnw. tIma¬shð

¯nð hnPbw t\SWsaóv apt¼ Xsó Fñmhcpw a\Ênepd¸n¨ncpóp. \ñ coXnbnð aðkcn¡Wsaóv am{XamWv

{]mÀ°n¨Xv. kzÀ®w e`n¨p

shódnª B \nanjs¯

hnhcn¡m³ Ignbnñ. Fs´ónñm¯ kt´mjam

bncpóp a\Êv \ndsb. tIma¬shð¯nse t\«w

Gjy³ sKbnwkn\v icn¡psamcp

apXð¡q«mbncpóp. Bßhnizm

kw hÀ²n¨p. djy³ tIm¨mb bqdnbpw C´y³ tIm¨pIfmb kn²p, ctajv FónhcpsS in£W¯nembncpóp ]cnioe\w.

k½m\w In«nbmepw Csñ

¦nepw aÕcw Ignªmð BZyw

ho«nse¯Ww. Fómte kam[m

\apïmIq. ]ïv apXte AX§

s\bmWv. tIma¬shð¯v Ignªv Gjy³ sKbnwkn\p thïnbpÅ ]cnioe\¯n\m

bn t]mtIïn hóXn\mð \m«nse¯m³ Ignbm¯Xnð Ipd¨v hnjaapïmbncpóp. ]s£ hnPb{ioemfnXbmbn Xncn¨p hót¸mÄ In«nb \m«pImcpsS {]XnIcWw Fñm hnja§fpw amän' þ kn\n tPmkv Xsâ A\p`h§Ä

]pdw cmPy§fnð t]mIpt¼mgmWv \½psS \msSó tZiob t_m[w DSseSp¡póXv. AhnsS PmXntbm aXtam tIcfobs\tóm Xangs\tóm Hcp hyXymkhpapïmInñ. C´y¡mscó Hcp {Kq¸v am{Xta At¸mgpïmIq. AsXmcp \ñ ^oemWv.

]¸ tPmkv tPmk^v, a½n do¯ FónhtcmsSm¸w kn\n

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]¦psh¡pIbmWv.

C§s\ ]e cmPy§fnð

t]mIpt¼mgmWv \½psS \msS

ó tZiobt_m[w DSseSp¡p

óXv. C´ybpsS tZiob ]XmI

tb´nbpÅ \nanjw... hnhcn

¡m\mhm¯ Hc\p`hambncpóp AXv. aÕc¯n\mbn FhnsS

t¸mbmepw \½psS \m«nse Ipds¨¦nepw BfpIfp

ïmIpw AhnsS. AhÀ Xcpó BthiamWv Fsó IqSpXð t{]mÕmln¸n¡póXv. Ifn¡f

¯nð \nð¡pt¼mgpÅ Ahcp

sS BÀ¸phnfnIÄ t{]mÕml\w XsóbmWv. NneÀ Ifn¡p aptó

hóv ]cnNbs¸Spw. {]mÀ°n¡m

sasóms¡ ]dbpw. Hcp ]cnNb

hpansñ¦nepw AhnsS PmXntbm aXtam tIcfobs\tóm Xangs\tóm Hcp hyXymkhpanñ. C´y

¡mscó Hcp {Kq¸v am{Xta At¸mgpïmIq. AsXmcp \ñ

^oemWv. sFIy¯nsâ iàn

bmWv Hmtcm aðkc¯ntebpw hnPbw.

ho«pImcmWv Fsâ Gähpw

henb iàn. ]¸bpw a½nbpw

Fsó H¯ncn t{]mÕmln¸n¨n

«pïv. A[ym]IcptSbpw Fsâ ho«pImcptSbpw {]mÀ°\bpsS ^eamWv F\n¡v e`n¡pó Hmtcm t\«hpw. BZysams¡ kvt]mÀ«vkns\¡pdn¨v ]dªp

Xcm³ Bfnñmbncpóp. AXpsIm

ïv Rm\{X kocnbkv Bbncp

ónñ. ]nóoSv skâv tPmÀPnse

]T\amWv kvt]mÀ«vknt\mSpÅ

Xmð¸cyw hÀ²n¸n¨Xpw t\«§

2005ð Pq\nbÀ Gjybnð 4x400 aoäÀ dnte¡v aqómw Øm\w.

2006 km^v sKbnwknð kzÀ®w.

2007 Gjy³ {Sm¡v Bâv ^oðUnð kzÀ®w.

2007se thÄUv Nm¼y³jn¸nð ]s¦Sp¯p.

2008se _oPn§v

t\«§ÄHfn¼nIvknð C´ysb {]Xn\n

[oIcn¨p.

2009 Gjy³ {Sm¡v Bâv ^oðUnð kzÀ®w.

2010 s^Utdj³ I¸v AXveävkv aoänð kzÀ®w.

2010 tIma¬shð¯nð 4x400 aoäÀ dnte¡v kzÀ®w.

2010 Gjy³ sKbnwknð 4x400 aoäÀ dnte¡v kzÀ®w.

sf¸än a\Ênem¡n¯óXpw. cmPp t]mÄ kÀ, X¦¨³ kÀ

Fónhscñmw Fsâ Kpcp¡³

amcmWv. _o\tN¨nbmbncpóp Fsâ tdmÄ tamUð. Rm³ Dj tN¨nbptSbpw Bcm[nIbmWv.

]¸ tPmkv tPmk^v, a½n do¯ FónhtcmsSm¸amWv kn

\nbpsS Xmakw. tN¨namcmb

kuaybpw knanbpw hnhmlnX

cmWv. FdWmIpfw ktX¬ sdbnðth DtZymKØbmWv kn\n. dntebnð \qdpta\n hnfbn

¡pó Cu bphXmc¯nsâ Gähpw henb e£yw 2012 se

Hfn¼nIvkmWv. AXn\p thïn

bpÅ X¿msdSp¸nemWv kn\n. ASp¯ Hfn¼y\pthïn \ap

¡pw Im¯ncn¡mw.

saUð tPXm¡Ä¡v cmjv{S]Xn \ðInb kzoIcW¨S§nð kn\n tPmkv aäp ImbnIXmc§Äs¡m¸w

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second career

{ipXn sI.Fkv

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\mev hÀj§Ä¡v ap¼v. Hcp _Ôphnsâ

hnhml \nÝbNS§nð ]s¦Sp

¡m³ t]mbXmWv Pnñp.

\nÝbw Ignªv t]mIms\mcp

§nbt¸mÄ Iknsâ tNmZyw:

"\n\s¡sâ hnhml¯n\pÅ

B`cWw Dïm¡m³ ]täzm?' Pzñdn Unssk\n§v cwK¯v

bmsXmcp ap³ ]cnNbhpw Cñmªn«pw H«pw Nn´n¡msX Xsó Pnñp AXn\v k½Xw aqfn. A§s\ amk§Ä¡pÅnð Xsó Hcp e£¯n\mð¸Xn\m

bncw cq]bpsS B`cW skäv Pnñphnsâ taðt\m«¯nð X¿mdmbn. AhnsS \nómbncpóp Cu IemImcnbpsS hfÀ¨bpsS XpS¡w.

"AXv icn¡psamcp AÛpXw

Xsóbmbncpóp. shdpsX t]m

epw Hcp ametbm I½tem Dïm

¡n t\m¡m¯ Rm³ BZyw Xsó C{Xbpw hne]nSn¸pÅ skäv Dïm¡nbtXmÀ¡pt¼mÄ Ct¸mgpw hnizkn¡m³ Ignbp

ónñ. ]s£ ]ïv apXte F\n¡v Unssk\nMv taJe

tbmSv Xmð]cyapïmbncpóp. DÅneppÅ B Ignhv Isï¯n

bXv C§s\bmbncpsóóv am{Xw'þ Pnñp Xsâ A\p`hw ]¦psh¡pIbmWv. tXm¸pw]Snbnð Pntbm ^n\m³kv Fó

ss^\m³kv I¼\n \S¯n hcnIbmWv Pnñp cmPohv. CSs¡m¨nbnse Pntbm lukv Fó t]cnepÅ ho«nemWv Xmakw.

]ucmWnI B`cW¡ehdbpambn Pnñp cmPohvaebmfnIÄ Fópw B`cW{]nbcmWv.

hkv{X¯n\v tbmPn¨ \nd§fnð kzÀ®m`cW§Ä e`n¡pónsñó hnjaw

C\n thï. \n§Ä a\Ênem{Kln¡pó Unssk\nepw \nd§fnepw B`cW§Ä

hmÀs¯Sp¡m³ klmbn¡pó Hcp Pzñdn Unssk\sd ]cnNbs¸Smw...

Pnñp cmPohv

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ao\mImcn Unssk\nemWv

Pnñp B`cW§Ä Dïm¡póXv. tIcf¯nð A[nIw Iïph

cm¯ Unssk\mWv CXv. ]Xn

s\«v ]s¯m¼Xv \qämïv

ImeL«§fnð apKÄ cmÚn

amÀ AWnªncpó B`cWam

Wv ao\mImcn. cmP IpSpw_¯n

epÅhÀ am{Xw D]tbmKn¨ncpó ChbpsS DÛhw Pbv]qcnð \n

ómWv. kzÀ®¯nð C\mað F³t{Khv sNbvXmWv ao\mImcn

Unssk³ X¿mdm¡póXv. AXnð ]£nIfptSbpw, aÕy§

fptSbpw, abnentâbpw Nn{X§Ä

]e \nd§fpÅ C\maepIÄ

tIm«v sN¿póp. t]fpIfmWv lm

§n§vkmbn D]tbmKn¡póXv.

Fómð ]ucmWnIamb ao\mImcn Unssk\nð ]pXnb s{Sâv Isï¯pIbmWv Pnñp. sNdp¸¡msc BIÀjn¡pó Xc¯nð ao\mImcnbnð Xsó ]pXnb Unssk³ tamÄ

UpIÄ cq]s¸Sp¯n X«m

s\s¡mïv ]Wnbn¸n¡póp. ame, hf, I½ð, tamXncw, Np«n, ]mZkzcw Fón§s\ FñmXcw B`cW§fpw Pnñp Dïm¡pópïv.

hnhml§Ä¡pw aäp ]mÀ«nI

Ä¡pw BfpIfpsS CSbnð {i²n¡s¸Spó HómWv C¯cw

B`cW§Ä. GXv {]mb¡mÀ

¡pw D]tbmKn¡X¡h®w hnhn[Xcw Unssk\pIÄ CXnepïv. BfpIsf t\m¡n

bmWv AhÀ¡pÅ B`cW¯n

sâ Unssk³ \nÀ½n¡póXv.

"tamÄUv Dïm¡n hÀ¡v XoÀ¡póXneñ Imcyw. IÌaÀ

¡Xv CjvSs¸SWw. \ap¡v

CjvSs¸« Unssk³ asämcm

Ä¡v CjvSs¸Sp¯pó Xc¯nð

Dïm¡póXnemWv {i²nt¡

ïXv. henb Hcp hÀ¡n\v Hcp amksa¦nepw kabsaSp¡pw.'

\nd§fmWv ao\mImcn

Unssk\nsâ asämcp {]tXyIX.

s]s«óv BIÀjn¡s¸Spóh

bmWv CXnsâ IfÀ tIm¼nt\j³. sadqWpw ]¨bpw, ]n¦pw

shÅbpw s{SUojWð \nd§

fmsW¦nð \oebpw shÅbp

amWv ]pXnb IeÀ¸v. ap¯pIÄ ]nSn¸n¨ I½epIÄ, _ÞnI (Np«n), Nm´v_pÅn tamXncw, Pnap¡n Fónhbv¡mWv Bhiy

¡mÀ IqSpXð. cïv {Kmanð XpS§n ]¯pw Ccp]Xpw ]h³

Xq¡apÅ B`cW§Ä hsc Pnñp hyXykvX Unssk\nð Dïm¡pópïv. cïv {Kmansâ B`cW¯n\v 4000 cq] Fó

XmWv IW¡v. Ignª \mep

hÀj§fnembn ]¯p]{´ïv

e£t¯mfw hne hcpóB`cW

§Ä Pnñp Dïm¡n¡gnªp.

Pzñdn Unssk\nsâ Cu ]p

XnbapJ¯n\v ]cky§fnñ FóXpw IuXpIIcamWv. Iq«p

Imcnð \nópw _Ôp¡fnð \n

ópw Iïpw tI«pw Adnbpó BfpIfmWv HmÀUÀ \ðIpóXv. ho«nencpóp Xsó sN¿pó hÀ

¡mWnXv.

Unssk\n§nt\mSpÅ ]mj

³ am{XamWv C¯csamcp kwcw

`w Bcw`n¡m³ thïsXómWv Pnñphnsâ A`n{]mbw. kq£va

amb {i²bpw `mh\mtijnbpw

CXn\XymhiyamWv. kÀKmßI

Xbv¡p ]pdsa IrXyamb A\p

]mXhpw {i²n¡Ww. Hmtcm

BfpIfpsS apJ¯nsâ LS\bv¡pw \nd¯n\pw tbmPn¨

hbmbncn¡Ww AhÀ¡pthïn

bpïm¡pó B`cWsaóv Pnñphn\v \nÀ_Ôapïv. Pzñdn Unssk³ tImgvkpIÄ ]Tn¨n«pw Hópw sN¿msX Ccn¡póhÀ¡v adp]SnbmWv C¯cw tImgvkpIsfmópw ssIhianñmsX Pzñdn Unssk³ AXnsâ Fñm hn[ `wKntbmSpw IqSn sN¿pó Pnñp cmPohv.

"ho«pImcmWv Fsâ hnPb

¯n\v ImcWw. `À¯mhv cmPohv

tlm«ð _nkn\kv \S¯póp.

aI³ cmlpð bp. sI. Pnbnem

Wv. ChcmWv Fsó kt¸mÀ«v

sN¿póXv. ]nsó ssZhm\p{Kl

hpw...' Pnñp ]dbpóp. Pzñdn

Unssk³ Hcp h³InS hyhkmbam¡n hnIkn¸n¡

WsaómWv Pnñphnsâ Ct¸mgp

Å B{Klw.

[email protected]

Unssk\n§nt\mSpÅ ]mj³ am{XamWv C¯csamcp kwcw`w Bcw`n¡m³thïXv. kq£vaamb {i²bpw `mh\mtijnbpw CXn\XymhiyamWv.

]ucmWnI B`cW¡ehdbpambn Pnñp cmPohv

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family of the month

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Hcp tXmðhn \ðInb hnPbwaqgbnð A{_lmw, `mcy Fðk½

Phot

o : s

anth

osh

Ais

war

ia, K

urav

ilang

ad

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Hcp tXmðhn \ðInb hnPbw

1967 ]me \Kck`m, Iu¬knente¡pÅ

XncsªSp¸v. thms«s®ð

XIrXnbmbn \S¡póp. knänMv Iu¬knedmb t__n¨s\ó aqgbnð A{_lmansâ lrZb

anSn¸n\v iàn IqSn. thms«®n¡

gnªt¸mÄ t__n 13 thm«n\v tXmäncn¡póp. ]membnse tIc

fmtIm¬{Kkv XcwK¯nð tXm

ðhnbpsS cpNnbdnª Øm\mÀ

°n t__n¨³ t\sc A¸sâ aeôc¡v ISbnte¡v \Sóp.

Xsâ PohnXhgn s]mXp{]hÀ¯ItâXsñóv t__n¨³ Xncn¨dnª Znhkambncpóp AXv. B tXmðhntbmsSbmWv X\n¡v PohnX¯nse Fñm ku`mKyhpw e`n¨sXó BapJt¯msSbm

Wv t__n¨mb³ kwkmcn¨p

XpS§nbXv.

]membnse aqgbnð Pzñdn, aqgbnð _mt¦gvkv Fóo

Øm]\§fpsS Øm]I³ aqg

bnð t__n¨³ Xsâ IpSpw_hpsamón¨pÅ PohnXbm{Xsb

¡pdn¨v kwkmcn¡póp.""Fsâ

A¸³ tXmakv Nmïn ]membnð aeôc¡v I¨hS¡mcm\mbncp

óp. R§Ä 11 a¡Ä. cïmas¯ aI\mbncpóp Rm³. Bim³ ]Ån¡qS¯nemWv BZy ]T\w.

]nóoSv ]me skâv tXmakv kvIqfnembn. ]¯mw ¢mkv Ign

ªt¸mÄ A¸³ ]dªp;

]T\w \nÀ¯n Ftâsbm¸w I¨hS¯nð klmbn¡m³. A§s\ Rm³ A¸t\msSm¸w hym]mc¯nð tNÀóp.

tN«\v saUnkn\v ]Tn¡m³ Ahkcw e`n¨ kabambncpóp AXv. 1954 emWv A¸t\msSm¸w _nkn\Ênð tNcpóXv. Cóv ImWpó coXnbnepÅ hn]p

eamb aeôc¡v

hym]mcsamópañ. A¸sâ

IStbmsSm¸w sN¿mhpó Hcp

tPmensbó \nebnemWv amXr`q

an, C´y³ FIvkv{]kv Fóo

]{X§fpsS GP³kn FSp¯Xv.

\m«pImcpambn ASp¯ _Ôap

ïmhm³ Ahkcsamcp¡nbXpw ]{X {]hÀ¯\amWv.

BZyImes¯ms¡ ssk¡n

fnð ]{Xhpambn t]mhm³ F\n¡v henb N½embncpóp. Hcpan¨p ]Tn¨hscms¡ tImfPnte¡v hcpt¼mÄ Rm³ ssk¡nfnð ]{Xhpambn t]mhp

óXnð Gsd hnjan¨Imew.

Hcp Znhkw Hcp ]¿³ Fsó ImWm³ hóp. ]{Xw sImïp

t]mhpó tPmen X\n¡v XcWw Fómbncpóp Ahsâ Bhiyw.

A§ns\ ]{XhnXcWw Ah³ GsäSp¯p.

HcmgvNIgnªt¸mgmWv Ah³ ]me skâv tXmakv sslkvIqfnse slUvamÌdm

bncpó tKmhnµ ]nÅ kmdnsâ aI\mbncpópshóv AdnªXv. £am]Ww ]dbm\mbn Rm³ kmdnsâ ho«nte¡p t]mbn. Fómð tKmhnµ]nÅ kmÀ AdnªpsImïv Xsó

bmbncpóp aIs\ tPmen¡v Ab

¨Xv. PohnXw F´msWópw

Ah³ ]Tn¡Wsaópw ]W¯n

sâbpw A²zm\¯nsâ hnebdn

bWsaópw, Bscbpw hôn¡m

sX Pohn¡Wsaópw aIs\ ]Tn

¸n¡m\mWv a\knem¡ns¡m

Sp¡m\pamWv ]{X hnXcW¯n\v Ahs\ hn«sXópw kmÀ ]d

ªp. PohnX¯nð henb Xncn¨

dnhpambmWv tKmhnµ]nÅ kmdn

sâ ho«nð \nópw Rm³ Cd§n

bXv. Fónse Zpc`nam\w sI«S

§nb Znhkambncpóp AXv.

1962 ð ]mem \Kck`bnte

¡pÅ XncsªSp¸v \S¡póp. ]{X GPâv Fó \nebnð F\n¡v ]membnepïmbncpó _Ôw ]cnKWn¨mWv Øm\mÀ

°nbmhpóXv. Ccp]¯nbôma

s¯ hbÊnemWv Øm\mÀ°n

bmhpóXv. \ñ `qcn]£¯nð Pbn¨v Iu¬knedmbn. 67 hsc Iu¬kneÀ Fó \nebnð {]hÀ¯n¨p. cïmw h«hpw Rm³ aðkcn¨p. Fómð sIFw amWnbpsS t\XrXz¯nð tIcfm tIm¬{Kkv ]membnð iàns¸«tXmsS aðkcw ISp¯Xmbn. 13 thm«n\mWv Rm³ tXmð¡póXv. Fsâ PohnX¯nse henb hnPbhpw AXmbncpóp.

tXm«p¦ð HuX¡p«n¨mb³ FtómSv ]dªp, \o s]mXp {]hÀ¯\w \nÀ¯n

tb¡m³. F\ns¡mcp j«À AhnsS InS¸pïv; AhnsS Hcp

kzÀ®¡SbmWv DïmbncpóXv. Ahscmgnªpt]mbncpóp. B

IS GsäSp¡m³ HuX¡p«n¨m

b³ Fsó \nÀ_Ôn¡pIbm

bncpóp. A½ ho«pImcnð NneÀ kzÀ® hym]mcnIfmWv, Fómð BtcmSpw A\mhiyambn klmbw tNmZn¡póXv A¸\v CjvSañmbncpóp.

1967 Pqsse amkambncpóp Fðk½sb `mcybmbn kzoIcn

PohnX¯nð henb Xncn¨dnhpambmWv tKmhnµ]nÅ kmdnsâ ho«nð \nópw Rm³ Cd§nbXv. Fónse Zpc`nam\w sI«S§nb Znhkambncpóp AXv.

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¨Xv. ]nóoSv F\n¡v ]ndtIm«v t\mt¡ïn hón«nñ. sXm«Sp¯ hÀjamWv ]membnð kzÀ®¡S Bcw`n¡póXv. cmjv{Sob _Ôw _nkn\Ênð F\n¡v Gsd Kp

Ww sNbvXncpóp.

A¸\pw Rm\pw IpSpw_¯nsâ Xm§mbn \nóp. Bdv BWpw Aôv s]®pw DÅ aqgbnð tXm

akv Nmïn Fñm a¡sfbpw kXykÔcmbn Pohn¡m\mWv

BZyw ]Tn¸n¨Xv. e£yt_m[ap

Åhcmbn amdm³ A¸sâ \ne]m

SpIÄ Fñm a¡Ä¡pw {]tNmZ\ambncpóp. aq¯ tN«³ (tUm. tXmakv aqgbnð) PÀ½\nbnð

\nópamWv saUn¡ð _ncpZw t\SnbXv. Asóms¡ hntZi¯v t]mbn ]Tn¡m\pÅ km¼¯nI tijnsbmópw \½psS IpSpw_¯n\v Dïmbncpónñ. Fón«pw tN«s\ hntZi¯v Ab¨v ]Tn¸n¡m³ A¸³ Xocp

am\n¨p.

en³U, en_n, en\n, A_n

FónhcmWv a¡Ä. Fñmhcp

sSbpw hnhmlw Ignªp. Pzñdn

hym]mcnIfmWv cïv s]¬a¡

sfbpw hnhmlw sNbvXncn¡p

óXv. aq¯aIÄ en³U Ipdhne

§mSpw CfbaIÄ en\n A¦am

enbnepw. en_nbpw A_nbpamWv Ct¸mÄ aqgbnð Pzñdn \S¯p

óXv. Rm³ aqgbnð _m¦nsâ

{]hÀ¯\§fpambn IgnbpI

bmWv. A¸³ Fsó hym]mc¯n

te¡v sImïphóXpt]mse

Rm³ a¡sfbpw hym]mc¯n

te¡v sImïphcnIbmbncpóp. Cfb aI³ A_n¡v ss]eämh

Wsaómbncpóp B{Klw. Fómð B B{Kl¯n\v Iq«p

\nð¡m³ F\n¡v Ignbpambn

cpónñ. Pzñdn t\m¡n\S¯m³

cïpt]À BhiyamWv. aq¯a

I³ t\cs¯Xsó hym]mc

¯nð hóp. Ct¸mÄ AhÀ kzÀ®hym]mc¯nð kzbw

]cym]vXX t\Sn¡gnªn

cn¡póp. Rm³ henb `à\m

Wv. ssZhamXmhmb adnbw Fsâ PohnX¯nð Ht«sd klmb§Ä sNbvXn«pïv. Fópw cmhnse 4.30\v Fgptóð¡pIbpw 5.30\v ]Ånbnse¯n {]mÀ°n

¡pIbpw sN¿m³ XpS§n

bn«v A¼Xntesd hÀjambn.

AXmWv Fsâ PohnX¯nep

ïm¡nb FñmhnPb§Ä¡pw ImcWsaóv Rm³ Xncn¨dn

bpóp. amXmhv Fsó klmbn¨

Ht«sd kw`h§fpïmbn«p

sï¦nepw F\n¡v apónð {]Xy£s¸« kµÀ`w Hóntesd

bpïmbncpóp. 1982ð Dïmb

Hcp kw`hamWv Cubhkc

¯nð HmÀ¡póXv. Fsâ A\p

P\v thïn hb\m«nð Hcp Pzñ

dn XpS§nbncpóp. AhntS¡v ]m

embnð \nóv B`cW§Ä Dïm

¡n sImïpt]mhpIbmbncpóp ]Xnhv. Hcp Znhkw Rm³ kzÀ®

hpambn AhntS¡v t]mhpIbm

Wv. IqsS aI³ A_nbpapïv. Ah\v Aóv Bdv hbkv {]mbw ImWpw. A¡me¯v kzÀ® \n

b{´Ww DïmbncpóImeamWv. ]membnð \nópw tImgnt¡t«¡v Hä _ÊnemWv bm{X. _kv ]pd

s¸«v Gsd t\cw Ignªt¸m

tg¡pw aI³ Dd¡ambn. cïvt]À¡ncn¡mhpó _Ênð aIs\bpw sImïncn¡m\pÅ _p²nap«v ImcWw Hcp {]mbamb kv{Xo

am{Xancn¡pó koänte¡v amdnbncpóp. _kv tImgnt¡mSn\Sp¯v ^dq¡nð F¯n¡mWpw. CâenP³kv kvIzmUv _Ênð

Ibdn. Btcm hnhcw \ðInb

Xnsâ ASnØm\¯nemWv Ahsc¯nbXv. _Ênð DtZym

KØ kwLw bm{X¡msc ]cn

tim[n¡pIbmWv. Rm³ BsI

XIÀóp. a\Ênð amXmhns\ hnfn¨v Hcp\nanjw I®pIfS

¨p{]mÀ°n¨p. ]nóoSv sXm«Sp

¯ncn¡pó kv{Xosb t\m¡n. AhcpsS ssI Fsâ t\sc

aqgbnð IpSpw_w

Rm³ henb `à\mWv. ssZhamXmhmb adnbw Fsâ PohnX¯nð Ht«sd klmb§Ä sNbvXn«pï

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\o«n h¨v Dd§pIbmbncpóp. Rm³ I®pIfS¨v B ssII

fnte¡v Xe Nmbv¨p. Að`pX

saóv ]dbs«; R§fpsS sXm«v

]ndInse koäphsc ]cntim[

Isc¯n. Dd§pó XÅsbbpw a¡sfbpw ieyw sNs¿sïóv ]dªv DtKymKس t]mbn.

Cós¯ \nebnð Ggv e£¯n

tesd hneaXn¡pó kzÀ®

amWv Fsâ ssI¿nepÅXv.

]nSn¡s¸«mð cïv PzñdnI

fpsSbpw \ne\nð¸v Xsó A]IS¯nemhpambncpóp. tImgnt¡mSv _kv Ìm³Unð R§Ä Cd§n, Rm³ B kv{Xosb Im¸n IpSn¡m\mbn £Wn¨p. AhÀ thsïóv ]dªp. sXm«Sp¯ ISbnð \n

ópw Im¸n hm§nXncnsI t\m¡nbt¸mÄ B kv{Xosb

ImWm\nñ. Rm³ Ahsc Ìm³

Uv apgph³ Xncsª¦nepw Isï¯m\mbnñ. AXv amXmhmsWóv Rm³ hnizkn¡póp. a¡tfmSv ]dbm

\pÅXv ssZh`ànbpÅhcmbn

a¡sf hfÀ¯pI.

PohnX¯nð \oXnsb¡pdn¨v am{Xw kwkmcn¡pI, ]ckv¸cw _lpam\n¡pI, Hcpan¨ncpóv BlmcwIgn¡pI. \½psS Cuiz

c³ \½psS a\knð XsóbmWv hkn¡póXv ià\mbh³ \½psSIqsSbpÅt¸mÄ \½psS

Fñm {]hÀ¯\§fpw hnPbw

hcn¡pw. \òbpÅhcmbncn¡pI. Akqbbnð \nópÅ hep¸hpw A[nImc¯nð \nópÅ Al¦mchpw CñmXncn¡pI.

Adnhnð am{Xta Cuizc³ hkn

¡bpÅq Fóv Xncn¨dnbpI.

kab \njvT]men¡pI, Adn

tªm AdnbmsXtbm \½psS

tbm aäpÅhcpsStbm kabw \jvSs¸Sp¯cpXv. F´v {]hr¯n sN¿pt¼mgpw t]mknäohmbn am{Xw Nn´n¡pI.

\ap¡v hcpó ]cmPbw

aäpÅhcnð sI«nsh¡mXncn¡p

I. {kjvSmhmb Cuizc³ Xsâ

A½sb \½psS A½bmbn XcnIbpw \½sf a¡fmbn A½ kzoIcn¡pIbpw sNbvXp.

AXn\mð \½Ä A½tbmSv tNmZn¡pó F´pw Cuizc³

Xcpsaóv ]qÀ®ambn hnizkn¡pI.

Rm³ a¡tfmSv Fópw ]dbmdp

Å Hcp Imcyapïv. FhnsS F´v {]iv\apïmbmepw FtómSv ]dbWw. Bsc¦nepw GsX¦nepw coXnbnð D]{Zhn¨mð Imcyw

IrXyambn FtómSv ]dbW

saóv a¡tfmSpw AhcpsS a¡tfmSpw ]dbmdpïv. Imcy

§Ä ho«pImtcmSv Xpdóv ]d

ªmð am{Xta PohnX¯nð A]IS§fnð s]SmXncn¡p

IbpÅq. cmjv{Sobt¯mSv hnS]dsª¦nepw kmaqly{]hÀ¯\ cwK¯v Rm³ Fópw Dïmbncpóp. ]membnse eb¬kv ¢_nsâ BZyImew sXm«v AwKhpw ]nóoSv `mchm

lnbpsams¡bmbncpóp. Im¯

enIv bwKvsa³ eoKv {]knUâv

Fóo \neIfnepw {]hÀ¯n¨n

«pïv. Ct¸mÄ tKmÄUv aÀ¨âv

Atkmkntbj³ Pnñm `mchm

lnbmWv.

Pn½n ]qhm«nð

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A[nIw ]Ww apS¡msX

hnam\¯nð ]dóv Sqdn\pt]m

Im³ ]änb cmPytaXv? DeIw

Npän ImgvNIïp \S¡pó bm{X

¡¼¡mtcmSmWv Cu tNmZysa

¦nð Hcp¯cta AhÀ¡pïm

Iq... atejy. a[phn[p kznävkÀ

e³Unepw ]mcoknepsams¡bm

¡m³ sImXn¨ncpóhÀ t]mepw Cóv bm{XbpsS BZy Hm]vj

\mbn XncsªSp¡póXv atejy

bmWv. sNehv Ipdhv, Iïp\S

¡m³ Is®¯mZqct¯mfw Imgv

NIfpw. CsXms¡bmWv C´y³

SqdnÌpIfpsS {]nbs¸« sUÌn

t\j\mbn atejysb amänbXv.

F´m Cu kokWnð atejybv¡v Xsó t]mIm³ Xocpam\n¨tñ....AXn\p ap¼v Cu cmPys¯¡pdn¨v AdntbïsXñmw ]dªpXcmw.

hnkvab`cnXcm¡pó Nne atejy³ hntij§Ä Cu e¡w ]¦psh¡mw...

Ncn{X¯n\v {]mbw 40,000 hÀjw

\mð¸Xn\mbncw hÀj§

Ä¡p apt¼ a\pjyÀ hkn¨ncpó {]tZiamWv atejy. ssXeâv, Ctâmt\jy, hnbäv\mw Fónhbv

¡nSbnð 329,847 kvIzbÀ Intem

aoädnembn ]cóp InS¡pó cmPyamWnXv. 13 \qämïnsâ Ncn{X]mc¼cyapÅ atejy, {_n«ojv B[n]Xy¯nð \nóv

1957emWv tamNnXambXv. BZy

ImeL«§fnð C´ybpw ssN\bpw ChnsS I¨hSw \S¯nbncpóp. AXn\mð C´y³

kwkv¡mcw Cu cmPys¯

hfsctbsd kzm[o\n¨n«pïv. Øe§Ä Iïpw tI«pw \S¡p

t¼mÄ C´yt]mse tXmópsaóv kmcw. Cu hnIknX CÉmanI cmjv{S¯nð Cóv 26 aney³ P\§fmWv hkn¡póXv.

Gjyt]mse Cu atejy GjybpsS bYmÀ°

apJamWv atejy. GjybpsS h˨i_famb ImgvNIfpw, \n

dhpw, i_vZhpw, A`ncpNnIfpw

Hón¡pó kwkv¡mcamWv Cu cmPy¯ntâXv. Gjybnse aqóv iàamb P\hn`mK§fmb ssN\bntebpw, C´ybntebpw, atejybntebpw BfpIsf ChnsS ImWmw. \ñ PohnXco

XnIfpw, ]mc¼cy§fpw, BtLmj§fpw, k{¼Zmb§fpw sImïv k¼óamb Cu cmPy

t¯¡v Ct¸mÄ Gjybnð \n

óv hnt\mZkômcnIfpsS Hgp¡mWv.

kz]v\w t]mse t_mÀWntbm Zzo]v

{][m\ambpw aqóv {]tZi

§fmbn«mWv Cu cmPyw hnt\m

Zkômc taJebnð Adnbs¸

SpóXv. s]\n³kpeÀ atejy, Ing¡³ atejy, km¼m kÀhmIv kwØm\§Ä ØnXn sN¿pó t_mÀWntbm Zzo]v.

CSXqÀóv hfÀóp hcpó ag¡mSpIfpw, jn¸n§v semt¡j\pIfpw ChnSps¯ asämcp {]tXyIXbmWv. kz]v

\w t]mse at\mlcamb ImgvNIfpÅ CSamWv t_mÀWn

C´ybnð \nóv IqSpXð kômcnIÄ F¯pó {][m\ \Kcw atejybnse Izmemew]qcmWv.

kptcjv tat\m³

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A[nIw ]Ww apS¡msX

hnam\¯nð ]dóv Sqdn\pt]m

Im³ ]änb cmPytaXv? DeIw

Npän ImgvNIïp \S¡pó bm{X

¡¼¡mtcmSmWv Cu tNmZysa

¦nð Hcp¯cta AhÀ¡pïm

Iq... atejy. a[phn[p kznävkÀ

e³Unepw ]mcoknepsams¡bm

¡m³ sImXn¨ncpóhÀ t]mepw Cóv bm{XbpsS BZy Hm]vj

\mbn XncsªSp¡póXv atejy

bmWv. sNehv Ipdhv, Iïp\S

¡m³ Is®¯mZqct¯mfw Imgv

NIfpw. CsXms¡bmWv C´y³

SqdnÌpIfpsS {]nbs¸« sUÌn

t\j\mbn atejysb amänbXv.

F´m Cu kokWnð atejybv¡v Xsó t]mIm³ Xocpam\n¨tñ....AXn\p ap¼v Cu cmPys¯¡pdn¨v AdntbïsXñmw ]dªpXcmw.

hnkvab`cnXcm¡pó Nne atejy³ hntij§Ä Cu e¡w ]¦psh¡mw...

Ncn{X¯n\v {]mbw 40,000 hÀjw

\mð¸Xn\mbncw hÀj§

Ä¡p apt¼ a\pjyÀ hkn¨ncpó {]tZiamWv atejy. ssXeâv, Ctâmt\jy, hnbäv\mw Fónhbv

¡nSbnð 329,847 kvIzbÀ Intem

aoädnembn ]cóp InS¡pó cmPyamWnXv. 13 \qämïnsâ Ncn{X]mc¼cyapÅ atejy, {_n«ojv B[n]Xy¯nð \nóv

1957emWv tamNnXambXv. BZy

ImeL«§fnð C´ybpw ssN\bpw ChnsS I¨hSw \S¯nbncpóp. AXn\mð C´y³

kwkv¡mcw Cu cmPys¯

hfsctbsd kzm[o\n¨n«pïv. Øe§Ä Iïpw tI«pw \S¡p

t¼mÄ C´yt]mse tXmópsaóv kmcw. Cu hnIknX CÉmanI cmjv{S¯nð Cóv 26 aney³ P\§fmWv hkn¡póXv.

Gjyt]mse Cu atejy GjybpsS bYmÀ°

apJamWv atejy. GjybpsS h˨i_famb ImgvNIfpw, \n

dhpw, i_vZhpw, A`ncpNnIfpw

Hón¡pó kwkv¡mcamWv Cu cmPy¯ntâXv. Gjybnse aqóv iàamb P\hn`mK§fmb ssN\bntebpw, C´ybntebpw, atejybntebpw BfpIsf ChnsS ImWmw. \ñ PohnXco

XnIfpw, ]mc¼cy§fpw, BtLmj§fpw, k{¼Zmb§fpw sImïv k¼óamb Cu cmPy

t¯¡v Ct¸mÄ Gjybnð \n

óv hnt\mZkômcnIfpsS Hgp¡mWv.

kz]v\w t]mse t_mÀWntbm Zzo]v

{][m\ambpw aqóv {]tZi

§fmbn«mWv Cu cmPyw hnt\m

Zkômc taJebnð Adnbs¸

SpóXv. s]\n³kpeÀ atejy, Ing¡³ atejy, km¼m kÀhmIv kwØm\§Ä ØnXn sN¿pó t_mÀWntbm Zzo]v.

CSXqÀóv hfÀóp hcpó ag¡mSpIfpw, jn¸n§v semt¡j\pIfpw ChnSps¯ asämcp {]tXyIXbmWv. kz]v

\w t]mse at\mlcamb ImgvNIfpÅ CSamWv t_mÀWn

C´ybnð \nóv IqSpXð kômcnIÄ F¯pó {][m\ \Kcw atejybnse Izmemew]qcmWv.

kptcjv tat\m³

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hniZhnhc§Ä¡v:

tbm Zzo]v. aebv Fó kz´am

sbmcp `mjbv¡p ]pdta \qän\m

ð¸¯ntbgv `mjIÄ kwkmcn

¡pó BfpIÄ Cu cmPy¯pïv.

hfsc \qX\amb cmPyam

bXp sImïv Xsó atejybnse hnIk\ {]{InbIÄ hnt\mZ

kômcnIÄ¡v BÝcyw ]Icp

óXmWv. temIs¯ B[p\nI kwhn[m\apÅ hnam\¯mhf§fnð Hóv

atejybnse sk]mïnð ØnXn sN¿pó Izmeew]qÀ A´mcmjv{S hnam\¯mhfamWv.

C´y¡msc ap«nbn«v \S¡m³ h¿!

C´y³ kômcnIsf ap«nbn«v hgnbnð \S¡m\mIm¯ ØnXnbmWv Cóv atejybv¡v. ImcWw C´y¡mcmWs{X IqSpXepw ChntS¡v ]dsó¯p

óXv.

C´ybnð \nópw {][m\ambn aqóv hn`mK¯nepÅ hnt\mZ

kômcnIfmWv atejysb CjvSs¸SpóXv.

1. tImÀ]tdäv Øm]\§Ä

\ðIpó t{]mÕml\ ]mt¡

PpIÄ.

2. atejybpsS kuµcyw BkzZn¡m³ t]mIpó sIm¨p IpSpw_§Ä.

3. a[phn[p Imew NnehnSm³ t]mIpó sNdp¸¡mÀ.

I®pIÄ¡v hncpómbvamdpó shÅaWð¯cnIÄ

C´ybnð \nóv IqSpXð kômcnIÄ t]mIpó {][m\

\Kchpw atejybnse Izmem

ew]qcmWv. XpSÀóv sPân§v dntkmÀ«nte¡pw kômcnIÄ t]mImdpïv. atejybpsS IStemc kômc tI{µ§fmb s]\m§pw, e¦mhn¡pw {]ikv

XamWv. AhnSps¯ hnJymXamb shÅ aWð¯cnIÄ kômcn

IÄ¡v hn{ia Øe§fmWv. temI¯nse Xsó DbÀó tKm]pcamb Cc«tKm]pchpw,

sI. Fð. tKm]pchpw ChnSps¯

AhnkvacWobamb ImgvNIfm

Wv. Izmemew]qÀ \Kc¯n\Sp¯v ØnXn sN¿pó hm«À Xow ]mÀ

¡pIfmb k¬th eKq¬, ]m

ekv Hm^v Zn tKmÄ U¬tlmgv

kkv Fónhbpw temtIm¯

camWv. Fñm AÀ°¯nepw atejy temI`q]S¯nð hnt\m

ZkômcnIfpsS Hcp {]nbs¸« taJebmbn¯oÀóncn¡póp.

bm{Xbvs¡mcp§ns¡mÅqqq... hyXykvXamb ]mt¡PpIÄ

hfsc BIÀjamb coXnbnð

C´ybnepS\ofw e`n¡pw.

C´ybnse hnt\mZ kômcn

IfpsS bYmÀ°amb Bhiy

§Ä DÄs¡mÅn¨psImïpÅ

]mt¡PpIÄ e`yamWv. atejy

bnð aqóv Zn\cm{X§Ä Nnehm

¡pó Hcp sNdnb ]mt¡Pn\v FbÀ Sn¡äv, hnkm \nc¡pI

Ä¡v ]pdsa HcmÄ¡v 5900 cq]bmWv. F´m Sqdv t]mIm³ sdUnbtñ?

se¦zn Zzo]vssI.Fð.kn.kn Szn³ ShÀsskâv. t]mÄkv lnð sIñokv ImknðsF³Uhvþtdmw]n³ \mj\ð ]mÀ¡v

atejybnð kômcnIsf BIÀjn¡pó Øe§Ä

sXa³ s\Kmc \mj\ð ]mÀ¡vss]Àsl³Snb³ Zzo]vsIn³_mep aeskn]mU³ h\yPohn kwc£W tI{µw

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¡mWv ap³Xq¡w \ðIpóXv. NÀ½kwc£Whpw tIi]cn]m

e\hpw. icockwc£Ww ]n

óoSv hcpóXmWv. hnhml Znhkw Xnf§n \nð¡m³ t\cs¯ Xsó Hcp¡§Ä¡v X¿mdmbnt¡mfq. \n§sf klmbn¡m\nXm Nne _yq«n Sn¸pIÄ...

NÀ½kwc£W¯n\v NÀ½kwc£WamImw BZy

]Sn. Hcp amkw aps¼¦nepw CXn\mbn kabw Isï¯Ww. Hcp _yq«ojsâ klmbt¯msS \n§fpsS kvInón\v tbmPn¨ t^kv s¢³kn§v XncsªSp¯v cïmbvNbnsemcn¡se¦nepw s¢³kn§v sN¿m³ {ian¡Ww. ho«nencpóv sN¿mhpó HómWnXv. s¢³kn§v temj³ ]ªnbnseSp¯v apJhpw Igp¯pw hr¯nbm¡nbmð aXn. CXphgn NÀ½¯n\v {^jv\kv e`n¡pw. Ahkm\s¯ s¢³kn§v hnhml¯n\v \mev Znhkw aps¼¦nepw sNbvXncn¡Ww.

CXn\p ]pdsa ho«nencpóv Xsó tambnkvNdbvkn§pw Øncambn sN¿mhpóXmWv. Hcp kv]q¬ HmSvknð Að]w

shÅw tNÀ¯v Ipg¨v apJ¯v

]pc«pI. aqóv an\nän\v tijw hncðXp¼v sImïv aq¡n\v Npänepw IhnfpIfnepw Igp¯nepw sNdpXmbn akmPv

sN¿pI. Poh\nñm¯ tImi§

sf \o¡n kpjnc§Ä Xpd¡pó

Xn\v Cu sat¯Uv klmbn¡pw. IgpInb tijw k¬kv{Iot\m tambnkvNdbvktdm D]tbmKn¡mw. Ccp]Xpan\nän\p tijta ta¡¸v sN¿mhq.

t^kv kv{I_v, »o¨n§v, t^jyð Fónhbpw NÀ½kwc£W¯n\v sN¿mhpó {SoävsaâpIfmWv. ChbnteXv XncsªSp¡p

t¼mgpw {]IrXnZ¯ambXv XncsªSp¡m³ HmÀ¡Ww. sskUvCs^Ivävkv DïmIm

Xncn¡m³ thïnbmWXv. 500

AWnsªmcp§mw hnhml¯n\pap¼v

beauty

MINNUS BEAUTY PARLOURCHERPUNKAL,PALA

an\n Dñmkv

\nÝbw Ignªv \mtfsd

bmbmepw ]ecpw hnhml¯n\pÅ Hcp¡§Ä XpS§póXv hfsc sshInbmWv. hnhml¯n\v cïv Znhkw ap¼v AWnsªmcp§m³ {ian¨n«v bmsXmcp Imcyhpanñ. hnhml Xn¿Xn¡v Hcp amkw apt¼ kuµcykwc£Ww Bcw`nt¡ïXpïv.

hnhml¯n\p ap¼pÅ {]o

shUn§v ss{_Uð t]t¡Pnð

{][m\s¸« cïp Imcy§Ä

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cq] apXð 2000 cq] hscbpÅ C¯cw InäpIÄ ISIfnð e`yamWv. {Soävsaân\v tijw ]p

d¯v t]mIpt¼mÄ IpS NqSm\pw k¬ ¥mkpIÄ D]tbmKn¡m\pw {i²n¡Ww.

\mNpdð t^kv ]m¡pIÄ apÄ«mWnan«n Asñ¦nð

Bcyth¸ne t]Ìv Fónh

sbñmw ho«nð Xsóbncpóv sN¿mhpó t^kv ]m¡p

IfmWv. apJ¯v ]pc«n Að]kabw Ignªv DW§pt¼mÄ IgpIn¡fbpI. AXn\ptijw

tambvNssdkÀ Hcp IjvWw ]ªnbnseSp¯v ]pc«póXv NÀ½¯n\v Xnf¡w Iq«m³ klmbn¡pw. NpïpIÄ hnïp

IodmXncn¡m³ _Zmw ssXew NpïpIfnð ]pc«pI. s\ñn¡m \ocv ]Ið kab§fnð ]pc«n

bmð Npïn\v \ñ Nph¸v \ndw

e`n¡pw. Chsbñmw hnhml¯n

\v Hcp amkw ap³]v XpS§Ww. NÀ½ kwc£Ww sN¿pt¼mÄ Hcp Imcyw HmÀt¡ïXpïv. NÀ½w ss{U kvIn³, , Hmbnen kvIn³, t\mÀ½ð kvIn³ Fón§s\ aqómbn Xcw Xncn¨n«pïv. AXnð \n§fpsS NÀ½w GXv hn`mK¯nð s]Spóp Fóv t\m¡n thWw kwc£Ww \ðIm³.

ss{U kvIn³þ Ipfn¡póXn\v AcaWn¡qÀ ap³]v

tZlamkIew ap«bpsS aª¡cp , tX³, Heohv Hmbnð FónhbpsS an{inXw ]pc«pI.

Hmbnen kvIn³þ Ipfn¡póXn\v AcaWn¡qÀ ap³]v \mc§m\ocpw Ac Sokv]q

¬ shÅcn¡m\ocpw tNÀ¯ an{inXw ]pc«pI.

an{iNÀ½wþ XWp¸n¨ ]mepw ssXcpw tNÀó an{inXw ]pc«pI.

tIi ]cn]me\w \ofapÅ apSnbmbmepw {Snw

sNbvX tjm«v slbÀ Bbmepw

IrXyamb kwc£W¯neqsS am{Xta apSnbpsS kuµcyw \n

e\nÀ¯m³ Ignbq. tjm¸n§n

t\m aämhiy§Ät¡m ]pd¯v t]mIpt¼mÄ s]mSn]Se§Ä apSnbnsem«n¸nSn¡m³ CSbpïv. AXpsImïv BgvNbnð aqóv XhWsb¦nepw apSn hr¯nbm¡m³ {i²n¡Ww.

A[nIw sIan¡epIfnñm¯ jmw¼p thWw XncsªSp¡m³ (t__n jmw¼p \ñXmWv). jmw¼p Xebnð \nð¡m¯ Xc¯nð apgph\mbpw IgpIn¡fbm³ {i²n¡Ww. Ahkm\s¯ I¸v shůnð Hcp kv]q¬ hn\mKncn

tNÀ¡póXpw KpWw sN¿pw.

hn\mKncn tNÀ¯ shÅw Xebnsemgn¨mð ]nsó apSnb[nIw Cf¡msX shbv¡Ww. DW§nb SÆðsImïv sI«n km[mcW t]mse CSpI. \\ª apSn NoImXncn¡pI FóXpw {i²nt¡ï asämcp ImcyamWv. Xmc\nñm¯ an\pkapÅ apSn A§s\ t\SnsbSp¡mw.

]pXnsbmcp slbÀ ssÌbnen\p

Å Xocpam\apsï¦nð hnhml¯n\v aqómgvN aps¼¦n

epw apSn sh«m³ {i²n¡Ww. t\cs¯Xsó sh«n apSnsb skänð sN¿m³ A\phZn¡Ww. Ifdn§v, sslsseän§v, kvss{Sä\n§v Fónhbpw sN¿mw. slbÀ {_jv, slbÀ {UbÀ Fónh hm§n ta¡¸v Inänð kq£n¡póXpw \ñXm

Wv. s]s«ópÅ ]mÀ«nIÄ¡v

t]mIpt¼mÄ _yq«n ]mÀednte

¡v HmSmsX kz´ambnXsó apSn Npcp«pIbpw kvs{Sbväv sN¿pIbpw sN¿mw.

ho«nencpóv X¿mdm¡mhpó Iïoj\À ]m¡v

ImðI¸v ssaemôn s]mSn

Cfw NqSv shůnð Ipg¨v Ipg¼v ]cph¯nem¡pI. cïv ap«bpsS aª¡cphpw Imð I¸v Dgpóvs]mSnbpw Hcp sNdp\m

c§bpsS \ocpw CXnte¡v

tNÀ¯v skäv sNbvXtijw Xetbm«nbnð ]pc«pI. Hcp

aWn¡qdn\v tijw hocyw

Ipdª jmw¼p D]tbmKn¨v

IgpImw. BgvNbnsemcn¡se

¦nepw Cu {Soävsaâv sN¿Ww. apSn s]m«nt¸mhpópsï¦nð Ac¡¸v I«nss¯cpw cïv Sokv]q¬ \mc§m \ocpw cïv Sokv]q¬ shÅns¨® an{inXhpw Xebnð \ómbn tX¨v ]nSn¸n¨v AcaWn¡qÀ Ignªv hocyw Ipdª jmw]q D]tbmKn¨v IgpIn¡fbpI.

icockwc£Ww Znhkhpw icockwc£

W¯n\mbn Að]kabw Isï¯m³ {i²n¡pI. CdpInb hkv{X§Ä IgnhXpw Hgnhm¡Ww. HmSvkpw ]mðs]m

Snbpw I«nbpÅ ÌmÀ¨pw Xpey

AfhnseSp¯v t]Ìv cq]¯n

em¡n icoc¯nð ]pc«n Ccp]Xv an\näpt\cw DW§m³ sh¡pI. AXn\ptijw sNdpNqSpshůnð Ipfn¡Ww.

aäp icoc`mK§sf At]

£n¨v ssI¸¯n¡v {]tXyI {i² BhiyamWv. cm{Xn InS¡m³ t\cw ssIIfnepw Imenepw GsX¦nepw tImÄUv {Iow ]pc«p

óXv NÀ½¯nsâ an\pkw hÀ²n¸n¡m³ klmbn¡pw. hnhml¯n\v ap¼v Hcp s{]m^j

Wð _yq«ojsâ klmbt¯msS am\nIyqdpw s]UnIyqdpw \nÀ_Ôambpw sNbvXncn¡Ww. A\m

hiytcmaapÅhÀ¡v Bhiya\p

kcn¨v hmIvkn\pw sN¿mw. Fñmän\pap]cn Hcp kaoIrX Ubäv Dïm¡nsbSp¡m³ {ian¡Ww.

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AtIzdnb§fpsS B`cWw Fóv

hntijn¸n¡mhpóXv hnhn[bn\w Ae¦mc aÕy§sfbmWv. Ae¦mc aÕy§Ä \mS³ (indegenous), hntZinIÄ (exotic), kap{ZPe aÕy§Ä Fón§s\ aqómbn Xcw Xncn¡mw.

\½psS ]pgIfpw tXmSpIfpw

hn. {ioIpamÀ

Pemib§fpw BWv \mS³

C\§fpsS Bh\mgn. sN¦®n

bm³ Fó ankv tIcf, sImSn¸

cð, ]cepIÄ, lnð{Su«v, Iñpcp

«n XpS§nbh \mS³ C\§Ä.

aÕytemIs¯ aebmfn¨´wsN¦®nbm³

hntZi¯v Ct¸mÄ {]nbtadn hcpó ankvtIcf AYhm sN¦

®nbmsâ hmð hnhn[ \nd§

tfmSv IqSnbhbmWv. icoc¯nð

s\SpsI \of¯nð Idp¸pw Nph

¸pw tNÀsómcp hcbmWv Chsf

tIcf¯nsâ kpµcnbm¡póXv. Itñap«n, shŸcð, ssI¸, If¸cð, hmgbv¡mhcb³ Fónhbpw Cu hn`mK¯nðs¸

Spw. ]qhmen¸cð, hneªnð, am\¯pI®n, ]ůn A´nh

Ån Fónhbpw \½psS tXmSv AgImWv.

shÅn¸cð: shfp¯ DSenð

Nph¸v, Idp¸v \nd§Ä CSIe

Àóv ImWpw. CSp¡n, hb\mSv taJeIfnse Pemib§fnð ChsbImWmw.

am\¯pI®nip²Pemib§fnepw D¸v

ckw IqSnb Pemib§fnepw am\¯pI®nbpïmhpw. Aôv skâoaoädmWv \ofw. sImXpInsâ emÀhIsf Xnópw FóXn\mð ]cnØnXn t{]an IqSnbmWnh³. \oï DSð hmen\Sps¯¯pt¼mÄ ]cón«mWv. Cu `mKw \ndkar²n

sImï\pKrloXamWv.

hntZibn\§Ä C´ybnte¡v Cd¡paXn sNbvXhbpw \½psS ImemhØ kmlNcy§Ä¡\p

AtIzdnb§fpsS B`cWwAe¦mc aÕy§Ä

gardening

Kucman

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kcn¨v {]P\\w \S¯n {]Xypð

¸mZ\¯neqsS ]pXnb Xeapd

Isf hmÀs¯Sp¡póhbpamWv. hntZibn\§Ä¡v XsóbmWv Ae¦mc aÕyhn]Wnbnð {]nb

hpw.

hntZibn\§ÄkzÀ®aÕy§Ä (Gold Fishes)

kÀÆ km[mcWsa¦nepw AtIzdnb§fpsS s\än¸«saóv hntijn¸n¡mhpó Ghcpw

{]mbt`Zsat\y CjvS

s¸Spóbn\amWv kzÀ®aÕy

§Ä (Carassius aruatus). PòtZiw ssN\. 30 skâoaoäÀ hsc hfÀ

¨sb¯pó Chbv¡v Ggv hÀ

jamWv BbpÊv. XWp¯shÅw Chbv¡v {]nbw. km[mcW kzÀ

®aÕy¯nsâ sNXp¼epIÄ kqcy{]Imi¯nð Aepan\nbw joäv t]mse Xnf§pw. AXn\mð Ch saämenIv hn`mK¯nðs¸Spw. \m{Inbkv, aäv C\§fpsS sNXp¼epIÄ kpXm

cyambncn¡pw.

henb I®pIfpÅ tKmÄUv^njv

sSekvtIm¸nbn\w BWv. Hdm³tUm, \nw^v, eb¬slÍv, F¤v, sSbnð tImaäv XpS§nb

kzÀ®aÕy§Ä AtIzdnb

§fpsS ASn¯«nse aWenð \nóv XoäsbSp¯v `£n¡pw. Fón«v aWð¸pdt¯¡v Xp¸pw.

AXn\mð CSbv¡nsS AtIzdnbw ip²oIcnt¡ïnhcpw. NndIpIÄ hmbphnð Fót]mse ]d¯nbp

Å I¯n¡fn¡emWv kzÀ®a

Õy§fpsS BIÀjWobX.

k¡À Imäv^njv]q¨sbt¸mse ]Xp§n AtIz

dnbw NpacpIfnð H«n]nSnt¨m aWð¸c¸ntem InS¡pó Ch

hnkÀPyhkvXp¡Ä Xnópó

Xn\mð CsXmcp AtIzdnbw ¢o\À IqSnbmWv.

knIvfnUvtemIsa¼mSpw hnhn[ P\pÊp

Ifnembn 900 C\§Ä hcpó IpSpw_amWv knIvfnUv. AtIzdn

b§Ä¡v »m¡v B³Uv sshän

ð AgIv hncnbn¡pó amemJa

Õyw (angle fish) Cu hn`mKamWv. Batkm¬ PòtZiw. Ubaïv cq]¯nð Cet]mse t\À¯icocw, \oï NndIpIÄ IqSmsX sNInf¡p Xmsg hmðt]mse cïp \qð cq]¯nð InS¡pw. Xnem¸nb, HmkvImÀ, X¯aÕyw, Unkv

Ikv, Nn{Xie`aÕyw Fónh

bpw knIvfnUv hn`mK¯nð s]Spóp. HmkvImÀ hfÀ¯póXv `mKyw sImïp

hcpw Fsómcp hnizmkapïv.

KucmanA\_mân IpSpw_mwKamb

Cu Gjy³hwiPÀ¡v klmbI izkt\{µnbw DÅXn\mð

HmIvknP³ Ipdª shůn

epw AXnPoh\tijnbpïv. tNm¡teäv \ndapÅ tNm¡teäv Kucman, \oe\nd¯nse »q

Kucman, tekv t]Ä Kucman, NphóXpw Idp¯Xpw I®pIfp

Å Bð_nt\m Pbâv Kucman,

Pbâv Kucman, tKmÄU³ Kucm

an, kvt\msshäv Kucmao, lWn Kucman, aq¬sseäv Kucman, Uzm

À^v Kucman, \ntbm¬ Kucm

an, InÊnwKv Kucman, tImkv]n

Kucman, XpS§nbh Kucman IpSpw_¯nse InSneòmÀ.

_mÀ_pIÄ]cð aÕy§Ä. sXt¡

Gjy³ Pemib§fpsS kw`mh\. DZym\ aÕy§sf

ódnbpw. ap«bnSpw. temwKv^n³ _mÀ_v, sNdn_mÀ_v, kvImÀeäv, tdmkv _mÀ_v, sae³_mÀ_v, »m¡v kvt]m«Sv _À_v, ]d¡pó _mÀ_v, Sn³t^mbnð _mÀ_v, ssSKÀ _mÀ_v,

B³_mÀ_pIÄ XpS§nbh Chbnðs¸Spw. kvs{S¸vkv _mÀ_pIÄ Iq«t¯msS AtIzdnb¯nð DufnbnSpóXv \b\m\µIcamb Imgv¨bmWv.

K¸nhmepIÄ hÀ®hnkvabw

XoÀ¡póp. Dcpï icocw, hmð

]cóv B«nsbmgpIpóp. Ipªp

§sf {]khn¡póp. sImXpIp

IfpsS emÀhIsf \in¸n

¡pw. sXt¡ Atacn¡ PòtZ

iw. PÀ½³ sdÍv K¸nbmWv tIcf hn]Wnbnð Gsd {]nbw. sdÍv sF K¸nbpw tIcfobÀ¡v CjvSamWv.

Atcmh\s^§vkq imkv{X{]Imcw

sFizcyw ho«nte¡v sImïp

hcpsaóv IcpXpó Atcmh\ Cuens\ HmÀ½n¸n¡pó BImcw. shfp¸v DĸsS hnhn[

\nd§fnð Dïv. ss^ädpIÄ

Ae¦mc aÕycwKs¯ hg¡mfnIÄ Fóv hnti

jn¸n¡mhpóhÀ. ASn]nSn cwK

s¯ InwKvtIm§pIÄ ChcmWv. Hät¡ Chsc ]mÀ¸n¡phm\mIq.

\oemImi¯nð A¼nfn A½m

hs\ A\pkvacn¸n¡pó kuµ

cyamWv lm^v aq¬ sSbnð ss^äÀ¡v. Npa¸n\p XsóbmWv Cu cwK¯v B[n]Xyw.

kap{ZPe aÕy§ÄIvfuWpIfmWv Chbnð

Imgv¨bv¡ Kw`oc³. ISð¸q

hpIÄ, ISðt¨\IÄ, Nn¸nIÄ

Fónh AtIzdnb§Ä¡v `wKn Iq«pw. ]t£ kap{ZPe Ae¦mc aÕy AtIzdnb§fpsS hmÀjnI kwc£Ws¨ehv IqSp

XemWv. Nn{Xie` aÕyw, ]^dpIÄ (NXpc icocapÅh) Fónhbpw tIcf¯nse kap{ZPe Ae¦mcaÕy§fmWv.

k¡À Imäv^njv K¸n Atcmh\

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1. _o^v þ Ac Intem

2. apfIps]mSn þ 2 kv]q¬

IpcpapfIp s]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

aªÄs]mSn þ Ac kv]q¬

Kcw akme þ 1 kv]q¬

aoäv akme þ 1 kv]q¬

añns]mSn þ 2 kv]q¬

3. Côn þ 2 henb IjvWw

shÅpÅn þ 1 Npf

khmf þ 1

4. th¸ne, shfns¨®, D¸v (Bhiy¯n\v)

tX§ IjvW§fm¡nbXvþ1 I¸v

hn\mKncn þ 1 kv]q¬

ISpIv þ 1 kv]q¬

_o^v He¯nbXv

X¿mdm¡pó hn[w _o^v IgpIn shÅw Ifªv

\ómbn hmÀs¯Sp¡pI. cïpw aqópw \mepw tNcphIÄ _o^n

sâ IqsS tNÀ¯v \ómbn tbm

Pn¸n¨v thhn¡m³ sh¡pI. \ómbn sh´ _o^v ASp¸nð \n

óv amän sh¡Ww.

shfns¨® NqSm¡n ISpIpw

th¸nebpan«v aq¸n¨v AXnte¡v thhn¨p sh¨ _o^pw tNÀ¯n

f¡n {_u¬ \ndamIpóXp hsc Cf¡pI.

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Nokv t_mÄkv

1. ]\oÀ þ 200 {Kmw

2. Dcpf¡ng§vþ 1 (thhn¨v DS¨Xv)

3. IpcpapfIps]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

Kcw akme þ 1 kv]q¬

tIm¬^vfhÀ þ 2 kv]q¬

4. D¸v, shfns¨® (]mI¯n\v)

F®sbmgnsI _m¡nsbñm tNcphIfpw tbmPn¸n¨v Ipgbv¡pI. Ipd¨v Ipd¨mbn FSp¯v sNdnb DcpfIÄ Dïm¡n shfns¨®bnð hdps¯Sp¡pI. tIm^vä X¿mÀ.

aebv tIm^vä

t{Khn Dïm¡m³

1. khmf þ 2

2. X¡mfn tkmkv þ 3 X¡mfnbnð \nóv X¿mdm¡nbXv

3. Côn shÅpÅn t]Ìv þ 1 kv]q¬

4. aªÄ s]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

añns]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

apfIps]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

Kcwakme þ 2 kv]q¬

5. {Iow þ 1 I¸v

cïv I¸v shůnð khmf thhn¡pI. sh´Xn\ptijw shÅw Duän¡fªv \ómbn DS¨v t]Ìv cq]¯nem¡pI. NqSm¡nb shfns¨®bnð khmf t]Ìv C«v Aôv an\nän\v

tijw Côn shÅpÅn t]Ìn«v

hoïpw hgäpI. akme s]mSnI

sfñmw tNÀ¯v F® apIfnð DuÀóv hcpóXphsc Cf¡Ww.

X¡mfn tkmkv Hgn¨v hoïpan

f¡n Ipg¼v cq]¯nemIpt¼mÄ {Iow tNÀ¯v Cf¡Ww. ASp¸

¯p\nónd¡n X¿mdm¡n sh¨ tIm^väbv¡p apIfnð Hgn¡pI.

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tNcphIÄ:

_o^v þ Ac Intem

khmf þ 1

Côn shÅpÅn t]Ìv þ Hcp kv]q¬

apfIp s]mSn þ 2 kv]q¬

añns¸mSn þ 2 kv]q¬

aªÄs]mSn þ Ac kv]q¬

IpcpapfIp s]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

Kcw akme þ 1 kv]q¬

hn\mKncn þ 2 kv]q¬

I¸ þ Ac Intem

tX§ NnchnbXv þ 1 I¸v

NphópÅn þ 6

ISpIv þ 1 kv]q¬

D¸v, shfns¨®, th¸ne (Bhiy¯n\v)

X¿mdm¡pó hn[w I¸ D¸n«v \ómbn ]pgp§n

DS¨v sh¡pI. IgpInb _o^,v khmf, Côn shÅpÅn t]Ìv, aäp akmes¸mSnIÄ, hn\mKncn, D¸v Fónh tNÀ¯v amcnt\äv

sNbvXv sh¡Ww. Að]kab

¯n\p tijw amcnt\ävsNbvX

_o^v \ñt]mse thhn¡pI. CXnte¡v t\cs¯ thhn¨v

I¸ _ncnbmWnDS¨psh¨ncpó I¸ tNÀ¯n

f¡pI.

Nnchn sh¨ tX§bnð apf

Ips]mSnbpw añns]mSnbpw tNÀ

¯v {_u¬ \ndamIpó Xphsc

hdp¡pI (2 kv]q¬ tX§ KmÀWnjv sN¿m\mbn amän sh¡Ww). Cu Iq«v \ómbn

Acs¨Sp¯v _o^vþI¸ an{inX

¯nð tbmPn¸n¨v Cf¡pI.

]m\nð F® \ómbn NqSmbXn\p tijw ISpIv s]m«n

¨v NphópÅnbn«v \mev an\näv aq¸n¨v _o^vþI¸ anIvkv tNÀ¯v Aôv an\näv Cf¡n sImSp¡pI. th¸nebpw hdp¯psh¨ tX§

bpw C«v KmÀWnjv sN¿mw.

tNcphIÄ:

1. _o^v þ Ac Intem

akmebv¡v

2. Côn þ 1 kv]q¬

shÅpÅn þ 10 Añn

IpcpapfIv þ Ac kv]q¬

apfIps]mSn þ Ac kv]q¬

añns]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

aªÄs]mSn þ Imð kv]q¬

s]cpw PocIw þ Ac kv]q¬ Ge¡ þ 2

Xt¡mew þ 1

Idph¸« þ 1

Idbm¼p þ 2

3. khmf sNdpXm¡n AcnªXv þ 2

Côn þ 1 sNdnb IjvWw

]¨apfIv þ 2

D¸v, th¸ne, shfns¨® (Bhiy¯n\v)

X¿mdm¡pó hn[w cïmas¯ tNcphIÄ

Acs¨Sp¡pI. F® NqSm¡n AXnte¡v aqómaXv ]dª

tNcphIÄ tNÀ¯v hgänsb

Sp¡Ww. khmf abam¡nIgn

ªmð AXnte¡v akme tNcp

hIÄ tNÀ¯v hdps¯Sp¡Ww. CXnð _o^pw Hcp I¸v shÅ

hpw tNÀ¯v _o^v Ipg¼v ]cph

¯nemIpó hsc thhn¡pI.

ASns]mfn "X«pIS _o^v Idn' sdUn.

_o^v Idn (X«pIS ssÌð)

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1. a«³ þ 800 {Kmw

2. khmf þ 2

3. Côn AcnªXv þ 2 kv]q¬

shÅpÅn Npf þ 12

]¨apfIv þ 4

4. X¡mfn þ 3

5. shfns¨® þ Ac I¸v

6. PocIw þ 1 kv]q¬

añns]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

Nphó apfIv þ 4

s]cpw PocIw þ Ac kv]q¬

Idph¸« þ 2

Ge¡ þ 4

Icbm¼p þ 6

Idp]«bpsS Ce þ 2 IjvWw

7. tX§ þ ap¡mð I¸v

8. IkvIkv þ 2 kv]q¬

IpcpapfIv þ 10

9. ISpIv, th¸ne, D¸v (Bhiy¯n\v)

10. aªÄs]mSn þ 1 kv]q¬

apfIps]mSn þ Ac kv]q¬

Cônbpw shÅpffnbpw ]¨apfIpw Hón¨v Acs¨Sp¡pI. shfns¨® NqSm¡n PocIw, añns]mSn, NphóapfIv, s]cpwPo

cIw, Idph¸«, Ge¡, Icbm¼p Idph¸«bpsS Ce Fónh tNÀ

¯nf¡Ww. Að]w Ignªv tX§bpw IkvIkpw IpcpapfIpw tNÀ¯v hoïpw Cf¡Ww. tX§ \ómbn {_u¬ \ndam

bmð Cu an{inXw I«nbpÅ t]

ae¼mÀ a«³ IdnÌm¡n Acs¨Sp¡Ww.

shfns¨®bnð ISpIpw th¸nebpw C«Xn\ptijw khmf C«v aq¸n¡pI. AXnte¡v Côn shÅpÅn apfIp t]Ìv tbmPn¸n¡pI. a«\pw tNÀ¯v ]¯v an\näv \ómbn Cf¡n anIvkv sN¿Ww. Ipg¼p ]cph

¯nemIpt¼mÄ X¡mfn, aªÄs¸mSn, apfIps]mSn, D¸v Fónhbn«v hoïpw hgäpI. sh´p Ignªmð \mev I¸v shÅw tNÀ¯v Xnf¸n¡Ww. a«³ sh´mð X¿mdm¡n sh¨ akme t]Ìv tNÀ¯nf¡n ]¯p an\näv AS¨v t{Khn BIpóhsc thhn¡pI.

Imcäv NnchnbXv þ 2 I¸v

Xnf¸n¨ ]mð þ cïc I¸v

]ôkmc þ Ac I¸v

Ge¡ NX¨Xv þ 2

s\¿v þ 2 kv]q¬

Iiphïn þ 50 {Kmw

]m\nð s\¿v NqSm¡n AXnð Iiphïn aq¸ns¨Sp¯v amän sh¡pI. s\¿nð Ge¡ NX¨Xv hgän Nnchn sh¨ Imcän«v Cf¡pI. X¿mdm¡n sh¨ ]mð CXnsemgn¨v ]ô

kmcbpw tNÀ¯v AS¨psh¨v thhn¡Ww. Xo Ipd¨v sh¡m³ {i²n¡Ww. ]mð apgph³ Bhn

bmbn Imcäv arZphmIpóXp hsc

thhn¡Ww. hdp¯p sh¨ncn

¡pó Iiphïn tNÀ¯v lðh hnf¼mw.

Imcäv lðh

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skIvkv: {]khtijw

amWv. tbm\nbneqsS Ip«n ]pd

t¯s¡¯póXv \nÊmcImcy

añ. arZpeamb tbm\o\mfnIÄ

henbpIbpw AhnsS apdnhpIÄ

hogpIbpw sN¿pw. apdnhpIÄ

Icnªv CXv ]qÀÆØnXnbn

emIm³ BgvNIÄ FSp¡pw.

{]kht¯msS kv{Xoicoc

¯nð amä§fpïmIpw. tlmÀ

t½mWpIfpsS hyXnbm\ kab

amWv {]khw. sshImcnI k½À

±§fpw am\knI ]ncnapdp¡fpw AtXmsSm¸w DïmIpóp. Xev^eambn `qcn`mKw kv{XoIfn

epw {]khtijw ssewKnI

Xmev¸cyw hfsc Ipdhmbncn¡pw.

{]khtijapÅ Bdpamk

¡mew skIvkv ]cn]qÀ®ambn BkzmZyIcamIWsaónñ. ]¦mfnIÄ C¡mcyw Xncn¨dn

bWw. Cu AhØ t\cnSm³

XbmdmIWw. £a A`ykn¸n

¡bpw thWw.

`qcn]£w kv{XoIÄ¡pw {]khtijapÅ GXm\pw BgvNIfnð skIvknð H«pw Xmev¸cyw DïmIWsaónñ. {]khs¯ XpSÀópïmIpó icoc£oWamWv CXn\v

ImcWw. {]khw IvtfiIcam

bncpsó¦nð hoïpw KÀ`w [cn

¡ptamsbó DXvIWvTbpw Dïm

Imw. {]khn¨v cïpamkw Ignbp

KÀ`[mcWhpw {]khhpw Z¼XnIfpsS skIvkns\

_m[n¡ptam?

Dd¸mbpw _m[nt¨¡mw. skIvknepÅ Xmev¸cyw {]khtijw DSs\ ]gbt]m

sebmIpsaóv Z¼XnIÄ {]Xo£n¡cpXv. {]tXyIn¨pw ]pcp

jòmcmWv Cu {]Xo£ IqSpX

epw h¨p]peÀ¯póXv. {]khw Ignªv tlmkv]näenð \nóv `mcy ho«nse¯pó \mÄ apXð skIvkv \S¡psaóv IcpXpó `À¯m¡òmcpïv. Fómð Cu [mcW icnbñ.

{]khw kv{Xosb kw_

Ôn¨v am\knIambpw imcocn

Iambpw IvtfiIcamb Imcy

{]khtijapÅ Bdpamk¡mew skIvkv ]cn]qÀ®ambnBkzmZyIcamIWsaónñ. ]¦mfnIÄ C¡mcyw Xncn¨dnbWw. Cu AhØ t\cnSm³ XbmdmIWw.

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{]khm\´cw BZyskIvknð GÀs¸Sm³ Ccp]¦mfnIfpw am\knIambpw imcocnIambpw XbmdmIpt¼mÄ Nne Imcy§Ä {i²nt¡ïXpïv.

t¼mÄ km[mcWKXnbnð kv{XoIÄ¡v skIvknð Xmev

¸cyw XpS§pIbmWv ]Xnhv. A§s\ kw`hn¡pónsñ¦nð tUmIvSdpsS klmbw tXSpóXv \ñXmWv.

BZy skIvkv Ft¸mÄ? {]khtijw BdmgvNsb

¦nepw Ignªnt« Z¼XnIÄ ]cn]qÀ®ambpw ssewKnI_Ô

¯nð GÀs¸Smhq. tbm\nbnepw A\p_Ô `mK§fnepapïmb hen¨nepIfpw apdnhpIfpw t`Zs¸t«msbóv {]khm\´

capÅ ]cntim[\bneqsS hyàamIpw. ssewKnI _Ô¯n

\v Ipg¸anñ FópÅ tUmIvSdn

sâ \nÀt±iw e`n¨Xn\p tijta ssewKnI _Ôw ]peÀ¯mhq.

A]ISkm[yXIÄ {]kh¯n\v tijapÅ

Zn\§fnð skIvknð GÀs¸S

cpsXóv ]dbpóXn\v At\Iw

ImcW§fpïv. {]khwaqew

tbm\nbnse t]inIfpw

DÄ`mK§fpw temeambn«p

ïmbncn¡pw; ]et¸mgpw £X

s¸«pancn¡pw. AXn\mð ssewKn

I_Ôw kv{XoIÄ¡v thZ\mP\

Iambncn¡pw. IqSmsX {]kh

t¯msS Dïmb apdnhpIfnð Xpóð CtSïnhón«psï¦nð AXv DW§m³ kabsaSp¡pw. C¡me¯v skIvknð GÀs¸

SpóXv AWp_m[bv¡v ImcW

amImw. kv{XoIfpambn Cu kml

Ncy¯nð hZ\kpcXhpw Hgnhm

¡Ww. hZ\kpcXw tbm\nbn

te¡v hmbpIS¡m\nSbm¡n

tb¡mw. CXv A]ISIcamWv.

ssewKnI_Ô¯n\v Xmev

¸cyw tXmómXncn¡pI Akm

[mcWañ. A¯cw kµÀ`§

fnð \n§tfmSpXsó k½À±w sNep¯n skIvknð GÀs¸

ScpXv. ]¦mfnItfmSpÅ IS¸mSm

Imw \n§sf CXn\v t{]cn¸n¡p

óXv. Fóncpómepw AXv \ñ

Xñ. ]pXnb kmlNcy§tfmSpw PohnX ssientbmSpw CW§m³ \n§fpsS icoc¯n\pw a\kn

\pw kaba\phZn¡Ww þ amk

§Ä FSp¯mð t]mepw.

ssewKnI_Ôw IqSmsX ]¦mfnbpambn Xo{hamb ASp¸w {]ISn¸n¡m\pÅ aäv amÀK§fpïv. t_mUn akmPv, ]¦mfntbmsSm¸w kabw sNehgn¡pI, Häbv¡v kwkmcn¡pI XpS§nbhbneqsS ]ckv]cm\pcmKw \ne\ndp¯mw.

{]khm\´capÅ skIvkn\v F´v sN¿Ww

{]khm\´cw BZyskIv

knð GÀs¸Sm³ Ccp]¦mfnIfpw am\knIambpw imcocnIambpw XbmdmIpt¼mÄ Nne Imcy§Ä {i²nt¡ïXpïv. skIvknð GÀs¸Sm³ ]änb kabw Isï

¯pI FóXv {][m\amWv. ]¦mfnIÄ Ccphcpw A[nIw £oWnXcñm¯ kabw CXn\mbn amänhbv¡pI. Ip«n Dd§pó kabamWv D¯aw. Cu kab¯mIpw kv{XoIÄ¡v IqSpXð kam[m\hpw \ni_vZ

Xbpw e`n¡póXv.

tlmÀt½m¬ hyXnbm\w, k½À±§Ä Fónh tbm\nbnð

hcï {]XoXnbpïm¡pw. {]k

htijw BZy aqóv amk§fn

emWv CX\p`hs¸SpóXv. kpKaamb ssewKnI _Ôs¯ CXv {]XnIqeambn _m[n¡pw. eq{_n¡âpIÄ D]tbmKn¨v CXIämw.

ssewKnI _Ôw kpKaam

¡m³ s]mknj\pIfpw {][m\amWv. kv{XoIÄ¡v IqSpXð kuIcy{]Zambh¡v ap³KW\ sImSp¡Ww. kv{Xo apIfnepw

]pcpj³ XmsgbpapÅ coXn, ]¦mfnIÄ apJmapJw hiwsh¨v InSópÅ coXn FónhbmWv Cu Zn\§fnð IqSpXð A\p

tbmPyw.

KÀ`[mcWkm[yX {]khm\´capÅ ssewKnI

_Ô¯neqsS KÀ`[mcWw kw`hn¡pIbnsñó sXän

²mcW ]eÀ¡papïv. CXv icnbñ. KÀ`nWnbmIm\pÅ km[yX Cu Ime¯v hfsc IqSpXemWv.

Ip«n ]ndóp Ignªmð skIvkv FóXv ]et¸mgpw kv{XoIfpsS a\knse Ahkm

\s¯ ImcyamIpw. Fómð ]p

cpjòmcpsS ØnXn AXñ. C¯cw kmlNcy§fnð ]ckv

]cw lrZbw Xpdóv kwkmcn

¡pIbpw ]¦phbv¡pIbpamWv {][m\Imcyw. ]ckv]cw a\knem¡m³ CXv klmbn¡pw.

ssewKnI _Ô¯nð GÀs¸Spó Imewhsc ]¦mfn

IÄ X½nð ASp¸w ]peÀ¯m³ aäv hgnIÄ tXtSïXv Bhiy

amWv. A§s\ k´pjvSIcamb

Zm¼Xy_Ôw hfÀ¯nsbSp¡mw.

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]mc¼cyhgnbnse hnPbcY§Ä ]mc¼cyhgnbnse hnPbcY§Ä

ctajv IpamÀ Be¸m«v

sIm¨n \Kc¯nsâ XpSn¸pIÄ

Adnªv hfÀó PzñdnbmWv t{_mUvshbnse F Kocnss] Pzñdn. Aôv XeapdIfneqsS kmcYyw ssIamdn hón«pw ]mc

¼cy¯nsâ alna ssItamiw hcmsX kq£n¡póhÀ. Hóc \qämïnsâ Ncn{XamWv kzÀ® hym]mc¯nð F Kocnss]bv¡v ]dbm\pÅXv.

Aªqdv hÀjw ap³]v tKm

hbnð \nópw hym]mc¯n\v sIm¨nbnse¯nb IpSpw_amWv ]nóoSv F Kocnss] Fó hnem

k¯nte¡v amdnbXv. t]mÀNpKo

kv A[n\nthiIme¯v ]qPm

hn{Klw am{Xw FSp¯v tKmhbn

ð \nópw ]emb\w sNbvXhÀ,

ChÀ ]nóoSv FdWmIpfw hym

]mctI{µambn XncsªSp

¡pIbmbncpóp . sIm¨n cmPmhmWv ChÀ¡v kzÀ® hym

]mc¯n\pÅ kuIcy§fpïm

¡ns¡mSp¯Xv.

""A¡me¯v sIm«mc¯nte¡v kzÀ®w F¯n¨p\ðInbncpó ANypX ss] BWv ]nXmhnsâ

t]cnð kzÀ®hym]mcØm]\w Bcw`n¡póXv. 1875 ð t{_mUv

shbnð Häapdnbnð XpS§nb Øm]\amWv Cóv F Kocnss]

Pztñgvskó henb Pzñdnbn

te¡pÅ hfÀ¨bpsS BZycq]w.

1900 ð ANypX ss]bpsS

aI³ am[h ss] hym]mcw

GsäSp¯p. cmP sIm«mc¯n

epÅhÀ¡v ]pdsa \Kc¯n

sebpw ]cnkcs¯bpw Pònamcm

bncpóp B`cW¯nsâ aäv Bhiy¡mÀ. X¼pcm«namcpambn sIm«mc¯nð \nópÅ hml\w t{_msUzbnð F¯nbmð ISbn

ð \nópw B`cWhpambn hïn

bnse¯nbmbncpóp hym]mcw

\S¯nbncpóXv.

Imew amdn. t{_mUvshbnð hym]mc¯n\mbn hóhcpw kao] Pnñ¡mcpw Kncnss]bnse kzÀ®¯nð BIrjvScmbn. hůnepw Imfhïnbnepambn \Kc¯nte¡v ImÀjnI hnfIÄ hnð¡m\mbn hóncpóhÀ Kncnss]bnse¯n kzÀ®\mWb§Ä hm§n. C¡me¯v am[hss] aI³ kZm

\µss]bnte¡v hym]mcw ssI

amdnbncpóp.

1970 IfnemWv kÀ®w Hcp lcambn amdpósXóv kZm\

Fkv hntizizc ss]

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]mc¼cyhgnbnse hnPbcY§Ä ]mc¼cyhgnbnse hnPbcY§Ä KpW ta³abnð ]mc¼cy¯ns\m¸hpw ssienbnð Xeapdbvs¡m¸hpsaóXmWv Kncnss]bpsS {]tXyIX.µss]bpsS aI\pw F. Kocn

ss] Pztñgvknsâ sNbÀ

am\pamb k\mX\ ss] ]dbp

óp. KpWtaòbnð ]mc¼cy

¯ns\m¸hpw ssienbnð Xeap

dbvs¡m¸hpsaóXmWv F. Kocn

ss]bpsS {]tXyIX. Cu Xncn

¨dnhnemWv F. Kocnss] Pztñ

gvkv shÅn¡pw ap¯pIÄ¡pam

bn {]tXyI Pzñdn Bcw`n¨Xv. F. Kocnss] Pztñgvknð hnZymÀ

°nIfmbncns¡¯só IpSpw_

¯nsâ Øm]\w Fó \nebnð _nkn\Ênð klmbn¡m³ ASp¯ Xeapd¡mcmb R§fpw

Dïmbncpóp. AXmWv Gähpw

henb ]T\w. X§fpsS cà

¯nðt]mepw B`cWhym]mc

¯nsâ ]cnNbw AS§nbn«p

sïóv Cu IpSpw_w hnizkn¡p

óp. kXykÔamb hym]mccoXn

]n³ XpScpópshóXmWv F Kocn ss]bpsS Gähpw henb {]tXyIXsbóv kmcYnIÄ ]dbp

óp.

kzÀ®¯n\pÅ AtX {]m[m

\yw shÅn¡pw hópXpS§nsb

óv PzñdnbpsS kmcYnIfnð Hcmfmb hntizizc ss] ]dbp

óp. kzÀ®m`cW¯nð henb amäamWv hóXv. ]gbIme¯v apñsam«v, Iminame, XpS§nb hfscIpd¨v ]c¼cmKX tamU

epIÄ am{XamWv e`yambncpó

Xv. Fómð Imew amdnbtXmsS hyXykvXamb \nch[n tamUep

IÄ, BIÀjIamb coXnbnð Bhiy¡mÀ¡v F¯n¡m³ PzñdnIÄ aðkcn¡pIbmWv.

CtXt]msebmWv shÅn B`cW§fnepapïmb amäw. shÅn ]m{X§fpw, ]mZkzcw, AcªmWw, anôn XpS§nb B`cW§fmWv ]gbIme¯v

{]Nmc¯nepïmbncpóXv. Ime

¯nsâ Ips¯mgp¡nð shÅn

bm`cW§fpsS {]kàn \tó

Ipdªp. am{Xañ {]Nmc¯nep

ïmbncpó shÅnbm`cW§Ä

¡v Idp¸v _m[n¡pópshóXpw henb {]iv\ambncpóp. kzÀ®

t¯mSpÅ aebmfnIfpsS B`nap

Jyw hÀ²n¨Xpw shÅntbmSpÅ

Xmð¸cyw IpdbpóXn\v ImcW

ambn. Fómð Imew amdn. Ct¸m

Ä Fñm¯cw shÅn B`cW§

tfmSpw aebmfnIÄ B`napJyw ImWn¡pópshóXmWv shÅn

¡pam{Xambn {]tXyIw tjmdqw

Fó Bib¯nte¡v Kocnss]

bpsS kmcYnIsf sImïpsNsó

¯n¨Xv. t\cs¯ Kncnss] Pzñ

dnbnð Hcp {]tXyI hn`mKambn {]hÀ¯n¨ncpó shÅnbm`cW hn`mKw Cµnc Pzhðkv Fó t]cnð ]pXnb Øm]\ambn SnUn tdmUnð {]hÀ¯\w XpS§pIbmbncpóp. Pzñdn¡v Hcp t]cv am{Xambncpóp R§

Ä¡v AXphsc. asämcp B`cW

ime XpS§pt¼mgpw t]cnð

]mc¼cyw Im¯pkq£n¡W

saóv \nÀ_Ôapïmbncpóp. 81 ð temIt¯mSv hnS]dª R§fpsS ap¯ÈnbpsS t]cmWv Cµncsbóv.

Fkv hntizizc ss]bpw ktlmZc§fmb at¦jv ss], AJntejv ss] FónhcpamWv Cµncm Pphðknsâ NpaXe

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sshhn²yamÀó shÅnbm`cW§fmð k¼óamWv Cµncm Pphðkv

hln¡póXv. shÅnbm`cW

§fnepïmhpó ^mj\pIÄ At¸mÄXsó FdWmIpf¯v F¯n¡póXnemWv Cµncm Pphðknsâ hnPbw.

sshhn²yamÀó shÅnbm

`cW§fmð k¼óamWv Cµncm Pphðkv. kzÀ®¯nð Fs´ñmw Xc¯nepÅ B`c

W§Ä e`yamtWm A{Xbpw

C\w shÅnbnepw e`yamsW

óXmWv Cµncm Pphðkns\ hyXykvXam¡póXv.

t\cs¯ D]t`màm¡Ä t\cn«ncpó Gähpw henb {]iv\w shÅn B`cW§Ä¡v Idp¸v

\ndw _m[n¡póXmbncpóp.Imew amdnbtXmsS C¯cw {]iv\§fnð \nópw shÅnbm

`cW§Ä apànt\Sn. ip²amb shÅn¡v Idp¸v _m[n¡póXv kzm`mhnIamWv. CXv XSbm\mbn tdmUnbw t]mfnjv tIm«n§mbn sImSp¯ncn¡póXn\mð shÅn B`cW§fpsS Xnf¡hpw \jvSs¸SpónsñóXmWv D]t`màm¡sf BIÀjn¡pó LSIw.

kzÀ®¯nsâ AtX ^n\njn

§mWv shÅn B`cW§fp

sSbpw sslteäv. shÅnbm`cW

§fnð ]gbIme¯nñm¯ asäm

cp {]tXyIX IzmfnänbmWv. 92.5

iXam\w ]cnip²amb shÅnbm

`cW§fmWv Ct¸mÄ e`n¡p

óXv. Fñm shÅnbm`cW§

Ä¡pw CtX ]cnip²nbpsïóv ChÀ ]dbpóp. shÅnbn

ð \n§Ä GXv B`cW§Ä B{Kln¡pópthm AXv \n§Ä

¡v kz´am¡n Xcm³ Cµncm Pphðkn\v Ignbpw.

ap¯pIfmWv Cµncm Pphð

knsâ asämcp sslteäv. Fñm

¯c¯nepÅ t]Ä B`cW§

fpw ChnsS e`n¡pw. \m¨pdð, IÄt¨Uv Fóo cïv Xcw ap¯p

IfmWv hn]WnbnepÅXv. Cu

cïv C\§fnepw ip²Pe¯n

epïmhpóXpw ISðshůn

epïmhpóXpamb shtÆsdbn\hpw Dïv. \mNzdð t]fn\v \ñ UnamâmWv.

FdWmIpf¯pw t]fnsâ

B`cW§Ä¡v Gsd D]

t`màm¡ÅpÅ \KcamWv. Cu Xncn¨dnhmWv Cµncm Pphðkv t]fn\pw {]m[m\yw \ðIpóXv. shÅnbm`cW§sf IqSmsX Unhn\nän¡mbn {]tXyI hn`mKhpw ChnsSbpïv. 24 Iymcäv tKmÄUv t¹äUv BWnXv. kznkv sSIvt\mfPnbnð \nÀ½n

¡pó Unhn\nänbpsS tIcf¯nse GI hnXc

W¡mcmWv Cµncm Pphðkv. Fñm aXhn`mK¯nðs¸« ssZh

§fpsSbpw t^mt«mIÄ Unhn

\nänbnð e`yamWv. taibnð sh¡mhpóXpw Nphcnð Xq¡n sh¡mhpóXpamb Unhn\nänI

fpw e`yamWv.

B`cWtemI¯v Fs´ñmw tamUepIfptïm, C´ybnð Fs´ñmw e`yamtWm AsX

ñmw F. Kocnss]bnepw Cµncm Pphðknepw e`yamsWóv Npcp¡w. tI{µ kÀ¡mÀ Øm]

\amb Fw Fw Sn kn enanäUn

sâ {^mssôknbpw Cu Øm]

\¯n\pïv. {Sn¸nÄ \b³ ]cnip

²nbpÅ kzÀ®\mWb§Ä Ac

{Kmaw apXð Hcp Intem hsc

kzÀ®w ChnsS \nópw BIÀj

Iamb hnebnð e`n¡pw.

]mc¼cy¯nð F Kocnss] Pztñgvkns\ kÀ¡mÀ AwKoI

cn¨n«pïv. kÀ¡mÀ AwKoIrX hmepthgvkv IqSnbmWv F. Kocn

ss] Pztñgvkv.

]mc¼cy¯nð F Kocnss] Pztñgvkns\ kÀ¡mÀ AwKoIcn¨n«pïv. kÀ¡mÀ AwKoIrX hmepthgvkv IqSnbmWv F. Kocnss] Pztñgvkv.

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smart drive

TOYOTA

\mepN{I hml\§fpsS Iq«¯nte¡v ]pXn

sbmcp AXnYn IqSn ISóp hcnIbmWv. Ignª amkw hn]Wnbnse¯nb sSmsbm« F¯ntbmkv Fó Cu h¼\v h³ hcthð¸mWv \½psS \m«nð e`n¨Xv. C´ybnepw P¸m\nepamWnt¸mÄ C¯ntbmkv bm{X Bcw`n¨ncn

¡póXv.

\½psS \m«nse tdmUpIsf ap³Iq«nIïpsImïmWv sSm

tbm«bpsS Cu ]pXnb Imð

sh¸v. tdmUnð \nóv 20 mm Dbc¯nepÅ

t_mUnbpw t¹ävt^mansâ kpc£¡mbn hïn¡Snbnð {]tXyI AïÀt_mUn t¹äpw F¯ntbmknsâ {]tXyI

XbmWv. Iñnð \nópw a®nð

\nópapÅ kpc£ Dd¸p hcp¯p

óXn\p thïnbmWv Cu AïÀ

t_mUn t¹äv. CÔ\£aXbv¡v anI¨ aqeyhpw F¯ntbmkv \ð

Ipópïv.

keq¬ (hïnbv¡p ]pdIn

epÅ _q«v kvt]bvkv) lm¨v_m¡v (kvt]bvkv Cñm

¯Xv) Fón§s\ cïv thÀj

\pIfnemWv F¯ntbmkv \nÀ½n

¨ncn¡póXv. am{Xañ Ch cïpw hfsc I\w IpdªXpw D]tbm

Kn¡m³ kpJapÅXpamWv. Ct¸mÄ \nehnepÅ ssebväv

thäv hml\amb ssa{Itb¡mÄ ap¸Xp Intem `mcamWv (890 Intem) sSmtbm« F¯ntbmkv lm¨v_m¡n\pÅXv. AXpsImïv Xsó CÔ\£aX hÀ²n¸n¡m

\pw hml\¯nsâ hne Ipdbv

¡m\pw CXn\v Ignbpóp. keq

Wn\v 1.5 enäÀ Fôn³ ]hdpw 95 bhp(t{_¡v tlmgvkv ]hÀ),

lm¨v_m¡n\v 1.2 enädpw 68 bhpbpamWv. lm¨v_m¡n\v 2460 mm dpw keqWn\v 2550 mm hoðt_kpamWv.

s]t{Smfn\v ]pdta Uoken

epw sSmtbm« F¯ntbmkv \nc

¯nend§nbn«pïv. sImtdmf HmÄ«nknsâ AtX Fôn\mWn

Xn\v. 1.4 enäÀ ]hdpw 87 bhp

bpw. Fómð atäXv hml\

¯nt\¡mfpw I\w Ipdhpw IqSpXð s]Àt^ma³kpw F¯ntbmknsâ am{Xw {]tXy

IXbmWv. ¢mkv ImÀ Fó

Bibs¯bmWv sSmtbm« F¯ntbmkv Xr]vXns¸Sp¯p

óXv.

]pXpXmbn Hcp t^mÀ {Snw sehð F¯ntbmkmWv C\n sSmtbm«bpsS ASp¯ e£yw. ap³]v ]dª aqóv thÀj\nepw

tk^vän¡mbn F._n.Fkpw Fb

À_mKpw F¯ntbmkn\pïv. F¯ntbmkv keq¬ Ignª amkw hn]Wnbnse¯nsb¦nepw lm¨v_m¡v thÀj³ 2011 amÀ

t¨msS C´y³ \nc¯pIfnð HmSn¯p§pw.

keqWn\v 1.5 enäÀ Fôn³ ]hdpw 95 bhp(t{_¡v tlmgvkv ]hÀ), lm¨v_m¡n\v 1.2 enädpw 68 bhpbpamWv. lm¨v_m¡n\v 2460 mm dpw keqWn\v 2550 mm hoðt_kpamWv.

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aªnð hncnª kwKoXwþ 9 {]ikvX kwKoX kwhn[mbI³ sPdn AaðtZhv kwKoX¯nsebpw PohnX¯nsebpw HmÀ½IfneqsS \S¯pó bm{X

memories

\ujmZnsâ kwKoXhgnIÄ

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AXpt]mse AaoÀJm³ ]m

Sn XIÀ¯n«pÅ ZÀ_mdo Im\UmcmKw Bkv]Zam¡n ]e]m

«pIfpw \ujmZv sNbvXn«pïv. DZmlcW¯n\v "ZÀZn'se "_o

t¨ `hÀta...', "apKÄ G Bk'

¯nse "]ymÀ Inbm tXm UÀ\m Iym....', "tatc sal_q_nse' "bmZv ta tXco PmKv PmKv tI lw' Fóo DZmlcW§Ä Xsó [mcmfw.

aZy]n¨v ]mSpó ]m«nsâ kµÀ`amsW¦nepw, AXn\v AI¼Sn tkhn¡pó kwKoX

D]IcW§Ä ]mÝmXyamsW¦n

epw, ]mSpóssien Rock n roll BsW¦nepw, saeUn X\n

`mcXobambncn¡Wsaóv At±lw \njv¡Àjn¨ncpóp. "eoUdn'se "aptQ Zp\nbm hmtem' Fó ]m«v CXn\v DZmlcWamWv.

\ujmZv km_nsâ Fñm KuchamÀó ]m«pIfnepwX_e Hcp {][m\ LSIambncpóp. X_e hmbn¨ncpóXv Kpemwap

l½Znsâ A\pP\mb A_vZpÄ

Icow Bbncpóp. "\½psS C³U

kv{SnbpsS X_em N{IhÀ¯n'

Fóv cmPvI]qÀ hntijn¸n¨bm

fmbncpóp A_vZpÄ Icow. Hä

t\m«¯nð Hcp aµ_p²nsbt¸m

se Bbncpsó¦nepw X_ehmZ\¯nð At±ls¯

`mcXob kwKoXhpw

]mÝmXykwKoXhpw AÀ°h¯mbn Iq«nbnW¡p

óXv F§s\sbó Fsâ tNmZy¯n\v adp]Snbmbn Ipd¨v Imcy§Ä \ujmZv km_v F\n¡v ]dªpXóp.

`mcXob kwKoXt¯mSv _lp

am\w, saeUn F¡me¯pw `mcXobambncn¡Wsaó \nÀ_Ôw, `mcXob XmfhmZy§fpsS

AI¼Sn, ]mÝmXyXmfhmZy§

tfmsSm¸w `mcXob XmfhmZy§

Ä¡v ap³Xq¡w, ]mÝmXy kwKo

X¯nð \nóv Bib§Ä DÄ

s¡mÅpI, Ahsb `mcXoIcn¨v D]tbmKn¡pI CsXms¡ At±

lw ]men¨pt]móp.

kwkv¡mck¼óamb eJv\ho XdhmSn¯¯nð hfÀó At±lw almòmcmb D¯c`mcXob kwKoXÚcpsS

hmbv¸m«pambn ]cnNnX\mbncp

óp. DZmlcW¯n\v Kkðdm

Wnbmbncpó t_Kw AJvXÀ, ^¿mkvJm³, {[p]Zv [amÀ, kwKoX¯nse hn{ipXcmb kemaXv Aen, \kmIXv Aen, Incm\m Lcm\mbnse hnjvWp ZnKw_À ]epkvIÀ, A_vZpÄ Icow Jm³, Znño Lcm\m¡mc\m

b AaoÀJm³ XpS§nbhcpsS ]m«pIÄ At±lw lrZb¯nð kq£n¨ncpóp. CXnsâ ^eambn At±l¯nsâ kn\nam]m«pIfn

ð]eXpw tOm«m Jymenð s_bvkv sNbvXhbmbncpóp. DZmlcW¯n\v "DU³ Jt«mem'

bnse "tamtc k¿mPo... ' Fó ]m«v ]neq cmK¯nepÅXmWv. CtX cmK¯nð AtX hm¡pIÄ Xsó D]tbmKn¨v ^bkv Jmsâ

AXn{]ikvXamb Hcp tOm«m

Jymð Dïv.

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shñm³ t_mws_bnse kn\na

¡mcnð Bcpanñmbncpóp. At±l¯nsâ ssI Xmsg¸dbpó ]m«pIfnð \nóv hyàambn Xncn¨dnbmw.

"apKÄ G Bk'¯nse "Hm tamtc ]\v J«v t] \µvemð', "eoUdn'se "Znð tXmUvt\ hmte ', "kmkv HuÀ Bhmkn 'se "GIv sjl³jmlvt\ _\p

hmtIlko XmPvsalð...' Fónh DZmlcW§Ä.

Ct±l¯nsâ tN«\mbncpó Kpemw apl½Zv tVme¡nsâ DkvXmZmbncpóp. t\mÀ¯n´y³

\mS³]m«pIsf B[mcam¡nbp

Å \ujmZnsâ Fñm ]m«pIfn

epw Kpemw apl½ZmWv hmbn¨n

«pÅXv. At±l¯nsâ Imeti

jw a¡fpw CXv XpSÀóp.

DZmlcW¯n\v "ss_Pp _mhvc' bnse "ZqÀ tImbo Kmtb...', "c¯\n' se "AJnbm anemt¡...', "ZnñKn'bnse "Xqtacm Nmµv ta tXco Nmµv

\o.. ',"kwLÀjn' se "tatc ss]tcmw taw LpwLcq _\v[mtZ tXm...', "cmw HuÀ iyman' se "ta lq km¡o...'Fóo ]m«pIÄ.

]JmhPv arZwK¯nsâ t\mÀ

¯n´y³ tN«\mWv. Cu D]IcWs¯ [mcmfw ]m«pIfnð At±lw D]tbmKn¨n«pïv. DZmlcW¯n\v "ss_Pp _mhvc'

bnse "a\v XUv]Xv...', "eoUdn' se "C³km^v Im aµnÀ tl', "Zpemcn' bnse ^bÀ Bâv Um

KÀ kzoI³knse {]kà`m

K§Ä, "ZmkvXm\n' sebpw "PmZq'hnsebpw {Uow kzoI³kv Fónh Nqïn¡m«mw.

\ujmZvkm_v ]mÝmXy kwKo

X¯nð \nóv hnb\okv hmÄkv Fó Um³kv ayqkn¡nsâ hr

¯w FSp¯n«v Hcp kn\nam]m

«pïm¡n. kv{Xobpw ]pcpj\pw

CcpssIIÄtImÀ¯pw adpssIIÄsImïv

]mÀiz¯nepw Npän¸n

Sn¨v hr¯mIrXnbnð sN¿pó

Um³kmWnXv. "tkmln\o aln

hmð' Fó Nn{X¯nð "CuZvIm

Zn³ tXtc_n³...' Fó ]m«mWv C{]Imcw Dïm¡nbXv.

apl½Zv c^o ]mSnb Cu ]m«p

tI«mð Um³knsâ Hcp `mhhpw tXmópIbnñ. FtómSt±lw C¡mcy¯nð {]tXyIw ]dª B]vXhmIyw Rm\nópw \n[n t]mse kq£n¡póp. "]mÝmXy kwKoX¯nð \nóv \mw F´v ISw sImïmepw AXv \½psS ssienbnð hmÀs¯Sp¯nt« {]tbmKn¡mhq.' CXv DÄs¡mïm

Wv "aªnð hncnª ]q¡fnð'

Pmkv{Uwkv D]tbmKn¡pópsï

¦nepw AhnsSbpanhnsSbpw sNïbpsS iIe§Ä D]tbmKn

¨ncn¡póXv. AXpt]mse "hmNm

ew...' Fó ]m«nsâ C³{SUIvSdn ayqkn¡nð inhaWnbmWv {Uwkv hmbn¨ncn¡pósX¦nepw GXm\pw _mÀ Ignªmð e£vaW³ hmbn¨ Hcp X_e tkmtfm Rm³ \ðInbn«pïv.

hfsc Nn«bpw AS¡hpapÅ hyànXzambncpóp \ujmZv

km_ntâXv. \nbXamb Hcp Zn\Ncy At±l¯n\pïmbncpóp.

]peÀs¨ AôpaWn¡v Fgptó

ð¡pw. {]`mXIÀ½§Ä¡v

tijw lawn sSóokv Ifn¡m³

ImtdmSn¨v PnwJm\mbnte¡v t]m

Ipw. aS§nhótijw Ipfn¡pw. cïp IjWw sdm«nbpw Hcp B¸nfpw Hcp I¸v ]mepw {]mX

embn Ign¡pw. ]nsó Xmsg

ayqknIv dqanse¯n tPmen XpS§pw. D¨`£Ww Hócbv

¡pw cïn\panSbnð IpSpw_ktaXamIpw. Fsóbpw AXnð

DÄs¸Sp¯pambncpóp. XpSÀóv

sNdnsbmcp Dd¡w. \mepaWn

tbmsS NmbIpSn¡m³ Xmtgs¡

¯pw. hoïpw tPmenbnð

GÀs¸Spw. ]hvhmbn XSmI¯nð t]mbn NqïbnSð ]Xnhmbncpóp. Hópcïp h«w Fsóbpw IqsS¡q«nbncpóp. im´Kw`ochpw {]IrXncaWobhpamb HcnSambncpóp AóXv. Cóhn

sSms¡ _lp\ne s¡«nS§Ä DbÀópIgnªp.

\ujmZvkm_nsâ kwKoX

¯nð ]e {]tXyIXIÄ Dsï¦nepw Ahbnð Fsó s]s«óv kzm[o\n¨Xv ]m«pIfpsS hcnIÄ¡nSbnð At±lw DÄs¸Sp¯nbncpó C³kv{Sp

saâð en¦vkv Bbncpóp. CXn\v Gähpw anI¨ DZmlcW

amWv "]mðIo' bnse "Iðcm¯v knµKotk apem¡m¯v tlm

Kbo...' Fó ]m«v. Cu ]m«nse Hmtcm hcn¡v tijhpw {Kq¸v hbentâXmb I®nIÄ At\Iapïv. Cu ]m«n\v ]ñhn (apJvUm) IqSmsX \mev

NcW§Ä( A´vcm) BWv DÅXv. Hmtcm NcW¯nepw F«v hcnIÄ DïmIpw. A§s\

t\m¡pt¼mÄ 32tesd C³kv{Sp

saâð en¦vkv Cu ]m«nepïv.

C¯cw H«t\Iw {]tXyIX

IÄ sImïv At±l¯nsâ ]m«v

tI«mð "\ujmZvS¨v' a\knem

¡m\mIpw. CsXmcp apJap{Zbm

bn Rm³ IcpXpóp. CXnsâ Hcwiw Fsâ kn\namkwKoX

¯nepw ISópIqSnbn«pïv.

\ujmZvkm_nsâ kwKoX¯nð ]e {]tXyIXIÄ Dsï¦nepw Ahbnð Fsó s]s«óv kzm[o\n¨Xv ]m«pIfpsS hcnIÄ¡nSbnð At±lw Iïp]nSn¨ncpó C³kv{Spsaâð en¦vkv Bbncpóp. CXn\v Gähpw anI¨ DZmlcWamWv "]mðIo' bnse "Iðcm¯v knµKotk apem¡m¯v tlmKbo...' Fó ]m«v.

\km¡¯v Aen, kema¯v Aen cmPvI]qÀ t_Kw AJvXÀ

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t^mÀ {^ïvkn\p tijw kPn kptc{µ³ kwhn[m\w sN¿pó

Nn{XamWv "XmactÈcn Sp Xmbvemâv.' ^mknensâ aI\mb ^lZv

^mknð \mbI\mIpó Nn{X¯nð B³ AKÌn\mWv \mbnI.

"ssIsb¯pw Zqc¯v' Fó Nn{X¯n\v tijw ^lZnsâ Xncn¨phc

hmWv Cu Nn{X¯neqsS. IrjvW ]qP¸pcbmWv XmactÈcn Sp Xmbv

emânsâ Xnc¡Y FgpXnbncn¡póXv.

aWnb³]nÅ cmPp s{]mU£³knsâ _m\dnð \nÀ½n¡pó

Cu Nn{Xw Hcp apgp\of tImaUn Nn{Xw IqSnbmWv. IpSpw_ktaXw

Xmakn¡pó aqóv t]cpsS PohnX¯nte¡v Hcp bphmhpw s]¬Ip

«nbpw Hfnt¨mSnsb¯póXpw XpSÀópïmIpó kw`h§fpamWv Nn{X¯nsâ {]tabw. emep AeIvkv, Cóskâv, kn±nJv Fónhcpw

aäp {][m\ tdmfpIÄ ssIImcyw sN¿póp. kpcmPv shªmd³

aqSnsâ tImaUn cwK§Ä XmactÈcn Sp Xmbvemâns\ t{]£IÀ¡p apónð s]m«n¨ncnbpsS Xncnbv¡v \mfw sImfp¯póp.

Fw. Pn. {ioIpamdmWv XmactÈcn Sp Xmbvemân\v kwKoXw \ðIpóXv. kn\nabpsS Nn{XoIcWw 2011 amÀ¨nð _mwt¦m¡nð Bcw`n¡pw. CXn\p tijw a½q«nsb \mbI\m¡n "]pfph³ a¯mbn' Fó Nn{Xw kwhn[m\w sN¿m\pÅ \o¡¯nemWv.

XmactÈcn Sp Xmbvemâ v

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DeI\mbI³ Iað lmk³ C´y³ kn\nabnð hoïpw Ncn{Xw krjvSn¡póp. Assh j¬apJn, C´y³, ZimhXmcw XpS§nb Nn{X§fpsS ]«nIbnte¡v a³aY³ A¼v Fó Nn{Xhpw F¯póp. sXón´y³ kn\nabnð Po\bkv Fóp hntijn¸n¡mhpó A`n\b{]Xn`bmWv Iaðlmk³. GXv thjhpw X\n¡v A\mbmkambn ssIImcyw sN¿m\mhpsaóv Hcn¡ð IqSn sXfnbn¨ncn¡bmWv Xsâ a³aY³ A¼v Fó Nn{X¯neqsS. sI Fkv chnIpamÀ kwhn[m\w sNbvX Cu Nn{X¯nð taPÀ BÀ aómÀ Fó ap³ IamtâmbpsS thjamWv Iaðlmk\v. Hcp kn\n

abpw asämcp Nn{X¯nsâbpw XpSÀ¨bsñóv {]Jym]n¡pIIqSnbmWv Iaelmk³ Cu Nn{X¯neqsS sNbvXncn¡póXv. aebmf kn\nabn

eqsS \mbIØm\s¯¯nb Iaelmk³ Xangnð Ht«sd kq¸À lnäv Nn{X§fpsS `mKambn. sI Fkv chnIpamdnsâ IqsS Aômas¯ Nn{XamWv "a³aY³ A¼v'. BZy´w ckIcamb

Iað amPnIv hoïpw

cinemaaplqÀ¯§Ä k½m\n¡pó Nn{X¯nsâ Gähpw henb sslteäv IY \S¡póXv Hcp jn¸n\p

ÅnemWv, C´ybnepw bqtdm¸nepambncpóp Nn{XoIcWw. saUnätdnb³ XpdpapJ \Kc§fmb _mgvk

temW, P\oh, sh\okv, tdmw XpS§nb KKc§fnepw tamssZ ae \ncIÄ, sNssó \Kcw FónhnS§nepambmWv a³aY³ A¼nsâ Nn{XoIcWw. {]Wbhpw lmkyhpw IeÀ¯nbpÅ Iaðlmksâ IYm]m{Xw taPÀ BÀ aómÀ XnI¨pw BIÀjIamWv.

Cu Nn{X¯nð Xnc¡Y kw`mjWw H¸w Km\cN\bpw aqóv Km\§fpsS Bem]\hpw Iaðlmk\mWv \nÀÆln

¨ncn¡póXv. \S³ , Xnc¡Ym

Ir¯v, kwhn[mbI³, \nÀ½m

Xmhv Fóo \neIfnð tim`n

¡pó Iaðlmk³ Km\cN\bpw Bem]\hpw \nÀÆln¡pó Nn{Xsaó \nebnepw a³aY³ A¼v BIÀjIamWv.

Nn{X¯nð am[h\pw Hcp {][m\ thj¯nse¯pópïv. XrjbmWv \mbnI. kwKoXbpw Cu Nn{X¯nð F¯pópïv.

aebmfn Xmc§fmb Ipô³,

DÀÆin, aôp ]nÅ Fónhcpw Cu Nn{X¯nð {]apJ thj§

fnð F¯póp. DZb \n[n Ìmen\mWv Nn{Xw \nÀ½n

¨ncn¡póXv. tIcf¯nð {io tKmIpew aqhokmWv hnXcWw.

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tIcf¯nsâ Zriyam[ya Ncn{X¯nemZyambn hnZym`ymk hmÀ¯IfpsS Hcp kw£n]vX _pÅ

än³ AarX Sn. hn. AhXcn¸n¡póp. Fñm Znhk

hpw cmhnse Ggn\v kwt{]jWw sN¿pó Cu

Ac aWn¡qÀ hmÀ¯m ]cn]mSn \½psS kwØm

\s¯ hnhn[ hnZym`ymk taJeIfnse A\pZn\

hmÀ¯IfpsS A\mhcWamWv. hnhn[ kÀÆI

emimeIfntebpw Ahbpambn _Ôs¸«p InS

¡pó tImtfPpIfnsebpw {][m\s¸« hmÀ¯

Ifpw hntij§fpw ]¦v sh¡pó Cu ]cn]mSn

hgn \nehnepÅ ]pXnb tImgvkpIÄ, ]pXpXmbn

Bcw`n¡pó ]mTy]²XnIÄ, Hmtcm tImgvkpIfn

te¡papÅ {]thi\ kw_Ôamb Imcy§Ä, ^okv \nc¡pIfpw ]co£m Xn¿Xnbpw kab hnhchpw, ]co£m Xn¿XnIfnð hcpó amä§Ä, ^e {]Jym]\w, {]thi\¸co£IfpsS Xn¿Xn

IÄ, sXmgne[njvTnX tImgvkpIfpsS hniZmwi

§Ä, koäpIfpsS F®hpw AhbpsS hnXcW {Iahpw, kne_Ênð hcpó amä§Ä, kvIqfpI

fpw tImtfPpIfpw Xpd¡póXpw AS¡póXpamb Xn¿XnIÄ, A{]Xo£ hnZym`ymk Ah[nIÄ

XpS§nb {][m\s¸« hnhc§Ä hnZymÀ°nI

Ä¡pw A[ym]IÀ¡pw Adnbm³ CXneqsS AhkapïmIpóp.

s]mXptaJeIfnepÅ sXmgnehkc§Ä kw_Ôn¨ ]n Fkv kn hnÚm]\§Ä, ]n

Fkv kn ]co£m Xn¿XnIÄ, ]co£ amän h¡ð, ]n Fkv kn ]co£IfpsS ^e {]Jym

]\w Fónhbpw hnZym`ymk hmÀ¯Ifn

epïmIpw. \½psS s]mXp hnZym`ymks¯

¸änbpÅ ka{Kamb Adnhn\pw AhtemI\¯n

\pw s]mXpP\¯n\v Ahkcw \ðIpó Cu hmÀ¯m ]cn]mSn Kh¬saânsâ hnZym`ymk \b

hpw AXv hnZymÀ°nIfnepfhm¡pó \bhpw {]XnIcWhpw {]tbmP\hpw a\Ênem¡phm³ klmbIcamWv. AarX hnizhnZym]oT¯nsâ IognepÅ hnZym`ymk Øm]\§fpsS {]hÀ¯\§Ä¡pw hmÀ¯IÄ¡pw Cu ]cn]mSn {]tXyI {]m[m\yw \ðIpw. IrXyXbmÀóXpw B[nImcnIhpw kXykÔhpw {]tbmP\{]Zhpamb hmÀ¯IÄ hgn hnZymÀ°nIfpsSbpw A[ym]IcptSbpw c£mIÀ¯m¡fpsSbpw hnZym`ymkm[njvTnX hnhcmt\zjW§sfbpw XÕw_Ôamb Bhiy§tfbpw Xr]vXns¸Sp

¯phm³ AarXm Sn. hnbpsS hnZym`ymk hmÀ¯IÄ¡v Ignbpóp.

hnZym`ymk hmÀ¯IÄ¡v am{Xambn Hcp _pÅän³

ssa{Xn hnjzðknsâ _m\dnð Inc¬ kwhn[m\w sN¿pó Nn{XamWv IpSpw_{io {Smhðkv. lm¸n lkv_âvkn\p tijw Pbdmapw `mh\bpw hoïpsamón¡pó Nn{Xw IqSnbmWv IpSpw_{io {Smhðkv.

Nn¯nc]pcw hntñPv Fó sIm¨p {Kma¯nð \S¡pó kw`h§fmWv IpSp_{io {Smhðkv Fó kn\na. bmsXmcp B[p\nI kÖoIcW§fpw Cñm¯ Cu {Kma¯nse \njvIf¦cmb BfpI

fpsS PohnXamWv Nn{X¯nsâ {]tabw. NmIymÀ

Iq¯hXcn¸n¡pó Achnµsâ hnhml¯nð ]s¦Sp¡m³ {KmahmknIsfñmhcpw ]«W¯nte¡v ]pds¸Spóp. Nn¯nc]pcs¯ Htcsbmcp _kv kÀhokv Bb IpSp_{io {Smhðkv Fóv t]cpÅ

_ÊnemWv AhcpsS bm{X. Fómð Achnµsâ A½mh³ ]m¨phpw kplr¯v \nämdpw Cu hnhm

lw XSbm³ ]e {ia§fpw \S¯póp. ]«W¯n

se [\nI bphXnbmb AizXnbpambpÅ Achn

µsâ hnhmlw apS¡n Xsâ aIfpambpÅ hnhmlw \S¯póXn\pthïnbmWv ]m¨phnsâ NphSpIÄ.

Hcp]mSv clky§fpÅ {iotZhn Fó bphXn

sb hgnbnð sh¨v hnhml ]mÀ«n ]cnNbs¸Spóp. ChnsS sh¨v kn\nabpsS hgn¯ncnhv Bcw`n¡p

Ibpw ]nóoShcpsS PohnX¯nð DïmIpó

Imcy§Ä \À½¯nð Nmen¨v AhXcn¸n¨n

cn¡pIbpamWv Cu Nn{X¯neqsS.

PKXn, P\mÀ±\³, aWnb³]nÅ cmPp, amapt¡mb, tIm«bw \koÀ, sI]nFkn efnX, Ið¸\, cm[nI Fónhcpw IpSpw_{io {Smhðknð aäp {][m\ IYm]m{X§sf AhXcn¸n¡póp. hbemÀ icXvN{µhÀ½bpsS hcnIÄ¡v _nPn]memWv kwKoXw \nÀhln¡póXv.

IpSpw_{io {Smhðkv

channelvew

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"cïpXcw N§eIfpïv; `b¯nsâ N§eIÄ kvt\l¯nsâ N§eIÄ'. kvt\lw dqan¡v `b¯nsâ N§ebnð \nópÅ tamN\

amWv. AtX kvt\l¯nð Xsó sshcp²ym

ßIamb Aim´nbpw IeÀóncn¸psïóv dqan

]dbpóp: "BZyw Bivtfjn¡póp; ]nsó

Aim´am¡póp; kvt\lw'. Cu Aim´n `uXoImÔXbmsWópw ]e]mSv HmÀ½n¡pópïv. _[nchpw aqIhpamb Hómbn Nnet¸mÄ kvt\lw amdpsa¦nepw `uXnIXbpsS AXymIÀjW heb¯nð ImgvNbäh\mbn Xocpóp. PohnXw kz]v\Xpeyhpw At§bäw kuµcy]qÀWhpw BsWóp XsóbmWv kq^nIÄ ]dbpóXv.

"\ñ `£Ww Dt]£n¨v bmNIscbpw Zcn{Zsc

bpw B{Ian¡pó Hcp ]«nsbt¸msebmWv Hcp `uXnI a\pjysâ D]a' FómWv dqan Cu ]pkv

XI¯nð FSp¯v ]dbpóXv.

bpàn Nnet¸mÄ {]IrXn\mi¯nte¡v Xsó \s½ \bn¡póp. imkv{Xw bpànsb tXSpIbpw ]nð¡me¯v AXnsâ Aimkv{XobXsb Xncp¯pIbpamWv. Fómð {]IrXnbpsS \nKqVhpw A\mZnbpamb clky§Ä tIĸn¡phm\mWv dqan ]Tn¸n¡póXv.

dqan Hcp kmKcamWv. B kmKc¯nte¡v \s½

£Wn¡m³ Cu ]pkvXI¯n\v Ignbpóp. dmkvs_dn _pIvkv Fó \hkwc`w¯n\pw hnhÀ¯I\mb kn±nJv apl½Zn\pw \µn. sfm

home library

hmbn¨Xnð Gähpw {]nbs¸« ]pkvXIs¯¡pdn¨v

Fgp¯pImc³ inlm_p±o³ s]mbv¯pwIShv

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"kvt\lmÀ{Zw [ym\\ncXw'

IY, IhnX, teJ\§Ä Fónh FgpXpóp. BÀ¡pw thïm¯ Hcp I®v, aªpImew, Xe, I¯pó XebnW

(IYmkamlmc§Ä), CuÀ¨, \ñ Abð¡mc³(t\mhseäpIÄ), IYm]m{Xw ho«papä¯v(teJ\ kamlmcw), ISð acp`qanbnse

hoSv(IhnXkamlmcw), XncsªSp¯ IYIÄ Fónh IrXnIÄ. IYIÄ hnhn[ bqWnthgvknänIfnð ]mTyhnjbambn«pïv. 2008 se

sNdpIYbv¡pÅ tIcfkmlnXy A¡mUan AhmÀUv e`n¨p.

hnemkw: inlm_p±o³ s]mbv¯pwIShv, hf]«Ww ]n. H , I®qÀþ10, [email protected]

Fw. Un. at\mPvKrlmXpcXzw DWÀ¯pó Bem]\

ssienbneqsS aebmf a\kv IogS¡p

Ibpw kwKoX kwhn[mbI\mbn

AhnkvacWob Km\§Ä krjvSn

¡pIbpw sNbvX sI. ]n. DZb`m\phnsâ

PohnXhpw kwKoXhpw hniIe\w sN¿pó ]pkvXIw. At±l¯nsâ

DZbcmKw

inhZmkv s]mbnðImhv

kwØm\ kvIqÄ ItemÕh§fnð k½m\mÀl

amb GIm¦ \mSI§fpsS kamlmcw. A¡p¯n¡p¯v, X¯t¨ ]q½ ]q½, Bt¯m

s]mdt¯m, ]ŸqXw, Duim

´mSn cmPmhv XpS§n t]cnð

t]mepw \mtSmSn N´apÅ \mSI

§fpsS kamlmcw. knhnIv N{µsâ BapJw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 55cq]

Bt¯m s]mdt¯m]n. taml\³AWpIpSpw_PohnX¯nsâ hnlzeXIÄ

hc¨pIm«pó t\mhð. \mKcnI PohnX¯nsâ AScpIfneqsS ]pXnb Ime¯nsâ a\kv shfns¸Sp¯pó BJym\ssien. amf¯nte¡v HmSnsbmfn¡pó P´phns\ t]mse kz´w A¸mÀ«vsaâpIfnse kzØXIfnte¡v tNt¡dpóhcpsS IY]dbpóp GIPmeIw

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne 90 cq]

GIPmeIw

tUm. sI. apcfo[c³BbpÀthZw Hcp NnInÕmapd am{Xañ; Hcp PohnXssienbpw

kwkv¡mchpw IqSnbmsWóv ]dªphbv¡pó {KÙw. BtcmKyw kwc£n¡m\pw tcmK§Ä XSbm\pw BbpÀtÆZ AdnhpIÄ ]IcpIbmWv Cu IrXnbneqsS tIm«¡ð BcysshZyimebnse tUm. sI. apcfo[c³. BbpÀtÆZs¯ BtcmKy¯n\pthïn kao]n¡pó BÀ¡pw hnizkn¨m{ibn¡mhpó IrXnsbóv tUm. ]n. sI. hmcnbÀ hntijn¸n¨ ]pkvXIw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 70 cq]

BbpÀtÆZhpw ZoÀLmbpÊpw

sI. BÀ Kucnb½cmjv{Sobþ kmaqlnIþ kmwkvImcnI

taJeIfneqsS tIcfs¯ ssI]nSn¨v \S¯nbhcnð {][m\nbmb Kucnb½ Xsâ PohnX¯nte¡pw cmjv{Sob¯nte¡pw HmÀ½IfneqsS aS¡bm{X \S¯póp Cu

]pkvXI¯neqsS. Hcp I½yqWnÌv Fó

\nebnepw kv{Xo Fó \nebnepw

A`napJoIcn¨ s]mÅpó A\p`h§Ä

XpdsógpXpIbmWnhnsS. {]Xybim

kv{X`mcw CñmsXbpÅ Cu Xpdsógp¯nð t\cnsâ Xnf¡w Iïdnbmw.

BßIY

{ioIpamÀ IcnbmSv]pXpaIfpw ]co£W§fpw

\ndª ImhyhgnbneqsS hmb\¡mcs\ ssItImÀ¯v \S¯pó 15 IhnXIÄ. Imhybpàn¡¸pds¯ A\p

imk\§sf A\pioen¡m¯

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 230 cq]

kulrZhpw kwKoXhpsañmw kplr¯p¡Ä Cu

]pkvXI¯nð HmÀs¯Sp¯v FgpXpóp. A¡n¯w, H. F³. hn, bp. F. JmZÀ, tbipZmkv, Imhmew, a[pkqZ\³ \mbÀ, Un. _m_pt]mÄ, s]cp¼Shw {io[c³, ]qh¨ð JmZÀ, Un. hn\bN{µ³ XpS§n

bhcpsS kulrZ¡pdn¸pIÄ. H¸w sI. ]n. DZb`m

\phpambn \S¯nb A`napJhpw DÄs¸« ]pkv

XIw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 100 cq]

X¯IfpsS kvIqÄ

IhnXIÄ. [À½¯ntet¡m kaXz¯ntet¡m t]mIpó kzÀWhgnsbóv [cn¨v IhnXIfnte¡v IS¡póhÀ sNóphogpóXv ]mXmf¡nW

dnembncn¡psaóv BapJ¯nð Ihn Xsó ]dbpóp. tPmsa{Sn, C³kvs]£³, ayqdð, C³Ìtej³ XpS§n ]pXpIhn

XbpsS hyXncnàamb ASbmfambn hntijn¸n¡mhpó 15 IhnXIfpsS kamlmcw.

sskIXw _pIvkv

hne: 40 cq]

aqómw hbknð Pò\mSphn«v

Gjyssa\dnte¡v IpSntbdpIbpw ]nóoSv sImóybnð kvYncXmakam¡pIbpw sNbvXp. ]emb\¯n\nSbnð \nim¸qÀ ]«W¯nð h¨v {]kn² kq^n Ihn ^coZp±o³ A¯mdns\ Iïp. Cu IqSn¡mgvNbmWv Ccp]Xmw \qämïnse Pn{_ms\sbtómWw dqansb kzm[o\n¨Xv.

Ing¡³ cmPy§fnsem«msI Ddhs]m«nb

Bßob \ZnIsf Cóv \mw hnkvabt¯msS Xncn¨dnbpóp. ]¯mw \qämïnð IÀWmSI, B{Ô {]tZi§fnð AebSn¨ _kh®, temI {]ikvXamb hN\w IhnXIfpsS alm]mc¼cy¯nð hcpó A¡almtZhn, Aña {]`p, Imivaocnse etñizcn, aoc, ]q´m\w, am[hn¡p«nþ CsXms¡ AZriyamb GtXm NmepIfmð tImÀ¡s¸« Hä \Znbmbv ImWm\mWv F\n¡njvSw. Kpcp \nXyssNX

\ybXn AS¡apÅ aebmfn A²ymßnI ]pcp

jòmsc {]tNmZn¸n¨ dqan (bXnbpsS dqan hnhÀ¯\ ]pkvXIw Xsóbpïv) bpsS XncsªSp¯ IhnXIfpsS hnhÀ¯\ kwcw`amWv "kvt\lmÀ{Zw [ym\\ncXw' Fó IrXn.

dqan FgpXpt¼mÄ Bßmhnsâ kpKaamb kômc¯n\v XSkamIpó `uXnI PohnXs¯¸än \nc´cw HmÀan¸n¡pó IhnbpsS hgnbpw e£yhpw Xsó AXmbn¯ocpIbmWv. Bßmhn\pw icoc¯n\pw ( `uXnI PohnX¯nsâ {]XoIambn icocs¯ ImWpI) CSbnepff XSkw dqanbpsS {][m\ hyhlmc tI{µamWv.

" aÕy§Ä ]pd¯pt]mIpóXn\pw

Icbnse PohnIÄ AI¯phcpóXn\pw

ISð hnLv\amWv '

Fóv Cu IrXnbnð dqan \s½ HmÀ½n¸n¡póp.

PohnX¯nsâ bmYmÀ°yhpwAb

YmÀ°yhpw F§s\ ]ckv]cw an{iWw sNbvXv kXyw Úm\¯n\v ]pd¯mIp

óXns\¸änbpw dqan \nc´cw tJZw sIm

Åpóp. kvt\lamWv Cu kXyt\zj

W¯nsâ GIhgnsbópw Pemep±o³ dqan \s½ DWÀ¯póp.

A\izcIhn Pn{_m³ Xsâ thcpIsf¸än ]dªt¸mÄ

At±l¯nsâ {][m\ {]tNmZI tI{µw 13þmw \qämïnse t]Àjy³ Ihnbpw kq^nhcy\pw Nn´I\pamb Pemep±o³ dqanbmsWóv ]dbpIbpïmbn. Imhy

_nw_§fpsSbpw ]cnIev]\IfpsSbpw Imcy¯nð CXv XnIª kXy

amWv. 1207 sk]väw_À 30\v Có

s¯ A^vKm\nØm\nepÅ _m

ð¡v {]hniybnð P\n¨ apl½Zv Pemep±o³ dqan awtKmfnbÀ at²yjy B{Ian¨t¸mÄ IpSpw_ktaXw ]Xn

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"cïpXcw N§eIfpïv; `b¯nsâ N§eIÄ kvt\l¯nsâ N§eIÄ'. kvt\lw dqan¡v `b¯nsâ N§ebnð \nópÅ tamN\

amWv. AtX kvt\l¯nð Xsó sshcp²ym

ßIamb Aim´nbpw IeÀóncn¸psïóv dqan

]dbpóp: "BZyw Bivtfjn¡póp; ]nsó

Aim´am¡póp; kvt\lw'. Cu Aim´n `uXoImÔXbmsWópw ]e]mSv HmÀ½n¡pópïv. _[nchpw aqIhpamb Hómbn Nnet¸mÄ kvt\lw amdpsa¦nepw `uXnIXbpsS AXymIÀjW heb¯nð ImgvNbäh\mbn Xocpóp. PohnXw kz]v\Xpeyhpw At§bäw kuµcy]qÀWhpw BsWóp XsóbmWv kq^nIÄ ]dbpóXv.

"\ñ `£Ww Dt]£n¨v bmNIscbpw Zcn{Zsc

bpw B{Ian¡pó Hcp ]«nsbt¸msebmWv Hcp `uXnI a\pjysâ D]a' FómWv dqan Cu ]pkv

XI¯nð FSp¯v ]dbpóXv.

bpàn Nnet¸mÄ {]IrXn\mi¯nte¡v Xsó \s½ \bn¡póp. imkv{Xw bpànsb tXSpIbpw ]nð¡me¯v AXnsâ Aimkv{XobXsb Xncp¯pIbpamWv. Fómð {]IrXnbpsS \nKqVhpw A\mZnbpamb clky§Ä tIĸn¡phm\mWv dqan ]Tn¸n¡póXv.

dqan Hcp kmKcamWv. B kmKc¯nte¡v \s½

£Wn¡m³ Cu ]pkvXI¯n\v Ignbpóp. dmkvs_dn _pIvkv Fó \hkwc`w¯n\pw hnhÀ¯I\mb kn±nJv apl½Zn\pw \µn. sfm

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hmbn¨Xnð Gähpw {]nbs¸« ]pkvXIs¯¡pdn¨v

Fgp¯pImc³ inlm_p±o³ s]mbv¯pwIShv

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"kvt\lmÀ{Zw [ym\\ncXw'

IY, IhnX, teJ\§Ä Fónh FgpXpóp. BÀ¡pw thïm¯ Hcp I®v, aªpImew, Xe, I¯pó XebnW

(IYmkamlmc§Ä), CuÀ¨, \ñ Abð¡mc³(t\mhseäpIÄ), IYm]m{Xw ho«papä¯v(teJ\ kamlmcw), ISð acp`qanbnse

hoSv(IhnXkamlmcw), XncsªSp¯ IYIÄ Fónh IrXnIÄ. IYIÄ hnhn[ bqWnthgvknänIfnð ]mTyhnjbambn«pïv. 2008 se

sNdpIYbv¡pÅ tIcfkmlnXy A¡mUan AhmÀUv e`n¨p.

hnemkw: inlm_p±o³ s]mbv¯pwIShv, hf]«Ww ]n. H , I®qÀþ10, [email protected]

Fw. Un. at\mPvKrlmXpcXzw DWÀ¯pó Bem]\

ssienbneqsS aebmf a\kv IogS¡p

Ibpw kwKoX kwhn[mbI\mbn

AhnkvacWob Km\§Ä krjvSn

¡pIbpw sNbvX sI. ]n. DZb`m\phnsâ

PohnXhpw kwKoXhpw hniIe\w sN¿pó ]pkvXIw. At±l¯nsâ

DZbcmKw

inhZmkv s]mbnðImhv

kwØm\ kvIqÄ ItemÕh§fnð k½m\mÀl

amb GIm¦ \mSI§fpsS kamlmcw. A¡p¯n¡p¯v, X¯t¨ ]q½ ]q½, Bt¯m

s]mdt¯m, ]ŸqXw, Duim

´mSn cmPmhv XpS§n t]cnð

t]mepw \mtSmSn N´apÅ \mSI

§fpsS kamlmcw. knhnIv N{µsâ BapJw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 55cq]

Bt¯m s]mdt¯m]n. taml\³AWpIpSpw_PohnX¯nsâ hnlzeXIÄ

hc¨pIm«pó t\mhð. \mKcnI PohnX¯nsâ AScpIfneqsS ]pXnb Ime¯nsâ a\kv shfns¸Sp¯pó BJym\ssien. amf¯nte¡v HmSnsbmfn¡pó P´phns\ t]mse kz´w A¸mÀ«vsaâpIfnse kzØXIfnte¡v tNt¡dpóhcpsS IY]dbpóp GIPmeIw

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne 90 cq]

GIPmeIw

tUm. sI. apcfo[c³BbpÀthZw Hcp NnInÕmapd am{Xañ; Hcp PohnXssienbpw

kwkv¡mchpw IqSnbmsWóv ]dªphbv¡pó {KÙw. BtcmKyw kwc£n¡m\pw tcmK§Ä XSbm\pw BbpÀtÆZ AdnhpIÄ ]IcpIbmWv Cu IrXnbneqsS tIm«¡ð BcysshZyimebnse tUm. sI. apcfo[c³. BbpÀtÆZs¯ BtcmKy¯n\pthïn kao]n¡pó BÀ¡pw hnizkn¨m{ibn¡mhpó IrXnsbóv tUm. ]n. sI. hmcnbÀ hntijn¸n¨ ]pkvXIw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 70 cq]

BbpÀtÆZhpw ZoÀLmbpÊpw

sI. BÀ Kucnb½cmjv{Sobþ kmaqlnIþ kmwkvImcnI

taJeIfneqsS tIcfs¯ ssI]nSn¨v \S¯nbhcnð {][m\nbmb Kucnb½ Xsâ PohnX¯nte¡pw cmjv{Sob¯nte¡pw HmÀ½IfneqsS aS¡bm{X \S¯póp Cu

]pkvXI¯neqsS. Hcp I½yqWnÌv Fó

\nebnepw kv{Xo Fó \nebnepw

A`napJoIcn¨ s]mÅpó A\p`h§Ä

XpdsógpXpIbmWnhnsS. {]Xybim

kv{X`mcw CñmsXbpÅ Cu Xpdsógp¯nð t\cnsâ Xnf¡w Iïdnbmw.

BßIY

{ioIpamÀ IcnbmSv]pXpaIfpw ]co£W§fpw

\ndª ImhyhgnbneqsS hmb\¡mcs\ ssItImÀ¯v \S¯pó 15 IhnXIÄ. Imhybpàn¡¸pds¯ A\p

imk\§sf A\pioen¡m¯

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 230 cq]

kulrZhpw kwKoXhpsañmw kplr¯p¡Ä Cu

]pkvXI¯nð HmÀs¯Sp¯v FgpXpóp. A¡n¯w, H. F³. hn, bp. F. JmZÀ, tbipZmkv, Imhmew, a[pkqZ\³ \mbÀ, Un. _m_pt]mÄ, s]cp¼Shw {io[c³, ]qh¨ð JmZÀ, Un. hn\bN{µ³ XpS§n

bhcpsS kulrZ¡pdn¸pIÄ. H¸w sI. ]n. DZb`m

\phpambn \S¯nb A`napJhpw DÄs¸« ]pkv

XIw.

amXr`qan _pIvkv

hne: 100 cq]

X¯IfpsS kvIqÄ

IhnXIÄ. [À½¯ntet¡m kaXz¯ntet¡m t]mIpó kzÀWhgnsbóv [cn¨v IhnXIfnte¡v IS¡póhÀ sNóphogpóXv ]mXmf¡nW

dnembncn¡psaóv BapJ¯nð Ihn Xsó ]dbpóp. tPmsa{Sn, C³kvs]£³, ayqdð, C³Ìtej³ XpS§n ]pXpIhn

XbpsS hyXncnàamb ASbmfambn hntijn¸n¡mhpó 15 IhnXIfpsS kamlmcw.

sskIXw _pIvkv

hne: 40 cq]

aqómw hbknð Pò\mSphn«v

Gjyssa\dnte¡v IpSntbdpIbpw ]nóoSv sImóybnð kvYncXmakam¡pIbpw sNbvXp. ]emb\¯n\nSbnð \nim¸qÀ ]«W¯nð h¨v {]kn² kq^n Ihn ^coZp±o³ A¯mdns\ Iïp. Cu IqSn¡mgvNbmWv Ccp]Xmw \qämïnse Pn{_ms\sbtómWw dqansb kzm[o\n¨Xv.

Ing¡³ cmPy§fnsem«msI Ddhs]m«nb

Bßob \ZnIsf Cóv \mw hnkvabt¯msS Xncn¨dnbpóp. ]¯mw \qämïnð IÀWmSI, B{Ô {]tZi§fnð AebSn¨ _kh®, temI {]ikvXamb hN\w IhnXIfpsS alm]mc¼cy¯nð hcpó A¡almtZhn, Aña {]`p, Imivaocnse etñizcn, aoc, ]q´m\w, am[hn¡p«nþ CsXms¡ AZriyamb GtXm NmepIfmð tImÀ¡s¸« Hä \Znbmbv ImWm\mWv F\n¡njvSw. Kpcp \nXyssNX

\ybXn AS¡apÅ aebmfn A²ymßnI ]pcp

jòmsc {]tNmZn¸n¨ dqan (bXnbpsS dqan hnhÀ¯\ ]pkvXIw Xsóbpïv) bpsS XncsªSp¯ IhnXIfpsS hnhÀ¯\ kwcw`amWv "kvt\lmÀ{Zw [ym\\ncXw' Fó IrXn.

dqan FgpXpt¼mÄ Bßmhnsâ kpKaamb kômc¯n\v XSkamIpó `uXnI PohnXs¯¸än \nc´cw HmÀan¸n¡pó IhnbpsS hgnbpw e£yhpw Xsó AXmbn¯ocpIbmWv. Bßmhn\pw icoc¯n\pw ( `uXnI PohnX¯nsâ {]XoIambn icocs¯ ImWpI) CSbnepff XSkw dqanbpsS {][m\ hyhlmc tI{µamWv.

" aÕy§Ä ]pd¯pt]mIpóXn\pw

Icbnse PohnIÄ AI¯phcpóXn\pw

ISð hnLv\amWv '

Fóv Cu IrXnbnð dqan \s½ HmÀ½n¸n¡póp.

PohnX¯nsâ bmYmÀ°yhpwAb

YmÀ°yhpw F§s\ ]ckv]cw an{iWw sNbvXv kXyw Úm\¯n\v ]pd¯mIp

óXns\¸änbpw dqan \nc´cw tJZw sIm

Åpóp. kvt\lamWv Cu kXyt\zj

W¯nsâ GIhgnsbópw Pemep±o³ dqan \s½ DWÀ¯póp.

A\izcIhn Pn{_m³ Xsâ thcpIsf¸än ]dªt¸mÄ

At±l¯nsâ {][m\ {]tNmZI tI{µw 13þmw \qämïnse t]Àjy³ Ihnbpw kq^nhcy\pw Nn´I\pamb Pemep±o³ dqanbmsWóv ]dbpIbpïmbn. Imhy

_nw_§fpsSbpw ]cnIev]\IfpsSbpw Imcy¯nð CXv XnIª kXy

amWv. 1207 sk]väw_À 30\v Có

s¯ A^vKm\nØm\nepÅ _m

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tam\njsb¡pdn¨v A½ {iotZhn D®n

KÀ`mekyw: kwib§fpw {]Xnhn[nIfpw

{InkvXpakv kvs]jyð

Ip«nIsf hfÀ¯mw kzbw]cym]vXcmbn

kvamÀ«v ^manen amknIbpsS Hcp Øncw hmb\¡mc\mWv

Rm³. hfsc \nehmcapÅ,

IpSpw_ktaXw hmbn¡m³

sImÅmhpó Hcp amknIbm

WnXv. ]s£ Nne e¡§fnð kn\nam¡msc¡pdn¨pÅ teJ\

§Ä Cu amknIbv¡v tbmPn

"\oe¯mac'bneqsS aebmf

t{]£IcpsS Hma\ ]p{Xnbmbn

amdnb AÀ¨\ IhnbpsSbpw IpSpw_¯nsâbpw ho«phnti

j§Ä ]¦psh¨Xnð hfsc

Ip«nIsf kz´w Imenð \nð¡m³ {]m]vXcm¡póXv AXymh

iyamsWópw AXn\mbn Ahsc klmbnt¡ïXv amXm]nXm¡fm

sWópapÅ KpW]mTamWv Unkw_À e¡¯nse amknIbpsS IhÀtÌmdn. kzm{ibXzw hfÀ¯n D¯chmZnXzapÅ a¡sf hmÀs¯

Sp¡m³ amXm]nXm¡Ä {i²nt¡ï Nne s]mSnss¡Ifpw teJ\¯n

epÄs¸Sp¯nbXv \ómbncpóp. sNdnb sNdnb A`n\µ\§Ä hgn Ip«nIfnepïmIpó Bßhnizmkhpw F{Xt¯mfamsWóv Cu IhÀtÌmdnbneqsS a\Ênem¡m³ km[n¨p. Fómð AanX {]iwk Fó A]ISIcamb Hcp hkvXpXbpw CXn\p ]nónepïv FóXv F\ns¡mcp ]pXnb Adnhmbncpóp. Ip«nIÄ¡pw amXm]nXm¡Ä¡pw Hcpt]mse amÀ¤ZÀinbmb kvamÀ«v ^manen¡v A`n\µ\§Ä.

kP\ kqcPv,

_mw¥qÀ.

ssiihw apXte ]nôp Ip

ªp§fnð kzm{ibt_m[w hfÀt¯ïXnsâ Aht_m[w \ðIm³ kvamÀ«v ^manen Unkw_À e¡¯n\v Ignªncn¡póp. A²zm\ioehpw, efnX PohnX

coXnIfpw ]n´pScm³ Ip«nIÄ

¡pÅ Nqïp ]eIbmWnXv. kz´w kÀ¤ iànbnepÅ Bßhnizmkw Ipcpóp a\ÊpIÄ¡v hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ DXIpó Imcy§fpw Hc½sbt¸mse ]dªp Xóncn¡pIbmWv amknI.

klnjvWpX, kvt\lw, A\pI¼, D¯chmZnXzw Fóo aqey§Ä Ip«nIfpsS ]nôp a\ÊpIfnð hfÀ¯nsbSp¡m³ kzbw ]cym]vXcm¡pó \nÀt±

i§fpw \ómbncn¡póp. kmaq

lyPohnX¯n\mhiyamb Adn

hpw {]hÀ¯\ coXnIfpw Ip«n

IÄ¡v ]cnNbs¸Sp¯n sImSp

¡pó coXnbnte¡mWv kvamÀ«v ^manenbpsS hfÀ¨.

a¡fpsS imcocnIhpw, am\knIhpw, _p²n]chpamb hfÀ¨

bnð amXm]nXm¡Ä¡pÅ AanX DXvIWvT Ipdbv¡m³ C¯cw teJ\§Ä¡v Ignbp

ópïv. Ip«nIsf kzbw ]cym]v

Xcm¡m\pw AhcpsS hyàn _豈 icnbmb Znibnð hfÀ¯ns¡mïvhcm\pw Unkw_À e¡¯n\v Ignªp

shóv \nkwibw ]dbmw.

anÊnkv. Pn\p. sI. tPmk^v,

Akn. Fôn\nbÀ, K.S.E.Bap«¨nd ]n. H,

tIm«bw.

¨Xmbn tXmónbnñ (B³ AK

Ìys\¡pdn¨pÅ teJ\w hfsc \ómbn«pïv).

DZmlcW¯n\v Unkw_À e¡¯nse "Pbdmansâ Xncn¨p

hchv' Fó teJ\w. H¼Xñ, A¼Xv Nn{X§Ä Pbdmw A`n

\bn¨mepw (F{Xsb®w ]pd¯v

hcpsaóv IïdnbWw) Cu Ah

Øbnð Hcp KpWhpanñ. Cubn

sS ]pd¯v hóv IjvSn¨v aqóv Znhkw Ifn¨ At±l¯nsâ t^mÀ {^ïvkv Xsó DZmlcW

amWv. B kn\nabpsS AWnbd

{]hÀ¯IÀs¡mgnsI FñmhÀ

¡pw Iym³kÀ. CXmWv Pbdm

ansâ "{i²m]qÀÆ'amb \o¡sa

¦nð Imcy§Ä C\nbpw IjvS¯nemIpw.

]n. ]n. BâWn,

]Ån¸pdw lukv,

sIm¨n.

Pbdmansâ Xncn¨phchv

b[nIw kt´mjapïv. AÀ¨\bpsS PohnX¯nse \ndapÅ HmÀ½Ifnsemómb Uðlnbnse XWp¸pÅ {Inkvakv cm{XnIfpw

BtLmj§fpw Adnbm³

Ignªp. AÀ¨\bpsS "a½n

Bâv an,' "s_Ìv Hm^v e¡v' Fóo kn\naIfpw {i²bmIÀjn

¡s¸«hbmWv. XpSÀópw \ñ \ñ kn\naIfnð A`n\bw ImgvN sh¡m³ AÀ¨\bv¡v Ignbs« Fóv Biwkn¡póp.

an\n tPmÀPv,

Xncph\µ]pcw.

Aˬ\mIhnbpw {InkvXpakpw

IhÀtÌmdn

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tImf§Ä hmbn¨p. "skent{_j³' Fó t]cnð cïv {]apJ hy

ànIfpsS {InkvXpakv hntij§Ä DÄs¸Sp¯nbXv hfsc \ómbn.

Nmt¡m amjpsS "HmÀ½Ifnse \£{Xshfn¨hpw' Ip«n¡mes¯ ItcmÄ kwLs¯¸änbpÅ hnhcW§fpw CjvSs¸«p. amjv ]dª

Xp t]mseXsó ItcmÄ {Kq¸pIÄ ]et¸mgpw Nmb kð¡mc§

Ä¡p thïnbpÅXmbncpóp. R§fpsS Ip«n¡met¯¡v Hcp \nan

jw F¯nt\m¡m³ t{]cn¸n¨ Hómbncpóp B teJ\w.

Fw. Fð. F. ]n. kn. tPmÀPnsâ "Cucmäpt]«bnse {InkvXp

akv cm{XnIÄ' Fó {InkvXpakv HmÀ½IÄ kvt\l¯ntâbpw kmtlmZcy¯ntâbpw HmÀ½ ]pXp¡embncpóp. C¯cw sseäv doUn§n\pÅ teJ\§Ä kvamÀ«v ^manenbnð C\nbpw {]Xo£n

¡póp.

Pn½n tPmkv & AeIvkv tPmkv,

]mebqÀ.

IpSpw_ k¦ð¸§Ä amdn hcpó Cós¯ ImeL«¯nð ]gabpsS am[pcyw \pIÀóv

Pohn¡pó Hcp ]pXpXeapd

sb¸änbpw AhcpsS PohnXaq

ey§sf¸änbpw hniZam¡pó "^manen Hm^v Zn a´v' Fó ]p

Xnb ]wàn¡v XpS¡w Ipdn¨ kvamÀ«v ^manen¡v A`n\µ\

§Ä. Hmtcm amkhpw Hmtcm IpSpw_§sf amXrIbm¡n AhÀ¡v ]dbm\pÅ aqey§Ä hmb\¡mc\v ]IÀóv \ðIpó

C¯cw teJ\§Ä amknIbpsS

t]cns\ Xsó A\zÀ°am¡p

óhbmWv.

kphn\ Znt\jv,

Bð¯d.

kvamÀ«v skent{_j³ ^manen Hm^v Zn a´v

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skbnâv t]mÄ FgpXpóXp

t]mse kvt\lanñm¯hcpsS hm¡pIÄ apg§pó sN¼mbpw

Nne¼pó ssI¯mfhpambn \½psS ]cnkc§sf aen\s¸Sp

¯póp. DÅp s]mÅbmb sN¼mWv apg§póXv, ssI¯mf

amhs« HmÀ¡kv{SbpsS Xmfw \n

b{´n¡pó ASbmf \mZhpw. AXv Xsó ]ng¨mð... kmcanñ, Ipªp§fpïtñm \ap¡v {]Xo

£bpsS Hä¯pcp¯pIfmbn. \ap¡hsc tIÄ¡mw, \nÀ_Ôam

sW¦nð C¯ncn anïpIbpam

hmw.

kÔyIfnð sXñv PmfyXsbm

s¡ ad¨p]nSn¨v Rm³ \n§fpsS

ho«papäs¯¯póXv kXyam

bn«pw apXnÀóhsc ImWm\ñ, \n§fpsS Ipªp§Ä sh¨p \o«pó hnip² {]tem`\§sf sNdp¡m\mhm¯Xp sImïmWv.

AhÀ kz]v\§fpsSbpw PohnX

¯nsâbpw ]q¸mS§fneqsS At§m«pant§m«pw ie`§sf

t¸mse ]dópbcpóp. AXpsIm

ïmWv In\mhnð Iï Ifn¸m«

¯n\pthïn DWÀóXn\p tij

hpw Ipªv hmhn«p IcbpóXv.

Ipsdb[nIw Imew ap¼mWv. Pn. i¦c¸nÅbpsS Hcp \mSIw

\mð¡heIfnð AhXcn¸n

¨ncpó Hcp kulrZIq«t¯m

sSm¸w shdpsX Ipd¨v \Sóncp

óp. AXn{]mtbmKnIXsImïv ZpjvSòmcmb G«òmtcmSv t]mg

s\óv A]cÀ KWn¡pó Cfb

h³ Icw Iq¸n tIgpIbmWv: ""G«òmsc, \aps¡mcn¡ð IqSn B ]gb Ipªp§fmhmw... \ap

¡v \½psS sXmSnIfpsS DÕh

§fnte¡v aS§nt¸mhmw.'' þFsóms¡. Hcp apfIodpóXp t]msesbmcp hnem]w s]s«óm

Wv DbÀóXv. hr²\msbmcmÄ

tXmÀ¯psImïv hms]m¯n¸n

Sn¨v Dds¡ IcbpIbmWv... Bcpw Abmsf XSÊs¸Sp¯n

bnñ. aZy]n¨n«msWóv ]cnl

kn¨nñ. ssZhta AbmÄ F´n

ssiihw\mWv Icªn«pÅXv? Ifªp

t]mb ssiih§fnte¡v C\n

sbmcn¡epw aS§m\mhnñsbó Dįm]¯ntem...?

]n.hn. jmPnsbsómcp hfsc

hyXykvX\msbmcmsf ]cnNb

s¸«p Cu Znhk§fnsemónð. "Fsâ Nn´bpw temIhpw' Fó ]pkvXIsagpXnbn«pÅ jmPn Ip«nIÄ¡msbmcp ]pkvXIw

X¿mdm¡nbncn¡póp. FXnsc

bncpóbmÄ ]dbpóp; \½psS DÅnsemcp Ipªpïv; B

Ipªv IcbpIbmWv. B Ipªn

s\ kzX{´\m¡m³ A\phZn

¡pI...'' FñmhcpsSbpapÅnð hnXp¼psómcp Ipªv. Nne

a\pjyÀ AXp tI«v BIpes¸

Spt¼mÄ knwl`mKhpw AXn{]m

tbmKnIX, \nÊwKX, lrZb ImTn\yw XpS§nb NqcepIÄ D]tbmKn¨v B Ipªns\ imkn

¨pw, iTn¨pw \nµn¨pw \nÈ_vZ\m

¡pIbmWv... I®p ]q«n DÅnse Ipªnsâ tX§ednbpI.

Ipªp§sft¸mse hnkvab]q

ÀÆw \nð¡m³ Ignsª¦nð, sNdnb Imcy§Ä aXnbhcpsS temIs¯ kpµcam¡m³. Ahcp

sS angnIfnð HcZriy ImentUm

kvtIm¸pïv. F{X sNdpXpw

\nÊmchpw hepXpw, alXzap

ÅXpambn amdpóhcpsS angnI

Ä¡v apónð. DSª hfs¸m«p

Ifpw, aômSnIfpsams¡ tNÀóv

ImentUmkvtIm¸nð Hcp hÀ®

{]]ôw CXÄ hncnbpóXpt]m

se...

N§mXnbpsS ho«nðt]mbn hó \n§fpsS Ipªv C§s\ ]dbpóp: '"AhnsS \ndsb {]m

hpIfpït½, sXmSnbnð \nd

sb \mepaWn ]q¡fpw...'' \n§

Ä AXp {i²n¡ptóbnñ. ]Icw

t]mÀ¨nð Imdptïmsbóv At\zjn¡póp. Ahsâ A¸\v F´v tPmensbóv Xnc¡póp. \ap¡v kXyambn«pw AhcpsS temI¯nð Xosc F³{Snbnñ. Is¿mSnª Hcp ]mhsb H¡

¯ph¨p \S¡pó Hcp Ipªns\

A½ imkn¡pt¼mÄ, Is¿mSn

ªmð A½ Fsóbpw hens¨

dnbptam Fóv tNmZn¨ Ipªns\ Af¡m³ \½psS

GXp \mgnI¡mhpw.

H¯ncn CutKmIfpsS hmkKrlamWv \½psS a\Êv.

Ipªmhs«, A¯cw Hcp kzm[o\hpw DÅns\ aen\s¸Sp¯m³ A\phZn¡m¯ HcmÄ. SmtKmÀ ]dbpó Hcp

kw`hwt]mse, Hcp lukvt_m

«nð cm{Xn sagpIpXncn sh«¯n

ð ]pkvXIw hmbn¡pIbmbn

cpóp AbmÄ. Imänð B sagp

IpXncnsh«w AWªpt]mbn. BZyw Hópw ImWm\mhpónñ. Fómð im´ambn Ccpóp XpS§nbt¸mÄ ]Xps¡ Xpdón« PmeI¸mfnIfneqsS \nemhv AXnte¡v {]thin¨p. Ct¸mÄ Fñmw hyàambn ImWmw. AbmÄ ]pdt¯¡p t\m¡n. ]p

d¯v ]pg \nemhnð Ipfn¨v, hr£¯e¸pIfpw Xochpsams¡ Cu \oeshfn¨¯nð kv\m\w

sNbvXv... B cm{Xnbnð AbmÄ

C§s\ Ipdn¨p. Fsâ Al´

bpsS C¯ncn Xncn sh«w AW

ªpt]mbt¸mÄ \nsâ \nemhv

Fsâ Poh\nte¡v t{]thin¨p.

H¯ncn Al´IfpsS Xncnsh«

§ÄsImïv \½Ä Cuizcsâ

\nemshfn¨s¯ \ntj[n¡p

Ibpw {]Xntcm[n¡pIbpw sN¿póp. Ipªnsâ a\knem

hs« Bscbpw s]mÅn¡m¯ B kuayshfn¨w. Cu shfn¨

¯nte¡v F¯pIbmWv Ipªm

hpI FóXnsâ \m\mÀ°§fn

semóv.

Ipªp§fnð Hóns\t¸mepw \nµn¡cpXv Fóv {InkvXp HmÀ

½n¸n¡pópïv. ImcWw Ahcp

sS amemJamÀ kzÀ¤Ø\mb

]nXmhnsâ apJw Ft¸mgpw ZÀin¨psImïncn¡pIbmWv. Ipªp§sf thZ\n¸n¡pó

Xnsâ AÀ°w ssZhs¯ thZ\n

¸n¡póp Fóp Xsó. hm¡p sImïpw AhKW\sImïpw imk\sImïpsams¡ \mw \nµn

¡pó \½psS Ipªpa¡Ä.

_mey¯nse BLmX§fm

Wtñm Hmtcmcp¯cpsSbpw ]nóo

SpÅ hgnIfnð \ngð hogv¯p

óXv. AhÀ¡v Pohn¡m\pw

hfcm\pw DXIpó Hcp ]cnkc

hpw IqSmchpw \nÀ½ns¨Sp¡m\m

hpónsñ¦nð \mw ssZh¯n\m

Wv IW¡v sImSpt¡ïXv. \½psS Ipªp§Ä \½ptS

Xñtñmþ AhÀ \½fneqsS hóp; Fómð \½fnð \nóñ. Ahsc hµn¡pI.

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