10 hidden keys to team, time, and serving others
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COMMUNICATION KEYS
TEN 10 HIDDEN KEYS
by tim miles
TO TEAM, TIME, & SERVING
OTHERS
“ Good afternoon!
(ahem)
“ Good afternoon!
(Please repeat after me.)
“ There has never...
“ been a better time ...
“ to do what it is I do ...
“ ... but ...
“ ... but ...
“BUT
“ There has also never...
“ been a more important
time ...
“ to be GOOD at what
it is I do ...
See how I went all caps on GOOD
there?
Actually, you didn’t have to
repeat that one.
(thank you)
(you’re done)
(for now)
Now, if you’ll allow me…
I’ll drop some tight Robert Frost on y’all
Team Engagement
Time Management
Shareworthy Service
COMMUNICATION KEYS
TEN 10 HIDDEN KEYS
TO TEAM, TIME, & SERVING
OTHERS
by tim miles
DADDY, I HAVE A
QUESTION
by tim
miles
“Daddy, I have a question.
Yes, Will.
“
How old do you have to be to own a jetpack?“
Will Miles Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
Do you need a permit to own a raygun?
Will Miles Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
“
When I become a Jedi, who decides what color my lightsaber will be?
Will Miles Scientist, Philanthropist, Bon Vivant
“
Do me a favor...
So how does it feel to be autistic when you are overstimulated? It feels like: 20 cologne smells (all people around you are wearing different things, etc. Autistics smell all of it), like hundreds of kids running around you asking you questions in different languages, like you’re sitting in a chair that is missing one leg and trying to balance it while all that is going on, and lights flickering…too much, hence why autistics have Meltdowns.
“Kristina DesJardins Author, Autist
November 20, 2005
November 21, 2005
WHATIS AUTISM ?
• Qualitative impairment in social interaction and communication
• Restrictive and repetitive behaviors.
February 17, 2016
10 KEYS
TO TEAM, TIME, AND SERVING OTHERS
COMMUNICATION KEY
1ONE
JUSTTHING
COMMUNICATION KEY1
ONECHANGE
COMMUNICATION KEY1
You cannot expect someone else to change his behavior until you’re first
willing to change your own.
Change requires motivation. The motivation can come
from fear or love. The choice is yours.
“Becky Bailey, Ph.D.
Be kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.
“Plato
COMMUNICATION KEY1
Observe & Point OutWhat People Do Well
COMMUNICATION KEY1
Chris Ulmer
Change your thoughts, and you
change your world.“
Norman Vincent Peale
COMMUNICATION KEY1
COMMUNICATION KEY2
TWCELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
How will you measure success?
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
You improve what you MEASURE
andREWARD
DRIVE-THRU COOKIES
Susan Mann, Jasper IN
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
Rosabeth Moss Kanter“Employee Loyalty comes from the daily work itself, a sense of community accepting of individuality, and constant reminders that what employees do matters… money is a distant fourth.”
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
1. 2. 3. 4.
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
1. 2. 3. 4. Money
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
1. Membership2. 3. 4. Money
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
1. Membership2. Mastery3. 4. Money
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
COMMUNICATION KEY2CELEBRATE DIFFERENTLY
1. Membership2. Mastery3. Meaning4. Money
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
If you work just for money, you'll never make it, but if you love what you're doing and you always put the customer first, success will be yours.
“Ray Kroc
COMMUNICATION KEY3
THRCLEAR v. CLEVER
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Literal Thinking
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
“Raining Cats & Dogs”
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Clarity Trumps Clever
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Sarcasm
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
*Sarcasm*
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Swear Jar?
COMMUNICATION KEY3CLEAR v. CLEVER
Snark Jar
COMMUNICATION KEY4
FOUOVERSTIMULATED
COMMUNICATION KEY4OVERSTIMULATED
How many of you check your phone before you get out of bed?
There's no question whatsoever that multitasking, especially among those who do it the most, is at the very least ineffective and at the worst, harmful. Basically, they are worse at most of the kinds of thinking not only required for multitasking but what we generally think of as involving deep thought.
“Dr. Clifford Nass Stanford University
COMMUNICATION KEY4OVERSTIMULATED
Single Task Isolation Not A Marathon Preview Review Batch Email/Phone
COMMUNICATION KEY4OVERSTIMULATED
COMMUNICATION KEY5
FIVLISTEN
COMMUNICATION KEY5LISTEN
it seems like a bazillion peoplewant to be heard?
But, like, maybe six want to listen?
Human relationships are rich and they’re messy and they’re demanding. And we clean them up with technology.
And when we do, one of the things that can happen is that we sacrifice conversation for mere connection.
We short-change ourselves. And over time, we seem to forget this, or we seem to stop caring.
“Sherry Turkle Author, Professor - TED, February 2012
COMMUNICATION KEY6
SIXCOME TOGETHER
6COMMUNICATION KEYCOME TOGETHER
COMMUNICATION KEY6COME TOGETHER
Thirty Minutes A Week
COMMUNICATION KEY6COME TOGETHER
Thirty Minutes A Week
“What have you learned?”—BEST BETS—
COMMUNICATION KEY6COME TOGETHER
Thirty Minutes A Week
Facebook Group
“What have you learned?”—BEST BETS—
COMMUNICATION KEY7
SEVPROCESS ROCKS
COMMUNICATION KEY
SIXPROCESS ROCKS 7
COMMUNICATION KEY7PROCESS ROCKS
BEST BUY
COMMUNICATION KEY7PROCESS ROCKS
BEST BUY
COMMUNICATION KEY7PROCESS ROCKS
BEST BUY
MOM CRY
MADE MY
Shareworthy Service
Disney
Apple
What is Shareworthy
Service?
A budgeted system of training and measuring and rewarding customer delight.
How do our company values manifest themselves in observable actions?
It starts with YOURMOST
IMPORTANTCUSTOMERS
Simplified
Professionalism
Kindness
14 Facets
ShareworthyService
COMMUNICATION KEY8BLACK HOLES
EIGa
Once in a while, you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right.
“Robert Hunter Lyricist, The Grateful Dead
COMMUNICATION KEY9
NINWHAT IS NROMAL?
Why is it everybody wants their children to be normal, but no
one wants them to be average?
“Roy H. Williams CEO, Williams Marketing
Retweeted by Thinking Persons Guide to Autism
“
For too long, we've assumed that there is a single template for human nature, which is why we diagnose most deviations as disorders. But the reality is that there are many different kinds of minds. And that's a very good thing.
“Jonah Lehrer Wall Street Journal, 3/31/12
I’ve learned that every human being, with or without disabilities, needs to strive to do their best, and by striving for happiness you will arrive at happiness. For us, you see, having autism is normal— so we can’t know for sure what your “normal” is even like. But so long as we can learn to love ourselves, I’m not sure how much it matters whether we’re normal or autistic.
“Naoki Higashida The Reason I Jump
We all have special needs.
1. Membership2. Mastery3. Meaning4. Money
Rosabeth Moss Kanter
COMMUNICATION KEY10
TENCOMMITMENT
COMMUNICATION KEY
1JUSTTHING
10COMMITMENT
Ryan Kramer
Jasper, IN
COMMUNICATION KEY
1JUSTTHING
10COMMITMENT
The magic is not in the size of your steps.
COMMUNICATION KEY
But in the will to just keep going.
10COMMITMENT
The magic is not in the size of your steps.
But in the Will to just keep going,and in encouraging others to do the same.
Change Celebrate Differently
Clear v. Clever
Unplug
Listen
Come Together Process Rocks
Black Holes Are Doorknobs
Recalibrate Nromal
Commitment
The two most important requirements for major success are: first, being in the right place at the right time, and second, doing something about it.
“Ray Kroc
COMMUNICATION KEY
RE-COMMIT
TODAY
10COMMITMENT
YOURSELFWrite down
your
commitment.
Change Celebrate Differently
Clear v. Clever
Unplug
Listen
Come Together Process Rocks
Black Holes Are Doorknobs
Recalibrate Nromal
Commitment
(please stand and say aloud.)
Professionalism is a choice
And it’s free!
Kindness is a choice
And it’s free!
Happiness is a choice
And it’s free!
I get to choose
how things affect me
I get to choose
how things affect me
I get to choose
how things affect me
There has never...
been a better time ...
to do what it is I do ...
... but ...
There has also never...
been a more important
time ...
to be GOOD at what
it is I do ...
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by tim
miles
DADDY, I HAVE A
QUESTION