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<ul><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 1/11</p><p>HomeMy Premium GuidesNew? Start HereProducts I LoveContactFree Updates</p><p>The Positivity Blog</p><p>25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourselfby Henrik Edberg</p><p>Feeling less than motivated all too often? I do. Well, perhaps not too often. But sometimes I just feel reallylazy and unmotivated.</p><p>Want some practical solutions to that universal motivation-problem? Here are 25 of them. Try a handful.</p><p>Let me know which ones work well for you.</p><p>Im sure youll find at least one or two that do just that among these suggestions.</p><p>1. Make a deal with yourself. Good for overcoming procrastination and getting things done. You can makethe deal small or large. You simple tell yourself something like: When Im done with this chapter/these reportsI can take a walk in the park and enjoy an ice-cream.</p><p>2. Act like it. If you dont feel motivated or enthusiastic then act like it. The strange thing is that within a fewminutes you actually start to feel motivated or enthusiastic for real.</p><p>3. Ask uplifting questions in the morning. Heres what you do; every morning ask yourself five empoweringthree-part questions this way:</p><p>What am I ______ about in my life right now?What about it makes me _______?How does it make me feel?</p><p>Put in your own value in the blank space. For instance, a couple of my questions are:</p><p>What am I happy about in my life right now?What am I excited about in my life right now?</p><p>Its important that you really feel how it makes you feel. When I think about the last part about what makesme happy right now I really feel it. These morning questions are great because the way they are set up makesyou recognize things you take for granted and then they really get you to feel those positive feelings.</p><p>4. Move the goalposts. Set a large and specific goal. This will motivate you much more than small goals. Abig goal has a big effect and can create a lot of motivation.</p><p>5. Do something small and create a flow. Just clean your desk. Or pay your bills. Or wash the dishes. Youjust need to get started. When you have finished that small task youll feel more alert and ready to go do thenext thing. You just to get started to get motivated. So if you really dont feel like doing anything, start withsomething small and work your way out up.</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 2/11</p><p>6. Do the toughest task first. This will ease a lot of your day-to-day worries and boost your self-confidencefor the rest of the day. Read more about doing the hardest task bright and early right here.</p><p>7. Start slow. Instead of jumping into something at full speed start slow. When you do that your mind will notvisualize the task as something hard that you have to do fast, fast, fast. If your mind sees such things guesswhat often happens? Yep, you dont get started. Actually getting started, even if its at a slow pace, is a wholelot better than not getting started at all.</p><p>8. Compare yourself with yourself. Not with others. Comparing what you have and your results to whatother people have and have accomplished can really kill your motivation. There are always people ahead ofyou. Most likely quite a bit of people. And a few of them are miles ahead. So focus on you. On your results.And how you can and have improved them.</p><p>Reviewing your results is important so you see where you have gone wrong in the past to avoid similarmissteps further on. But its also important because its a great motivator to see how much you have improvedand how far you have come. Often you can be pleasantly surprised when you do such a review.</p><p>9. Remember your successes. And let them flow through your mind instead of your failures. Write downyour successes. Consider using a journal of some kind since its easy to forget your successes.</p><p>10. Act like your heroes. Read about them, watch them, listen to them. Discover what they did that wasspecial and what made them tick. But remember that they are people just like us. So let them inspire youinstead of looking up at them admiringly.</p><p>11. Remember to have fun. Or create fun in a task. Then youll stay motivated to do and finish it.</p><p>12. Get out of your comfort zone. Face your challenges to get a real boost of motivation. If you are holdingyourself back have a look at 5 Life-Changing Keys to Overcoming Your Fear and the methods in this article.They can help you get started and take that first scary step outside your comfort zone.</p><p>13. Dont fear failure. Instead redefine it as feedback and as a natural part of a successful life. As MichaelJordan said:</p><p>Ive missed more than 9000 shots in my career. Ive lost almost 300 games. 26 times, Ive been trustedto take the game winning shot and missed. Ive failed over and over and over again in my life. And thatis why I succeed.</p><p>Also, try to find the valuable lesson(s) in each of your failures. Ask yourself: What can I learn from this?</p><p>14. Do some research on what you are about to do. Then your expectations will be more grounded inreality and you can also get good hints on what difficulties that you might run into along the way. Managingyour expectations can lower the often almost explosive initial enthusiasm. But it can also lessen the lack ofmotivation that usually follows when most of that enthusiasm has dissipated.</p><p>When you know what has happened to others in similar situations what path they have walked you canadapt and try their solutions (and personal variations of those) and your own. This makes the worries andchallenges easier to handle. Both emotionally since you know at least some of the things that will happenand that others have lived through it before and practically.</p><p>15. Figure out why youre doing something. If you dont know or dont have good enough reason to dosomething then it will be hard to get it done. Do things that you have really strong reasons to do. If you wantto do something then figure out a good reason to do it. If you cant find one consider dropping it and doingsomething that you have a good reason to do instead.</p><p>16. Write down your goals and reasons for working towards them. Tape them on your wall, computer orbathroom mirror. Then youll be reminded throughout the day and it becomes easier to stay on track and stay</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 3/11</p><p>focused.</p><p>17. Take The Positivity Challenge! Learn to think more positively most of the time. Learn to let to go ofnegative threads of thought before they have a chance to take hold of you. You might not be able to bepositive all the time no matter what happens. But I think most of us can improve on our positive thinking andthe results it can lead us to. Perhaps more than you realize right now.</p><p>18. Cut down on TV. Do you watch it too much? Watch less of what they are doing in TV-land and do moreof what you want to do in life.</p><p>19. Break it down. Break down your task or project into small steps. And just start with focusing on that firstsmall step. When you are done move on to the next and just focus on that one. The small successes will keepyour motivation up and keeping your focus away from the big picture stops you from becoming overwhelmedand discouraged. Its amazing how much you can get done if you follow this simple method.</p><p>20. Reprogram your information intake. Program out negative and cynical thoughts from the media andsociety. Reduce your information intake. Then program in positive news and entertainment, more of your ownthoughts and useful information such as personal growth tapes and books. Be selective and keep it positive.</p><p>21. Make use of your creativity. Take out a piece of paper. Write at the top of the page what area in yourlife you would like to have more ideas about. Perhaps you want ideas to earn more money or become ahealthier person. Then brainstorm until you have written down 20 ideas on that topic. Then try for 10 more.Not all ideas will be good. But some will. And as you make use of your creativity you not only discover usefulideas. You also discover just how creative you can be if you try and how motivating and great that feels. Havea look at 8 Ways to Spark Your Creativityfor more ideas on this topic.</p><p>22. Find out what makes you happy. Then do that. As much as you want or can.</p><p>23. Listen while youre on the move. Build your own small library of motivational/personal developmenttapes. Listen to them while you are driving, riding the bus or your bike, while you are out running or walking.Take a peek at my recommended personal development products if you are looking for a good place to start.</p><p>24. Think outside your box. Dont imagine the future from the box of what you have now. Just because yourmind is in box of previous experiences doesnt mean thats the limits of the world. Your possibilities aremuch larger. Create the future from the now and from nothing rather than your past to experience biggerchanges with fewer limitations than you would if you created it from what you can see from your box.</p><p>25. Make each day count. We dont have all the time in the world. So focus on today and do the things youreally want to do.</p><p>| |</p><p>83tweets</p><p>retweet | | | | 16</p><p>821</p><p>Share</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 4/11</p><p>{ 22 comments }</p><p>Chris June 13, 2007 at 1:24 pm</p><p>Personally, if I really need an extra push to get going on something Ill set up a minireward/contingency system. Basically, Ill take something I really want to do and then not allow myselfto do it until Ive completed my task for the day. For example, if Im looking for a job andprocrastinating about it, I wont let myself use the computer or watch TV until Ive handed out fiveresumes that day.</p><p>If you pick the right motivator, it can be quite effective in forcing your hand. Exerting this kind ofleverage over yourself works well for things that make you a little nervous too.</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 5/11</p><p>TheWriteJerry June 13, 2007 at 4:25 pm</p><p>Another great list!</p><p>I have recently discovered that combining the idea of immediately doing any 2-minute or less job that</p><p>right in front of you with your #5 (Do something small and create a flow) creates great personalmomentum AND a big feeling of accomplishment. When you string several of these fast jobs together,you really get in the flow of things, and when you look back, you can see a lot of results for yourefforts. Sometimes that even translates into energy to tackle something big right then and there.</p><p>Alan June 14, 2007 at 9:46 am</p><p>Ive been using comparison and its indeed a good way of motivating ourself. Recording pastachievements and comparing it with the present gives us an idea of how much we can actually do.</p><p>Mitul Desai June 14, 2007 at 11:43 pm</p><p>Best way to get motivated is to have discipline in life. Have discipline in what we do and suppose to do.Accountability is also key factor in personal growth. Person also must need to have teachability so thatinside door is open for more useful information from others.</p><p>However all above ways are excillent. Get master on it. You will make it in life.</p><p>Mitul</p><p>Fran June 15, 2007 at 2:51 am</p><p>Great list. I remember that i used to have fun doing some of my task and it was great. I dont know whythe fun slowly died. Probably because of too much concentration which kills our imagination.Thanks for sharing this.</p><p>Anonymous June 20, 2007 at 5:49 am</p><p>Great list, really interesting.</p><p>Since Im a stickler for these types of things, it should be peek instead for peak on #23.</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 6/11</p><p>Henrik Edberg June 22, 2007 at 9:53 am</p><p>Chris: Thats a great way to get yourself to do things and something I have used quite a bit myself.</p><p>TheWriteJerry: Thank you for sharing. Stringing together small tasks is a great way to create a flow andI have experienced pretty much the same thing as you using that technique.</p><p>Alan, Mitul Desai and Fran: Thanks for your comments.</p><p>Anonymous: Oops, I ll fix that. Thank you.</p><p>Anonymous June 29, 2007 at 8:52 am</p><p>fine and usefull</p><p>lokimikoj September 21, 2007 at 10:18 pm</p><p>Hi all!</p><p>Definitely nice and neat site you got there.</p><p>Udhe May 16, 2008 at 4:41 am</p><p>Hi All,</p><p>Honestly a good collection has been done to set it on our desktops as a daily working manual /handbook.</p><p>Keep reading week on weeks &amp; see its miraculous results when put in to practice, you will just growstronger &amp; greater than before, on self analysis.</p><p>Likewise, given an option, we can plan out &amp; share / put up our own good- thoughts of the day,fromour daily unique experience in handling peoples, environment &amp; every subject we touch upon, for thebetterment of our brethren.</p><p>Keep it up,</p><p>U M PRABHU.</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 7/11</p><p>umprabhu@consultant.com</p><p>Dean May 28, 2008 at 3:10 am</p><p>you havnt failed in life until youve killed yourself</p><p>anna July 17, 2008 at 12:59 am</p><p>I am 27. I spend long hours thinking of times that have passed and regreting things that I didnt do. I amtrying to get out of this habit, but till I stumbled on to your blog, I was trying feebly indeed. Will keepyou posted on how I fare.</p><p>Regards</p><p>Anna</p><p>Flair September 5, 2008 at 11:15 am</p><p>GROAR! This is great.</p><p>Ive been digging through your blog, taking notes on already more than a third of its contents and whatis more important = putting it to use for more than a month right now. Everyday. Took the Challenge,</p><p>went through audios, jumped in to recommended books, followed the links. Some I studied when Idelved in everything related to influence, manipulation and negotiations, which was morecomplex, as it needed more than one person.</p><p>I omitted what was more important. ME.</p><p>I made Self-Improvement a part of my day. Practising what I learned here, I went within me. Sinceotherwise I would be just a reader, I gave myself time to react to your blog. Though my enthusiasm isnot as it was on the first day, definitely this comment is more honest than a quick reaction.</p><p>Thank you.</p><p>You noted (not once) that you cheer yourself up and gain energy by cheering up other people. WellHenrik, you have an influence greater than you think on other people. Hope that thess few lines willgive you a boost</p><p>Jacky October 2, 2008 at 7:10 pm</p><p>mple Ways to Motivate Yourself http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/06/13/25-simple-</p><p> 1 7/13/2012</p></li><li><p>7/31/2019 25 Simple Ways to Motivate Yourself</p><p> 8/11</p><p>Quite useful. Much obliged.</p><p>Beverley May 16, 2009 at 10:24 pm</p><p>Hi</p><p>I was feeling in a very low place suicidal in fact. But your articles h...</p></li></ul>