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Bullying,Cyber-bullying &Online SafetyBrought to you by Kevin Honeycutt &

theCenter for Leadership and Learning

Kevin Honeycutt 2009

My friend KevinHad a good dog

Georgia was the dog of a lifetime!

Notes:Notes:

She was so smart!

...and loyal too!

She lived for 16 years

...but she couldn’t live forever

He was so sad when she went to doggie Heaven.

He though he would never want another dog : (

But his wife Michele, who loves animalsof all kinds,

...knew he needed another dog right away.

That’s when he first met Starbuck!

He was an “under the couch” dog.

Why?

There were many nice dogs whereStarbuck lived.

...but one dog, Hector, was a bully

Hector

Starbuck tried to be brave but Hectorpicked on him every day.

TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday

Starbuck tried to be brave but Hectorpicked on him every day.

TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday

And Hector had something

that Starbuck didn’t have...

Hector had henchmen!

TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday

Some dogs wanted to help.

TuesdayMonday WednesdayThursday Friday

But they were afraid

Why?

Starbuck was sadand he wasn’t learning

tricks like the other dogs.

Why?

In Starbuck’s brain...

This outerpart is the

part he learns with

In Starbuck’s brain...

This littlearea is

the part he uses when

he’s scared

In Starbuck’s brain...

When thispart isworking,

the learningpart

doesn’t!

Can Starbuck learn when he’s scared?

So what is Hector stealing from Starbuckevery time he bullies him?

His chance to learn!

Every night Hector went homeand had a normal evening.

Every night Starbuck went homeand thought about what Hector

and his henchmen did and what they would do next.

In his mind, Hector was so big!

The truth is, Starbuck is just as big as

Hector!

But he felt very small! small!

small!

small!

small!

Why?

While all the other dogs were warm and cozy on top of the couch.....

Starbuck was cold and alone “under”

the couch.

Would you do that to Starbuck?

What if he wasn’t so Cute?

Cuddly?

Soft?

Sweet?What if he smelled like

feet?

Kevin took Starbuck home but it wasn’t easy to catch him!

And even though he was safe from bullies like Hector at his house...

...he still stayed under the couch for

a long time.

Why?

Can kids be mean like Hector and his henchmen?

Who do you want to be?

Will you be one of Hector’s henchmen?

Or will you be a H.E.R.O.?

You don’t have to be big.

Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying

4

HHelp rescuethe victim

4

Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying

H EHelp rescuethe victim

Educate others

4

Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying

H E RHelp rescuethe victim

Educate others

Report itto an adult

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Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying

H E R OHelp rescuethe victim

Educate others

Report itto an adultOffer

friendship

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Starbuck’s four secrets to stopping bullying

H.E.R.O.

Dogs today...

Why are today’s pups so fast at learning to

use technology?

Your parents had...Your parents had...

Me and the Me and the Wii!Wii!

Do you use the internet at home?

Can bullying happen online?

Can bullying happen on a phone?

Repeated mean texts are a

cruel form ofbullying.

Repeated mean texts are a

cruel form ofbullying.

Repeated mean texts are a

cruel form ofbullying.

Repeated mean texts are a

cruel form ofbullying.

Most phones can take pictures.

What are the rules?

Phone rules:

Phone rules:

1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.

Phone rules:

1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.

2. Ask permission before taking pictures of other people.

Phone rules:

1. People need your parents permission to take and share pictures of you.

2. Ask permission before taking pictures of other people.

3. Never post pictures of yourself or other kids without first asking your parents or the parents of the other

kids.

Do you use chat?

Kitty:

Hey Star

buck

Bucky: S

up?

Kitty:

Nuttin

Bucky: M

e 2

Texting & Chatting rules:

1. Only talk to people you know in real life.

Texting & Chatting rules:

1. Only talk to people you know in real life.

2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.

Texting & Chatting rules:

1. Only talk to people you know in real life.

3. Never say anything in chat you wouldn’t say in real life.

2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.

Texting & Chatting rules:

1. Only talk to people you know in real life.

3. Never say anything in chat you wouldn’t say in real life.

2. Make sure your parents always know the people you chat with.

4. Tell your parents or a trusted adult if someone says something in chat that makes you uncomfortable.

Texting & Chatting rules:

Let’s sing a song!

When you surf the webI want you to know

make sure your parents know the places that you go

the web is awesomeand there’s so much you can do

but remember what I saywhen you go online to play

take your brain with you

When you surf the webI want you to know

make sure your parents know the places that you go

the web is awesomeand there’s so much you can do

but remember what I saywhen you go online to play

take your brain with you

Sometimes you’re onlineat the end of the day

when something weird happensand makes you feel afraidjust stop what you’re doingand go get Mom and Dadleave it all on the screen

so they’ll know what you meanthey won’t be mad

Sometimes you’re onlineat the end of the day

when something weird happensand makes you feel afraidjust stop what you’re doingand go get Mom and Dadleave it all on the screen

so they’ll know what you meanthey won’t be mad

Sometimes there’s a bullywho’s being mean

they’re calling you names andsome words you’ve never seen

but don’t talk back nowleave the whole thing on the screen

show your Mom and Dadcuz they’ll know what to do

it’s not your fault it’s just what mean people do

don’t let it make you sad

Sometimes there’s a bullywho’s being mean

they’re calling you names andsome words you’ve never seen

but don’t talk back nowleave the whole thing on the screen

show your Mom and Dadcuz they’ll know what to do

it’s not your fault it’s just what mean people do

don’t let it make you sad

Last but not leastI’ll share this with you

a little thing I callthe cyber-golden ruleit’s really simple so

you’ll remember it just fineIf you wouldn’t do it in real life

don’t do it online

Last but not leastI’ll share this with you

a little thing I callthe cyber-golden ruleit’s really simple so

you’ll remember it just fineIf you wouldn’t do it in real life

don’t do it online

What are you learning with the most powerful learning

tools in history?

What are you learning with the most powerful learning

tools in history?

Big Questions:

1. Where is the computer in your home?

Big Questions:

1. Where is the computer in your home?

2. Are your parents up to date with the things you do online?

Big Questions:

1. Where is the computer in your home?

2. Are your parents up to date with the things you do online?

3. Talk to your parents and include them in the things you do. They like

to learn too!

Big Questions:

Whether the bully is in the hallway or online...

Starbuck doesn’t want any kid to stay under the couch!

Our online safety site:

http://mysafesurf.org

Thank you!

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